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Amen!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/19 09:20 PM
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Thank you! Thank you! He'll be here all week!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 12:19 AM
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Maybe. Maybe not. But it's most likely yet another mundane, unimaginative 'like' of your Basic Bitch. Such as 'music' and 'having fun'. You know, things any person that is breathing probably enjoys as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 05:50 PM
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Oh, I believe most here know how to read Thot-talk and it's symbology. Look how much she can fit in her mouth!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 05:46 PM
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But those things SOUND cool! And.. And.. And would make great fodder for snapchat instagram facebooking! Duhhhh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 05:44 PM
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It's all about pretending to be something you are not. Whether due to your personal disappointment in where you are in life, or due to insecurity that makes you crave acceptance or jealousy from others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 05:43 PM
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Because marriage still has enough gravity that the couple were serious when they made the commitment and are willing to try and work on it. Not nearly as much as it used to be. But more than just some guy you let do you while shacking up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 03:33 PM
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Of course. My question was to highlight how she's full of shit when she says she "needs to know a guy before attraction".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 03:43 AM
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If she says she has to get to know a guy to become attracted to the guy.. Isn't the obvious answer to start going on as many dates as possible? If conventional good looks aren't the only priority? Kappa hmmm? Otherwise how will you ever get to know them? Take mr Uber driver for example. She didn't even go on one date before deciding to drop him. How could she possibly know him?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 01:11 AM
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I asked my cat. She says no. Guess I'm out of the running here, lads. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 07:18 AM
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What makes you think she takes her Catholicism seriously? The fact she's not with her children's father? The gratuitous use of foul language? The super wide band of acceptable age for potential suitors? ​ There's a reason many Catholic girls have a very bad reputation. Just because mom and dad forced you to go there doesn't mean you chose to absorb any of the valuable education or wisdom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 07:17 AM
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It's typically not in most men's top 5 things that they look at when deciding if they are interested in a woman. Just because you personally care about it, does not make it something most men care about. ​ In no specific order other than number 1: Looks. Attitude. N-count. Kids? Intelligence. (interesting or vapid?) The only time career comes up as a concern is if it's something that is grossly time-consuming such as Lawyer, Doctor, or Military/Police. And only then, not because of money but rat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 06:57 AM
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"You're gonna need a bigger bingo card." -- in the stylings of Roy Scheider's "Sheriff Brody" from "Jaws."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 01:45 AM
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The point is that no man cares about a woman's career or education. It's not a selling point. Just like the entire rest of that bingo card; not selling points.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 01:43 AM
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I like that idea of an open mic nite to call a bluff. Most people talk about wanting adventure like it's something that somebody else is supposed to plan for you. No, if you really want to take risks, let's do it right now together. /thumbs up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 01:42 AM
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Casinos don't prey on your math. Dirtbags don't prey on women's hypergamy or men's desire. They all prey on people wanting something for nothing. That's been a trait of the foolish since Eve took a bite of the apple. ​ It's not so complicated. And each age has these different problems presented, but they aren't so much different than the ones that came before. ​ The simplest point I can make is that people don't have the right values. This is what leads to the troubles. ​ Want to know how to avo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 01:35 AM
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That's not the school's job. ​ That used to be the job of mom and dad, married, and the Church <insert your favorite flavor of regilion HERE>. ​ Guess what's left when you remove an overarching authority that can provide a moral compass for our every internal decision? You're looking at it. ​ The 'manosphere' can stick to their guns claiming men are wild animals that have been fucking any hole they can find and women are hypergamist branchswinging horn-monkeys for the entirety of human history, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/19 09:29 AM
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And journalism used to not give a shit about your opinion overlaid into an article like these 'writers' seem to love to do. ​ If it's gonna be an editiorial, put that at the very top of your article. Otherwise, write the story as unbiased as possible. She didn't use such judgmental language when recanting the quips from the females in her story.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/19 09:24 AM
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Boy, I was thinking the same thing as you... but then I saw she's a music lover. It's nearly impossible to find those!! ​ I'm gonna go fill out my application right now cuz I can't let this one slip away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/19 09:15 AM
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You know what the worst thing about losers? Losers always want some credit for some shit they supposed to do. For some shit they just supposed to do. A loser will brag about some shit a normal man just does. A loser'll say some shit like "I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS".. you supposed to you dumb mothafucka! What are you talking about?? What you bragging about?? What kind of ignorant shit is that?? "I AIN'T NEVER BEEN TO JAIL"... what you want a cookie?? You not supposed to go to jail you low-expectatio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/19 09:13 AM
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Something about abusive relationships that I heard from Dr. Laura a long time ago that completely changed the way I view them: there are two parties involved in the dance. A ballet of perfectly synchronized movements from both players. ​ Having grown up in a fish tank where the message from our brainwashers in the media was that abusive relationships are all because of the horrible, no-good man abusing some saintly angel of a woman... this was like a total slap in the face. To hear from some per…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 05:22 AM
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God bless you for going through all that heap of shit to pick it apart. ​ I was gonna. But my heart just wasn't in it after the part about how she thinks the only option after "drinking" is "come to my house and fuck me".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 05:13 AM
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I bolded the part that was answering the guy above me. She is NOT married. ​ "father of my child/PARTNER" ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 12:06 AM
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That's weird. Because prior to this 'enlightened age of feminism', men weren't the ones looking to lock down the spouse at a young age. It was women looking to do that. Men sowing their wild oats and being boys until a woman came along that was worth them giving all that up to marry for life and build a family. Yes, the situation is like it is now because women have access to an unprecedented amount of men thanks to the OLD and apps things. But they just enjoy the freedom of playing the field th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 05:30 AM
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5'2 178 is not the level of obese you are describing. It's chunky for sure. But there isn't gonna be a rolls upon rolls. What you hear on Reddit is exaggeration. Perhaps if it's a 400lb obese person. Honestly, the dirtiest girls I ever met were usually the boozers/drug users and none of them were fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 02:11 AM
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Chads can. But so can Bobs. Plenty of guys that aren't dogs, avoid marriage like the plague because they want to keep things "open". And even in today's modern era, where marriage is a joke, it's still a big deal to put your name on a legally binding certificate, and stand up in front of God, family, friends to take vows of commitment. ​ When you want to "see if something better comes along", you don't get married. Used to be that was just guys doing it, now it's the girls too since feminism. I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 02:08 AM
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I was no longer in love with the father of my child/partner of 4 years, and he was clearly not in love with me. Read a little harder next time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 02:04 AM
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That's a plague all across Western Civ. People have real high opinions of themselves, with no actual reality to back it up. No wonder so many are miserable with their lot in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:35 PM
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You have some odd assumptions about fat girls. Cleanliness has nothing to do with size.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:34 PM
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But goddamn, if there’s a way couples can find bliss without going through hell, I highly recommend it. If only there were ways, or teachings, to help people see that there are good and bad decisions in life. Hmmm if only... ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:28 PM
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They like to quote the spiritual stuff to give the appearance of some sort of intellectual depth. Then live their lives with the vapid shallowness of typical childishness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:27 PM
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These are almost always the reasons why a women wants to open a marriage/relationship. Men do it too. Let's not pretend it's a woman-only thing. Plenty of guys don't want to marry because they like to play the field.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 11:26 PM
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Like, totally! I mean, I don't really SEE him like that... o.O creeeeeeeeeeeepy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 03:18 AM
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When you are a child playing adult games, this is the sort of cloudy and nebulous disasters you get. Drama with a capital D. ​ No need to unpack any more than that. Dating in America has become a literal playground for children. Except it has the hard consequences of Reality that come from adult decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/19 03:15 AM
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But why does it take an average thot to learn that people are only using her for sex after making it into the double digits? Are they really that naive, dense, or lack the sense of self-awareness? A fool can only learn from his own mistake. A wise man can learn from the mistakes of others. ​ Most of this childishness is from their unwillingness to not give into their momentary whims. Sex is fun and feels good, and the attention you can get from the boys when you use it as bait... wonderful. The …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/19 12:08 AM
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Yes. Judgment is useful when assessing people. Seeing repeated patterns is useful in ascertaining who and what they are. ​ That's why bad or foolish people don't like judgment. ​ A wise person uses judgment of past to determine likely future. Which is why you pay attention to a person's history before you invest yourself heavily into them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/19 12:04 AM
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In other words, a woman's "rough past" might involve a lot of hard-partying, CC riding - the whole works. And yet, if the only lesson she's learned from that is that she's sick of "assholes, jerks, liars, cheaters, etc." and that all she needs is to find a "good man" (which she can't find) to make it all right, then she may not have learned the right lessons in life. That's all people, not just women. Plenty of people talk about their hard past like it's a badge of honor, meanwhile they didn't l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/19 12:01 AM
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I prefer they put this up front. I also like when dummies put their thoughts all over bumperstickers on their car. Let's me know to avoid them before I accidentally wasted time talking to them. I consider it the "Here's your sign" philosophy. Wouldn't life be so much easier if idiots had signs over their heads so you could save time? Social media is like the modern day bumpersticker or novelty T-shirt. Or Trucknutz. Big red flashing signs to avoid at all costs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 11:55 PM
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This is preaching to the choir, but I'm gonna say it anyways: This guy did the exact right thing. The woman acted like an asshole, and he simply walked away from it. ​ Life is too short to be afraid to do the right thing because it might hurt somebody's feelings. A lot of "nice guys" would have been too afraid to stand up and walk out. They would have stuck around like some chump, and then not called her again. Instead, this man called her out on the BS and left. This isn't like forgetting to me…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 11:53 PM
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She fucked every tall white male in town! When you make height requirements like she did... you probably have already run through the short list of men in your area that meet that bar. lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 12:58 AM
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It's like the difference between reading typed text, and hearing the person say the words. Things get lost in the translation. ​ Some of the sexiest girls I've known did not have the classical 10s in all the key beauty areas but they just hit all the right notes in how they carried themselves and interacted with me. And conversely, I've met plenty of 9+s that were much less attractive than you'd think because they somehow hit all the wrong notes. You can't always know until you spend some time t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 12:54 AM
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It's a dating profile, and nobody here is criticizing THAT she is saying what she wants (because that's actually better than some of these thots who cryptically use thot-speak instead of just sacking up and saying what they want). ​ The criticism is WHAT she wants. It's patently absurd to use height as a selection option for a potential love interest in the context of searching for a 'good' man. ​ When car shopping for a 'good' car (with 'good' being relative to meeting YOUR personal needs) woul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 12:50 AM
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OP gets the bullet because "It's better to come upon a bear separated from her cubs, than a fool in his folly." -Proverbs 17:12. ​ Pointing out a fool's foolishness isn't a good idea. "Do not rebuke a mocker for they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you." -Proverbs 9:8 ​ The lesson is to recognize foolishness when you see it, and move as far away as possible without opening your mouth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 09:16 AM
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Well, judging by all the successful matriarchal societies littering the landscape of world history.... /rofl
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:31 PM
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Don't need a template. Most of them pick up this asinine lingo from their social media, pop culture, and friends (who also swim in the same social media and pop culture cesspools). That's why they end up sounding so strikingly similar and mundane. The most basic of BaSIc BiTcHEs. ​ For laughs, observe that most of the thots like this that you may know in your personal life are often surrounded by friends that think the same, talk the same, and act the same. They are literally the crabs in a buck…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:23 PM
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Her simply wanting a man over 6' (her personal height) alone is already eliminating a whopping majority of potential men. After reading her laundry list of absurd demands and ignorance of her weakened bargaining position... I doubt this woman has two brain cells to rub together and spark an intelligent thought.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:21 PM
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I don't think this simpleton knows what she wants. Try to read through that baloney and make any sense of it all. Feels like one of those worded math problems from school where you have to pull out the pertinent numbers yourself. Except in this case, you don't get an answer worth bothering with all the work. At least in the math problem you could get a passing grade on your test. Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:19 PM
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Fuuuuuuuuuhhhhh... That list is longer than the side effects disclaimer for the newest 'miracle' meds on the teevee advertisements. 5 seconds of what the pill is supposed to do (that's good)... followed by 55 seconds of disclaimer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:18 PM
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Yeah, in thot-speak "old-fashioned" basically means "I'm only jumping on the old-fashioned train now that I've completely ruined my life being everything BUT old-fashioned."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:14 PM
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Stop the presses! The modern welfare state is to blame for coddling and enabling poor behavior/decisions? Why would the government want to destroy the family unit comprised of a married father and mother, by replacing dear old dad?Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:12 PM
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Feminism hates women. It hates them because it sees them as inferior. Especially when viewed through the lens of Christianity, which dominated the very shape of Western Civilization as we know it. Much of this inferiority complex borne from their utter misinterpretation of a woman's place in the Universe according to Christianity. Society as a whole somewhat misunderstood it, but Feminism is a "counterculture" to this "culture" if you will. ​ This article is not incorrect in their observation th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/19 07:42 AM
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One of the biggest reasons 40 is the magical line in the sand: you are no longer a potential mother to his kids. ​ The guys talking to you are either looking for a pump-n-dump or are looking for an actual woman to settle down with and make a family. ​ In the former; they are most likely interested in the youngest and prettiest model they can tolerate. ​ In the latter; you just are too old to be considered for family material. In which case, they're gonna lose interest. If you were 35ish, there's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 01:02 AM
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If a Starbucks employee treats me like shit and tells me I don’t matter to that business, I’m pretty sure the manager of that location is going to bust his balls for him. Why are talentless hacks like Larson able to degrade the primary audience of a Marvel film with impunity? Because the bosses of these film companies share the exact same opinions as Larson. ​ And they believe they are too big to fail. They don't react to the negativity until it reaches a cacophony. ​ Meanwhile, the business own…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 10:35 PM
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Maybe that was necessary forty or fifty years ago, but we literally live in a world where a disabled kid in a basement can start a movie review YouTube channel and get half a million subscribers. It is talent that determines the market now. Men are not gatekeeping movie reviewing jobs, you unmitigated ass! Literally any woman could take a cell phone and their ever-present selfie stick, and make her own damn channel with ease. You are promoting a fake narrative. Dude, just look at Twitch. A suppo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 10:31 PM
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The breakup letter a bit too long, and there is absolutely no reason whatsoever he should be putting an apology in there. But God bless him for having the sense to not throw bad money after good. Especially considering he took waaaay too long to be in a relationship if he wasn't getting married. You ought to know by year 2 whether this is a keeper, and lock it down. Life is way too short to waste time on losers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 05:14 PM
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Well, she is wearing pasties. Nothing screams "CLASSY" like some pasties.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 04:54 PM
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I agree. I've said before, penis-->vagina. That's quite literally all you need to know to start out. Figuring the rest out comes naturally. And you know what? It might be a fantastic journey to take with a person you love so much you married them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 05:45 PM
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Well, it ain't been "finding herself" because she also says she is "just beginning to understand what I want." How in the world you make it to 30 and don't have a clue what you want out of life, idunno. Oh, and she also can't stop herself from chasing assholes. Yet more notice of just how little this woman has put into thinking about *anything* important in her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 05:40 PM
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She's got that same feeling we all get after eating trashy junkfood instead of real, good, food. ​ At the end of the night, she's all alone in her house. Sure, she had someone to be "with" for a little while. But he's not here with her permanently. It's cheap. It's tawdry. It's nowhere near the real thing. As she's past 30 now, reality starts to creep in closer and closer. This may be all she ever gets from a boy. ​ Again, just like eating junkfood. It tastes great in the moment, but not long af…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 05:33 PM
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I think we are close to cracking this case wide open!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/19 08:29 AM
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You cannot choose what others find attractive, but you can work towards being what others find attractive. Either that, or accept the diminished results in the dating world. Exactly. There's the rub. She doesn't want to change, but doesn't want to accept the current lot of men that are attracted to her "as is." ​ I'm not about recommending people change themselves just to attract dates. It's a question that requires some self-introspection, and the answer is different for everyone. "Change" can …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/19 08:21 AM
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Saying "my children are my world!" while looking for dates is a contradiction. Statistics show that mom dating new men is usually bad for the kids. Child abuse, exposing your kids to sexual predators targeting them, and the general upheaval of their lives. Your kids are put at much higher risk of these things when mom dates new guys. ​ A woman's job is to secure the most stable unit in which to raise her spawn. To get there, that usually requires securing the most stable man first. As we all kno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/19 06:37 AM
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Do you know how women minds work? What's yours is ours, what's mine is mine. ​ So they think it should be perfectly acceptable to a lover to have to tolerate her kids. But not the other way around. ​ People with minor kids shouldn't be dating anyways. And it's specifically because of all the problems it brings with it. But these single mommas want to be exceptions to that rule.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 08:59 AM
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The name of the subreddit "WAATGM". ​ Do you not find it extraordinary that a woman such as this (good looks, great athlete, in contact with many many opportunities, etc) hasn't found one, not ONE single solitary fellow to marry? ​ Nobody is shaming her virginity. They are implying that when you have all the cards she has, and STILL haven't found a man interested to marry her-- SHE is the problem here. What that problem is precisely, we do not know. But something isn't right because surely she h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 08:45 AM
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Oh there is a lot. But the modern woman offers little benefit beyond pussy. ​ Women used to be able to cook, clean, raise their own children (yeah, NO DAYCARES crazy amirite??) and handle most of the other duties to running a household. Housewives didn't just sit around and eat bon-bons, barefoot and pregnant like feminazis propagandized about. It was an invaluable responsibility for the strength of the family unit, handled by women. In more polite society, they often also took on roles of handl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 12:10 AM
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Must not want any competition at the dinner table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 10:54 PM
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Something about cows and free milk is springing to mind here...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 10:53 PM
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Know why chicks like these just LOVE the gay guys as friends? Because it's a 'safe' way to get some of the benefits of male companionship without having to actually risk anything. Unfortunately for them, the price is missing out on the most intimate connection they need. That we ALL need. When I say 'safe', it's about things like having to risk being put out of your comfort zone in an actual love relationship. Putting your heart on the line with someone that may hurt you. That may not do exactly…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 08:04 PM
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Not quite 30, eh? Look at that fucking cellulite on her fat ass. It's so bad it's wrapping around the leg, and we can see it from a full front shot. Jinkees! What do you imagine that will look like in 5 years or so?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 11:48 PM
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FEETS DON'T FAIL ME NOW!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 11:44 PM
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I'll try to organize this as best I can, but the old brain isn't working well today. > When I talk about Western Civ, it's important to note that The U.S. is at the forefront of WC, and therefore America's values (or lack thereof) have been the greatest influence over WC in the past century. ​ > In my context, "nice guy" does not mean 'pussy'. ​ All this talk about "nice guys finishing last", Red Pills Purple Pills Blue Pills and MGTOWs generally lays the responsibility at the feet of men for th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 11:41 PM
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May I recommend 'The Maury Povich Show'?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/19 07:20 PM
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Yeah I saw some article by some thot complaining about her last 40some dates over past year. Hiw they were all losers blah blah. And I thought; most men would have to live several lifetimes to see 40 dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/19 07:18 PM
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'Sleep with'? I'll bet there wasn't much sleeping going on...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/19 06:57 PM
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God these profiles in WAATGM world... always so basic. Boring. Uninspired. Why not describe some things you like to do or are interested in, and why you are interested in them? You can spare plenty of space to WAATGM?, or rip on Trump (srs, only flaming liberals care about politics THIS much.. I never brought up my conservative leanings in the early stages of any relationship because it does not define me). ​ But no time to give us some actual insight into you? Basic bitches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 07:06 PM
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I mean seriously most women aren't prudes you're just not hot enough. Why is being chaste considered a 'prude'? Abstaining from adultery should be a positive trait sought after in one's potential mate. Expecting a higher standard of one's self and the person you may be dating does not in any way correlate with being afraid of sex. ​ And Dave isn't a situational anything. He's a man doing his own thing. No need for labels like everybody wants to toss around nowadays. I have immense respect for a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 07:00 PM
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Yeah, I dunno but Heather appears to be close to 40. Maybe it's the lighting, but at least early 30s. Wall zone. ​ Would be cool to hear this stuff coming from a girl you are dating when she's 18 or 20. But most aren't into common sense at that time because they don't have to be, and still get plenty of attention from men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 06:52 PM
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Yeah, in their head it's totally "settling." Meanwhile, in reality it's no such thing, it would be an improvement. Building a life with somebody that actually loves you is hardly "settling." ​ But when you live in fantasy delusion land, it sure sounds good while petting your cat and watching Sex in the City marathons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/19 05:15 PM
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ALWAYS double down on stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/19 05:13 PM
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I'll bet it is harder for her nowadays. ​ I don't know about the rest of you, but tattoos on a woman are a complete turnoff. Beyond the oh-so-basic-bitch connotations that it brings, of a woman doing the sheep thing, it is rarely an improvement to their beauty. ​ If I saw this chick out and about, I'd simply not give her the time of day. I'm no Chad, but I'm better than average and get my fair share of attention. Of the millions of men like me, I'm sure plenty feel the same way about the tats an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 03:37 PM
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This sub is about "WAATGM" and this thread is about a bailout broad. Where is the incel part?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 03:32 PM
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What does that make you, then? For reading subs you wish to insult?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 02:29 PM
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You could look at it that way. ​ Or you could see it that she's not getting what she wants. And it's killing her. ​ Sex feels good. And it comprises roughly 1% of a person's time. The other 99%, she isn't happy. If one were into schadenfreude..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/19 06:09 PM
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Uh oh. Looking like this girl is about to cash some reality checks. Cha-ching! ​ All in all she's just another brick in the wall. Might we suggest getting some cats?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/19 06:05 PM
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Yeah, communicating is how you improve sexual relation with your spouse. Crazy, I know. To tell each other what you like, don't like, and experiment a little. All easy things you want to do and made all the richer because you love them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 08:28 PM
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Holy fuck the arrogance of this woman. Thinks her looks are all there is, sounds like the other women ticked the supporting your man box, seems like it worked they both went onto good careers. These women might not have been as good looking but traded smart using their youth and locking down quality at a young age. Gee, imagine that? Women choosing to invest in a relationship with a 'good man' when they found one, instead of branch-swinging mentality causing them to keep waiting/chasing those 'b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 05:08 PM
