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| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?Be tall, decent looking, smell good, and communicate in a direct manner with women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 08:45 AM |
| 4 | How do I ask random men out in passing?I would try to think of a few good openers and just rely on those as cold opens. That way you can eventually approach and use them without thinking to spark a convo. One that I used to use on girls that would almost always get them to smile and crack the ice - "hey excuse me, you dropped something!" They begin looking around in confusion, then they look at you which is when you say "your smile :)" with a cute smirk and I swear as cheesy as it sounds they almost always smile back because of how u… | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 15 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceSpeaking realistically, I'm sure the starting point is similar for most men - wanting to improve looks so they can look better for the opposite sex. I just think it's better to evolve and do it for yourself - a shift in perspective that isn't so reliant on gaining a woman's approval over your appearance. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 08:19 AM |
| 94 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceMeanwhile the fattest guy at work has the hottest girlfriend lol. Im all for encouraging men to be healthy and improve their appearance, but don't tell them to do it for women - that's cuck shit. A man should strive to be healthy and in shape for himself. Period. Do it out of self respect... And if you can accept what others call "flaws" that can't be changed like your height or your hair, and learn to love yourself and be confident despite them, that's even better. Let women nitpick every aspec… | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 07:49 AM |
| 3 | 8 Years Deep 💔Clavicular is that you? 🤣 | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Between October 2023 and June 2024, I got over 40 numbers and since then I've gotten over 100. Every single one has ghosted me. I'm starting to think there is a problem with ME.The problem can be found in your first sentence... You ask women what they wanna go do and give them the most generic options 🤣 1) women don't like to make choices, especially on a first date. they want a man to lead and make the plans so they don't have to think about it 2) movies are a terrible first date and a restaurant is very generic. Some sort of activity would be ideal like painting at a bar or going for a walk with coffee that way you aren't just sitting next to each other or staring at… | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | 10 Field-Tested "Man Behaviors" That Fire Up Primal Attraction With Beautiful Womenive always disliked the advice that you should "be entertaining and show her a fun time" like some sort of dancing monkey while also acting like you dont want her approval like what? if i dont want her approval im not going to entertain her bruh that's not my job. i would rather entertain myself and if she wants to be around me cool if not then find someone else | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)Of course, I'm not saying that approach won't work. What I'm saying is that THIS approach is more effective because it allows the woman to save face, especially on a dating app where the "barrier to entry" if you will is much higher than approaching and being direct in person where the girl can see you and feel your energy | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)bro i watched your video and can tell you are legit... would be interested to know that filter you mentioned in the video that would be too much for reddit lol i had one I would use as well back when I was dating girls left and right during the pandemic | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 05:47 AM |
| 1 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)girls don't wanna feel like a slut or be perceived as easy to get... let this man cook he knows what he's talking about | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 05:47 AM |
| 3 | How I Get Girls To Come Straight Over (Vid Proof)saying a phone call before meeting is insecure... WILD haha especially coming from a girl. im a dude and i do that shit out of self-respect, not even for the girl to feel safe but out of respect for my own time meaning i use the phone call as a vibe check. if the vibe is off and im not feeing the girl's energy/attitude then boom I cut it off, no wasted time or energy. age has nothing to do with it. its just a smart thing to do for more than one reason. don't listen to this chick guys, most girls… | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 05:45 AM |
| 0 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortDespite what these other guys have said, YES, it's definitely true. Why? Very simple. If you let a guy hit the first night, you can easily come off like a slut or "too easy" and it taints his perspective of you. Of course there are always exceptions, because I've been in a relationship with some girls that I've slept with on night one so don't think chemistry doesn't play into it. Just know it's always a risk. That being said, life is so short that if you're on a first date and really vibing and… | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How to Hit on Girls and Get Laid at a Night Out this Valentine’s Day?find a way to get out of your head and be in the moment enjoying yourself and having interesting/funny/playful conversation with attractive women because your virgin brain will cockblock you. going up to women with the thought of "i have to find someone to fuck me tonight before the opportunity passes me by" will shift your energy in a way that will repel woman. | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ?People are still using real photographers? Lol I've seen some crazy good results with AI dude/dudette. That being said, i wouldn't go too professional because then your profile will look fake/scammy due to the lighting (and also make it look like you're a tryhard). | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckSorry, but the crowd has spoken lol. I think you're speaking for/about the minority. Most hot and educated people I know never used dating apps because they found people to date at school, work, etc. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 01:50 AM |
| 85 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckNah .. Dating apps still suck | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 09:19 AM |
| 6 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)I think what the guy earlier was trying to say with a lot more words is... be more assertive. like another poster said, you shouldn't have asked her for permission. however, being able to notice that you did that and understand WHY it is not a good thing to do when attracting/seducing women is already putting you one step closer my man. good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | A simple but incredibly effective tipits not that hard to make yourself smile if you think about it... just think of a funny memory or a funny image... there's also this comedy bit i remember about thinking to yourself like... "im sexy as fuck" as you walk around and things of that nature. if you just put a little bit of enthusiasm into it, a little can go a long way and you start to get some natural, positive vibes going. it might not "last" since it's artificial in a way lol but it will give you the sense of how your face feels w… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:53 AM |
| 1 | A simple but incredibly effective tipsee ive been told by women im an asshole before but it doesnt end up working for me so much as it works against me cause well... i was an asshole lol. like where do you draw the line between having it come off as attractive vs just... mean? | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The "wait" line is a perfect 2/2If your making the first move i would wait a while into the date before using it as using it too soon could come off a little desperate and take away some of the fun anxiety. just my 2 cents! | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:37 AM |
| 3 | What are the logistics after a coffee date?late afternoon transition to happy hour... good tip dude. definitely using this in the future. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Living with parentsis it really that bad to still be living with the parents at 22? im living in california going to school and working and living at home is just so convenient because i'd practically be broke if i moved out. I plan on moving out when I get my bachelor's but even then I have my own separate room so maybe it's different. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 04:36 PM |
| 1 | [LR] At the Dry Cleaners [with audio & texts]i personally had a good laugh at that part. it definitely shows you dont give a fuck and have a sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Following up after the first datehonestly man i would look to this post for some help http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/19nodo/building_attraction_with_text_game_the_unexplored/ i believe not texting or holding back is useful in some cases but really its about staying congruent. if your first dates went well, you should have kept the MOMENTUM going, especially if you landed a kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 12:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got a fuckbuddy + Some Tips/Tricksyeah seriously i tried picture flipping my palm and putting my index finger in her palm but i still dont get how thats sexual, even less how that makes her feel like she has a pencil dick in her hand | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 03:40 AM |
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