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I firmly believe many RPers are just sad men who can't get a woman. The only real thing they want, and get from RP, is the "truth" that women should defer to them. That they are, in fact, "better" than us and that the REAL issue is that the stupid women can't see it. Unsurprisingly, women are not willing to defer or prioritize men that are clearly less capable than them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 07:48 PM
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girls who want to be like the Manish alpha stereotype... what possible motivation do they have? To be successful enough that they don't have to depend on winning or finding a man to provide for them. It's not a bad choice. It just comes with the risk of being unhappy if it can't be turned off at home.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 07:40 PM
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he would help me out with housework as I was the only one working I'm sorry, what, the man doesn't have a job? What, exactly, is going on here?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 05:11 PM
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> He came back from vacation and his family home was spotless. Apparently, she came over in order to clean her MIL's house and continuously served and picked up after her brother-in-law If this were treated as a lovely, wonderful, amazing gesture of kindness and goodwill, lovely. But it seems this is his expectation. Either you can accept you're expected to be Mother Theresa and just shoulder unequal burdens and get no help, or you should not marry this man. The joy I feel when my SO helps me ou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 05:10 PM
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...so, this doesn't sound RP. This sounds "lesser than". It's as if he sees what you're doing as "beneath" him. This whole swearing "you set the fucking table" is 100% unacceptable. If he wanted you to listen and help him figure out something related to office politics or take a part time job because his income wasn't enough or read through a brief he wrote to check for spelling mistakes, I can't imagine you'd refuse. It seems 100% unreasonable he would refuse to help you. It's these types of dy…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 05:06 PM
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I have never found this to be the case with quality men. Perhaps one of the men I declined second dates to would have ended up being this type, but anyone who I want to go on a second date with is high enough quality that they aren't using dating as a means of sexual gratification but are instead using it to filter out partners. Are you perhaps not targeting men looking for LTR? I've never been a fan of dating men who weren't actively looking for what I was looking for; you end up in the kind of…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 01:50 AM
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Denying the Alpha Widow Principle is saying, in part, you deny hypergamy. This is not only denying an absolute concept ( that you concede by being on the subreddit) but it is an open declaration that if you have children or if you plan to have children, that they will be genetically deficient. Well, that's just silly. The key is to focus on the man's faults after the relationship has ended. No one is perfect and during a breakup a key element of moving beyond them is recognizing how you two were…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 07:26 PM
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> It’s starting to annoy me that he’s going out of his way and doing all these sweet things. When I find myself feeling this way, I explicitly tell the guy I'm dating to stop doing the nice thing because I am not appreciating it but rather becoming starting to feel entitled about it. In one relationship, I explicitly told them that there were aspects of Red Pill I agreed with and we should discuss it. > People always look at us crazy. Guys sometime pull him aside and ask him how the hell he got …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 10:35 PM
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I have no idea if this will be a popular opinion, but I never have sex without reciprocity (oral or otherwise) if I'm tired. It is VERY important to me that I never see sex as a gift or something I "give" to him, but rather something we both enjoy and share together. It's also important that we both recognize the importance of sex and put in the time and work necessary to make sure it's happening routinely and we're both enjoying ourselves. Anyway, it's much easier to get into sex of any sort wh…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 05:20 AM
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I don't want a guy to use me as a free sex maid and then not marry me. My Dad scared me so thoroughly about men using me for sex, that I refuse to do anything sexual I don't want to. Because then if we breakup I never have to feel "used" because everything we did together I actively enjoyed. This attitude has gone over rather well, but it helps that I actively DO like sex and when I am communicating effectively on what I like, don't like, etc. it means I'm having a fair amount of awesome sex. If…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 05:12 AM
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I refuse to be pressured into having sex. I just refuse. If I'm begrudgingly having sex, it isn't good for him or our relationship. Also, what kind of man pressures me into sex? If I have to say no more than twice, then there is a problem. However (isn't there always a however?), I have noticed the Fact I feel closer to my SO and more tolerant of his less than endearing traits if we are having consistent sex. And I know the same is true for him. So it behooves me to make sure I am actively worki…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 05:08 AM