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Doesn't matter what she does. I hope he has the sense to ghost any attempts from her. That solves the problem for him completely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 05:05 PM
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It's a bullshit statement. No different than when you hear people say "you got to have sex and live together BEFORE you are married! you have to know if you are compatible." ​ Meanwhile, sex is pretty uncomplicated. Dick-->vagina. There you go. Really need help on that one, eh? And living together works out fine when you are married, assuming you chose your spouse with some serious consideration. It'll hammer itself out. ​ Same shit for these "i got to explore the world!" idiots. You can do that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 05:03 PM
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Wow, she probably has dozens of men throwing cash at her every night... and she STILL can't find a "good man"? Oh Lawdy, there's no hope for you regular ladies out there then! It may take you a month or more to find dozens of men throwing attention your way. It's gonna take forevvvvaaaaaaa to find that "good man" you been searching for at every dive bar, frat party, street corner, club, stoner concert, tattoo parlor, or other assorted high class social areas. ​ It's just NOT FAIR!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 04:59 PM
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How do I move on without caving in to his manipulation (I know he will try eventually)? She asks this after telling her tale of woe. She needs more motivation to cut this guy off forever? Typical hamster bullshit. Despite the cold, hard hand of reality bitchslapping her... She still doesn't want to admit the truth. There's no iron in her words. She'll cave the very first time he shows up for some easy sex. Because all the bad stuff isn't going to convince her that he's bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/19 05:32 PM
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Stop dating right now. Lay off it for at least the next year while you begin to get your shit together. Get the book "Bad Childhood---Good Life: How to Blossom and Thrive in Spite of an Unhappy Childhood" by Laura Schlesinger. Read it and start to unpack your personal mess. It might be necessary to get professional help if you really can't handle it on your own. ​ You seem to have an inkling of an idea that things aren't right, and aren't gonna be right if you let them keep on as is. So you have…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/19 04:37 AM
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Looks like she has found one of these elusive "good men"... and she's about to throw him away. ​ <insert sad trombone effect> ​ Oh well, here's hoping he's plenty smart enough to ditch this moron fast. Wouldn't want a good man to go bad after being shit on by this selfish girl child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/19 04:31 AM
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She wasted FIVE years of her valuable prime with her head shoved in the sand. Because that's the only way to not know the boy she was letting do her is a nogoodnik. But she just glosses over it nonchalantly. Then of coutse, the mandatory thurrpy to hash over it while doing ZERO to address why a supposedly high value chick like herself would willingly make such a poor choice. One of my exes was like this. Had a string of crap relationships (im dumb af too for thinking i could 'fix' her), even one…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 12:43 PM
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Can't be bothered to write about herself, even in a dating app where more information would be useful to getting the potential matches that could make her happy? Yeah, that's a hard pass. If you can't be bothered about dating me, neither can I be bothered with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 12:42 AM
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Their children *should* be their world. And they shouldn't be dating until those kids are 18. ​ There is nothing wrong at all with the "idea" that these children should be their world. Except that isn't what they mean at all, because they are putting their (mom) desire for sex/dating in front of their children. So they aren't honest about it. ​ And even if you could take women like this at their word, that essentially means you would be willingly signing up to be 3rd or 4th fiddle in her life. W…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 12:41 AM
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Why do you feel the need to use such violent and angry language about it? Where in my post was anything violent or angry? In fact, I state that I don't envy the position many forums and their mods have to maintain. They can't allow free thought because it's not allowed anymore. You can and will be sued into oblivion for it. Perhaps you are angry with some other poster(s) and decided to take it out on my post? Not sure about that one. Edit: I also refrain from calling people "pieces of shit" beca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 12:33 AM
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"not be forced to anyone else" ... "That is why we police this forum and delete racism." Cognitive disconnect? Oh how I miss the days when crimes were only crimes because they physically impeded another person's right to life, liberty, or property. But God bless the mods that have to walk the insane line between adulting and protecting ninnies from hurt feefees (or the lawyers they hire).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 12:10 AM
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You don't sometimes take selfies in your boxers with your ass up on the table and closer to the camera than your sparkling personality? We've alllllll done it brah. Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/19 05:23 PM
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She's oh-so-close to piecing together the clues, Velma! ​ As an aside that popped into my head reading her complaint about these online dating apps-- she's getting a taste of how men get treated on them. It's simply a meat market, where physical beauty is the overwhelmingly dominant factor in potential dating. It's become a plague, and has lead to reinforcing the vapid, shallow culture. ​ The cold hard reality she's gonna have to face, if she chooses to dress like a man, is one 80% of men have t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/19 06:02 PM
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When I see the "men are intimidated by my success" trope, it's like saying "my business is failing because customers are intimidated by my product." ​ It's beyond stupid. It's downright lazy. ​ Let's assume for a minute that it were true. Stating it isn't doing anything about it. Why are they not biting? Just stating it like it's' some immutable fact, is the lazy way to go about your life. ​ I don't need to break down the dozens of reasons why men are, in fact, not intimidated by her at all. And…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/19 05:50 PM
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ME? ME ME ME ME ME! ME ME LOL! ​ I think of that Beaker from the Muppets when I think of women and their "ME ME ME ME"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 07:15 PM
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Luckily the problem can be summed up right in the first sentence: Maybe I just care too much, but it astounds me how many men out there seem to have no interest in getting a woman to like them. Gentlemen, there is often not much you can do to "get a woman to like you". Either she likes you before you interact with her (due to attractiveness / status), or she doesn't like you upon first impression and trying to get her to change her mind is more trouble than it's worth. I can't remember the book …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 07:13 PM
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That seems like a troll post. Unless my bullshit detector is broken today, I'm not biting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 07:07 PM
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A lot of those men spent the prime of their lives working to support their family. So they didn't get much "me" time, while the wife and kids got all the me time they desired. ​ Post 50 freedom may mean more chances to do the things you always wanted to do but never had the time/money when you were younger. Fishing, boating, woodworking, whatever hobby interests them. And pussy-pounding isn't as attractive any longer since they aren't going to be building any new family. So why pay the pussy-tax…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 04:00 PM
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Or they've done the family thing, including the kids/sacrifices/time commitment/effort, and simply aren't interested in doing that again. Which then begs the question: Why would I date? If dating is the prelude to a LTR that he is no longer all that interested in. ​ There are plenty of men that have been chained to a marriage most of their adult lives, and welcome the freedom they missed when single. Just throwing that out there. Sort of like the reverse of THOT carousel-riders that want to do t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 03:23 PM
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You got it. ​ Most women are surrounded by men just about anywhere they go. They simply aren't interested in anything below top 20% because they have ridiculously over-inflated, unrealistic egos. When any of these 80% sub-humans try to flirt or approach, these gals use it as fodder for their "men are so creepy all the time!" screeds to their friends and social media. The same exact things these 80% sub-humans do, if done by a Chad would make these girls giggle with joy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 03:18 PM
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You caught that as well? I'll bet the guys that showed up really felt appreciated. /rollseyes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 03:16 PM
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One never really 'quits' Skyrim. You may take a sabbatical. But it can pull you back in any time. Probably will for years to come if Bethesda's recent track history causes TES6 to get rushed out the door.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 03:14 PM
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Let's be real: No God-fearing Christian is going to use Jesus' name as part of a joke. ​ Not that any of us believe she's an actual practicing Christian. The bastard child blew that one out of the water.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/19 01:20 PM
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Know how dogs will return to their own vomit and eat it? Yeah. That's what it's like going back to exes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 02:13 AM
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Just look at the numbers over the past half century. Less people than ever are getting married, and of the ones that do the divorce rate is in the 50% range! It's incredible. You can get into the nitty gritty of laws like no-fault divorce, custody rights, child-support, turning away from organized religion and it's family structures, etc etc have corralled modern society into this position. But that's a long talk. ​ Suffice to say, it's not exceptional to see infantile, selfish people absolve th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 10:34 PM
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Dr. Laura says there's two things you need to do when choosing your (potential) spouse: Choose wisely, treat kindly. ​ Often when callers to her show (typically women) call up and ask for relationship advice as their marriage is failing, she basically frames her questions around this premise. Why? Because the average woman in a failing marriage wants to blame the man. (Children do this. So there are men that do it too, but most of these calls are women). ​ So by Laura's very calculating question…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 10:26 PM
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Saying "the marriage failed" is passive speak. Common amongst the irresponsible. It's like how the "streets are violent" or "shots rang out", as it lacks an active subject. It lacks the person *making the streets violent* or *firing the shots*. ​ It's a telltale sign when you see it in a person's speak. They aren't accepting, even acknowledging, any control or responsibility in it. ​ Now, news story writers do it so that the persons responsible aren't seen or blamed. When a woman does it in tell…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 10:19 PM
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You don't pay much attention to television, movies, internet blogs, discussion boards, facebook, and social media, do you? ​ Or are you just a troll?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/18 05:36 AM
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Do you know what flirting is? Responding politely to a compliment does not constitute flirting. So your premise that one needs to say they have a boyfriend during any interaction with a man is faulty. There's a difference between graciously accepting a compliment, and accepting compliments while giggling, fluttering eyelashes, slightly biting lip etc. You know, the subtle movements and actions that signal your interest in the other person. I have dozens of interactions with the opposite sex on a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/18 11:31 PM
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Well of course it's controversial. But then, truth in the face of fantasy often is controversial.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 10:21 AM
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One of Ann Coulter's older books had a chapter in it "Victim of a crime? Blame a single mom." It went on to eviscerate the notion that single moms should be held up as some sort of modern day saints or celebrated in any way. Their malfeasance in relationships causes visible blowback when their children become problems across the board for society. We all end up paying the costs, whether through stolen tax dollars for welfare, or from higher crime rates, dysfunctional members of society that cont…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 04:41 AM
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There should always be a spot in your heart for the innocent children in these dramas. They had no control over the situation and will pay the consequences regardless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 01:41 AM
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It's good for a glimpse into the mind of dysfunctional women. Though, don't look too long lest it starts to sound... normal. It makes clear to the critical observer just how actual dysfunction requires two willing participants. Once you know that, these hamsters are actually laughable. As they spin their yarn trying to shirk all blame and responsibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/18 01:43 AM
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These hipster millenials are so clever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 06:58 PM
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PikaTHICC! ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/18 04:38 AM
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That's the most basic one. The tit pix. "I want you to take me serious as a person!" ... <posts pictures objectifying my body> ​ :\
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 11:57 PM
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Sounds like a troll.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 11:56 PM
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I'm not commenting on the situation. I'm commenting on part of the defence of these situations. One of the primary supports is "she can't help it she doesn't feel that way about him". And I accede to that point. Because honestly, you can't fully control your feelings about a thing. Whatever that thing may be. But I use that exact same logic to defend the man in these friendzone situations. He too has feelings that are likely beyond his direct control. Yet somehow, these men get vilified for it l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 11:48 PM
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Purposely left ambiguous. Fill in between the lines as you see fit. Reflects on you personally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/18 11:41 PM
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Or, and this is a crazy thought, just not have government funded public assistance at all. Then it's not our problem if you are fucking and making babies with boys that aren't your husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 07:07 PM
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Once you go down a certain path, ahem, your options in the dating pool get restricted real fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 07:06 PM
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That requires insight and introspection beyond the basic THOT's ability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 07:01 PM
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Some of these manosphere boards lose focus on the key point of enlightenment. I WISH I had this plethora of access to this politically incorrect thoughts and discussion when I was a young fellow. I like to see these sorts of discussion boards as teachable moments for men. Many of whom have been inundated with nonsense by intentionally focused entertainment medium meant to brainwash them. Assailed by female culture, often from their own single mothers or bitter mothers of broken family, in some s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 06:56 PM
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Right. We don't need shaming here. We can get that on other subreddits when posting there, as the internet Sherlocks cruise your post history when they lose an argument.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 06:49 PM
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Classic vid. Should be required viewing for all young men before they walk into this firepit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 06:36 PM
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Help finding a good man from J-Lo? The same J-Lo that has 3 failed marriages, 2 of which barely lasted a year? The third failing when she had 3yo children, that now have a broken family? The J-Lo that was involved with Pdiddy and was arrested with him in connection with a shooting outside a club in NY? She was exonerated, but he wasn't.. chose a quality man there, non? Yeah. This is some quality shit right here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/18 04:36 AM
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Why? Makes me feel lucky I'm not involved with this moron. Or the army of yoyos that 'liked' that idiocy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/18 04:30 AM
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Because memes are childish, simplistic versions of satire. And we all know how well women do with satire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/18 04:29 AM
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The "friend" or the cheating whore of an ex? NM. Both deserve a punch. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/18 04:29 AM
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Wull clearllllyyyy dick size is your fault, amirite? Also, the only men not over 6' are slackers. herpaderp
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/18 04:28 AM
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Sometimes reality is stranger than fiction... But yeah my BS detector lights up on some of those posts as well. I can count the number of self-aware women I've met on one hand, with 4 fingers to spare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/18 06:27 PM
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They are mental and emotional children. Children live life that way. Extreme ups and downs. Very little in between. Office was better. But Parks & Rec had Ron Swanson.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 07:34 PM
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... u a single momma.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 12:39 AM
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This doesn't seem unreasonable. It's scientific fact that short men are all bad. It's as provably true as all women with small tits or fat asses are all turrble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/18 12:38 AM
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With the dismantling of the standard Nuclear Family unit as the result of decades of propaganda and disinformation targeted mostly at the Christian principles that outlined America (the pinnacle of Western Civ), there is no longer any bulwarks to support the children of today. These are lost souls. There is no longer strong leadership in the household to raise well-adjusted children. Whether it's the single momma raising society's next problem child, to the broken family due to mom and dad's sel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 12:25 AM
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I lol'd. Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 12:12 AM
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She seems very intriguing. Likes rock music and funny cartoons. So rare to find somebody that would enjoy either of those things, let alone both! WOWZAS!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 09:19 PM
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Doesn't sound like this girl is mature enough for a relationship. Oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 09:17 PM
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Sounds like a whole lot of rationalizing for being a slut. Typical hamstering. The entire point of marriage, at least the Christian version of it, is the commitment to one another. It's a serious decision fraught with serious problems to overcome when considered in terms of "rest of our lives." When treated with the gravitas it demands, it becomes a critical building block to stable societies. Not to get too philosophical here, but this bedrock of stability is key to producing quality people, wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/18 06:51 PM
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He is to blame as much as the woman. This is where many of these RedPill/MGTOW/men's rights movements veer off the tracks. They are so set on seeing women as the problem, and the modern Western woman IS a problem, that they look right past the many many problems of the modern man. I'm not going to break down every mistake in that post, as it's third hand anyways. But it contains lots of overspending, lack of discipline, lack of control and leadership in the marriage, and lack of responsibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/18 06:37 PM
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It's cool that we can have surveys to confirm what's been basic human knowledge in Western Civ for a few thousand years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/18 06:30 PM
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She's not only into Doritos, she's an 'enthusiast.' How interesting and attractive!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/18 05:34 AM
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Why hide it? If you are a prostitute, what's the difference between 100 cocks or 1000? Afyer a certain point, it doesn't mean worse. It's akin to our Big Gubmint telling us they are 22 trillion in the red. The number is so obscenely high as to be inconceivable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 11:00 PM
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Look, you clearly have an axe to grind. I'm not the one to do it with. But you just compared eating pork to the most important intimate connection between a man and woman. Later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:47 PM
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"What you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 06:11 PM
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t's about placing clear restrictions / prohibitions on someone without any kind of logical, tangible context. You're wrong. Again, consult your local clergy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 07:43 AM
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It's part of the assault on "toxic" masculinity in Western Civ. I don't want to take you too far down the rabbit hole... But there's a reason many of the leftist agenda involves assailing the very bedrocks of Western Civ and Christianity (which are inextricably intertwined).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/18 02:58 AM
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B-but.. How is she supposed to know they are a loser before dating and fucking them for months or years?? Kappa If only there was a way...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:38 PM
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It's not any more or less prevalent. What IS more prevalent is internet. That makes it far easier to be exposed to these idiots. Which can make one think there are more than there used to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:37 PM
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Your preacher is there to help you grasp the context. A good one will aid his congregation in understanding the how and why behind God's word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:35 PM
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You got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:34 PM
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It happens... On TV. Check out the basic Lifetime or Hallmark channel movie. Women at or past the wall, often with kids, always with some odd personality quirks... And Prince Charming not only falls in their lap, but is totally focused on getting them while overcoming the obstacles the hamster throws in front of him. The women that write that shit, along with the dummies that lap it up, are more prevalent than you think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:32 PM
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Do these chicks put those pics focused on their tits on their profiles? Or are the faces cut by posters on internet (to protect their identity)?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:26 PM
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Men are not complicated. Dr Laura's advice to "Choose wisely, treat kindly": if a woman does the first part right and chooses a decent guy, it's not difficult to keep marriage strong. Feed em and fuck em. That's about all a woman needs to do. Most of these women aren't willing to do either. Or treat sex like it's some godawful chore. The sexual, physical connection to the woman (he loved enough to marry) is critical to a man's happiness. And honestly, that's why many of these women withhold it. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 11:18 PM
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What the fuck? Go to a church or women's shelter you moron.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 05:55 AM
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Exactly. The sooner you stop seeking external validation for your life, the sooner you start getting a whole lot happier with who you are and what you are doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 03:02 AM
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Most fellows have a similar story (or stories for us dumber ones Kappa). My "waking point" was in a similar she wanted to bask in my feelings of adoration, wanted me to be an emotional confidante and source >of entertainment (because her female friends were all vapid bitches) but didn't take me seriously >enough to get into a legit relationship. Except we were actually fucking. She was still dabbling around with her ex, and wasn't ready to make the full break and be with me openly. What really b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 03:01 AM
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In the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy", the author discusses "covert contracts". Basically, 'nice' guys often are doing things for others because they feel they must provide value to others or negative things would happen. Often doing these things covertly, manipulating without real malice, they'd end up feeling bad when the other side of the 'bargain' didn't reciprocate in kind. Even though they never even made it clear what they wanted in the first place. A big part of destroying 'nice guy syndrom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 02:52 AM
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'People' don't think that. 'Women' and feminism want that to be true and so they've pushed that narrative. Complete with vilification of guys that don't accept it. Of course women would push this, because they can get the benefits of male companionship, without having to give anything back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 05:47 PM
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Those comments... I only agree with one concept there: a guy has feelings for woman, he can't turn it off. A girl doesn't have feelings for him, she can't turn them on. End. But where the disconnect with these thots and cucks lies, is that they want to badmouth and villify the guy in that scenario. Why? He's just as blameless for his feelings as she is for her lack of feelings. Years ago, when I finally shifted out of 'nice guy syndrome', it wasn't long before my number of female 'friends' fell …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 05:45 PM
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Are ther gymnasts in here? Who is 'flipping out'?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 07:30 PM
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Maybe YOU are a hater of women. Don't label the rest us. Thanks. Her entire thread describes WAATGM in a nutshell. Average looking, putting in zero effort to finding a good man, zero effort in looks, lists a history showing no-skill jobs, most of adult life as a 'student', and 'parenting' pets. Hitting the wall at 31 where it's beginning to dawn on her that her 'good man' that every woman deserves (lol) never showed up and did all the work to give her the fairytale life she so richly deserves be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 07:29 PM
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Interestingly enough, most people no longer own cows because they can get milk cheap at the store.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 01:01 AM
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How positively archaic!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/18 12:59 AM
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Sure it is. But this is reality. And it's one of many inevitable ends for cock-carousel, branch-swinging thottery. Don't you think it's important that young women HEAR this stuff too? Instead of just the "Sex in the City" view of the world where swinging from cock to cock to cock while gorging every carnal desire is not only RIGHT, but the path to happiness and enlightenment? Because it's not. And while most thots out there aren't gonna off themselves, they surely destroy their own lives and hap…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/18 09:13 PM
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This stuff always pulls me in two directions. One side genuinely feels humanly sorry for these fools in their foolishness. Because so many have been misled by feminism and a societal abandonment of Christian values. The other side has been victimized by ignorant thots like this, as has just about any man over the age of 12, and it amuses me to no end. Thots aren't some caricature. Most come in packages like this. Relatively attractive but not 10s, OK intelligence, seemingly decent women. And the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/18 09:01 PM
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I say people that just want to 'fuckzone' other people are selfish pieces of shit. Shouldn't we also say that people that just want to 'friendzone' other people are selfish pieces of shit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/18 06:51 PM
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They take a passive outlook on life. Especially these thots who get accustomed to 'fuckboyz' spitting game at them. Never one to take responsibility, they surely don't want to hear that you have to WORK in life to get the things you want. And getting GOOD things require plenty of that work. I don't care WHAT you want. What are YOU DOING to get it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 10:51 PM
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The genesis of the tag 'conservative' is to 'conserve' something. Classically, this has been to conserve the mores of a society, especially in the battlefield of politics. Not that today's Conservatives are anything close to that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 07:12 PM
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God bless her soul for at least saying to you that premarital sex has a non-refundable cost. Of course a young, horny teen would think it sounded 'stupid' sinve it would get in the way of 'fun'. There is an entire ocean of pro-sex, pro-casual-hookup propaganda inundating people, especially impressionable horny teens, today. That teacher's voice is like spitting in the wind. But she did it. And truth be told, it's message reached you because you remembered it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 07:10 PM
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Dun dun DUNNNN! Plot twist!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 02:54 PM
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I like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 08:33 PM
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That's boring. To suggest that we ought to teach teen girls and boys that they shouldn't just fuck fuck fuck is square and opressive. What we see now is the fallout of ignoring concepts of moral restraint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 03:28 PM
1

