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| 1 | I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so farI think if you want to play video games a little bit because for enjoyment and to unwind then good for you. People can do whatever they want. But while you're playing those video games there's another guy that's doing the same things as you except he isn't playing video games. He's going to beat you. If you play video games for 1 hour a week then that's 56 hours of work and study you are missing out on for a year. That's a fucking lot of time. I used to be an addicted gamer but nowadays I can't … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.I've been listening to GoSwedish videos over and over to try and memorize her lessons. Duolingo Swedish forum is a good place to get recommendations on videos, I've seen them make quite a few suggestions. Depends on where you're at in your progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.Unfortunately I'm nowhere near that good yet. I only listen to videos teaching Swedish phases or basic conversations at the moment is what I meant. Yeah I agree, I've found listening to the YouTube videos to be helpful even if I only understand a few sentences. Keep up that impressive streak sir. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.Varför vill du lära dig svenska? Jag skulle gärna vilja bor där en dag. Jag talar bara lite Svenska. Hopefully that made sense :) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 09:39 PM |
| 6 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.Im using Duolingo for learning swedish. It is a great app. Have you ever used the paid for version? Wondering how good their audio lessons are. I currently listen to swedish YouTube videos while driving to work. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Jordan Peterson's Cathy Newman Interview: Good Example Of "Meta-Frame" Against FeminismTo me, firmly and strongly standing up for what you believe in no matter the opposition and the consequences is alpha. I'm referring to the 30~ second timestamp I linked by the way. Admittedly I haven't listened to a lot of his content. I agree that getting married is a bad choice for men, but what Jordan preches makes for strong, independent and smart husbands from what I have seen. I don't see the act of getting married as a beta trait. It's how the married man acts that makes him beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 10:57 PM |
| 9 | Jordan Peterson's Cathy Newman Interview: Good Example Of "Meta-Frame" Against FeminismPeterson is undoubtedly alpha. Despite the entire left going after him his frame is fucking unshakable. Another good example: https://youtu.be/HzFeyJEqqV4?t=996 The way he tells the presenter he will suffer the consequences and will not say their words is inspiring. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 09:43 PM |
| 3 | LTR texting with no initationI think you should just let things flow. If neither of you guys text much in general, not just to eachother then just let it be and dont try to force boring, lame conversation. But on the other hand, if when you're with her she's always texting friends etc, maybe you need to rethink things. Like someone else said though, sounds more like a plate situation. Personally, I'm not a big texter. My LTR texts me first almost everyday if I'm not with her, I reply in my own time or when I'm on a workbrea… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Help with this chick that I have been talking to.Stop texting her for a while or until you know she's home to set up a date. All this texting small talk is hurting you. 'how is your holiday' 'do you surf' blah blah, is boring, it's making you look more like a friend. To me it seems like she's replying just to be polite to you. She's on holiday. Let her enjoy the holiday without texting her, which seems needy and talk to her about it in person when she gets back. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Why is she accepting this when I wouldn't?Because she doesn't value you enough anymore. If you were worthy there is no way in hell she would have ever accepted any of this. You are in her position aren't you..? She will be fucking guys at home and having a relationship with you..? The LTR is basically over at this point. Either keep her as a plate and fuck her until you leave or just part ways now. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 09:25 AM |
| 1 | In need of adviceCan't comment on the work since you live in a completely different area but as for being a lost cause just because of brows? That's fucking stupid. You just need to own that shit. Hit the gym a lot and dress well. In the grand scheme of things not having eyebrows means absolutely fucking nothing. If you're ripped, confident and dress well the girls you see will find reasons as to why it's 'super cute and adorable' that you don't have any. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | A key aspect that's missing in TRP?A strong social network is actually a huge aspect of trp. It helps in all aspects of your life not just with game. Here's a great post about it: https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3uuxzp/be_a_social_dynamo_so_she_doesnt_have_to_be/ | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Will a girl flirt with someone they know has a lower SMV?Women flirt with dudes with a lower SMV. It's how they get what they want out of men. With sex. The number one thing I think you need to work on is your confidence. You haven't even tried anything or failed with her yet, why are you already telling yourself to forget about her? It almost seems to me like she's waiting for you to make a move, maybe your SMV isn't as low as you think. Also maybe if you were at a party doing drugs she just wanted to fuck something, and you might have been that some… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 05:18 AM |
