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| 47 | The gender war epidemic | Question For Men | wayna00 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:04 PM |
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| 13 | Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations?U right imma make jokes about men getting ball cancer too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:30 AM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Its how they get what they want from men, and men who haven't managed to stop being controlled by their sexual desire are very easy to manipulate from the perspective of women. And the sad thing is most men are so hooked on sex and controlled by their biological urges that they don't really mind. "The basic principle of 'sex as a reward' does not vary from woman to woman. They all offer themselves to a man, stress their charms and then, providing he has performed his 'tricks' satisfactorily, rew… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:32 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.well you're clearly whining about it on reddit.. man up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 02:20 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.that's just sad then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:23 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.this is why y'all don't attract women btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:31 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.bro u gotta be hideous to say shit like that, holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:29 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.yall out here believing women don't enjoy sex bc they don't like u LOLLLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:27 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.yall b saying anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 12:25 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all timeActing like men notice ugly women LOLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 01:50 AM |
| 13 | Did I mess up a one night stand?I'm confused, did y'all not talk about the time u were meeting ? To me, "night" can mean from 7pm to like 5am or something, and if I'm hooking up with a guy, I'd make sure we'd meet at like 8pm or something, then it's a bit late lol but that is a personal preference, it seems like you guys didn't talk that much before, always settle a time before u meet someone.. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/26 06:13 AM |
| 9 | Do men here hate women more than women hate menMen in general don't HATE men, but men in this subreddit are often angry and bitter about being single, we are literally seeing the worst men out of the bunch on this sub. And most women irl don't actually hate men, just the bitter chronically online ones. But women have been oppressed by men, historically, and I think it's why it's seen as worse when men critize women as a group, because a lot of dudes in here will talk about women like they talk about an animal. You don't see that often with w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".zzzz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".did a woman tell you that..? or is this what the algorithm is feeding you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".That happened to me before, so.. Also, this is what "nice" guys means. Fake nice guys. If you read my comment you would've understood it but oh well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:29 PM |
| -2 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".Let's say you've been told personality matters the most. Why would "being nice" be your only personality trait ? Men who are ACTUALLY nice are amazing, but they often have other qualities, anyone can act nice, it is not that special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:50 PM |
| -2 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".The issue is some men think only being nice will get them a date or sex, which is FALSE, I've talked to one dude who I could describe as a "nice" guy , I didn't dislike the fact he seemed nice at first, I thought it was actually rare and very sweet, but the issue is when the mask slips and the dude started acting ENTITLED, pretty much showing me he thought he was the best person ever because he acted nice, he wasn't nice, it was performative, and women don't want to put it with that, I don't wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:44 PM |
| 26 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherthey sound so rapey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 08:42 PM |
| -5 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Interesting reponse.. Why would I want to date you ? You're acting like I'm asking for it.. ugh.. that male inflated ego coming out again. Good luck to ur gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Men are lonely because women are changed.to me, at least, if we look at gender roles, a man that is too feminine would be a man who waits for women to court him, isn't that self confident, won't step up, play games, etc.. My issue is a lot of YOUNG men want "feminine" women, but they themselves don't fit the gender roles. it's hard for women to act feminine with a man if the man's energy doesn't match, it creates an imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Men are lonely because women are changed.most YOUNG men are super feminine, it is off putting, it's hard to act feminine as a woman when most men can't keep up with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:44 PM |
| -17 | Men are lonely because women are changed.You have a distorted view of women and relationships.. I kinda feel bad for you gf, I know she can do better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 9 | Men are lonely because women are changed.maybe you need to fix your porn addiction, just because you WATCH thirst trap content doesn't mean most women post them. Get off social media, you'll probably feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Men are lonely because women are changed.these men are too feminine themselves, tho.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:32 PM |
| -9 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Is this what u tell urself at night so u can sleep better..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Men are lonely because women are changed.This is a well written post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projectionsmaybe you're just a creep, dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtsThe real question I'm wondering is ; do YOU think most women dislike men or are YOU just offended women aren't trhowing themselves at you ? because I can assure you most women are neutral about most men and do not hate them. And I still don't see how this is related to a sex worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:37 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtsI don't understand your point tho, you might have to develop a bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtsa sex worker is NOT a regular woman.. are you serious right now ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women.your comment is ON POINT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:11 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtshow is this related to my comment ? Also why would random women like most RANDOM men ? Do we owe random men something..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 13 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtsmost men on this sub legit HATE themselves.. it's so sad to see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projectionsmaybe get better social skills and you'll see when a woman isn't into you ? not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:37 PM |
| 12 | When it comes to understanding others, women care about feelings, men care about thoughtswait so men don't have any empathy and basic social skills ? now that u say it it all makes sense this post makes the whole male gender seem stupid.. like how come you don't realize sex workers don't actually like you..? most men I know are smarter than that and actually have emotional intelligence.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The world does not cater to male sexuality.only 60 percent is crazy... it's so even a high percentage bro.. Also, doesn't answer why y'all look so ugly.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 06:31 PM |
