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Debatewhatever8482/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:02 AM
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Girl math
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:03 AM
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I genuinely think it’s like women who read too much erotic literature and then get turned off when their man doesn’t act like the werewolf vampire murderer from their story
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:18 PM
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She didn’t tell me it was because of that until after. She had refused to do activities with me like 6 times in a row. That’s why I cried, because I felt bad for being fed up with her when it was for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:17 PM
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Ok and you’re into dressing up like a little girl and acting like a child when you have sex. Youre clearly just a distorted person with warped views of sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:15 PM
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Well yeah you’re a solipsistic non interventionist and are only concerned with your individual freedom to do as you wish. There’s nothing wrong with telling people their reasons for ending a relationship are idiotic and that they shouldn’t do it. If I randomly get bored of my sweet girlfriend of 2 years and leave her and break her heart unexpectedly instead of finding out why I felt that way and trying to do something to fix it/fix myself and rationalize why I felt a certain way, am I at all mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:55 PM
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Her continual refusal to do dates and activities without giving me a reason was harming me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:45 PM
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Youre dissenting just because. What I said is right in general. That’s not the point anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:43 PM
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I don’t know, but women have claimed to get the ick from it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:20 PM
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Just need to blackpill more men tbh and the tides will shift
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:40 AM
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Guys don’t have icks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:32 AM
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I’ve not seen a single man saying it’s unfair that they were rejected for bad hygiene or being racist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:32 AM
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Ok so you really aren’t interested in having a well functioning society that has good relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:31 AM
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Uhh a lifetime of observation isn’t a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:30 AM
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Yeah they want a submissive man and won’t treat him well whatsoever. Look at the quality of those relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:27 AM
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Responding to my post that is clearly talking about a certain type of ick with a different kind of ick is assuming the first position
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:26 AM
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not just one example. 2 other relationships and many observed experiences over the years Ive lived
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:11 AM
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Why would any guy complain that women reject guys for the icks they mention like having bad hygeine or being racist? thats just nonsensical and such a bad assumption to make and its clear Im talking about the little icks that make a guy seem emasculate. It's bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:11 AM
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yes it does make sense. Arguer: Having icks is not a problem Respondent: Well most icks are absolutely ridiculous Arguer: Well im actually talking about not liking a guy for stomping a puppy dead
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:08 AM
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she didnt tell me that was the reason until after
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:43 AM
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so if a guy does something cringe its good reason to break up w him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:32 AM
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she didnt originally tell me it was because of that so i felt bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:31 AM
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cried because i felt bad that i kept getting angry w her for not wanting to go on dates because she was too anxious and insecure to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:44 AM
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ok well if you don't understand why are you commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:30 AM
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do you think you could get an avg guy laid in VR?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:28 AM
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I agree with you but I think the status thing is tricky sometimes. Girls will go crazy for guys who do some masculine profession but are actually low status af. Oil rig workers, firefighters, military, lumberjacks, etc. I suppose they have status in that everybody generally thinks of a masculine caricature when they think of these things, but these guys are usually low earning. If you have some high paying job that has a name women dont understand like data analyst or cloud architect that ain't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:27 AM
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im talking about small blameless icks like talking to your cat in a baby voice. Also you write like you're young
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:20 AM
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I don't think its completely over any time you do something emasculate but you should definitely steer clear. The problem is, over the course of the relationship, even the most masculine man will crack at some point in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:18 AM
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then thats not the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:17 AM
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I'm referring to the real definition of icks before men criticized women for having them which caused them to open the definition to make it seem reasonable. Getting the ick over a guy talking in a baby voice to his cat is different than if the guy has maggots in his apartment. One is unreasonable, the other isn't. You already know this though https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motte-and-bailey_fallacy#:~:text=The%20motte%2Dand%2Dbailey%20fallacy,(the%20%22bailey%22))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:16 AM
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Online it is by far the most prevalent thing that underlies any argument or debate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:13 AM
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I'm just comparing them in the sense of creating an image of somebody and then it being shattered. Men don't even get the ick or instantly lose attraction for basically anything other than cheating or finding out she was a ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:12 AM
