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| 1 | Why do girls do this?Why you guys are worried about titles! Does it matter? You're enjoying her company and she is yours. Let it unfold the way it should. If she want a title, she will bring it up. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?yeah, you might be her back up plan. I wouldn't send her anything. Unless you hear from her about getting together, I wouldn't even bring it up. If she texts, I would keep it very brief - like two texts back and forth and say like, ' it was good to hear from you. I gotta run now but stay in touch," | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?Yeah, that's a no. I would just reply,"I hope you feel better." If she doesn't offer any counter date, then it's a No. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 12 | Learning to take rejection gracefully is absolutely crucialIt's like you're happy if she is in your life, and you're still happy if she is not. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How far in advanced to set date is too far?I have set dates like a week or so in advanced. If the girls are interested, they would check with me a day or on the same day to confirm, otherwise I just go there and enjoy things myself. That's why I pick the place and time that I like. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl I asked out said yes. I texted her details and she responded over 2 days later, but I made new plans. advice?Yeah, I can see that ! | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl I asked out said yes. I texted her details and she responded over 2 days later, but I made new plans. advice?I would send her something along the line, " Hey ABC, It's great to hear from you. While you're figuring your schedule to go out with me, my friends asked to join him for __________, and we already made plans. However I would love to see you some other time, so when are you free next week to do this?" If you don't want to sound too desperate or don't want to put much effort, replace the last line, " however we can do this some other time, when you're free." I don't like to play text wait games… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Do men find it unappealing when a woman is more upfront (ie less of a chase)?As I get older, it’s becoming more and more straightforward. No waiting games, playing hard to get games and other things. If someone is trying to play those games, I immediately shut them down. They realize it and become straightforward with me. I have had women approach me and ask me out on coffee/ dinner. You don’t have to be straightforward like “ I like you. I want to date you. “, but you can strike up a conversation and ask for a coffee/lunch/ drinks. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | I have been on 100+ dates with success rate of 5, how do I improve?Tell them you're planning to do some activity at home e.g cook/watch a movie/play a board game. They're welcome to join you, otherwise tell them you had a great time. Take it or leave it attitude, | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:57 PM |
| 22 | Frustrated about girls that are interested but won’t bring you home?This is a harsh reality. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 11:36 AM |
| 9 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedIf she is attracted enough to you, these rules ( or should I say - any rules ) doesn’t apply ! 😛😂 | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Wtf do I say when a girl is literally staring at me?It totally depends upon the culture of city you live in. If you live in a relaxed atmosphere town, then it's okay. If you do it in a bigger larger city, then it's not okay. It also depends on how you do it. If you do it in a creepy way, then it's not advisable. If you can be playful about it, then yeah go for it. It totally depends on how you carry yourself. If you carry yourself gracefully and playfully, then you can tell the meanest/ridiculous shit possible, then get away with it. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: I'm going out with a girl in Saturday but her birthday is tomorrowNice. Way too go. I am currently dating someone. She had her birthday in between our first date and second date. I got her a Birthday Card from Dollartree. Costed me less than a buck. She still remembers it, how great gesture was it. That it was perfect. I put that card on the passenger seat, didn’t mention anything about it. When I opened the door for her, she saw that and opened it. It was perfect. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to shit where you eat.This is on point. To add on to this, ‘ one need to feel comfortable with your skin. Your actions, words and feeling should reflect each other and must be TRUE to each other. ‘ there is nothing wrong in feeling attracted to someone, approaching them, getting their number or getting rejected. That’s the way life is, you accept it and move on. New day, new beginning. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 12 | How to shit where you eat.If you make it weird, it will be weird. If you see them again, just genuinely ask them “ how are you doing ? “ and with a short conversation - tell her that “ it was good to see you and bye “ . That’s it. Don’t think that you got rejected by them and stuff like that. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Good morning & night texts? Or nah?Naah. I would prefer not to send good morning/ night texts. It kind of means you’re desperate, wants complete affirmation especially in early stages of relationship. I’m early stages, set a date once a week and keep it like that. If she contacts you in between, set up a date and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 10:08 PM |
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