| 2 | The world does not cater to male sexuality.if men are so visual then why do most of y'all look ugly and don't wash ur ass tho, I'm being dead serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 2 | The world does not cater to male sexuality.you're literally a man what the fuck do you even know about women LMAOOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 09:10 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.Okayy rapist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:13 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.sexuality isn't nasty, you're just straight up weird, sex for men isn't a need and women will never have sex with a man because it's "a need" and it "helps their mental health. Get off pornhub weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:13 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related."basic needs".. you sound sooo rapey right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:09 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.this comment is NASTY please go jerk off instead of bothering women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?I love how it's somehow always the woman's fault..LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?because they're gonna be less tired, since they don't have to take care of the house, kids, and a bum ass husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.for real tho.. like except if you have very low self esteem, random men hitting on you everyday isn't validating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:29 PM |
| – | Women are much more naive than menzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 10:56 PM |
| -2 | Who really are the worst men?boy PLEASE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 10:48 PM |
| -1 | Why do you guys pretend getting successfull with woman is a easy task?this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Women are much more naive than menYou hate yourself LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.Maybe you need to ACTUALLY talk to women, dudes on this sub mostly repeat things they heard on internet and aren't experienced with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Women are much more naive than menthat's why u can't get laid also we know ur a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.do men do that ? no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.Ok mister autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:03 PM |
| 0 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.here's a RANDOM comment I just stole about misogyny. Females aren’t “real” people like men. They don’t have thoughts n feelings like men and only go by what their silly female nature makes them do, whereas men are the only ones who make logical decisions and if it turns out wrong, it was a woman’s fault. Women living independently is wrong because they will make silly decisions like having sex with the wrong men etc sounds familiar to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What do women like about going out on a date?getting ready tbh then I'll have a story to tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 0 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them.how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:29 PM |
| 0 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them.are they ? or are you just projecting ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 05:53 PM |
| 0 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.Yk we are human too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 03:56 AM |
| 2 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them."men have it WAY more harder" = they can't get laid easily :(((( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:16 PM |
| 0 | People dont like men with victim complexes and men should stop wanting society to coddle them.I think no one should expect people to coddle them in general, what I hate is when men come on internet and think people are gonna coddle them because they can't find a gf, or when they make up random statistics to prove they have it worse and women are evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:08 PM |
| 6 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.y'all think you know women better than them even tho you never talk to them LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Does statistics matter in dating?They're allowed to have preferences and not date fat women but when we have preferences and want to date tall men it's the end of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:11 PM |
| – | Does statistics matter in dating?Because women want tall men ? Men like big breasts, it's the same thing, it's biological. Also most women aren't crying bc men want a woman who didn't have many partners, stay mad, shorty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:52 PM |
| – | Does statistics matter in dating?u act like it's a crime to like tall men, LOLLLLL yes women like tall men, cry about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:00 PM |
| 8 | The Minimum "arousal/attraction" threshold MUST be met before one can consider someone a viable dating option - regardless of compatibility.LITERALLY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:54 AM |
| 5 | The Minimum "arousal/attraction" threshold MUST be met before one can consider someone a viable dating option - regardless of compatibility.the "imbalance" was always like that, it's biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:53 AM |
| 15 | The Minimum "arousal/attraction" threshold MUST be met before one can consider someone a viable dating option - regardless of compatibility.And yeah, tbh only 5 % of men are probably like genuinely attractive to me, that's normal, women aren't gonna fuck dudes they don't find attractive.. come on now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?I don't really care for it, like I said in another comment, on the red flag spectrum, if u asked me it was a red flag, then I'd lean towards it, but I promise you women don't care that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?This isn't the average for where I live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?And that's totally fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?If you're 35 or 40 tho, you probably worked for a while, saved up money etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:20 PM |
| -1 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?I don't think these are crazy standards tho, it's not a deal breaker at all, but if I had to say if it's a red flag or not I'd lean towards the red flag area if you're like 35 or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:19 PM |
| -3 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?Because at 35 you're "supposed" to be independant, have an ok job, take care of yourself, and over the years you probably have some money on the side. I think it's one big step into adulthood. I wouldn't say it's a huge red flag tho, that depends on the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?It's a red flag if he's like 35 or something.. but if you're in your 20s I'd say it's pretty normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 6 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withyeah and that's what I'm doing ? LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Don't Take The Personality Pill.why are men in this sub just realizing looks do matter in dating ? men want beautiful women themselves.. like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:45 PM |
