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| 3 | how do i stop sending cringe things but not think 2hrs of a response either | weird-but-hawt | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:59 PM | |
| 1 | can someone explain to me this girl is leading me on getting free atention | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | weird-but-hawt | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | I cant help using emojis | Escalation & Calibration | weird-but-hawt | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 11:05 AM |
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| 1 | I cant help using emojisI know, im working on it! I know all the theory, thought i had banished being "in love" out of my life since 7 years ago. But then this one girl came along and i forgot everything. It is coming out of a place for them to like me. Thats the way I've learned to communicate all my life and i gotta break the pattern now | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I cant help using emojisI sometimes think im just too "accomodating""enthusiastic"/... U know.. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts WomenDamn dude, you are such a champ for this! "Everyone deserves to be loved" ♥️ may you find success in all your aspirations in this life, God bless! | /r/seduction | 01/08/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | New to dating and struggling. How can I get better?You dont shower them with attention and use indifference to your advantage. Watch coach corey wane on youtube. He covers everything Everything is already out there, dont fall into the same trap everyone falls into by staying asking for advice to numb tge struggle. It took me 6years of loneliness to get to this point! What Changed? I don't give a fuck anymore and now i regret i didn't focus more on my purpose | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | hate towards women: how to get rid of it?I can tell u as someone that's been in the boat of not succeeding at dating... It took me 6 years to get the hang out of giving just the right amount of attention to the ines i like to keep em interested. Your hart wants to become bitter but love em at the same time... You will just have to grow older to understand! Remember that hate and love are the same. The opposite would be total indifference. If you are all love they will be indifferent. You have to make it a fair balance for you to have a… | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 10:41 AM |
| 0 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “I was dancing at a festival, 2 girls come dance in front of me, they initiate multiple eye contact... I think my mistake was saying hi to one of them instead of addressing them both, because somehow i mannaged to fuck it up again??!??! I was thinking about beginning to just enjoy the choosing signals i get and then dismissing them and acting like they don't exist. It makes me so angry, tinder is the same. Ask 1wrong question, get ignored. I asked a girl where she lived, then i asked if its nice … | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Took her on a date…If you are looking to be serious with her than you run less risk but still. Casually dating a girl from those families is risky! Muslims are not openminded and (assuming you are non muslim) the family wont like it that all of her kids would probably also be non-muslim as well since you are the man in the relationship. Just be careful man! Inform urself about her fam before u take her to bed. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Took her on a date…I also dont like hijabs because in the west hair is a way for a women (and anyone for that matter) to express their personality and look cute. I hate how they want us to adapt to their customs and be fine with it. I dont know about the manipulation thing tho, if you are in ur masculine they won't try to play you and you wont stand for that. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Took her on a date…Dating these girls is a real risk of getting stabed to death by her brother. Most of them are unwilling to adapt to Western values (for their girls that is. Their boys can use any western girl for their liking) Just stating fact's. Ban incoming 📨 | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Took her on a date…I would never date religious arab girls from those backgrounds... Their families are unwilling to adapt to Western values and you might get stabbed to death by one of her brothers to honour the family. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersWhere are u gonna hide that? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersSealable bag of soap to mix with water inside of the club stored between ur belt somewhere. Stick with the donut end but without the cap u can put into ur wallet. Et voilà, ur inside. If they catch u, soap ain't illegal so u wont have any problems there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersI just put that inside a secret pocket in my wallet in a bag between 2 playing cards because some clubs make u take off socks... Ur wallet is hiding in plain sight because noone would be dumb enough to put it there. Between 2 "money notes?" Inside a seetrough phone case could work too... Look officer, I ain't hiding anything 😇 If there's dogs u are fucked anyway and they'll not even look trough ur whole wallet if u dont act sus in my experience. That being said, if i really wanted to bring bubbl… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 5 | What if heartbreak completely killed my desire to date/cold approach?Whatever u do... Dont text her ever again until she texts u first | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:06 AM |