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I really wish men didn't post on this subreddit. I tend to find them condescending and rarely helpful. I share many of your traits. But I also focused on relationships, getting married, and babies from a very young age. Despite actively looking for marriage to an older established man so I could be a stay-at-home wife, I didn't find it. I was legit going on dates and looking online at 19 (10 years ago) with this exact goal in mind. The reality is most men who are upper-middle class and live in b…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 05:57 AM
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You might want to consider looking up the Imago method and practicing it with him. Sometimes people just need to be heard and feel seen. My SO and I use the Imago method whenever one of us is getting upset, and it's been an amazing addition to our happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 01:18 AM
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I'd offer. If on the first date he lets me pay half, I consider it a red mark. Not a big one, but just a sign he isn't as traditional as I'd prefer. If he let me pay the whole on the first date, I'd never see him again. I'd also not have offered to pay the whole and if he was confused, I'd clarify...but still consider it a damn large mark against him he was just assuming reaching for my wallet meant the whole bill was mine! If he's already paid 100% once, I'm much more comfortable doing dutch fr…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 05:20 AM
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Huh. I used OkCupid and the ability to filter to men who had explicitly stated they wanted kids and monogamy and then I could set myself apart from most women by sending the first message was a killer combo. I swear I've gone on over 100 first dates in my life. Maybe 15 second dates. I credit online dating for giving me the ability to find the best of the best (based on my standards) -- aka my current SO :) I hate meeting men IRL. I'm too emotionally involved usually before I've even confirmed w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 01:44 AM
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I'm not a very private person, so no worries :) "I love you" for me means "I would marry you". I said it around 9 months. I meant to wait to a year because society tells me that's the minimum amount of time, but he'd said it at 6 months...and we had just finished a huge disagreement where we were FURIOUS at each other but still speaking kindly and making the effort to really try to understand the other person's position, so when we finished and we both felt closer and understood it just popped o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 01:31 AM
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Thanks :) I'm immensely proud of him and our relationship. My sisters are impressed with him and wonder where the heck he came from, but they acknowledge that I have worked hard on my personal life. Someone once said it was silly we spent so much effort plotting our professional lives and left our personal lives up to chance, and I took that to heart at a young age. I've made mistakes, but I always made sure I learned from them and didn't make the same one twice :) His communication, arguing sty…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 01:09 AM
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Hm. The gratitude journal usually keeps at bay, for me, the spur of the moment less than awesome engagement too. I'm always super quick to recognize when I spoke to him in a negative way and sincerely apologize to him, which I think takes the sting out of the interaction. My only other idea is making sure you're having a fair amount of sex. When we've recently had good sex, I find many of my SO's slightly annoying traits endearing. When we haven't had sex in a while, I'm much quicker to be annoy…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 12:45 AM
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Yep, after a month. It wasn't a hard line in my head of "one month". It was more I wanted to make sure we both had vetted each other well enough that we had at least guaranteed there were any major dealbreakers in terms of our principles, goals, attitudes towards children, attitudes towards religion, etc. It ended up taking a month or so. We were seeing each other 2-4 time a week by the third week, so it was actually quite a bit of time and it was clear that BOTH of us were digging to see if we …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 12:41 AM
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For most RP aware men, the only reason to get married is to have children. So, you need to be filtering for men who want children. Men will always feel obliged to please their wives therefore we are still a burden, men don't want to always accompany their wives to events she wants to go to (eg. she got tickets to a concert, he's tired, she wants him to go but then it's seen as "dragging him along") so I feel like there is literally no point. As a woman you have to wait for him to WANT TO take yo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:42 PM
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Do you keep a gratitude journal? I've found keeping a gratitude journal keeps me on the lookout throughout the day for sweet things he's done that I appreciate and always reminds me how awesome he is. I feel a heck of a lot less likely to nag about something small when I'm super aware that he always does his dishes (and often mine), makes me food, looks amazing coming out of the shower, takes the time to really listen when I share about my day, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:35 PM
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"I'm looking to have a family" That sounds a wee bit like "very soon" and "with anyone who will take me". It sounds like desperation. When I was out searching last (2 years ago ish), I put up on dating sites I was only interested in monogomy and a serious relationship but I'd prefer be alone than compromise my standards in a partner. I didn't go on second dates with several men I was attracted to because they didn't look stable enough to have children in the next 3-4 years. When I met my partner…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:29 PM
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