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| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Talk about how good she looks. Gas her up basically. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 03:52 AM |
| 2 | should you fuck mids for experience ?Yeah no lie every young black male should experience living in Atlanta or DC and every young white male should experience living in Nashville or Boston. Lmao | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | should you fuck mids for experience ?Real game right here. Just know that once you do it, her whole friend group will be off limits to you. Not because you smashed their friend, but because you smashed the mid/ugly one. I hope this helps | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Men who regularly do the dumping are high value.lol damn that’s what I get for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Men who regularly do the dumping are high value.He didn’t say that his sole purpose for entering a relationship is to cause someone pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:45 PM |
| -7 | Men who regularly do the dumping are high value.If that’s the conclusion you drew from this post then you may need to seek therapy as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:08 PM |
| – | Do women consider guys with a missing penis to not be of marriage and relationship material?:( I’m sorry fam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 03:50 AM |
| 9 | You look like a fuckboyThey love men who look like fuck boys. It’s their way of saying they’d fuck you without making you commit lmao. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again?Cus they broke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:43 AM |
| -1 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youPlease shut the hell up | /r/seduction | 02/09/23 12:53 PM |
| 8 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?If girl C goes to Jamaica she’d be the first pick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Depends. White men would prefer girl B. Jamaican men would prefer C. I personally think most everyone else would prefer D. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:17 PM |
| 6 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youAnd there are men who practice that shit for years and still can’t pull so idk. I’m just speaking on what I’ve seen in my anecdotal experience. | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 10:59 PM |
| 12 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youThat’s the point tho. There’s no way to “get to the point where” a girl likes you. Either they do or they don’t. Especially if we’re talking 25+ years of age. | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 10:35 PM |
| 40 | I had sex with a girl that I actively tried to NOT meet - If she likes you, she likes youI never understood insulting people this badly who find you attractive lol. People are always rude to everyone except the folks they need to be rude to | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Women don’t have any power over the guys they actually want so they take their anger out on the guys they don’t want lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleYou gotta be 75 years old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleYOU BROTHERS ARE PREACHING. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | A lot of single men at their late 20s are actually voluntarily singleThe hell are you going on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Serial monogamists are worse than sexual promiscuity6-8 relationships by 26 is a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?No. These types of women are easy to please. That’s why so many men like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Height requirements is shallow, preferences are notPeople really don’t know the difference between preference and requirement. That’s crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?They’re a grownup. That’s why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?BINGO!! People need to learn how to socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Do men lie about their physical preferences in women?Projection. Exactly. This should be the top answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:22 AM |
| 3 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherWomen will put up with the worst abuse from men they’re attracted to, at least for a while. If she doesn’t like you then your leash will be very short. If she’s into you, she’s gonna giggle and smile and hang onto every word you say. She may not even be listening fr but she’s definitely looking at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | We all know the friend zone, why don't we talk about the sex zone?You are on fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?I’m 28. I live in Atlanta so my results are skewed but I’d say the average in my circle is prob around 20. Men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerBe witty. Not just funny or smart. You gotta be BOTH Have a fat ass Know when to be quiet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Men's greatest desire is to feel desired and special, that's why AFBB even exists as a topic of discussion.True. They don’t see all the rejections because men like that don’t get hung up on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist?I think that’s only for white ppl because they don’t use moisturizer or sun screen properly and age horribly. People of color tend to look better in their 30s than their 20s regardless of gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?WINE FESTIVAL. THANK ME LATER. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?I agree. Many men don’t tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.You’re incorrect. I have the ability to discern. I know there are women out here who are better… but the ones we are talking about on this thread… lol… they’ll never learn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.These women will never stop having sex. They just like to lie on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDNothing is worse than OLD for shorter men period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Men of all ages prefer 20 year olds. Knowing this, why do women still get into relationships with men?Most white women are their most attractive in their early 20s because they age like bananas. Women of color still look great into their 40s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 12 | Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman?I truly don’t care if there isn’t another penis involved. I don’t even see that as a threat LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateAll I run into are short women with complexes. They say stuff like “I can’t date short men cus I don’t want short sons.” Sickening lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 0 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateThis wasn’t racially charged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateI have to disagree. The “no short men” preference is shouted the loudest by women under 5’6 lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 4 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateNo. Not seen by anyone. Being discriminated against at work. Not being seen as masculine. Being gaslit. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 3 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateBut see the 5’2 and below women hate short men more than anyone else. You see the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:08 PM |