| 11 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withI'm glad I don't have sex with random ugly men. Women should never lower their standards tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedunderstand what ? that y'all are porn addicts who can't control yourself ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.No lies were told | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.LMAOOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedLOLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminated"all the time" LOL let the victim mindset go, it doesn't look good on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedit's over for you bro give up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedWhy would u be labeled as a rapist if you did nothing wrong ? hello????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:52 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereYeah I'm not different than most women, I am a woman LOL, also I'm just answering the "attractive men are evil and uggos are angels", my point is : it isn't true, and you are right, I don't date unattractive men anymore because it doesn't change anything, they're still their own person, and also I can't stand people's low self esteem slipping in the relationship. So yeah, it's for the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedBc it's mentionned in the post ???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminated?? what? desire is basic human nature?should populations die then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminated??????? rape isn't all about attractuon, a normal man doesn't rape women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedno, u need to go therapy, men aren't supposed to rape women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:21 PM |
| – | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedlike y'all aren't rapists bc u like women, it's bc you're sick in the head, so maybe fix that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:13 PM |
| – | Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminatedy'all need help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:03 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereBeing unattractive doesn't make you a good boyfriend, especially given the fact a lot of desperate dudes only want a gf and not an actual woman to spend time with, they're just obsessed with the label because they wanna prove themselves they can get a gf. Ugly dudes aren't always nice and hot dudes aren't always mean, that sums it up?Also idk why you're talking about my view on what's attractive or not tbh ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 02:02 PM |
| – | The problem with many women herewhat? Ugly men are often SUPERRRR insecure, I've been negged by ugly dudes, and I've dated attractive dudes (who weren't that tall btw?) and while sometimes we weren't super compatible, I got mistreated less by attractive dudes. That's my experience tho. But I know I'm not the only woman who experienced that. Unattractive men be threatened by you the moment you start showing confidence because they know you're out of their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:28 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereThing is unattractive men can also be abusive.. I've seen it happen, it can happen because of insecurity, ressentiment.. like this is not exclusive to attractive men, and from my own experience, attractive men weren't the ones who treated me like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:50 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:13 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereI don't wanna date a short bald man I'm NOT attracted to. It's so funny how y'all tell women to date HIDEOUS men while y'all won't date ugly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:11 PM |
| – | The problem with many women hereI'm good with my standards, never had a problem bc of it LOLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:08 PM |
| -1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.this is why u need to transition bro!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.u gotta be ugly asl man I'm sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:18 PM |
| -1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.this is the best post on this sub tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:16 PM |
| – | Women don't view sex the same way men do (referring to previous post).Have you ever thought about transitioning ? Since you're so jealous of women LOLLLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I guess it's acceptable until the man is like 27 or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?You wanna be the victim so bad it's kind of pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?Personally every time I get approached, in the streets etc it's just creepy dudes, that's why I'm saying that, but at parties it's already safer, yk, friends of friends, dudes my age, I guess it also depends WHERE women are getting approached, because in the streets it always comes off weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?And that's fine, you're not gonna have chemistry with 90 % of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.PUA advice is crazy LMAO, I don't rlly mean it in that way, I don't mean u need to approach 100 random chicks and suck it up if u get rejected, I mean that men often MAKE the first move, it's a fact, because society pushed this down on men. There isn't really another way to change it, so yeah.. Taking it less personally will help better than taking it personally and ending up ressentful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Honestly I believe that, men often have to make the first move so they're gonna get rejected more. But I do think some men should learn not to take rejection too personally, because if they're the one always making the first move, it WILL happen to them, which is normal, not everyone will like you, even if you're attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Here's the thing, when people say "everyone faces rejection" they often mean in general, not only in dating. But I have girl friends who got rejected romantically, I got rejected when I was younger too, it hurts more than rejection for a job for example because it FEELS more personal, but most women will experience rejection romantically in their lives, it's just less upfront than for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:01 PM |
| 9 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.Did I lie tho ? Bc the way you view sex is very telling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:49 PM |
| – | Women pretend like men don't care about female approval, because it's convenient, and takes away any bad influence from them.u need to invest into DL trades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:47 PM |
| 11 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.you're def a virgin, no shade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:37 PM |
| 6 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.this is a dangerous way of thinking because while it can be true for many women, not every woman likes that.. like y'all need to think before you DO things like this, don't joke w consent, esp bc a lot of men in this subreddit have bad social skills.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I meannn... Rejection isn't exclusive to dating! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:57 AM |
| 40 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?tbh when men approach us it's 90 % not gonna be a good time LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:54 AM |
| 0 | Men and women’s dating struggles on the apps are different but similarly deflatingjust ignoring my entire paragraph, and it's ok dude, idk wtf is a 7 or whathever, but atp if ur a male and can't get laid then maybe something's actually wrong w you, humans are supposed to reproduce and all so if u cannot attract a woman then something's wrong in ur human nature. That's why u blame women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Men and women’s dating struggles on the apps are different but similarly deflatingWhy would I fuck a man I don't find handsome ? Bc let me tell u something : women don't wanna fuck ugly dudes just so y'all feel better about yourself. So, my point is, you probably don't get attention from women, can't get sex, whathever, and you're pretty much jealous of women. That's why to you it seems like heaven, because even a tad bit of woman validation would make you feel less ugly, and that's okay, but for the average woman, small ugly dicks and bad sex aren't validation, we know dudes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Men and women’s dating struggles on the apps are different but similarly deflatingMost women don't enjoy casual sex and we actually have standards, no one likes ugly loud horny dudes yapping in their ears. You're literally jealous of women it's hilarious, ever thought about transitionning ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:06 AM |
