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Try: Hey lets get a drink! I can do Wed night or Thursday night. Let me know! ​ Don't plan your life around her. Show her you have value. And don't be like "any day / time works for me". Remember, if you're always available that communicates low value and desperation.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:50 AM
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Connect on things outside of school. Don't spend your time talking about classes or your shitty part time job. Recognise she is past that stage of her life. Older woman are more experienced and generally comfortable with their sexuality. Escalate more quickly, but otherwise just treat her like a human being.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:26 AM
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Simpler the better. Smile at her, walk up to her, hold out your hand and say "hi". This is a bold self confident approach. Keep in mind though, just b/c someone looks doesn't mean they are interested. They might be attached, etc.
/r/seduction15/09/22 03:55 AM
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Asks why girls always ask why he's quiet, and then openly says he doesn't talk a lot. Is this for real? lolz
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:11 AM
2

"Hey good evening, here is your pizza, I bet you must be getting ready to Netflix and chill right?" ​ You open with this and she will make the move if that's what she is really interested in.
/r/seduction18/08/22 04:41 AM
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Asking about work is totally cool, pivoting off work into other related topics is okay. Digging into it and going too deep is the danger zone. Ain't nothing attractive about talking about office politics, etc.
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:58 AM
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Super difficult, but can be done if you believe she does like you already. I once went out with a friend to a comedy club with another couple. Her and I attended the event kind of like it was a date, I amped up my physical touching when jokes were funny to the both of us, and at the end of the event we went to a bar. At the bar the comedian was hitting on her. She was like what do I do. I told her go for it, god knows you need to get laid somehow. I actively pushed her away and encouraged her to…
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:51 AM
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Girls go out with guys because biologically they want to get fucked. Relationships and exclusivity are female defense mechanisms rooted in biology to protect offspring that take a long time to mature. If the girl wants to get to know you before spreading her legs then she will let you know. But by not trying to make any moves you are coming across disingenuous - the nice guy who tells them what they want to hear or does what he thinks they want him to do when its against your natural instincts. …
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:16 AM
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There is no attraction. So you are not creating attraction. Are you physically escalating? Are you keeping things light? Are you challenging the ladies, using push pull or cocky funny techniques? Just because you can hold a conversation doesn't mean you're doing it in a way that creates attraction. Are you talking to them about their past relationships, exes, or your past relationships? Don't do that. Are you talking all about work and your family? Don't do that. You can help us help you by desc…
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:12 AM
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"Hey yesterday was a lot of fun, lets make plans to do it again, how about Wed the xx. Sorry for making you wait for such a long time, but I've got a lot going on at the moment with xyz; and this way you'll be missing me in the meantime ;)"
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:32 AM
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The guys who do well without learning game are generally naturally charismatic, confident, and high value to begin with. Some of these traits are a bi-product of environment, and / or genetics. That doesn't make the fundamentals of game wrong, it just means some people have to work harder to get there.
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:37 AM
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Bro, the problem is your confidence, not your looks. As a straight dude, I can tell you that you are a good looking guy. Work on your inner game, your posture, your approach style, etc. People lacking confidence tend to walk with their heads down, roll their shoulders forward, avoid eye contact, say little or say things awkwardly, etc. Do the opposite of all of that. If it doesn't come natural, fake it till you make it. Stand up straight, roll your shoulders back and push your chest out a bit. L…
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:33 AM
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This sounds really sexist, but getting dating advice from women is terrible. Women will tell you what they want from a logical point of view, but this advice generally leads to the friend zone and not the place most guys on the sub are trying to get to. Attraction for women is heavily emotional, and often illogical. Biology sends women to the mysterious, confident, masculine, guys which is opposite of the needy guy who texts frequently. While you jest that you couldn't possibly know, I'd legitim…
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:19 AM
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This guy wrecks homes! lol In all seriousness though, this is good advice for initial dates b/c talking about relationships past or current kills attraction. Don't do it until attraction is already established.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:23 AM
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Do you think you come across creepy on your dates? I'm just asking because your writing is creepy. The way you describe the women and your interactions is just off to me. Things like "This thin innocent girl", "this thin cute light skinned girl". They're not meat but it sure sounds like you're describing a steak.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:52 AM
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This is the wrong questions. Dallas is a big city. Like any big city there are tons of things to do and places to go including many many bars and nightclubs. The best advice here is don't blame your lack of success on the city. It has nothing to do with your ability or inability to attract women. The ratio of males to females is generally pretty close in most any major city, so there are tons of girls looking for their next partner.
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:27 AM
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I'm sure it has nothing to do with my looks as i'm fairly attractive physically which means it must be my social skills. Actually this isn't necessarily the case. It may be your "self" and not your social skills. Are you confident? Are you interesting? Do you have "your own life" and a sense of purpose? If girls are interested in knowing you, your social skills must be god enough to attract them initially. Most likely its your need for self development (hobbies, interests, life outlook, directio…
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:42 AM
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She was a hot Indian girl with three friends listening to a live band standing off to the side of the stage. All three girls were on their phones. I just walked up to all three of them, said "Wow, you ladies must be having a great time, what with all of you on your phones in the middle of this hot mess" motioning to the people on the dance floor. The hot Indian girl introduced herself, I introduced myself, asked her where she was from, and turns out I visited some cities in India nearby her home…
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:57 AM
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Your first mistake was friend zoning yourself. Stop being the nice guy who lies and hides his intention. Be the forward guy who expresses his desires in an attractive and honest manner... "as just friends right?" ​ "If that's what gets you to the table with me, suuuure." "Well, I've always said that I wanted my future wife to also be my best friend, so okay!" "Nope, its totally a date. And if you're not comfortable about that, then lets just call it an audition for hooking up later!"
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:35 AM
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Girls want happy healthy well adjusted confident guys. Set girls aside for now. Focus on developing yourself. You said your job sucks b/c people walk over you. Is that happening b/c the people you work with are just assholes (change jobs then) or because you are weak and don't stand up for yourself in a reasonable manner (don't change jobs, change your behaviour). Once you sort things at work, start working on yourself. Build a fitness routine. Start jogging and lifting weights. Stop vaping. Bui…
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:40 AM
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"No prob, chat with the fam and let me know. It would be great if you could hmu by tomorrow though so I can make other plans if its not going to work out. Ciao!"
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:31 AM
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Give her another day then message her: "Don't tell me you're playing hard to get already, we haven't even had our first drink! ;) " ​ If she doesn't respond move on.
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:32 AM
4

