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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Fun active date ideas Hah I went ice skating on a drunk whim with a girl I was into. An insta-date sort of thing. Didn't go so well. I used to be good, and maybe I still am, but I'm definitely not a proficient skater at 7 drinks deep. It is funny if you fall on your ass once, but the second time, I think you cross into dopey goofball territory...	/r/seduction	27/01/16 09:17 AM
2	How can I teach my girlfriend how to demonstrate value? Honestly, I feel like this probably belongs in /r/relationshipadvice You're asking a more complex question than you think. And you're coming at it from a practical standpoint. It doesn't sound like a practical problem. If she's not motivated enough to at least start down this path there's not much you can do. Trust me man I've been in this exact situation and it's frustrating to see someone with potential shoot themselves in the foot repeatedly, but your job is not to motivate her and give her t…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 03:51 AM
1	What are your must-reads? Eh maybe you're not the target reader. The vast majority of people walking the Earth don't follow these simple suggestions. It's a rapport 101 so don't knock it if you feel you're too advanced. As people have mentioned elsewhere, it's less about bullet points on what to do, than it is a well structured introduction for the uninitiated.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 07:40 AM
1	Talking to girls- i feel like im doing all the work. Came here to mention this. It's hands down the best breakdown of this issue I've ever encountered. http://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI	/r/seduction	25/05/15 07:33 AM
2	3 seconds thinking This is solid. Moving your feet is the hardest part, and having a mental routine would definitely help to get things going. I'd also add that the first step is probably the hardest if you don't meditate semi-regularly, so I'd definitely recommend that as many have already mentioned in this subreddit.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 04:53 PM
1	Anyone else feel like they can get better girls in person than on Tinder? Agreed. I love talking to girls about their train-wreck Tinder dates. An aside: it's "cesspool"	/r/seduction	02/04/15 03:41 AM
3	For those with Approach Anxiety, please don't give up Holy hell. That quote is golden. I feel like we all think there's some scorecard which follows us around wherever we go. When I was out in Hollywood a few weeks ago I bombed on a couple conversations at the end of the night. There weren't a ton of people at the bar but it was probably a bit noticeable to anyone who was left. Well the bar closes and I walk out the door. I rounded the corner and felt exactly how you just described. Maybe it's melodramatic, but it was like I totally just blew the b…	/r/seduction	02/04/15 03:36 AM
1	I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump. Seriously. 90s clip art and comic sans? Is that part of the behavioral therapy? It's like someone's aunt got drunk in the break room and designed this in MS Paint. I guess I'll copy and paste this into something later.	/r/seduction	23/03/15 04:57 PM
9	Don't let women know that you are learning from the PUA community. Seriously. This subreddit and pickup in general have terrible PR. I've never liked the labels and pretentious jargon. Maybe it's helpful sometimes, but often it's a bit unnecessary. Thankfully Seddit tends to err on the helpful side. If you ever feel the need to explain seduction/pickup, the tone should be "it's really not a big deal" instead of "I could write an academic paper on this shit" Because on a general level girls have been writing and talking about this shit way longer than guys have.…	/r/seduction	24/02/15 04:31 AM
1	Living in a gay neighborhood has taught me some things. "It's indescribable... It was like flying" "Words can't do it justice... It was like sleeping on a bed of marshmallows." We are brothers. I feel like the average person has no idea what the words coming out of his mouth even mean.	/r/seduction	03/01/15 09:16 AM
0	Does this stuff work internationally? Play up the stereotypes? Why? Isn't the point to be different. An intangible. I've had WAY more success when traveling by defying stereotypes. But doing so naturally, not as part of some scheme. I have a lot of weird interests, which I totally own when I meet new people. When I was in Berlin I connected with a group of German girls in a coffee shop over our love for French Disco House. I honestly love it, but it's not really an American cliche, in fact when we hung out the next day one of them e…	/r/seduction	17/10/14 04:59 AM
