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welshwelsh/r/seduction28/07/19 12:57 AM
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welshwelsh/r/seduction18/02/19 12:37 AM
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Right, it really pisses me off when Americans use the word "liberal" to mean "leftist." A liberal is simply someone who values liberty- someone who believes in free speech, freedom of religion and free markets.
/r/MensRights10/02/24 05:57 PM
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conservative Christian This part
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:30 PM
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Religious values are garbage though
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:30 PM
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Increasing wealth, education and quality of life causes society to move away from traditional values and religion. Feminism and women's liberation is a product of industrialization and capitalism. When women work and earn an income, that gives them the ability to easily leave relationships at will because they are not financially dependent, which gives them more negotiating power in relationships. Similar forces allow people to leave their religion or their family of origin if they are unhappy w…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:28 PM
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So where's your evidence that women hate being single more? To me that's unfathomable. I can't imagine why the average woman would want to date the average guy nowadays. How does she benefit from that?
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:17 PM
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The game is becoming increasingly difficult for the ‘bottom’ 80% of men. I don't really see this as a problem, because it is insanely easy to outearn 95% of men. Just learn to code. Anyone can do it. If women are raising the bar, that's good. The bar is too low. Today there are lots of intelligent, college educated, career oriented women looking for similar men. There's plenty of opportunities for ambitious men who take their education seriously to find partners. That's what we should be encoura…
/r/MensRights12/08/22 01:26 PM
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Nah, hard disagree. Nearly half of marriages today end in divorce, and most divorces are initiated by women. What does this mean? It should be obvious: most women are unhappy in their marriages, but because they now have careers they are capable of leaving because they can financially support themselves. Women needs to get married more than men This is objectively false. Marriage is a stronger predictor of happiness in men compared to women. Men are also more likely than women to want children. …
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:14 PM
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Pasting this for context, because I know nobody here is going to read the article: The reality is that more men are attending college than ever before. According to the Pew Research Center, 36 percent of American men ages 25 to 34 had a bachelor’s degree in 2021. That number has risen from just 20 percent in 1970. Over the same 51-year span, the percentage of women ages 25 to 34 with a bachelor’s degree has risen from 12 percent to 46 percent. Today, the average student body is a 60-40 split in …
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:57 PM
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No one is forcing anyone to have a circumcision. Sure they do, usually infants get circumcised and they can't consent. I think you are discussing banning circumcision (?) which also removes some control of a parent. Of course. The idea that a parent should be able to make this choice is incredibly backward. The choice should be up to the patient, who cannot consent as an infant. Although I agree that Democrats are way ahead on this and voting for Republicans is idiotic.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:49 PM
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That's not how it works. Getting rid of circumcision and child support will only become politically feasible once progressives politically annihilate the religious right. We need to get to a place where politicians can publicly talk about how Christianity and traditional values are toxic without backlash. Abortion rights are a low hanging fruit. It's an obvious example of bodily autonomy, with a dramatic economic and social impact, that is opposed almost exclusively by the religious and can only…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:41 PM
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There is no simple answer. I agree with the article that one of the main issues are teachers expecting girls to perform better. I propose that there be enough mixed schools and segregated so that parents can make a choice. I strongly oppose giving parents this type of power under any circumstance. What school a person goes to should not be determined by what their parents happen to believe.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:10 PM
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Not the same. Foreskin restoration, surgical or not, doesn't restore the nerve endings lost by circumcision. The new foreskin won't be as sensitive as the original
/r/MensRights05/07/22 01:55 PM
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It won't double the number of single mothers. It will double the number of abortions, since women are more likely to abort if they can't afford a child That's a good thing
/r/MensRights15/06/22 02:30 PM
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Don't assume that extreme = bad. Sometimes things are just fucked up, sometimes extremism/revolution is the best solution and the biggest obstacle is complacent moderates
/r/MensRights25/05/22 06:07 PM
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This post doesn't have anything to do with prostate cancer screening, it's about getting people irrationally angry about progressive healthcare reform For example the title implies that "Obamacare" D-graded prostate screening. That's not true. Grading is performed by the USPSTF, an independent panel of experts established in 1986. It's also only grade D for men over 70. Obamacare requires that insurers cover recommended healthcare procedures that are supported by clinical evidence. That's a fant…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 06:40 PM