| 2 | I suffer from both PE and ED, and I'm too scared to have sex.I used to suffer from ED. Mine was also physiological but medically related (26 years old and fit), I waited a long time to see a doctor for it which was stupid. Can you get a full erection when you masturbate? If you can then it's almost certainly a physiological issue. Even so, I highly recommend seeing your doctor. Mine doctor put me on viagra, even after being prescribed the medication I was nervous that it wouldn't work as I had ED for so many years already. He told me to take a pill and th… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Is a gentleman the same thing as a Nice Guy?Being a gentleman by definition is being chivalrous, courteous or honorable. A NiceGuy™ in the context of the redpill is (in short) a man that tries to do everything to please other people at the expense of his own wants/happiness. He is very insecure because he's afraid of other people thinking badly of him so he tries to avoid any sort of confrontation. Read 'No more Mr Nice Guy' to get a better/more detailed idea of what it means when we say it. I believe they are very different things. In sa… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | LTR had threeesomes with ex loverWell then you better hope she bucks up for a threesome for you as well or you might need to do some reevaluation | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:43 AM |
| 6 | LTR had threeesomes with ex loverTell her you want to have a threesome. If she doesn't accept you might be the provider for this alpha widow | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:38 AM |
| 15 | I can never get a second or third date.Sex/ass and tit grabbing on the very first date is a good way to tell these girls you only want to fuck. Maybe try taking them on a fun spontaneous date and do a activity instead of going to get drinks and then banging in your car. You will probably have to change your tactics a bit to attract a LTR as opposed to just fucking the girls. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:34 AM |
| 8 | Still a virgin and almost 30 - need adviceThe fact you're so worried about it that you think having sex with a escort would be a failure makes me think you should have sex with a escort. I think you're probably putting so much pressure on yourself that it's hurting your chances, getting it out of the way and seeing that sex isn't really that big of a deal will help you. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | FWB (potential LTR) just told me she's getting labiaplasty...WTF?Let her do what she wants, it's her pussy. If it fucks her up it's her problem. I've met girls that think they have a ugly pussy that I've thought looked perfectly normal, females are very insecure, it would be pointless to try and talk her out of it. Her vagina is her greatest asset. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Summer activity questionDepends what you want to create. Webapps or? I'm just a hobbyist, but I started off learning javascript, which then led to html/css. After I had a good grasp of javascript I started on python. I'm not a professional coder so this advice might not be correct, but I think a language like javascript would be a good place to start, I found it to be a lot more simplistic and easier to learn than things like C++. For learning resources, I worked through a lot of the courses on codeacademy, they seemed… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Should you ever give her solutions to her problems?For LTRs just listen and comfort her, don't offer advice. For plates you don't have to listen to anything, you don't have to provide any sort of emotional support. Certainly never give advice. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Caught looking at her ass, yes/no?Eh not really. Might just give it a glance like 'damn' if I see a good one. I'm more of a ass man, but this might be relevant. When I first started sleeping with the girl I'm currently in a LTR with, I made a rule that when she's getting into bed she's never allowed to wear anything covering her tits, i.e bra, shirt etc. I guess that's sorta the same thing. She tried seeing if she could get away with it at her house a month ago but I (playfully) stole all the blankets and kept pushing her off th… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Caught looking at her ass, yes/no?Noted. Thanks for clarification | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Caught looking at her ass, yes/no?Obviously. If you're a stranger on the streets just staring at a chicks ass while you're behind her probably isn't a great idea. after building a rapport first of course | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Got starfish sex from LTR last nightIt happens. People get exhausted and don't feel like having sex, no big deal unless it starts happening often. You seemed to have handled it well by not getting butthurt about it. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 05:10 AM |