| -3 | Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram modelsA lot of women already do all of this LMAO next argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotWould you want your son to be R? No? That’s what I thought LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 10 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateBeing seen as a joke. Or not being seen at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 24 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxWomen are not good people 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How were you treated differently when you got fit? (men and women)I’m proud of you, fellow black man.. and not just because you lost weight. I appreciate your perspective. Thanks for this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Regarding age gap relationships, it’s meaningless for women to say they would never date youngerThis makes sense. I have a younger sister and I see anyone around her age or younger as children. She’s 22 I’m 27 (M). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?Exactly. They do the exact same shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?A lot of men assume the opposite because of how women have treated us. See the issue here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 5 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?It’s a shame how abrasive we have to be with this. It’s funny because women say that men can never properly read rooms or take hints… yet… they can never take a fucking hint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Oh and when women make friends with each other based on looks alone… that’s shallow AF too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Yessir, you see what’s going on out here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?As a straight man, I can’t disagree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:55 PM |
| 22 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?You can tell that that’s the type of dude she actually likes. She likes the neglect and the conflict, but she doesn’t want to admit it because she’d sound like an idiot lol… so she lies about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenA lot of women don’t understand masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:56 AM |
| 57 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?The latter. And then they fake complain about it in order to seem like a damsel in distress 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?A lot of people aren’t gonna agree because of some BS religious or spiritual “reason” 😭😭😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Lol and the crazy part is.. You don’t even have to lie. You just don’t FIXATE on it. You just let life happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:26 AM |
| 0 | How much of y’all want to participate in hookup culture (but just struggle to get any)? Why?Don’t even need to be that tall tbh. 5’6 with a crisp hairline and good smile will get the job done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Having realistic standards is highly important.Likes repel in these instances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Is Billy Beta happy?Whew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyYou are preaching but they not gon hear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guySheesh 😭😭😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyBro, one day you’ll see that a lot of what women say on the internet is pure cap. Yea, some women may only date tall men, but PLENTY of women will date shorter men. Short men won’t miss out on anyone worth talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Wouldn’t be my first choice.. or second tbh. I understand the need for step fathers and I salute them. I’ve learned not to talk down on it. I’d just rather not .. probably for some toxic reason that idc enough to examine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:44 AM |
| 99 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I realized that women are a lot more shallow than anyone would admit. Sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Age Gap RelationshipsSo basically y’all be looking for fathers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Yes. First of all I’m not chad lol… these girls boyfriends just be super bums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:45 PM |
| 10 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?I’d say I have more success with taller women than shorter women. Short women have complexes about having short sons if they reproduce with short men. I wouldn’t want a woman like that to mother my children anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Bisexual women, Hispanic women and big women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?9months FOH. I fucked this dudes girlfriend in a Kroger parking lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasyThe last paragraph is crazy disrespectful but also hilarious 😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Blowjob BarometerThat sounds miserable. Ain’t no way dude enjoyed that lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace?I don’t consider them at all because I know they aren’t real competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?His issue is that he’s 5’6. I know because I’m 5’6 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 3 | I'm very new to all these pills but red pill seems very convincing. Can women in this sub refute the following claims ?Nope. Most men who engage in casual sex engage on the woman’s terms. So, no, it usually isn’t the hottest. Men tend to try to wife the hot ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Requirements: Nice teeth, good skin, symmetrical face, good hygiene, not taller than 5’8 (I’m 5’6), no white girls unless we just hooking up. Preferences: I like thick girls, bigger eyes, longer hair (doesn’t matter the style, I just prefer longer), 3+ black grandparents, 420 enthusiast, from a 2 parent household, titties that sag a little. Glasses are sexy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?Nope I’m not sure tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?Same reason we participate in capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?Most men do not date “10s” and the ones that do usually do it for social validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 15 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"It’s not a phase lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them.Personally this has worked for me. I try to tell my friends the same but they refuse to listen. We as men will never be free from the 🐱 shackles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?Attractive men who are looking for relationships are always in one and usually have a line of women waiting for them when they break up with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationI agree. Great post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you Been ghosted in the context of a real relationship?Found the FDSer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:36 PM |
