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71	Common dating advice does nothing for the average guy actually struggling I think the real problem is many humans want things, but they don't want to do the work. You want to attract a woman? Having your shit together is what matters, because it naturally breeds confidence. Have your career in order. You don't have to be rich, but, you should be doing something you are proud of. Either the job, or they pay. Or both. Have your physical and mental health in order? You don't need to be a gym bro. But, you should be in shape, taking care of yourself. You should have frien…	/r/seduction	18/03/26 07:40 PM
1	Should I text between setting up the date and the date itself? None of this matters. Text day of to confirm you are still on. That's it. Go on the date with the goal of you having a good time with her. Everything after that is really out of your control. She is either going to enjoy the time with you, or not.	/r/seduction	17/03/26 05:21 PM
3	Short dry spell advice "Eventually i got banned on all dating apps for being a little too special needs" What does this even mean? Maybe you need to stop dating and reflect on why you are being banned off all dating websites. Normal mentally healthy people aren't being banned off all dating websites. You were on a tear last summer, huh? Not one of those women was interested in dating you? Maybe you just need a girlfriend. I mean, how about figuring out how to be in a stable, loving relationship. The sex only gets bett…	/r/seduction	08/03/26 11:12 PM
3	Feeling lonely and depressed on Valentines Day. Step 1: Make sure you have your shit together. -Do you have a solid job that you enjoy? -Are you physically fit? -Do you have good social skills? -Are you well read? -Are you mentally healthy? You said you are depressed. Do you just mean Valentines Day, or are we talking clinical? Take a test to check. -Do you have friends? Do you have good friends? -Do you have hobbies you care about that aren't just passive activities like videogames and tv? Step 2: Put yourself out there -Go to and do activit…	/r/seduction	15/02/26 02:30 PM
6	Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sex You shouldnt, unless you are being willfully ignorant, or are just trying to force something out of context. Consider the full statement and context when thinking about something, not just individual words.	/r/seduction	08/02/26 03:16 PM
42	Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sex You are not a bad person for wanting sex from your partner. That is the main reason we are alive. She is either ready to have sex, or she is not. If you are and she is not. Then you need to break up and find someone who is. You shouldnt have to fight over this. There should be zero resistance. People who want to have sex with each other, do so, quite easily. As a man in your early 20s, this is the time for you to enjoy your youth as much as you can, practice and learn about relationships, and al…	/r/seduction	08/02/26 01:08 AM
4	She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? This person gave you the best advice: Just see what happens tbh. Keep searching in the mean time, if you get a text, great, if you don’t, at least you didn’t sit around waiting for a week If you don't want to come across as desperate, or needy, then don't. Imagine she may be dating other people in the mean time. Are you?	/r/seduction	17/01/26 04:47 PM
36	Ghosted after really intense party Nothing. You already tried contacting her, and she didn't respond. There is nothing more to do. A person who is interested will respond back. It's that simple. Maybe when she was sober, she realized she didn't like you as much as she thought. Move on. Anything more will just start to come across as creepy at worst, and desperate at best. Either way, it won't increase your chances of anything.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:22 PM
-7	struggling as 25 yo guy I’ve been on five first dates, and honestly, I did quite well there – I stayed relaxed, didn’t freeze, and had good conversations. However, things didn’t go any further, and I now realize it was because I didn’t create that spark or sexual tension. What? How is this the conclusion? Are you are real person, or a bot? How about texting them, telling them you had a good time, and if they would like to go on another date? m 25 years old, and so far I haven’t had much success with women. I didn’t gro…	/r/seduction	02/12/25 04:39 PM
0	Met a girl on reddit Skip all this nonsense. Ask to meet in person. A coffee date.	/r/seduction	25/11/25 03:12 PM
4	I'm willing to bet it won't work. Maybe instead of sex, you could try for something more valuable. A serious relationship with someone who is on the same page as you, loves you, accepts you for not being perfect, and who you love more than her imperfections. One night stands are for people who know exactly what they want out of life, or for those who have no clue.	/r/seduction	23/11/25 03:02 AM
2	Being labeled as the "good guy" by other men in a mixed group Being interesting and being perceived as interesting are two different things. If you have a lot of knowledge, life experiences, perspectives to share, approaches to life that are different to the norm, you could be labeled as "interesting". But, you can't really fake that. You have to go out there and actually live it. But, the reality is, for most shallow people. Being interesting, just means, being interested. In other words, being interested in what OTHER people have to say. Learn to keep a …	/r/seduction	21/11/25 03:43 PM
