whatever13576569 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Can you buy love with money? There are many people in the world, there are people like that, yes. There are many factors that go into a situation, you might not be seeing the entire picture. The world is not as simple as this view you're describing. You need to find better people.	/r/MensRights	07/11/22 12:37 AM
1	Why is Reddit particularly anti-men, are there just more women and therefore more feminists here? I've been using Reddit for about a month, made an account a while ago to post a question, but I've actually just used it for the last month because I was bored. The social dynamic is weird on here. People will downvote others for factual statements and completely reasonable statements. So, don't concern yourself too much with these forums.	/r/MensRights	05/11/22 12:02 PM
6	Stop with the "Boys and men don't cry because of society's expectations". Yeah, if you're talking about crying, 100%...you might want to start using paragraphs when you write, though, I couldn't get through reading it all	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 01:23 AM
1	I was raped when i was 9 by a girl and she got no consequences. If she was 10 and she had that knowledge then she was probably being molested etc by some adult or something, probably on an ongoing basis. You're both victims in this case. Doesn't make it any better, of course.	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 01:10 AM
18	Men's rights activism is bullshit. Make up my mind You don't need to win an argument. Just have the point of view and let it be known. You're breaking the ice for other people, they might follow suit and start speaking up for themselves.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 09:28 PM
6	Hi everyone. We’re about to have a discussion about patriarchy in my college class, and I’d like to know what my best arguments against patriarchy would be, and which arguments would show there are instances which there is bias against men. Thanks! My son fell victim to the cold. The moth joke.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 02:17 AM
1	Question for all fellow men Ellen Ripley is my all-time favourite, if I could only meet a woman with all of her characteristics.	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 07:14 PM
3	A coincidence maybe, maybe not. How do I discuss abortion with my partner without getting the old "My body my choice, end discussion" Fight emotion with emotion, bud. Have a panic, you're not ready yet and that's true (doesn't need to be a promise for the future, but if that's what it takes, then you agree that it's too soon and you can try later, once you're married or whatever need be, again, not a real promise), you think this will ruin your relationship, etc. All the things you're saying in your post, just with your feelings. I mean, that's your best shot, the way I see it, getting her to agree to a future time when you're…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 02:00 PM
51	Question for all fellow men She's like Kim Wexler from Better Call Saul? Serious question: are you high? Alternatively, how dare you besmirch the character of Kim Wexler with such a comparison!	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 03:38 AM
13	Question for all fellow men I wouldn't call it propaganda, cause it's so poorly done amd that doesn't seem to be the purpose or motivation of the writers. To me, it's more like a bunch of woke people wrote themselves into some fantasy world where they can vent and their main character can be a Mary Sue who can do whatever they, sorry, whatver she wants. Like a child wrote a story..yeah! and then she can have ice cream for breakfast, and the mean kid at school, yeah, she can throw him in the garbage, oh no no wait, we shoul…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 03:33 AM
20	Question for all fellow men I watched all the episodes, mostly out of morbid curiosity, because it was so incredibly bad. It's one of the most poorly written shows I've ever seen. It's like a bunch of children wrote a show. I'd say it's pretty sexist in the sense that all the male characters are lesser people than the female characters. The men are sexist, idiots, assholes, perverts, etc. She-Hulk herself, Jennifer, is an awful character. She is a narcissist and is one of the most selfish characters I've ever seen. It's cr…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 03:18 AM
1	Emptiness and loneliness as a man It sounds like you're describing having weak character.	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 10:14 PM
2	Emptiness and loneliness as a man Yes, but I'd like to add that the external world is very important. It's just that you need to work together with it. And that does come from within like you said.	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 08:05 PM
1	Emptiness and loneliness as a man You know, if you're going to downvote what I'm saying, why not leave a comment and express yourself instead?	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 07:17 PM
