whambrosia Archive

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1	What do you fight about most? Funny you should ask as our normal one occurred tonight. About once a quarter I lose it over him: Not getting a full time job in over 7 years Being a pushover and letting the dog control him Not being able to do any tasks of a typical established adult. I’m fully responsible for bills, kids, taxes, retirement, cars, yard, life, you name it. It usually happens in the shower believe it or not. He has a good body and is good in bed. I feel like I have a live in chore boy who will do things only on …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/09/18 03:53 AM
3	Proactive skincare routine? This may not be well received here, but aside from religious skin care rituals, I started yearly minimal Juvaderm injections at the age of 30 to maintain what I had and prevent wrinkles, not to change my appearance. 9 years later and many people think I look 10 years younger and I don’t add filters to my photos. It is risky and can be abused. I chose a dermatologist that does the models from a local agency because I knew he would have more attention to detail.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/18 02:48 PM
2	Marriage Age Yes I think you have presented some great examples. We can never be sure but time and experience are the best teachers. I think it’s safer to take a few years after school to get comfortable in your own shoes and live/work on your own while dating and finding your tribe. Confidence and self esteem also play a major role in being able to turn down men that may not be good for you and self reliance helps with this. Obviously vetting is a major part and being able to cut people off quickly and move…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/09/18 02:44 PM
1	Marriage Age I married at 23 and divorced 2 years later. We had 2 kids. I didn’t truly know what I wanted or deserved in a man. Married again at 35 to a man I started dating at 29. We were engaged in the second year but wanted to wait until he finished school for the wedding. I personally do not want my kids to marry in early 20s. Life is long and marriage can be hard so I would like them to have the freedom to get to know themselves before selecting a life partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/18 04:22 PM
4	Own Your Stuff I’ve been nagging my husband less and came home after back to school shopping all day to a clean garage! He has always been the better chef so I’ve relied on him to plan meals much of the time while my career was the priority. Now that things are good with business and I have more free hours, I’ve been trying to take some of this responsibility back and plan meals while he focuses on his career. I forgot how much I liked grocery shopping. :) Been keeping my nails done, working out more consisten…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/18 01:08 AM
37	My hamster is spinning out of control -- someone smack some sense into me As a daughter of a touring musician and ex wife of one, I can guarantee you there will be desperate women and these guys enjoy the attention they receive from them whether they act on it or not. A lot of full-time musicians cheat. You shouldn’t be obsessive and want to be at every gig but him uninviting you is a bit of a red flag. If he doesn’t want to be able to flirt, then he may be feeling suffocated and needs a bit of space when he’s not touring. In my opinion after being around many my enti…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/18 02:51 PM
2	What does respect really mean for a guy? This was helpful. Thanks for the ideas!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/18 01:16 AM
6	Is there any hope for a single mother? Yes, it is possible. I got engaged at 30 and remarried with two little girls. Just be careful who you bring around while dating. I believe single men are more prone to get involved with single mothers when they can take care of themselves, which may counter red pill philosophy, but I get the impression they may be scared of a situation where they could be used by woman looking solely for support and a father figure. Keep your options open to those who may have their own children as well or just …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/18 03:53 PM
2	In what ways did you change your appearance for your SO? I mostly leave it down but during the day I’ll pull it up on a top knot to keep it clean. I’ve been trying to wash it less so it doesn’t get so dry and brittle.	/r/RedPillWives	23/07/18 01:45 AM
14	In what ways did you change your appearance for your SO? He loves my hair long so I’ve kept it longer. He also loves sun dresses so I’ve been buying more of those. I love them too because they’re easy outfits. I can’t get a clear answer on hair color because he says he likes it every way, so I keep it light brown with highlights. Win win. The only strange thing is that when we go out to parties he likes it when I show some skin. I haven’t minded because I always dressed to my body type before, but just seems like asking for trouble.	/r/RedPillWives	22/07/18 08:15 PM
2	It works...! Just got engaged to the perfect man for me. Congrats!!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/18 03:42 PM
1	I love him but... This is my first personal post... This hit home for me today as I’m currently contemplating staying with a man that I love and enjoy being with but don’t respect no matter how much I submit, practice the RP teachings, and encourage. I’m 38 and run a successful business while supporting 2 kids from a previous marriage and he hasn’t had the urgency to get a job, provide, or lead in any aspect of life for 8 years. I’m completely aware I’m selecting the wrong men and I told him I wouldn’t support an…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/07/18 04:21 AM
3	Not in the same stage of life Stick with it! Better to have a smart man while you’re still getting used to adulthood than struggling through with someone else. It’s likely he enjoys teaching you unless he’s rude about it or makes you feel inferior.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/18 08:16 PM
1	1st year anniversary...who plans and what do? You may need to lower your expectations or you’ll end up ruining any chances of having a nice anniversary and be resentful afterwards. Just tell him you’d like him to take you out for a nice dinner or something. Ask him what sounds good to him. Whatever it is, tell him what you like but keep it simple. Don’t buy him $500 gifts unless you’re married.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/18 05:45 AM