| 0 | Men and women’s dating struggles on the apps are different but similarly deflatingNo they don't, you're obviously not attractive so any kind of attention would make you feel better, most women who have okay self esteem don't care about horny dudes hitting on them, they hit on ANYONE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:57 AM |
| 0 | When exactly is a woman deserving?dude should not date at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:15 PM |
| -2 | Men and women’s dating struggles on the apps are different but similarly deflatingdating apps are full of miserable horny men tbh, this kind of attention isn't flattering for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have better emotional intelligence then men.you can't back up your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:12 PM |
| – | Men’s attraction vs. women’s attraction it’s not the same thingAnd y'all aren't shallow ? Oh okay ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:56 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"young yall fit looking men often only just want sex or are boring, want an ego boost.. like come on let's put our thinking caps on, most women don't want casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Men are shallow as well"super handsome" lmaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:15 AM |
| – | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.why not tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:12 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"you "call them out"? for what ? having preferences ? this is crazy dude this is why u don't have a gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:08 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"the dating options of women are literally terrible, but you wouldn't know bc you're imagining some kind of fantasy, but out of 100 dudes, like 2 dudes are decent and somewhat respectful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:07 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"abour what LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Many women are confused about the "Male loneliness epidemic"Yeah tbh I don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:43 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"are we supposed to feel bad ? like I'm sorry you're autistic but how is it women's fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherWhy would I settle for an ugly man?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptthis is the realest comment ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Men are no longer the center of universe and some men can't adaptthis is unirocally the most valid take on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 05:02 PM |
| -1 | I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence Isthis is soooo LMAOOOO omg no wonder yall r single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesyeah, the point of my comment was to show how ridiculous this rethoric is, but you go! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 14 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesmen get falsely accused because of their own choices in women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 11:37 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.worded it perfectly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 09:30 PM |
| – | Why is big size so sexualized compared to other sizes?That's my opinion, I think it looks better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 11:54 AM |
| – | Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLDyou seem so insecure.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 06:53 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Tbh, especially for shitty casual sex, or maybe she lives in a shitty area | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:47 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?I mean rage baiting on this sub is kinda hilarious because people get mad super quickly, and I can tell OP is using specific words to troll so specific people will get mad, it's not that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:34 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Atp just delete and download again, idk where you live but when I used tinder there was a shit ton of handsome men on here, also use the age filter if u don't want old fucks to appear on here for real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is big size so sexualized compared to other sizes?Bc it looks better tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:30 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?If you're looking for an actual answer,then I'm gonna say stay on tinder lmao?? like just go hookup with a cute guy, why bother posting this on THIS subreddit ? Yknow the incel men on here are gonna get mad Or you're ragebaiting which I admire lowkey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:28 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?A man wrote this btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there a double standard where women say they find men going to therapy attractive, but then treat it as a red flag later?If I talked to a man and he told me he used to raise his voice when mad, I'm out, bye LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental humansooo..majority of young women are in a relationship... with who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 11 | No, women don't wanna be mothers not because environment is bad.I mean.. I'm a woman telling you why that is.. people don't care that much about forming a family and women settle less for men. Not to mention how horrible pregnancy is. And how expensive a kid is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:39 PM |
| 8 | State-sponsored prostitutiony'all just don't see women as human beings period | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:24 PM |
| 19 | No, women don't wanna be mothers not because environment is bad.Maybe because there's less pressure on women about that, and women don't feel the need to settle down with shitty men just to have a "family life" anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:22 PM |
| – | If men's concern about women's sexual history signals male insecurity, lack of sex appeal & inexperience; why can't you just marry highly experienced, sexually gifted & secure men?sex isn't a privilege | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 12:44 AM |
| – | If men's concern about women's sexual history signals male insecurity, lack of sex appeal & inexperience; why can't you just marry highly experienced, sexually gifted & secure men?they just porn addicts fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 12:41 AM |
| 10 | If he told you about number of his relationship?I remember when I went on a date with this dude back in march and he started kinda.. bragging about his body count and I was so uncomfortable.. who told you men this was attractive ? It comes off as "I date every woman I see and fuck anything because I'm bored and desperate" to answer the question, I'd be upset about the lying like hello? but I guess I could understand if it comes from deep insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 07:20 PM |
| – | How easy or difficult is dating for you? How much male attention do you get in daily life?Did I write this LMAOO girl we're twinning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?Can I get a Amen up in here ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?I'm single and I can confirm that FOR ME, it's not that important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 01:55 PM |
| – | How easy or difficult is dating for you? How much male attention do you get in daily life?I can get sex pretty easily but I'm not interested in that, I do get a lot of attention and compliments from both genders, BUT long term dating isn't really easy for me because I'm pretty young and I don't wanna rush myself into shitty relationships, a lot of men I dated in highschool or whatever were superrrr insecure so I'm very careful about men I talk to romantically. So yes, I'd say dating is easy to access. But getting into a long term relationship is not, and I'll keep being single until … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 01:30 PM |