28	How do you walk into a second date. You go for a quick hello/greeting hug. Keep it short. Move on with the date. Normally, the kissing should happen after the date. The actual date is the building up tension part. The kissing at the end is the reward.	/r/seduction	19/11/25 10:51 PM
2	Yapping? Shut up, and start listening. Don't just listen to what is said, but how they say it, along with their mannerisms. And ask questions based on all that knowledge. A woman worth talking to, will have something to say.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 10:43 PM
3	The Best Advice I’ve Ever Received About Women… Well, you actually didn't explain anything. There is nothing to go above anyones head. You took the time to write a post with the equivalent of a "famous quote". Except, famous quotes meanings are self explanatory. What you wrote is pseudo nonsense. If it means something to you, that's great. But, you need to explain it to everyone else.	/r/seduction	18/11/25 12:09 AM
1	Being labeled as the "good guy" by other men in a mixed group What insecurities are you having? This sounds like you are making something out of nothing. The right answer is to not over think this. And take it at face value. People say you are nice. Fine. Thats a compliment. Move on.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 08:48 PM
2	FWB but I’m confused on where it’s going… Others have given good advice already. Dont expect consistency from someone with mental health issues, irregardless of what they say. If this is real fwb. You are doing too much. If your mental health is dependent on this fwb. It is no longer fwb, and you either shouldnt be messing around with fsb. You should be in a real relationship, or no relationship at all. Personally speaking, i wouldnt date anyone with mental health issues, until they are resolved. And I wouldnt date anyone until I resolv…	/r/seduction	17/11/25 08:37 PM
3	A trick I used to teach my students Then you really are not treating humans as humans. Because you are behaving differently based on their attributes. If you are treating a woman in a special way, that likely means you are doing that to an older person, and a younger person, and on race, gender, etc...even if you dont notice it. My point is, you stop doing that. What you will learn is that everyone is just a human. No one wants to be treated differently, or special. They just want to have a genuine interaction. And that is enough.…	/r/seduction	17/11/25 08:22 PM
8	A trick I used to teach my students Lol. I love reading "tricks". People out here with all these "secret techniques". How about just treating people like human beings? Here is a "trick". My "trick" will not only get you women, it will also lead to a happy, balanced life. Start talking to everyone. Be genuinely interested in humans. Once you are able to approach and talk to anyone, a woman, is just another human. The result will be that when you talk to a woman, you will come across authentically. You don't have to fake anything. Y…	/r/seduction	17/11/25 06:49 PM
2	How do you guys stay positive? No. I am addressing the subreddit specifically.	/r/seduction	16/11/25 05:18 PM
3	How do you guys stay positive? The subreddit.	/r/seduction	16/11/25 02:58 PM
1	Spent so many years by myself I've become a loner/quiet guy Start talking to everyone. Even when you feel uncomfortable and scared, still do it. You will only get out of this hump if you face your fears. Ask people about themselves. Remember what they said. Talk when it makes sense. Circle back to something they said when the convo runs dry. The better you get. The longer you can keep convo going.	/r/seduction	16/11/25 12:54 AM
1	How do i as a 18 yr old college kid learn to be comfortable around women Learn to be comfortable around everyone. Get good at talking to people. Be interested in people, no matter gender, age, race. When you get good talking to people, you can talk to anyone. Women will just be other people. You will come across as natural and not weird or pushy. You value just making a friend. And if it naturally leads to more, you will know it. You wont have to force it.	/r/seduction	16/11/25 12:47 AM
2	How do you guys stay positive? The same way you approach any human you are interested in talking to.	/r/seduction	15/11/25 11:13 PM
9	How do you guys stay positive? This is a stupid approach. Stop trying to hook up.. Start trying to make lasting, meaningful relationships. Learn to appreciate humans of all types. When you can talk to, and makes friends with everyone, you will be able to connect with women as well. You will stop looking at women as targets to conquer, and start looking at them as humans. You will also know the difference between a woman who is just being polite, a woman who just wants to be friends, and a woman who is a potential interest. Go…	/r/seduction	15/11/25 05:47 PM
-5	Why is it that posts from women struggling with dating tend to receive supportive advice, while similar posts from men often receive more negative responses? Because men are responsible for courting women.	/r/seduction	14/11/25 06:21 PM
3	Are Owen Cook's bootcamps worth it? The fact you think you need this is the problem. It means you have a low self esteem. If you have your shit together (career, health/fitness, social life, finances), and you know it. You have everything you need. You dont need a technique to "pickup" women. In fact, you shouldnt be trying to "pick up" anyone. You should be trying to learn how to enjoy socializing with all humans. Practice talking to everyone. When you are able to talk to everyone, easily, and confidently, and actually enjoy the …	/r/seduction	04/08/25 03:19 PM