1	I want a girlfriend, I have gotten massive success using everything I have learned here but this persona I've taken on never makes the girls want to stay. Honestly I think you misinterpreted "Fake it til you make it." In reality a more apt description of the idea is, "Fake it until you become it." Making it is referring to making your true self better, not sleeping with X amount of HB 9.2 or higher. Pretending to be charismatic leads to a feedback loop of reactions to your projected charisma, which in turn makes you feel better about your self and more authentically charismatic. It's a means to an end. A way to get off the ground.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 04:49 AM
1	Easy and effective opener Wow. I don't know why I forgot about this one. In college I had a house right across from campus and had people over all the time for parties/pre-gaming/post-parties about three years solid.Three glorious years... Needless to say I did very well for myself, met a lot of girls and made a ton of friends, and this was pretty much verbatim my approach. It's funny because I used it from a very authentic place like the onus was on them. Pretty much communicating, "I live here, now how is it you are in…	/r/seduction	17/10/14 04:26 AM
4	Mark Bowden's TED Talk on body language and approaching. Thought I was the only one who knew the difference. This is a good talk for a TEDx, but the qualifications between speakers at both talks are night and day. I always though that was the worst branding decision ever.	/r/seduction	11/05/14 06:53 PM
2	Mark Manson - How to Attract Women You do know women exist outside of bars right?	/r/seduction	23/01/14 06:02 AM
0	Mark Manson - How to Attract Women Sounds productive.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 05:59 AM
4	Job interview game Why are you going to job interviews for places you're not interested in? I'm not being a dick, I'm curious if you're just practicing or something. If so I kind of like that.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 04:09 AM
1	How do you textgame someone who doesn't add anything to a convo but smileyfaces This belongs in AskSeddit. See the sidebar.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 04:07 AM
0	Been on 3 dates with the same girl, haven't even kissed. How do I escalate the physical attraction? Or get invited inside her place to close? This belongs in AskSeddit. See the sidebar.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 04:06 AM
3	Simple number close for girls who are at work Troll? This guy can't be serious. I'm waiting for him to say, "My library smells of rich mahogany."	/r/seduction	08/11/13 10:10 AM
1	I Think I May Have Found The Perfect Opener That's not really what I said. I just seem more well spoken than I am, because of my base understanding of Latin and reductive reasoning.	/r/seduction	20/05/13 02:59 AM
5	I Think I May Have Found The Perfect Opener For once? I barely studied Latin and because I understand the major prefixes and suffixes I can pretend like my vocabulary is much better than it actually is.	/r/seduction	20/05/13 01:57 AM
0	From a woman's perspective Better would be, don't ask an undesirable fish which is its favorite lure.	/r/seduction	16/05/13 05:26 AM
1	If you could sum up everything you have learned here in one sentence what would it be? You'll never get the woman of your dreams until you become the man of her dreams.	/r/seduction	09/03/13 04:57 PM
12	The importance of immediately establishing romantic interest. You could've just said, "don't go up to them and pretend like you're not hitting on them." That is supremely useful information on its own. Whenever I've ever become friends with a girl who I'd rather fuck, this is the reason. It's man child, pussyfooting that lands you in the friend zone. Don't get me wrong, you can fly under the radar, and some situations require it. When you aren't saying how you feel with your words though, you should be showing how you feel. When you neglect both forms of c…	/r/seduction	07/03/13 07:18 AM
1	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. You cannot get the woman of your dreams until you become the man of your dreams.	/r/seduction	06/03/13 10:30 AM
1	Something that completely changed my game. This is so weird. I literally just heard of this trick four days ago. It might be an old concept, I don't know, but I just read it in The Power of Now and it works like a charm. Eckhart Tolle explained it like you are a cat waiting outside of a mouse's hole waiting for the mouse to pop out. You have no choice but to wait patiently, and as professionalassh0le said, the thought doesn't come and you get a minute or so of blissful nothingness.	/r/seduction	11/02/13 04:33 AM
2	The Friend Zone Myth. Yeah another interesting cognitive shortcut is the correlation between cost and quality. We assume that a $500 pair of shoes are higher quality than a $50 pair. Most of the time this assumption is correct.	/r/seduction	05/02/13 10:16 AM
