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Welcome, man! I first pulled an all nighter devouring the sidebar as I discovered TRP while searching for “controversial subreddits” haha. I was 3.5 years into a dead bedroom marriage. Now I have 4 plates, freedom, and a much more accurate understanding of the female brain.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:35 AM
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Although the truth in your assumptions is that there are (to paraphrase into your words) LESS “chill” people over 30, there are still plenary of them. Make new friends. . I’m 30 and have my tinder age range set from 18-25. Hang out with younger people. They look up to you. There’s benefits to being older! (Well, if you’re a guy HAHA).
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:35 AM
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Well first step is cut the sugar. Run 45min a day 6 days a week. See if you can find a place to do pull ups or dips. Make an outline for yourself based on that and value yourself enough to stick to it. The rest will work itself out as you read and progress. Start today.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:35 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:05 AM
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The same way you normally would.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:44 AM
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I’d ignore it and treat the situation as if it hadn’t happened. EDIT: you should have responded to the text with humor like “oh, don’t worry, I’m not that easy” or “sex?? I’m saving myself for marriage!” Or “nah we’re good I built a wall of pillows so when we watch Netflix we don’t accidentally touch” or get creative.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:39 AM
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I haven’t really experienced this yet. They’re either not interested or want to fuck me. Not saying I’m having a ton of success but at least I’m avoiding the beta zone
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:01 AM
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I just smile and say “those aren’t the kind of favors I do, darling”
/r/askTRP18/11/17 11:25 PM
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Escape? Just stop talking to her. You’re not going to convert her to a plate. Find someone else that makes you happy
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:22 PM
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It’s difficult to reframe existing relationships. If you want to keep them as friends you may have to act a little like your old self. Part of “think as you like but behave like others”
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:55 PM
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“In recent weeks” How long have you been lurking on trp? I did this as well when I was new.. it’s tempting to try and make all these adjustments and changes at once. Read all the sidebar books and stuff and get lifting. Replace mastering a craft with time spent on video games/tv/Facebook or whatever you wasted your time with before. But wait until the internal change begins happening before you start acting differently, and even then be calculated about it. The 48 laws of power has an excellent …
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:35 PM
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Whatever you want. The key here would be to do it because you want to not because you’re trying to win/earn her loyalty or affection.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:53 PM
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It never hurts to ask. Confidently asking for higher pay AND what your job prospects are like after the internship and what they pay will only make you look more valuable. The 2nd part about if they don’t agree make it higher seems silly to me though. Good luck on your interview!
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:12 PM
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This. There’s much bigger factors going into your personal development than rubbing out once a week vs not.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:38 PM
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Don’t expect it to change overnight. Take it one step at a time. Read the sidebar, get in a community group or club of people who share your interests and take it from there. If you can review your week every Sunday night and identify a thing or 2 you did to step out of your comfort zone and meet people, that’s better advice than being told to go approach a cute girl at the bar. But I mean if you get the balls to approach a cute girl at the bar by all means do it.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:36 PM
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No more mr. nice guy but I’m pretty sure that’s on the sidebar and if you’re a few years in you should have read the sidebar by now. Growing in sales and business helped me tremendously with boundaries in all areas of life. The compound effect by Darren hardy Brian Tracy’s books
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:34 PM
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“Don’t shit where you eat” means don’t get involved with co workers. You’re fine.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:27 AM
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“Yeah he’s crushing pretty hard, maybe he’ll get lucky tonight”.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:57 AM
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It’s going to be difficult here because you’re trying to alter a pre established frame. You were in a relationship so she already sees you as more of a commitment/emotional support type rather than a fun fling type.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:13 AM
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I’m guessing you’re new here.. I discovered that the majority of girls will fuck a guy that gives them feelz regardless of their religious or family values. Many (not all but many) girls in the church I went to had a past of riding the CC... or made exceptions... or got caught in the moment. As much as I keep looking for evidence that NAWALT, I rarely find it.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:35 PM