2	Woman sleeps over and I never hear from her again If you are looking for a one night stand, respect when it happens.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 08:19 PM
0	I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed out Nothing wrong with men and women seeking out casual sex. I am specifically saying these women don't seem worth it, based on what was shared.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 09:09 PM
-1	I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed out Lol i like it. I was going to say, most of the list singularly wouldnt be an issue. I dont mind frozen pizza. But, I meant all together, they dont paint an appealing picture of a new partner. I also didnt consider there are pretty desperate men on here too. But, who cares. I know reddit rules. Feelings are more important than facts No room for nuance Knee jerk reactions are king Whatever you say is final Changing your mind is weakness and you will be preyed upon Probably others. Lol	/r/seduction	20/07/25 06:18 PM
-2	I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed out What are you trying to say?	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:54 PM
-11	I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed out I mean no offense at all. But this all sounds trashy. Both women together were down for sex on the first night of meeting two random dudes? They brought tequila in bags ready? Frozen store pizza Sure random stranger guy I just met. Go ahead and take my friend away. People pairing up right before the club ends, so they dont go home empty handed. Maybe ive got this all wrong. But these women dont sound very compelling to me. I feel more like you dodged a bullet. Id consider STI checks before going…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 03:48 PM
1	I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing They exist as romantic partners as well.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 01:58 PM
1	I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing Have you never interacted with a human where you just clicked? Where you are both talking a mile a minute, for hours, and it's just easy. Where you can't stop thinking about them, and can't wait to see them again? How is that not exciting? The excitement of dating is that you have no idea how it is going to go. It could go from ehh. Just another date. To, OMG we connected on so many levels. I found my soulmate.	/r/seduction	19/07/25 02:55 PM
1	I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing Yes. I meant he needs to do both. Yes, put in the work of dating. As in, meeting new people, going on dates, etc... And yes. He should be enjoying the company of people he is interested in. Something is off if that isnt a catalyst for him. If you dont like the company of people in the first place. Why are you trying so hard to get into a relationship? Meeting someone new is the most exciting part. And he already hates it. Imagine when you have been with someone for years and the honeymoon stage …	/r/seduction	18/07/25 10:03 PM
1	I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing It's no mystery people nowadays are on the edge and cautious. What do you mean now days? Every generation in history can justify that statement. That really is just a veiled excuse. If you really want a thing, you have to adapt to whatever the current circumstances are to accomplish it. To me it really sounds like the last two sentences contradict the rest of your comment. What do you mean? He doesn't like doing, the very thing he is supposed to be doing, to achieve his desired result. That's li…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 09:41 PM
4	I find dating extremely exhausting and confusing Dating is supposed to be exciting. You are meeting new people you are interested in. There should be some nervous energy. When you meet someone you click with, There should be plenty of things to talk about. The possibilities are endless. Your heart should be racing. You can't wait to meet this person again. Why are you doing something you don't even like doing? Dating is not a requirement of life. If you are not enjoying it. Stop doing it. But, if you want a serious relationship, you have to da…	/r/seduction	18/07/25 09:30 PM
2	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? It wasnt a mandate, nor an absolute. Part of the fun of relationships is they can begin all sorts of ways. I was simply making the point, that, generally speaking, people who are interested in something more, are not focused on the sex. So, it usually doesnt happen right away, or even thought about. As a side not though. Many men are just interested in the sex. And many women who do want relationships know this. So, they will weed you out, if that is how you come across. Not saying its right or …	/r/seduction	17/07/25 07:26 PM
2	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? People who are interested in serious committed relationships don't normally kiss, or have sex the first couple of dates. Not because there is anything inherently wrong with it, but because that is not the focus. You are supposed to be getting to know someone. To see if they have matching values, and long term interest as you. When you finally get to the point of considering sex, it is a natural progression. You aren't planning, or stressing about whether it is going to happen. It will just make …	/r/seduction	17/07/25 06:12 PM
40	She found out I am sleeping with other people and pulled back. What next? I am amazed how much effort men put into sleeping with women we have no other intentions with. If you are not interested in a relationship with this person, why are you so worried about this? It's just a lay, right? The type of human who wants to live a consistent casual sex lifestyle, isn't this neurotic about it. They are at peace with whatever happens. And they have little expectations from their partners. That is why it works for them. If you are actually interested in this woman, you are go…	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:30 PM