1	Here's something for beginners that really helped me out when I was a beginner. The Book of Pook. Dude, I can't tell you how much this has helped me already. I don't know how I've never stumbled on this guy. This is all like six or seven years old though where is he now?	/r/seduction	02/02/13 11:26 PM
1	How to deal with fear: for the guys who know they SHOULD go talk to that girl, but still don't Good to know. Wasn't being scientific, but realistically it's probably more like 1 in 100 men walk up and approach.	/r/seduction	26/01/13 09:14 AM
6	How to deal with fear: for the guys who know they SHOULD go talk to that girl, but still don't I know you're probably not serious, but... Awhile ago an actor friend of mine was explaining a technique he was taught to calm his nerves on stage. When both hands are by your side, where they should be if you want to appear open. Take your thumb and your pointer finger and squeeze them together. Nobody ever notices and it always seems to help for whatever reason.	/r/seduction	26/01/13 08:51 AM
1	How to deal with fear: for the guys who know they SHOULD go talk to that girl, but still don't Yeah I think he pretty succinctly put into words what 90% of men feel in this situation.	/r/seduction	26/01/13 08:45 AM
1	20% of the men get 80% of the women (x-post /r/OneY) Fuck this is great. Submit this as a distinct post in Seduction.	/r/seduction	24/01/13 08:05 AM
2	I think I've just stepped up my game. It's all thanks to you, Seddit! No, my endgame is not to get laid. It's to hook up with high-quality women. Most of you can get laid pretty damn easily if you have zero standards. Most game is not designed with low-quality women in mind.	/r/seduction	24/01/13 04:42 AM
2	[FR] Gym approach, #-close to bedroom That seems super counter-intuitive. You would think that most girls would take that as unbelievably presumptuous. I have honestly never tried this so I'll have to give it a go. I'm curious though, how do most girls respond?	/r/seduction	21/01/13 09:54 PM
1	tl;dr for key things to remember My keys are pretty simple: Abundance mentality > Scarcity mentality, because there are millions of women who you still haven't met. Cultivate outcome independence, because being shot down really ain't so bad.	/r/seduction	17/01/13 09:46 AM
0	The Dirty Little Secret of Pick-up? 90% of You Will Never Make Any Progress Hell yeah it is. My wording was a little simplistic. By doing a lot of these things you will see success, but most people that get into this are looking for progress in specific things: the power of choice with the women they meet, the confidence to approach any woman anywhere, ability to be promiscuous and flirty with the women they are around etc. In these areas most will struggle, and never overcome this hurdles. Did they waste their time if they got better at things that will help them in ot…	/r/seduction	15/01/13 04:00 AM
0	The Dirty Little Secret of Pick-up? 90% of You Will Never Make Any Progress Totally agree. This is crucial.	/r/seduction	15/01/13 03:47 AM
0	The Dirty Little Secret of Pick-up? 90% of You Will Never Make Any Progress Exactly. This probability is not random, though, it isn't like walking up to the roulette table and plunking down on red. It's like when people say four out of five business fail after two years. Probabilities like this are only the tip of the iceberg. It's an observation that what you're attempting to do is damn hard, and simply by walking out of bank with a business loan and your shiny, bound business plan isn't enough. To be the exception to the rule you must be truly exceptional. Wanting to …	/r/seduction	15/01/13 03:46 AM
0	The Dirty Little Secret of Pick-up? 90% of You Will Never Make Any Progress No, the idea if you watched the video is that you don't get better at this by expecting it to magically happen after watching and reading enough content for a long enough time. You need to focus on getting over the hurdles that will inevitably come. Or you can keep telling people that they are all little special snowflakes who are the exception to the rule. You aren't inherently special. The only thing that makes you special is the decisions you make. And this is a rally to make the right decisi…	/r/seduction	14/01/13 07:01 AM
1	The Dirty Little Secret of Pick-up? 90% of You Will Never Make Any Progress This is something nobody ever addresses here, so take the time to get a little meta. If you're struggling to find the motivation to improve yourself you're in good company. It doesn't have to be this way, and this guy really dives into the psychology of this consistent motivational failure. This talk really hit home.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 05:52 AM
1	[FR] Number Close HB8 Owner of Modeling Organization at Sandwich Store Wait someone being into acupuncture qualifies as crazy to you? It's a little woo woo I'll admit, but a deal-breaker? It may be objectively pointless to get needles poked into you, but very few human beings make all decisions based on logic, we're not robots. To be honest I just look for people that are mostly rational, but then if they are a constant downer then I still don't want to be around them. I would rather spend time with a wild and crazy chick than a cold robot who always makes the rati…	/r/seduction	11/01/13 11:11 AM