| 6 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrSpeaking as a 5’6 male, height does matter, but not how most think. Someone hit the nail on the head when they said they treat short men like fat women. They like us in private and shun us in public. Most of the women I attract tend to be between 5’4” and 5’7.” Any woman outside of those ranges are usually repulsed. However, my ex was 4’11 and the tallest girl I ever slept with was 5’10 and thick too. I still get women approaching me at bars when I go (sometimes) but overall, I know I’d be a men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrThis is the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 3 | For men and women: If you attracted a Red Piller or FDSer would you pursue a relationship?I date black women pretty much exclusively. So, if I met one who was on FDS.. First thing I’d ask is if they were fine with someone calling black men “inherently low value” on that sub. Edit: to add to this, I’d also wonder why a black woman would align herself with terfs, transphobes and Susan b Anthony apologists. But hey, that’s just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay in a relationship with someone who let themselves go physically?The key is to already be out of shape and date people who like you like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material"Making men wait won’t deter the ones with ill intentions like you think it does. A lot of men are willing to wait a long time just to still leave once you give it up 🙁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?That’s the point tho. If a woman is really interested in him, then she would adapt to his ways communication. She would be able to find a way tell him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialLife isn’t a Disney movie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialThis is the best comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialYUP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialBut the issue is that we usually find out what type of girl she actually is anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialI love this debate. Fellas, don’t commit to anyone who fucks other men while making you wait. Let that girl date the men she actually has sex with. Or let her be alone. Her choice really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.I’ve been called one. I just don’t believe I am one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.Lmao. I met my first love very early and she taught me the game. We were both 15 but she was a lot more socially experienced than I was. I fell for her on first sight. She walked in the room and my world was never the same. I approached her, talked to her the whole night, and we ended up talking for a few months. One day I asked her what she was doing and she replied “chillin with my boyfriend, why?” I WAS SO HURT lol. I learned a valuable lesson that day tho. I’ve been hyper vigilant ever since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Why men experience on dating apps is so binary?Awww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Why men experience on dating apps is so binary?Ehhh sorry bro I get what you’re saying but vaginas are ugly. I hate hate HATE pussy pics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Would you indulge your man in his cuckold fetish if he had one?He basically your pimp at that point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 19 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?I’m black so no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | At what number of sexual partners would you consider somebody ‘promiscuous’?Idk for sure. At least 40 something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Do men really want a girl that "fucks like a porn star" or is that just projection from women?Definitely projection or PTSD from the ONE dude who wanted to tie her to the ceiling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?No. It’s like a man aspiring to be a “Chad”.. you clearly ain’t popping like you think. Just give it a rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 7 | At what number of sexual partners would you consider somebody ‘promiscuous’?Who cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Surely it's men who need to lower their standards?This comment actually makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 11 | Men, what are you looking for in women?I like my women kind, but I definitely don’t want a doormat, or someone who can’t establish her own boundaries. I’m slightly introverted, so I usually like women who can be slightly more extroverted for balance. However, I like introverts too. We need to have similar values, and we have to be socioeconomically similar too. I’m a black professional, so I prefer a black woman who is also a professional. I’m looking for reciprocation, communication and mutual respect. I want someone I can learn and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierOk I was with you until this comment lol this is 🧢. 2 offers per year is very low for a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierThis is how many people feel about positive and negative stereotypes. However, stereotyping is harmful either way. I think a similar message applies here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierThere are still plenty of sane singles in their 30s. It’s the 40s where it starts getting sketchy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierThere are plenty of women who also just want to fuck and leave. Idk why these men and women can’t find each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckier😂😂😂😂😂 that brother starving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:51 AM |
| 7 | What standards are TOO high?Lmao this is good. I wish I had an award to give | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What standards are TOO high?Your standards are too high if you can’t get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Question to all men out here who work out.Played 3 sports in high school. I do it for myself, so I don’t get too big or too out of shape. My physique is a big part of what makes me attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 10 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?“Mean girl energy” lol you’re corny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.This is the most accurate comment in regards to black men I’ve seen. Thank you. We strongly prefer black women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Ew lol you need rigorous therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women could possibly want tall men is preposterous. It’s only important that men are taller than they are.Came here to validate this comment. Some of us short guys do well with women from the outside looking in. What people don’t see/hear is what hurts us the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 11:27 AM |
| 4 | would you rather date...I mean … the vast majority of women would do the same if the roles were reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | would you rather date...The only answer that makes sense for a heterosexual American male is option B. A good half of us would cheat either way, so might as well scoop the one who won’t cheat back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Getting off with girls but not having sex with them..Whew this is really good advice | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:57 AM |