| 6 | How to keep going after cold approaching?Recently at a festival (i was unde the influence tho, but i try to enjoy these moments as well as learn from them on how to improve social skills) I noticed, after asking someone's name i paused... It was usually after 2 sec's maybe they would ask my name back, this would get me hyped... After i said my name i would make a pause keeping eye contact and smiling (because hyped) and then i would ask the next question, where are u from/are u from here, what are u doing right now (or in my case "are … | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 16 | Steal my pick-up technique for going to clubs - works wondersBe creative... Smuggling is a real life skill | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"I can back this... I'm flirting with a girl right now, she's pretty, hits the gym etc... Im not looking for anything right now and im not 100% sure of her yet either... But just having someone who reciprocates and you can learn how to talk to women, what to say, what to talk about helps tremendously! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 8 | Hooked up with 30 different women since August 2020 got my 31st tonight! AMAIm currently studying and living with my parents. And i feel like the only thing really holding me back from starting is not having my own place... How accurate is this? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | You Cannot Convince Her to Like YouHmm this makes sense... I bet is should just continue then as if she was interested and not start to give shorter responses because she is not contributing enough? Because i look like a salty MF if i start doing the same? And if she's still not warmed up after 3-4 mins or so leave instead of instead of in the first minute. Thanks for the reply, i didn't see until now srry | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 12:15 PM |
| 2 | You Cannot Convince Her to Like YouI am this guy only i ditch the convo at the sleightest sign the girl is losing atraction... A friend told me he really didn't see any bad vibes from a girl i spoke to a while ago... She was answering my questions etc but i couldn't find the right things to say and vibe so i ditched and he asked why i ditched so soon is there really a way to become a 5% man?? I've been working on myself for 4 years now and the only thing i've gotten is more seriousness like not smiling etc... | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | What to do when your opener gets ignoredThe thing i do to not come in this situation: When i get on the bus i look around if there's any QT's around (and make eyecontact if there is to judge intitial attraction. Dont be staring at her until she looks ur way ofc) If so and i was in ur situation i would not look at her for a min and sit relaxed in a cool way. then casually look around her direction again. If you meet her gaze hold it for one sec, do a quick look down and back up and see her reaction with a straight face. I dont really k… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?I mean yeah but what do u say then? Do u keep on carrying the convo getting short responses, do you wait 2 weeks and try again or? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:15 PM |
| 5 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?Nah it actually isn't... And if so, it should leave you cold and unaffected | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any games to play to warm up social skills?Shit what if i'm already down that path really far? Is there a way to get back to the fun and happy side | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any games to play to warm up social skills?At least people will still wanna talk to you... Which is something you dont get when you randomly sit on the floor in the middle of the mall | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:37 PM |
| -10 | Am I only men who gets turn off when you haven’t mention anything about hooking up or sex and she says she’s not looking for sex or hookups?Women will have sex with chads on the first night but expect men to treat them like a women 😂 and not dot it for the sex | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 05:38 AM |
| 3 | When a tinder girl wants to bring a friend on the first date, how do you turn it down without sounding annoyedIf she's a girl, why not If its a dude i would be weirded out as well... Maybe just go, see if its a chill dude if not Finish you drink without paying, say u have to go to the bathroom really quick 'n leave. Definitely arrange your own transportation | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManAmazing post i neede this 🙏🙏🙏🙏 | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”I envy the situation but im happy for you brotha! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”What if u make literally no fucking progress and you know it's because how u act and not how you look... | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Rollos book? Can you give me the title | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 10 | How the shy girl and shy guy story ended.Im sorry to hear! Just know in one or two years u'll see her like a 8 or 7 even. We tend to exadurate people's qualities and minimize their shortcomings in the beginning of a relationship or when you like someone. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Its a vibe hahaha | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?🤣 you'll do fine im sure if it hahaha | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Thank you for this advice! I will have a read about how to be more funny later 🙏 | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 5 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Meditation is literally sitting still in a comfortable position and trying to think of NOTHING for 20-30 min's If a thought pops into your head you acknowledge it and let it go... No feeling bad In the beginning your mind will start wandering sometimes, lots of thoughts wil pop out of nowhere, you wil even start talking to yourself (sometimes scolding yourself even) but if u do it enough you will be able to start turning that voice in your head off... And become clearheaded. This is mostly usefu… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?Can you elaborate on "being funny" 🤣 I feel like you cant just "be funny" if u feel like u've become a bitter and grey person. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:46 AM |
| 5 | My biggest struggle is my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. how can I fix this?I had a horrible date yesterday and even during the date i was thinking.... What do i have for myself to be proud of??? I have no job, im a student of 24yo even tho i could've ideally finished school at 22, i have no pasttimes, all i do is sit at home and watch YouTube, i dont go to the gym enough, i have made no new experiences the lats 3 years i can talk about, im a lazy fuck that does nothing all day. The one thing i did i am proud of is quitting weed (1 month in now). I should write down my … | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?I've been looking for a way out of my pit for 4 years now. It feels like fighting a ghost sometimes. I feel i make progress but in the grand scheme of things im still at square 1. I just had a horrible date so maybe im a bit melancholic rn but i feel I've just gotten bitter. Not more confident. Just grey and tough. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Does every man have to go through a “hoe phase” in order to be confident and secure with themselves?It feels like an uphill unwinnable battle 4years in now for me | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.😂 because they're the only ones that will respond... Idk Its not that i look bad, 8/10 but im very awkward and have trouble being fun and letting go | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 07:42 AM |