Simply be blunt. These are women you are not currently in a sexual relationship with. ​ "I'm not your emotional tampon." "It's not my job to fix your problems." "Sounds like you should talk to your girl friends about that." "I have things to do. I don't have time for this." ​ Etc. I'm not suggesting you go out looking for a fight. But you need to learn to recognize when you are being asked for something that is above and beyond your current position in the relationship. ​ The types that are only…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 06:39 AM
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Now, all of a sudden you're not awesome, not a great guy, not worth it. All those words were phony. In a more precise way; She gets what she wants out of the relationship, and you don't. ​ That pill is the hardest to swallow, but it's also the one that breaks you from being friend-zoned or put into orbit. It's uncomfortable sometimes when you confront these women in your life, but it's SO worth it in saved frustration and pain. You weed out these disingenuous, selfish people from your life. Sudd…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:49 AM
1

I'm always astounded at these trifling hoes thought process when posting on a dating app. Who in their right mind thinks character flaws and faults should be listed in the first paragraph some potential suitor would see about you? I realize most of these thots don't have 2 brain cells to rub together and spark an original thought. But she at least recognizes that her foul language, smoking habit, and lack of quality decision making reflected in being a single mom of young child.. are NOT good th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:39 AM
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How exactly would we enforce this group think or group action? ​ Isn't it better to have standards for YOU? And to enforce them in YOUR life? ​ It's not easy. But them's the breaks in modern Western Civ. Like looking for needles in haystacks anymore. That's not a reason one can't have standards for one's own relationships though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:33 AM
1

"Change" doesn't tell us positive or negative. Hope and change in one hand, and shit in the other...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:31 AM
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So, what she's saying is she's absolute shit at distinguishing people who are worthwhile from ones who are worthless Well, duhhhh. Wouldn't be a "WAATGM" if she could separate the wheat from the chaff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:26 AM
2

I'll bet she does have custody. "New to the area" usually means that she left town to get away from dad, or left town because dad's doing nothing to help with the kid anyways. As well as trying to leave her legacy as town trollop behind her and get a fresh start, yo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/18 07:23 AM
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He IS being judgmental. Which is correct. It's only in recent era of low-morals that the concept of being critically judgmental about things has become a 'bad' thing. We should ALL be more judgmental. Would help us avoid a helluva lot more self-inflicted pain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 04:16 PM
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Honestly, we had never really spoke in depth about our sexual history/past before...I don't know >why, but at the time I guess I just never really thought about it. It didn't seem like it'd be an >issue. Hold the horses. This guy fianceed her up, and he never thought it was important beforehand to ask about sexual history? This guy had to know something was up. That's why he never asked. Didn't want to know. And if not for the drunken mishap where the truth spilled out of her mouth, he would hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 03:29 PM
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Which is akin to saying "I 'value' being slim, fit, and healthy. But I want to eat double-chocolate cake every day." Ultimately, what's at the top of your list for desires is what you value most. These women value Chads the most, which is why they get none of the other things. Last stop: WAATGM?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 04:46 AM
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Let's not get lost in the specifics or how it ended. Focus on the important part: this guy is sweet, listens to her, cares aboit her, and treats her better than any other schmuck she's dated. And she doesn't want him. When women yap about wanting exactly those things, they're just lying. To themselves and everyone else. It's a values issue. They 'say' they want these things, but in reality they don't value these things. And as such they'll move onto the next horse on the carousel. Eventually exi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/18 07:44 PM
25

5'2" and nearly 300 lbs? And she couldn't be bothered to lose 20? Sounds like the boyfriend was just looking for something, anything in the effort department from her because she sure as fuck needs to lose more than 20 lbs. Try 200 lbs. I don't feel sorry for him though. He picked a fat chick, so he got a fat chick and he doesn't get to complain. She's selfish and petty for packing on another 20 to spite him. He's stupid and silly for asking the fat chick he chased to lose any weight at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/18 07:09 AM
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He: "No. It would be you using me, you getting what you want, but me not getting anything I want. So no." For any readers out there having problems being stuck in orbit or "friendzoned"- this is basically the key to fixing that problem. Recognizing that relationships of any kind require some balance in the giving and taking. Even just a casual conversation is a facet of your relationship with this person (stranger, friend, or modest acquaintance). And there is nothing wrong with having expectati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/18 08:42 AM
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Men are not actors. These women know exactly what kind of guy they are getting. Most know. Some truly don't but it's because they willingly choose to be ignorant. However, most that know never admit it because that would mean having to accept responsibility for the bad relationship. Much easier to just blame the bad boy. My brother is an example, but I sure as hell have many others. My brother does not lie or trick >women. Women are full of shit when they say a guy has changed or he started out …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/18 08:33 AM
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Why do you always end up with broken guys? Because you 'don't judge and are very understanding with Messiah complex'. That's why. You want these broken guys so you can fix them. You want to fox them so you can find value in yourself for having done so. Not that complicated really. I had an ex like this chick. Back in my younger and dumber days, I thought I was gonna be different from her typical bf. Turns out people that have a history of loser relationships tend to crave that dynamic. And when …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 06:12 PM
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It takes two to tango. Normal healthy people don't stay in relationships with dysfunctional people. They leave long before they are balls deep. This of course flies in the face of Lifetime Channel Movies and Oprah narratives. Where good, normal women are victimized by awful, fkd up men. You know the tropes. Guy is a no good bastard that tricks innocent, wholesome woman into believing he's good folk. Then when he has her in his clutches, he abuses and treats her turrible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 05:41 PM
3

Dr. Laura has always pushed this basic concept. It's not YOUR job to be a white knight. It's YOUR job when dating to learn about the other person, and do so as objectively as possible (which means keep your dick in your pants). Then, if you see she has a litany of problems or difficulties, RUN IN THE OTHER DIRECTION. ​ And that's one of the many reasons I love Dr. Laura. She's one of the few serious people willing to tell guys the truth instead of beating them over the head with new-age feminist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/18 05:26 PM
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Boils down to: “guys who treat me well don’t turn me on” Right-O. These girls value the wrong things. ​ What's crazy about the whole thing is that guys that are being nice to a girl because they are attracted, are made out to be the BAD guys for it. That's how upside down Western Civ is right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/18 05:21 PM
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I don't give morons that much credit. ​ It's simplistic operation to try and namecall opponents of your thoughts. The muddier, the better. It's no different than a toddler calling another toddler a dum-dum head when they disagree about something. ​ If I didn't have a leg to stand on, I'd be getting busy name-calling too. Because let's face facts: these morons' arguments (I use that term loosely) are so thin you could read the newspaper through them. ​ It's group-think at it's only strength. Shou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/18 05:10 PM
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Petition to change the name of this subreddit to "WhereIsAllTheGoodMenAt"? WIATGMA
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 12:07 PM
12

Work? "He's never there for me." Don't work or don't work enough? "He's a bum that can't buy me what I want."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 12:06 PM
3

But, but... muh vagina! I should be different than men and shouldn't have to deal with the facts of life that I won't get along famously with 95% of the people I meet in the world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 12:05 PM
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I remember saying something along the lines of "I'm bored" as a kid, to my aunt. She promptly found me plenty of extra chores to do "since I apparently couldn't find any ways to enjoy my free time with fun". ​ Never happened again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 12:04 PM
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Usually so. They expect their date to entertain them all night long like some hired clown. It's becoming worse and worse with kids given 24/7 'entertainment' toys for passive consumption. So they aren't developing self-entertainment initiative, and take that boring persona into adulthood. Idunno. I'd bet if this woman was half as funny or interesting as she thinks she is, there would be no shortage of guys that would have hit it off with her. ​ She's probably 'funny' like Amy Schumer is 'funny'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/18 12:03 PM
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Females literally don’t even consider our perspective Of course they don't. That would require empathy. Most of these bad women don't possess such a thing. Too busy thinking about how the patriarchy holds them down, and how men have all the power. Meanwhile, they can (mostly) just sit back and have their choice of men coming to them. It's so turrible being opressed!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/18 12:43 PM
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Serious question here: What exactly does a 25yo have to offer a 41yo single mom other than sex? There is nothing, absolutely nothing, in the "LTR" area there. ​ I know people like to joke. But when you are being serious, then jokes aren't helping. If you want to just be a piece of ass for some kid and let him do you? That's not serious about a relationship, love, or life. It's being a whore. ​ The reverse (a 40yo man doing 25yo women) has at least the prospect of a relationship because she can b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/18 01:39 AM
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Plenty of men do the same. It's not a man/woman thing. It's a fool thing. Bad values, bad decisions, bad results, lack of introspection and accountability. Rinse and repeat. It's something we need to always remind ourselves. Lest we become as bitter and toxic as this fool WAATGM crowd.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/18 01:25 AM
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I love the ones that think leading off a profile with your character flaws is a good idea. Cuz you're supposed to just accept them right from the start...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 03:33 AM
4

Or better yet, do away with stealing taxpayers' money to distribute to derelicts. Then the problem solves itself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 09:26 PM
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Hold up. So these eggheads felt the need to 'do a study' about why children tend to follow in the footsteps of their parents. And still won't give an answer? Here's a clue, and it won't cost millions of dollars for a study: role models matter. Parents are THE biggest influence on a child. Nowadays, the school system is stealing that thunder, but parents still carry the most weight. It's not just their words. It's their actions. So when mom and dad are selfish, self absorbed assholes who only thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 04:49 AM
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Well, when a woman says 28, she's probably closer to 38. But that would be conjecture on my part... so I must concede your point Counselor. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/18 10:15 PM
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Thanks for standing up for what's right. These shenanigans go on all across Reddit. I've had plenty of idiots try to discredit a post by digging up posts from other subreddits as if that alone is an argument. Or that unless we completely 100% agree with each and everything a person says, we can't agree with anything. Same clown approach to rewriting history.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/18 08:11 AM
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She's shit testing you. Women like that aren't worth the effort or pain they cause. Move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 07:33 PM
3

How many brides do you suspect are actually virgins today? Are YOU tarded?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 06:16 PM
12

Imagine the inverse of that list from a man talking about his wife. Think it would be flooded with likes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 11:07 AM
9

Nah. More than 1 is too many. Being a virgin for your future spouse is useful for many reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 11:05 AM
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secret most young people have no clue about: THE BRIDE'S DRESS IS WHITE AS SHE IS A PURE VIRGIN. that was the original symbolism. Wow. How old are you? Because most people under the age of 50 don't even know what that means. ​ One time at work, one of the office ladies was prattling on about a friend getting married (again) and her dress. The description was about it's color (white) and I said "White is for a virgin bride. It's offensive to wear it any other way if marrying in a ceremony intende…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 11:04 AM
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Odd. She has pinned down her flaws. Unlike many who are clueless about their problems. ​ Yet she doesn't seem to be fixing them but rather is expecting a guy to just pretend it's not a problem. Hmmm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 10:59 AM
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So this dunce knowingly gets involved with a guy fresh off a LTR breakup, then has the stones to cry when he goes back to the ex? Where are the adults? This is precisely why you don't invest in a relationship with someone on the rebound. Or if they are still clinging to pining over an ex waaaaay past the sell-by date. There's a lesson in here for her. But let's be real her dumbass won't find it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 02:58 AM
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"no one really seems to care about meaningful connections"? The only person that needed to care about that was YOU, girl. And since you didn't, you ended up being a basic slut. Oh well. The "I deserve better" is nonsense spouted by shallow minds. You will deserve better when you start doing better. Every person gets exactly what the "deserve", barring incredible misfortune. Thots like this, who have no deeply seated moral compass for their life choices, are a dime a dozen. That's why they get pu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/18 03:55 PM
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Exactly. If they can behave like boys and you still let them do you, why should they aspire to be men? Being a man is a lot more responsibility and for most of us the only reason it (used to) happens is because you wouldn't get the time of day with a good woman otherwise. Women weren't rewarding boys with sex. It's the dirty little secret feminists don't want thots to know; that your older 'oppressed' women actually held quite a bit of power in shaping men. Biological instinct drives males to wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 04:50 AM
3

I've got two questions: Why should boys work hard to get girls if the girls don't demand it before spreading their legs? I know this is archaic, but when women demanded a man prove himself worthy by courting, then winning her, then marrying her before giving away the milk.. The prevalence of boys being boys instead of men was far less of a problem. Why do these girls care about a boy that's acting like a child and hasn't grown up? In the dating market, if you see one of these boys; keep walking.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 05:10 PM
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They don't like Red Pill because those guys are subscribingvto a philosophy that minimizes women's control over them. Personally, RP is just as fucked up as the current WAATGM idiots. Just in a different way. But that's a subject for other forums.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 05:03 PM
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It's any boy she lets do her, and then won't commit to her. Fuckboys can't exist without Fuckgirls that let them fuck without an actual commitment. Such is the life of fools that put the cart before the horse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 04:54 PM
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Guys, I've got a box of Kleenex if any of you want to wipe away your tears. Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/18 07:50 PM
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We get pissed when we do so and then you tell us we don't know what we're talking about because you heard something different while you were on a fucking layover in Detroit and watched three minutes of CNN sound bites between taco bell commercials. TBF, they probably stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last nite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/18 04:49 PM
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So from this little blurb, we know: ​ Her height. (insignificant) Her hair and eye color. (insignificant, and obvious from the fucking picture anyways) Her study. (she's in school?... is that a kid? in school WITH a kid? How and when is she going to find time to date?) ​ What, exactly is this meant to attract? It sure doesn't seem like she's putting too much effort in here. Does she think good men just fall out of the sky and will land in her lap?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/18 04:49 AM
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1. THEY QUESTION MY INTELLIGENCE. You know when you tell a guy you like sports and they question you with every meaningless stat line or irrelevant facts about a specific player? “You like football? What’s the quarterback’s girlfriend’s dog’s blood type?” Same thing happens when you mention your degrees. I’m constantly having to prove that I know what I’m doing regardless of my education level. Even worse, I’m mansplained by guys who have no business or expertise in the subject matter. ​ You res…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/18 04:41 AM
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Relationships require a Yin and Yang. Having two Yangs doesn't work out that well. ​ Women that are dominant, or want to be, would actually be better fits with men that are more submissive. But the dichotomy is that these women (that want to wear the pants in the relationship) end up resenting the type of men that are Yin to their Yang. Mostly because they can't wrap their heads around men having a 'role' other than the master, even though they themselves (the dominating woman) are busy trying t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/18 04:27 AM
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I learned at a rather young age that it takes two to tango. Very rarely is there a clearcut, 100% bad person as the cause of a bad relationship. Which of course flies in the face of all those Lifetime movies where every man is a no-good bastard ruining unsuspecting wonderful saintly women's lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 05:44 PM
3

For "the lifestyle to which I've become accustomed."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 05:40 PM
4

That's not it. They think their money will buy them protection from it. Very rich people aren't used to having to play by any rules as their wealth allows them to be impervious. Grease the right hands etc. They underestimate how badly they'll get hosed in a court system that grossly favors golddigging women. Or they just chalk the costs up to pocket change and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 05:39 PM
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Idunno. Did u see that latest guy that married Mariah Carey? Didn't he get soaked for millions in the divorce? Even marrying a rich chick isn't protection enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 05:36 PM
2

I personally prefer that they say these things if they think them. Let's me know to just pass on by. Well before I may have mistakenly spent any time or effort on them. Don't know why so many get upset enough about it to care. I sure wouldn't recommend choosing a woman based on factors out of her control, as I don't recommend women choose men on such things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 05:09 PM
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The sins of the father (and mother) are visited upon the son (or daughter).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 05:13 PM
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They value the wrong things. That's the dilemma. ​ Essentially, this dilemma is like many others. When presented with the "goodies" of the world, what is to govern your choices in taking or refusing them? ​ At the core of these arguments about our base human nature (that all operate from the premise that our animalistic and simple thinking are the key governing factors in our decisions), we are to believe that there are no other options. That's how animals do it on the Discovery Channel, so that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/18 11:50 PM
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It's the modern version of Letters to Penthouse baloney.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/18 02:02 AM
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Oh, that's your modern American. Social media to talk all about themselves with the me me me, websites to set up for panhandling with absolutely no shame about it. These people don't know humble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/18 11:05 AM
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One of my pet peeves is this love affair modern entertainment idiots have with this asinine pop psych concept of "phases" being used as an excuse for poor decisions and behaviors. There are certain things in life that are serious business. Things that once done, can't be undone. Paths that once you choose will forever change your life as you know it. Choices in these realms are not to be trifled with. Not to be taken at the whim of a "phase." Yet that's precisely what this nonsense pop psych and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/18 05:16 AM
3

