weirdsucker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should men delete Instagram to break the singles-event “followers & likes” dynamic? Even if some men deleted their posts, it wouldn't have any effect; it would only work if everyone (men and women) stopped using Instagram, which is a utopian scenario, since there will always be men validating women on social media. And the "genuine" interactions that occurred in the pre-Instagram era will not return; many dynamics have changed since then.	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/26 01:41 PM
2	What got you into red pill? After giving up PUA, were you able to find a relationship?	/r/ExRedPill	12/02/26 03:29 PM
0	Do you think a short, nerdy, or non-dominant man can be loved by a woman? Yes, these things don't matter as much in real life as the internet makes them seem, but some characteristics tend to be more preferred by women, to the detriment of others that are not as attractive. The same applies to men, who obviously have their personal preferences for feminine characteristics, but are less selective than women.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/26 10:32 AM
-1	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? I was drawing, hoping that your colleague from the comment above would understand; taking isolated parts of an argument is kind of dishonest. According to her, all incels spread hate speech and are willing to commit violence against women.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 06:43 PM
-1	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? I'm sorry for the things you've been through and that may have been harmful to you, but they're not relevant to this discussion. Using emotional arguments in a speech isn't very mature. I don't follow content from the "manosphere," creating caricatured names for that content and associating myself with it doesn't make what you say true. If you use alternative studies to justify your opinions, it doesn't seem like it. Whatever you read or heard that made you associate incels with hate groups is w…	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 04:44 PM
-1	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Hate groups are one thing, incels are another. Incels may or may not be in hate groups, but that doesn't mean a hate group is incel. The term incel has nothing to do with hate groups, the meaning has been distorted over the years. A shooter may or may not be an incel. I think at this point I'm circling around in terms already explained, you're making an effort not to understand and continue defending your mistaken rhetoric. I advise you to stop looking for information that is provided in the mai…	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/26 11:09 AM
-2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? The internet has brought men together; whether they are frustrated, lonely, and single has absolutely no connection to the spread of hate speech. Men with these characteristics may or may not be violent. I'm starting to think you all here are doing some kind of juggling act to avoid grasping this simple premise. Every type of man is exposed to various types of online discourse; the internet itself doesn't radicalize anyone. A mass shooter will use any reason to justify their act, blaming whoever…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 11:26 PM
-1	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Statistics on marriage exist, perfect. I'm not trying to prove anything, as I said before, all of this is a description of what happens in real life, not a prescription. Obviously, people don't face these as real-world problems, nor should they, since dysfunctional relationships will continue to exist. If you didn't say that what I wrote above wasn't true, then what did you say was true? If everything I said here is purely emotional and without basis in reality (which isn't true, since I made a …	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 07:00 PM
-2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Okay, I've heard that, so what? That doesn't invalidate anything I said. An incel can be a mass shooter, but not every mass shooter is an incel; one thing has nothing to do with the other. What's your point?	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 05:51 PM
-1	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? We agree that in healthy relationships, most disagreements are resolved through conversation. We can't definitively say whether marriages are increasing or decreasing; they happen all the time. But what we can say is that there is currently a growing group of men and women who prefer to remain single. Social media is not the main factor, but it is one of the factors that can trigger problems in a relationship. I didn't say that divorces are happening solely because of this, but social networks c…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 05:16 PM
-4	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? The original meaning is certainly important, but its premise is flawed from the start by associating incels with a hate group or one that practices violence, when its original meaning has absolutely nothing to do with that. If the meaning has changed over the years, it's a result of the actions of uninformed or deliberately dishonest people who create and spread discourses associating incels with mass shooters, men who assault women, etc. If we were to create a stereotype for incels, it would be…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 05:14 PM
-5	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? In theory, of course, the couple should sit down and say, "Hey, there's something wrong with our relationship," but in reality, that's not what usually happens. I'm not using the term respect generically; as I said, in a functional relationship, it should be the foundation. The rise and fall of divorce rates in themselves don't mean much; people start and end relationships all the time. The main point here is the functionality of relationships. A couple can drag out a marriage that's already dea…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 02:23 PM
-4	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Read "respect" also as admiration, or that feeling that makes one person interested in another. A functional, long-term relationship can only be maintained if there is respect, and each party fulfills their role in the relationship. The tendency in long-term relationships is for this admiration/respect to cool down, especially in current times, where couples are exposed to more environmental stimuli, and especially social media, than a couple would have been 50 years ago. At the same time that t…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 01:33 PM
-2	Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it? Yes, hypergamy isn't always about financial provision; a woman might also be interested in a man's personality, the emotional validation he provides, physical protection, or when he's the type to solve problems, bringing a certain comfort to the woman. When a woman loses respect for a man, it's only a matter of time before the relationship cools down and leads to a possible separation.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/26 12:43 PM
-5	Kind of hard to be vulnerable and open as a man when people treat you like a leper So don't open up to people. Talking about your problems with friends or relatives might only work for venting, practically speaking, they can't do much to solve your problems. This isn't the best subreddit for you to get answers to these personal questions. People here are generally in denial about how the male-female dynamic works in society. What you'll see here are generic pieces of advice without much applicability in the real world, like "see a psychologist" or "women are human beings too."…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 04:53 PM