That's repulsive to women. Next time, ask her once (ideally not at all, but for you once will do What the hell are you even supposed to do? This shit is so confusing.
someone who is horny and wants to get off and doesn't like the person enough to want them around forever but is willing to ignore it to get a bit of action that one time. What kind of BS is that?
Because he can go on Reddit during work hours. He can't go on dates during work hours. It therefore affects his dating life since he can't spend any of that free time going on dates, unlike being on Reddit, which doesn't require him to leave work. What's so hard to understand?
You could be good looking but have social issues. Being in a gym won't do much at all. Especially if the person is an autist, like you said at the start of your comment.
Not really a surprise that guys who find it easy to get laid aren't going to randomly start doing things to improve their chances. Their chances are already good.
IME the men who struggle are the sort of men who spend 6hrs a day gaming and have very minimal social lives. Ah, because you're surrounded with those types of men?
Are we reading the same subreddit? It seems to be mostly "dont date losers" and "dont let dudes take advantage of you" Of course a regular user in FDS will defend FDS.
Yup. That's the level of dumbassery you're dealing with by talking to a FDS user. They respond like children and strut around with "hahah lol fat incels mad" when you call them out for the dumbasses they are. It's quite funny to watch them at their BS
Careful. They'll start telling you about how they're actually 7 - 9 Staceys and that they're absolute catches, which is why they only ever date shitty men.
Aww, look at the FDS posters out in full force. They think they're hot stuff, too. Nothing says attractive and relationship material like posting on a subreddit about how you only deserve the highest tier of men, despite being mediocre at the very best.
Sure, but I highly doubt fewer women are dating short men due to thinking they are too high up on the ladder, rather than just not finding them attractive.
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Well it is. It's like an ugly guy putting on a mask of an attractive guy, and then taking it off when he gets home. Doesn't really mean you look like that just because you put stuff on your face.
Much more common in the younger gen for some reason. They love to feed guys that line, and then they get stuck with the idea that they can definitely get a relationship with their wonderful personalities, despite not being attractive. Poor guys, honestly.
You've got cause and effect the wrong way around. They act that way from how they were treated, not that they're treated the way they're treated because they were always like that.
I think his issue was becoming bulky. He has a small frame, so losing the weight would help him look proportional, and therefore more attractive. What didn't help was then packing on all that muscle. Losing the fat and becoming slightly toned would've worked a lot better for his looks.
His head looks too big for his muscular body. Something else definitely changed between the two pics, but I cant quite pinpoint it. Might be that his body frame also became smaller.
Also sounds disgusting to brag about how many people you slept with as if it makes you more interesting, attractive, or "empowered." It does none of those things - it's just revolting.
Sounds like you don't actually value relationships. You just want your "dick appointments." Also, "funner" is not a word. Why would you ever type such a thing?
It shows that the whole "be a good person, women only care about personality and not looks" line that women like to spout is a bunch of bullshit, and what really matters is a good face. Why are people like you not getting this? Also, nice job on painting everyone you disagree with as a neckbeard.
Incels are just calling BS on the whole "women care about personality" shit, and using Jeremy Meeks as an example. Also, no matter what your description of a good personality is, Jeremy Meeks sure as shit isn't it. You don't need to be a "snivelling nice guy," but he doesnt fit any description of being a good person. At all. He still has no dating problems.
Lol what a load of shit. Women seem to love pretending that they're so much better than men and totally don't also date someone largely based on their looks. "Women don't even care about looks; just personality."
There are plenty of places where women must wear it, though. It doesn't stop being something that Muslim women are forced to wear just because a woman in a western country says she does it out of modesty and because it's "totally my choice," not realising it's from being in a family that isn't enforcing the religion.
I mean, that's all it really comes down to. People say they are attracted to [x group of people]. What they really mean is they're attracted to attractive people who look like they belong to [x group].
Wow, this subreddit is full of old farts. It's sarcasm. The "yikes, who hurt you sweaty" thing is a joke. And yes, that includes the incorrect spelling of "sweetie."
Same for the bottom half, but wide shoulders, normal neck, and some abs in the upper half. I think it's just from being slightly skinny but I think it still counts.
I have always been a very anxious person, my friends all seem to really know what to do and I never really asked of them how they did it. I have always been more stay at home with my parents and loneliness is all consuming. In all honesty, I think this guy has more than just some social anxiousness. Sounds like a case of undiagnosed Asperger's. But prosecutor Victoria Norman said: ‘He intended to touch her breast area and was waiting for her.’ Noting both approaches took place in ‘isolated areas…
That's reasonable. I was thinking more of the type of people who are on /r/niceguys who use "nice" as a strategy and then turn it off when it doesn't work How do you know they're "turning it off"? They may simply be just expressing frustration that the whole kindness thing - no matter how natural it is to them - isn't working, and randomly expressing that frustration isn't "switching off the kindness," nor does it mean that they aren't actually kind.