Why are you worried? At most you invest one evening in a date.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:52 AM
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Don't invest in her more than she is willing to invest in you. Time to move on to the next.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:51 AM
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I've done this once before and never again. I was on a great first date, everything was spot on. I asked her if I could kiss her. She immediately looked turned off and said "why are you asking me?" Then she said "Nobody has ever asked me that" and the entire tone of the date shifted. Basically it destroyed the attraction. We still kissed but it wasn't the same afterwards.
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:23 AM
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It’s okay to feel that way but you are simply wrong (sorry to be blunt). If you are really seeing yourself so negatively perhaps some therapy might be in order. Body dismorphia is a real thing as is depression, generalised low self esteem,etc. Doesn’t hurt to speak to someone and get some perspective. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:37 PM
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Normal looking dude to me. This is a confidence problem and the issue is your mindset, not your face.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:23 AM
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Thats your assumption. I know many people who met their SO exactly as I described.
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:34 AM
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Actually you are just making excuses. Checkout line at grocery store, waiting for crosswalk light to change, browsing in the aisle at a store, shopping for clothes ("hey, can I ask your opinion, what do you think of this outfit"). Seriously its really easy.
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:43 AM
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If you're a good cook, then cook your heart out and ask her to come give you an independent opinion. Then use food as your common dialogue and show her your charm, wit, and passion. Good luck!
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:46 AM
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Its about context. If you chase someone down to feed them some canned line or forced compliment, its cringeworthy. If you chat up a stranger when both parties are in a natural setting (such as standing together at a crosswalk waiting for the light to change) and you open the other party with some kind of relevant conversation "If these lights take any longer to change you and I are going to be married AND divorced before we even get a chance to hold hands". Thats a different style and there is n…
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:14 AM
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People tend to be intuitive. they can tell when you're trying too hard or not really being yourself. You're exhausting yourself trying to be someone you're not. You are also not in a healthy place. You are depressed. Women don't want to be with someone who is depressed, and they don't want to take up a project to fix you. You need to fix you. Get therapy if you haven't done so. Get medicated if you haven't done so. Learn to love yourself. Find your passions. Pursue them for the sole purpose of s…
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:51 AM
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Read your own post title: "Every girls is rejecting me for no reason". First off, there is a reason. Being in denial and blaming all 150 girls isn't the answer. You need to be introspective and determine what it is by reflecting on where you need to grow as a person. Second, and please don't take offence, but your grammar and writing style is very poor. It comes across as though either you don't care about the details, or you aren't very educated. Chances are your speech and verbal communication…
/r/seduction13/08/21 04:59 AM
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Chemistry can be an easy way to let you down because she wasn't attracted. It could also be that in the stomach spark, that feeling you get when you really like someone which is often about physical appearance combined with the person's attitude and approach. ​ I once dated a girl - She was hot, and she worshipped me. She did everything for me, and would do anything for me. I broke up with her because there was no chemistry. What I really meant was the spark was missing. Even though I was physic…
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:40 PM
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1.). Nope. I'm an average looking dude. If I sit alone in a bar no girls will speak to me or approach me. There are better looking dudes everywhere. But if I turn on the charm, project confidence and value, demonstrate that I can be funny, a bit cocky and sarcastic, I can pull high quality women with just a few approaches. ​ 2.). Agree with you. ​ 3.). I think if you are pessimistic and somewhat anti-social this might seem true. But for normal well adjusted guys, I've never encountered this in o…
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:02 AM
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You miss the point, Plenty of people meet their SO through friendships, chance, etc. Happens all the time, even in Western countries. But the theory you're talking about isn't intended to meet and score with a person, its intended to amplify results, create abundance, and build a sustainable funnel of high quality women to choose from. Just like any jo schmo can become an investor, there is a big difference between the average retail investor and the big brokerage houses and their very very weal…
/r/seduction01/03/21 10:26 AM
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Did you get a date? No? Thats called a rejection.
/r/seduction01/03/21 08:57 AM
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You do realise the alternate approach to reinventing your entire person is actually just to be you. No online tools required.
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:56 AM
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So the best cheat code is to literally become someone you're not and invest an insane amount of time into learning both a language and a culture. What?!?!? If it takes that much work to get laid, you're definitely doing something wrong.
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:24 AM
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Did those dates end in sex or something close? If not, you have your answer.
/r/seduction17/02/21 07:28 AM
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Actually it is. Sometimes I throw a smiley face afterwards. Works every time. Not sure I understand all the hate...
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:42 AM
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Ugh, terrible advice.. When a girl flakes, try a message like: ​ "So we've reached the playing hard to get phase of our relationship already eh? Whats next, divorce and alimony?" ​ This ALWAYS elicits a response, makes the girl realize she is behaving shitty, and establishes that you don't take it too seriously because you must have other options.
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:25 AM
2