5	I asked for a guy’s number at work and got it, but I feel likes he’s not interested? He most likely has no idea what he is doing. He maybe doesn't even know how to carry a conversation in any form. Just because he is cute, doesn't mean he is interesting. You are both early 20s, you most likely have nothing to say of substance. You are overthinking every little thing. Stop over analyzing everything. Get out of your head, and live in the real world. It sounds like it's going fine. You admitted you barely know each other. It's possible, that as you get to know each other, you reali…	/r/seduction	17/07/25 05:22 PM
3	Where do you go to approach women? I wasnt referring to women. I was referring to considering the setting. For example, if you are at the gym at 5am, trying to chat up a woman, consider the fact, she may have a very focused workout routine and time crunch. People going go the gym at 5am, probably take their workouts seriously. So, probably be extra respectful of her time. Or, if you happen to be at a park at night. You know. You might feel safe, but most women would not. So, being chatty might come off as creepy, however well int…	/r/seduction	16/07/25 08:04 PM
7	Where do you go to approach women? List places humans go. Those are your options. Use common sense and tact at said places.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 06:08 PM
2	How do you deal with gatekeepers? Stop generalizing guys when you probably just mean 1 or 2 situations this has happened to you. Stop looking for different conclusions from the same people/group. Find different people/group entirely.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 05:41 PM
3	how likely are my chances here? Don't ask people to tell you their schedule, or to let you know when they are free, at this early stage. Because, it makes you: Come across as needy Like you have nothing going on, and are just waiting for them like a lonely puppy In the normal world, the way you behaved is respectful and nice. But, in the dating game (attraction/mystery/interest), you give off a weak energy, like she is more important than you. How about YOUR schedule? Maybe YOU won't be free. Instead, you should have set a dat…	/r/seduction	14/07/25 08:14 PM
1	How to deal with the friend who speaks or acts on the girl's behalf during an approach? I meant in terms of continuing to pursue something. Odds are, the friend is going to tell you her friend is not interested an overwhelming number of times. So, either you need to be persistent, which might cause issues, or you are just walking away an overwhelming number of times. What is the point, at that point? It is a waste of time, unless you really know what you are doing.	/r/seduction	14/07/25 08:07 PM
0	How to deal with the friend who speaks or acts on the girl's behalf during an approach? Unless you know what you are doing, you probably shouldn't be doing this. I mean, the probability of it working is probably not worth it. You more likely to get into an argument/fight/kicked out of a venue. Unless you are some really suave, good looking guy, who can hold conversations with multiple women at once, this is not going to work out well for you. I mean what do you expect to happen? You have two hold two conversations. One with the woman you are interested in, and the other with the wo…	/r/seduction	14/07/25 07:03 PM
1	Who is up for practicing flirting with me lol That's dumb. More practical would be, before the date. Go socialize a bit somewhere. Not necessarily to flirt. Just go talk to people. Practice starting conversations and small talking with random people in line at the coffee shop, or store clerks, or whatever. You shouldn't need to practice flirting. You should naturally be interested in the person you are with. You know what is sexy? Actually connecting with someone, instead of word or behavior games. You know what the best sex is? Sex with so…	/r/seduction	14/07/25 03:43 PM
1	How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence? What is your goal for going out to the clubs? Do you actually like clubbing? Are you just trying to pick up women? I have been with many women, and I don't club. I never liked it. Loud, dirty, lower class of people usually (depending on the location of course). Nothing wrong with clubbing. Just saying, maybe you aint into it. Plenty of ways to meet women, and usually of better quality, than a club. You didn't say your age though.	/r/seduction	13/07/25 05:40 PM
56	Sweet guy vs confident guy: results Do you want to see this person again? She sounds crazy. She is an "actress", she has ADHD, she is an anarchist? Umm okay. Whatever. And she openly talks about booty calls currently happening on a first date? So, a little dumb too? I mean, I guess if you are just trying to hook up. But, this chic sounds like future problems, for anything more. You are burnt out after one date? You want sex now, without a second date? Is this how you normally do this? Maybe this works for you? Maybe I am missing s…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 08:32 PM