Have you tried thinking about what "friendzone" actually is? Friendzone without the misaligned expectations is just a friend. Friends are extremely valuable. Women are human--women value friendship. In order to even come up with the "friendzone" concept, guys are basically devaluing friendship. They're using friendship as a strategy of getting at romance or sex, and then saying they're not satisfied with the achievement of her friendship. If I matter as a person, then why is my friendship not of…
I'd rather not have a disease, that's what. The fuck is the mentality in this thread with "doesn't matter bro" about diseases? Diseases become antibiotic-resistant, and then you're screwed because you took a shitty attitude towards your physical health.
What better things are guys in their 20s spending money on? I Their own hobbies. They also shouldn't have to be putting their money towards a baby because "what else are you spending it on?". That's a terrible justification.
I'm pretty sure autists are considered to have higher prenatal T levels, not lower. That's the case for me. EDIT: I also have high T as an adult - deep voice, broader shoulders, and have traits of high T in prenatal stage. I'm also on the spectrum.
It's not like they start saying that off the bat. They're only mentioning those kinds of things after they realise they don't have any chance anyway. The whole, "see, your personality is the issue," is so incredibly stupid because people always mix up what happens first and second.
You know, plenty of them already DID try. Then they go online to vent about it, and have random asses like you saying that only personality matters, or that they didn't even try in the first place. They didn't wake one day and declare themselves incels out of nowhere.
Yeah, I think you threw a lot of people off (including myself) when you mentioned cuddling one-on-one. That sounds very much like relationship-level stuff.
Why does it matter if something is "fair"? Humans prefer to be on as equal of a level as possible. Why should people accept being treated much worse than other people?
yeah the snuggling happens but it’s only when we watched movies and I assumed that’s what you do with close friends For real? I need to get myself some close friends.
Yup. Not the easiest job in the world to just assume correctly of everyone. I can easily see why a guy wouldn't assume those things to be guaranteed interest as a guy myself.
Your only job is to approach them first and make them feel more safe, physically and emotionally Oh Jesus. "Your only job." Yeah, sorry honeybooboo50, but men also have feelings. We aren't emotionless apes who do everything in life like we're robotically ticking off a checklist.
Ladies, say it with me, (self.FemaleDatingStrategy) I will not settle for an average relationship I will not allow myself to be disrespected or mistreated by someone out of LONELINESS I’m not asking for too much, I’m asking for just enough I deserve a relationship where I’m cherished, not just tolerated Wow, Jesus, no kidding.
Hangdog expression? I'm assuming you mean the mouth being agape, and that is related to jaw development during puberty. Keep breathing through your mouth and not resting your tongue at the roof, and the hangdog will probably feel more natural than having to keep your jaw shut weirdly backwards. I wouldn't know too much about it though, since I ended up having a good jawline
There isn't "extreme social pressure." No guy is expecting women to walk around in makeup 24/7, or demanding that all women do it. Hell, as far as the general consensus goes, women only wear makeup for themselves, not for men. Or is that not true?
Same thing happens quite often when guys with ugly traits complain about lack of dating. Some 50 year old will come along and tell some guy that him being short has nothing to do with unsuccessful dating because he's short and managed it fine. How old is he? Oh, he's separated from you by a couple generations and from not ever being required to use online dating.
If you’d rather not date someone who slept with more than you (insecurity maybe?) And you have the audacity to call other people nuts. It's not insecurity. It's a preference for a partner who is similar to you.
think relationships are all about 'sex and what you can get out of it', That's not true at all. EDIT: oh, never mind. Just another old guy who thinks his generation was the greatest, and the next one is full of lazy and entitled people. Never heard that one before.
This is what feminists mean when they say that toxic masculinity hurts men as well Feminists make toxic masculinity out to be something that men have done towards themselves. There's a whole bunch of stuff where women have helped to propagate certain ideas, such as men not wanting to be emotionally open with their partners.
They still get women though. The average goody two shoes doesn't, unless he's attractive. But then his behaviour would have nothing to do with it anyway.
Where do some men get the idea that they have to become "worthy of sex?" Because it's actually true for plenty of men. They don't ever get to enjoy the idea that they'll end up getting sex one way or the other.
You're doubtful that there are plenty of men who think women are the greatest, and doubt that women would actually go for a good looking guy over one with a good personality? Plenty of them exist. It's where the whole "niceguy" thing comes from.
even if peoples moms said it to them to be nice, you have to willfully blind yourself to keep believing it after you stop believing in Santa claus The Women Are Wonderful effect works pretty hard.
"It's not fair that good-looking assholes get to be with beautiful women while I can't and it's all because of genetics," That would typically be a blackpilled view. The idea that a good guy thinks that good male behaviour should be rewarded is a bluepill way of thinking.
Is that meant to be a reference to something? My point was you can't get triggered at guys not having to take off makeup because you don't even have to apply it yourself.
i can assume by default because i'm a girl and socially aware enough to know that men don't mind when i sexualize them. Pretty damn sexist to assume that.
No it's not. Sex with someone is not like eating a packet of crisps. Plenty of people prefer the connection with one person, not just getting themself off with different people.
Why? You can have a lot of sex with one person. I don't get what's so appealing with boasting about having sex with over 30 people. That's actually pretty disgusting IMO.