| 4 | TRP exposure over a year ago. Serious struggle talking to sorority girls.You are putting them on a pedestal. You start talking about school and shit because it's a safe conversation topic and you're afraid to blow it with these girls, which ironically causes you to blow it. In my experience it just took practice to get over it, so keep talking to them constantly, talk about stupid shit. Talk about eating apples. Talk about anything. When you start to realize these girls aren't shit then you'll start being more successful | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Caught looking at her ass, yes/no?If you want to, then look.. Otherwise don't.. The rules aren't set in stone. If you're a stranger on the streets just staring at a chicks ass while you're behind her probably isn't a great idea. I personally like ass, so yes I will look. I may even be extremely overt about it and grab her ass and turn her around so I can get a proper look (after building a rapport first of course). Sure it's giving her some validation, but it also makes me look like a bold motherfucker who isn't afraid and keeps… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Failed a comfort test, I escalated physically in an embarrassing/weird way, girl lost complete interest. Any hope in gaining her interest back?Sounds like you have oneitis. Why would you want to repair it? She just saw you as a friend and you want more which isn't going to happen. I'd say move on | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 07:54 AM |
| 13 | Girl acquaintance calls me fat while I'm talking with other girlsJust laugh it off and tease her back. "Thanks, I worked hard for it. I like how the sun glistens on your love handles." Ignoring it makes it seem like it affected you. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 06:11 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of this alpha male's voicemail? Is this an example of faking it? Til you make it?My opinion is he's not at all alpha, just a douche. The messages are actually ridiculous. It also wouldn't surprise me if that is just a joke but I'll reply anyway. Boasting about women, saying he's around for a movie script or whatever, giving her deadlines to reply, dropping multiple voice messages that go for over 2 minutes each of just general ramblings.. You can be self-confident but what he's doing is not going to impress women. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 05:59 AM |
| 60 | Did I make the right decision breaking up with my fiance?Absolutely, she was using you. Be grateful you didn't get married. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Skilled trades?I'm in Australia so my experience may differ. I have a trade in the gas and oil industry which has let me travel all around the country and even to other countries while making well above average wage in Australia. I'm 26 and have done well for myself as far as a house and stuff is concerned. I'm employed mainly on a FIFO Basis (fly in, fly out) which is perfect for plates and lots of casual sex since I'm home for 10 days and then away working for 28 days. I've been in a LTR for only 2 months no… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 11:38 PM |
| 8 | "Don't you have a girlfriend?" Shit testJust reply like a smartass or cocky "I have 500" "Slow down. You're moving too fast, we hardly know each other" | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 05:32 AM |
| 3 | What car do you drive and why?I drive a VE Thunder Holden ute (manual). I'm in Australia. Basically it's a ute but also sporty. Good amount of power for a V6 engine. I choose a ute because I have trail bikes so it's good for moving shit around. Can also keep tools in it. I've had a lot of compliments about girls from this car, it wasn't too expensive but it's very nice on the inside. I also feel that because it's a ute it would be perceived as manly by some. I've also been told by girls they find it sexy that I drive a manua… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/16 05:19 AM |
| 2 | 19 year old male going on date with 31 year old woman, is a red flag showing or not?So she wants to fuck you continuously with no strings attached..? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Never had a girlfriend, already decided I'm never getting married -- but will I be "lonely and miserable?"There's nothing wrong with not getting married in this day and age. TRP actually preaches it. There's no benefit for a man to get married but there's a tonne of risks. Don't value happiness on your companionship with women. Live a kick ass life doing what makes you happy. If you do that you'll probably find women will find a way to try and get in your life anyway. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Hi ASKTRP, allowed to discuss Islam through an RP Lens?Everything should be free to discuss through a RP lens. The hard part might be finding other Islamic guys to talk with. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Does stubble or beard increase SMV or decrease it?Common sense says Depending on the girl. If the girl is attracted to facial hair then she might interpret your SMV higher than a girl that doesn't like it. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/16 10:45 AM |
| 1 | How much time do you spend doing nothing?I've never had netflix. I might browse reddit for a little bit when I have free time at work. Maybe a hour a day or so on reddit. There's nothing wrong with having a little bit of downtime. Just don't spend fucking hours a day on netflix or circle jerking on some reddit sub. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Did I handle this correctly? Plate texting, flirting with other guys.You have the right attitude, keep up the good work | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle this correctly? Plate texting, flirting with other guys.The point where you mate guarded was when you tried to leave the venue when you noticed her flirting Trying to leave the situation would have made it worse. If I was in that situation and out with a plate I would have done what you done (left her to the wolves) but instead of trying to change venue or getting her to leave I would have got drunk and enjoyed myself. If no girls came I could have bar hopped at some point (my intention would have different, trust me, the girl knew what you were tryi… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Did I handle this correctly? Plate texting, flirting with other guys.You