It's the Hollywood culture. All the friends in the cult did/do the same things, so it MUST be how everybody does it. It's a dangerous dynamic. Especially to young or impressionable minds that consume these entertainment mediums. I remember some article way back, interviewing highschool kids. Only a small fraction were actually sexually active, but nearly all of them thought most highschool kids were sexually active. Their perception did not jive with the reality. But their perception is what dom…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/18 05:04 AM
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Who thinks 'coffee lover, foodie' is something to be listed on a dating app? I know, I know. It's beating a dead horse. But good grief these idiots honestly have no clue. If you think such things are so important they need to know upfront... How boring are you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/18 12:12 AM
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Women are disastrous "relationship coaches" because they always operate from the standpoint of "what is the advantage for *me*?" ​ At almost no point, do most of these "coaches" talk about the most important part of relationships: what value do *you* provide to *others*? ​ In my past, I have had many second thoughts when dating a new woman. Especially about myself and if I'm a valuable person. Yes, we all should operate our lives in the first goal of doing for ourselves. But it's still a seconda…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 12:40 PM
5

I work in heavy construction, and it is a male dominated field. Not because of any discrimination, but women simply aren't generally interested in it. The few women we get are often via government mandate, and for years it's already been difficult to have other workers 'mentor' or even simply teach as you would any men n00bs. The metoo nonsense has made it so much worse. The few women who might have some potential are left to their own devices for improving. Nobody will yell at them, let alone e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/18 02:12 AM
5

Get up, wash your face, and go do something FOR YOU. I don't care what the fuck it is. But don't let some asshole that treated you poorly continue to ruin your day. And don't waste one more fucking second of your life thinking about them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:45 AM
2

Spoken like a reasonable fellow. Unfortunately in Murica today, reason is a scarcity. A generation or two of softies that have never had to deal with difficulties in their life, or violations of their 'safe space', has led to any sort of counter thought being branded 'hateful.'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:43 AM
3

Group thinkers use this ploy. To lump any criticism of an individual as a criticism of a (protected) group so as to paint the critic as a bigot/racist/misogynist etc. Because they don't have a leg to stand on in the argument.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:40 AM
3

Because they want to leave the door of 'fantasy rape invented to gain some personal advantage' open as for their own potential use in the future. Humans tend to be that way. Remember when Bill Clinton had sex with a young intern in the Oval Office? Plenty of people 'didn't want to judge' because they too would have done such a thing if presented the opportunity. To rightfully persecute him for cheating on his wife, with a girl young enough to be his daughter, abusing his position of power... Wou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:37 AM
4

Right. You aren't allowed to express legitimate feelings and thoughts about it. Because the other side doesn't want discussion. They want rigid acceptance and rote mimicry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:32 AM
1

A cuck in the making!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:30 AM
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It's not a 'problem' for me. Once you 'know', you stop caring about Chad-chasers or other assorted foolishness in Thottery. That's the real key to happiness. When you look into yourself and realize that you are chasing bad women. It's not easy. Especially when you are fighting decades of indoctrination as well as your hormones. When I ran into these 'reformed' thots, I saw the signs as a 'stop wasting time on this one' instead of some sort of challenge for me. Finally found a good one once I fix…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/18 02:29 AM
12

Totes. There isn't a bit of teal anything in processed foods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/18 12:20 AM
9

Pretty much. There was a period in the late 90s into the 2000s when 'straight' guys that dressed and behaved like a gay were called 'metrosexuals'. A riff on 'homosexuals'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/18 12:17 AM
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Because it's entirely subjective. Her opinion can change 'flirting' to 'harassment' depending on if she likes the guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/18 08:34 AM
9

Short trip.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/18 05:20 AM
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He appears intimidated by such an accomplished and strong womyn. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/18 12:12 AM
3

Well, let's not blame the innocent child. The pic on the right is the look of chickens coming home to roost. Her terrible choices are grinding her down. Avoid this type like the plague. Or they'll grind you down too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/18 11:08 PM
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Why would they read the man's bio? They don't care what he likes or is like. It's all me me me me me. These women are fools to be avoided at all costs. That's partly something I don't understand about some of the MGTOW movement. Why hate these women or deconstruct their silly dating approaches and profiling? I think of it a 'Here's your sign' moment that let's me know they're a colossal fool and saves me from wasting my time on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/18 05:14 AM
3

Because he looks like one of those millenial fagsplainers that think ideas or concepts didn't exist before he thought of it or noticed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 06:16 AM
13

I too have seen greater empathy from men, even some hard boiled old codgers, than I've seen from women not named 'mom'. I've always surmised it's because men have the capacity to think of the welfare of others before themselves much more routinely than women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 06:15 AM
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You got it. Even accounting for modern day man-bun sissies, typically men don't broadcast their depressed feelings. Men only talk about things for a point. Not just to hear the sound of their own whining.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 06:12 AM
7

If only somebody had told them beauty is only skin deep!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 02:23 AM
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Ofcourse now you have feminist and white Knights who hijacked the term friendzone and makes it seem likes a bunch of douche bags who tries to be nice just to get laid. I always found that last part to be baffling. ​ Is it a terrible thing that a guy attempts to be "nice" because he wants to make love to a woman? Isn't that sort of the power that women have had for centuries? To be able to shape, cajole, and pressure BOYS into becoming MEN by holding the pussy pass until they earned it? ​ Instead…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 04:31 PM
8

Setting boundaries (on your sexing) doesn't come across as very authentic when you already have some crotch fruit following you around. Or when you have the 1000-cock stare, and the guy knows you have been giving the milk away for free to plenty of other guys in front of him. At best it's making life harder for him (when he can just move to the next bar stool and get a girl that's easier and will put out 20 minutes from now), and at worst it's a devaluation of his 'value' that you think he shoul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 04:26 PM
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Or any man, really. ​ It's long been known that having a broken family significantly lowers a woman's market value. Which was why for most of human history, it's not something most societies promoted or even tolerated. But we live in Modern America, where we are SO smart and SO enlightened that the laws of nature don't apply to us!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 04:23 PM
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Whoa hold your horses there, partner! That's almost sounding like crazy talk to suggest that a person could still be viable spouse material if they are less than a 9. ​ If thots can't think that way, neither should all these 'good men'. Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 04:21 PM
5

Pretty face. Doesn't have kids already. Uses respectable grammar and sentences. Seems to be able to put thoughts into words. ​ Needs to work on the attitude. Needs to be more realistic about first contact date expectations. Needs to get a handle on her SMV and perhaps be more forgiving. ​ Has potential. But is teetering on the precipice of "WAATGM" dumpsterfiredom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/18 03:41 AM
11

It's very reasonable to set a first date as "getting drinks" or something light. Especially in today's age of dating apps where dates are much easier to come by. It allows for an initial meeting to get a quick feel for each other, with no heavy time commitment. Useful if you two do not hit it off, but if you do it is easy to set up a second more substantial date. ​ Before dating apps, you often had real contact of some sort prior to setting up an initial date. So you already had the "light meeti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/18 03:36 AM
5

Dating the same "type", doesn't know it in the least. ​ That's the thing with these disastrous people. They never engage in any real introspection. The people you date, the people you are attracted to-- shows a lot more about yourself than most care to admit. There are lessons in there. Life is screaming for you to hear it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/18 03:31 AM
18

It's the mental gymnastics a woman goes through in her head to rationalize and justify any action she takes. The proverbial 'hamster in a wheel' spins and spins until she arrives at a justification for some stupid shit she is doing or has done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 07:40 PM
67

Once you can see, you are never able to unsee. Reading that unnecessarily long hamster post, you can't help but see the reality behind her hamster words. The foolishness of these girls is astounding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 02:59 PM
2

Well, who is the target audience? ​ Your typical, average man out here in the real world generally thinks this way. Your salt of the earth types. Same with many other "PC" issues. They may no longer be able to speak freely about it in public, so they keep to themselves. ​ A viewpoint like this is already legitimate to them. The persons that actually would need to hear it are leftist fools. And they aren't listening. I can assure you, the fact that the author of the book has a vagina instead of a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 07:49 AM
6

Which these self-infatuated idiots don't see. They don't see the massive amounts of time, energy, effort, and investment that over many stages it took to create this premium product. They stand in the vineyard of men, look around, and only see grapes. *They could help make the wine, they could invest time, energy, effort, and resources into growing with it, into growing alongside it and growing stronger together, Into refining the grapes into a wine that would be beautiful and personally tailore…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/18 10:00 AM
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Finally, there is a a pernicious, subtle secret whispering in the background of most of these stories that ought to be uncovered. This book focuses on men as its subject, but careful reading reveals another unacknowledged truth: Hurting men hurts the women who depend upon those men. Bingo. The point was never as much about 'helping' women as it was about hurting men. Women are the collateral damage because societies that shit all over men don't fare well as a group. There's a reason the only fem…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/18 07:28 AM
6

It's not some greater conspiracy. Not enough collective intelligence for that to be true. ​ It's a reflection of two things; employers that feel the crunch of government mandated price controls (minimum wage laws) and the general lack of humanity across the board. ​ So you get employers that have to squeeze every dime, cut every corner to stay viable especially in lower-skilled labor. And couple it with them viewing employees as dollar signs only, without the aspect of them being human beings. T…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 05:58 PM
18

Well, at least she's upfront about not wanting any competition. We know that she likely won't be interested in guys that aren't being chased by dozens of girls already, though. Her statement betrays her focus and thoughts. Seems bitter already. Needs a few more years to fully mature into a 'Where's all the good men? " thot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/18 02:09 PM
18

Something that stuck with me from my youth many moons ago was from some preacher's sermon: your conscience is like a field of flowers. Sin is like running through it. Every time you do, you trample some of the flowers. Do it enough and there won't be any flowers left. Sex is much the same. Every time you screw another partner, some of those special flowers are destroyed. Eventually there is nothing special of yourself left to give to your lover. That's why it is wrong to fuck every thing that mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 03:15 AM
19

Of course they are intimidated. She's gonna compare you to over 300 other guys. We all 'compare' sexual partners in some way or another. But seriously. You are correct. Guys aren't committing because she's used up goods.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 03:09 AM
5

Yeah I saw this story when it originally flared up. First thing I thought about? This used to be SOP for teaching our daughters how to grow into women. Oddly enough, it's much more effective in helping them find happiness in life, love, and marriage than the current feminist pablum about living in the moment for 'happiness'. If you are a lady and are confronted with a boy; you treat him as such and walk on. You don't even give him the time of day. You wait until you meet a man that behaves as a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 12:54 AM
9

The thing about it is, while women are not directly responsible for the actions of their man, they ARE responsible for condoning, accepting, rewarding, encouraging them. It's no different than any other personal relationship. You can't control others. But you can control how you respond to, reward, or deny others due to their actions. And in this way, you can influence them as well as take control of the sorts and types of relationships you have with them. But that's taking responsibility, and a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 12:43 AM
3

Funny. Remember when you used to directly ask forgiveness from the person you wronged? Pepperidge Farms remembers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:27 AM
6

Nice of you to notice the passive wording. Irresponsible persons often use such language. As well as media types that want to slant readers' perception of a story. As "shots ring out" on "streets that claim more lives" across "unsafe neighborhoods" of America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:25 AM
6

Right, right. Like she totally learned the wrong lesson from her mistakes. The actual lesson: she was phony the entire time. Whether from the initial lying and cheating, or the subsequent over-the-top buttkissing to 'make up for' her mistake. It's not real penance. That would require owning your own shit and having to dig into your soul about the person you are when you did what you did. "Crime and Punishment" by Dostoyevsky is a great study in this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:22 AM
3

These modern idiots constantly confuse the term 'endanger'. She could be asserting he was endangering her and the kids because he didn't want her to wastefully spend money on air jordans for the kid. Or plenty of dumb shit like that. When me and you think of endangerment, we think of a physically violent person. Or a very cruel person. Or one involved in a life of crime. Modern women just invent whatever fancy they imagine, and then make it out like their man is some no good bastard. Hamster 101…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:17 AM
4

She missed that lesson in Sunday School.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:13 AM
11

What you describe is "critical judgement." There was a time when it was understood to be vital for good decision making. Today it's slandered everywhere it is found by liberal idiots. Many different names for it. 'Slut shaming', 'bigot', 'sexist', on and on in all areas not just the ones involving dating. Judging people by their chosen appearance is a good way to be attacked as small minded. Meanwhile, Sally Hipster thinks her green hair, multiple piercings, lame tats, and 10y old girl fashion s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:09 AM
9

Pearls before swine...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/18 02:05 AM
42

'Unwarranted balls'? A free look into this girl's thinking process and values. To her, physical attractiveness is the ONLY value that matters. Hence, if a man does not have a lot of it, his value is low. Ergo he should not have any confidence. For him to have confidence is for him to have 'unwarranted' balls. This is why there is no hope for girls like her. Their criteria are so warped and distorted, that they are incapable of finding a good man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/18 05:56 AM
1

The laws exist because teenagers aren't allowed to make adult decisions. Adults screwing children is not an equal and balanced relationship. Even if society likes to joke about teenage boys getting to do some adult woman. It's still an adult engaging in adult activities with a child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 12:52 AM
7

Lay down with dogs, you get fleas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 12:46 AM
8

This wasn't about justice. It wasn't leaked to get 'justice 4 jimmy!' ​ It was leaked to muddy one of Weinstein's loudest accusers. ​ I'm not gonna defend that sack of garbage. Hollywood is full of depravity, abusers, users, and their (willing most of the time) victims. ​ I have no sympathy for these sharks. It's fun for us though to laugh at it all. The smug self-righteousness of these POUNDmetoo hags who were more than willing players in these power games. The complaints only come when the sex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 12:44 AM
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If you're Chad. The fallout extends much further though. In fact, one of the many tendrils of that rotten plant is the 'Where are all the good men?' dummies. Endless fodder, lads. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/18 03:28 AM
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Most women do not become more attractive with a degree. My experiences as well, that those ones seem to become insufferable. I prefer intelligent women, so I've dated several. I'll take the ones that didn't get brainwashed at college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/18 04:45 AM
7

Unfortunate for whom? Any guy dumb enough to ignore the blazing red flags simply because of looks gets everything he deserves and more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 10:25 PM
27

Reminds you of a poison apple *only* because she smokes? The entire rest of that profile screams "rotten apple" for dozens of reasons beyond just smoking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 10:23 PM
9

Men that decide attraction based on a wholly superficial item tend to be those buddies that think 'all women are awful'. Just like the dumb broads who choose bfs similarly. It's left entirely to chance that they 'find a good one'. It's like buying a car with the only criteria that it's cherry red. Maybe you get a good one according to your needs, but it's much more likely you won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/18 02:51 AM
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Well it's not a good analogy. Lardass status can (typically) be changed. Height cannot. One is more indicative of personality and choices. The other has zero correlation to those things. Therefore, one is acceptable as a means of choosing a relationship while the other is absurd.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/18 02:48 AM
2

Even worse is that instead of passing this information to young women everywhere on how to AVOID these same life-mistakes, most women will allow younger women to make the very same stupid life-decisions. Yeah. They are both ignorant and bitter. Ignorant that they don't even recognize the problem most of the time. Bitter when they do. Either way, completely unable or unwilling to guide others away from the snare. I'm not a religious man. But I always acknowledge that the turning away from religio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:41 PM
3

Dude, any girl that would use the word "pound town" EVER is way past saving. Her morals are so tattered, her heart so hardened, her conscience so trodden that there is no going back. It's the wages of sin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:35 PM
3

But she doesn't want any of those things. One of my key tenets about the insipid modern feminist woman: they don't value the right things. Because of this dysfunction, they are incapable of true happiness. The things that could make them happy are unattractive to them on the surface. And they lack the introspection or intelligence to see deeper than that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:32 PM
2

Exactly. It will threaten their 'orbit' role. If they are blunt, she'll throw them away. We here know that she'd be doing them a favor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:30 PM
3

if online dating was once successful for her years ago as she says, why is she single. I had the same thought. But then I reminded myself that my paradigm is different from hers. I see dating as a means to the end of "getting married." The tool you use to vet potential spouse material. She sees dating as getting free stuff and having fun. So in her paradigm, a younger less used up version of herself probably *was* more "successful."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:27 PM
3

A basic start for women is to present and maintain herself as chaste and sexually innocent, but willing to please a man (by actually being chaste, innocent, and very sexually willing to please a man), reasonably attractive, reasonably fit with feminine traits and characteristics, highly responsible, intelligent, compatible and amenable to a man's life, added-value to a man's life, and demonstrate outstanding and exceptional wife/mother characteristics and traits along with domestic skills, in ad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:24 PM
3

That's a woman's natural tendency to foolishness. Unless it is trained out of her by her parents, she is doomed to pointless flailing about when confronted with problems. The masculine mind is already tilted towards the logical. If Problem arises: think it over, then implement solution. Rinse and repeat as necessary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:19 PM
3

More than that. They would have to actually *do something* to fix the problem. It's loads easier to bitch and whine, than it is to stfu and put your nose to the grindstone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 09:17 PM
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The husband sounds like a cuck idiot but somehow came out as the real winner. No, he's a good man that loved his wife. Because of his love for her, he was willing to forgive a major mistake. To continue the relationship without perpetually rubbing her face in it. That takes a great depth of love and character. It should not be equated with cowardice like cuckery. There is no way ever to please a fool. But this is the reason the marriage ended. She threw away a good man. Now she's suffering for h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/18 06:42 PM
10

They're more than willing to challenge their male congregation to working to be "Godly men", but forget all the parts of the Good Book about not lying down with wicked women. On top of the modern day Christian church turning it's back on the Biblical structure of a marriage, and the roles of BOTH members in the union. They've become so petrified of being ostracized by mankind, that they no longer defend, teach, and explain the reasons for God's plan in marriage. It's like they have entirely forg…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/18 09:00 PM
5

How would you know?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/18 04:06 AM
5

Nature 'punishes'. The universal laws of consequences for actions will not be mocked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/18 05:27 PM
5

Nature 'punishes'. The universal laws of consequences for actions will not be mocked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/18 05:27 PM
11

Right-O. Don't listen to the words, look at the actions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/18 04:22 PM
9

she's all about being in control. She likes submissive guys because she's insecure. Bingo. There is a required balance in relationships. There has to be some equality in a healthy relationship. But when somebody says they want that, but instead their actions are to chase inferior partners; they're lying. These insufferable 'smart' women usually want a man they can dominate because it makes them feel good. Of course the type of guy that lets that happen isn't usually a strong man, and as such isn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/18 04:21 PM
1

I would tell you that people today should wait until 25 minimum before choosing their spouse. That they shouldn't be in LTR at all prior to being ready to marry. But it's semantics and opinion. 18 is legally an adult, and the world including ME expects you to put on the big boy or girl pants by that age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 04:37 PM
4

IKR? Having to be an adult and put work into maintaining nice things? That's men's job, not hers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 04:35 PM
6

Thats almost a legal adult. Old enough to be an adult, old enough to be expected to make adult decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 09:01 PM
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7 years? Lol, honey you should have known whether this one was a keeper by year 2 at the latest. She needs to stop dating and go back home to momma while she straightens her foolishness out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 06:27 PM
5

Yeah. Parents used to teach that stuff to their children, so as to protect their child from the pain and disappointment of such immoral behavior. But now parents don't want to hurt little Suzy or Johnny by imposing such prudish ways on their animal instincts. /rollseyes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/18 01:30 AM
7

To the left, to the left! I could have another you in a minute, Matter fact she'll be here in a minute! Goodbye
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 12:22 PM
11

Always consider the source when vetting criticisms levied against you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 12:21 PM
6

Problem for women like this is that their decisions are terrible. A result of terrible decision making. So listening to themselves is a recipe for disaster. With little to no self reflection and introspection, it's not possible to improve from yesterday. And with society pushing the agenda that the feminist CC empowerment is a great way to live, women like these never get #RealTalk to set them straight. This ain't some Lifetime or Hallmark movie where the 'good' man shows up to save dumb hamster…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/18 09:56 AM
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Because that would require some self agency in her own life. It's a whole lot easier to just throw her hands up and proclaim "I guess it's never gonna happen for me.." That way, she can keep on being dumb and making dumb decisions in her life. Running on that hamster wheel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/18 09:48 AM
11

