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My BMI is 24. My weight is fine for my frame but I could improve body composition a bit. I was the same weight / BMI pre children but with more muscle and less body fat which was the difference of half a size in clothing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/25 08:39 PM
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Still together but still having some problems
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/25 06:39 PM
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Reading and responding to this is making me emotional. To some extent, I have gone through what you are describing. I share the experience of not being heard when asking for help. As an example, I exclusively breastfed and handled every single night wake up. My son woke up every try 1-3 hours his first year of life so I was really exhausted. One evening, I was becoming really worked up trying to get the baby to go to sleep. I wanted so badly to have a break. Later on, I told him “ In the future,…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/25 07:30 PM
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You could be suffering from limerance
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 01:38 PM
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The highs and lows of working through these feelings of resentment are so tiring. I’m happy you shared what’s been eating at you 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/25 01:00 AM
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Your “angry read” on the situation paints him with just as broad a brush as you assuming all the reasons he gave you sub par treatment were because you were overweight. I have some resentments in my relationship too and I know that the situation for you too is complex <3 I don’t think bringing these things up with him are a good idea, because I I can only picture confrontation from doing so and I’ve never had luck myself being like “ I’ve been mulling it over and think X,Y, and Z about you “. Yo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/25 05:19 AM
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I have one, and was able to get back into pretty great physical form about two years after my kid was born with low-moderate effort. I weight trained about 7 years before getting pregnant and I feel like having multiple children would make it very difficult
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 10:54 PM
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I started doing STFU with a lot of my thoughts I was not a nag or critical person. However, I realized I would say or text everything I think about right away. Now I keep a lot of random musings to myself and save them for the end of the day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/25 11:46 PM
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Ok, thanks for the additional info. Let’s say you chose to tell a man you were dating about the one-night stand ( which I don’t think you have to ). That man will not sit around with other guys and talk about you the way your friends talk about other women. What you did is not “news“ that will spread around between men.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 03:10 PM
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You don’t have to announce your one night stand when entering a relationship with someone, especially unprompted. If the conversation of past partners is discussed, you can choose to be honest about how many people you’ve slept with. But even then, you don’t have to share it was a one-night stand. If you and your partner are elaborating on the nature of your sexual relationships, then you could describe the encounter as it was or just say “ it was a casual thing one time. Which , by the way, I r…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 03:07 AM
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Ya I am highly suspicious its just rage bait
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:58 PM
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I feel like a semi - appropriate way to accept the money would be to say “ wow this is so unexpected! I will buy something pretty to wear for our date on Sunday :) “
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:37 PM
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Manners exist in dating
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:23 PM
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If you want more feedback, take the time to write an actual sentence with that question mark
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:21 PM
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Yes it was poor etiquette on your part
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/24 09:14 PM
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Can you give some examples of “ complaints “ and nagging that you do on a regular basis ?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/24 06:09 PM
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I’ve seen them and then decided they are a waste of my time to listen to
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 05:51 PM
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I remember your original post. Congratulations and I wish you a long and happy relationship:)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/24 05:45 PM
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It sounds like you are turned off from his personality. The actions you appreciate him for are things someone else who equally loves you will also do for you. I don’t think leaving him would be a huge mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 01:04 PM
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Ok I understand. If your parents have a long and strong marriage absent of these things, you could talk to him about the good example they have set for you
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 09:41 PM
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Yes! something I was thinking about is , How did he behave when his previous partners were dealing with emotional growing pains of life? What impact does his mindset have on whether the relationship grows closer or falls apart. I’m a little concerned that by voicing all his hesitancies based off how other women have acted ( according to him ), that OP might be tempted to say , “ I won’t be like X in the future” which can’t be proven and she doesn’t know how he will actually treat her when she is…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 04:10 PM
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That’s great! I didn’t mean to suggest otherwise because it does sound like there is a good relationship between you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 04:01 PM
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I have a 10 year difference and we met while I was 22 and he was 32. It sounds like you’ve done nothing to turn him off. So keep dating and appreciating him and also keep your standard high for how he appreciates and respects you. When appropriate you can compliment his life experience because you feel confident leaning into him for advice :).
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/24 03:11 PM
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You need to stand up for your partners to your mother
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/24 12:01 AM
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But how does it get to the point where a woman is calling 20 times and saying I love you? That would never happen if he was shutting down advances from the start
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 09:57 PM
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2 and 3 would be concerning to me. 4 and 5 are things he should be able to do with women, keep to himself, and not stress about.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 06:26 PM
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I like what you said about going back to being the good girl while he was searching for that 10% Good game !
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 04:12 PM
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Ok that clarifies more for me. Ive decided I would tell my husband. I think the protective part of him would want to know. If it happened recently, I would tell him soonish and hopefully it goes well!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 01:10 AM
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Was it overt and unwanted flirting? Did he say something forward to you or initiate touch? Then yes absolutely tell. Were you both being friendly / vibing and then it led to flirting you feel guilty about? Then I wouldn’t tell and put some natural barriers between the two of you so that it ends there.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 12:35 AM
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Welcome :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 05:46 PM
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Personal trainer
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/24 03:20 PM
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I would let it go and buy a much smaller birthday present
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 05:28 PM
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Get a rice maker. Have hot fresh rice made at all time. Learn to season ground beef in different ways. Ex. Spicy or sweet ( bulgogi ). Schnitzel works great too with this type of meal. Add a Sunny side up egg Buy Green onions and sesame seeds which will really elevate the dish.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 09:09 PM
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Do you think it’s talking specifically during sex that throws him off?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 11:10 PM
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Second guy, 33M
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 01:00 PM
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I think this situation requires another conversation with your fiancé. If it were me , I would begin by emphasizing that i know how important the exam is, admire his hard work, and want him to succeed. I am prepared to spend less time together as the demand for studying increases. I understand. But I will miss you and it’s difficult knowing that while I miss you, that time will be filled by you spending a lot of alone time with another woman. I know you tried to reassure me, but I am still uncom…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 01:03 PM
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I would take it one child at a time and you need to wait until both parents can agree they are ready to add another kid to the family.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/24 06:50 PM
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Ok this is something I think I can lean into
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 03:53 PM
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I appreciate the time to write your responses but I now realize you’re a man and I don’t think you properly understand my situation. I don’t think that group applies to my husband. He already excels in regard to work, earning potential, and physical fitness.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 03:07 PM
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Thanks you for this advice :) I will try
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 02:19 PM
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Trying to stay solution focussed as I am also responsible for the situation. This particular aspect of the relationship has room for growth, but I believe the relationship is still good.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/24 02:15 PM
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Let’s say your man has been neglecting step 1 for a long time ( years ). And also that the woman has done herself a disservice by not understanding arousal properly and requiring it for sex. How do you broach this topic positively ? Be frank about it ? Be scientific? Please advise
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:11 AM
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You deserve to talk about this and be supported. I’ve come to Reddit before ( on another account ) for advice on things I felt shameful to admit about myself and my relationship in real life. The next step is usually self-work or bringing the conversation “ to life “ with my spouse or a friend. In your case it might be easiest to speak to a friend in-person first. Consider a friend who has met him and/or has confided in you before. Someone who you know will be supportive whether you want to stay…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 10:07 PM
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I am working on my tendency to nitpick on my husband’s mood and tone but I know my insecurity is largely to blame for this. In your case, the examples of your husband’s behaviour are more extreme demonstrations of contempt. You do not have to put up with being yelled at. You are being more mature than I would be in the same situations. It’s concerning that he treats you like this behind closed doors. Have you shared this with anyone you trust in your inner circle?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/24 03:43 PM
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