| 0 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.Because she's invested more... Funny thing is 😏 Now she's the one not getting a text back from me muhahahaha | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.Belgium... Same thing You only get girls you don't want responding ur texts | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:53 PM |
| 18 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Saved | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Rate yourself 1-10Ability: 3 Body: 8.5 - face: 9 -body: 8.5 -heigt: 7 Charisma: 4 Attractive autist entered the chat 😖 But im learning how to laugh more and give less fucks... 💪 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | I moved to a new city and I have this cougar looking neighbor... I left her a note in hope of her reaching out cause idk where to even start.Challenge accepted, Thank you for helping!! | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | how do i stop sending cringe things but not think 2hrs of a response eitherAahn okeyy I admittedly don't go outside much, oops Thanks, i'm gonna try that! | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | how do i stop sending cringe things but not think 2hrs of a response eitherI can try, and keep myself busy with projects as well. But i feel most conversations stop before the 15th message... Except for convos with guys, and with women im not interested in. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I moved to a new city and I have this cougar looking neighbor... I left her a note in hope of her reaching out cause idk where to even start.Damn i like ur advice! I feel like i say weird shit all the time and sometimes i delete a message i send to a girl 2 times because i think its cringe or something... For example i asked one if she has brothers and sisters, she said "yeah, 1brother 1sister :p" Next thing i say is: "Are u the oldest and wizest?" 2 minutes later i realize i should have said: "Okey, are u number 1, 2 or 3" 🤦♂️ (She said she was the youngest and then i completely dried up the mood by saying "must be nice being numbe… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How do people “break the ice” in a clubI would just let her lay on the side if u know what i mean... If she doesn't give u eye contact, it sucks but just look over her and move on... Giving her too much attention can only hurt urself Just glance over everyone in the beginning so u can about judge where ur best lookin targets are about located. Than later on u can hover a lil on the ones u like, but always look away suave.. like u mean business, like u are the motherfuckin' catch here 😏 and make em feel like they where checkin' u out.… | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do people “break the ice” in a clubMake eye contact, Every time i make eye contact with someone in the club I see it as "meeting" so i "meet" the girl 1 or 2 times when scanning around the club to see the crowd and spot potential cuties. (So it's not the first time she sees me when i go up to her) Its important to keep ur head held high, look up videos on posture etc and lots of practice. Importantly dont smile at girls from across the club, for some reason this makes things creepy, for one cause u gonna feel creepy forcing a smi… | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 07:04 AM |
| 6 | How do people “break the ice” in a clubYes! The one whos begging for attention after they realise their mistake. Let it make up for al the times u've been played with 😈 But dont switch it to giving negative attention, no attention is worse than negative atention! (Dont look angry at her, instead just notice she's there but glance over her... Like u didn't really ment to look her direction and u felt nothing at all looking in that direction) Succes brother!! | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:57 PM |
| 5 | How do people “break the ice” in a clubI hope my tip helps, it's best u make eye contact with the girl u are interested in half an hour before going to dance with her, meanwhile look around the club, maybe u'll spot an even better girl out there. And also to pick a moment when a song u really like comes on to make ur move... (To give u extra confidence) Lastly: if one girl fails, dont be disappointed try again in about half an hour with someone else, chances are girl 1 will even get jelly and start seeking ur attention again... !!Ign… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 12 | How do people “break the ice” in a clubPfff Brother, i feel you. In the club im usually high on something or happy vibe so i can usually pull women there. What i do is: - make eye contact and u have to feel suave so it looks cool, like "howa u doin' baba 😏😎" -make non verbal contact by winking/ nodding/... -move closer and show off 1 or 2 dance moves (just do something that feels nice, dont feel weird!) - say "ur having fun too hunh/ nice party hunh/...." (Dont say something like u look good as ur first sentence. Women will put u in … | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | can someone explain to me this girl is leading me on getting free atentionhmmm great advice hahaha imma try that over the next few weeks! my only downside is that theoretically knowing what to do doest make it come practically as well, ive done a lot of research still getting played around. thanks for the advice, imma start playing hard to get wanting some atention myself first, bless u bro | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | can someone explain to me this girl is leading me on getting free atentioni dont wanna be noones bitch 😂 so just skip that ho? | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | can someone explain to me this girl is leading me on getting free atentionman thanks! imma get out before i get in deeper. shes probably a tease indeed | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 06:56 PM |
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