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I'm pro-choice. I believe that consent to sex is not consent to parenthood and I think a woman should be able to get an abortion if she wants to for any reason. I also think that women should be allowed to choose birth even if the man wants an abortion; but in this case because it's 100% her choice it's 100% her responsibility so the man should be treated legally the same as an anonymous sperm donor (i.e. no child support). There are also lots of pro-life people here, I don't like hanging out wi…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:57 PM
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Heartbeat laws effectively ban abortion though. They will have a 6 week limit, but most women don't know they are pregnant until two weeks, then they need to schedule a mandatory ultrasound and a followup and there's a 2 week waiting period between each, making it extremely difficult if not impossible to actually schedule the procedure before the cutoff. If the mother wants the abortion, and the father wants the child, well the mother can just walk away after the child is born just like men do I…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:20 PM
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Abstaining from sex is bullshit, there is 0 reason anyone should have to do that when birth control and abortion are a thing. I want to live in a world where everyone is free to have as much sex as they want, with whoever they want, without having to worry about any consequences. Wouldn't that be great? For hundreds of thousands of years this was the consequence for partaking in sex I'm glad to live in 2022 when that's no longer a problem. Abortion is a miracle of modern medicine
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:07 PM
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There's no reason to celebrate, and you are right, we have not gained anything. I am very upset about the loss of abortion rights, it is a terrible day for America and for humanity. We are just very bitter. Many of us hoped that abortion rights for women would lead to similar rights for men. It's upsetting when people who support abortion rights don't care at all about men who are forced to support children they don't want.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:04 PM
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Of course, abortion is a fundamental human right. Consent to sex is not consent to parenthood. The only problem, the thing we are upset about is that men are not given a similar option. Men should be allowed to surrender their parental rights and responsibilities if they don't want the child. The woman still has the right to give birth if she wants, but that's her problem.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:51 PM
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I don't agree, dating apps work and they are fine Contrary to popular belief, your looks don't matter on dating apps. Your photos do, and so does your profile. It might take many attempts and a considerable investment of time to get good photos, because photography is an art form and it isn't easy or simple. When I was dating I spent every Saturday taking photos, it took a couple of months before I had profile pictures I was proud of but it paid off.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:24 AM
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Nipples are erogenous zones for men as well. They are a little less sensitive than women's, but not dramatically so. Both sexes are capable of orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 05:01 PM
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It is best to separate "social life" from "dating." If you want a social life, go join a club. If you want a date, go on dating apps. Don't join a club because you are hoping to find a girl there. You might meet a girl at a social gathering, just don't count on it. There is no "how to talk to girls." There is only experience, which you get by spending your time. The more you talk to girls, the better you get at it. And if you want to talk to a girl, the fastest way is to just find one on dating …
/r/seduction11/09/20 02:25 AM
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They aren't, we don't even know what neurotransmitters are responsible for depression. Once it was thought to be simply low serotonin but that has been disproven. The idea is that because antidepressants affect brain chemistry and treat depression, therefore depression is caused by a chemical imbalance. The problem is that we know antidepressants work, but we don't know how they work. But the psychiatrist still has to explain why they are prescribing it, so they say that it corrects a chemical i…
/r/seduction30/04/20 09:18 PM
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then they got bored when I became more emotionally available and transparent That's how it's supposed to work. That means you're doing something right. After every self-disclosure, a relationship either deepens, or it ends. Both outcomes are good. The vast majority (90%+) of relationships will end before becoming truly intimate. That's a good thing, because most people are not going to be compatible with you and this is a natural way of filtering them out. Ideally this should happen in the first…
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:40 PM
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You're right, it's better to be in a great relationship than to be single. The quality of a person's relationships is one of most important things in determining their happiness, and having a quality partner definitely makes life better. But imagine that relationship was ALL you had. No job, no friends, no meaningful hobbies, no capability to date and hook up with other people. You were completely dependent on your girlfriend for all happiness in life, and now everything is gone and you have not…
/r/seduction22/03/20 12:22 AM
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But the same is true of men, right? I mean, in addition to all of the women men implicitly reject by not approaching, haven't you ever approached a woman and then later decided she's not a good match for you?
