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Maybe you're right. I'm not exactly mentally balanced. But then again, I don't see how a therapist can help me in this situation. I can't really be talked into not growing attached. Only medication could help me at this point. And I'm scared of it.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 10:35 PM
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23, almost 24.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 10:32 PM
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Trust me, I'm so emotionally damaged at this point I'm about to kill myself and yet, I can't just feel that way.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 10:31 PM
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I have blocked her and deleted her number. I always do it when dropping a girl. They never talk to me again. But here this shit just doesn't work.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:19 PM
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That's what kinda bothers me about TRP. It's always about becoming a typical Chad Pussyslayer but it doesn't seem to welcome guys who aren't into being mansluts.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:18 PM
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I admit I'm not exactly the guy that's approached by women a lot and I actually have to work to get a girl but still I fuck, and after having a taste of that Chad lifestyle I don't feel like it's for me. I just can't stop caring, even if quite literally two girls are talking to me right now.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:17 PM
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I've been living for 22 years without pussy and it's only made me a loser. Then I started slaying pussy once I learned how to do it and guess what, while I realize all that TRP baloney, I don't feel like I want to fuck random girl every week.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:14 PM
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I do all that but honestly getting laid without feelings is just not cutting it for me anymore. I had a bit of it but I guess I just don't want that anymore.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:09 PM
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So you're saying I should just keep hurting? I don't want to suffer.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:08 PM
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Zero fucks about me and she just texted me right now. And now I feel even more shit. Jesus christ this is a nightmare.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:07 PM
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I'd totally do that if only I wasn't a man because being a man always requires even the slightest effort to get another girl, and when you're in love with "the one" you just don't feel like making that effort. I can't even force myself to do it. I just want to stop caring. Bombarding myself with other girls usually worked but it just doesn't work this time. I wouldn't be here if it did. Not to mention how quite honestly the casual sex and dating has also kinda drained me at this point.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:29 PM
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I know, you're perfectly correct in fact. However, the issue here is... it doesn't work for me. I still can't stop thinking about her and the fact that I'm missing out on a girl that was perfect. And I wasn't perfect. I'll never be a big strong guy with a large cock. It's never going to happen. I don't want to fall in love with sluts but I do. HOW DO I STOP
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:27 PM
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The problem is, I've been making myself a good prospect for some time now. A good job, a decent education, okay/10 looks with some good clothes. I can get girls to meet with me, and even fuck me but for some reason I can never get a girl to want to stay with me. Even worse - those that do stay, turn out to not be looking for relationship with me but friendship at best (yeah even with benefits).
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:25 PM
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You're making it all about sexuality while it often isn't. I can see many other people who are in happy LTRs and it somehow works out for them. If you asked them whether they love each other and want to live forever, they'd say yes because that's how they feel. And there's a good chance that that's exactly what's going to happen. Even my family can serve as evidence. But even if we consider what you're saying, I still cannot force myself to just stop caring, hence this thread and my questions. I…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:22 PM
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You don't see these guys' relationships behind closed doors. if it's standard blue pill it's ALL keeping up appearances -- that's what the matrix is for. most of them are slaves to their wives in exchange for crumbs of intimacy -- if that's the dream to you, you're in the wrong place. I know how it looks because I've seen it. I've been living with couples, not to mention even my own parents. Yeah it's not perfect but it's good enough for me. You want a woman who holds you, tucks you in, makes yo…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:18 PM
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You can have relationships however be aware if you want to have a successful one, you have to keep your frame 24/7 in every possible situation otherwise she will dump you sooner or later. Do all the men who are in relationships really keep their "frame" 24/7? Do they always keep acting like a cool guy? In addition in which way do you benefit from an ltr? Gives me a feeling of being normal. It's just something I want. Some people want to drive a Ferrari, I want a relationship. You want what you c…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:14 PM
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I watched it. Doesn't quite work because it's not just a girl I've met like once and that's it. It's a girl I've been with for a while and spent time with her.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:10 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "dating mechanically". Either way, I have been with... many women. And been in a relationship with a few as well. And my biggest issue here is that this one is genuinely the best of them. She ticks all the boxes for what I've been looking for in a girl. With the previous girls I've actually been able to get them off my mind relatively quickly by just getting rid of all contact and finding a reason to hate them but here even though I've done all this, I can't stop th…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:01 PM
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You know, the thing is I'm actually totally up for providing the emotional stability. I want to do it actually. It's just that I want to do it for one girl. That's it. I want to be there for her.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:56 PM
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Oh fuck off. I seek help.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:54 PM
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No. I want to be normal. I want one loyal girlfriend. My friends and coworkers somehow have this and it's not like they have "surrogate mommies" as you call it. I just want that pure normalcy that comes from eating dinner with a gf, having sex, falling asleep in each other's arms, waking up in the morning, eating breakfast together and then me taking her to work. This is the ultimate dream of mine. I want this. Worst part is that I've had a taste of it and it felt so good it almost felt unreal.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:46 PM
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I think you assume I'm more than I really am. I wasn't happy. I've been living an unhappy life. I've been depressed for ages now, and even though I have passions and meet girls and have sex from time to time, I cannot get a proper relationship which is something I've been longing for. She actually gave me a taste of what a proper relationship looks like, not to mention how she was genuinely an interesting girl (something I thought is impossible...) but now she's gone. And for all I know she's al…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:43 PM
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What if I want it this way? What if I simply do not feel an internal need to have sex so much as I just want someone who cares about me?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:29 PM
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I know, it's not even the first time I had one. But good god this is the worst. I've never felt so ruined. It's even worse when she said she had other boyfriends for long term that she's loved but I'm just not the guy she loved. Even though everything she did pointed toward that. Now I feel like a shell of a man I once was. She gave me happiness and then she took it away. I guess the perfect way of explaining it is that "the higher you go, the more it hurts when you fall". I went pretty high wit…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:58 PM
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Of course it's a oneitis, I'm not saying no. But... from the objective point of view, she is the best I've had so far. And I can't find other girls because I just can't stop thinking about her. I wish I could but I just can't.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:56 PM
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I feel you but the truth is I don't want no other. There may be an abundance but I just can't go for any other girl. She is the one for me. And... no chance she'll ever come back to me because I deleted her number and unfriended her on facebook. I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm mad at her but I just want to forget. Worked for other women I've been with but here it's a goddamn nightmare. I can't stop thinking about her.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:47 PM
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