| 7 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.it's never gonna be easy to find the perfect match, relatinships are not easy, just because you're an attractive woman doesn't mean you're compatible with 80 percent of men, come on now.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmoniousWait I do agree on the esthetic side of tings tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 05:36 PM |
| -2 | A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmoniousyou are about to get death threats in 3,2,1...................... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 05:32 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.I would pull out huge arguments against this but I just can't believe this is happening in 2025. Literally mind-blowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 05:22 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.A male saying patriarchy never oppressed women.. literally disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 05:06 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.bro wanna be the victim so bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 04:56 PM |
| – | Patriarchy didn't start off with men wanting to be evil and oppressed women.ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:52 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.Girl I'm not a republican, I'm not even american, please.. Also when I talked about coworkers and classmates not being allies, I was referring to the original comment that said men get hated on when they don't support women, I was saying that in the sense that men in real life don't have to show they care about women and they don't get hated on. Also! most people in real life date their equivalent, this is literally just men in this sub who get into these conspiracy theories about women dating..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:01 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.Annnd.. why would I care ? How is it my problem if my FUTURE son doesn't get a gf in like 30 years ????????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:19 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.I do not understand your comment, I didn't say anything political, I said get your shit together and stop expecting PEOPLE to care about your problems. Everyone is trying to focus on their own issues, not yours. Also you are no one to tell women they should date men they don't consider options, wanna know why ? because you are not entitled to woman validation, sex, or a relationship, that's just how it is. A lot of men wouldn't date their gf if she wasn't attractive to him. It's the same for wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:17 PM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.most men legit don't care much about women's problems..like in real life I don't hear male classmates or coworkers being super feminist allies or anything... they don't get called haters or anything. I would agree women usually don't care about "male issues" but at the same time, as a woman, every single time I hear about a male issue, it's you guys, in this subreddit, complaining women don't want you....and that you're short... Like what do you want people to do ? What can women even do about i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:52 AM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.how is "early male pattern baldness" oppression tho? and dating lives ??? like there is so much more to fight for, regarding men and their struggles.. Also a lot of men straight up don't care about women's struggles, that's just how people are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:37 AM |
| – | The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face.Life is hard, it sucks but you have to get over it. If i have a son, the first thing I will worry about will not be his dating life, that is just weird and intrusive ???????most people face challenges in life, not only in dating, just overall, like come on........ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.you ate them up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Yeah no the dudes who got the most aggressive with me were the short average looking dude, let's not lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 10:58 PM |
| 0 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameso what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameI mean this is true tho likeeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameYou say that, but this post promotes ACTING like a narcissist, especially the original comment I responded to. I fear you're projecting my dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:38 PM |
| -1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameI wanna see the people who have applied this so bad, I doubt it's successfull. Atp, autistic or not, if you're physically attractive there are so many ways you can attract women, it's a shame you guys don't understand that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:37 PM |
| -1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameyeah you're right this is what normal people feel when they look at this sub actually AHAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:35 PM |
| -2 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gamerighhttt................. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameI can assure you these types of men are miserable.. narcissism comes from deep insecurities, but oh well, not my problem. These types of posts make me grateful for my life and the people I surround myself with. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:54 PM |
| 13 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameare people supposed to want a unhealthy relationship? y'all that desperate ?what the hell is going on LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:50 PM |
| 7 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameyeah this will make your social life even worse than before... you'll actually look retarded now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyWho cares.. y'all are so entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:24 PM |
| – | Women giving themselves to bad men...its actually a revolutionary act against organized oppression by systems that hate individuality and autonomy. Women are just doing their job. It is biological.what is going on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:36 AM |
| 5 | There has never been a gender war only war on womengirl let him be he seems crazy LMAOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | There has never been a gender war only war on womentbh it's not ridiculous to say that.. just not on this sub LOLLL they gon harass ur ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsthis is a pretty good comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Plenty of men are shallow unattractive assholes who never wanted to be good men.What the hell is this comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do you feel pressured to pursue women?Because they hate themselves and they're trying to prove to themselves they can actually attract a woman.. and it doesn't work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doperiod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 08:14 PM |
| 14 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?So these men are jealous ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Same things happen to women in muslim countries, even WORSE. Like far worse, men are allowed to have multiples wives in Islam btw. Also I have lost interesting with a dude because he kept bragging about his past body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Yeah, so ? you confirmed what I was saying by admitting that's normal for men , go ahead and tell these guys in my replies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?You're literally reversing the whole thing.. Since when was male sexuality seen as bad and women good ? Women get shamed for their sexuality since... HUNDREDS OF YEARS? Men can talk about fucking 50 chicks and it's seemed as normal and masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 02:14 PM |
