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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?I bet the ex-wife was too scared (fair!) and that’s why they say charges were dropped down as the DA didn’t have enough evidence - and he’s suing the PD for $15,000,000 in punitive damages and $500,000 for his emotional distress?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?Found a bit more about him: https://storage.courtlistener.com/recap/gov.uscourts.nysd.532207/gov.uscourts.nysd.532207.1.0.pdf accused and arrested for menacing in the second degree, assault in the third degree and harassment in the second degree. The higher misdemeanour charges were later dropped to harassment in the second degree. So a good guy all round? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 35 | Saw this on my Instagram feed and I’m completely wrecked for this woman. This man had a “report card” for his wife that he eventually murdered. TW: Domestic Violence, Religious AbuseA bit of Googling - this seems to be from a Sov Cit Black Hebrew movement with an added bit of wider esoteric spirituality... there’s such overlap between these abusers and sov cit idiots! Self-description by the founder of this ‘movement’: I'm a Lumerian Elder, an Sirius Shemetic Khemaat Moor. I'm a inner-extra terrestrial here via the Sirius star C. My father the Most High & Big Mama Amma sent me to wake up lost souls and help them DE calcify their Pineal Glands which is the star gate to the a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 21 | Don’t know if this one has been posted, but the absolute depravity of this man.I’m a lesbian woman; back when I was a teen, I was desperate to not be gay, desperate to be “normal” and to fit in some how, so I went by an androgynous version of my name, started wearing loose, baggy clothing, including trousers for the first time, and ended up being groomed online by a middle aged man. I then was terrified by the idea of anything romantic, let alone sexual, and presumed I was asexual or something until I got drunk when overseas on vacation and made out with some other lesbian… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 68 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Original newspaper clippings can be seen here: https://mobile.twitter.com/DigiVictorian/status/964842367508516864 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYBut you can report posts which are not feminist and they are removed, plus I do feel as if I can speak openly there as a woman. I think FDS and Ovarit are both good but serve different purposes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:28 AM |
| 10 | My pickme SIL sent me this. She loves it and hopes I'll like it too! 🤡I have actually heard this at a wedding... I glazed over as it was so bad but I remember the person reading “bad love bad” and just thinking like wtf...! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 8 | Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here.Same here, sis! The lesbian spaces I loved here were shut down and this is the last bastion of critical female thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:36 AM |
| 84 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herRight!!! The woman wasn’t just risking embarrassment but bodily harm by intervening, as she would have been at a disadvantage - but she didn’t pause, didn’t hesitate, and just kept on at him. She is a true hero for risking herself for a stranger, for saving a young girl, for stepping into the unknown and not relenting even when the scumbag tried to embarrass her into leaving!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:13 PM |
| 67 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herThank heaven the woman also had the state of mind to record, as it was as a direct result of the video that he was identified and subsequently arrested that same day. As much as I despise social media, it really did its job that day. I hope the girl can recover, and I hope knowing that her assailant has been locked up since that day is helping her recover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 106 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herAll that’s been made public is that he was charged with rape and kidnap, and held on remand since then. In the video I think the girl mentions that she has already been assaulted... thank god for the woman who intervened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 293 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herUpdate: the perpetrator was arrested the same day, charged with rape and kidnap, and has been held in custody since November pending trial set for June. The woman who intervened is my hero - she didn’t stop, she saved that teenage girl from goodness knows what else. True queen 👸🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:07 PM |
| 8 | This is exactly why FDS preaches that your partner should NOT want to choke you during intimacy. Strangulation is ABUSE and ASSAULT. It is not “hot” or “romantic.” Ladies, if it’s abuse with your clothes on, it’s abuse with your clothes off!God, thought for a moment you were writing about me. Someone I was seeing told me they were into BDSM, I said no I didn’t want any part of that and if they wanted to do that we should part ways and they’d need to find someone else. They told me that they didn’t need to and wouldn’t engage in anything like that with me, and I was on board for seeing what came from it as I liked them as a person. This was pre-FDS! They then sort of “switched” while I was over at theirs following a date out, and it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 22 | Let’s talk about “Trad” men. And why I used to be attracted to them.I used to be involved in a Christian cult (before coming out as a lesbian) and desperately tried to make myself a trad wife - the only problem was that my sense of self was too strong, and so I didn’t comply. This meant that the cult told the trad guy who was interested in me (aka my closest friend) that I was a Jezebel spirit, and by dating me he would be cheating on his future wife... he took me for sushi but nothing more than handholding. I was honestly devastated when the cult told me this a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | My reminder to live myself came yesterday! Thank you ladies for the inspiration ❤️Gorgeous - you are so worth it! We shouldn’t have to wait on someone to buy us jewellery, we can and must buy ourselves gifts as we are WORTH 👏🏻 IT👏🏻. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 59 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Lesbian here - struggled with comp het for years but very much as a thought exercise; technically “gold star” I suppose. The handbook is great for vetting HVW as well; moved me out of my pickmeisha stage and into a relationship with a woman who seems to be HV so far - vetting never ends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 45 | Pickmeisha hasn’t figured out her boyfriend is never going to propose after being with him for 5 yearsIt’s how she asked him three years ago if he planned on proposing, but hasn’t left him in the intervening three years when he’s shown no signs of committing... so sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | No 50/50 birthdayNah love my bisexual sisters - have dated lesbian and bisexual women in the past ✌🏻 totally demand (chaste) pics when online dating though - don’t wanna be catfished! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:04 PM |
| 93 | No 50/50 birthdayYou deserve better, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:55 PM |
| 20 | If the roles were reversed, reddit would be losing its mind. I'm glad these scrotes are getting called out, imagine defending a rapist? Imagine harassing someone because they dumped a rapist?It was removed... will message you the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | I’m not pressed and she shouldn’t be too. If he can text, he can call🤷🏻♀️Deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 6 | I’m not pressed and she shouldn’t be too. If he can text, he can call🤷🏻♀️She actually asked to court me as well, and explained why she wanted to court rather than date, in order to convey that she didn’t want to treat me casually or as anything less than a priority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 6 | I’m not pressed and she shouldn’t be too. If he can text, he can call🤷🏻♀️Exactly. The maybe HV person who is currently courting me (woman as I’m a lesbian) decides to spend her time writing to me or calling me instead of sleeping. She says it’s the most important use of her time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:37 AM |
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