want her to be more than just a plate so when she flirts with other guys it makes you jealous. You didn't handle it correctly because you were mate guarding. Your jealousy would have been clear to her, causing a loss of frame. You messed up by taking a plate out in the first place, there's nothing stopping her from flirting with random dudes. She's already proven that she's not LTR material. I would either get rid of her or keep her as a plate but make damn sure I'm talking to other women an… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Beta-friendships with girls are making it hard to break into Alpha. They get sad, don't know whether to fold.They probably don't get sad because your not there but because they don't have you to leech off. Sit somewhere different and whenever they ask for notes tell them no. They'll soon leave you alone when they stop getting free shit out of you. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 08:43 PM |
| 20 | Noob here..hot girl in class, asked for number, got it..now blankShe may have just given you a number to be polite If she doesn't reply then she wasn't interested. Don't text her again. Find more girls | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | It's rare I find women attractive, so when I do, how can I be less disappointed with rejection?You need to build a abundance mentality and idgaf attitute to not care about rejection. You need to figure out a way to meet more women you find attractive. Rejection happens to everyone and it is with that rejection that you can start to conquer it. Hit on every single girl you see that you find attractive. Deal with the rejection if it happens and realize the world isn't over. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 02:14 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with this orbiter?If you've seen their messages and she doesn't send flirty responses or anything of that nature then I'd take that as a good sign that there's nothing sinister happening, not yet. Espicially if she truely doesn't know you have access to her fb. The fact that she's never had orbiters before makes me think she's just enjoying the extra attention. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 02:04 PM |
| 17 | Old Slutty WhatsApp msgs on GFs phone. AdviceShe's not yours, it's just your turn. I garuntee you she fucked/slutted up with tonnes of men before you. It's just something you're going to have to coome to terms with if you want a LTR with a girl in modern times. There's very few, if any, innocent girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 07:44 AM |
| 6 | awalt, why do women lie?Stop replying to her texts if you haven't already. Don't want to orbit. Because they a driven by feels and not logic. They rationalize situations to the point where they honestly don't even know they are lying. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Genuine question for TRP: Does TRP instruct men that making a lot of money in CS is attractive to women in ANY way but as Beta Bux?In my opinion it doesn't teach anything based on your career choice. The best software dev could be the most alpha motherfucker ever born. It just depends on the person. It might recommend more manly activities and CS probably generally isn't seen as manly but it definitely isn't saying if you go into CS you're just going to be a BB your whole life | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 03:52 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with loneliness?I disagree just speaking from what worked for me. I don't want to pursue women, I pursue my goals and they end up following. When i stopped giving a fuck about women and just started relentlessly working on myself is when i started to fuck a lot of girls. Started with a IDGF attitude which built into a abundance mentality. I used to be in the same boat as the OP. When i stopped wanting a GF is when I had the opportunity to get many and eventually the LTR I'm in now | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with loneliness?Fundamental redpill. Try harder to improve. Workout, get a passion and work on it constantly, improve your career. When you keep yourself so busy with self-improvement you don't have time to feel lonely. When you're truely immersed in it the gf and sex will just happen. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Should I just put it all out there and ask out a girl in my class?Next time get her to give you her number instead. There is no perfect moment. So many guys waste oppurtunities waiting for the stars to align. If you want to ask someone out just fucking do it | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Make a good couple?It means shes interested in dating you. She really can't make it much more clear cut than that. Your role depends on how she sees you, it could be alpha fux or a provider. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | 'Are you bringing any friends'Whats the context? Are you going to a party? Taking her out for coffee? Or what? To me it just seems like she's trying to figure out if its going to be a date scenario or a group/friend hangout. Not a shit test as such I'd reply with just a 'yes' or 'no', your reply is kinda bad, especially if she's expecting a date | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Meeting up with ex after a weekYou broke up a week ago.. She's your ex, you already have a rapport built. You shouldnt have to worry about being flirty and all that shit. I assume the breakup went well since you're already catching up, you could probably almost just ask her straight up | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 09:48 AM |
| 22 | there's a lot of hate for fat women, but let's have an honest conversation about fat men...He's not admired here because of the girls he fucked | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 04:36 AM |