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I disagree, I wouldn’t use HTWFAIP to get laid but I would use it to make male friendships or get promoted. He’s looking to make friends. “Don’t be a pushover faggot” is always solid advice but I don’t think HTWFAIP tells you to be a pushover faggot.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:32 PM
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I used to think that too man.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:27 PM
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Because read up on shit tests. It’s obvious to anyone what’s going on here but I guarantee she’d agree to another date with him.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:26 PM
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I have a strong church background so here goes. I have never heard any conservative dating like she exhibits preached WITHOUT also preaching that you should NEVER date an unbeliever (and I’m assuming you haven’t indicated to her that you have any form of a prayer life/Christian walk/whatever terminology you want to use here). “Missionary dating” as they call it, is what she is doing, weather intentionally or unintentionally, and that is always a no-no in the “no sex outside of marriage” value sy…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:10 PM
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This is part of spinning plates. Most will begin to relationship test at some point. Remember your endgame goal and don’t get short sighted and afraid of loosing her. You know you’re going to loose her someday. Being prepared to walk away will give you the right mindset to express your desire to keep making her feel amazing (by fucking her) while maintaining frame (no way in hell im getting exclusive with you). I have one plate that gets mad at me and ghosts me for “only wanting sex” every 2-3 w…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:49 PM
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I wouldn’t consider it a shit test, but handling it like a shit test is effective.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:41 PM
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“How to win friends and influence people” is the only thing besides the sidebar that I can think of recommending. It’s ok to fall on your face a few times. Talk to people and if it doesn’t go well, talk to more people. That’s basically what I’m doing now and I’m 30 so consider yourself ahead of the game. Good luck!
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:40 PM
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True. I got lucky there, but would have attempted to isolate her had her friends been there and I was getting IOIs
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:17 PM
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True. Way easier to give tingles in person than through an app
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 04:11 PM
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I hear practice and experience kill anxiety as well. I’m still new to this.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:30 AM
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This. Stop targeting specific people and work on opening everyone. This includes guys and grandmas. Obviously don’t flirt unless she’s cute but work on being friendly so that when you do approach the HB7s and above it comes more naturally.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:25 PM
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Never implied it was revolutionary. Just a FR of a noob leveling up.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 09:00 PM
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Interesting. My tinder is more than half professional quality HB9s and 10s but they never match with me. I’d assume if they were bots theyd match and want me to come to their website.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 07:55 PM
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This is actually the best answer
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:52 AM
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Pay attention to IOIs How much is she laughing at your stories? When you put your hand in her, does she get more relaxed or more tense? How does she kiss back when you go for the kiss? There’s an excellent article on overcoming LMR which I have successfully used. Read it and use it for everything beyond kissing. Otherwise if she doesn’t respond well to an advance, go down one level and work there till she warms up. She invited you over, so go get em tiger.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:40 PM
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I promise you the story about banging the HB9 is much more entertaining.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 04:31 AM
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If she’s a plate, do you care if she sees anyone else? If he’s a BP guy why are you concerned? To me this seems like she’s using him as a shit test to see if you get concerned she might be getting some dick on the side. To me this also seems like it’s working. Find out when their date is and line up a date with a prettier girl. There you go.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 08:18 PM
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Marriage to discovering TRP 3.5 years. TRP to asking for the divorce 1.5 years Separation and divorce .5 years
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:40 PM
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It happened because I was a total beta.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:08 AM
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Me lol. Married a girl who had sex with me 0 times. Got divorced as a virgin after discovering trp. Lifted and gained 30 pounds of muscle, read the entire sidebar material, currently have 3 plates, Fucked a HB9 110 pounds 5’7 flexible Romanian chick I met over the weekend yesterday. Un-fucking-real.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 10:45 PM
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I’d treat it like a shit test if there was any chance she’d remember it: “oh, you want me to be your bitch?? You don’t have nearly enough money for that, babe...”
