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| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI can't make this shit up. To them this is a thing that happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceNah, if we're going to be made out to be monsters, we might as well act like them right from the beginning. I vote we subjugate women and face the consequences, instead of facing the consequences for having done nothing wrong at all. So instead of attacking the controversial law itself, we should just fight misery with misery by subjugating women. They're both bad things, but feminism promotes positive discrimination - so it doesn't seem like they care about unfairness or it being bad. See: Affi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI'm dishonest? In that very link, there are prime examples of rape denial and advocacy. Again, by mods and endorsed contributors. If they don't represent the sub, then who does? TBP needs to do something more productive with their time. So why are you here? I doubt that this discussion is productive for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:21 AM |
| -1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceGreat, and so is associating TBP with manginas, white knights, betas, SRS, etc. And yes, TRP members (including your beloved mods and ECs) do advocate rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceYou can do that in many other communities without the misogyny. Seriously, that's like rule #1 if you want a relationship. You can't be seriously thinking that TRP is the only place for men to self improve. How else does everyone else get into a relationship, get laid, and better their lives without "being unplugged" or "swallowing the pill"? http://captainawkward.com/ http://www.doctornerdlove.com/ /r/LetsGetLaid /r/selfimprovement etc. These are just what I remember from the top of my head. Al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceIs it rape to say it out loud? No, but if they said no, you respond with that or a similar threat, and then all of a sudden they want to have sex with you, then it is indeed rape. Again, this is because consent due to coercion is invalid consent. According to Google, one of the definitions of coercing is to dominate or control, especially by exploiting fear, anxiety, etc. Dread game falls under this category. How is leaving someone being passive aggressive? It seems to me that its the opposite. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceYou said getting a girl to have sex in lieu of ending the relationship is coercive Think of it like this: if I tell my SO "have sex with me or I'm leaving", yes that is coercive. It can be implicit; doesn't need to actually be said out loud. Not meeting sexual desires != rape, and if that's happening then you need to talk to your SO about it, not pull shit like dread game. Discussing your needs and trying to work things out = good. Being passive aggressive about it = bad. And dread game is, in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceNo, my non-engineering friends who don't go to my school and are pursuing different majors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI fucked my LTR last night. We never discussed consent. Does that mean I raped her in your mind? Should I get a written consent form? I guess if she says I coerced her into signing that then that is rape too? Nice strawman. Yes, generally in a relationship, consent is implied - if she wants to go along with it, TRP or not, that's not rape. Consent doesn't necessarily have to be spoken. If she doesn't want to fuck, all she has to say is no. Why don't you think women are capable of this level of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 02:24 AM |
| -1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceBecause it's enabling people to be shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceNo, I'm talking about my non-engineering friends. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/14 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Proper blue pill dating adviceBlue pillers are normal people. So it gets annoying if we need to provide what would be considered normal advice, especially when much of that advice has already been spouted in ex-redpiller threads in TBP and is readily available in other subreddits and online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceNope. These guys were spouting redpill dogma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:50 PM |
| -2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI didn't say TRP gave out that advice specifically. There are even more fucked up communities than TRP frankly. And "rape fire alarm", really? I just gave you another example of purposeful, terrible advice. It doesn't have to be rape related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:42 PM |
| -1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceWhere did I mention PUA tactics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceIf you would read the comments, I already posted above. Also, I'm judging you based on statements like this: I treat her good, if and when I want to treat her good. All I care about is what I want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceWomen use men for financial support (spermjacking, divorce rape, blahblahblah), according to TRP. TRP men use women for sex ("freshman sluts are the best!"). They are two sides of the same coin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:22 PM |
| -2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceNo, it isn't, because while advice that extreme isn't normally given out, it still is an example of advice that serves its purpose and yet is terrible advice. A less extreme example: want to get that A in that class? Just cheat your way through the semester. Hey, it serves its purpose, so it must be good advice, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:17 PM |