2	I've recognized the problem but I honestly don't know how to act. Zero confidence is plaguing my life. This is good. I remember reading a Paul Newman interview where he explained his acting style, I don't know where exactly so I'll try and paraphrase. First of all Paul Newman pulled off a badass well on film because he was a badass in real-life. He said that he took elements of two or three different actor's personalities when he was creating his screen persona, and then focused on wrapping the best of those personalities into one man. Eventually, he said, they became a part of him and his ideal …	/r/seduction	11/01/13 10:36 AM
1	I've recognized the problem but I honestly don't know how to act. Zero confidence is plaguing my life. Find some great trails nearby, learn them well on your own, then invite girls along. Depending on how well you know her it might be easier to invite a few other people. You are working on your fitness, exploring a new hobby, having a really fun date, and if you go with a crew, bonding with friends. Wins all around.	/r/seduction	11/01/13 10:22 AM
1	Billy's Guide to Looks Yeah, I wasn't feeling particularly creative. A more nuanced example makes more sense. I just can't imagine many scenarios where you would fare better intentionally being supplicatory. I know a lot of good looking guys who act alpha and manage to consistently get with the most attractive girls. Then on the other hand the good looking guys who act supplicatory generally get laid, but mostly with easy girls and the crazies.	/r/seduction	11/01/13 09:58 AM
4	Billy's Guide to Looks My scenario wasn't very clear, but I meant the guy was being given the go ahead based on looks, but acted beta by assuming she wasn't talking to him. Forget that though, I now see what you're saying. My point is still this: handsome + beta = success with insecure, desperate, or unattractive women handsome + alpha = success with beautiful women who I'd like to make breakfast for	/r/seduction	11/01/13 09:47 AM
2	Billy's Guide to Looks That and abs are earned, which probably plays a role.	/r/seduction	10/01/13 08:17 PM
3	Billy's Guide to Looks I still don't buy it. When you're getting approached for your looks and outward confidence you can most certainly fuck it all up by acting beta. Picture this, good looking guy standing at the bar, makes eye contact with a girl on the other side of the bar. The girl smiles and motions for him to come over, but he turns his head to see who she's looking at. Even if this guy does come over and say hello, he has torpedoed any attraction she felt for him. Outside of desperate, insecure, or unattracti…	/r/seduction	10/01/13 08:11 PM
2	Any tricks to help get "in state" at home/by yourself? Or just, you know, work out WHILE listening to music. I have a door pull up wedge and I always bust out a few sets before I go out. Gets the blood pumping, endorphins, whatever it always works. I love good dance music and my go-to is streaming Annie Mac's show on BBC Radio One. It's free to stream online in the US and goes up on Fridays. It's an hour mix specifically for getting you ready to go out for the night. Might not be for everyone, but if you like good electro check it out.	/r/seduction	07/01/13 09:42 PM
3	I used to be a "natural" that has degraded into an AFC -- Here is my story, and why it's time I recover You really laid it out man. Brutal honesty, it makes this place awesome. I think you answered yourself though, negative feedback loop caused you to fall down, and probably a positive feedback loop that got you where you were before. You were getting your validation from an external source and as you've learned, this left your self-worth pretty dang vulnerable. Work on yourself a bit and stop overthinking this stuff. Do some meditation, get out of your head and into the present. Spend more time o…	/r/seduction	06/01/13 11:29 AM
2	The One Defining Moment That Changed My Life Hahah well goddamn, in that case touche. Didn't even know he was a writer. I'll have to put this one on my queue. Thanks. Edit: Just watched the trailer. This looks awesome.	/r/seduction	04/01/13 11:47 PM
0	The One Defining Moment That Changed My Life It always kinda bothers me to see a quote attributed to the actor in a movie rather than the writer. Great wisdom nonetheless!	/r/seduction	02/01/13 07:00 AM
1	There ought to be a law against this. "we all hit play". Straight from his mouth.	/r/MensRights	03/08/12 02:44 AM
0	Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girls I disagree, it is an overgeneralization, but is generally correct. Your username is awesome by the way.	/r/seduction	12/07/12 03:23 AM