TLDR: This girl at work is flirting with me. Do you guys think she's flirting with me?
/r/seduction25/07/19 03:43 AM
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Shit man, thats a ton of useless info to weed through just to get to the important stuff. Here is a public service for everyone: ​ Tldr: Went out to pickup girls with my friend at the beach. I initiated and he winged. We approached a group of 3 HB7's and they shit tested me by saying they were underage. We moved on. ​ We then approached another group of 3 girls, HB 7's again, and I opened with "Hey how you girls doing?". We chatted for 20 mins and I got her IG. Sweet! ​ We then approached two ot…
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:38 AM
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You took action by writing this post. You took the time to complain about your inaction at the mall instead of taking the time to say hi to the cute girl. Confidence comes from knowing your self worth. If you look in the mirror and don't know what you have to offer then you need to develop yourself and improve yourself until you can point to specific things that make you a worthwhile and desirable person. Once you know what those things are, natural confidence will follow.
/r/seduction04/12/18 08:23 AM
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Please please please tell us English is your second language.
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:20 PM
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So give us an update !
/r/seduction31/10/18 12:48 PM
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Just get her out of the office to confirm intent. Just say "hey, come out for a drink with me after work tonight". If she can't make it she'll suggest another night if she's interested. Once you get her out of the office then dial up the kino. You'll know if she is interested.
/r/seduction29/10/18 01:12 PM
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Act like nothing happened. If it happens again, then joke with her and say,"wow, usually I'm the one who plays hard to get, what's up babe?"
/r/seduction29/10/18 01:07 PM
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Happens sometimes. I got a girl home once and we were making out soon as we came in to the apartment. Then she kept stopping and looking at my bed, then around the apartment and seemed distant. Then I kissed her a few more times and she did the same thing. Finally she said, I'm sorry, but I have to go. Maybe she felt slutty, maybe she wasn't into me, who knows. More importantly, if your technique worked on other women, who cares :)
/r/seduction29/10/18 10:20 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:01 AM
1

Perhaps you should mail her a letter? This sub has cratered. Every post is essentially r/humansocialinteractionforbeginners. Truly cringeworthy.
/r/seduction22/10/18 02:22 AM
2