-2	Emptiness and loneliness as a man Actually, he said you should focus more on figuring out why you feel this way and then try to solve the problem. And he just suggested that you join positive activities which help form community with positive people or which improve your personal life, which could be a solution to feeling this way. Maybe the way he said it isn't clear to everyone, but that's how I read it. Edit: for clarity.	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 05:13 PM
65	"Incel" is a false accusation It's just a standard character attack employed by people as a way to "win" an argument, nothing more in my eyes. They might as well be a kid on the playground saying something like "yeah, well you have stupid hair" in response to a valid argument.	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 04:06 AM
2	Am I being entrapped? Good, you know that some STDs take a while to show symptoms, right? So, you can only really be sure you didn't get something like HIV after like 30 days (very high probability you have nothing after that time...but also odds are you didn't get it from a single exposure). Not a doctor here, just telling you what doctors have told me. The responsible thing to do would be to not sleep with anyone else until you're cleared by your doctor.	/r/MensRights	21/10/22 06:41 AM
2	Am I being entrapped? First, you should always use a condom because there's disease and pregnancy, especially if you just met the girl. If this is how she behaves, she's more likely to have a disease. You can't stay hard using a condom? Come on dude. It sounds like she's scamming you for money. Luckily, she is unlikely to be pregnant from a single encounter, but it is possible. But again, she's probably sleeping with loads of other people. Stop engaging with her now, you sent her the money. The more you communicate w…	/r/MensRights	21/10/22 06:23 AM
21	What's the thaught on this piece. Clickbait. The comment they used as proof is something like "well that's the most unattractive thing I saw a woman do today". If there were so many negative comments, they would've added them to the article. As for the other comments that she works slowly..well, that's what I thought too, it's just true. Not because she's a woman, but because she literally worked slowly in the video they posted there. Anyway, seems like it's not a thing, just "edgy" modern "journalism".	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 06:44 AM
3	Dating isn’t worth it if you’re a ugly guy You need to meet people through groups of friends and communities so that they have the opportunity to get to know you. Dating apps and blind dates and these types of things didn't exist for the longest time and they create strange environments. I know a guy who has been married for thirteen years. He has more problems than you describe. But he's incredibly kind and genuine and his wife loves that about him.	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 03:16 AM
1	Henry Cavill hesitant to flirt so he doesn't get accused of sexual harrassment. Twitter then accuses him of being sexist for not flirting So my comment was upvoted and has since been downvoted Reddit tells me. Which is ridiculous. Do you want to be pragmatic or do you want to be reactive and emotional? Pragmatic: nothing happened, ignore some small number of people who had no effect.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 06:57 PM
7	Henry Cavill hesitant to flirt so he doesn't get accused of sexual harrassment. Twitter then accuses him of being sexist for not flirting This is from four years ago. Nothing came of it. This is just some journalists reporting on a small minority of comments...you should not give your valuable mental space to this.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 04:15 PM
16	Feel like I'm being Gaslight by society to think I'm some insane abuser... Crazy people will ruin your life bud, men and women. I have a checklist for detecting crazy people (which I'm not gonna type out haha just in case someone asks).	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 08:42 AM
115	Feel like I'm being Gaslight by society to think I'm some insane abuser... Get a lawyer, sounds like she has zero evidence of actual harm.	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 08:20 AM
12	The virtue-signalling men allowing women into Men’s Sheds Wow, good one! Who writes your material?	/r/MensRights	13/10/22 05:54 AM
13	Got typed as homeless last night, almost got talked to by security. Your a good bot.	/r/MensRights	12/10/22 03:24 PM
12	Got typed as homeless last night, almost got talked to by security. That's hilarious, I mean, you did look like a homeless person, honestly, I would love for that to have happened to me so that I could retell that story. I'm guessing your girlfriend probably didn't look homeless and the security guard connected the dots. Edit: And you were just this giant homeless looking guy standing outside the ladies room, looking suspicious lol...this is a harmless funny story to me bud	/r/MensRights	12/10/22 03:23 PM
10	We need to talk about this. Glad I don't live there then	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 09:58 PM
28	We need to talk about this. I'm pretty sure most people would think this is insane.	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 09:43 PM