| -2 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?yes.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Why is everything a conspiracy theory to you guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?I don't disagree with some people having it harder, I asked a question tho, what should we do about it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menMost women rlly don't, at least not super often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menWhat did I admit, exactly ??? You quoted me saying I don't want to get pregnant by a random stranger ? Like.. I fear that's normal. Also, average dudes fuck and date everyday, I dated average dudes, I have friends who dated average to unattractive dudes.. The point is, if you're GENUINELY unattractive, then yes, women are not gonna FLOCK TO YOU and fuck you. Just like men don't like unattractive women. But being average is... literally normal, that's why it's called average.. Look at your own fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menDude I'm a woman stating MY experience, how the hell are you just going to say "well... NO ADMIT IT !!!!!!!!!"??? that's crazy go outside and you'll see ugly men with ugly women, ugly women with averager women, ugly men with pretty women, pretty women with blablablaa... like come on. I've had crushes on dudes who did not look like greek gods.. Also, of course women are not going to be attarcted to unattractive dudes, just like men. But if you're average, then you'll still be attractive to women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:53 PM |
| 6 | "If she is interested she will show" show what exactlyPeople can't take no for a no, some people ENJOY harassing others, some men will legit sexually harass u in the streets just to get attention or feel powerful or funny. Some people just don't care, that's it. Or they don't have the social skills to understand how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:32 PM |
| 11 | "If she is interested she will show" show what exactlyDude people in the real world just figure it out.. it's social skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menI mean yeah.. probably because MOST WOMEN don't want to risk getting pregnant by a stranger ? Also a majority of women don't enjoy hookups, some do, but from my experience it's hard to have any orgasm or actual pleasure with someone you don't really know, attractive or not. Sex for men will almost always end up in pleasuring THEM, for us it's different. And yeah women are more picky, but it's really not just looks wise.. I've talked to some handsome men but the personality sometimes just doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menAs a woman I agree, it's literally the same for both genders, there's attractive men and women but it varies on the individual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menThis also applies to women btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?Yeah dude, keep whining and making generalizations of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?So..? Same could be said about disabled people, obese people, any form of difference..That's just life, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 11:50 AM |
| 3 | What's gonna happen to dating and marriages in coming years ?boringgggg take booooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicYeah pretty much, but this will probably never happen, so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicYeah I made this post then woke up with 400 damn comments, it calmed down now but I will not reply to incel/troll type of comments. Or anything I already answered, sorry dude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicMore like actual advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicYeah it should've and it didn't. Now what? Are we gonna cry about it all day ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:52 PM |
| – | Not trying to be misogynistic or incelly but why do women get into relationships if at all?awww this gives me faith. I hope I'll have a relationshp as good as yours sound for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?So are we supposed to feel bad ? Or are you guys gonna continue to whine about it ? What's the end goal ? Most people aren't super model like attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:51 PM |
| 15 | How many dates should a woman wait to have sex, in your opinion?Bro is comparing women to objects, god damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:39 PM |
| -1 | The gender war epidemicThat's sad then. God bless your heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:20 PM |
| -2 | The gender war epidemicYES!!!! Thank you for understanding that, really adds to this post and the debates around it! keep it up!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:04 AM |
| -1 | The gender war epidemicWooh! manipulating women to get some sex! healthy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:49 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemicYeah but I feel like it validates EVERY emotion, hate, anger, ressentment. It's like an unhealthy echo chamber, if these men keep staying in places where their opinions are all the same, they're validating each other on EVERY aspect. This is why you see so many entitled men who spill the same rethorics ALL THE TIME on this sub, they hang out with people like this so much that they believe it's the truth. The secret conspiracy against men.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:47 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicI totallly agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:44 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicwhat a sad life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:43 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemicUm.. Yes there is ? The "debates", the "podcasts", the "masculinty advices", these are the surface of the redpill spheres. This is typically how people start getting into it. It's everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:39 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicAre you saying you should spend your time in the gender war? what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:37 AM |
| -1 | The gender war epidemicThis is such a selfish way of thinking, wow. You should read my comment again, porn destroys your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 04:14 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicWhat are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:49 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicBro wished I got reincarnated and is talking about beta and alpha.. how is this normal people behavior. Also probably like 1.70m? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:48 AM |
| -3 | The gender war epidemicOh god that's it this post officially reached the actual incels, why are all of you popping at the same time LMAOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemicAnd who set that system up ? Women ? Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:19 AM |
| 3 | The gender war epidemicYeah no.. the sexualization of women and the porn industry are big problems, I would even say one of the biggest problems in today's society. First of all, have you heard of all of the women being trafficked into this? Also porn addiction ? How is it normal for men to have erectile dysfonctions before even hitting 20? It does actual damages on the human brain, and it will keep you from having a healthy sex life with your partner. I think men should start here. This isn't a problem because societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicCan you list some of those behaviours? "cringy".. uh.. here's your answer on the guys that are redpill ahhaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:55 AM |
| -3 | The gender war epidemicWhatever, that's on you. You should go outside and talk to women more, you seem a bit lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:47 AM |
