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well_done_mate/r/seduction02/08/15 11:55 PM
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If you have Facebook and go to the 'Events' section it'll show you popular events in your network and in your area.
/r/seduction21/08/15 12:33 AM
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Whenever I get bogged down by negative thoughts I drown them out by repeating "I'm smart, I'm confident, I'm attractive" over and over until they pass (either in my head our out loud). Works for me. YMMV
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:19 AM
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Not caring doesn't mean being a dick
/r/seduction07/08/15 04:30 PM
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I love this sub because it focuses on improving yourself as a man first before worrying about finding a girl. It sounds counter intuitive, but the less you worry about finding a girl and just focus on yourself and having fun, the higher chance you'll attract someone.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:44 AM
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Only if you work on yourself and genuinely change. It won't happen overnight either.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:41 AM
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If you're alone and browsing the Internet, then try reading out loud rather than in your head. It helps you get accustomed to your voice and really helped me with my projection and tone.
/r/seduction05/08/15 12:47 AM
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I recommend woodworking. It's creative, rewarding, 'manly' and you can use the shit you make or give it as gifts to loved ones. If you haven't got the space then just get a block of soft wood and a pocket knife and start whittling some mini-sculptures. It's really great to create stuff with your hands.
/r/seduction04/08/15 12:00 AM
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I think the appeal is that you've had the discipline, dedication and passion to achieving a relatively difficult goal (playing an instrument well) so it's not necessarily about the guitar itself. Maybe pick something you'd truly love to learn and set goals for that.
/r/seduction03/08/15 11:52 PM
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Thanks for the reply mate, sounds like you have a good attitude. Hope it all works out for the best :)
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:26 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Hanging out with her this Friday for a couple drinks, hope it all goes well!
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:26 PM
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Thanks for the reply! Hope you make the right career choices for you:)
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:24 PM
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Thanks for the reply! I would be lying if I said I didn't feel a bit intimidated. I'm still an amateur in this whole dating scene and reading this sub has given me some great lessons but it's a bit harder to put them into practise. I guess the best way to approach this is just to treat her like any girl I was trying to seduce?
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:22 PM
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I can't really lie, she knows me and my situation. She doesn't seem put off by it, but then I've never been great at reading women. Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:19 PM
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Great point, thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:17 PM
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Hey thanks for the reply! For the record, I don't think I'm a loser. I'm ambitious and motivated, I've just made poor decisions that mean I'm a couple years behind where I'd like to be right now. You're completely right though, I am insecure about it and I don't mean just in the dating sense, I feel pretty bad whenever I see how well some of my peers are doing. I definitely need to get out of my head and focus on the positives of my life more.
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:17 PM
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