0	The patriarchy paradox You're right about that type of data, you can get something useful. But what I mean is that these things create distorted environments that change the behaviour of people involved. For instance, on the app you have to enter a number for height. So, now it looks like everyone must be 6 foot tall. But, when you look around you, you see all sorts of combinations between men and women. It seems better to say that in general women prefer a man who is taller than them. I think it's important that we s…	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 06:40 AM
2	I'm sick of double standards You should learn not to care. When I hear people say things that don't make sense or are unfair, then that just teaches me about that person. That one person. You seem to be taking this very personally, these opinions. If you keep taking things people say personally, then you're gonna have a hard time bud... trust me, I know from my experience, most of us do, both men and women. If a five year old child says insulting things to me, I don't care, because they're five. Context matters. You get wha…	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 06:22 AM
6	(Statistics cited) Women are more likely to commit crime than people think. The reason most prisoners are men isn't simply because they commit crime more. Men get caught more. Hope you stole something cool	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 07:55 PM
1	The patriarchy paradox OkCupid is not a reliable representation of the real world and neither are the posts I read online or the videos I see. I saw a meme where a man tells a single divorced mother all the reasons why he is rejecting her (she asked). That meme was posted in a reddit feminist group and the comments were awful. There weren't lots of upvotes or a lot of overall interaction from the members when you consider the size of the sub, but there were tons of awful comments. Saw that same post on Facebook and wo…	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 08:33 AM
1	The patriarchy paradox Yeah, I see what you're saying, but I think I need to see the study. I think that's a pretty bold claim for them to make and I don't know how they would determine such a thing with actual proof, not just some postulation or theorising. It just feels like a normal thing; if I am walking past you, I am not thinking about your personhood unless we interact in some way, and even, there are levels to it. The world is incredibly complex, so my brain is constantly simplifying everything around me, I kn…	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 04:03 AM
1	The patriarchy paradox That seems like a very strong claim for a study to make. But, even so, I think this is constantly happening with all people, perhaps just on different metrics. I honestly don't notice people, both men and women, who don't stand out. I mean, I see them and notice details because I pay attention to my surroundings, but I mostly remember those who stood out.	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 03:53 AM
1	The patriarchy paradox I honestly don't understand your comment. Edit: Could you explain it in a different way.	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 03:45 AM
1	The patriarchy paradox That's interesting, but I suspect that's a general human trait.	/r/MensRights	08/10/22 03:14 AM
2	Do you think anti-male western culture will hit Europe and Asia too? It's a wonderful place to live. I lived there for 10 years.	/r/MensRights	07/10/22 07:43 PM
11	Do you think anti-male western culture will hit Europe and Asia too? Having lived in Korea, I'd say it's less likely there.	/r/MensRights	07/10/22 01:47 PM
1	Vocab matters - the terms "destructive feminism" and of course equally "destructive masculism", matter to get beyond kids-level shouting "yes/no", pointing fingers, "I'm right/you're wrong - no YOU're WRONG", Well, I really like it. It's so much better than the poorly defined "toxic" or simply using no adjective and just saying that, for instance, "feminism" is bad as a blanket statement (which it is not). It also opens the door to throw in the word "constructive" so that we can have a much clearer dichotomy which would lead to a much more balanced discussion...since it will force you to acknowledge both sides. It reminds me of yin and yang.	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 01:15 PM
5	Asked wife to seek therapy, therapist says I’m abusive. Ruh roh. Out of curiosity and since it's the title of your post. How exactly are you abusive according to her and her therapist?	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 05:52 AM
1	Manosphere "Alpha Male" Nonsense Yeah he admits it, that's his whole angle. This is how he makes a living is what I meant. It would be much better to learn about NPD from a trained professional.	/r/MensRights	03/10/22 08:07 PM
17	looking for opinions on this mess Journalists are always looking for a hot take...this is not a thing, I can't imagine anyone I know going along with this, it's your choice to pay.	/r/MensRights	03/10/22 12:23 AM