| 4 | Got Viagra, terrified to take it because of fear of having the issue where my erection lasts more than 4 hours - any Viagra experiences here?I'm 26 and also take it extremely regularly. Never had a issue with it, works well. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Reframe or Next?Just go about things normally. Ask her out. Don't apologise or make excuses or reply to angry/upset text messages. If she wants to go out, then cool. If not move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 06:21 AM |
| 5 | Puzzled at this reactionShe wants to stop giving you sex in a relationship even though you are already fucking? Seems really backwards and completely unacceptable. Dont know if the religion part plays a role but I think its likely she feels like a slut which could explain her difficulty afterwards and her desire for a sexless relationship. Good pussy can give the worst oneitis. Sounds to me like you are certainly suffering from it. My advice is to bang more girls and get some abundance mentality about you, dont go into… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Says shes " uncomfortable".with me.Do you actually know shes sexually attracted to you? Are you fucking? Theres a difference between being that jerk and a actual cunt. If shes being serious there is a good chance its a comfort test. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 10:22 AM |
| 10 | LTR "doesn't like surprises" and wants me to tell her what I was considering giving her (sports tickets for us) for her birthday. Is this a shit test? I told her that it would ruin the fun/gift and didn't give in. Would it be breaking frame if I told her?Telling her would be breaking frame. Next time you talk make obvious jokes about the location, example: 'Wear something fancy when we go to McDonalds for your birthday' If she keeps asking and gets upset just keep playfully making fun of her, tell her you will punish her for being bad, example: 'If you keep misbehaving you will lose arm privlidges next time we fuck' | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is way too clingy...You're completely in her frame and being used as her emotional tampon. If you don't want to talk for hours on the phone then don't. If you want to go to the gym then go to the gym. You need to put yourself first. When she gets upset saying you don't care she's manipulating you. Laugh at her, playfully tease her or something. If you're not happy with her bullshit though just move on. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Taking back words but maintaining Alpha Status?She's acting different in what way? I don't think she's feeling committed. If she's told you basically straight up you're not fucking and you've already gone confessing your feelings maybe you're being a bit clingy. To be honest it's more likely she doesn't like you that way and you're becoming her orbiter. Don't try and take it back, nothing good can come from that conversation. Just keep doing what you're doing (or less). Start talking to more girls. Now. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Visit Plate Who's Studying Abroad?Don't drive 20 minutes to visit a plate, let alone fly out somewhere. A college girl studying abroad in Italy/Spain? It's unlikely she hasn't fucked a whole heap of different exotic dudes while she's over there. Aim to be the dude that she flys home for the weekend just to fuck, by travelling out there it shows you're far more invested than she is and you're setting yourself up for the bitch/provider role. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Facebook slutWhen I say 'Actual girls' I don't mean land whales, I mean humans | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 15 | Facebook slutPointless post. It's 100% fake. They were going to try and exploit you for something or if you did end up meeting you would be dead somewhere in a ditch. Actual girls don't do this shit, especially if she's a HB8 like you mentioned in the comments. Sorry | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 11:27 PM |
| 14 | White Knight proposes to his girlfriend on a busy interstate and gets charged with Obstruction of a HighwayGood analysis. The fact that his last marriage ended in just September and he's already this deep. I'd be really surprised if she doesn't breakup up with him in the near future if not already. The guy thought he was going above and beyond for his unicorn but ended up shooting himself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Interesting post on Male vs Female Suicide RatesI completely agree. I've also seen a large amount of these 'suicide attempts' from women that are obviously just a call for attention with no real desire to kill themself so your post really doesn't surprise me. I can't remember where I heard this quote, but I've always remembered it. It was something like: 'People that actually want to kill themseves are already dead. There's no two ways about it, if you truly want to kill yourself you wont fail.' | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 10:03 AM |
| 8 | When you stop putting women on a pedestal, not only will your life improve, you also quickly realize how boring they really are.None of the posts I read say 'Go out and lift, read, eat clean, improve your job prospects and maybe you will be able to improve enough to be able to fuck that girl'. All the ones I read are about improving yourself, for yourself. I guess maybe it depends on your own interpretation and what you personally want to take away from TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:50 AM |