| -3 | Proper blue pill dating adviceDo you want sex? No problem! Just go hunt down a random early 20s, attractive woman in the middle of the night and rape them. Misogynistic, serves its purpose, isn't good advice. And I already addressed your first point: And different people approach it different ways. Different people react to the same approach different ways. So general advice is the best anyone can really give you. It has to be specific to the person we're talking about. We can give general guidelines, but if we start getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Proper blue pill dating adviceAgain, this depends on a lot of things. I know reddit likes to jerk over the whole Be attractive, don't be unattractive thing, but there is a kernel of truth to it, and frankly physical attraction will always be a part of it. It would be disingenuous for anyone to claim otherwise. So if you aren't attractive, you need to compensate by being someone people want to be around. Someone interesting. And there are a lot of ways to be interesting. I talk in my sleep about assembly code and pipelining a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI've met actual terpers and so has my girlfriend (they try pulling their alpha/kino/golden rule bullshit on her) and it's always amusing to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI appreciate the comment but once again you're just telling him what not to do. All your advice is reactive to his advice. Do you have any advice of your own to give instead of just commenting on why his is bad? Again, this depends on the person in general. What's right will vary from person to person. The only advice we can reasonably give is advice on how to not screw up. You're advice is not very proactive and you're not really giving him any kind of guidance. Advice doesn't have to be proact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 04:23 PM |
| -2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceActually, I call that narcissistic, and people like you and in TRP who believe in things like the Dark Triad is why /r/raisedbynarcissists exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 04:14 PM |
| -2 | Proper blue pill dating adviceI just read your answer four times. -Treat women like people. Obligatory non-answer? What does that mean? Do you treat women better than your male friends, the same, or worse? I treat them the same. Why is this so hard to grasp? Friends are friends. If they need my help, I'm glad to help them, no strings attached. If I need help, I ask. There doesn't need to be some kind of underlying attraction or motivation behind everything. -Spousal rape is bad. You're too busy to find the "mods" on TRP who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 04:11 PM |
| -4 | Proper blue pill dating adviceobjectifying? yes I wont argue ......misogyny? no ....... maybe i'm having some disconnect but then going by your logic, that means the girls that sleep with me are misandrists cos i'm pretty sure they aren't looking at me as boyfriend material No, the thing here is the objectification as well as the other things TRP does. I'm sure you would argue that spermjacking, child support, hypergamy, etc (though arguably those aren't as applicable to you yet) are misandric. So why is the male counterpart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Proper blue pill dating adviceTBP is not a lifestyle. We consist of many different kinds of people, men, women, feminists, MRAs, TiA/SRD/SRS/SRSs frequenters, etc. Literally the only thing TBP has in common is the fact that we agree that TRP has problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 03:45 PM |
| 17 | Proper blue pill dating adviceThis question has been asked many, many times, both here and in TBP. With that said, I'll give this a shot. For perspective, I am also currently a freshman in college (with junior standing), Asian, 18, pursuing CS and in a relationship with a white girl. 1) Just look at your post. "Freshman sluts are the shit!" Right off the top of the bat you're pretty much saying that your female peers are good for nothing but sex. Pretty misogynistic and objectifying, no? That's the kind of thing we don't lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/14 11:31 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill: Is it what they say, or how they say it?Missing the forest for the trees, right here. Edit: I'm following up on his metaphor; even if you don't get caught murdering someone, you still shouldn't murder. In the same way, even if you don't necessarily get in trouble being a dick, you shouldn't be one. Edit 2: Also, it says right there on the sidebar, rule 1 and rule 5. /u/CFRProflcopter would not be in the wrong to ban you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/14 08:12 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill: Is it what they say, or how they say it?That still does not mean murder is the right thing to do. Seriously, dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/14 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Why are mating strategies (particularly in left-leaning urban areas where feminism is most popular) still different in practice between the sexes?I can confirm this. "Beta" in every sense of the word (at least, as defined by TRP) and I've had two relationships where the girl asked me out. Social expectations take a long time to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/14 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Humans Can't Be Empathetic And Logical At The Same Time"The male ability to turn off the empathetic side in a crisis situation..." No where in the article does it mention males. Or crisis situations. Or even the concept of "turning off." There was even that post in TIL that talked about how when a ship sunk slowly (giving time for men's logic to kick in) more women and children survived compared to a different ship accident where men slept on the deck due to lack of room below deck. In that accident, the ship was sinking quickly, and the men jumped … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/14 05:55 AM |
| 2 | RPS Banned?I remember reading some posts that showed brigading a while back, but it has been a while. I'll have to dig those up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:30 PM |
| 5 | RPS Banned?To be fair, TBP got no warnings at all if I remember correctly. Mods only found out when comments got stuck in the spam filter. And if there was no problem with shadowbans before, why address a nonexistent issue? I don't recall hearing a single case of shadowbans on TBP before 3 months ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP want from women?I didn't say anything about happier or not, just that the premise is invalid. Women tend to go with drug overdosing, which can be fatal but doesn't always kill. Men like to use guns, CO/helium poisoning, jumping, etc. And here you go (first paragraph). There's other sources too if you Google http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:22 PM |
