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What a username.
/r/seduction02/04/17 06:57 AM
5

1?
/r/seduction09/03/17 12:39 AM
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but do u really want answers
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:31 AM
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Everyone here knows seduction is a social process. It's about playing roles. But here's a thought: Do you really want to play those roles? Everyone here also knows that people like to fuck, women included, yet it is 'common knowledge' that women have to be won over. I think it's also 'common knowledge' that women tend to be a little more fluid in their sexuality--it'll be apparent why I mention this in a second and why it's related to my overall point of 'maybe I don't want to play the game' whe…
/r/seduction14/01/17 04:56 AM
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So many fuckin' nerds on Reddit. I love it.
/r/seduction04/01/17 02:45 AM
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Unless both of them were about objectification. I am not a hardcore feminist at all btw.
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:17 AM
2

If somebody were to deny there's a lot of sexism in the "PUA" community (maybe especially when it was big and not yet publicly derided a few years ago) I'd have to laugh.
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:51 PM
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That's what the principal said ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:49 PM
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Man I read that and the struggle is still real. I finally went on a good date via OKCupid since a break up 9 months ago (I had a couple a month ago but they were lame) and she's just so damn interesting in addition to being cute, such a nerd in similar ways to me. And it seemed so promising. And here I am 24 hours freakin out a little bit because she hasn't replied to a couple messages post date, and you know damn well I'm not going to needily message her anything else while the ball's in her co…
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:46 PM
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FORD you're talking about whether Ford is still alive or not in Westworld, right?
/r/seduction10/12/16 11:46 PM
5

That sounds way more interesting than what I would do. I would probably just nonchalantly say "Sometimes". And proceed to not flirt, as per usual.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:04 AM
3

No need for all the capitalization. Good for people who haven't read it before but pretty generic.
/r/seduction13/09/16 09:10 AM
1

Surely you don't think saying strange things, as if there's a secret code, could possibly help you? SimplePickup succeeds in spite of social handicaps they're giving themselves. They do it for humor and to imply that because you can attract some women even if you're pretending to be Harry Potter (or whatever), your excuses probably aren't good. I'm picking up some serious indicators of weirdness here. Like when you wonder if "maybe things have changed", do you think that women a few years ago re…
/r/seduction13/09/16 09:07 AM
1

Well, isn't hooking up and dating the reason to use Tinder? Aside from the remarks on how 'girls just do it for their self-esteem'. But people go to bars for all sorts of different reasons. edit: I mean the power of social context. It seems highly plausible to me that the very same woman might be prepared to think in very different ways about the same guy depending on what she's doing and thinking about at the time.
/r/seduction13/09/16 08:49 AM
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Good points, very long, similar to what John Cheese said in his Cracked article "6 Harsh Truths". I recommend people read that. A wake-up call for me (not specifically about women).
/r/seduction26/08/16 10:06 PM
2

Self-knowledge is valuable. Really think you're in between the two after making a long post? ;)
/r/seduction26/08/16 10:04 PM
1

Yeah, but he still has dignity. Maybe not to that girl, but to himself. The woman does not have the power over him to make him do some disrespectful act like rummaging through her bag.
/r/seduction06/07/16 06:26 PM
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real respectable men stop playing the drunk bar slut game soon after they leave college along with binge-drinking and other self-destructive behavior 'Real respectable' men want nothing to do with this shit at any time in their life.
/r/seduction03/02/14 02:48 AM
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But why didn't you stop the date when she was 'groping other girls and making them uncomfortable'? Or 'started playing wingwoman'? That wasn't a date anymore. Do you think many women would tolerate it? Tolerate their 'date' groping (albeit other men) and acting as their 'wingman' to introduce them to more guys? You must've had one-itis or whatever.
/r/seduction03/02/14 02:44 AM
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It is pretty fucking minor. Instead of hyper-analyzing some poster, consider a) focusing your analysis on yourself, b) toning down the analysis period. Or apply it usefully: on analyzing what behaviors to apply in what situations. On what antecedents--what situations, or thoughts or feelings you have right-before, are causing you to fail--or what behaviors you do-instead of the ones you want (like video games instead of studying). Or on what consequences follow your current actions (relief at no…
/r/seduction02/10/13 02:32 AM
2

We'll all take away different things based on what we most need to work on, so as a private note to myself: 1-slow down when I talk and speak a bit lower, 2-do not voice self-doubts, 3-appreciate anyone I interact with and leave them better for it.
/r/seduction12/04/13 03:14 AM
1

Yeah, what the fuck is this a shit test? It's not, like, some kind of shit test to see if I'll worry about shit tests, is it?
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:21 AM
1

Maybe you should both clarify what you mean by "oneitis" (same word, different meanings?)
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:20 AM
3