2	What can I do to be available and ready for when a man wants to express himself to me? Don't judge. I've had men and women tell me all sorts of things, because I don't judge them. View it as a challenge to understand and empathize with them. That's your goal.	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 10:10 PM
4	People are more sceptical of sex difference research when findings favour men - The British Psychological Society Interesting	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 04:25 PM
1	Question Depends how old you are. If you're only a year or two older, alright...if it's significant, then it's on you, I mean, how didn't you know?	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 04:18 PM
92	Upvote when you agree with comments, enjoy posts Also, remain objective and don't say crazy angry things.	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 04:15 PM
1	The main thing about incels is that their life is literally harder than everyone else's. In the purest sense. John?	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 01:50 PM
1	Incels are objectively right and I can't understand why so many anti-feminist people still fail for their propaganda. Thanks...and you're right, it sounds like quite a bizarre framing.	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 10:12 AM
5	Incels are objectively right and I can't understand why so many anti-feminist people still fail for their propaganda. I think he just made a statement using the appropriate scientific language; it's not gibberish since it makes sense. And it didn't seem like a quiet jump to say humans must be similar, I don't know what's controversial about that statement. Similar but obviously different too. Anyway, I don't really want to have a debate about incels, but I think this interesting. You're right, sexual selection is much more complex than just looks. Maybe it's better if we call it partner selection. Intelligence,…	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 04:16 PM
2	Woman's Disturbing Reaction to Man Calling Her out for Wrongdoing Shows an Infantilization of Society Hilarious	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:46 AM
2	Sarcasm Ahead: Mackenzie Scott (Jeff Bezos' former wife files for divorce from her second husband. I don't understand why your comment was downvoted. This is a fact.	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:41 AM
2	Manosphere "Alpha Male" Nonsense Didn't even watch the video, seen his work before. This guy is literally a toxic person who makes a living off of being an expert on toxic people.	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:24 AM
22	Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive? If someone says that to you, that you're only being nice for sex, then either they are insecure or you aren't truly being nice and your agenda is obvious. Bottomline, if you're a good guy, then just shrug off the people who treat you poorly.	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 01:17 AM
1	Introduction and a vent. Did only women dogpile you or show you a lack of support...or made you feel you couldn't open up...was it only women or did it also include men? In my experience, many people aren't great in those types of situations. I think realising that it isn't necessarily related to a gender might help you to feel less jaded. It also has to do with you and the people you choose to associate with. I view this as a positive, since it means that I can choose to associate with better people.	/r/MensRights	27/09/22 04:04 AM
-3	I hate Onlycunts... I think you could've written this in a better way, bud. The language and anger instantly takes away from what you're saying. Onlyfans is a choice. It's your choice to pay them money and I'm fairly certain all the customers know exactly what they're paying for, they're not helpless victims. Personally, I pity all the people involved, no matter which side of the camera they're on.	/r/MensRights	25/09/22 10:05 PM
16	Slowly coming to terms with what incredible cruelty and brutality I have experienced at the hand of women. Similar. I really grew when I truly realised how I was responsible for letting that continue to happen to me. Not that I'm at fault and they're not, they're not off the hook...what I mean is that, now, that will never happen to me again. I learned and can see how and why I allowed and tolerated all of that. I worked on myself and how I see and interface with the world. As you know, most people are flawed and you have to carefully pick the people you associate with (people who are flawed in a non…	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 06:40 PM
1	Who is more supported in academic men or women and are there any studies (credible) to support that. Define "supported"	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 06:10 PM
1	'She saw only toxic masculinity': Amazon Studios Head Jennifer Salke Reportedly Scrapped a Gritty Conan the Barbarian Series, Forced it To Move To Netflix Great, now Netflix can make an awesome opening scene and then follow it up with 80 minutes of a trash movie.	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 06:07 PM
3	my wife is killing me pt.2 You can blame her as much as you can blame yourself.	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 05:53 PM