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:45 AM
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And men don't? I don't know about you, but when I'm on a date, my goal is to find out whether or not I like the person I'm with. I've changed my mind about a woman many times. Once, I was at my apartment making out with an attractive girl, but before we went further I decided to stop and end it because I just didn't like the vibe I was feeling in that moment. Women are the same. I'll grant that on average, women are probably more picky than men after they have been approached. But since its usua…
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:40 AM
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Match, PoF and eHarmony have much older userbases than Tinder, Bumble and CmB. That's why these differences exist. The older you go, the more single women outnumber single men.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:09 AM
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The reason Match skews towards women is because the average age is 45 (they advertise on Fox News). Tinder average age is 26 and men outnumber women at that age
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:03 AM
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But does the technique even matter? I mean, one time I was out with a friend, and a girl nearby seemed interested in me. But I wasn't interested in her, because I was out with a friend and not in the mood. There's nothing she could have done to change that. Sometimes, homeless people ask me for money. I used to always give a dollar unless I was in a rush, now I never do. But their soliciting technique has never had any effect on my decision. I'm sure beggars have their own tricks and techniques,…
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:45 AM
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Actually talking to women? What a radical idea. I like it
/r/seduction13/01/20 10:29 PM
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I don't think relationships start with sex. Relationships generally start with an introduction, then to conversation, then to collaboration, and eventually may incorporate sex.
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:47 PM
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Eharmony and match ask a bunch of questions so as to attempt to match you with people of similar interests. That shouldn't be done online. That's what the first date is for. If you see someone attractive, you can ask them out for coffee and then ask all the eHarmony questions to see if you are compatible or not.
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:45 PM
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I think there's more to it than that though. Let's say you're one of those guys who watches YouTube all day and never socializes. No job, no style, haven't showered in days, room is a mess, small town etc. Can you still approach women? Of course! All you gotta do is take a shower, find some decent clothes to wear, clean your parent's basement for the off chance you end up bringing someone home, scout out the town until you find somewhere people socialize, and overcome the social anxiety that has…
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:31 PM
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I'm not sure I fully agree with this perspective. There's a very important question every self-respecting person needs to answer when they are dating someone. Why is the other person interested in you? Is it: (A) They are looking for validation or a boost to their self esteem or social status, and they are hoping to get this by having sex with an attractive person OR (B) They are emotionally prepared to share their life with another person, and you seem like a good potential partner Usually it i…
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:35 PM
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This may seem like success is out of reach for most guys on Tinder, but that is really not the case. The reality is, if you get a stylish haircut, well-fitting clothes, take half-decent photos and are capable of holding a conversation and actually asking women out, you are in the top 20%. The vast majority of men have GARBAGE profiles that make them look terrible, and then when they match they just say "hey" or quickly go sexually explicit, or draw conversations out for days without trying to se…
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:53 PM
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Not a good way of thinking about it IMO If you're looking for long-term compatibility, like many women are, it makes sense to gauge the other person's personality, beliefs and attitudes. Being rejected is not a bad thing, it means you two are not compatible and she is doing you a favor by ending it now instead of later. For example, I filter for political views that are like mine. Conservatives tend to have a high level of empathy for their family and close friends but little for outsiders, whil…
/r/seduction04/11/19 06:16 PM
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Bullshit Men who try to have sex for the purpose of boosting their self-esteem or social status have a very hard time doing so. But the same is true for women, because they only get a social status boost if they fuck a celebrity or something. If you take a man and a woman, who do not know or like each other, sex between them is probably going to suck. But the man might still want to do it because he will feel like a player and can brag about it to his friends, while the woman obviously would not…
/r/seduction31/10/19 04:29 PM
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I understand where you're coming from (I've also read Models), but not sure I agree regarding the "approval-seeking" mentality. On one hand, it can be feel cringy and creepy when someone is obviously insecure and cares way too much about what you think of them, especially if they are trying to pretend otherwise. But it's natural to be a bit nervous when approaching someone, and it's natural to hope that the cute girl you are talking to will like you. "Don't hate me" puts that out on the table in…
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:21 AM
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Depends on the friendship. Men often have shitty friendships with no emotional intimacy because of the way they are socialized, but it isn't always that way.