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my last girlfriend on one of our first few dates i threatened to kill somebody for slapping her car while she was driving. Later in the relationship i cried in front of her about things that were going on between us and she gave me this contempt that was clearly the ick in real time. It's literally less risky for your relationship to be extremely violent than it is to be emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:10 AM
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Yeah but if im a young man im going to look at what young women are saying casually to assess the landscape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:07 AM
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Originally none of the ick stuff was ragebait really. Now you see it being used as such but if you were on tiktok when it first came up like a year ago they weren't baiting or trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:01 AM
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So you admit that you get the icks I’m talking about lmaooo but you’ll only say the icks that are reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:49 AM
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I’ve been looking for a term for this forever, wow. This is women’s favorite thing to do in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:48 AM
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It’s not all rage bait lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:44 AM
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I’m referring to different icks. I edited my second para with some examples. Why would anybody ever go after a woman for not like a reckless smelly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:43 AM
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Then you’re not porn brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:30 AM
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That’s the icks I’m talking about and what ick originally meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:18 AM
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I honestly go to clubs to experiment with the pills irl and to just troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:17 AM
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Yeah this kind of thing only really happens on reddit and in weirdo spaces. Women overwhelmingly want a masculine man and men overwhelmingly want a feminine woman. No amount of little quirks and stuff will offset that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:16 AM
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I’m clearly talking about icks you see on social media like going to a trampoline park
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:12 AM
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I really wonder how a woman would go about talking to women as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:52 AM
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yo i never thought of that. brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:41 AM
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I'm so redpilled that i usually treat women worse than men in social situations tbh. Every guy has this simping instinct that I need to counteract
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:40 AM
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4
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:38 AM
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So then you’d come to PPD and agree with us? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:37 AM
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spawn them into a nightclub at 11pm, three drinks deep with a 3 hour timer to get a girl to take home. a SAW trap
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:34 AM
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you would trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:33 AM
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no you get your male twin's brain but with your knowledge. So for you, the personality is likely bad...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:32 AM
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Self improvement lock in stuff is such a cope. Successful people are degenerates and always have been
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:29 AM
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What would you do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:24 AM
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It wasn’t an offer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:23 AM
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Don’t even remember, probably just sent out some joke message saying wanna fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:22 AM
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My face is a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:22 AM
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It's different with men cuz you don't want the guy to fight you, but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:18 AM
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Guys have the same in group bias though ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:17 AM
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girls think thats weird too lol. They have some morals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:16 AM
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I can understand it tbh. Imagine you're a girl that gets messaged a bunch but the guys you always go on dates with always are obviously just trying to bang or are just weirdos who say lame shit. If you've gone on dates with women to actually date them and not just bang its exhausting too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:13 AM
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tbh ugly men should be classed as a separate disadvantaged race
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:11 AM
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once AI and VR gets better we're going to put all women in a simulation of being an average man for a week and trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:10 AM
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im banned from tinder bumble and hinge guys... is it over
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:08 AM
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I never know where to go outside lmao. It's not the 90's anymore where people are looking to socialize outside, and im not into any stupid hobby clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:08 AM
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I mean, that's like recommending therapy to somebody who realizes the job market is bad and unfair, and complains about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:04 AM
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it shows that they're true lol. You think I want to believe all this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:18 AM
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Because its the final nail in the coffin to all this discussion, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:17 AM
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It's just the reality. It's harder for me to trust women now, its harder for me to like women that are in some way different from the ones I've been with, it's harder for me to see sex as something that's romantic and a bonding experience. If i could go back i wouldn't have dated 2/3 of these women because I didn't learn anything from them, just accrued damage. Some things have no upsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:07 AM
