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Well, I certainly see childfree and infertile women as "real women", not broken women. That said, I do want to have children (biological and/or adopted), so a relationship with a childfree woman isn't for me, and vice-versa. I would be open to a LTR with an infertile woman who was open to adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:00 PM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:01 PM
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"My financial goal is to get rich enough that I can have children, go back to grad school for a PhD, and have a cozy retirement" Ladies, thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:23 PM
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Once you start doing stuff so that boys will like you better, rather than for your own happiness Being of a healthy weight benefits a person more than it benefits their partner. That should be the main motive for managing your weight, not desire to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:54 PM
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My fiancé likes divorced women I've heard of some odd kinks but this takes the cake 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:45 PM
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getting tatted up no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:44 PM
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I feel like we'll see a "birfurcation" of society. People who want a relationship will do whatever it takes to get one, and people who are content alone will stay alone. There's no pressure to marry as there was in the past, so the idea of relationships being a must will end. Or maybe some flavor of conservative (Christian, Muslim, RedPill, etc.) will win and we return to a more strict set of rules. I doubt it but these days it feels increasingly likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:02 AM
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I feel like 99% of concerns regarding danger faced by women from men (and for that matter, fears men have about things like false accusations) would be solved if we made chaperones a standard thing again. You both show up with a chaperone (a family member, a friend, etc.) and have your date with them hanging out with you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:03 AM
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I admit to doing this with r/Fauxmoi but I also admit that it has been of zero use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:15 PM
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Hmmm, I wonder what the pop culture world is like Lurk r/Fauxmoi and r/popculturechat Good God, these are some of the most vapid places on the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:35 PM
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In my culture, women don't take their men's surnames anyway, so it'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:09 PM
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I unironically think they've gone up from the days I desperately wanted sex. I work out a lot more these days
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:32 PM
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I had an eager partner for hooking up and even though I found them attractive, I turned them down because I wanted my first time to be with someone I loved. In the end, I guess I am more of a romantic than I thought I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:51 PM
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I'd buy a nice gaming pc and EU4 God I miss playing that game, I'm waiting until the next sale so I can buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:12 AM
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It's complicated. Pakistan has had a woman PM but at the same time Pakistani society can be wildly misogynistic. Heck, European countries have been ruled by powerful queens back in the day while at the same time having misogynistic societies. Gender equality at the top does not mean gender equality throughout a system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:10 PM
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I'd sum it up in 5 points: Be physically fit. Everyone has their biological limits, but be fit to the best of your ability. Be trustworthy. Lie as little as possible, be someone people can depend on. Be loving. Love yourself, your family, your neighbor and your world. Be a hard worker. In your career, intellectual, hobbies, etc., work hard. Be optimistic. Have hope for the future, do what you can to make that future a reality, and accept life's challenges and setbacks for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:44 PM
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bruh I like to think I'm open-minded and all but I'm not going to date or get in a relationship with a woman who works at a brothel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:51 AM
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Niger also has the highest birthrate in the world, at 7 child on average per woman (replacement rate is 2.1). Another gender-related thing concerning Niger is the inheritance rules back in the day (and even now with some tribes). Rather than a king's rule passing through the king, it was inherited through his sister. So a king's heir would be his sister's son. This was done because you couldn't be 100% sure the king's wife's son was the king's, but you could be 100% sure the king's sister's son …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:51 AM
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chin 😅 n-count doesn't bother me, my only fear with that is a higher risk for STDs. If she's clean it's all good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:46 AM
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Q4W: Would you find it odd if your boyfriend's sister's name was the same as yours? I'm seeing a girl rn and this could become relevant soon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:01 AM
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NGL, the only time I've ever heard people say "I want a submissive partner" is in the context of BDSM activities or other bedroom antics. If someone says that about day-to-day life that would be the most crimson of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:37 PM
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Why are you a hothead or unkind? I dunno lol. I called myself hotheaded because I get angry quickly at things which really aren't worth getting angry over. And I can be unkind sometimes. I consider these things I need to work on, like the mental equivalent of being overweight if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:37 PM
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I think paying for the first date is totally fine, but on repeat dates splitting the bill is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:58 PM
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Mostly, I think its the anxiety aspect I find so distasteful. But thats across the board, for anyone dealing with any sort of anxiety. I'm very unforgiving about that sort of weakness. And you've lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:57 PM
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I'd look for the one. As a lot of men here think that high value men are exempt from being monogamous or treating their partners with kindness/respect because they’re short in supply Part of being the ideal man is being a kind/respectful person. If I was the ideal man I'd be a lot kinder and less hotheaded than I currently am.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:47 PM
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My policy would be "you can post, but you can't respond to any DMs or thirsty replies." I think that's fair. For that matter, looking at another girl's pics seems harmless to me, but I wouldn't contact said person in any way (likes, replies, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:18 PM
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Mostly ASOIAF/Game of Thrones romance, with some forays into other fandoms. Smut-wise, mostly femdom and vanilla sex/romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:15 PM
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Q4W: Hypothetically, your bf has a hobby of writing erotic fanfiction. Let's say some of it is fairly kinky (femdom, etc), while other works are more tame, like this. Is this a no-go? Should he stop? (I am not in a relationship, but I wonder if this would be an issue when it came to starting one).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:07 PM
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My biggest fear is climate change and ecological collapse. I think about it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:12 AM
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Like being in 11th grade now I Stop wasting time on Reddit and go do your homework lil sis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:35 PM
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I don't think it's laziness, but rather "fear of rejection" which makes a "nice guy." Someone who doesn't put in the effort in some aspect of self-improvement but who is open about his intentions wouldn't be considered a "nice guy."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:27 PM
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Masculinity (or at least the Western "traditional" version of it) is being adversely affected by systemic factors. In many ways, being a masculine man is just plain more expensive than it used to be, and people are poorer. Men cope/react as best they can, and for some that involves the redpill's idea of "get rich and buff."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:54 PM
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Why do you completely ignore the factor of romance/love in this? If a "betabux" dude falls in love with a woman, he's not going to leave her because he can get more sex by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:07 PM
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I'd feel good if my gf was making changes that improved her health and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:57 PM
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My sister got really mad at this statement but I honestly don't see what I said that was wrong: A husband/wife should be a friend with benefits you care for so much (and vice-versa) that you decide to only have benefits with each other. Apparently it's not romantic/loving enough a view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:14 PM
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The one purely cosmetic/egoistical surgery I would consider is penis enlargement (apparently IRL it's quite dangerous, but consider this as a hypothetical). People say "it's not the size, it's how you use it" but I do feel packing 8+ inches down there would be a boost in dating/hookups and in LTRs. I've never heard of a girl who prefers a small dildo after all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:46 PM
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I don't think all sex is transactional, but all sex is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:36 AM
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I knew a white supremacist in college who dated a Black girl and rationalized it with the logic that "African Americans are 20% European by ancestry." I haven't seen him since college but I like to think he's matured.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:54 AM
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