1	Feeling angry and depressed about current life People who are passionate about what they do, usually do the best job, degree, or not. Not everyone has, or finds their passion in life though. Finish school. Become singularly focused on just getting that degree. Even religiously so, if that is what it takes. I was a terrible student, but one semester, I got the highest grade in every class. Not because I was smart. But, because I just got unreasonably dedicated for that last semester. That is something us guys can do. We can become wildly fixa…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 05:54 PM
2	Can putting standards in your dating app bio (ex. No _, must be at least _) make you seem like a higher-value male and give you more matches? Well, of course. I said maybe, because all that little detail you just gave is irrelevant if a woman just swiped you away based on your pictures. Which I would imagine is like, I don't know 90+ percent of the time. Before getting into all the psychoanalysis stuff. I would put more effort into the higher value stuff. Like have good pictures. Once you have the most important stuff figured out. Then you could get into the details you suggested. But, really. The good pics are what is going to be doi…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 05:38 PM
1	I am stuck Yes. There is something fundamentally wrong here. Do you actually like this person besides sex, or not? Why aren't you going on dates? Why aren't you learning and growing a relationship together? Do you want a serious relationship, or not? This is what happens when you start a relationship with someone only based on physical attraction. Either you, or her are extremely boring, no hobbies, no interests. Or, you both don't really want a relationship outside of sex. If you really do like this perso…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 05:29 PM
1	Feeling angry and depressed about current life This shouldn't be a seduction post. If you ever feel lost in life. Set a goal, and work to achieve it. There are no short cuts. And life isn't fair, or unfair. You won't feel better about yourself, until you actually accomplish things to feel better about. This also applies to meeting women. Too many men on here trying to find ways to "seduce", or fake confidence with women. Real confidence and self esteem come naturally when you have your shit together. Either you want to get your shit together…	/r/seduction	11/07/25 05:10 PM
32	Can putting standards in your dating app bio (ex. No _, must be at least _) make you seem like a higher-value male and give you more matches? Maybe. But, probably doesn't matter. Everyone is just swiping at pics.	/r/seduction	11/07/25 04:58 PM
1	[seriously] Does high value men, approach girls and get rejected without hurting their ego or character in society? Isnt this a question for them? They critiqued you, but what was their actual advice? Maybe they need to go into more details of what they do.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 08:37 PM
1	Should I focus on myself i.e. get better looking, before I chase women? Or both at once? What are you dense? Learning the ability to talk to anyone means you can, wait for it, talk to anyone comfortably and confidently. Then, talking to a woman, isnt a problem, because they fall into the anyone category. A better approach to any relationship, not just intimate. Is letting the relationship happen naturally. Its not just good seduction advice. Its great life advice. A healthy balanced life isnt just hooking up with girls. Its having relationships of all types.	/r/seduction	09/07/25 10:43 PM
10	This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you .. Lol. You say this as if it is some sort of revelation. This has been known for literal centuries. The real issue is actually having genuine confidence. There are volumes of guides on how to fake it. But, you can only fake it for so long before you are found out. And some men are better than others at faking it. The real secret is to not have to fake it. And the real problem is, people want things without deserving them. So you instead have volumes of text on how to "pickup women", instead of doi…	/r/seduction	09/07/25 06:21 PM
1	Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro... Anyone who ever wanted something from someone, had to "bother" them. Thats how you make friends, get a job, get a partner, buy a house, etc... Every time you blame something outside yourself, that in and of itself is the problem. Just like you did by saying, people dont realize... Shut up. Thats just cementing the excuse in your head, so you dont have to take responsibility for yourself. There are people in worse situations than you making friends. So your excuse is just that. There is nothing w…	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:39 AM
2	Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro... No. It is 100 percent all in your head. Changing the environment in your situation isnt going to do anything. You are 100 percent the problem. How you think about women. How you approach women. The women you go after, etc... People struggling with a thing, always try to turn it into a problem outside themselves. It is just an excuse, for not taking responsibility for yourself. Do you know how to talk to a human? Not necessarily a woman or a man. Once you do, you can talk to anyone. And the talki…	/r/seduction	02/09/24 12:14 AM
6	Guys with a reputation of being “that guy that only talks to girls”, how do you deal with it? Most humans reject your premise. This is made up in your head. Stop it.	/r/seduction	25/08/24 03:11 AM
5	Hooked up with this girl first time I met her, vibes were immaculate, now she doesn’t respond If you look for hookups, that's exactly what you will get in return.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 12:13 AM