Simple answer, you're looking in the wrong places. Hookup apps are for hooking up. You might find a keeper, but you're already starting with the odds stacked against you.
/r/seduction16/10/18 01:47 PM
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Umm... Let me tldr that for anyone who is put off by your block of text. TLDR; Answer her question, then say 'and' and then talk. This is a seduction sub not shittylifeprotips. And by the way, she isn't shit testing your conversation skills. Being short and concise is the natural reaction for anyone being approached by a stranger . You're interrupting them, then forcing yourself into their space. What else would you expect?
/r/seduction11/10/18 08:25 AM
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Exactly. Wtf is a looksmatch? I can understand but have never heard this before.
/r/seduction11/10/18 03:16 AM
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Assuming you're not trolling... You stated "someone who I could actually have adult conversations with." but seriously bro, read what you wrote... "I'm a pothead"... "buy her METH"... "fucking annoying"... "I seem to draw in fake-ganster-bitch type"... "it was a 20 year old who was also a weed smoker"... "Is now a crack smoker"... You are attracting trash because you are either A.) Hanging out with trash. B.). Hanging out in trashy places. C.). You are also trash. I know this is harsh, but norma…
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:29 AM
2

You need to flirt. Create tension. After she texted you, you should have responded with "if you think I'm cute wearing stuff, you should come take a look when I'm not wearing anything at all ;)"
/r/seduction21/09/18 05:29 AM
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Is getting your dick wet worth ruining 4 lives including that of the husband and their 3 children? Are you so desperate for sex that its worth it to you? You chatted with her hoping it would lead to this (don't lie and say you didn't), and now you've proven you could fuck her. Pat yourself on the back and move on. Its literally selfish as fuck of you to do this.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:35 AM
1

You don't talk to someone on Tinder for "a few days". You flirt for 5 mins, then setup a meetup.
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:25 AM
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Hey guys, check me out, I can pickup domestic helpers in Hong Kong! Like shooting fish in a barrel my friend.
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:50 AM
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You aren't being assertive enough. Instead of asking her what she is doing, you should say "Lets get together this Saturday. I know a great coffee/drinks/whatever place. I'll just cruise by and pick you up at 8 yah? :)" Then if she tells you she's busy, she'll suggest an alternative if she's really interested.
/r/seduction23/08/18 10:12 AM
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This guy is trolling hard.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:08 AM
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There are many things I do a lot of, if you're lucky enough to get to know me, you might be impressed 😉
/r/seduction14/07/18 12:46 PM
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I'm obviously going to approach when I get a chance You've already had lots of chances. The only things that obvious is that you didn't do anything. That said my guess is that she is a self obsessed person and is just looking for validation.
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:16 AM
0

Do it less?
/r/seduction10/07/18 05:54 AM
1

Unfull facial hair makes you look like a child. You look much older without it. Also, again, don't make that look with your mouth, its really unattractive. Allow your mouth to come together, but relax your bottom jaw and let some air in there. Better yet, SMILE.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:18 AM
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OKay, just my two cents, and since we're all being honest here... you have to do the things that will help you improve your appearance to its best possible state. Start with manscaping... Part of the reason they say you look young is because you're trying to go for the "thug" look, but your facial hair isn't full enough. you look like the 12 year old trying to grow a mustache. Shave that shit off. And I mean all of it. That beard and stache are scraggly, not full, and look unkept. If your body w…
/r/seduction10/07/18 02:37 AM
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Listen to yourself - "I find all the girls at clubs and parties to be trashy...". You clearly are unsuccessful with women and are making excuses to yourself to make yourself feel better. At any moment, a party or a club have every type of person possible in it. Party people who go all the time, shy people who just want to get out that once, people who like cars, sales, movies, sports, sci-fi, you name it. If you want a direct answer to your question in the title of your post - you don't. You don…
/r/seduction08/07/18 09:57 AM
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With all due respect, I'm happy you have a date, but this has nothing to do with seduction. There are no questions in your post, and no learnings for others. By definition this is a shitpost. If we actually had mods here, it would be great to see this one removed.
/r/seduction06/07/18 09:30 AM
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Master eye contact, improve voice tone, speak more slowly and deliberately. You don't need to dress or look "dark or menacing". You just need to keep a strong frame, be confident, and avoid sounding or coming across as nervous or over enthused.
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:26 AM
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You're seeing through filters. Every girl is not always with others. Thats ridiculous. If your approach is failing then look into the mirror. How can you improve yourself? How can you step up your inner game. Maybe your approach is creepy. Maybe your conversation skills are poor. Don't blame others, and most certainly don't draw the ridiculous conclusion that its impossible to cold approach. If you're continuously failing, you need to improve.
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:23 AM
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Dude. This one isn't rocket science. What are all the girls telling you? That you are moving too fast. What does that mean? That you're coming on too strong. Just dial it back a little. Wait till date two to bring them back to your place. Keep the tit holding a ass grabbing until they are in your house. You come across as desperate. Stop focusing on just having sex, because thats exactly what you're doing and exactly what the girls are seeing. Lookup outcome independence. Thats what you need to …
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:30 AM
1

