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Discussionweareallscrewed01/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:49 PM
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CMVweareallscrewed01/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:05 PM
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That's possible but men rated women OkCupid fairly linearly. So either women on Okcupid were normal while the men were uggos, men adjust their standards really fast while women don't, or men are simply rated more harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:37 PM
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Thanks lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:15 AM
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Sex is overrated, coming from a man who has never had it. I'm sure its great but the level of obsession some guys have with it (i.e. you) is a neurosis that gets worse the more you fuel it with 'sex is like air' analogies and fantasies of being chad. I got two dudes hitting on me in my reddit dms because they thought I was a woman (I'm not). They were perfectly civil but they had absolutely nothing to go on except a couple rambling posts on ppd. I don't understand that level of thirst, and I exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:49 AM
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inb4: I am not saying if you look like a physical troll AKA ~4 or below on this scale or are below average male height for your locale, that you'll be able to sensually win a woman over easily by being sexy or in an environment conducive to sexually-charged carrying on. That scale is atrocious. The rankings suck and there's more hot (and ugly) people than the chart implies. But even if we accept it 22% of men are too facially unattractive for hookups and 50% are going to be below average height.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:16 AM
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Not a woman but I'm gonna bothsides this one: 'Men aren't worth it'-men get angry. 'Women aren't worth it'-women get angry. Its that simple. Women resent men (especially mediocre men) having high standards. Men resent women for the same. If they didn't we wouldn't have half the posts on this subreddit. If people want a relationship they will probably have to settle. Look at the American statistics for height or weight or income and tell me that anyone really wants the average in their partner. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:14 PM
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I think women can go their own way better than most men can. They typically have more friends and a lower sex drive (especially after 40s) so they don't need men as much as men need women. Childcare is womens' biggest anchor and if they are willing to cut it loose they can enjoy a much more leisurely (single) existence. Many so-called cat ladies genuinely enjoy their lives and wouldn't trade it for the most hvm. That said times change and I wouldn't be surprised if women face the same pressures …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:49 PM
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Looks matter beyond getting sex, unfortunately. That's the real blackpill, one that would get more attention if men weren't such horndogs. There's really no downside to dressing well aside from the cost and maybe not getting as much reward out of it as you'd like to. Confidence from within is a rare thing, so if people treat you better you're probably going to become more confident. As it stands you're falling into the classic incel trap of doing nothing to avoid being disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:51 PM
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Are Ugly People Overrepresented online? Yes. Ugly people are more likely to be maladapted for one reason or another, and maladapted people are overrepresented online. The Incels vs inceltears dynamic sums this up imo. Incels are maladapted and often unattractive, but anyone who spends their day dunking on them isn't going to be much better. Its why reddit and the internet generally was dominated by nerdy men until the rise of the smartphone. Its why trans people (who are like 0.1% of the populat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:38 PM
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Its California, lol. Of course they're allowed to get abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:03 PM
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The og incel sub was pretty extreme from what I've been told. I.e. openly fantasizing about mass shootings extreme. The later subs were toxic but not any more so than most identity-oriented subreddit. Reddit banned the latter to cover their asses for the next time some weirdo shoots up a shopping center.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:01 AM
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Nah MRA activists wouldn't shut up about Amber Heard. Getting women to throw her under the bus was one of their few victories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:50 AM
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Its not my revenge fantasy, the only thing I can speak to is the ease of being single. Sex and love are great but they do require sacrifice in your day to day life. Which is why I think many people (myself included) act like they're too good for people who should be in their league. On the contrary I'm intensely worried about the legion of alienated single people blaming each other. Male incels rightly get more negative attention because they occasionally shoot up shopping malls but the 'femcel'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:18 PM
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I think its more of a revenge fantasy than anything. But tbh I do have a hard time seeing a 30 something old virgin dude these days getting together with 30 something overweight woman even if the latter were throwing themselves at him (which they probably won't be). Between the residual bitterness and the sheer inertia of being single so long it just doesn't seem worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:14 AM
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If we're talking about the same guy, I'm 90% sure he got more than a hug. That pic was taken in her hotel room and the bed was messed up. Prostitution is technically illegal, the girl had a boyfriend and she probably didn't want a bunch of thirsty simps constantly harassing her. Still not remotely worth the thousands of dollars he spent though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:56 PM