2	False Rape Accusations are a Severe Form of Sexual Harassment I don't know how it's clearly worse, bud. False rape accusations are awful, of course, they create serious reputational damage and cause trauma. I think it's disgusting and people who falsely accuse others should be sentenced for such crimes. But physical assault instantly traumatizes people and can almost immediately cause PTSD and serious psychological conditions...and rape is the most egregious form of physical assault. Inmates in prison literally do this to others because it completely domin…	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 07:03 AM
0	False Rape Accusations are a Severe Form of Sexual Harassment How so?	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 05:44 AM
15	my female coworkers refuse to do physical labor and I had to clean up their mess Oh please, you're being a bully. This line of reasoning that he must now go and get a verbatim quote/confession or it's just his perception and, as such, isn't valid is a bullshit line of reasoning. He's answered your questions. Oh and you'll give him one more chance to answer these questions or else he's full of shit?! Wow, how magnanimous of you! Is this how you win arguments? You just wear people down by sticking to the same unreasonable point and repeating yourself? That's rhetorical, don't …	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 05:02 AM
16	my female coworkers refuse to do physical labor and I had to clean up their mess This post and the example of women making coffee would fall under some form of sex discrimination rather than sexual harrassment. Sexual harrassment must have some kind of sexual component to it, whether that is foul language, comments, quid pro quo, unwanted physical contact, etc.	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 04:37 AM
2	False Rape Accusations are a Severe Form of Sexual Harassment It's a very interesting way to frame it and I would love to see this used in a court. Sidenote. "A false accusation is worse than rape" Might want to dial it back on that part, bud.	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 04:16 AM
0	I don't know how I feel anymore Well, the original commenter understood me and I'm sure you do too.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 04:34 PM
-1	I don't know how I feel anymore Still, I think that answers your question.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 03:11 PM
0	I don't know how I feel anymore There's an entire world full of people and there are places where women have significantly less rights.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 01:45 PM
3	Should the masculinity of men in relationships with mega-feminists be questioned? Men are men. What you're describing exists in both men and women, it's a certain personality type and a certain relationship dynamic.	/r/MensRights	20/09/22 10:35 PM
2	Ukranian women might finally have equality since 1th October There's no point in this speculation. Wait until something actually happens, then talk about it .	/r/MensRights	20/09/22 10:30 PM
1	"Why I love being a man", or "bottling everything up". She was probably already stressed out and then when this was mentioned it felt like another item was added to her list of things to take care of/worry about, so the she took out her stress on her husband.	/r/MensRights	18/09/22 08:47 AM
1	Your parents discriminating your partner is okay if the partner is man Fair enough, agree to disagree	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 08:00 PM
1	Your parents discriminating your partner is okay if the partner is man Well, I can't find that comment. Anyway, the boyfriend's reactions made such little sense to me that I suspected this story was made up.	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 07:03 PM
0	Your parents discriminating your partner is okay if the partner is man How is paying rent jumping through hoops? He's saving $200 by only paying $400 rent for a nice place...that he gets to live in...the poor guy. He's not being singled out, he's not family. And he doesn't have to prove his loyalty, just that he's not a freeloader. The fact that he wants his girlfriend to pay makes zero sense.	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 06:08 PM
1	Your parents discriminating your partner is okay if the partner is man The boyfriend is the asshole. He's getting a good deal paying less rent for a better place. The father is just paying his child's rent and his logic and reasoning is sound. I don't even understand why the boyfriend is upset, I would've been ecstatic to get such a sweet deal at that age.	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 05:58 PM
5	Being a male teen in 2022 Add paragraphs; a block of text is incredibly unpleasant to read, so most people won't read this post.	/r/MensRights	12/09/22 05:42 PM
3	Should I take this girl out to an expensive restaurant on Friday? I don't know man, sounds like you're not really into this. Maybe you should focus on taking out a new girl on a date instead, at least there's some unknown potential in that case.	/r/MensRights	28/07/22 03:43 AM