/r/seduction26/10/19 09:10 PM
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Generally no, boost is OK though The gold matches are people from lower tiers. Tinder sorts people by elo, and sometimes you get shown people with higher elo, but they don't see you unless they buy gold. Boost is OK, it will get you more matches, but not as good as it seems as it partially gets you more matches by relaxing the elo and location requirements.
/r/seduction10/10/19 01:06 AM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/sHt5q
/r/seduction29/09/19 06:37 PM
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The main reason is that because of masculine social norms emphasizing competition and suppression of vulnerability, men do not tend to experience the same level of emotional intimacy in their friendships as women do, so they are dependent on women, especially their SO. For many men, their girlfriend is the only person they confide in and can be vulnerable with so having one is crucial for their happiness. A second reason is that men have much more to gain from casual sex. First of all, men often…
/r/seduction29/09/19 03:41 AM
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Start by telling us what you are afraid of. In your mind, what are the consequences of saying no?
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:15 PM
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I used to make political jokes that’d piss some others off or talk about some hobby (anime, gaming, etc) which’d turn off a girl. Keep doing that. Since you are clearly into politics, anime and gaming (if that's what you tend to want to talk about) you will do best with women who are also into that type of thing. I talk a lot about politics which scares a lot of people off, but also means when I run into someone like me it is pretty easy to connect. If that limits you too much, get more hobbies …
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:51 AM
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Porn is not the problem. I promise. It is impossible to get an erection if your adrenaline level is too high. Adrenaline constricts blood vessels which reduces the flow of blood to your penis. Nervousness and performance anxiety lead to increased levels of adrenaline, which makes it impossible to get an erection. That's the problem here. You are insecure and worried that you will be judged for your sexual performance, you are worrying that your dick won't get hard and that she will judge you for…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:16 AM
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That's cool I like watching anime and playing the saxophone
/r/seduction17/08/19 03:49 AM
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Because women tend to think about the big picture more A sheltered white person might be physically attracted to a black person but not willing to tolerate black culture/a black extended family or judgment from their conservative family. A woman is more likely to think ahead about these things than an equally racist man
/r/seduction17/08/19 02:38 AM
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Oh fuck you're fucked
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:18 PM
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The thing about Tinder is that everybody uses it. But only a fraction are actually open to meeting up. So most likely it's not you. I've been in the rejecting position before- when I used Tinder, I ghosted all sorts of beautiful women simply because I was not actually serious about dating. Try Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, OKCupid. Apps that people go to once they get sick of Tinder Says I have over 30 girls that swiped right, yet I never, ever match with any They are girls from other (lower) leag…
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:04 PM
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Ya say "Yo fuck your date place I'm the man and I've decided we are going to Taco Bell instead." Then start driving and pretend you know how to get to Taco Bell For reals tho it don't matter. I think it's a good idea to hit 2+ places during a date, or go for a walk after eating or w/e. So you can decide on that if you want
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:44 PM
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It depends on what you want. According to social penetration theory, intimacy develops through self-disclosure. That includes disclosing your feelings and insecurities. Self-disclosure should be balanced: you should both be disclosing at about the same rate. Although of course, this is /r/seduction, so I think it should be mentioned that self disclosure and intimacy are not requirements if you just want to have sex with someone. In fact, it makes it even more difficult, and increases the chance …
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:42 PM
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However if you don't develop yourself you will not get the women you want, you will get the women that like you and if you are lucky she will be attractive. I like this point- I would say that you get women who are like you. If you want a woman with an advanced career, it really helps if you yourself have an advanced career. Makes it easier to relate to them. If you want a woman who is physically fit and healthy, it really helps if you yourself are physically fit and healthy. That way, you can d…
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:20 AM
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My advice is to trim 2cm off your dick and add that to your height to make it a nice, clean 2m
/r/seduction24/07/19 04:31 PM
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Can't take a girl to your apartment if you don't have an apartment Can't drive a girl somewhere if you don't have a car Can't take a girl to dinner if you're broke Can't make time for women if you're working 2 jobs to survive
/r/seduction24/07/19 04:28 PM
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Regardless of what feminists think, I think there is something deeply wrong with the way that men are traditionally socialized to relate. This isn't about the plight of women, this is a men's issue that hurts primarily men. What I know is that with most of my male friends, I can't be vulnerable at all or share my feelings. Men pounce on the opportunity and go into "expert mode" where they use your weakness to prove their superior strength (I do this too unfortunately), whereas women are more lik…
