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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Great first dates…not leading to seconds	Fundamentals	wgh857	/r/seduction	15/01/25 03:34 PM

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1	Great first dates…not leading to seconds Because I have read/heard that providing yourself so “available” that early isn’t good for attraction. I absolutely go with the flow though if the vibe feels right.	/r/seduction	16/01/25 08:40 PM
1	Great first dates…not leading to seconds Appreciate your input. Sounds very similar indeed. In my example she also said at the end of the first meet/date “I’d like to see you again”. And now ghosted two days later. Like you mentioned about yourself I have a lot of experience doing this (by this age), and I’ve honestly had a lot of success too, but lately something seems “off “with almost everyone I meet. I know I look good for my age, am in shape…I can talk to anyone too…it’s not a confidence issue, it’s not an awkwardness issue. One w…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 02:40 PM
3	Great first dates…not leading to seconds Good questions. As I mentioned I am meeting these women via OLD. Because of this I prefer to keep the initial meet potentially brief in the event I (or she) isn’t feeling it or isn’t looking like their pics. So these “dates” (some wouldn’t consider an initial meet from an OLD source to be an actual date) are either for a drink at a coffee shop or a bar. In either situation I intentionally select seating that is next to each other (like at the bar) so there is no physical object between us making…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 10:17 PM
2	Great first dates…not leading to seconds Thanks for the reply. The gym is not the issue… I’m there three days a week, and as you said I’m apparently attractive enough to be getting matches and dates, something many others seem to struggle with based on other posts I see. Never had a sex close on date/meet number one, and I’m honestly not pushing for that. Interestingly I’ve noticed no difference in my outcome even with kiss close, which happens, I’d say 1/3 of the time. I recall two separate occasions where there was enthusiastic makin…	/r/seduction	15/01/25 04:32 PM

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