Yeah. And as the moderator of a forum myself (not on Reddit, for a Facebook group) who has had to ban trolls myself, I know that the 'everything everywhere should be totally free speech' argument/entitlement is not intelligent.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/13 03:25 AM
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I'm still skeptical that he was "concern trolling" as he may have had real concerns. However, my opinion is improved. P.S. Another 'red pill' blogger is FreedomTwentyFive
/r/TheRedPill01/03/13 03:22 AM
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only if a country isn't socially liberal enough to do well with a transition to democracy
/r/TheRedPill28/02/13 08:00 PM
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Dude. AlephBa..ta or whatever honestly looks better in the images he linked. Don't be proud of that moderation.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/13 07:56 PM
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Mischaracterizing something you don't like to engender dissent is a tactic of feminism and discredits you. I'm pretty sure it's a tactic of everybody. Characterizing common undesirable persuasion tactics as being exemplified in one group is sure to lead to prejudice, conscious or not.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 07:53 PM
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I just found that Youtube channel a few days ago. The guy lives in Provo, Utah, and is on the BYU campus, which I've been to dozens of times (I live fairly nearby). It's just weird to think that this really cool guy lives in Mormon City.
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:04 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 05:08 PM
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some justification that wards off her ASD Or, you know, someone that just plain wants to have sex with you, just like you want to have sex with them. Women can want to have sex, wow!
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:08 AM
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Whoa, whoa, whoa. My impression of this sub just took a turn for the sour. And don't you say 'you probably don't belong here then'. I was, and am, very, very interested in it. I just have some beef, is all, and this is one example. There seems to be this Grand Narrative that men live in the "school of hard knocks" - repeated over and over and over again. Sure, I don't doubt that success is tough. But for the argument to even make sense here there would have to be a significant difference between…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/13 02:56 AM
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No man, this is pretty much what I was thinking. (Sorry for replying so late.) I'm willing to bet that the average girl I might call an 8+ in hotness probably gets hit on-I'm thinking a little beyond just flirting, like the guy asks for a number-like 1-2 times a month (and 0-1 if she's not single and makes that clear). And a 6-7 like 0-1 times/mo. I think it's mostly because men exaggerate how much women get hit on, though partly because the average guy "couldn't seduce a jar of mayonnaise", as …
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:11 PM
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I think it depends, but more likely B.) because you'll realize that if you actually flirt/approach, she'll appreciate the interaction as much as you do
/r/seduction11/02/13 09:38 PM
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I think you said everything useful that needs to be said about this--have an upvote. This should-maybe-be linked in a Seddit resource that explains the differences between men and women in seduction and dating.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:53 PM
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Nah, but that's not the reason I posted. The reason I posted is because I see that kind of comment all the time.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:49 PM
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I really wish I saw this kind of r/seduction, rarely is something this actionable (ie, after reading you say to yourself 'I know exactly what to do')
/r/seduction11/02/13 08:27 AM
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I love this comment, and some of the responses to it. Reminds me that r/seduction has much to teach me, since my first impulse would be to just dismiss the girl and move on.
/r/seduction11/02/13 08:15 AM
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Hmm, depends on the girl. If it's a girl you're dating, then it's more likely they have or could get options, but I think my fellow bros on r/seduction forget that there are a lot of "AFC" women, too, and lots of women would read your statement that they have 'literally men everywhere lining up to court them' as completely alien.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:32 AM
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Reminds me of Tim Ferriss' interview on Pickup Podcast (I love that guy! and the podcast) - the 'dinner at your place' is supposed to immediately weed out those who aren't really into you, plus it's just a lot more fun. I think, however, I'm going to save that as a second or third date idea for myself.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:19 AM
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Oh, you saved it. Well, you're sure to use it, then, aren't you?
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:54 AM
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Poor you. Smart and attractive. I feel your pain.
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:53 AM
2

Sounds like somebody knows a Jelena. (Hey, I know a Jamila.)
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:52 AM
1

Agreed. I sometimes wonder if the social skills education you get from immersing yourself (not that I've "immersed" myself) in seduction is superior to what you'd gain from focusing on "social skills" themselves.
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:51 AM
1