| 3 | The gender war epidemicWhy would you describe random women's behaviours as a meme ? Name one redpill guy that is actually successful and seems confident with himself, I wanna laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:46 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicI don't spend time with men from these spaces online, actually, like I said I discovered this subreddit a month ago. I don't worry about them but I do worry seeing some of these mindsets split into mainstream everyday culture, seeing normal attractive men I know having weird redpill like content on their timeline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:44 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicI don't know any red pill men that has good self esteem and good relationships with women, usually, playing wicked tricks on people you're dating does that to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:42 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemicI totally see what you mean, BUT, here's the nuance First of all, I think this wave of feminism in 2015 to 2019 , created some EXTREME spaces for people to say the most unhinged takes ever. I also think this is when a lot of men started to get into these redpill spaces etc too, I've seen it. Now, about the porn stuff, I don't understand how this is demonising to men, the porn industry IS oppressive, and the sexualization of women is a real topic, a real struggle, it demonises women wayyy more th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:41 AM |
| -7 | The gender war epidemicI care because these ideologies have a strong tendencies of slipping into mainstream media, it effects EVERYONE. Even average and good looking dudes. Also I have been confronted directly to men with these mindset IN REAL LIFE. I am not talking about full on incels. But clearly some mindsets and ways of approaching that leans towards redpill tactics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicTouched a nerve huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:19 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemic"Dating advices" that are super unhealthy by the way LOL? Like yes dude try to date 10 women at the same time and don't forget to use negging on them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:17 AM |
| -5 | The gender war epidemicDon't agree, there are other ways to cope with it instead of making conspiracies about women.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:14 AM |
| 3 | The gender war epidemicI actually put it in the discussion category LOL idk if I can change it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicI didn't understand the thing about LGBTQ people, sorry. Actually, if there was a way to prove it, then yeah, I would accept it, thing is from my own experience, it is not true, for men and women, and I will believe my personal experience over theories or things that are not proved. And I don't feel bad, I just don't believe it, I prefer to see people as individuals, that's why I tend to avoid generalizing men, EVEN if I clearly see common patterns and behaviors, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:12 AM |
| 3 | The gender war epidemicHere's the thing ; I have never met a redpill man who had a successful dating life, back in highschool I talked to like 3 different guys that I noticed were clearly into this whole redpill thing, I could feel it. (just personal experience) Guess what ? I stopped talking to them because something was telling me it wasn't right, and these men (they're probably like 23 now so not over yeah) didn't have good reputation with women and gave off entitled vibes. If the redpill worked, then you wouldn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:09 AM |
| -2 | The gender war epidemicOoh, what a bitter comment. Don't have the energy for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:00 AM |
| 4 | The gender war epidemicI do believe there is a major shift in how people view masculinity, but seeing women as the ennemy doesn't really help, I actually said that in another comment, but looking for sa few advices linked to confidence, improvement and masculinity isn't bad in itself, the trick, for men is when it turns into ressentment and it starts looking like a war between two genders; Actually, I'm curious, how do you feel you're being demonised for the fact of being a man ? Do you feel like it's overall in socie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicI not trying to generalize it, but you gotta admit that the algorithm pushes redpill content A LOT onto mainstream media, so most people that are exposed to it see the surface. I don't blame men for taking SOME elements from these communities, but I do blame some of them for taking all the damn elements from them, I feel like there is a lack of nuance from a lot of these men. How do you go from self improvement as a man to "women want the top 10 chad it's over you're short" I feel like there's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:51 AM |
| 2 | The gender war epidemicPretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:47 AM |
| 0 | The gender war epidemicThat's the thing, I don't believe it works. How is making caricatures of both genders objective ? I would never assume men are all the same, even if men, by nature, share some common traits and behaviors, every men's personality isn't the same, their life, choices, tastes aren't either, Like I said, dynamics matter A LOT in relationships, so I don't believe you can predict every single behavior of women and men because people are so different. I don't believe redpill is the solution, most redpil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicMy point here, it seems like most "redpill" men spend a lot of time whining about stuff. It does not seem to work from my perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:43 AM |
| 4 | The gender war epidemicAgreed, it's heartbreaking for me to see random dudes in my class slipping random redpill ideologies in discussions because it's legit all over their instagram feeds etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:42 AM |
| 4 | The gender war epidemicWhat a disappointing comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 4 | The gender war epidemicLOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair?They can use them I don't care, but I don't see the point, just go outside and try to socialize, to me dating apps were mainly for 30 years old or something, when it can get harder to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?How tho ? I feel like women are often seen as more attractive, especially because of hair, makeup, skincare, clothes (these play a huge difference), I don't see unattractive people a lot, but I'd say that when I see a couple walking down the streets, it's often an average man and average woman, people date within their league, if chads were the only ones dating then most of y'all wouldn't be alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What have been negative outcomes for society from feminism in your eyes?louder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?Why are you downvoting my comment ? LMAO Also, overall, people tend to date in their league, there are exceptions of course, but it's very rare to see a very attractive model man with a genuinely unattractive girl, there is no way y'all are saying this happens everyday. Or maybe you just don't find women attractive ? or have crazy standards ? because I look at people around a lot and I don't see that on every corner of the streets. My opinion tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?France, what about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:28 PM |
| 9 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?That's actually insane bc it's the opposite for me, I see average looking dudes with average women, or hotter women. Saying that "chads" (hate this incel ugly term) are the only ones having relationships is literally just wrong loolll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:18 PM |