| 4 | To women only: In your experience are average, unattractive guys more or less misogynistic than attractive ones? Are they less of assholes?“Chads” hate women too. They just have access to their vaginas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Lets be real, what are the men who get sex doing that is so special?They don’t do anything lol they just exist. I look good and I’m dark skinned so women think I have a big dick.. which i do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Why when some guy makes some post talking about blackpill or redpill y'all say it's their personality that makes them undesirable to women? Do you think people talk the same way online anonymously as irl?That boy went hard at the end 😭🥶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Hardly and black woman have the luxury of dating a white man.I agree. Some do. But the ones who do are usually the only black woman in their circles outside of family members. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Can someone describe DATING at AGE 20s vs AGE 30s ?Idk. I’m almost 28 and dating now is actually harder than it was in my early 20s. It’s easier to date especially around college age because youre around peers of the opposite sex more often. As you get older, you have to be a lot more intentional if you want to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, which one would you rather prefer, Overweight/obese women with pretty faces or Slim fit women with unattractive face?Depends on their personalities tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I don’t blame you lol, protect your peace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Here’s the truth about ya boi. Once upon a time I was engaged to a great woman but I learned a crazy truth after I put on my engagement ring that she bought me….They do it to “stay on code” but they think we’re too stupid to see what’s going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?LMAO those people don’t have a clue. They’re so engulfed by privilege that they can’t see their own bullshit. Black women don’t really have any privilege compared to everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Here’s the truth about ya boi. Once upon a time I was engaged to a great woman but I learned a crazy truth after I put on my engagement ring that she bought me….You don’t see it because it isn’t happening to you. You aren’t paying attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Nice to find other black people in this shitstorm of a sub. I feel like it’s hard to relate to a lot of these takes from white people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Definitely. You may not experience it a lot personally, but that kind of trauma has been passed down to us genetically too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?Yeah I get you. They only verbalize “preferences” when they’re signaling a requirement. I also noticed you’re black too, which probably has something to do with our view on this topic. We are used to dog whistles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?I tend to be very literal, so when I say I prefer something, I literally just prefer it. Therefore, it doesn’t make sense for me to broadcast those preferences, because I could easily meet someone who doesn’t fit that preference and I’ll still like them. People got it twisted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?For one, people are rude about expressing their preferences. No one cares about what you prefer. What’s distasteful is talking shit about the people you don’t prefer. Also, people tend to confuse “preference” with “requirement.” Women like to say they prefer taller men when in reality, they REQUIRE taller men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why does the being short/tall thing matter? What happened to preferences?That’s not preference. That’s a requirement. You don’t prefer tall men, you REQUIRE tall men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Hardly and black woman have the luxury of dating a white man.The vast majority of black women don’t even find white men sexually attractive. Let’s start there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on men who forgive cheaters.🐱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Why won't men accept the fact that tall men are desirable compared to short men?Because she’s an idiot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What body type do you find most attractive on men or women?Short and thick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.True liberation means you aren’t afraid of what people will think. They should make an effort to get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.They don’t have to supplement anything. For example, I’m 27 and make good money on my own. I have my own everything. An older woman will still reject me based on age alone. It’s deeper than that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Do women not realize that they are the ones who are choosing to sleep with the men that are not good to them?They constantly reward shitty behavior. Very annoying but oh well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.I understand… but the Majority of those women have their own money. They don’t need a provider anyway. If it’s a loving partner they want, then I think they should be more open to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.If older women were more open to dating younger men, then they’d be happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | A combination of pussy pass and white privilege has turned white woman into the most psychotic group on earthI love when white people call each other out 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating is so unfair for short menI’m 5’6 and I just get in where I fit in. Women don’t usually want me for more than sex, so that’s what I offer. Works out pretty well. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree? How do you answer this question?I just give a very vague answer. My field has a big salary range so it’s a good way to weed people out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?Old brats with kids have great 🐱 too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?I’m not sure. I’ve never been married lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Many women do usually try to gather a couple of options before ending their current relationship. They say it all the time… they usually check out of relationships before they’re actually over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Number of partners27M: around 40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | PUAs or just those who have “game” what’s your go-to tactic to picking up a woman in a bar or party setting?I just smile .. Or make sustained eye contact. tbh the key is to be attractive to the woman you’re trying to talk to. And once you start talking, don’t say anything overtly sexual, weird or over share. That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:13 PM |
| – | Why do guys need sex to feel validated?Because a lot of women give the 🐱 up very quickly to men they actually desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 04:59 AM |