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This. Love is fantastic I'm sure but OP is talking about orienting everything in your life around possibly finding love five years down the line. Ngl I was contemplating something like OPs approach for a while before I did the math and realized how absurd it was. And I wanted an actual relationship, this dude just wants to get 2 more matches a week on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:28 PM
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Thing is women are having less sex than they used to. They're just having more sex than most men. That telegraph study from a while back showed that 47% of women were celibate compared to 66% of men. That's a big difference (presumably filled by chad), but it also means that half of college age women aren't fucking anyone, ever. People are generally becoming more isolated and neurotic and while some will rebound its not like making friends and finding partners gets easier after college. Imo we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:02 PM
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What? Men not dating 30 year old fat american women isn't harm any more than women refusing to date 26 year old skinny American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:40 PM
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That might have been true within the wealthier classes, but who exactly was yeoman Edgar Smith cheating with? Women were strongly discouraged from sex outside of marriage and your average farmer didn't know that many women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:19 PM
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The life expectancy was low because a bunch of people died from cholera or whatever when they were very young. Outside of the nobility the average age of marriage during the 18th century (in western Europe at least) was in the mid-late 20s (28 for men, 26 for women). The 1950s were a massive aberration because the post ww2 west saw massive spike in living standards, a shortage of available men, and drastically reduced income inequality. I agree family used to be the motivator. Emphasis on used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:09 PM
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I completely agree with this sentiment, but that's also a pretty new phenomenon. Do you think most men in the 18th century were getting great sex? A lot of them spent their teens and twenties toiling away to start a family later in life. Looking at history its clear that men today are more risk adverse, less motivated, more superficial, and less mature than men a century ago. It's just that women have also become all of those things in a much shorter time span.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:41 PM
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On reflection a better title would have been 'Where are all the bad men' because every guy I know is comfortably above average according to those statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:16 AM
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currently married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:04 AM
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2.2% is still 4.5 million men, so its not quite as rare as you'd think from putting 100 men in a room together. Height also has a positive connection with wealth, and wealthy people tend to hang out with other wealthy people, so there's that to consider as well. I thought the 3rd 6 was abs? Either way it doesn't show up on that website.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:02 AM
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Is it redpill to recommend you just lie to them? 'Present an abundence mentality' and all that? In the grand scheme of things pretending you have a couple of other tinder matches seems like its worth it. That said if you're actually meeting with your only match maybe you're doing something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:26 AM
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Pic of the guy? Because statistically women overestimate what average is in OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:20 AM
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If the government was that 'femfascistic' I doubt they would allow a site mocking women's standards to stay up. igotstandardsbro literally has a cat-lady rating system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:52 PM
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Correction: I think 7.2% is the percentage of ALL men that meet those criteria including the one for age. Nope: "According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 40 meets your standards is 7.2%". Put bluntly income only matters when the woman wants to raise a family, and that typically happens in their mid 20s. Depending on your social circle it could be much later. 45k also goes a lot further in some areas than in others. Ironwood Michigan has one set …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:50 PM
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Nah I understood that, I just thought the percentage would be lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:09 PM
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It happens, but there's a massive difference between only dating dudes that are over 6' (fewer than 1 in 5 men) and just dating someone taller than you (i.e. someone who is 5'6'', i.e. the majority of American men).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:05 PM
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The must-be-a-virgin thing is DOA these days, and not just in America. You're completely correct about the weight issue, though. Everyone here is fat af, and if you're scrawny these days you look like that much more of a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:00 PM
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Yeah American men might not be great but I don't think they're all unemployed fat midgets. The stats track individually (i.e. 1 in 5 men is over 6 foot) but combined it feels like the site is doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:47 PM
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Dead on for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 10:42 PM