| 4 | RPS Banned?Complete no linking policy yes, but this was after TRP regularly brigaded and it became an issue. So no, not exactly evidence. It just so happens that the two subs are dealing with this issue differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 03:12 PM |
| 6 | RPS Banned?I normally never vote. But what do you expect, this is reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:59 PM |
| 9 | RPS Banned?Perhaps, but it would be logical to assume that you upvote good comments and downvote bad ones. Doesn't make it right here, but still understandable. Most subreddits are pretty lenient with their rules so a newcomer might think that this is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:56 PM |
| 7 | RPS Banned?Mobile apps. I should have specified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:54 PM |
| 6 | RPS Banned?Unfortunately not everyone reads the rules, and a lot of people are on mobile. The overlap is non-zero. And claiming that that's bad debating skills isn't actually a good claim, it just means that the downvoters haven't read the rules or choose to ignore them. A lot of people also browse only but don't comment or debate regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:46 PM |
| 13 | RPS Banned?Mobile doesn't use subreddit styles. That is probably part of it. Pretty disingenuous to claim that voting patterns = brigading though. Bad debating can also be cause for downvites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 02:40 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP want from women?Which is absurd. Men are happier than women, at least according to self-reports. And according to suicide statistics, men are less happy. Let's not pretend like we know which gender is happier overall in the western world. This is disingenuous. Women attempt suicide more often, it's just that men are more likely to succeed because they tend to use more violent methods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"Indeed, I'm very BP. The "nice" guys that RP describes are analogous to my description of Nice Guys, so I do agree with them there (though for different reasons). Just so that other people don't misinterpret my post, this does not mean that I unintentionally agree with TRP overall, it means that I believe only a few aspects of TRP are valid. As has been mentioned by many other bluepillers in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"I differentiate between nice and Nice here - nice people are genuinely good people. The other kind of Nice - that's where we have people who appear nice on the outside, but really aren't - they manipulate, misrepresent their intentions, and assume that being Nice is the only thing you have to do and it entitles you to a bunch of things. An LTR and/or sex being among them, much of the time. In the case of Taylor Swift, the number of failed LTRs she's been in for her age (I'm not saying that this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/14 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill isn't "beta"Yes, Nice Girls do exist. Taylor Swift supposedly is one of them, from what I've read about this topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/14 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Is this acceptable behavior?Uhh, I can honestly say that it would still be an issue with me. Where the hell did you pull this from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/13 12:52 PM |
| 4 | What does TRP think about an open life commitment?Something that never ceases to amaze me is why people are so concerned and opinionated with other peoples sex lives. This sounds like the cock carousel, oddly enough. Why do people give a shit how many people a woman has slept with? Now I know some redpiller will get on my ass and say that she can't be committed, is incapable of loving, etc. as a result. And sure, that may be true. But that's still being concerned about someone else's sex life. It's illogical to ignore OP's question with that st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/13 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Is this acceptable behavior?I'm a bluepiller and I don't agree with this. Shitty people are still shitty people. If orange was a woman, she's still trying to steal someone's SO. I can be bluepill and still think both genders can be shitty. We see this in /r/creepyPMs all the time anyhow; creepers of both genders exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/13 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Is this acceptable behavior?My comment Maybe I should visit the OP one day was clearly intended to be satirical and was in response to a comment that OP had failed to block out the name of a city that I'm currently nearby. Like he said, I have no idea what you're trying to argue here. In the original submission I didn't explicitly take either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/13 10:53 AM |
| 6 | TBP: why do you bag on STEM so much?I know I don't bag on STEM unless it's TRP related. I myself am pursuing a CS degree at a top 5 engineering school. In TRP, they continue the STEM circle jerk and think that studying something else automatically makes you a useless beta/gold digging slut. It's also implied that many women go to college just to have tons of sex. Neither of those statements are true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/13 02:14 AM |
| 10 | Discuss whether TRP has misandristic elements.This is (or at least should be) what everyone strives for. TRP recognizes that a guy that is happy being an unhealthy, unattractive, (enter whatever other traits women don't generally find attractive here) person that is looking for a mate won't have much success. I have a SO. She loves the hell out of me despite my "betaness". It's a happy, loving relationship. I'm not the most attractive man in the world, but I'm not completely bottom tier. I don't lift, but I'm still relatively fit. I do all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/13 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Discuss whether TRP has misandristic elements.Right. So if I display considerable beta behavior, frequent TBP, disagree with TRP, am socially awkward, don't exactly lift, don't hit up bars to pick up women, and am seriously considering marriage without trying to use game theory, I'm an alpha? Because I'm certainly satisfied with what I have. This makes no sense. You'd think I was a beta from that description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/13 01:38 AM |
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