| 6 | When you stop putting women on a pedestal, not only will your life improve, you also quickly realize how boring they really are.If your main goal for self improvement is to fuck woman then you will never stick with it. This is a point that separates men that have truly digested the pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What you think?She doesn't sound that overly interested, but there still could be some possibility. I would wait a while before texting/asking her again, maybe like a week or so, if at all. You don't want to be clingy/hassling. If she still doesn't want to then don't bother again. Who knows, she might message you first or you could just run into her again in person during that time. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 02:57 AM |
| 2 | I didn't frequent TRP until recently, but at this point I'll take any new perspective that I can get.Continue to force yourself to do it. Change the way you think, you sound like you have some victim mentality happening. We get it. You get scared in social settings. The only way to get better is with continued practice. When you're out say hello to literally everyone you walk past, make a goal to start a conversation with one stranger a day. Get outside your comfort zone | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 02:43 AM |
| 2 | My exact response: "lol." She didn't text back.I wouldn't be surprised if that was a generic message she sent out to a heap of dudes trying to get some free pity help | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 12:13 AM |
| 16 | So are your theories open for criticism or nah?It's so brutally obvious you're new here and don't really know what TRP is about. Of course you can disagree and debate with whatever you want but I'd suggest doing more research first. Also there's the purple pill sub which is pretty much the debate sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Skinny, cute white girls post sorority recruiting video; feminists and diversity police wild out!I would love for them to make a reunion video in 20 years time. I feel like it could be hilarious to watch the progression | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Lurker Lesson: AWALT, Snakes, and Loaded GunsThere are lots of thirsty guys out there that will fuck even the ugliest obese woman, believe that. And I don't see how being ugly and obese would change their hypergamy nature | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 11:56 AM |
| 14 | Guy on /r/relationships finds out about his illegitimate daughter. Refuses to let her use him as a bank account, is probably attacked by raging women across /r/relationshipsYour first comment was good, no need for that "fucking retard" shit. We don't play that. How do you know it's just the daughter though. It seems suspicious to me. I feel like the mother has to be getting some benefit from it, like not wanting to pay for whatever it is she wants. She's never contacted him before which makes me think maybe she didn't know who he was before, and now she needs something expensive the mother has handed over his contact details. Kid asks mum for a car, mum doesn't wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Permanently damaged my relationship with my parents.I've gone through lots of ups and downs with my parents but we always get over it. My mother is one of the mentally weakest people I know, she ticks all the boxes, but when it comes to her she is the one person I will never cut out of my life because of her weaknesses, I will always try to help her while being a strong rolemodel for her (what she should have been for me). She's a victim of her circumstances like a lot of us were and she might change like us, but probably not. I've been around TR… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 06:20 AM |
| 2 | To come clean or hide till it's relevant.When you say come clean right off the bat I assume you mean when you're looking to promote a plate to girlfriend status or something, since for casual sex, as you said it's not relevant. If I had a child and I started getting serious with a girl I'd let her know ASAP. If she doesn't like and it wants to leave that's fine, things wouldn't have worked anyway. If the girls a true prospect it won't matter. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Giving value?Just like lifting weights you need to train your social game. Say hello to everyone you see, not just to women. Like everything in life it takes practice do be able to interact well with people. Here's some good articles that you could have a read of. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39qnwd/how_to_talk_to_everyone_you_see/ https://archive.is/uxbUJ | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Confused if Alpha or Orbiter?It may have been as simple as her just wanting to fuck another guy. You're almost talking like you guys were in a relationship or it sounds like you wanted a relationship. She was a plate, what she done outside of fucking you doesn't really effect anything and you shouldn't care about what she's doing, unless you made some sort of a agreement when you plated her that she couldn't fuck other dudes or something. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice from the community about personal improvement, starting from scratch.You sound like you've got your addiction under control, the advice will be standard stuff, there's probably lots of guys here that have started in the same situation you're in. If you want to change it's never too late. Men don't hit the wall until much later in life, you have TONNES of time left my friend. Start lifting/exercising lots. Eat healthy. Try to find some hobbies that you can take part in, like sports maybe even dancing and that sort of thing to help build up a social circle. Get a p… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:25 AM |
