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7

Now I can see why you have issues dating...the "woah is me" thing just isn't attractive, and Women can sense all that just by interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:49 PM
0

This is some degenerate type thinking here...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:34 PM
1

But they also aren't going to put women on a pedestal, either. Do you know how many guys call their women "Queens"? Why do that crap...unless you're the King??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:24 PM
2

Your definition of a bad boy, and mine are definitely different. A "bad boy" doesn't necessarily have to have legal issues...or be a drug dealer. They may just not conform to the "Laws of Society".... Just someone who doesn't bend over, and allows others to walk over him. He's assertive...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:42 PM
2

Okay so what is considered the "bad boy lifestyle"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:01 PM
-1

What is this fascination with "bad boys"? So...some guys just KNOW how to attract multiple women...maybe others should learn how too, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:52 PM
0

Really shouldn't matter. I dont ask a woman how many they've been with....and don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:00 PM
5

I think this is somewhat true, but guys still have to be able to talk, be humorous, lead the date....get the first kiss in, and escalate from there. Generally speaking, most women won't be doing that, so it's up to the guy. A lot of the men out there just get too nervous around women to be doing this. That's probably where the misconception comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:01 PM
9

Bc you allow it to happen.
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:48 PM
1

If you couldn't find the right time to initiate, then that's okay. The time you should have is when she was leaving, and just say "Hold on...ill walk you out..." Depending on how you thought the vibe was going, that's a good time to initiate the kiss....when she was leaving. And, then just leave it at that, and say "See you next time..." with a little bit of a smirk/smile.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:50 PM
0

You're on a cocaine reddit...🤣
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:06 AM
-10

I dont want to see a "try hard" to maybe get matches, or a date...seems too desperate. I could post photos I have online from my selfies, and get more matches than some who hire professional photographer.
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:20 AM
1

I would just say that I go on dates when I find someone who interests me...
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:08 AM
1

No I dont wear a suit...doesnt fit my personality. I dont feel relaxed.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:58 AM
-21

Selfies work just fine for me...lol. Dont get all this professional photography and shit just to find someone....but oh well, you guys do you...lol
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:50 AM
2

There's women out there. You're probably not able to be REALLY selective, but some women out there just really doesn't matter to them. Learn how to talk to them, learn how to make women laugh, and smile, and you're ahead of a lot of guys. A ton of guys out there don't even know how to look a woman in the eyes, and talk with them. Just act like they are another person (to which they are), and, the most important thing, don't idolize, or put them on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:45 PM
0

Uhhh just say "yeah, sounds great..."
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:11 PM
2

So, if a guy gets 4 numbers, then he should be able to pull one of them that night. Leaving with a number really isn't anything to be excited about...will rarely work out. The guy needs to be able to pull better than that...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:12 PM
2

That's awesome, and I'm sure almost everyone enjoys sex.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:46 PM
6

Yeah...think id stop.
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:07 AM
-1

Not even sure what you're asking here. Why would you even feel the need to explain yourself. Why even continue seeing her if you're not all that interested in her?
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:43 PM
1

I think you should go for it, and shave it off. I'm 50, and don't have any problems with women.
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:43 PM
–

Attraction isn't a choice, and everyone will go after whoever they think is attractive. You don't have to have model-type looks to be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:00 PM
1

I'm a guy, and NO I absolutely wouldn't change. Just love women too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:52 PM
13

I think youre reading too much into it, and not grasping what he's actually trying to say.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:24 PM
1

Difficult to say. How many matches are you getting, what's in your bio compared to how you're coming across to them. The things about you in your "bio", may not necessarily correspond to the messages you're sending out. You're just going to have to go more in detail about "how these women lose interest in you.." One rule....if youre "high up" on their attractiveness towards you....youd have to screw up ROYALLY for them to lose attraction so quickly. Maybe (according to them), you're more of a "e…
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:30 AM
1

