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Fmofy?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:14 PM
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I'd like to believe that but ultimatums are weak in of themselves is the general consensus here, the top comment seems accurate on what I did wrong.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:42 PM
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You know your rp theory man, thanks for the great advice, any tip on how to play it from here? Wait and see Friday I'm going with.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:23 PM
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I think where I fucked up was I brought about the chance for her to defy me/shit-test me, instead I should have stfu and gave her cold shoulder. Let her contact me Fri to see if still on.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:08 PM
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Can you expand on this? Boundary to me is pulling away when she does something I don't like i. e. I don't say anything but if she doesn't text me she got home safe I don't reach out to her for awhile. I think I made an ultimatum because I verbalised this,with a threat of no date Friday.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 06:53 PM
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Duly noted, I'm a fuckin idiot. I'll learn from this hopefully. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:56 PM
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I said it's a condition with seeing me and left it in her court, she did text that night so she did comply eventually, don't think it matters though, shouldn't have to verbalise this shit to her or be overt as you said, I fucked up along the way obviously that she isn't doing it herself anyway. This shit ain't easy. Thanks for advice
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:54 PM
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Yeah I fucked up man thanks for the advice, you mean she doesn't think we're dating right?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:42 PM
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Yeah, I've got to shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:04 PM
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All valid points, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:01 PM
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I don't know man, isn't it low value to make demands, shouldn't have to make ultimatum? Also was her disagreeable a reaction to her feeling slutty regarding n count?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:58 PM
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Yeah it's annoying, I would have called her on it but didn't want to seem butthurt.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:54 AM
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How does this theory rest with the view of Extreme Ownership by someone like Jocko Willink? If you done wrong own it? Just don't apologise when you've nothing to apologise for I'm guessing.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 09:00 AM
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Yeah that was my gut feeling on this one, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:06 AM
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Fair enough man, thanks for the guidance.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:38 PM
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Ok, well I did ignore her, what's the benefit of blocking?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:24 PM
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Lesson learned, will escalate if she contacts again.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:12 PM
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Ha, I guess so, well I won't block anyone I've no problem with. Neither of us were interested in long distance so no drama in break up, but she's back in same city now. Just looking for alternatives to how I handled it, seems that I should have escalated.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:12 PM
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Sorry that was why we split but back living in same city again now.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:55 PM
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