| 30 | Who do you guys think the average woman is dating?This has to be delusion at some point.. go outside and look at the couples I'm begging you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Women support patriarchywdym you're proud of being an incel I swear I can't take this sub serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair?No..? what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair?No I mean he can do whatver he wants but he should start dating irl, dating apps are a mess and not helpful in a lot of cases in my opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What would you tell a young male relative who just discovered how lopsided dating apps are and thinks it's unfair?I'd tell him get off the dating apps, you're too young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themYou just insulted this person and me but saying "sped" btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themprove what LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themI mean.. Am I wrong tho? When I say the usual suspects, I mean it, most dudes in this sub always complain about being unattractive or bald or short, like to me this just confirms that these types of delusional posts are mostly made by dudes like this, it's just facts atp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themno offense but don't understand your comment, what blame game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:20 PM |
| – | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themI checked your profile history and you're short and balding, the usual suspects.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:03 PM |
| – | Women gaslight men cause they are afraid of themboring post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.Yes dude, as a woman I intentionally LIE to random men so they get their hopes up. That's totally how 50 percent of the world population works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?Most women literally don't do that, in what reality some of you guys live in????????Can't i just enjoy sex ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:21 AM |
| – | Where do you people find ugly guys ?GET HIMMM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:25 PM |
| – | Where do you people find ugly guys ?Last time I was attracted to someone was back in May, i don't think you're picky.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”I'm wondering.. Do you believe you should get a woman without doing anything and making no efforts ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:29 PM |
| -1 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerYou ate him uppp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:39 PM |
| – | On OLD women definitely privilege the "alpha male" type of guythe rethoric is tired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 07:19 PM |
| – | I’m not sure there really is a loneliness crisisTinder isn't real life, never has been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?This is the best response to this post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:21 PM |
| – | Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot?For me it was the mindset, most of the time they were men that were superrrrrr insecure, handsome dudes that thought they were ugly, actual not attractive men etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:17 PM |
| – | Theres no point being with a man if youre over 35 as a womenSays you.. the incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:52 AM |
| – | Theres no point being with a man if youre over 35 as a womenFunny how "all men" supposedly want 20 years olds, yet it's mostly bitter, inexperienced guys on Reddit who keep saying that. Men who are actually happy and respected in their relationships don't sit around fantasazing about other people's youth, they live their lives. This probably explain why your post sounds so insecure and also why you probably get no play. Also most women in their 20s wouldn't date some 60 years old, let's be real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:45 AM |
| – | Theres no point being with a man if youre over 35 as a womenThat says more about yourself and how you see women and relationships than reality. Reducing women to their age is not a fact, it's your personal insecurity projected, if you actually respected women as human beings instead of "expiration dates", you wouldn't be writing posts like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 10:36 AM |
| 5 | If You Were A Woman, How Would You Date?Are you gay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 05:43 PM |
| – | society is experiencing post nut clarity just slowlyis this some kind of psychosis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 10:33 AM |
| – | society is experiencing post nut clarity just slowlyWhat the hell is this p*rn addict post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?There are unambitious men like that too, it's not a gender thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?This is still not a "reward", that's just cause and effect. If someone changes something and I happen to find them more attractive, that doesn't mean I handed them a prize. Attraction isn't a transaction, it's not a conscious '"here you earned this" it's just chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 09:07 AM |
| 9 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?I think you're twisting it, attraction isn't a "reward", it's literally mutual desire. A reward is something you hand out on purpose, attraction is something you feel, it's not negotiable or transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:56 AM |
| 7 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?Not randomly at all, I'm attracted to people I connext with, physically and mentally. That's how most people choose, men included (again). Mutual attraction isn't random, it's just chemistry and compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:47 AM |
| 8 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?I have sex with people I'm attracted to and connect with, just like men, it's called mutual desire, which is the point, both people want it, not one of them earned it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:40 AM |
| 9 | Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from?I'm not going to "reward" a man for anything, I'm going to do it because I want to and I care about my own pleasure, like what the hell??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:22 AM |
| 11 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?Lacking ambition isn't a moral failure, but let's be real, EVERYONE in society is somewhat pressured to have ambition, it's always been associated with being a stable and successful person. and personally, I'd considered myself an ambitious person, I always worked hard, did my best to study, have friends, maintain a job I like, like I'm not the best, but I'm trying. And yes, a man that doesn't do anything all day would literally not fit me, because that's not how I live my life. I think most peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 08:16 AM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceWhen I said not really, I meant that I wouldn't be 21 when I get out of college. Here's the thing, people evolve with age, right now I am 20, I'm not even THINKING about a family or babies, because I'm not at that point yet, which is.. totally normal. Right now, my priorities are my education, my friends and my health. Finding a man will probably come later in life (MAYBE at 24-25 who knows?) I don't want to settle for anyone, I'd like to take my time because I don't feel rushed, I'm young, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 02:39 PM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst advicenot really, I will probably graduate college at like 24-25.. I'm not WAITING, if I meet a guy and it matches, then why not, but what I'm trying to say is I'm not actively looking for a relationship, it's not a priority for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 12:20 PM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceThis is a crazy way to see people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 11:32 AM |
| – | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereI'm tired of reading the same shit over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:43 AM |
| – | Locking a man down in your 20s is the worst adviceI always thought the same thing ! I'm 20 and I don't see myself in a long-term relationship with a man right now, I feel like it requires some work to maintain one and you gotta prioritize it. I'm in the middle of my studies and about to enter college so that'd make no sense for me to settle down now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 10:41 AM |
| – | Do women even want to meet men?exactlyyy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:00 PM |
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