No...you dont need a professional photographer. Most of those online just comes across as "attention seeking".
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:26 PM
1

Polarizing? Guess that's a decent word for it, but also "what about it with this guy..."? I've gone online, and have said "deal breaker is bat-shit crazy". I get ton of replies on that. Then, after several months...ill get back online, and have in my profile "I'll have you in bed within the first or 2nd date..." That one I got like 30 matches within 10 hrs....lol. In the past....ive asked "what's the craziest thing you've ever done....let's compare" Then...I get all these crazy stories...and som…
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:00 AM
1

For what???
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:51 AM
1

Don't go to a restaurant looking to find someone. Just be with friends, and have fun. Of course it's okay to look, and chat with her.... No...I dont feel super awkward, bc im not there to meet anyone, or look at them. Most of the time, just treat them as a normal server, be kind, and tip well. Otherwise I'd just go for some cheap beer at a strip club.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:00 AM
1

So...how long have you chatted with this person? I've never, ever said first round is on me.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:53 AM
4

You need to get a room nearby, or something. I mean, it's not like you'd meet someone, and then drive an hour to get back to your place. That's just really the only logical option.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:10 AM
1

Why do you think a course will help you?
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:45 PM
1

Church girls are fun. Usually just walk right up to them, and ask about the service. They will usually be fun, and chatty....great experience.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:00 PM
1

Sure....
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:36 AM
0

I dont label myself as anything....im definitely not the "niceguy"...or as some would call them incels.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:21 AM
2

???
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:06 AM
0

Not sure what you're calling a "bad boy" lol. But, it's more a mindset for some guys that they just don't fall all over for women. They are generally bold enough to tell the women what they want, and don't want. They aren't going to be your "nice guys" who will bring the women flowers on a freaking first date. Women don't define some guys, and they don't need a woman to feel validated.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:54 AM
1

Its because you said "going lots". Slow down to maybe once/month, that way it'll be more exciting for you, and find other things to do (by yourself) instead of going to the bar....go hiking, or whatever else it is you might like to do. Spend more time outdoors, at night....go for walks, and spend time at nature reserves...SOMETHING.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:27 PM
3

This is mainly going to work earlier on in the dating phase, but the longer it goes on, is when the guy should be more committed to the relationship, and the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:14 PM
1

If youre a woman...and if I find someone attractive....then why not?
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:37 AM
4

😉 LoL...just playing girl
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:08 AM
1

Me, and you online with the same women....you wouldn't stand a chance my man...🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:37 AM
1

So...youre a virgin. It's okay to admit it😊
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:31 AM
1

Cool...
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:29 AM
0

Me and you at a party? I'd take you're girl your crushing on...and I'd have her in a bed...while you're crying tears🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:22 AM
1

Either lie....or man up.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:17 AM
0

Simple question, and comment...🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:16 AM
1

You're a virgin...aren't you?🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:14 AM
0

How old are you? Have you even gotten laid yet man?🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:13 AM
2

So...then why are you asking this question, and how you can't pull any "WOMEN"...or LADIES? You treat them the Ladies that way....youre just disrespectful as Hell... Grow up young dude
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:11 AM
1

I'd say you're a punk. I, and, any other guy worth his salt...treat "women as women".
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:07 AM
5

Hmm...not at all. So, someone being bold, and confident...doesnt mean "I'm full of myself..."🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:23 AM
2

But...honestly, I'm quite a bit more bold than others. My current GF, I picked up as a cashier 8 months ago at CVS. I liked her tattoos, and as she was cashing me out...I asked for her phone number so we could go...shoot pool, and have some drinks.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:38 AM
21

Damn...2.5 kids? Where's the other half kid at?🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:24 AM
0

If I was your boss at work, and you told me about this....then I'd let the guy know about your crush...and see if he reciprocated.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:21 AM
10

Hmmm...idk, but maybe stop acting like they are "bitches"???
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:14 AM
10