/r/seduction24/07/19 02:53 AM
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It's not just that men don't cooperate, they compete. Lots of men chase women not because they actually have an interest in a woman, but because they have something to prove to themselves or to other men. Interacting with someone you like and becoming intimate with them is not rocket science. Neither is meeting new people. Things get complicated when guys want to become The Player and see sex as some sort of social status trophy instead of an intimate activity shared with another human. Then the…
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:47 PM
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Can you not in your daily life see people having social interactions that aren't for the purpose of sex? If this was true they wouldn't be socially awkward Many here see /r/seduction as "how to approach a woman" without considering why or what they would do after that
/r/seduction03/06/19 11:31 PM
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I think the process for most guys goes like this: I want a girlfriend To get a girlfriend, the logical first step is to find a girl and talk to her Google "how to talk to a girl you want to have sex with," "where do girls hang out," "which words are the best to say when talking to a girl" End up on /r/seduction with no idea how you got here
/r/seduction03/06/19 11:27 PM
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Nothing's wrong with you bro, I thought that way once too. The vagina might seem weird with all the discolored skin and fluids and stuff, but it's really no more disgusting than the mouth, you will get used to it.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:17 AM
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Have an average guy hop on and put up some pictures. Watch what happens. It’s obvious Well ya, obviously. How much time and money does the average guy spend on pictures? If you're saying pickup with a hardcore strategy is better, you gotta compare that to people with Hollywood level photography and internet branding strategies.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:43 PM
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Getting a job takes 2/10 effort Getting laid on Tinder takes 4/10 effort Getting laid through going outside and approaching takes 8/10 effort
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:37 PM
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above average looking people Virtually anyone can look like a model with a good enough photographer. You don't need to be above average.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:34 PM
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Either make a ton a of money or become the top in a field. No, what you need for Tinder is a professional photographer to take good pictures for you. Nobody cares about your job, most women have careers now anyway
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:30 PM
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If you really just want to stick your dick into a woman without dating/relationships just go to a prostitute. It's by far the easiest way, then once you realize that sex without emotional connection wouldn't be worth time even if it was free, you can approach this again more intelligently. Dating/relationships require enormous amounts of time and effort. You're right, getting ripped would be much easier.
/r/seduction02/02/19 01:58 AM
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I disagree with the interpretation; women's standards are not rising. You don't need to be better than other guys, you just need to be open to a relationship, practice basic hygiene and ask her out. The thing about Tinder is that most people there are not serious. A girl might get 100 matches, but then only 30 of those message her, and out of those just 5 can hold a conversation, and just two of those end up asking her out, then one flakes and the girl flakes on the other guy because she's not s…
/r/seduction31/01/19 02:04 AM
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"Eyyy bb u wan sum fuk?" For reals though, this isn't really something you can communicate over text message. If you want to see her again, arrange to meet up and try to quickly move it over to your place and escalate to sex. Either you guys figure something out you are both cool with, or not. Most girls are not going to agree to sex beforehand with someone they just met. Until she's in your bedroom and has decided to go with it, she needs the option of being able to de-escalate if she feels unc…
/r/seduction13/01/19 03:21 AM
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No Finding a relationship is hard. Even for attractive young girls. A girl might get 100 matches on Tinder. But most of those guys, if she messages them back, won't reply. Most who do can't hold a conversation. Most will never ask her out on a date. Most who do won't have anything in common with the girl, or will have very poor relationship skills, and will never make it to sex, let alone a longer-term relationship. What's the chance that she will find a guy who's reasonably attractive, can hold…
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:06 AM
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No, nobody cares that you have a pet rat. Rats are cute, furry animals anyway. Now, if you bring a girl back to your place and you're all worried about what she's going to think when she finds out you have a pet rat, and then you start making all sorts of excuses and hahaha I know this is a little weird but like I have this pet rat, you don't need to worry about it though the cage is really strong so he won't get out, it actually wasn't even my idea to get a rat it's just that like I wanted a li…
/r/seduction12/01/19 03:40 AM
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I disagree, most people who don't get laid simply don't come into contact with the opposite sex very often. It wasn't until I was 24 that I talked to a girl my age for the first time in my life (in a social context). Lost my v-card to the same girl. There just weren't any girls in my social circles growing up.