/r/askTRP07/11/17 07:42 PM
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https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:50 PM
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I ignore social media attention whores on social media at all times. I’m only fb friends with one of my plates. Never heard of a story of a guy who fucked an Instagram model whom he initially connected with on Instagram. Girls just like the attention and validation. Keep your game in real life, which it seems like you’re already doing. Ignore social media.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:38 PM
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I liked his 5 step guide to getting a girls number in day game. I’ve used it a few times and it worked. Also, I’m a beginner at pickup. Edit: got that from his podcast, spent $0
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:31 PM
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Her refusing to dance was because of lack of perceived value, not because you’re sticking your penis in a female she is close to. Unless that female she is close too is much less attractive... you said this girl is “stunning”? So I’m guessing she’s like a 9 whereas the girl she knows you’re fucking is only a 7? There’s why. There’s no formula for getting “that one girl”. Spin hotter plates and expand your options to stop yourself from obsessing over the one you can’t have. In time you’ll be fuck…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 06:03 PM
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“Should I even want her back”? Dude that’s for you to answer, not us.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:55 PM
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I believe the sidebar of askTRP has a blurb about not asking “so there’s this one girl that I realllly want” kind of questions. If you’re super concerned with not being “beta”, I’d stop targeting this one girl. Go meet 10 girls this Saturday evening so you have options. That’ll get her pussy 10x wetter than any texting or interaction tactics.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:51 PM
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There’s probably a certain level of truth to it but it’s not gonna change your life like having a routine of shredding at the gym and sticking to it week in and week out will. If you’ve been lifting steadily for a year or more and feel like you’re plateauing, sure switch it up.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:59 PM
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According to the sidebar, no. Of course she had a fit. See: Female reproductive strategy. The advice here is not to get married. If someday you decide to throw that advice away, move in with her after you put a ring on it. Until then your purpose is to peruse your dreams and figure out what you want in a woman. LTRs are mostly counter productive to that.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:56 PM
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Pick a job to start selling something you’re comfortable and familiar with and one where you will get a lot of opportunities to sell it per day. Think like going to a bar or club to pick up women: you want one with the most opportunities to approach. For example: a cell phone store gives you many opportunities to sell additional products to each person who you get to help. On the flip side, a job where you have to make cold calls and set appointments may offer higher commissions, but a newbie wi…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:48 PM
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Do what you want but if she fucks you do NOT EVER get into a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:59 PM
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Try sales.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:56 PM
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It’s on the sidebar so, yes.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:55 PM
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Just go and don’t drink. Drinking is not a demonstration of higher value. Feeling like you have to drink cause everyone else is is a bad idea, red pill or no red pill. Saying “I don’t drink” like you don’t give a fuck when someone asks why you’re not is a demonstration of higher value.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:53 PM
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I’m interested to see what other people will say but here goes. My rule of thumb for shit like this is “when in doubt, hold your tongue”. In this situation, it’s going to be bad for you in terms of your relationship with the supervisor obviously because you called them out. Depending on how much of a beta they are, they may bury it and not show it, and your co workers may think it was ballzy of you (display of higher value) for doing it, but to me it’s a gamble.. and a gamble not worth taking. T…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:48 PM
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“I’m not looking for a relationship” is an excellent thing for a girl to say... “great, me neither, let’s grab coffee and hang out”. proceed my friend!
/r/askTRP21/10/17 10:24 PM
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Highly doubt the actual reason she flaked was cause you don’t drink. When your out, this is one of those things where if you let it get inside your head, then it’s a disadvantage. Most PUAs recommend not drinking. Treat it like a non issue and girls won’t care.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 10:09 PM
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“If connecting emotionally with a plate class her to not give you the sex you desire then that would be bad, for example.” Right, the question here is... does it? I guess I’ll just have to find out for myself. I’ll report back LOL
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:18 PM
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Thanks for the response. Nah honestly at this point if any of my plates got banged by another dude it wouldn’t bother me., but I see what you mean. I should remember that at some point in the future she’s going to be banging another dude. Oh, and don’t worry I wasn’t taking live advice from any of them, I was giving it. Not going to take life advice from a plate LOL.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:16 PM
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To answer your questions: 1. Doesn’t matter 2. Doesn’t matter 3. You did fine quit over thinking 4. Since you’re Analytical, think of ONEitis as a function ONEitis = Hotness of the girl / other options you have. Increase your options to lower your chances of getting ONEitis. Keep the same level of action you’re taking towards meeting new people. Keep swiping/approaching/meeting up.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:06 PM
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