Stop projecting expectations. I have a feeling you're going to be thinking about her if you go, or even if you stay at home.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:03 PM
5

10 times in a row? Haha wow. You're obviously not able to make them feel excited, or comfortable. Are you asking them out too soon, instead of building rapport with them first?
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:02 PM
1

I graduated college in 1995...cell phones were not as prevalent back then. In fact....Nobody at that age, had a cell phone.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:05 AM
0

None of that crap. I would go out with my friends, and find a nice looking girl....ask her to dance, and we would just be cool. This was before cell phones...
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:50 AM
1

LoL already disagreeing before a first date....either don't go on the date, or just tell her straight up that you don't do lunch/dinners on a first date. Not sure why, unless you don't want to feel the need to pay for it.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:14 AM
1

Yes you should see where those apps take you...especially since you don't have much of a social life during summer.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:05 AM
3

Stop asking her out, and from here on out, let her start initiating texts. If she does, then stop asking her out. She only wants to be maybe friends with you.
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:53 PM
-1

You sound desperate...
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:58 PM
17

I dont really care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:28 AM
1

And...im not wrong. Believe me on this.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:57 AM
1

The OP did "scour" her IG...they had "good conversations"...and she gave it to him
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:53 AM
2

Then she didn't enjoy your company as much as you think she did.
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:06 PM
1

"Was cool getting to know you, and I want to take you out next friday night..."
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:54 PM
1

Sounds like you're a dead fish in the flirting, and conversation department. If a girl walked up to me, and let's say she had cool, loopy, earring....id gently touch the earrings, and just say "wow those earrings are great...and look wonderful on you..." Gotta give the girls fun, flirty compliments.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:09 PM
0

You didn't sense any signals because there probably weren't any she gave off to insinuate she was really into you. Depends on where you were at, regarding just "putting your arm around her".
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:01 PM
2

Texting someone every day is not being "overly available"....a simple message during a break, or lunch break...is not overly available. You're just "acting" like you're being busy, so someone doesn't perceive you as being overly available. Let me say this again....NOBODY is that busy, CONSTANTLY throughout the day, to not send a simple message. Once again...you are regurgitating info you've read somewhere, and trying to apply it to yourself...when situations are not all the same....some situatio…
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:54 PM
4

Haha you've asked this same question to every comment.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:45 PM
3

I never ask anyone why they became disinterested. Everyone has a few minutes in their day to send out a message "Hey how's your day going..."? Then, maybe ask a question unrelated...that way during your date, that can lead to follow up questions. Don't have to text long...just say "Hey gotta run for right now....I'll holler at ya later..."
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:49 PM
17

Damn asking why she got disinterested sounds desperate. Then telling her "I'm a busy individual..." just reeks of saying what you've heard regurgitated from others...thinking women want that. They DO want a guy who isn't up their ass all the time, but they also don't want someone so busy that they can't send a simple message throughout the day. And, sounds like she "nexted" you...and not the other way around.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:40 PM
2

You're going to have 1001 different answers to this question.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:02 PM
1

Nothing went wrong, really...just wasn't in the air tonight. I mean, doesn't really seem like you tried all that much, and you should practice up on being more flirty, or witty when it comes to conversations.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:27 AM
4

Nah I like to keep her around for the most part. LoL...and ive been dumped, too. I dont take any of it too seriously...just cool to chill out with a fun lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:47 AM
7

Yeah...Im 50, and divorced...so, I don't date "seriously". I do like to meet women online, but I just don't stay on for longer than a week...or maybe even 5 days. I'll get about 15-20 matches, and that's usually enough for me to be able to pick a couple I want to chat with, and go out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:41 AM
6

I dont really care....its not a "conquest" for me. I'm sure younger guys would feel differently, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:27 AM
3

So...yeah. Instead of being yourself....go copy everything you see from some other guys. BTW...I smoke, and I dont hurt for women... HOWEVER....I am my own person.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:28 AM
2

