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33	The worst double standard. I'm not sure I agree with that logic. I have a friend that insists that I have no room to talk on anything from gay rights, racism, cultural appropriation, to fat acceptance and radical feminism. Apparently, you either have to be in the oppressed category or be an "expert" in it by taking a few goddamn classes or else you're not allowed to have a say in it. Okay...mayhaps my anger is misplaced. Point is...people can still have valid well thought out opinions and views on something without having…	/r/MensRights	22/05/12 03:28 PM
4	Got this chain mail today. It came from the HR dept. ಠ_ಠ This is equally insulting to men and women. Your HR person needs to be fired.	/r/MensRights	18/05/12 02:13 PM
2	Rape Fantasies done.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 06:12 PM
2	Rape Fantasies Yes, I can see that now. I assure you that I wasn't trolling. Do you recommend I delete the post?	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 04:16 PM
2	Rape Fantasies I am sorry for two things I've learned since posting this. 1) This isn't the place to discuss gender discrimination based on sexual fantasies. 2) A self-post is always preferable than a comic when dealing with something so sensitive. In the future, I'll remember that when posting here. I obviously didn't do enough research before posting in this subreddit. Also, I'll concede to the point that if a male fantasizes about being raped, there wouldn't be demonization for either. I'm not sure if the s…	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:46 PM
2	Rape Fantasies You say claimed as if you don't believe its possible. I assure you, it is. Edit: I will say its less likely if the woman isn't familiar with being dominant. Until you know what it feels like to have a strap-on and dominating your partner in the bedroom, its less likely that you'll relate to the fantasy from both sides.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:36 PM
1	Rape Fantasies I'll remember that in the future. Thank you.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:33 PM
1	Rape Fantasies Not necessarily. I can take either side in my fantasy, and most men I've talked to about this are the same way. Its the situation that's a turn on, no matter which side you're on.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:32 PM
2	Rape Fantasies I can see I've upset a lot of people here. My intention wasn't to make r/mensrights look bad at all. I guess I should have done this in a more sophisticated way and written out the entire point I was trying to make. I didn't realize so many people would think I was trolling. I have legitimate concerns here. Where is a safe place to talk about them without being accused of trolling? Or rather, how do you suppose I can go about it and get more open responses?	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:31 PM
2	Rape Fantasies Why does everyone assume I'm trolling?? I guess I should have just written out a dissertation about the complexities and specifics of the actual point I was trying to make.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:29 PM
1	Rape Fantasies I think it's more about being turned on by the situation as a whole, its not necessarily about being on one side or the other.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:21 PM
2	Rape Fantasies I'm not intentionally trolling. It was oversimplified to get the point across about something that I've been thinking about, but I do see your point. Playing the victim and playing the raper are very different things. Personally, I've fantasized about both, and most men I've talked to about this have as well. I don't know if its natural or "moral" or what, but I can't help but have some stirrings in my groin when I see a rape situation in a movie or something like that. I think people can be tur…	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 03:20 PM
10	Rape Fantasies Never apologize for being a skeptic ;-)	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 02:28 PM
8	Rape Fantasies It's not actually a true story. I have a lot of very radical feminist friends and I've brought up these hypothetical scenarios to many of them with pretty much the same reaction. When I say that I have this fantasy (I'm female), they tell me how normal and acceptable it is. But I ask if its okay for a man to have the same fantasy and they say absolutely not and go into psychobabble about how fucked up society is for teaching men that rape is acceptable behavior.	/r/MensRights	14/05/12 02:26 PM