And her post NOW is only due to seeing that some other woman snapped him up. I swear, these thots have the emotional minds of toddlers. A toddler will completely ignore a whole pile of toys, but if one child picks up one of those toys? They MUST HAVE THAT ONE TOY RIGHT NOW or a tantrum will ensue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 11:50 PM
6

Exactly. Life is too short. There's a better woman out there and staying with this one is a bad call.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 04:31 AM
5

She's 44 years old and she talks about adult men prospects for a relationship as 'dick'. Tells you all you need to know about her characyer, morals, and why she's struggling at 44.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 04:41 AM
3

Because they think that's important in potential relationships. Far more valuable and necessary information than actual thoughts, opinions, likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, goals, and other such personal info. /smh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 09:44 PM
11

I cant help but think.. This is all the sort of shit moms used to teach to their daughters about not being a whore. Her post is a litany of all the things that go wrong when you are a whore. And yet it seems she still doesn't get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/18 05:37 AM
2

One very important lesson I hope the youngsters around here will pick up: when a girl is stupid, it's not your job to fix it, ignore it, overlook it, or pretend it will go away. It's your job to identify it, typically by results, and AVOID it at all costs. Even when your raging hormones are clouding your brain. It is never worth the trouble and heartache.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/18 05:38 AM
3

Me? Me me me, me me? Me, me, me, me, me! :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:14 PM
2

Wait a second. So you are suggesting that intimate relations benefit greatly when it's not all about yourself? Hmmm...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:13 PM
29

She'll be forever unsatisfied. Unless you are jumping in the sack with guys you just met, you can't know. Because the most important thing to her is sex, she needs to find that out fast. And only whores can do that. Guess what? Whores can't find good men or relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 04:19 AM
5

TIL that how a woman views the wage gap myth is directly correlated to how she views relationship dynamics Yes, in as much as she's an idiot if she thinks women are being cheated in the wage market. So she'd bring her idiocy to her relationships. You are clued in. Pay attention for the signs and you will be able to make good judgements on potential partners.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/18 02:42 AM
5

Me-YOW, baby!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/18 02:33 AM
2

Right-O. I'll use this opportunity to say once again: the problem is that these women value the wrong things. No amount of communication in the world is going to ameliorate their lack of attraction to actual 'good men'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/18 02:32 AM
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Also, they have the emotional maturity of an 11 year old girl. They think it's cute or funny, when it just screams immature. It's absurd doing it on a website that you are using to find romantic relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/18 05:36 AM
3

A good rule of thumb to apply before sexing somebody is "Would I want this person to be raising my kids?" Because looks and tingles fade over time. But rotten core is forever, and will ruin your children's lives. The sins of the father are visited upon the child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/18 11:03 PM
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I always thought the 'it's none of your business, it was before you' line is absolute nonsense. If I had been in prison for a major felony, that wouldn't be important information my current love interest might want to know about? Same deal with your previous sexual history. It speaks greatly about your character, opinion about intimacy, and where your values lay. It's important information. The reason they say that is they are ashamed of it. If they had won three Emmys or Pulitzers, they would n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/18 05:23 AM
2

It's not about the food or cooking. It's her attitude that she has already decided she will make no effort, no sacrifice to please a potential mate. THAT'S the deal breaker. The fact that she brazenly tells her date, then doubles down on it when he challenged her absurd notion that she doesn't cook... Is proof positive that her attitude and arrogance are obnoxious self-absorbed manure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/18 02:15 AM
1

I prefer my friends to be guys. Since the only reason I put up with most women would be the sex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 02:53 AM
2

Wonder how many 'friends' she overlooked while chasing those Chads? She's not entirely ugly, beautiful blue eyes (that are dead now), though the CC is showing its toll. But I will bet she has friendzoned several decent blokes who wanted to date her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 02:52 AM
5

Here's the problem for modern day people, but especially women since they and they alone are the gatekeepers of sexual intercourse: When you are engaging in sex with people whom you barely know because waiting until marriage is for squares and prudes... You end up making a LOT of misjudgements. Furthermore, if you are doing so while in the 'infatuation' stage, you are muddying the water making it more difficult to suss out the value of this person and the potential relationship quality/intent. A…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 02:44 AM
8

Cuckoo, batshit crazy, nutso, unhinged, loco, screwball, demented, psycho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 02:34 AM
1

We have a saying that gets thrown around a lot in my male-dominated industry when the work gets tough: "If it were easy, they would have the women here doing it." Dating with a purpose is hard work. Dating for fun is easy, especially when you are a decently attractive younger woman. Just like many things in life, you get out of it what you put into it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/18 01:17 AM
3

Most of these people do the body modding to stand out. Because they are not able to earn attention through accomplishments or personal character. Same for the purple haired girls. It gets noticed, even if it's not for a good reason. Sort of like how some children of negligent parent(s) will do bad things because it gets attention from mom or dad. And even if it's bad attention, it's better than the no-attention they normally get. These girls are basic bitches with no discernable good traits/char…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/18 01:05 AM
2

I would have forgotten all about her 10 minutes after she told me I didn't make enough money for her liking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/18 02:41 AM
5

<nods>
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 10:41 PM
5

I suppose he dodged a bullet. Let's hope he learned a valuable lesson.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 10:38 PM
3

Just because she's a dwarf doesn't mean she's immune to stupidity. Let's not be bigoted here, like the sycophants in the comments over there. I'm all about judging people by the content of their character. And this one is severely lacking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 10:35 PM
2

And isn't that the gist of the "where are all the good men?" movement?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 03:34 AM
5

but women make it seem like there's only drunks, addicts, unemployed, man children or mental cases left, when the truth is there's plenty of up standing men, they're just ugly, fat or short. In these fools' minds, 'ugly, fat, or short' is equivalent to 'drunks, addicts, unemployed, man children, or mental cases'. Like, ewwwwwwww.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/18 03:32 AM
2

You mean my [favorite musical style] and [type of food] isn't the most important things about me???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/18 12:45 AM
2

Yeah. Then you would be a misogynist pig or guilty of 'mansplaining' to be the leader of the relationship. Or worse, a caveman Christian that thinks there's a reason God set the man as the decision maker and leader of the household... and not the woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/18 12:32 AM
3

Yep. They value the wrong things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/18 11:19 PM
6

Well, you know the kid is "MY WERLLD" so if it's super important to her why shouldn't it be plastered all over her profile?? /s You're absolutely right about the pedos. Single moms are their primary target because single moms (that choose to date and not focus solely on the lonely life of raising the child) are easy pickings that provide access to children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/18 08:09 PM
4

In my experience, they'll choose the one that makes them feel good. Most of these women have lost the art of feminine wiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/18 08:06 PM
1

Or even just enjoying something that, while not exciting or groundbreaking, makes him happy. It’s not that hard. Oh but it is hard. In fact, almost impossible for many modern women. Reminds me of a country music song that says you don't know what real love is, you just think you do. You can't put anybody else in front of you. Being so self-important and smug, they have a ridiculously overblown sense of self-worth. Bending the knee to anyone else is unimaginable. Actually loving somebody else mor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/18 08:05 PM
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What is wrong with me lol. You're stupid. You could work on that, but you won't. See you in 10 years at the pet store buying sacks of catfood and kitty litter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/18 07:57 PM
4

I took that "fuckboy" to be A. insulting him, and B. her assuming that is all he was trying to do since he took exception to her talking to him like he's a rapist before she's even met him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/18 07:54 PM
3

It could have been a time thing, or hitting a diner/coffee shop to meet. Idunno, she didn't say booty call, and his reaction to her makes me think that wasn't the explicit reason he was meeting either. /shrug
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/18 07:09 PM
13

Where did you get that from the article? /confused
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/18 05:45 PM
63

It's refreshing to see a man stand up for himself. I think we found a 'good man'. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/18 02:13 PM
7

Yep. It's devalued the term. There are actual, criminal rapes. These drunk sluts trying to dodge responsibility for their poor decisions is a travesty that has demeaned actual victims of real rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/18 01:21 AM
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Forever, forever, ever, forever, ever?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/18 01:19 AM
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"Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters" by Meg Meeker. Explains this very concept. Our childhood role models are very important to us and how we learn to handle life ourselves. This points back to my key belief that the problems with the WhereAreAllTheGoodMen? Gitls is that they value the wrong things, and that's why they waste valuable time/life/decisions they cannot get back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/18 09:58 PM
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Pedos like them. Easy access to abuse children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/18 07:59 AM
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A lil Joe Dirt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/18 07:58 AM
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Studies show that women are not attracted to men who are happy while men are attracted to women who are happy. Doesn't surprise me. Men prefer to choose women based on how they think she'll make them feel. Women tend to choose men who they think they can 'fix'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 12:12 PM
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I'm not as hard on the physical features as others. But I'd just like to say, if you aren't physically super-attractive... work on some other aspects of your being. Bring something else to the table! (besides your appetite) These Basic Bitches are always so trifling and boring.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 12:09 PM
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No, what's scary is the men that walk into this shit eyes wide open. I'm not going to get angry at a snake for doing snake things. But I might question the idiot that picks up the snake and carries it in his pocket as a friend.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 12:07 PM
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I'm sure there are some normal people that have had some bad luck in the dating realm, so they try out the online-stuff. Very rare though. TBH, I rarely meet women IRL that are even semi as interesting as the phony "Monique". The ones that are relatively intelligent... they usually are full of stupid shit too. Doesn't take long in a conversation to find that they simply have dumb ideas about the world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 12:00 PM
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Forget monique, i'm tempted to just date BachelorInc. #NoHomo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 11:58 AM
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What she writes is incongruent with what her pictures say about her. Sounds like you've cracked the "Girl Code".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 11:56 AM
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I like to imagine him as "Lewis Black" and he's sputtering while his face is all red as he's ranting about these thots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 11:55 AM
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If she just needs 'friends' there hundreds of activities she could get involved in with her local community. Also, friends can be met at a job. You know, the place you go to get money to pay for a car. Instead, her target in life is trying to get 'ssi' when she appears perfectly capable of supporting herself. What she needs more than friends is a good hard slap in the face by Reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 11:51 AM
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Idunno. You think if this one wasn't 'fat' (I don't even think she is).. the rest of that resume screams "Winner!"? Does drugs, lives at home, doesn't have a car or job, has no prospects for life whatsoever. And somehow thinks that she ought to be trolling the online-dating fishing waters instead of getting her shit together? Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 11:49 AM
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Except it doesn't explain why unemployed Chads that have no cars and are transient in where they live-- still get attention from these girls. It's because these girls are childish in nature. It's acceptable, even expected, in a child because they are a child. They can be trained to part from their foolish ways. It's not acceptable, cute, or laudable to be this way when you are an adult. At some point, you are supposed to be using that paperweight between your ears to make your decisions about re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 06:45 AM
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Typical childish behavior. Didn't care about nor want the toy until another kid started playing with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/18 07:02 AM
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American Woman Stay away from me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 12:04 AM
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Yeah, that's always my favorite. They look like they just saw someone take a shit on their living room floor.. and then wonder why everybody they meet seems to be unfriendly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 12:04 AM
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"Better for a man to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool in his foolishness." Anger is one of the typical responses of the fool when they realize they are mired in the fallout of their foolishness. Imagine, being sold a bill of goods like Feminism. Living it out, riding the carousel, being a strong independent womyn... only to find out it doesn't work in finding fulfilling relationships with men. And now the wall is approaching...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 12:03 AM
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I like cats. I don't wish this woman upon the felines.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/18 12:00 AM
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Seriously. If you talked about any other group the way these feminists talk about men, you'd be considered a horrible person. Yet they get lauded as some forward-thinking visionaries breaking free from the patriarchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 11:59 PM
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More likely it's "He didn't call me the next day, or ever again...." so NOW it's 'assaulted' or 'raped'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 11:56 PM
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There's only enough room for ONE fat guy in this relationship!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 11:51 PM
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Hey guys look! Another woman with a ridiculously over-inflated perception of herself. A rarity. /rollseyes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:33 AM
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Dunno. The posters you are trying to slag off aren't cruising to message boards they don't like and insulting the posters. What's that say about you, mon ami?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:22 AM
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Even before your suggested step; they need to be competent enough to choose the right man in whom to invest. That's the critical failure. Well before we ever get to concepts of cock-carousels and 'good men'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:21 AM
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A lot of our current 'sjw liberals' are younger. They weren't taught such pithy sayings as "Nobody buys the cow when they can get the milk for free." etc etc. They haven't had access to generational wisdom because it might invade their safe spaces or challenge their foolishness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:19 AM
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Most importantly, when seeking a relationship with the intent of marriage commitment-- it's not your job to fix or 'save' another person from themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:16 AM
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2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" Christian men can fall in the traps of the world too. This is where their Church leadership needs to be extra diligent in teaching their flock.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 01:14 AM
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"What's the bible?" - CHINOs (Christian in name only)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/18 03:54 AM
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U got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:30 PM
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I don't suppose the idea of losing weight ever occurred to her? That would imply that her being fat is not acceptable, you misogynist bastard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:29 PM
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Because if that dude from the gym isn't stalking your listening history on soundcloud, he's probably just busy drafting up a horrifying DM. Or even worse, using the magnifying tool in Photoshop! Or he could be, and I know this sounds crazy, living and doing totally normal life things. Nuts, I know! The Swipe Generation Don't lie, you're guilty too. Nope. Stop projecting your mental illness on everyone else. Everyone is too busy looking at everyone else that nothing seems good enough for any of u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:27 PM
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IKR? Just sounds like yet another idiot thinking that relationships are supposed to be 100% fairytale with no work or effort required.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:21 PM
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True dat. And it doesn't even take Sherlock to figure it out. They post it all over social media for ANYBODY to see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:20 PM
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I've had women, not that I'm dating, tell me I'm strange because I have no social media presence at all. No facebook twits or other assorted nonsense because I don't think typical day-to-day life is worth exposing to the entire world to see, let alone carrying on serious discussions over twits. They say they'd be wary of dating somebody like me because they'd have no way of knowing who I am... Um, how about that's what dating is for?? I've heard the same tripe from girls that stay in terrible re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:17 PM
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If by "put some effort" you mean "make a hasty profile on a date site"? Sure, yeah. But in the profile she let's the (fat) cat out of the bag: "There's someone special out there for me and I hope he finds me." What a go-getter attitude! /smh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:14 PM
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Honestly? Finding a woman in her 30s that either doesn't have kids already (a relationship no-go for most single guys), isn't just getting off the cock-carousel, or isn't so undesirable that she never even got a ticket to ride the carousel... is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. The ones who may not have been CC riders are usually 'career' women. Which means they wasted their youth chasing career/school/achievement and either aren't interested in a serious relationship with family as a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:10 PM
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Username checks out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:04 PM
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They don't see the hypocrisy because they are shallow and self absorbed. The bottom line is that fat is less attractive than not-fat. That's the truth. When you are fat or fatter than normal, your SMV is generally lowered. It's not the end of the world. But it certainly means you need to be more in-tune with the reality of the matter. While I believe we should always aim high, it's dangerous and foolish to be completely unawares of your actual value. All relationships REQUIRE some level of balan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/18 10:02 PM
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Good. God.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/18 11:33 PM
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This is one of the key reasons dating single moms should be out of the question. Assuming things go well enough that you marry, you will always deal with the problems of the kids' real dad(s). Unlike the TV fantasylands, it's not Brady Bunch fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 09:12 PM
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Who cares enough to investigate? Not I. I see it as free advertising that they are an insipid fool that would only waste my time. Sort of a "here's your sign" thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 04:53 AM
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Bingo. Knowing what you want requires knowing something about yourself. Some introspection. A person taking selfies with their lips puckered like they just finished sucking on lemons is not the type to do any introspection. Ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 04:51 AM
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Almost no man cares how much a woman earns. At no point does any self-respecting man ever expect to NOT work. So the idea that he would ever care about his potential gf/wife's earning potential is just asinine. These women have been so thoroughly poisoned by the feminist agenda that they think they are equal to men, so they think manly traits are attractive selling points. Or that it's worth accomplishing them, at the expense of developing the traits that men actually care about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/18 04:20 AM
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No, she has a chance... with an average guy. A 3-5 scale guy. Which is relatively close to her level. But she ain't interested in those 'losers'. She's setting the bar at 8. It's silly. If these thots could be at least a little realistic, they likely could find a relationship worth having. Even if it takes a little more effort than some Hollywood romantic comedy bullshit fantasy they have in their warped minds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/18 04:17 AM
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It would cause me to believe it more. She probably walked right past dozens of 'good men' while she was busy chasing tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/18 04:36 AM
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In her world, stay at home mom is code for lazing about on some man's dime. Women like this make terrible moms and wives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/18 11:00 PM
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Men are romantic. Most women are not. Men can do incredible things driven by their love. Women don't. Men tend towards the object of eternal love, while women tend towards the object of material love. Though St. Augustine speaks of these things in regards to God and materialism. I see them echoed in the modern women who are all about "how can he benefit me?" rather than "how can I benefit him?". That's why poetry, and the powerful emotion behind writing it, is lost on modern women. Romantic conc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 08:37 PM
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It's marvelous. The guy is all but telling her he only values her mouth for a fuckhole. Yet she is more than willing to keep on letting him use her. I'd like to laugh at this sort of idiocy, but I get fatigued every now and again. This is one of those times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 08:24 PM
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Or how about a "Mommy left me with babysitters again to go tramping around town"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 08:22 PM
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Or welfare. Amazing how when Big Gubmint plays 'daddy', it's easy to be against fatherhood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 08:22 PM
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A few reasons: fuzzy animals r so cute! Hides their plain face. Make them seem "fun and wild". Erroneously thinking that's attractive to a healthy adult man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 04:16 AM
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A few reasons: fuzzy animals r so cute! Hides their plain face. Make them seem "fun and wild". Erroneously thinking that's attractive to a healthy adult man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 04:15 AM
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hahaha :) I enjoyed. Would read again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:26 PM
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Preach it, brother. I got banned from the mgtow reddit because I wasn't on board with the whole blame-women-only ethos that movement pushes. Believing that men are all 'victims' in society's game. When most of these men are complaining they can't find saints while they are chasing after sinners. Stupid knows no gender bounds. This reddit is fun because the "where are all the good men" nonsense has become a rallying cry pushed forward by feminist mass media in their attempt to blame men, not the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:22 PM
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You know, Dr. Laura wrote a book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". When asked why she didn't write one for men, she said it would be pointless as women are the main reason relationships fall apart. Men aren't difficult. Women make their own lives difficult. As long as you choose wisely (re: value and pick a 'good man') and treat kindly, it's easy. The modern woman usually fails on both fronts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:19 PM
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She seems angry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:15 PM
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She has the same exact look in every one of those selfies. At first I thought she had taken the same picture and edited them to have slightly different color/tilt. It's like she's some sort of creepy doll. Weirdo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:12 PM
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Those guys aren't good enough for her. Why, don't you know 'good men' don't exist in the nerd realms? Nahh, she has to resort to dating apps to find a 'good man'. Sarcasm aside, she's your typical idiot woman. She's involved in hobbies (by the way she talks) that are male-dominated-- and yet rather than invest her time and efforts looking directly around her for a guy... she's going to hop on an app and roll the dice. Waiting on magic (no pun intended) to make her Prince Charming appear, instead…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:11 PM
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Wow, such an attractive package. Three kids by age 22 without being married? Expects a man to bring her 'peace and happiness' instead of taking responsibility herself for those things? Openly tells potential suitors they will always be second fiddle to her brats? Feels the need to tell you that she idolizes what appear to be rappers? Honey, I shook the magic 8-ball and it says "hahahahAHAHAHA" when I asked it if you'd find a 'good man.'
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 10:06 PM
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Who fucking thinks it's a good idea to go searching for a relationship when they are currently dealing with money (or other) heavy issues? If you are 'in a tight spot right now' shouldn't you be dealing with that shit FIRST? A walking disaster. /smh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/18 10:38 PM
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Like a dog returning to it's own vomit. That's what keeping the door open for exes is like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/18 10:36 PM
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The first comment had a lot of wisdom for her. Short take I got from her post? She's arrogant. That's her problem in a nutshell. Until she faces that ugly truth and deals with it, she's never going to be able to get her life straightened out. And honestly, she should stay lonely until the kid is 18. She has already demonstrated she makes terrible decisions regarding men. The likelihood is she will cause massive collateral damage to the kid by future dumbassery with men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/18 10:34 PM
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Yep, understanding 'investment' goes a long way towards improving your sanity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/18 10:59 PM
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Tired of seeing her cry over fuckboys? Stop watching the trainwreck. Walk away dummy, cuz she ain't ever gonna change.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/18 06:54 PM
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Ikr? Two whole meals... Standards are high!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/18 06:39 PM
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:D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/18 06:38 PM
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I don't. Unless he has a room temperature IQ, he already knows this woman is vapid and shallow. Still with her though. That's on him. My fervent prayers would be that they don't put any kids in the middle of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/18 05:46 PM
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The story of the Little Red Hen: In the tale, the little red hen finds a grain of wheat and asks for help from the other farmyard animals to plant it, but they all refuse. At each later stage (harvest, threshing, milling the wheat into flour, and baking the flour into bread), the hen again asks for help from the other animals, but again she doesn't receive any help. Finally, the hen has completed her task and asks who will help her eat the bread. This time, all the previous non-participants eage…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/18 05:48 PM
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These women never understand and won't accept the fact that marriage is a negative for men in this day and age. And why would it be a 'negative' proposition for most men? Could it be that women in this day and age make almost no effort to create positives in marriage for the man? That they put almost no effort into creating value for a potential spouse? That the insipid idea that your vagina is your value... has led to most women thinking that's good enough for marriage? This is the nonsense you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/18 05:39 PM
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When somebody starts a sentence "It's not about the money...", It's about the money. The fact that she mentions those things multiple times tells you exactly what is on her mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/18 05:34 PM
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Did you miss the part where she talks about these men that are 'beneath her' like they are losers? It's absolutely critical to understanding her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/18 05:33 PM
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She isn't married already because she values the wrong things. That's why she can't find a suitable man instead of boys. Until she changes her entire mindset, she will be unable to find a good man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/18 05:31 PM
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I don't know. This is more a reflection that women are judged by physical beauty first, rest of package later. While men are judged by total package. When you have women applying the shallow standards they live by (supported by the fact that they play the game and squeeze every bit of physical beauty they can to their advantage)--- you end up with this. Women judging men by looks, thanks to apps that basically are meat-markets. Is it good? Healthy? I'd say no. But then, video killed the radio st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 05:29 PM
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That's what makes it unforgivable for a man. In today's age, where sexual morals are not as tight as they used to be-- you have to make some compromises in what you expect from a potential spouse. Especially the older you get, it's simply not reasonable to expect potential dates to be virgins. But a number under 5 is probably acceptable, because you can at least understand that they have formed actual relationships with a person before sex. Now, when you are literally screwing dozens of guys, ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 05:00 AM
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Judgment is what we use to protect ourselves from bad things. It's not a crime to show judgment, despite the attempts by the evil and worthless among us to try and demonize it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 04:56 AM
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The "scientific reasons" argument is merely a ploy to deflect attention away from people that make poor choices. If you can blame nature, you don't have to accept responsibility for your decisions. I prefer to think we were given a soul and intellect by our creator when he decided to place us as ruler over the beasts of the Earth. As humans, we still experience instinctual parts of our beings. But we work to control and suppress them as required to maintain a semblance of civilization. Since civ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 04:54 AM
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She's not stupid. She's just a liar. Deep down, she knows what she did was wrong. But she can't bring herself to admit that. So she trickle-truths to try and hedge the damage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:51 AM
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Oh, boy, this people are seriously lacking empathy for people who don't share their opinions on sex. Because when you are a whore, you have so cheapened sex that you honestly believe it's "no big deal." So of course, in their myopic view, anybody that doesn't see sex that way because they haven't screwed hundreds of partners... is being unreasonable and should be attacked for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:50 AM
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Right now she’s paying for things she did 10 years ago. Funny how that works, non? Sometimes you spend the rest of your life paying for stupid things you did in your youth. That's why it's so important to NOT do stupid things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:48 AM
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XD Here's a note for you whores-in-training out there- that is one thing a man NEVER forgets. Not EVER. If he loves a woman, the very thought of her being fucked by other guys is the cruelest thing imaginable to him. I know some of you thots might not understand the concept of "love" and "romance" the way a man does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:46 AM
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Sounds to me like he did the right thing. Dropped the lying piece of trash, and treated her with appropriate care. Good for him. Hopefully he learns a valuable lesson to investigate a little harder BEFORE wasting his time marrying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:44 AM
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No, you are a GUY. Not so easy for men. Unless you are a 10 Chad, in which case you got your own set of very special problems that don't relate to 90% of actual men out there. Unlike women, who unless they are bottom rung 10% uuuuugggggllly... can get fucked any time they feel like it by heading out to the local watering hole and being friendly. This completely screws with their comprehension of "value". There is always a guy with no discerning tastes that will fuck even the most atrocious women…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:42 AM
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First off, she needs to give that baby up for adoption. Second, she needs to sit down and do some serious introspection regarding her unbelievably poor decision making that put her in this predicament. Third, she needs to set her sights a helluva lot lower. Fourth, she needs to keep her legs closed while dating. I still don't trust her to have done step Two right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:34 AM
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Sounds like this one is 24 and never had her mom or dad give her Clue 1 about how to actually date. I'd laugh but it honestly just makes me sad. Yet another idiot that wouldn't know a good man if he was standing right in front of her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:31 AM
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or maybe you don't know if you want casual sex or emotional relationships, or if you want companionship or independence.... That's typical woman. Especially the young and dumb(er) variety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 01:29 AM
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Why is everyone on that thread acting like it's so bizarre to question someone over this shit? Because it is bizarre to them. People that do bad things or make poor choices don't like to be judged on it. Better to come upon a bear separated from her cubs than a fool in his folly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/18 01:10 AM
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After seeing that, the guy should take back the watch and kick her to the curb. If he does not, he gets everything he deserves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/18 09:42 PM
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I remember when women used to work on their attributes such as cooking, housekeeping, utility etc. As a way to attract a 'good man' with the value she could provide. Before now. Where they think having a vag is all the value they need to provide. As if there aren't 3 billion others like it on planet Earth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/18 09:39 PM
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Don't you find it even mildly ironic that she's a "Christian" judging books by their covers? Even a teensy weensy bit amused?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/18 05:29 PM
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And don't forget! Fat, bald, or short? JUST KEEP WALKIN!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/18 05:28 PM
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That's implied, brother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/18 02:44 AM
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Oh, I know. Business is business. But a whore is not a prostitute. One's a business person, the other is a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 03:09 PM
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The male theory on this is that he has "preselection" - if another woman thought enough of him to marry him, there must be something good there and she wants to know what it is. But there's probably more to it than that. Maybe. But it's more akin to children and toys. Want to get a kid to play with a toy (s)he has ignored and never picked up not once? Get another kid to play with it. All of a sudden, the first kid MUST. HAVE. IT.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 03:08 PM
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Idunno. How does that differ from dating the guy that already has a gf/wife? It doesn't. The ACTUAL difference in the hamster mind? The guy with a wife is "wanted goods". So he must be valuable! Seriously. Men that wear a wedding ring get hit on more when they WEAR the ring than when they do not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 03:05 PM
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Well, in as much as one could 'respect' a whore for being a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 02:57 PM
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IKR? It's not like this is a dating profile, where you are looking to sell yourself to potential dates. Along with the poor grammar and atrocious spelling, I bet this girl doesn't have a profession because her resumes are just as bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:27 AM
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Yeah, sounds like she has a long career ahead of her "wanting" a long term relationship. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:26 AM
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It's the modern woman that is like this. Most of these self-involved twats never find a 'good man' because their entire being revolves around themselves. They never once think "What can I do for HIM?" instead of "What can he do for ME?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:23 AM
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This is why you don't date men with children. They have priorities that will always be ahead of YOU, sweetheart. This isn't his fault. It's yours.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:21 AM
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It's not my job to worry about what she's going to do in her next attempt at a relationship. I'm only concerned with this relationship, and when it's over it's no longer my concern. Though I'd tell her why I was splitting because that's the sort of person I am. I don't sugarcoat things like that. I don't play games. It's all straightforward with me. I dumped one girl specifically for this reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:18 AM
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It's not even the point of directly slut shaming a specific girl. It's a culture, cultivated in media, that no longer sends slut shaming messages. This is what forms young minds. The people behind these 'entertainment' medium know this. Why do you think every single television show now has a homo or lesbian on it? Because they know that's how you brainwash young minds into thinking it's totally normal. While less than 5% of demographics are queer, on TV it's more like 40%. The same has happened …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 11:04 AM
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So what you are suggesting here, and I'm spitballing here, is that the most intimate relation you can willingly share with another human being--- becomes cheap and meaningless when you are sharing it with dozens upon dozens (or hundreds even in this case) of people? If only somebody had told these girls this when they were young and still had the decisions in front of them instead of behind them! Oh the humanity!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/18 10:58 AM
2

