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| 2 | Addicted to sexual validation (idk If this is the right place idk if anywhere is)OMG I wasn’t going to say it but.. after a couple of weeks my therapist told me she was pregnant and that I would’ve been assigned to another therapist (after two years with her), I saw it as an opportunity to discuss (with the new one) about some of the objectives and goals I’d like to achieve in therapy, but I wouldn’t have had the confidence I had telling her if it wasn’t for the steps I’ve previously made with the other therapist. Remember that therapy is a relationship, and discussing about… | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Addicted to sexual validation (idk If this is the right place idk if anywhere is)Imagine you had a close friend in the same situation. What would you suggest him or her to do? I know how it feels when you have taboo topics with your therapist, I personally found helpful a couple of things I did with mine about a specific taboo topic for me: I once wrote a “letter” down, saying everything I wanted to say about it, handed it to her at the end of the session and left before she read it (I definitely would’ve handed it before, at the very start of the session), and once I only s… | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Question about a femaleI genuinely think you’re overthinking. I would suggest my point of view, what if she finds it difficult to maintain a conversation about herself for more than 15 minutes? There are people, especially in the workplace, who find it easier to speak about, I don’t know, sports, work-related stuff, facts, common interests, than “private life”. Continue being nice with her, however, if she is someone who makes an officially negative opinion about somebody in 20 minutes, it’s not you who has a problem.… | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:58 PM |
| 7 | How to balance “deep” intelligent conversation with lighthearted flirting?Once you’ve seen that expression changing, you already got her attention. You want to flirt? Listen to her too. That’s the only thing bro! Talk about everything you want, and talk about everything she wants, and listen back! Secondly, this is from especially my point of view (because I am the one who enjoys deep conversations) once you’ve built come confidence in talking and you also noticed you two have something in common, and that she’s comfortable with you, try to isolate the two of you, if … | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Addicted to sexual validation (idk If this is the right place idk if anywhere is)Hey there, I am reaching you out because I can see a lot of fatigue, pain and distress in the words you write. Therapy could help you; it is not supposed to change you, but it could definitely help with the distress you’re perceiving. I’ve been on therapy since the last two years, and also, I am a psychologist. It’s not the way we are that “is not okay”, that it’s making us shitty people; it’s the way we look at it that makes us feeling shitty (super different from /being/ shitty, that’s importa… | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 6 | How do you make the girl you like chase you?I definitely agree with every word and especially with the last one. Ask her out! Maybe start with grabbing a coffee or something simple and then build it up! I know nowadays it may sound like wasting time on someone if you take her out several times before being sure she likes you back the way you like her, but it’s not always sure we like someone if we don’t know them better. People find attractive different things and some of them might need to be discovered with smaller steps, as one might b… | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 11:32 PM |
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