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:10 PM
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If I went to a place with dozens of girls who want to fuck me but I’m not interested in, it wouldn’t be a good time, or even validating. That's a good point. I suppose you could compare it to Tinder. Some people who are on Tinder are not actually open to meeting someone in person, they are just there for the validation. Maybe they think they are, but in reality there is nothing you could possibly say to make them meet up. Some have SOs and are not willing to cheat. Some are just doing it because…
/r/seduction10/12/18 06:39 PM
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if I'm a woman and I'm dancing provocatively with the guy in front doesn't that mean I want sex? No For the most part women are not thinking about sex at the club. At most, she may be acting 'provocatively' for attention and validation, but more likely she's just having fun and doesn't see her behavior the way you do. Furthermore, most women at the club simply cannot be pulled because they are not currently open to hooking up with a stranger. Try to figure out if she is unreceptive sooner than l…
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:00 AM
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Yes for tinder? I mean, if tinder's not your thing, don't do it. But if you're going to make tinder part of your life, you should take it seriously like it's your job. Do whatever it takes to get the best damn photos that anyone has ever seen, and go fuck some chicks.
/r/seduction05/12/18 03:27 PM
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You know how sometimes a guy brings a girl back to his place, and the girl doesn't want to have sex? Well, sometimes it's the guy who doesn't feel like having sex. That's completely normal and there's nothing wrong with you. Forget about sex. Just focus on dating and having fun with girls. Do kino escalation because touching people is fun. When you're in bed with her, and you don't want to have sex- well, you don't have to. If you can manage to enjoy your time with her, great. Eventually you may…
/r/seduction11/11/18 12:15 PM
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You forgot the "Hey, uh... excuse me, I know this is kind of random, but..." or "I don't normally do this but..." Basically if you are going to be direct, you need to communicate that you are aware that what you are doing is uncommon and outside of social norms. And that you are a sane, sensitive person who isn't going to blow up if you don't get your way. Otherwise, this type of approach is scary- the vast majority of men would never just randomly approach a woman, sober, and ask to meet her "b…
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:37 AM
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I’d feel better about myself if I was talking to women when I’m in better shape If you're overweight, then maybe, otherwise, no. My golden rule in life is: "Live for today." You can't work out today, then talk to women tomorrow: there is no tomorrow. Work out today, but not to the extent that you have no time to date or do anything else. Tomorrow, you will be in shape, but since you are not in the habit of meeting girls, you will not meet girls but instead find some other goal to work towards fi…
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:25 PM
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A better question to ask would be, "what disqualifies a girl from being attractive?" For example, someone who is overweight and out of shape is unattractive (even then, not to everyone). But otherwise, there's not really an 'ideal look' and if you take care of yourself, you will be basically as attractive as any other girl. Other common issues are: unavailability (I study all day and live with my parents so no time for you), neediness (I demand you take responsibility for my happiness) and disho…
/r/seduction05/06/18 06:22 PM
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You said to one guy that you would "just like to have a conversation with him." Honestly, I think lots of guys would be open to that, but consider that this is probably something that has never happened to him before. Guys don't get approached often, so it might be easier to say "no" than to come up with a good response. He might be afraid you are asking him to come up with a conversation topic. Lots of guys don't approach women simply because they are afraid of running out of things to say. Bet…
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:04 PM
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Maladaptive thought patterns are habits. You can change them, but there's no quick fix. You need to Identify and be mindful of your thoughts and behaviors. Be aware of what triggers them. Come up with alternative actions and thoughts to respond to these triggers. Practice implementing these alternatives, whenever you notice a trigger, as often as possible, over a long period of time.