| 16 | Why do women keep tabs on their exes after breaking up?I would definitely block you if I was your ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipOh brother. But if the roles were reversed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?No. Many of them are female incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?I was 18. She was fine. I wanted to fuck. The end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 6 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?Definitely my own insecurity. I didn’t think I’d live up to her standard. I did, though. We ended up casually hooking up for years after that 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:30 AM |
| 4 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?Now, I couldn’t care less about body count. But back then, I felt like I wasn’t enough of a hoe to be her match. I’m sure I’ve since passed her with my body count though, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:13 AM |
| 14 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?Yup lol, her body count was pushing 20 and she was only my 3rd. Learned my lesson 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 14 | How many times have you asked women what their N-count is?I haven’t done that since I was 18. The girl actually told the truth so I learned my lesson 😖😖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 14 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Most men are vanilla. Some of us are only dominant like that because that’s what the women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 0 | She can’t make up her mindYea she’s a liar. Block and delete. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?The answer is homophobia/biphobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?Rihanna | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 01:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How high is the bar for being “girlfriend material”?I just think it’s ironic as hell that women would complain about a man’s standards being “too high” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Yup. It’s gonna be a tough pill for them to swallow. She may not necessarily get it now, but when the situation arises again, she’ll think about what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s?I think there’s a large range of what the “average guy” could experience. It depends on age, location, race, etc etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you like this hookup culture? Is it what you wanted or do you wish it never existed?I like it. People don’t wanna get married anyway so why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This post is so on point. I tell my homies all the time: “don’t ever give a woman the chance to reject you twice.” | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a guy who has had sex with another guy or a guy who has had sex with a prostitute?They under this post LYING lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Are black women masc?The way some of you talk about black people is ridiculous. Only on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you actually like the opposite gender?Yea, y’all just get on my nerves sometimes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Why is it against the rules to talk about how women can be sexually racist?Which is a peculiar thing to be angry about.. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 41 | A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" materialLOL that is diabolical. I’m definitely using it, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | good job guys you made me subconsciously hate womenPurge week got you on the ropes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | 𝗔𝗟𝗟 𝗛𝗔𝗜𝗟 𝗧𝗛𝗘 👑💎👑 𝓚𝓘𝓝𝓖 👑💎👑 𝗢𝗙 𝗥𝗘𝗗𝗣𝗜𝗟𝗟 🙌🙌🙌This is a top 2 Kevin Samuels analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | What is your N-countLots of universities here that are mostly women. GSU, Atlanta University Center, Agnes Scott, Emory, Oglethorpe etc. also a lot of industries that come here are female dominant (marketing/advertising, entertainment etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What is your N-countI’m in atl so women outnumber us by a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What is your N-countStopped counting after I hit 30. I’m M, 27 for reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 6 | "Black men are desperate for white women and can only date fat ones" Yeah about thatSome white men use that fallacy as a coping mechanism because they feel inherently inferior to us. Tragic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Let's finally settle this: why are white men at the top of the dating heirarchy?Depends where you are. Like I said, in Atlanta, black men are prioritized for both. Especially those of us who are educated with good jobs. Black men like that exist, btw. Especially in cities like ATL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Can we discuss the whole height obsession online? I don’t want to believe it’s real.Wonderful analysis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Most male PPD morons are white midwesterners that think a McChicken is expensiveLmao damn son 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want men to express their feelings but complain the minute that they do?THIS!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What could be the reason why a dude attracts fat women when he’s in shape ?This is it. They’re more forward because they have to be. Doesn’t mean other women don’t find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | "She doesn’t do anything! It’s wonderful huh? men are jealous and want to be women." "real [men] know what time it is and want to provide." "These men just hate to see black women resting in their femininity while their man goes out and provides."I’ve noticed that a lot of that type of rhetoric is CAP. They will most definitely go to work and support the men they like. They talk shit on the internet in order to cope with their dating Ls, but most still crave the attention and affection of black men irl, regardless of whether or not she’s “resting in her femininity.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Let's finally settle this: why are white men at the top of the dating heirarchy?From my POV (27, black M living in Atlanta)… black men are at the top of the chain. White men are a close second. Perspective is very important here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.That’s because we’ve been hurt worst in the past. Most of us are non-committal out of self-preservation. A lot of us still crave partnerships, but don’t believe it’ll happen. Almost a black pill thing tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves?I thought women didn’t care what men think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, upon meeting a new guy, at point do you develop a sexual attraction towards him?These responses confirm my beliefs Lol. Fellas, never wait for a woman’s feelings to “grow” for you. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does the manosphere have an aversion to women with tattoos?Because most of them have random, tacky tattoos placed haphazardly on their bodies. It just looks ugly. Sleeves and continuous pieces look great though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that bisexual people make better romantic and sexual partners?Yes!!! Personally (As a straight male), I’ve noticed that it’s easier for me to communicate with bisexual women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 07:31 AM |
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