1	Exhausted from Dating.. Honestly, I am not sure. I didn't realize this sub is literally just about hooking up. My personal experience is that if all you are after is sex, women will pick up on that, and have their walls up even more. I am sure there are hacks and shit to seal the deal, but I am not interested in hookups. I need to know and like the person I am with, before sex is desirable to me with that person. I know there are many women who are okay with one night stands, or flings, but I'd imagine there are many m…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 01:46 AM
2	Exhausted from Dating.. Are you looking to hook up, or are you looking for a relationship? If it's just to hook up. I have no idea. But, if you are looking for a relationship, you are going about this a bit wrong. My first guess would be, that the type of women interested in one night stands, or flings, or just hooking up, are the type of women who would most likely "ghost" you, or be unreliable in general (not all of course, simply saying more likely) as soon as there is another option. Why? Because if they are just w…	/r/seduction	23/05/24 07:35 PM
-9	Exhausted from Dating.. Not the greatest advice for dating. Most people looking for a relationship don't kiss on the first date. Going for the kiss should be the minimum end result of any first date (although you should be aiming to be bringing them back to yours at the end, to be honest). Your advice seems to be centered on having sex only. And the worst kind of sex, in my opinion. Because it is mostly non intimate sex. You don't even know the person. Might as well get a prostitute. At least the money spent will guara…	/r/seduction	23/05/24 07:29 PM
1	How to practice game with co-workers? I'm not talking about get them to bed, but mostly to make them friends and have a good time. Is anyone doing it? Your experience will be helpful. I agree with some of what you said. But, most people dont act like this. Most people develop relationships naturally. You talk to someone with no intentions other than maybe making a friend, if you gel together, you will naturally want to hang out more. Proceed from there. There is no need to force things, or over analyze everything. If anything. That just makes it worse. The more robotic and unnatural you behave, the less attractive you appear. Because you wont appear genuine at best, and despe…	/r/seduction	23/05/24 06:36 PM
4	I’m addicted to female attention. Look up what you need for a balanced life. Feeling good doesn’t just happen If one aspect in your life is going well, then move on to the next one. You can be into the attention/women all you want. But, how are your other aspects of life? Do you have close friends you can trust? Are you working on your heart health/mental health (not just your muscles)? Are your finances in order? Are you constantly learning and growing as a person? Do you have beliefs you are cultivating? I have a feeling that …	/r/seduction	22/05/24 06:14 PM
19	I’m addicted to female attention. What does this even mean? A person was vulnerable enough to share what they are actually feeling/thinking, instead of pretending to be "strong" or whatever. If, anything. THAT is what is wrong with men and women, historically. Everyone having to pretend to live up to preconceived stereotypes. Some people live terrible lives because they don't live up to some made-up ideals/expectations placed on them. This dude shared is real current state. Most people aren't even aware of themselves enough to e…	/r/seduction	22/05/24 06:03 PM
1	Am I too filthy for him? How old are you though? trying to keep this alive and hot since they’re away Real people don't think like this. You are worried he is going to forget about you, or stop being interested in you, if you don't send sexy messages, or pics, or whatever? That just makes it seem like you are immature and insecure. I don't think any healthy adults find that attractive. How about just acting like a normal person? Don't send unsolicited audio/pics/videso/etc... Don't do any sexting. Communicate normally. …	/r/seduction	20/05/24 10:02 PM
1	Am I too filthy for him? How old are you? How do you not already know that different people are different? What do you mean "keep this alive"? Why is that even your mindset? What are you trying to achieve? Is this just for sex? If you want a one night stand, or a fling, why aren't you choosing someone who is actually availabe in your area? If you are pursuing a more serious relationship, you shouldn't have to "keep this alive". And a man interested in a serious relationship, wouldn't respond well to that. Whatever it is…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 09:41 PM
1	She pulled away after sex on first date There is no game to play here. If she is interested in you, she will contact you. If she is ghosting you, it could be for many reasons. But, none of them matter. Someone who is interested in you, will figure out how to stay in touch with you. If her situation is so bad, she can't even text you? Then maybe she is more trouble than she is worth. I know it's hard to think rationally in this situation. But, come on now. Text? That is like the laziest/easiest thing to do. Even if you were extremely b…	/r/seduction	04/05/24 12:51 AM
4	How to get out of and avoid the friendzone. Thought this was pretty well done. Aww. Thats too bad. Now get over it, stop idolizing people. Its unhealthy. There are many women like her and better. Thats just the truth. The really amazing woman will actually like you back, have sex with you, and consistently be there for you in good times and bad. Until that happens, you have no real evidence in determining whether a girl, or human being for that matter, was special or not to you.	/r/seduction	13/04/17 06:15 PM