The only person I felt sorrow about was the murdered baby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/18 06:49 AM
2

IKR? It's not like she could have had the child and gave the child up for adoption to a family that would love it. That would require too much effort on her part though, with no sprinkles cupcake prize at the end for her. So she murdered it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/18 06:48 AM
15

How about the silly colored hair? Or the pink nail polish? Maybe the teenie bopper style dress? It's absurd when grown women dress like young girls. Not enough people call them out on acting like they are 12.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/18 06:43 AM
2

Meh. It's entirely relevant. This shows how we have birthed several generations now of idiots. Because only idiots ask "Where are all the good men?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/18 06:39 AM
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Is there TV in their home? Internet? Any of a dozen more media/entertainment sources available to them? Then they are not immune from this bullshit. It pervasively invades every nook and cranny of consumer entertainment in sources you wouldn't even imagine it has any relevance. It's indoctrination from the top down, and trust me it works. It's difficult to stem the tide even as a parent that knows what it is and how it works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/18 06:36 AM
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No, what's actually frustrating is that if the roles were reversed, thos commentors would be ripping the guy for such a thing. If it were a guy stringing along some girl they'd be up in arms. A guy that has no interest in a girl, but lies to her to keep getting easy pussy would be called every name under the sun. Nobody would be twisting themselves into pretzels trying to justify his heinous behavior. Either situation is wrong, and either perpetrator is selfish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/18 12:07 AM
50

Ever get the impression that women ought not be listened to at all? Like they are worse than children that don't know what they want?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/18 11:47 AM
1

Nice work, Sherlock. :) More effort put into this one than I was willing. She's obviously unserious about her life, and so that's why she's playing around. Unfortunately for her, time waits for nobody and is a cruel master.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/18 05:43 AM
9

Note: Her preferences in men did not change. If she could get a higher value man, she would, and poindexter wouldn't get a second look. In a nutshell: the real issue for these women is that their personal values are out of whack. Calling a boy that is a selfish asshole that uses women for sex "high value" is an offshoot of this general viewpoint in modern society. These girls value the wrong things. And that does not change unless the person underneath changes. Which rarely happens. So you are c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/18 05:39 AM
10

Who cares? This is even less important than the price of beans in China.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/18 02:12 PM
13

Imagine that. A guy using his dating profile to whittle down the people that might click on him. It's almost as if he's trying to not waste both her time and his own by being as clear as he can about what he desires. A far cry from many thots with their nebulous, meandering profiles that give no real clue about their interests/desires/expectations/hobbies/personalities except for an endless parade of duck-lipping selfies in whore poses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/18 02:11 PM
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It's not a "hard" number. 3 years is roughly where the line should be drawn if you are NOT marrying this person. You ought to know by then. If you know that you will marry them, but there are only a couple things in the way such as your personal example, then it's not really the same thing as the OP. The reason I put this idea forward vociferously is that too many people just play passenger in their lives. If you are not actively engaging your decision making regarding love relationships, you ca…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/18 03:28 AM
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No. Most people follow patterns in their lives, usually subconsciously. And unless they recognize, then act upon changing it consciously-- will repeat it over and over. Look around. How many people do you know that have had multiple relationships where each of their past partners are simply variations of the same basic entity? People sometimes say "Oh (s)he has a type (s)he likes". Well, there's truth in that. This is also why one my most detested sayings to hear: "Oh you deserve better!" annoys…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/18 01:34 AM
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It's fishing. Throw out dozens of lines until you get a bite. I've known plenty of guys like this when heading out to the bars. Say some of the crudest things to women they see, and 99 out of 100 get disgusted and walk away. But 1 out 100 doesn't, and that's the cheap slut he was looking for. YMMV
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 08:31 PM
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Decades of TV indoctrination are to blame. On the TV, it's always a saintly woman that's being slapped around by her awful, no-good sumbitch man. She's helpless and blameless, but she got to hold it together for the family. In real life, dysfunctional relationships require TWO people. When you understand this, you start to see it very differently. You see the ballet and the dance between the two. No longer is there a clear cut "victim" and "aggressor". But the two are intertwined; you can't tell…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 08:18 PM
3

Entertainment shows that are exploitative? :thinking:
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 08:12 PM
4

Looks like a real classy broad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 05:20 AM
16

A kid that young doesn't ask deep questions about her daddy. And she's too young to understand anyways. This is just mommy wanting an excuse to dump her own baggage onto the kid. Does this nitwit really need an adult to tell her how to handle this? She made a kid for goodness' sake, she's plenty old enough that she ought to know what to say to her child. The kid doesn't need to know most of the details about how dad is a bum or that mom was foolish and irresponsible. Bare minimum is all she need…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 05:18 AM
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A useful teachable moment for any young lads (or lasses) in this one. Nobody just "punches you in the face" out of nowhere, after you have been in a relationship for 8 years. Violent tendencies such as this don't just pop up randomly barring drugs or traumatic injury. The signs were there all along. She just chose to ignore them until it literally punched her in the face. Now, we can't help her and honestly shouldn't care because it was HER fault and she deserves every bit of it. She's not a vic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/18 11:30 PM
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It's reasonable to assume that she's at least OK looking, if she is honestly getting asked out 1 to 2 times per week. Looks doesn't really seem to be the issue. If she were not as attractive as we think, she likely wouldn't be getting asked out so often. The more important point is that they aren't sticking around for more than a date or two. That's not looks. That's personality. Whether just bad luck on the "match" front, or she's not very interesting? Who knows? Not enough details, but I'd gue…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/18 01:39 AM
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This lack of empathy is endemic of most young people I meet (and plenty of old people as well) that are losers in life. They never even consider things from the perspective of the other person. They don't think at all about how a relationship needs to be balanced. Never thinking "What do I bring to the table for this person? How do I learn and meet their needs? How do I make this relationship beneficial to them as well as me?" They are self-centered and entirely tied up in their wants, their nee…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 06:16 PM
5

These girls that want to "friend-zone" guys are simply being unreal and selfish. They want a relationship that will benefit themselves greatly, with little benefit for the male. If she's bored, lonely, but doesn't want a sexual relationship- she needs to find female friends. Men and women are rarely platonic friends, because as you point out their wants/needs in friendship are too different. Eventually, the girl you marry becomes your friend at some point in the relationship. But make no mistake…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 06:10 PM
1

It's part and parcel of their insanity coupled with lack of logical thinking. There are things you can control, and things you can't. Knowing the difference requires being in touch with reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 05:57 PM
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--> There's the door, Shorty!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 05:47 PM
2

Some guy put up a post one time about the ridiculous height requirements these women post. Essentially showing the statistics, and how if you are limiting your pool to that hard requirement, your potential matches become miniscule when factoring in all the other things that have to align for a relationship (him being single and dating for starters). It's beyond foolish. No more foolish than if a man was to eliminate potential women by bra-size. I'm firmly convinced that video medium is what has …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 05:46 PM
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Not just anybody in their sane mind. But a guy that is rich, career-oriented, a statistical outlier in height, not married, intelligent, likes kids, and has a good family. Guys like that? Have their pick of the litter. And this ditz thinks she can compete in any way? It's why we make fun of these dopes on the reddit. They couldn't be more disconnected from reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 05:37 PM
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So long as its a brief experiment and she starts to date quality men soon, and in her league, she may be redeemable. Unfortunately no. Decisions have consequences. The reason you are seeing this as the "pre" version, is because you know where these decisions end. We all know. Except her. It's one of the most tragic things about modern society. Young women have been so blatantly misled and left defenseless. "Sowing their wild oats" is treated as the thing to do, cuz you a strong womyn that should…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/18 05:31 PM
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All the women want serious relationships that lead to marriage, but many of the men they meet do not. All too often a woman moves in with some guy, hoping they're on the road to somewhere. Two years later, he tells her he's not ready for marriage and kids just yet. Splat. Gee, "playing shack-up whore and unpaid honey" as Dr. Laura would say, isn't getting a man that wants to buy the cow? Whodathunk? Single women are more equal and empowered than ever before. They have unparalleled sexual, reprod…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 06:07 PM
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You are right on here. To expound on the concept: Most people that have this 'problem' of always getting bad relationships usually suffer from the key malady of not accepting reality but instead chasing fantasy. They don't look at what is, to find key signs of what will be. They look at what they want to be, and put the filter mask over what they are looking at. This complete unwillingness to exercise intellectual discernment is a huge liability. Parenting has been so lax and incompetent thanks …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:40 PM
13

Truth
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:34 PM
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Preacher telling the truth and it hurts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:32 PM
5

She's just keeping all options open. Give her 5 years and that number will expand in both directions. /chuckle
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:32 PM
10

Oh, NM. LESS time to spend on YOU!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:31 PM
7

That means more time to spend on YOU!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:31 PM
9

Punctuation. Learn how to use it. People that say "I treat people with respect until they disrespect me" are always some of the worst trash. They usually are the ones treating others badly at the drop of a hat because deep down, they aren't respectful. They are selfish garbage. Has "no idea what her ideal match would be".. Oh, so that's why you were busy picking boys that lied to, cheated on, and treated you like dirt. And you learned nothing? Not even a little bit to help reference what things …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:28 PM
9

After she said she had a kid; I tuned out. Couldn't care less about her opinion on anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:13 PM
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Takes a real girl, not a woman, to know a boy, not a man when she sees one. This one needs to close her legs, keep living at home with momma, and try to find a good male role model as a surrogate dad for the child. Not a male to fuck, an actual male role model. Maybe a nice uncle, or grampa and such.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:11 PM
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You are still incorrect. And ignored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 05:07 PM
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You are incorrect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/18 01:17 PM
2

And so, I merely nod instead of offering reassurance when they whinge about how they can't find a Good Man. It's the only thing to do. Most people that whine aren't interested in solutions. They only want commiseration or to be told they are right. They've already made their mind up. If they hadn't, they wouldn't be whining in the first place. They'd be putting their intellect towards finding a solution to the problem. Whining is a way to dodge responsibility for your own situation/life. A lot o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 03:26 PM
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There are many worthless college degrees. Those mean nothing, as it's been pushed on the American public that college is for everybody. Meanwhile, all it does is put crushing student loan debt on people that most will never get out from under, in exchange for a worthless degree in some abstract useless field. Furthermore, it's more accurate to say not that women aren't capable of forethought. But rather they are more concerned with direct benefit to themselves before benefiting anybody else. The…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 03:21 PM
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Probably the same reasons you barely see any women of note in the STEM industries, amirite? They are smarter than men could ever hope to be, but they just aren't interested in those boring things. /rolls eyes Not at you poster, but at the concept.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 03:14 PM
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Even investigating such questions is considered taboo. It's on par with human biodiversity talk. To even suggest that there might be physiological differences between the sexes or different races of persons is pure evil.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 03:13 PM
3

Right. It's still no excuse for a fat person to bitch about why nobody considers them attractive, while doing nothing to remedy the problem. Fat women are by far the worst about being fat and expecting men to not judge it critically. Fat men know they're fat and either care enough to do something about it, or they don't care about it at all and just do their own thing. They don't try and blame the women that aren't attracted to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 03:09 PM
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It's far more complicated than that. I'd suggest you read up on insulin, keto, and Jason Fung's work on "curing" type 2 diabetes. Just throwing that in here because there is tons of ignorance about why people get fat, and why they can't lose weight. It's not because they are lazy. This isn't to excuse fat persons from accepting responsibility in their malaise. But to point out that the fixes that are peddled are quite useless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/18 05:38 AM
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How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is To have a thankless child! That's from Shakespeare's "King Lear." This is why your job as a parent is to prepare your children for adulthood. So they can be quality persons, and capable of making good decisions. These past few generations of idiotic parents have failed their children. In a climate where judgement is considered bad and wrong, we have sent generations of young people into the world ill-equipped to make good decisions. This is why young girl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/18 06:05 PM
15