What you've just done is perfect. You didn't call her (not needy) and you snapped pics with other girls (high value, social validation). Now you should wait. If she is interested, she'll reach out. No need to chase her, she is the one who pulled away and gave mixed signals.
/r/seduction03/07/18 06:38 AM
1

Tell her you have things figured out, so instead of you waiting for her, tell her she can call you when she is in a better place. If you both are on the same page then, so be it. Otherwise, it just wasn't meant to be. Wish her well hen stop communicating with her.
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:48 AM
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You asked about arms. This guy told you it's not a problem, then you respond with "well, I'm a loser anyways". With that attitude why waste everyone's time by even asking for advice unless you just want someone to commiserate with you?
/r/seduction27/06/18 07:40 AM
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If you want to win you have to play the game.
/r/seduction26/06/18 10:27 AM
1

Too many ifs? You must have a very low opinion of yourself. Let me rephrase... You need to be confident, value yourself, need not be a needy bitch who puts women on pedestals, and must treat women as your equal. All of this boils down to not being afraid and loving yourself. Its not rocket science.
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:12 AM
1

Who said anything about status and money?
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:50 AM
2

This guy has options. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:21 AM
0

Tldr: when a girl says she's not going to have sex with you, she most likely will if you escalate. This is completely true and also reflects my own personal experience.
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:18 AM
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Its always been complicated. You've allowed media and dramatisation to convince you it was easier. It wasn't. But that said, its fundamentally not the circus you describe, and honestly its not as complicated as most everyone on this sub makes it out to be. Here is the secret: If you're confident, if you value yourself, if you aren't a needy bitch who puts women on a pedestal, but instead values them as an equal, your chance of scoring is very good. If you master all the techniques posted here, y…
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:15 AM
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Give yourself time bro. It heals everything. Once you are no longer crying, or thinking about the loss, then ease back into dating. Most of your initial relationships are going to be fuck ups. Rebound dating is bad for you and your unlucky partner. Thats life. The best advice though is to wait till you're over the uncontrollable emotions, and you'll have a better change at doing as little damage to others as possible.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:07 AM
2

Dude you're asking for advice on how to get back together and actually said "this might be my last chance". You never got over your neediness. It's still there and screaming blatantly loud through text on the internet. Stop. Stop right now. Cut contact. Move on. Stop being a bitch.
/r/seduction25/06/18 03:27 AM
1

If you think about pickup in the sense of technique, I saw almost no technique being put into action. Very little kino, no push pull, no real attempts at being cocky and funny, no negging. What I saw was a nice guy with a bit of confidence have a boring interaction with a girl. That's just my opinion. If he got laid in the end then there is the proof that sometimes all you need is confidence. But for an in field video from a supposed expert, I expected more.
/r/seduction14/06/18 01:56 AM
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I dunno. To me that wasn't seduction or pickup. It was boring and painful. The girl didn't seem the least bit attracted and practically gave a pat on the back goodbye. Yea?
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:49 PM
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Seriously that's creepy as fuck. At age 17 she has the maturity of a very experienced teenager. You at age 34 are a grown ass man who is ideally suited based on money, life experience, etc. to manipulate and take advantage of that girl. That's pretty low bro. Just my opinion of course.
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:57 PM
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Is it wrong, no. But you cannot deny there is a huge difference in maturity between those two ages. Now if you added 10 to each of them, then I would say the were no issues at all. At the end of the day it's all about what you're looking for. But if your casual hookups have any possibility of turning into a relationship, it's probably not going to happen with women that age.
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:54 PM
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This is a solid video. Nice work bro.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:15 PM
5

This article is just as poorly written as the title. Give this one a pass. The TLDR is amateur hour stuff that sums up to don't be creepy.
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:34 AM
1

Go back and analyze what has changed besides the work situation. This is all in your head and the impact it's having on you as an individual.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:19 AM
2

Exactly... Social losers who hate themselves that want a magic pill to make women fuck them. No desire for true self improvement, just an interest in the meets minimum. Then they wonder why once they get a girl interested and go back to their old ways and she ghosts. Woes me. Life is terrible.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:59 AM
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If you think you have no worth compared to others, why would you expect a woman to think otherwise. You need therapy, not pickup advice. Once you love yourself, then you can work to have others fall for you as well.
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:55 AM
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