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| 1 | I'm fine in a low-key environment, in a bar the conversation struggles. What's going on?Great interview with a coach named Kasia on "The Mens Room" that touches on this issue. Watch the vid (parts are not relevant, cant remember the time stamp where it is, but its good anyway.) -- bottom line, most loud environments are mainly run by non verbal communications. Women go to clubs to dance and have fun and are not in the mind set for conversation (at least not in a loud venue). Great non-verbal language does not mean high energy, but it does mean that you have to take the lead, guide … | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I Want To Feel More Entitled. How Do I Do So?So, I dont think "entitlement" is quite the word you want. The whole point of PUA is to get you comfortable being you. What you want to drill into your head is not that "hottie X over there is so lucky to have you" but rather " why should I compromise who I am for anyone?" Lets dig into the difference between those two world views: The first suggests to yourself that your self worth is directly tied to her appreciation. Thats what entitlement is -- its a dependency between the one who feels enti… | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Really good first date! But lack of response from her after?Would have played the ending differently, but what's done is done. What exactly did you send her, when and how many times have you tried to reach out? | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 07:30 AM |
| 1 | i need help.Grammar is where it is at. Until you meet them again, all you have is your verbal arsenal of fun things to talk about, to keep them interested in you. If you are a much better conversationalist in person, it is your job to take your in person personality and communicate that via text. I can think of no time where the solution to that has been poor grammar and text shortcuts. Honestly, I've had several girls tell me that they have turned down dates with guys who would not spell out full words : i… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I tried asking them questions and gettign them to open up and came off as beta. My friend only talked about himself, and came off as Alpha with a #-close.I'd think it's because all you are doing is asking questions. Good conversation is give and take and you should not feel you have to keep asking questions to keep it going. Talking about yourself is ok as long as you have something interesting to say and can use it to inspire others to talk about similar experiences. I've always found the "keep questioning" approach awkward. Part of PUA is taking the theory and making it human, which in this case is figuring out how to get the same effect as que… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Finding out if she has a boyfriend...Hm, honestly, I've never asked a girl this. The reason is : if she does not mention him, she's looking for something different or she does not have one. Either way, you are in. If she does have one, it's no big deal, because she has friends who don't. Asking if she has a boyfriend in any way is kind of like saying "I only wan't to talk to you if we can hook up", which in the event she does not have one, can put some barriers in your way and raise her defenses to the rest of your approach. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:54 AM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineAh, I half expected this to be a segway into some kind of sick "wet-work" fetish. Nice routine :) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:45 AM |
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