And I see "my kids first!". It's like these women think that's supposed to attract a man. I don't know. Would a woman like this be happy if the man advertised before the first date that she'll ALWAYS come second in his life to <insert anything else HERE>? This is why single moms should stop dating, and get down to the business of raising their children first and foremost. Attempting to mitigate the unfortunate situation their children are now in, whether through a tragedy or mom's stupidity. It'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/18 05:58 PM
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That's one of my favorites. "Loves everyone!" They don't even know how silly that sounds. You seriously have no discrimination about whom you love? They think they sound classy, like Jesus. Except they aren't a God, they are humans stuck in an imperfect world. And showing absolutely no effort to differentiate between what (or whom) is worth loving and what is not-- isn't a blessing. It's a curse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/18 05:55 PM
15

Still looking, will inform when she finds them. #MauryPovich
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/18 05:53 PM
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You're right on. These "intimidating" women are generally unapproachable. You know the type, comes across like any type of interest from a man would be an inconvenience. So most men just never bother. My guess here though? Later on that thread, she answers a question about her past and reveals some severe abuse as a child. Like, beyond the normal type. She never once mentioned any kind of counseling or psychiatrist to help deal with that. Therefore, she's "intimidating and unavailable" for a dee…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 07:14 PM
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Whoa whoa whoa. That's a LOT of questions, bruh. These women think because they have a vagina, relationships are supposed to be plentiful and she gets her pick of the litter. All the things you question her about her appeal, are things she's never once considered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 07:07 PM
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Yeah, most "respectable" men are frothing at the mouth to find a girl that's so demure! Kappa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 07:04 PM
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Yep, she's now looking for a man "who's not gonna flood my phone with body selfies." Doesn't like the competition. ;)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 07:03 PM
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starting to feel as though I'll never be wanted by anyone, wasn't sure how to make it better. Let's start by removing that stupid duck lips look from your face. Are you trying to be Ugly Wanda's white soul sister? Second, stop taking selfies. They're silly and narcissistic. No man finds them remotely attractive. It's for attention from your girl friends. Just stop. Third get the hell off internet and go out talking to normal men. I'll bet you could find dozens right now, and maybe have some inte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 07:01 PM
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Every one of these decently-attractive, approaching the wall, has kids, (allegedly) looking to get married women all say "no hookups, not into hooking up, if that's what you want just move along". Essentially they are telling prospective men "Hey, I let other guys get free pussy on the first date. But now I'm reformed so you are losing out on the gravy train." Yeah, I'll pass on sloppy seconds where I'm being devalued. Next.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 06:55 PM
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It's the secret that "victim groups" dare not speak. They actually enjoy their "victimized" status because it gives them special priority and attention. This girl, is not unlike many of the women I deal with in my industry. It's a male dominated industry, and most of the women you get here rather enjoy their protected status. Even while claiming they want to be treated as equals.. until they are held responsible for mistakes or unmet expectations. Then they play the vag card.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/18 06:49 PM
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The truth is, most of modern Christianity is compromised. They don't teach actual Christian values, they don't practice them, and certainly don't reap the benefits of them. They want to remain "relevant" to the world, but in the process they have lost their moral compass. Much of the Church Leadership is so busy trying to appeal to the sinners, that they have forgotten their Biblical principles. It's akin to a parent that is so concerned with his child liking him/her, that they eschew their resp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 07:43 PM
2

I know people that have survived gunshots to the head. Doesn't mean it's the best way to do something. Sometimes we step in shit (or life dumps it on us) and we come out smelling like a rose. It's important to recognize bad systems despite the lucky result.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 07:30 PM
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It's typical idiocy to assert that because somebody isn't interested in a thing or doesn't want to be around that thing-- they are "scared". It's an attempt to demean the person(s), and thereby make these idiots feel better about themselves. It's actually not fear that keeps them away. It's that they aren't interested.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 06:39 AM
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These women look for "intelligent" conversation because the only guys they give the time of day-- aren't the kinds that A: are intelligent and/or B: don't respect them enough to carry a conversation about anything other than sex. These girls need to examine their interests, and why they aren't actually seeking "intelligence" in the men with whom they pursue. But that won't happen. 99% of what women say they want, they do the exact opposite. Then can't understand why they aren't getting the resul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 06:37 AM
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You marry someone because you love them and have learned enough about them to know that they are a match for you. Dating is the means to this end. 3 years is more than enough time to get to know them well enough to know if they are A: a good person and B: a good match for you. Anything beyond that is a waste of time if marriage is your goal. If you have not decided that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person by year 3; they aren't the one. I consider 3 years the cutoff point, t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/18 06:11 AM
1

But her profession does matter. At least in the case of female doctors/lawyers/CEOs. Most men are simply not interested in a relationship where they will likely get less than a few hours of quality time with their wife per week. (all jokes aside) Especially so when the chances of her feeling frisky are going to be near zero. These types of professions are serious drains on mental/emotional energy. You can't ignore her career, just like you can't ignore her family. Choose wisely. Men show their l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/18 05:54 AM
1

They usually can't get the commitment. At least, not from any "good man" as he's running away from their 1000-cock stares. Most of these women are too busy giving away the milk for free to understand why no "good men" want to buy their cow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/18 03:03 AM
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Sounds like what she is looking for is "lust", not "love." Easy mistake. Whether she would change even if she understood my point, doubtful. Oh well, sounds like another one that bypassed all those "good men" in her youth and continues to not even give guys she's picking from dating sites a chance. I mean, isn't the entire point of dating sites to get some information regarding potential compatibility PRIOR to you deciding to meet up? At least a better prospect than the entirely random chancing …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/18 02:58 AM
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My boyfriend [27] and I [26] have been dating for five years. I wasn't interested in marriage until recently, maybe the last year and a half or so. He says he would love to marry me, but that he personally isn't ready. He's finishing up school and just starting a career. Valid reasons, checks out. Found the problem. If you aren't getting married within 3 years, you are wasting your time. That is ample time to have gotten to really know each other. If he isn't asking you to marry by then, he does…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/18 02:52 AM
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Likely she was attractive 8 in heyday, and it takes a lot to avoid marriage and instead get just 2 kids. Nah. Just takes being a moron. Any woman, especially one that is relatively attractive, can have her pick of the litter if she so desires. Most of these girls are fools, and so they choose poorly in their prime years. They don't seek out the "good men" and work at finding marriage. That takes work. Being a post-wall single momma is EZ.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:54 AM
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She has the right idea, but is wholly fucking up the implementation. Red flags: what are they? These are things that are signs of problems. Generally, serious problems. It's important you have the sense to differentiate between serious and unserious problems. Examples of serious (Red) might be "Drinks too much", "Is very jealous", or "Lies". Examples of unserious (NOT Red) might be "Prefers Light Beer to Regular", "Likes South Park", or "thinks skinny jeans are stylish on a guy". And there are m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:47 AM
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This right here is why I love this sub. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:42 AM
3

Rather than be pissed at the situation, she should be happy this guy isn't violating boundaries. Until they are married, her finances are HER concern and his are HIS. If she believes otherwise, then she's not being honest about the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:40 AM
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Sexy af. Unrelated, but similar- this is why I dislike the modern day female comics. Their entire shtick is being foul-mouthed pigs, talking about whorish activity and sex sex sex... like some sort of 14 year old boy. If I wanted to hear a guy tell jokes, I would go listen to a guy tell jokes. I don't want a woman asking for a chaw or one of my cold ones.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:38 AM
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IKR? And of course, no fellow is going to ever measure up to daddy. She's unhappy, and is going to continue being unhappy, until she realizes what SHE is doing. She's not allowing herself to get to know the men she dates and have them surprise her. To actually get to know them as individuals. She's juxtaposing "daddy" onto them, and when they aren't carbon copies of dear old dad; she's upset, disappointed, and unhappy with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:36 AM
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Okay, just my general intuitive take on this broad and ones like her. I could be wrong... She essentially is a dude. Ladies, I know you think "dude" things are "sexy" to guys... they're not. I'm here to tell you it's not. Everytime I hear some girl say she's into football or is a big beer drinker... it's not attractive. At. All. Girls like this are so overbearing in relationships, it's like you are being out-manned (bad pun) at every turn. And the general feel I get is "Why the fuck am I with a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:30 AM
10

Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:23 AM
4

Hahaha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:19 AM
12

This is a common problem for any person with a demanding career such as doctor, lawyer, etc. To date/marry such a person, you must be willing to accept a subservient role in the relationship. Their career takes so much time from them, not just when they are on the clock. It leaves little energy left to fulfill the myriad of "relationship" things we all deal with. In the cases where it's the woman with such a career, this problem is quite difficult. Most men are not interested in a serious relati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/18 03:16 AM
2

Maybe if she wasn't an Atheist, she might have learned something about judging books by their covers. Wait, she's not into "judgment" either. Woops. Little late to catch on in life that good character and integrity are more important than looks. Oh well. If only "good men" had labels around their necks!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 10:42 AM
2

Because their friends tell them so! Usually it's two types: her clueless girlfriends whom she shouldn't listen to at all, but then she wouldn't be in this predicament if she had a lick of sense. And the other is the orbiter males who want to get in her pants, they'll always fill these girls' heads with flattery. Girls like this; have some fun at their expense. Be exceedingly blunt when pointing out their shortcomings after they tell you how wonderful their friends say they <insert whatever trait…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 10:36 AM
3

Word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 10:33 AM
2

"Incredibly emotional" Soft-pedaling "BATSHIT CRAZY". "I am looking for someone around my age (25-30 please!) to talk to, watch series and share music with. Wow, so deep. Sounds great! Especially when I have to carry the intellectual lifting in the conversations because your scope is limited to passive consumption of crappy entertainment. I'm not exactly looking for a platonic friendship but not really looking for a relationship either. I've had my heart broken recently and I just want to share …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 10:28 AM
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Why does this guy feel the need to apologize for his judgment of her? I remember when judgment used to be a sign of intelligence. Being able to differentiate between bad, good, better, worse etc. Now, it's considered some evil to not only notice crappy behaviors, but to react accordingly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 10:21 AM
3