Oh man, you and your tough dilemmas
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:49 AM
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is broscience
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:43 AM
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yeah, it's totally going to be the same person
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:41 AM
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It's not bro science. Read Influence, by Robert Cialdini, world's leading social influence psychologist.
/r/seduction29/01/13 01:39 AM
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something like "haha 5'5"? stop tryin' so hard lil buddy" plus other douchey stuff P.S. I like your username
/r/seduction24/01/13 07:20 PM
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And today's winner for douchiest comment goes to...
/r/seduction24/01/13 06:27 PM
3

like a ... Gauss?
/r/seduction24/01/13 06:26 PM
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Solid, or awesome? Cuz I thought it sounded like an awesome night.
/r/seduction24/01/13 06:26 PM
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... grasshopper
/r/seduction22/01/13 07:42 PM
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NOOOOO..... What BULLSHIT...... This SOUNDS legit because it SOUNDS just like every other pua you might read, most of which are shit. And you believe it because... well... 'they can't all be wrong, can they?' So, "kickassacademy", you really think a hot girl has heard it a million times before ? I'll tell you how many times I've seen a guy approach a girl, say 'you're hot', and pretty much nothing else: ZERO TIMES I know it's common wisdom, but if you just open your EYES, you'll see it's bullshi…
/r/seduction21/01/13 08:06 AM
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In this thread: Guy has the revolutionary thought of being empathetic. Sadly it is too uncommon, and that's why we--and I--need game/seduction, to realize basic shit like this.
/r/seduction21/01/13 08:01 AM
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Ugh. Not this bullshit again. On the other hand it has a great point. I just hate how sex- and idiot- oriented it is. I think I may be schizophrenic.
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:59 AM
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Okay, okay. But whose experience are you trying to optimize? I ask because it seems to me that if you want to feel like you're doing the 'most confident' thing - being 'a man' - you'll just dive right in, no preface. Whereas if you care about maximizing the butterflies/breath caught/seduction experience of her, you'll go for building tension...of course, it's harder, too, because you're giving yourself a chance to chicken out if you wait a second or two.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:28 AM
2

But why can't you do both? Sometimes no preface, sometimes build up tension. I feel like it's 3x better in the latter, and she probably feels the same.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:04 AM
1

It really is. I like the top answer way better.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:03 AM
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if you just want to sleep with him, this is super easy This. I'm always envious of how much easier girls have it. A girl doesn't even have to be hot as long as she's not ugly. Well, she has to be at least somewhat cute - a 6.5+/10 would certainly get a 'yes'. Doesn't mean she's girlfriend material...
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:05 PM
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Pretty much all posts ever posted to Reddit get downvotes, even if it's inexplicable why it would be downvoted. It's not a personal thing. My theory? A fraction, say 10%, of Redditors are just very miserable, socially awkward, unpleasant people who dislike everything. Some people just hate things and don't really love things - like my twelve-year-old sister. Some people are just like moody, unadjusted twelve-year-olds their whole life. Maybe they perceive everyone as a 'fake' or something... I k…
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:01 PM
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I think I just realized that Seddit will never be perfect. Because it's a reddit board, and all redditors - even those interested in self-improvement - spend way too much time on Reddit. And have different conceptions of how to spend a night. I guess it just occurred to me that for non-Redditors like Jordan Harbinger, it's normal to spend most nights out, rather than one day a week...
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:57 PM
0

"what seems more awkward is less awkward... and what seems less awkward is more awkward" -- SimplePickup
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:54 PM
3

Yay Ramit Sethi! God I love r/seduction :P It's where cool kids hang out. And where one of the PUA's I actually respect does an AMA!
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:49 PM
2

Always.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:40 PM
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No. /thread
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:53 PM
2

Doing my best to ensure they have good first sexual and romantic experiences - one more thing to add to my list of how to raise my kids someday (in 10 years).
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:26 PM
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Never had one. Gradual. Correction: Had several. They were never real. It's been a gradual process. Still is; I feel like I'm just fifty steps into a thousand-step journey.
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:22 PM
2

Wait, two weeks!?! You only first heard of ideas like these TWO WEEKS AGO? WOW!! /jawdrop
/r/seduction09/01/13 05:18 PM
3

Wow. "Hey, HB7.5 and I know you don't have much experience, we can teach you everything and make you a god at sex." Duuuude
/r/seduction23/12/12 10:04 PM
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Aww, shucks! Look at these two bros. I always tear up at a good bromance.
/r/seduction23/12/12 09:57 PM
0

PLEASE!
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:27 PM
2

"solar" situation not making them look away first?
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:02 PM
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Someone caught up in a rare positive energy - that's who. I've seen it happen myself. You better believe that someone can be so uplifting and charismatic that they draw you into their world (because in that moment it is their world) and induce social behavioral changes in the people around them. Furthermore, I see it all the time in the videos I watch by, e.g., SimplePickup. Sounds to me like you need to expand your view of what's possible, open your eyes to what's real ;) It's becoming increasi…
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:36 AM
3

Nah man, the university is definitely spelled ColUmbia University
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:31 AM
1

Oh, what, so now we have to worry about things like being replicable, verifiable, and generally using good epistemology to figure out how things actually work? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlqDu2cDT0A&t=1m30s
/r/seduction26/11/12 02:57 AM
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Why is this buried (relatively speaking)? There are a lot of things that turn out to be pseudoscience, and this is the reason why they persist
/r/seduction26/11/12 02:48 AM
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