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:14 PM
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> okay sure but what if because of nerves something really retarded or dorky comes out. Like ''hey well I like the wind I'm Alex" or some reatrded shit like that ? This is actually fine. It's less creepy to say something dorky than to come off like you've been practicing lines in the mirror all week just to talk to this girl.
/r/seduction15/04/18 04:43 PM
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For instance, on page 129 half way down she writes: "Let's be real, out of 10 men the typical single woman meets, 9 of them are into the following things...and other generic guy activities. Again, nothing wrong with this, but what's going to make you stick out?" Funny, I just read that page, but to me it seems pretty spot-on. 90% of men are just into work, sports, TV and video games. How boring. Not that the average woman is much better... but most guys would be much better off picking up some a…
/r/seduction03/03/18 11:18 PM
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Quality photos make average look good Find a dslr camera and someone who knows how to use it. Wear nice clothes and get a haircut. Use good lighting and a flattering angle that emphasizes the jawline. If one pic doesn't work, try a different approach. If you don't get results in online dating, you're probably a bad photographer.
/r/seduction04/02/18 05:40 AM
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The way I see it, the time to think about whether or not you want an LTR is after having sex with a girl. Before that, you shouldn't put any emotional investment into her, because she is not at all invested in you and is likely to flake for the slightest of reasons. You also might have to go through a bunch of girls before finding one worth sticking with. So that said, all game should be played for "just sex." Just be playful and direct, escalate until you get a yes or a no and move on from ther…
/r/seduction14/01/18 10:15 PM
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what if you can't be above your competition? Why are you in a competition? Insecurity doesn't come from having less, it comes from comparing yourself to others who have more.
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:35 PM
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Counterpoint: do you tell an intelligent person they are smart? Do you tell a charity worker they are a good person? Sure you do, everyone likes to hear that, even if they already know. You don't tell a rich person they are rich, because it points out the disparity between you and them and makes things awkward. And it might make them a bit guilty, too... like, you're so rich, you could pay all my bills with what you make in an hour. I get it though, you can't just give your money away like that.…
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:08 PM
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There was a time when we were little kids, she was the most important person to us. We would do so many things to get her affection, we would write her the best crappy poems we can on Mother's Day, and getting her approval would perhaps be the single one objective of everything we would do I think that this type of behavior often carries over into adulthood and causes problems. I imagine this is where approach anxiety/oneitis comes from. Approval-seeking behavior, fear of rejection, etc. is a go…
/r/seduction02/12/17 05:25 PM
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In the US, foreign language fluency is more impressive than owning a Lamborghini IMO, especially if it's not something you grew up with. It's something very few people do here.
/r/seduction24/11/17 07:25 PM
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If i even get in, it'll be years of debt and studying. I'm sitting in this library right now and everyone around me is grinding it out cause they know they'll get to have fun later. I'm sitting here a burnt out, nearly 22 year old virgin loser who hasn't even kissed a girl. I was in a similar situation to you. Except I'm 6'4", good looking and fit. I decided to forego med school to get a career in IT, which is much easier but lower paying. I thought that with all the extra free time I have, I ca…
/r/seduction15/11/17 02:10 AM
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"Nice guy" game goes like this Say whatever you think she wants to hear Shower her with attention and expensive gifts Guilt trip her into sex in exchange for what you've given her It's not a very good approach, and you're not likely to be all that satisfied when it works. That said, compliments, small talk and dating do have a place. But you can do that kind of stuff for your own satisfaction, rather than as a means to an end.
/r/seduction14/11/17 05:21 AM
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how do you just randomly laugh in public at nothing without looking retarded? You just laugh. Nobody cares. You can just laugh because you're feeling good and it's a beautiful day. I can laugh if something's funny. So, how do you do this without "looking retarded?" Other people have no idea if you found something funny or not, they just see you laughing.
/r/seduction11/11/17 10:43 PM
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Just look at Viagra consumption in the US and Israel vs Europe. Circumcision leads to a ton of problems, it adds more friction and makes it less pleasurable for both parties. Erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness are far more common with circumcision.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 01:21 PM
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