Yes. A general immaturity that can continue well into adulthood because of government wekfare programs that cushion the damage bad life decisions causes. And the recent growth of dating apps that have vastly expanded their prospective dating pool, as the next guy is one swipe away. Even when making terrible decisions in choices of men, they can still have options well into their 30s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/18 12:16 AM
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This guy is not wrong. Lack of good role models has been a huge problem for boys in specific, but also families as a whole. The same thing occurs with the destruction of the family unit. When divorces were increasing, it was pointed out that this is a bad thing because it tends to incrementally ratchet up the future divorce rates. Kids that come from broken families, tend to go out and make bad relationships and broken families of their own. Due to having role models of parents that made poor de…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 04:09 AM
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Well it is germane to this subreddit. This is part of the reason the 'Good Men' are harder to find. Even if we really are poking fun at the foolish women and their cluelessness regarding good men and how to find them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 04:04 AM
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Yeah, I saw this story when it came out. Perfect example of beauty being only skin deep and short lived. Good lesson for young persons everywhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 04:01 AM
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If nothing is sexier than being the kind of man she recommends marrying, why the hell would she not say to go with that kind of guy right away? Exactly. Bullshit test failed. This sort of foolishness is destroying young women, and as a result young men too. It's hard to teach your sons to be gentlemen and nice guys when those concepts aren't getting the rewards of female attentions. Young men with the hormones raging aren't always capable of understanding the patience required to find an actual …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:56 AM
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The libido and pity sex thing: These women are absurd. I have listened to Dr. Laura for decades. One of the things that drives her up the wall are women like this one, that complain about their marriages and husbands. When she digs in, and finds that the woman just can't be bothered to have sex with the husband.. yet complains about the marriage/husband being bad. There are two concepts she pushes: Choose wisely, treat kindly. Most of these idiots do one wrong, or both. They choose poorly, treat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:52 AM
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I KNOW he had an emotional affair with another girl This stupid "emotional affair" crap keeps popping up in modern day discussions. What. The. Fuck. is an "emotional" affair? You ignored your man, and he seeks attention from another woman? That's not cheating. Yet. So let's not call it some made up words. He was the most attentive, caring, respectful, and unquestioningly honest guy I'd ever met.... until he wasn't. I know everyone says that, but he really was great. Translation: I have my head s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:46 AM
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What an eclectic hobby! Nobody is in to that, you're so edgy girl! /rollseyes :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:33 AM
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These kinds of gals wouldn't know a real man to see one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:32 AM
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You caught that as well? :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/18 03:30 AM
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I've found more success and my improved quality of life by "checking" my girl and not bothering with the guys. Mostly because I have always had options, and it's only improved as I have aged. I completely agree with you though about not getting involved with girls like this one. In fact , any girl that has guy "friends" is a major Red Flag. Girls like that enjoy the attention of men far too much and are not worth the frustration.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/18 12:16 AM
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For real.. Have you seen what goes on in most colleges? Gettin' they Lern on' ain't priority number 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/18 12:00 PM
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Your sniffer is correct. She knew he was an asshole all along. You can't hide these things for longer than the first couple of dates. Surely she is damaged goods. Low self esteem is the typical culprit. So she stayed with, and continued to reward the asshole with sex, while never accepting any responsibility for her life. Then, the relationship ends because he dumps her. And here she is, all confused. How do I know? Because girls that have LTR with assholes are all the same. They wouldn't leave …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/18 05:13 PM
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Well, it used to be that "nice, respectful, hard working, honest" were the qualities parents taught their children to value. As that went by the way side, we now have several generations of people that no longer value those things. This is why I say that "where are all the good men" type nonsense is really a symptom of the greater cause. These women do not value good men, therefore they aren't attracted to them. They aren't "good" women any more. It's a self-perpetuating cycle, where bad women r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/18 11:45 PM
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I have a theory that there aren't really that many "assholes". Everybody has an inner asshole and an inner simp. Whichever comes out is determined by the beauty of the prospective partner. This is because people tend to act in accordance with their perception of "what can I get away with?" That's why some guys chase fat chicks. Obviously, the fat girls are not physically attractive. So normal guys don't give them the time of day. That's exactly why the chubby chaser likes them though. It's an im…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/18 11:39 PM
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It's OK to have sympathy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 11:25 PM
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These dating "experts" are laughable. They are mealy mouthed equivocators attempting to spin the truth that reality is a cold hard bitch. These ladies wasted their youth, and now that reality has caught up with them they are disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 11:23 PM
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Don't feel bad. She's not a victim. People that choose poorly suffer for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 10:28 PM
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"I always end up attracting assholes and getting involved with them" The second half of that statement is 100% her own fault. Which completely destroys her assertion that she is smart. Can't help who hits on you. Can help who you choose to reward with your time. Stupid girl choosing to do stupid, then trying to make believe it's bad luck. You're not unlucky. Your stupid and you make bad decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 10:26 PM
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Bingo. Learn the code words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 10:09 PM
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Classy touch for classy broads. /thumbsup
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/18 02:04 PM
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More dangerous than that; many pedophiles actively seek relationships with single moms. Because they can gain access to children, and a mom that is usually more than willing to look the other way at all red-flags because she's desperate. And her unwillingness to stay single and try to raise the child without running a train of men in and out of the kid's life... shows she's a fool. Perfect pickings for predators looking to abuse children sexually, physically, and/or emotionally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 08:15 PM
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It doesn't have to be that way. But most of the time persons making such horrendously stupid choices as teenage sex before marriage.. continue on with their stupid decisions compounding the problems. If they aren't married at that age, the baby should be given up for adoption. Instead, they'll keep it, ruining the lives of both the baby and themselves in the process.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 08:13 PM
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Here is one of the most difficult lessons of adulthood: When things go wrong in your life, it is of the utmost importance that you are willing to assess, identify your mistakes, and work on correcting them. If you cannot do this, you never improve. You will be a 40, 50, 60 year old fool. This is why absolving people of their responsibilities in life does them no good. Especially when they are young, stupid, and apt to make a ton of mistakes. Instead of being learning experiences, they become yet…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 08:06 PM
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You're thinking like a man. Looking at "what can you provide that is attractive to a partner" is total man-think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 07:57 PM
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It's like that old conservative joke about a liberal newspaper headline in case of the apocalypse: "Asteroid to impact Earth and end all life! Women and minorities hit hardest!" :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/18 09:42 PM
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"Not your typical 19 year old girl" Already has a bastard child The kids is my world! Lots of tattoos and piercings In typical silly girl fashion, spouts the "I want a guy with a good personality before a good-looking jerk"... followed right up with "I've had my fair share of bad relationships" Seems you were more interested in the latter than the former, my dear. Yeah. Sounds EXACTLY like your typical 19 year old silly girl in modern America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/18 06:49 PM
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It's typical female mode. She's not asking a question. She's bitching. She doesn't want an answer. She's not pursuing knowledge. Only bitching. Wants to vent and blame all men for the losers she is choosing. She throws in the obligatory "maybe I'm doing something wrong..." and then quickly runs on to continue bitching and babbling nonsense. At no point would she ever seriously contemplate a discussion regarding why she's chasing losers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/18 06:43 PM
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The mid-range: "I'll settle for a good person that treats me well" Settle? Spoken as if you have hundreds of better offers. Then the qualifier of "treats me well". Again, spoken as if you have no work to do finding this person, or any role in what you can do for them. No, it's what will they do for you. Typical entitled fool. No wonder the only guys she's attracting now are the sort that would send dick pics to a woman they don't even know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/18 06:35 PM
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It's an impossible concept to grasp for women poisoned by feminism. Also for men poisoned by same. The Biblical concept of the structure of a marriage, and the roles of the sexes within it, are foreign to our culture now that Christianity has been chased out of the lexicon. These women see such a subservient role to be anathema to their very existence. It's why the moment I hear a woman talking about how "independent" she is... I chalk it up to a woman that will never be happy because she cannot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:45 PM
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*"women are the keepers of sex, men the keepers of commitment. men who give up commitment without sex are friendzoned orbiters, aka losers. inversely, women who give up sex without commitment are also losers." * Should be taught to all children by their parents when they are 12 years old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:35 PM
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No, what's most depressing is that you and I are paying for it to happen. Without Big Gubmint to play surrogate daddy to bastard children by stealing our tax dollars, these idiots wouldn't be breeding by the millions and passing along their terrible decision making and morals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:22 PM
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I love you guys. Really good with the quips. /thumbsup
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:20 PM
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A simpler way to say it: Decisions have consequences. Poor decisions lead to bad consequences that can severely limit your future options. Welcome to the real world, honey. You are about 10 years too late to this realization. But perhaps some random soul passing along this internet highway can look upon this disaster and learn something fruitful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:17 PM
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Who knows what these idiots are thinking? Why would any man with sense get involved with a woman he presumably does not already know, but she is preggers? I mean, I can sort of understand the guy that has a relationship with some woman as a friend or on/off BF.. and she gets knocked up by some other dude. I'd say he's being foolish, but I could at least grasp the concept that he has actual feelings for this woman (even if misguided, but I digress). There is at least a history there. But these da…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/18 09:11 PM
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We are talking about married persons. They wouldn't have married if they had no attraction to each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/18 06:29 PM
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Here is the crux: What do you mean "sexually compatible"? The fact of the matter is that sex feels good. It's impossible to mess up, as long as both parties are willing to put in the effort. If you love your spouse, it's easily something to work out. The actual issue isn't "sexual compatibility." It's when you get a woman that is unwilling to provide it for her husband. Men are not complicated. If he loves a woman enough to marry her, the only way that is going south is if she throws it all away…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/18 04:26 AM
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They know exactly what they are doing. They are getting a relationship where they take far more than they give. They know it's possible because their "friend" has strong enough feelings that they can string them along. No care for the selfishness of it all. Onve you know, you can't ever look at it with the benefit of doubt. It's the height of selfishness. That's how women do it. Men do it by stringing along the booty call girls in a different way, but just as selfishly callous to their humanity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/18 09:15 PM
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I know when I see a 30 year old person who lists a major interest of "hanging out at the bar"... I've found a real winner. /rolls eyes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/18 03:01 PM
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Went to college, yet butchers the English language mercilessly in this profile? Not that it matters. There is literally nothing in there that would attract an actual man. Maybe some pedophile that would want easy access to this desperate fool's kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/18 02:58 PM
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"I have some amazing guy friends" Then why weren't you dating them, instead of friendzoning them? Too busy chasing the guys that only valued you as a sex object for their own gratification. Now that you're nearing The Wall, it's time to get righteous. Seen it all before. Reap what you have sown. Time to start talking that Jesus talk when you weren't interested in listening to him before. #YetAnotherTriteGirl
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/18 02:53 PM
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"Why don't I feel attracted to these nice guys?" A question they never ask. Totally passive about their responsibility in the shitshow of the relationships in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/17 06:39 PM
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The pain of loss is intense. But the years of comfort and wonderful memories are worth it. One thing pets will never do is intentionally hurt you. And that puts them above people in my book.
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 05:36 PM
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Who said nobody makes mistakes? Being that this is a MAN reddit, I'm going to expect you want to BE A MAN and not a BOY. We all make mistakes. Being a man means you make the best of the situation YOU yourself had a hand in creating. That child is the innocent victim here. And if you lack the commitment and responsibility to do your absolute best for him, then you certainly aren't a man. I couldn't care less about your feelings or how difficult it is and will be. Abdicating your responsibility to…
/r/MGTOW20/12/17 11:57 AM
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So you think 96 hours out of 720 hours in a month is good enough for YOUR child? I don't. And neither will your kid. Men Going Their Own Way? You gave up that right when you stuck your dick in that woman and got her pregnant.
/r/MGTOW19/12/17 09:14 PM
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Let me break this down for you: Of the three humans in this relationship, only the child never got a say. Both you and mom did. And you both did fucking terrible. Now thats tough shit for you, buddy. You get to eat this shit sandwich until that kid is 18. Time to put your big boy pants on and do whatever you have to in order to stay in this kid's life. I don't care how fucking hard it is. YOU made the stupid choice to have sex with this woman, and now you are going to suffer the consequences. Bu…
/r/MGTOW19/12/17 06:50 PM
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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062457713/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_-NfoAbZR0KKDX
/r/MGTOW19/12/17 12:15 AM
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Because it is their way to really stick it in the eye of man culture, particularly white man culture.
/r/MGTOW17/12/17 06:33 PM
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The propaganda they push in films today rings hollow for a very important reason. When you are so set on making minorities (I call it the "Magic Minority" syndrome) so perfect, always the smartest, toughest, wisest, coolest, sexiest, etc etc.. you end up with 2-dimensional characters. It's why old superhero comics were so lame. There is no drama in a 2-dimensional world. Characters that are perfect at everything, show no real depth. No real human qualities that help the viewer to identify with t…
/r/MGTOW17/12/17 03:18 PM
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You hate to see it. A man acting like a simp, that is. But you can't save the world. We each have our own journey. Some are wiser than others.
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 02:44 PM
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Pretty shitty. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_peUxE_BKcU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V35Vw29tay0
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 02:39 PM
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Gratitude seems to be the one they struggle with the most. Well, I say struggle, they don't actually struggle because it never even occurs to a lot of women that they ought to be grateful for anything, or that a man might appreciate the slightest hint of it now and then. For the bad ones, it physically pains them to do it. Any man here that has ever loved a woman (that was no good).. can attest to the lack of gratitude. You put a lot of effort or thought into doing something special for her.. an…
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 02:36 PM
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When i see a woman bragging about that as she's trying yo find a man, it just screams "im SO independent and not going to ever supplicate to a man or show any sign i could be open to letting a man have even the smallest say in our relationship." Run for the door...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/17 08:11 PM
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Sounds like she's looking for a relationship with the government. Welfare queen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/17 08:04 PM
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Those last two are very important messages for MGTOWs to hear. Going your own way should mean diverging fro the current destructive feminist agenda permeating American culture. It should not be taken as a free pass from the responsibility men bear in keeping a civilization strong, flourishing, and advancing. Abdicating our responsibility to posterity abd opting for self pleasure is just as selfish and wrong as the pervasive matriarchy. So yes, im not your typical MGTOW. because i believe there i…
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 07:18 PM
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Articles and discussions like these miss the salient points. There is nothing wrong with recognizing that physical attractiveness is real. Trying to shame men or women that notice and like physical beauty in potential love interests is stupid. The real issue is a value issue. Too many people, women and men alike, make bad choices on relationships because they have terrible values. They may place 90% of decision making based on physical looks for example. Which is foolish seeing as looks fade, an…
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 02:13 PM
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Dr. Laura wrote a book titled "The Proper Care And Feeding Of Husbands". Targeted at women. Sometimes she will get female callers that questioned why she didn't write a similar book targeted at men. Her basic answer is that men are not complicated and they are not the ones ruining most relationships. If a man loves a woman, all he needs and wants is for her to sex him and feed him, with a smile. Done. It's women that want some laundry list of incompatible items and tests for him to constantly co…
/r/MGTOW14/12/17 01:51 PM
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One of my first jobs was niteshift next to a strip club. After closing, we'd sometimes hang out with security thrre and some of the strippers. They're damaged people. Anyways, every now and again one of the girls would stop coming for a few weeks or so. I asked some of the guys "wtf?" The strippers would start dating some john, who then wanted her to quit stripping. That would last a few weeks, until the relationship fell apart because she's a stripper that has no other actual talent or contribu…
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 01:13 PM
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I work in a male-dominated industry. My past younger self used to think the "boys club" that seemed to never want any woman around were unenlightened misogynists. That's what my school and TV brainwashing had told me. That stereotypes were wrong, and anybody that believed them was horrible dummies. As I have aged, I have seen that stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. That the "unenlightened ignoramuses"... are not all evil and foolish. Some are. But many are just people that have had the co…
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 08:32 AM
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Even the "cool" girls can be the ones that explode your life when the whim hits them. AWALT. It's a shame that people can't just be people anymore. Yeah, there are some really great people that happen to have vaginas. But in a modern day climate where witch-hunts are real and even phantom accusations are career-enders for men? It's not worth the risk.
/r/MGTOW12/12/17 08:28 AM
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Do you know the most difficult part about opening your eyes? Finding that you are in a world of people with closed eyes... because they want to keep them closed.
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 04:40 AM
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"Rather than one who gives me a thrill." As if a good man and a good relationship is mutually exclusive from "thrills." Therein lies her, and most modern women's trouble.
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 03:14 AM
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Right. It's the old "you're cheating on me!" even though the guy isn't.... but she treats him like he is until one day the (previously good) guy says "fk it, I'm being treated and blamed for cheating, might as well do it and get some benefit". And now she's got herself a cheater.
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 03:12 AM
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The difference between love and lust: Love is "what can I do for YOU." Lust is "what can you do for ME." Most people do not know the difference. They confuse the two. They don't know what real love is. They never could put anyone else in front of themselves. There is no such thing as "love at first sight." Actual, mature love requires time to develop because you need to legitimately get to know the thing/person before it can happen. There is "lust at first sight", and this is confused for love. …
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 03:09 AM
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Pwnd.
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:32 AM
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He's a monster! It's fascinating to see this concept so prevalent in modern relations. Remember when women actually required courting? That a suitor had to prove himself suitable as a potential spouse, BEFORE she would hop in the sack with him? Now, if you aren't trying to get in her pants by the end of the 1st date, she either thinks your gay or is totally disinterested in your lack of bad-boy disrespectful nature.
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:25 AM
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Your perspective is of modern day marriage. There was a time before feminism, when marriage wasn't perverted. Where the woman supported her husband, and he supported her, in a mutual relationship of sacrifice, love, and respect. What we see today is a horrifying simulacrum of the institution of marriage. A relationship of convenience for most women, and often cast aside when a better business proposition arises. Gone are the respect, honor, commitment, and responsibility of marriage. I don't bla…
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:23 AM
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Isn't this the most depressing part for MGTOWs? When dealing with the obscenely difficult "modern" woman, there seems to be no winning. The stunning lack of sincerity, and that you as well must eschew your own sincerity and openness.. to play the game. Otherwise, you never "win" their heart. But if you DO play the game to win them... you have sold your soul to do it. The poison of feminism runs deep. This is why men are being destroyed as a result of the malfeasance of women. You can't win for l…
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:20 AM
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Ever notice how often these women rapists have collections of selfies? Especially with the duck lips. It can't be a coincidence that persons taking such foolish looking, vain pics of themselves are also the types of vapid, morally deficient persons that would rape children.
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:15 AM
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You think that's odd? Go ahead and bring up a discussion about these women teachers raping students at your local water cooler, bar, or other social gathering place. You can count the number of people that are rightly concerned and dismayed on one hand. Meanwhile, you'll get dozens of "Right on!" and "What a lucky kid!" type comments, complete with other assorted crude comments not fit for polite company. Like it's not only a joke, but to be lauded. Change it to a male teacher raping his female …
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 09:13 AM
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Bromances aren't good for men either. The required intimate contact humans desire between the sexes, is being usurped by the bromance. It's a pale imitation. Actual intimate relations between a man and woman are both necessary and useful to the strength of a society. God has made us to fulfill certain parts of the opposite sex. Placetakers such as bromances, girlmances, or any of the other various hobbies/poppycock we use to replace it... are not beneficial to ourselves or society at large. This…
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 03:42 AM
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Marriage as a religious institution works fine. When both parties have been raised inside the religious culture that teaches about it, understands, and advocates the necessary development of children in preparation for it. When you begin to largely treat it as a secular institution, where you have sundry various viewpoints reflected in the persons marrying... it leads to the disaster you see before you today. Most people today do not take the institution seriously, do not understand it, and as s…
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 03:36 AM
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Like in Muslim countries? It ain't great. At all.
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 03:31 AM
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Has to be a troll. No guy is that stupid.
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 12:27 AM
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This. The problems stem from government interference. Not only in the institution OF marriage, but many ancillary laws surrounding the institution. One example is that there was a time when if you were not married when making a child, there were no laws requiring the father to be responsible for the child. This served purposes in many ways that have since been muddied and interfered with by government. If a woman had no claim on a man's wealth because he sired a child with her, there was the out…
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 12:24 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dpDkYZWeeVg
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 12:10 AM
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It's kind of an old standard. 7 on the list of 10. "Thou shalt not commit adultery." If you honestly inquire as to why it's become so commonplace to see cheating in the past generation or so? The nation as a whole has turned away from Christianity. Beginning largely in the 60s with the counterculture movement. I don't want to start a religion discussion. Whether a person believes in God or not, or however they see the supernatural. But it's important to note that religions across the board creat…
/r/MGTOW05/12/17 04:17 AM
2

Has feminism really done better for women? I just read an article about Japanese women not being interested in relationships any more. One of the reasons? They are simply too tired to invest the effort finding and cultivating a relationship because they go to jobs every day. Equality has given them the same burden as men, and now they aren't as free to spend energy on relationships. So they don't. It's not a good thing. Japan is already negative on babies being born. Lots of old people, and less…
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 10:15 PM
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Most of these are, or sound like, single moms. Or moms married to weak dads. One of the common ones there: the kids won't listen. That is the parent's fault, period. Throw away the Dr. Spock influenced nonsense that has infected modern day parenting advice. Spare the rod, spoil the child. If you do not make discipline the goal of raising a person, you will get ungrateful little monsters. We are all born that way, and it takes firm caring parenting to shape us into responsible adults. The deeper …
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 10:04 PM
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Men aren't attracted to the position because schools have become surrogate mommies instead of institutions of academic learning. It says so in the article, where males entering the workforce don't consider Elementary teacher positions because it's seen as a woman thing. If schools were more about academics instead of feels, men would be just as represented as women if not more so.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 09:52 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00F6SHCYS/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1 One of the most chilling movies I have ever seen. In today's witch-hunt political climate, I can't imagine why a man would go near a job that puts him in touch with young children.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 09:50 PM
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Why do you think you see so many police shootings? Not just the worthless women cops, but male cops as well? Because many are physically not suited to the position. They are much more likely to resort to deadly force or tasers. This is also a big contributor to the continued militarization of police forces, mostly began with the war on drugs. They travel in packs now, yelling and screaming orders, guns pointed at 'criminals' like they are some foreign enemy. A constant antagonistic mindset of th…
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 09:42 PM
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Yep. They do it with male pop stars too. Finding "talent" that fits an image, and then sculpt and market that. Throw them away when they get too old. Rinse and repeat with the new version.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 09:34 PM
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In Pop music, sex is what sells. The music is studio created and tuned, the songs written by the same writers. They simply swap out yesterday's older sex toy for today's newer sex toy. Take any current popular song, and imagine if it were sung by another of the copycat sex toys. It wouldn't be any different. Even the ones that break the mold and have a small bit of actual self-talent, can't help themselves but to play to their sex advantage as much as they can. Such as Mariah Carey, Christina Ag…
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 09:29 PM
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I tried it. Doesn't remove the sperm.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 08:32 PM
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An experienced gal such as this no longer gags.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 06:30 PM
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Same concept applies to "friend zone". Once you get the Red Pill, and you see these things for what they are you can never go back. I realized that type of situation is all about HER needs being fulfilled, with no respect to MY needs. The Red Pill opens your eyes, and it's a natural course to regaining control of your life. That's what MGTOW is all about.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 02:58 AM
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You are the one that has to look yourself in the mirror every morning. If you are proud of it, maybe you need to reassess your life's direction? YMMV.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 02:57 AM
19

A lot of relationships fall apart when one member makes drastic changes. The dynamics change.
/r/MGTOW30/11/17 04:40 PM
3

Women are not the only offenders in this regard. Though they certainly seem to be more egregious about it because they are less likely to be upbraided for such discourteous behavior. A bit quaint and archaic, but I like to go over these every now and again: http://www.history.org/Almanack/life/manners/rules2.cfm Written down by a child George Washington. We don't even teach these things to adults today. 1st Every Action done in Company, ought to be with Some Sign of Respect, to those that are Pr…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:37 PM
24

Welcome to growing up.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:28 PM
4

Applicable not only to women, but to many men who find themselves at a place in their lives where they are not satisfied. Stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for your own life.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:26 PM
2

Ever notice how the most intolerant people are the ones proselytizing tolerance and diversity? Yeah, they don't like people that don't think like them, speak like them, or live like them. And unlike the normal persons of the world, they will make it their mission to destroy and punish anybody that is different than themselves. Contrary to the tripe your academia and media of the last half century has told you. It isn't the right-wing you ever needed to fear. Every time I hear that Buffalo Spring…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:07 PM
2

That is what most comics customers have been doing. The numbers back it up.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:03 PM
1

And this is why you don't bring politics into your entertainment product, unless the specific product IS political. Bottom line is that it's a business. You need to recognize your market, what they want, what you can provide, and then do it better than anybody else. There is no space for shoving your political ideologies into the product if there is no reason your customers would want it. Same goes for music, TV, sports, etc.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:02 PM
5

I don't disagree with the sentiment. I prefer it actually. The way you dress is a quick indicator of the type of person you probably are. Saves me from wasting time on them. Seems like those old folks might have been on to something...
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 07:46 PM
5

Because their limited intellectual capability thinks only in binary. Extreme ends of the spectrum are the only options.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 07:43 PM
4

If you don't know MGTOW is a misbegotten consequence of the sickness of liberalism , you might want to expand your intellectual horizons. Calling something a "meme" when it is not, is intellectually lazy.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 08:18 AM
8

Most liberals come from insulated sectors of the society such as government jobs or academia. You can get away with such tomfoolery there. Out in the real world, it's not that easy to hire unqualified people into positions they can't handle just because they have certain characteristics (such as color or plumbing) that are irrelevant to the job performance. This is why liberals can think the way they do, pushing programs and laws the way they do.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:04 PM
12

Liberalism generates the exact opposite of it's stated intent. This same nonsense applies in minority quotas as well. I work in an industry that is vastly dominated by white males. Contrary to typical liberals' beliefs, the low percentages of women/blacks is not down to any discrimination holding them back. It's down to their extreme lack of interest in the field. But we suffer every year from having to meet minority requirements. So we get worthless employees that do little, and learn nothing b…
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:00 PM
24

I don't care to get involved in the psychology of liars and attention whores. It's too much to unravel and a waste of time honestly. But what chaps my hide about this current state of witch-hunting is people portraying these "victims" as "heroes". No, a "hero" would have went to the police and stood up to these so-called monsters as soon as was humanly possible. That's what a "hero" would do. Because it's difficult, scary, and you just want to hide from it all... but you do it because it's the r…
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:54 PM
6

Responsibility and consequences are masculine traits. There is a reason Christianity puts the father at the head of the household. It isn't to disrespect women but rather to leverage the typical attributes of the masculine over the feminine. This is why it's foolish to "hate" women for their deficiencies. It's part of their nature. You don't hate the wind for blowing. Women have other attributes that make them stronger than men in other areas. The failure of feminism and modern western civ is to…
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 07:38 PM
2

Why would you still be pissed? She was obviously not good people. Her level of importance should be nothing. I'd be ambivalent at worst, and elated at best to have gotten her out of my life.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 07:35 PM
7

I would stare out of disgust. A woman wearing a miniskirt in public riding a bike? Holy hell have standards for decency plummeted.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:21 PM
3

She gets a lesson in "equality". If you decide to open your mouth about something, you know it might not go easy. As a man you weigh the consequences. You don't whine about them after and pretend you're an innocent victim.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:19 PM
2

'u hit a lady' Where?
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:18 PM
3

Maybe you need to start hanging around some different white men. Come on down to the local redneck watering hole and say that.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:17 PM
3

This guy gets it.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:16 PM
7

Damned if you do look. Damned if you don't. Sounds about right.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:13 PM
9

Reminds me of this: http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20070625132811/uncyclopedia/images/5/5e/Attention-whore.jpg
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:12 PM
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The fact that she HAS a BF doesn't stop her from the most important craving that drives her existence: MOAR attention from men. In fact, having a relationship turns this up to 11. As a guy you are probably seeing this in a logical manner. Where if you were "on the market" you would desire attention as it could lead to the result of getting a relationship. And if you were "already taken" you wouldn't be wasting your time trying to get females to look your way since the one you love is at home.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:10 PM
1

This guy is smart, and is doing what EVERY Uber driver should do. Always have some recording device in your vehicle when you are inviting strangers in for rides. It's crazy that this is the world we live in. But what is crazier is if you do not adjust to it.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:21 PM
2

I think you have the wrong story.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:20 PM
2

So what? You do you. The real difference between men and women is that men don't groom themselves to impress others. They do it for themselves. Unless they are gay, in which case they are more like a woman than a man. Women do it to impress/fool other women.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:18 PM
1

Yeah I have had a beard in some fashion all of my adult life. I've had people comment about it, some women some men. I always ask them if they are trying to fuck me? If they aren't, I don't really care what they think about my personal grooming and they can fuck off.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:16 PM
1

Good synopsis.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:15 PM
1

I'd actually like this. I could see how I would look with different facial hair or none, BEFORE I do it. I won't shave because every time I do, I remember how I don't like "me" without facial hair.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:14 PM
1

I don't make it public. It's no different than any other thoughts that aren't politically correct. Care to notice that crime has a color? In a current climate where you can have your life literally destroyed by the thought police for having wrong think, it's in your best interests to keep to yourself. Even from close associates and friends, keep it to a minimum. You will be shocked and dismayed to see how people will flee from you if you get painted with the Scarlet Letter.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:13 PM
2

Why are you asking us? You know what you should have done. A man just does it and moves on without looking for approval.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:06 PM
1

No, it's not a coincidence. It's suicide for a culture. And it's coming to the US. This is why it's nothing to celebrate. MGTOW, while understandable, is treading on very thin ice. It is essentially fiddling while Rome burns.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:04 PM
7

Good for boys, not men. And bad for society. Let's not think short term, like them. Real men think of posterity. And the current climate does not bode well for the future of America or The West.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 12:02 PM
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