Yeah man, think you should start backing away from her. Sounds like she's out there having fun with other guys, and you aren't one of them. You do the "sweet" things with her, while the other guys are just getting her panties to drop, and getting her in bed.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:08 PM
2

You were giving off creepy vibes, it seems, to almost everyone there.
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:55 PM
1

How does a book help you overthinking things? Just get some advice from google....lots of free resources out there....use it.
/r/seduction04/06/22 09:48 PM
5

Always cool to think these girls don't like you bc youre "brown".... Keep up that attitude!👍
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:42 PM
2

Yeah think she likes you, but ask her out if she's in your area, and see how she responds.
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:04 PM
1

So...you have ZERO idea about women....that is obvious.🤣 Dude..youre even too young to even know what you're talking about...
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:54 AM
1

??? Where did I say it's NOT?? This OP is talking about having a big group...socially, online. FB, iG, and probably snapchat. And that's just not necessary
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:37 AM
1

And...also first match just turned into like 20 within 10 hours...
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:23 AM
1

You don't want to know...but, of course...im older than you, and I just dont give a damn. You can message me..and I'll tell you.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:20 AM
1

For me? Was just putting myself out there online...getting SEVERAL matches, and chatting with them. Eventually, narrow it down to 3, 4, or 5 women that I think we'd chill well together.
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:17 AM
-1

No bud....lol, the girls are everywhere. You just must be very, very young....bc I don't have any of it, and nobody my age asks me for it. Guess it's a difference in age thing....however, just try it once, and say you don't have any. If that's how others just want to communicate...then I'd pass on them, TBH.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:42 PM
-1

Guys should just get off social media, and learning about women, and what they like.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:16 PM
1

Well then I wouldn't reply back. Stick to what you want, and don't settle.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:51 PM
1

Did you tell her what you want? You two aren't on the same page here, and I'd just back away from her. I would also think it's pointless, and not a very good excuse. But don't try to convince her, bc it may backfire. I would just tell her what you want, and just tell her that you two aren't on the same page, and want different things....
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:40 PM
1

Yeah I never said to get numbers out of it...it does help on the socializing aspect, and getting over any kind of "anxiety".
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:56 PM
6

There is no "approach anxiety", IMO. It just stems from lack of talking to "strangers" in different settings, and gaining the confidence in being able to chat. One thing I've always done is to make a habit of being able to say HI to someone different in public, or smiling. Go into different places, and be able to carry on conversation with a cashier (short of course, bc you don't want to hold up the line). Then, find something about a girl cashier that you like, and be able to give compliments. …
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:51 PM
2

The only sign you need to know is that twice the date didn't happen, and she never told you another day she was free.... Let it go.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:31 PM
2

Games, NO...but have you gone out with her...on a one on one date? Kissed her? Sex with her? If not, then I wouldn't be telling anyone that I liked them. You've already said that by asking them out. I mean, you're really not giving all that much info here.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:12 PM
4

If someone likes you enough, then they will make it easy for you....kind of like just opening the door, and you walk right in.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:06 PM
10

No I wouldn't try a 3rd time. In my book, if she says she can't, and doesn't try to let you know another day, then she isn't putting in much effort. You've tried twice. She needs to try and set something up with you. In fact, I'd back away, and stop initiating any contact.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:51 PM
3

Haha so you bribed her to come over? Like you actually said you'd pay half of it....thirsty behavior.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:09 AM
3

Should've just said "Hey, let's continue this back at my place..." it's better to just assume she will say yes...instead of asking if she wants to go back with you.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:41 AM
2

I'd say that you're more than likely just going to end up being on the friend side of things. Next time, be more bold, and confident when you see someone you like. But, I'd try to keep up the communication, and see how she responds. I would try to have fun, flirty banter (I bet she will like it, if she likes you in that way).
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:31 PM
2

What do you want from her?
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:24 PM
0

Haha I'm generally good at everything. Over message, but most importantly, in person. And, the other person who commented is correct. What do you want to know?
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:48 PM
2