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I'm talking to a woman who ardently believes the exact opposite. Men used to work and women used to take care of the home, but now women have to do both while men detach themselves from any responsibility. Funnily enough she also blames feminism for that (Russian immigrant). A lot of women want a traditional man who doesn't expect them to be a traditional woman. FDS is a window on that mindset, but its a bigger problem than one subreddit. But (un)fortunately I haven't seen much of a shift from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:16 PM
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I agree western feminism is built on sand to some extent. The legal battles (outside maybe abortion) have been fought and won. Now the demands are social justice and equity, vague terms that are constantly being redefined by the people making demands. We've gone from 'women can't own property' to 'women want time off for menstruating'. Western feminists loudly and proudly reject expectations for women while placing more and more expectations on men. That's unsustainable in the long run-every met…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:41 PM
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From experience (some) women absolutely do think like this. My sister did her best to nuke a friends relationship solely because the dude was balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:05 PM
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Is this a common topic of conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:07 PM
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People date others who are "out of their league" every day. Losers and autistic people online will try to convince you that there is some predictable natural order to mating. The truth is that sometimes a hot person will see a mediocre or ugly person as attractive. There is nothing special or impossible about this fact. This is true. Admittedly its probably less true than it used to be but anyone who thinks leagues are absolute has never gone shopping at walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:05 PM
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Lmao I'm not talking about a tax on Chad, if I understand you correctly. I'm saying that if the enough women refuse to date the enough men (or vice versa) its more likely that society will eventually try to accommodate that fact rather than force the issue. And the only accommodation I can see is significantly raising taxes on single people (disproportionately men) and subsidizing motherhood directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:42 PM
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Which is my problem with mgtow. A philosophy that can't survive people actually adhering to it is fundamentally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:36 PM
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We'll see. Its possible men won't have a choice in the matter. Its also possible that men do stop trying regardless of their horniness (again look at Japan). At any rate the bottleneck isn't single men, it's eligible single men that women want to partner with. From a social perspective mgtow and incels amount to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:25 PM
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Other than neutering social media somehow I don't have a solution, no. Hence my user name. And its the taxes I'm worried about. I can support myself comfortably. I can't do that if I'm paying metaphorical child support for a woman and child I'll never even see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:09 PM
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Which is why they'll tax men more to make up for it. Seriously who is going to get more sympathy: a struggling single mom without a retirement plan (even if she made terrible choices from beginning to end) or a 50-year-old 'manchild' who wants to spend his hard earned money on a 50 inch tv. And it goes without saying that single men without this nest egg will get no sympathy from either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:03 PM
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Again I'm technically mgtow. It works great for me, but I still recognize that if more people acted like me society would be screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:57 PM
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It absolutely would? Either they're becoming single mothers or forgoing having children altogether. The former screws up society (less attention and resources for the child), the latter straight-up kills it in a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:53 PM
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Pressure can be many things. It can be judgement from family or friends, it can be mockery in the media or quiet discrimination at work (Japan has the latter for both men and unmarried women). All of that is survivable, though humans are typically social animals. But pressure can be more explicit. Capitalism is its own pressure, and historically the safety net was geared towards women (iirc single men were barred from accessing most welfare until fairly recently). If the social safety net comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:36 PM
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On an individual level mgtow is totally fine and understandable, even if a lot of the rhetoric veers into misogyny. But if 50% of (wo)men are mgtow (or incel, or herbivore) it will force a social shift. One that I'd argue will not be advantageous to men generally. Its easy to promote individual choice, but we live in a society and societies need sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:31 PM
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Maybe he's one of the few men who was actually single because his personality is garbage. Settling for your partner isn't great, but then if no one settled most people would stay single forever. Telling your partner that you settled is just poisoning the well for no reason. Hell even most gold-diggers at least pretend to like their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:47 PM
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Aren't like 70% of American women (and men) in this range? If everyone refused to fuck fat people America would be screwed. Like I agree with you men are desperate enough as is, but from a societal pov you've made a convincing argument against porn not for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:41 PM
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