| 24 | Why do women have such a strong need for materialistic items?Raising their social status and SMV. They also want to attract the highest value man, they know men are stimulated by visual, if they want to get that top alpha they need to look their best, he isn't going to want to stick his dick in their personality. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 11:52 AM |
| 7 | Okay so date tonight and I have a little pub crawl plannedDon't try to plan it so much, things will never go as expected. We can't really tell you to do x at y time. If things are going well and you want to kiss her after only 10 minutes then just kiss her. If she backs off and things are going well still try again later. I guess my best advice would be to not plan so much, that shit will fuck with your night and she will be able to see it from a mile away. Just be natural and go with the moment man, being fun and spontaneous will stand out to her more… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/15 12:11 PM |
| 12 | Shit-test response to a girl saying she'ld 'be uncomfortable' with getting coffee?her: "I have a boyfriend" you: "Cool, let's meet up at 8, see you then" If she still doesn't want to after that probably don't continue.. I feel like persisting too much, especially after a girl with a boyfriend even after getting a few clear nos isn't going to work. You're not showing any abundance or self-respect by continuing to try to win her over, basically begging her to go out with you. Seems to me like you're crushing on this girl. Probably move on. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/15 07:43 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand what is wrong with me. Everything has changed. Did culture just change in front of my face over night? I'm on the brink of tears. I don't know what happened. Did I humiliate myself or did I just try?In the 10 minutes when you speak with these woman what do you do? Although appearance and wealth are big parts to being attractive there are more dynamics that come into play. Wealth shouldn't even be known to these women after 10 minutes anyway unless you're going in bragging about it, which is a no-no. Are you being sexual with them or are you just being that friendly guy? If you're new to TRP that personality you think should be getting you lots of success might not actually be that great. Wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 07:23 AM |
| 6 | Advice needed on mental health (anxiety disorder and depression)Firstly, you haven't been diagnosed with anything by a professional, all your diagnosis comes from searching around the internet, so until you see a professional and he confirms it get that fucking shit out of your head, until it gets confirmed as far as you're concerned you are perfectly mentally healthy. Everyone has had those kind of problems. When I was younger I had that anxiety/depression shit, I was on pills for it for years starting at around the age of 16. One day when I was 19 I said f… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 11:41 PM |
| 2 | "By age 18 I pretty much had a DENNIS system together for high school girls." Over 1000+ upvotes on Red-Pill logic re: Obtaining platesWomen love feeling emotions, they generally don't love a emotional man, there's a difference. You can make her feel emotion while being stoic. "Look at that terrible thing that just happened and he just stayed cool!" I think you're reading too much into the stoic philosophy. It's not about being a emotionless robot 24/7, you have to know when to be stoic. Stoicism and trp relationship is basically "not giving any fucks", in particular situations that will be very attractive to women | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Oh-Man: The AutobanI don't feel their message was specific enough. Could have been something like this: "banned for spreading their hateful messages such as (not limited to), women are people just like us and hard work pays off." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 10:19 PM |
| 6 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Who nexted who is irrelevant. He's just asking for advice.. I think she was either going to fuck you or was just trying to recruit a orbiter. I wouldn't have sent the "your cute blah blah" message. Granted you done some attraction building on the first meet up and weren't just being her friend you already know she's interested because she actually wants to hang out again. If there was any chance of something more I think you ruined it in the last interaction. You tried to look confident but then… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 12:34 AM |
| 10 | Michele Fiore: Republican politician says 'hot little girls' should carry guns at university so they don't get rapedThat's actually infuriating. What the actual fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Self Diagnosed Mental issues and Mediocrity.As someone who was clinically diagnosed with depression at 16/was on meds and all that good stuff, also someone who has been around a lot of mentally unstable 'depressed' people (particularly my mother), I don't even believe that depression is a illness any more. People that claim it or have been told they have it use it as a crutch and a excuse. I sure as hell did before my head clicked. People tend to beat around the bush when it comes to handling people with depression but these people more t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Going out today to meet random girls for the first time, any tips?Where are you from? Most girls will love just a simple compliment like that if you're sincere and not weird about it. Just don't go saying shit like "I like the way you're put together" or something like that on your first time. | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 09:10 AM |
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