Why ask why? People do weird shit, and I wouldn't even be concerned about it. Guess that's why I don't do FB, Twitter, or IG. Not worth my time.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:31 AM
1

Is this a question or just a comment? I know what I'd do.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:00 PM
3

Sounds like you're going there for her. IMO, that's a bad move to be doing that. I mean, yeah why not? I firmly believe she's being "nice", bc that's her job. There's nothing here that would lead me to believe she's just down with you....but, doesn't hurt to ask anyway. I've done it couple times, and has worked out....but I'd been going to a place for months, bc its my local to me. And, I've had good chemistry with them, and you can tell tell by looking into someone's eyes....before asking. Seem…
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:10 PM
127

Haha...wow you're so lucky. She will "give you a chance"? I'd say "nah I'm good".🤣
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:15 PM
4

Just be fun and flirty with him. If he's that inexperienced, then he's probably going to be shy. Seems like you're going to have to make the first move with him. Tru and see if you can get him alone somewhere, and just be bold and tell him what you want.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:12 AM
3

This is a very good response, OP. Listen, and do this....
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:55 PM
5

For me, that's what friends do. They meet each other over some coffee, chat and get caught up with each other... Same as brunch. I'd just rather take someone on a "real" date.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:53 PM
15

Nah I wouldn't get into all that, but I would just tell her you're not interested in the friend thing. I know it's a popular thing, but I've just never understood the coffee date, or "walk around" type date. I'd rather be doing something more fun-based activity....or go out for drinks.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:40 PM
91

No that would not be a good opener.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:10 PM
28

No I wouldn't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:33 PM
1

I agree not to be overly sexual, but this guy also doesn't have confidence, and he's scared to even ask her out....hahaha. Women are just women but guys overthink it, and they get too scared.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:56 PM
2

At a party after you've been chatting for a bit, and having fun, just come out and ask if they want to go somewhere more private. Look down at her lips, she will know you want to kiss her.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:41 PM
1

I'm 6'0, and no I'm not rich.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:32 PM
1

I'm 50, and yes I do. Going over to a woman's house tonight, and then a date with a different lady tomorrow. I met this one at Walgreens, and said she had cool tattoos, and that we should discuss them over some drinks. And she said cool.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:17 PM
1

LoL...you can't "resolve" this. She's not interested in you, and this just sounds creepy with you even asking this question. You can't "make" someone respond to you faster.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:09 PM
1

What type of things are you saying to them?
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:10 PM
1

Those are boring ass messages.
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:30 AM
1

Pipe layer
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:20 AM
3

The "less attractive" ones could be a good way to just get back into it, learn more things as you go, gain more confidence in your abilities...and, then, move up a level.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:03 PM
2

Isn't IG a thing of the past? Or, are you wanting to be some type of "infulencer"? LoL. I think it's probably better to get off social media, and kind of get out in the real World.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:58 PM
1

Nope...nothing anyone can tell me that 1) I don't already know, or 2) that I can find using Google.
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:01 PM
25

Who cares what someone thinks? I treat women the same, and I dont care if they are someone who enjoys sex (your whore), or someone who is a bit more confined. I also don't call women whores.
/r/seduction19/04/22 02:57 PM
1

I will just go ahead and tell the lady to come next to me, and we will cuddle during a movie. Should be no issue.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:48 AM
1

LoL are you intimidating? You wouldn't want someone who is intimidated by you, anyway....
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:20 PM
2

Have value first.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:58 PM
1

Wait 2 years? Haha what kind of messed up reply was that?
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:56 PM
5

I would just own...and go down to a buzz cut. Sometimes can make the guy better looking. I wasnt even going bald, and I started shaving my head 17 yrs ago. I'm older, but no issues for me with the ladies.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:54 PM
3

Sounds like this dude should be on the r/virgin sub. If you don't like success stories, then why are you here in this sub??
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:40 PM
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