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I have had the same opinions since i was a 15 year old virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:05 AM
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First two we didn’t have sex. I do have baggage and I do regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:49 PM
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Low quality chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:49 PM
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I gym, haircut, have good fashion good hygiene. There’s a ceiling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:31 PM
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Much less than now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:30 PM
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Have been in 3 in the last two years and I didn’t treate them like objects
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:30 PM
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I’m average looking. So lemme just get rich n famous so I can get chicks. So realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:17 PM
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This society and culture is just completely garbage. I refuse to put in effort and continually humiliate myself just for some sex or a relationship with a used up chick. I can get it if I really, really try, but why should I have to? I don’t think I’m being prideful in saying this and I don’t think it’s lazy either. I just have self respect and It’s a waste of time and effort. If I was treated fairly in dating I would participate but I’m not so I won’t. By fairly I mean regularly finding girls w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:13 PM
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Exactly so the self improvement you’d suggest to me is to get rich and famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah I’ll pass on the women who have been “disrespected and abused” (pumped and dumped) from dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:03 PM
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Dudes don’t get offered anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:59 PM
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The only problem is that you bury yourself socially when you do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:58 PM
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Men want fulfilling romantic relationships just as much or more than women, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:56 PM
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Oh look it’s the woman just talking about her ex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:55 PM
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I’m very emotionally connective for a man to the point where it’s emasculate and women don’t really like it, they don’t like when I’m emotionally disconnected either. And no, I’m not saying I love you after a first date or something. Being all emotionally connected turns some women off but they also dislike when you don’t care about them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:55 PM
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100 years ago everybody was married by like 20, and it worked well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:53 PM
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The internet is what allowed people to not keep up to the pretense of civility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:43 PM
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It’s not because they want sex more it’s because women’s standards for sex and dating are wayyyy higher than men’s. Women can be absolute losers and still get a good bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:41 PM
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Yeah but it’s like 5% women and 50% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:34 PM
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Wow so makeup clothes and just actually responding to guys instead of being too shy. Gee golly. If that’s all it took for men I’d be rolling in pussy rn. I’ve done all the same self improvement as you in the male way (got haircut, nice clothes, became not shy, learned game) and much more but it hasn’t yet worked all that well. Perhaps it is just easier for women. Do you care to entertain that at all? Or are you going to let your ego get in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:23 PM
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lol so what’d you even do? Lmaoooo. Went to therapy and talked in circles with another woman about how special you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 05:21 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:25 AM
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yeah yeah all the gay redpill advice. The real answer is there is none worthwhile and so you naturally just give up. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. If you have to try very hard its genuinely better to not try at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:28 AM
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because its your face that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:14 AM
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humiliation ritual retardation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:12 AM
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unless your face is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:09 AM
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no all you had to do was not be fat and not be a cunt. What was your big self improvement? did you have to get a stem degree? did you have to lift for 3 years, counting calories, sleeping 8 hours every day? did you have to go out and challenge yourself to make friends with strangers by your initiation? did you try to cold approach guys to get better at dealing with rejection? no you didnt. Your self improvement was like losing 10 lbs and reading a book
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:08 AM
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I genuinely think that like 1/3 of men have just opted out of dating and social life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:06 AM
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They literally haven't. You're telling me in medieval and renaissance era until like 1960 dudes were making up elaborate autistic plans to lift and practice game and get all this aesthetic shit done just to get a wife? What the fuck are you talking about? Before this men just existed and got a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:05 AM
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like 80% appearance tbh. I've never been around some good looking guy who actually had really good game that I couldn't easily perform myself or even better. It was just his looks. If you're good looking it barely matters what you say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:02 AM
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its not really with women i want. I can bang whores. I can date chicks who I hate. I can't find a chick who actually matches my SMV and has morals and that I like. So now i gotta put out more lines, make an aesthetikkk instagram. fuck offff. If i was simply very above average I could get whatever I want. If my culture encouraged marriage and loyalty I'd have what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:59 AM
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So true. Women always think they’re talking to ugly fat Chud on the internet when we’re all just normal guys with normal social skills. Your average NPC gets as little as us but genuinely doesn’t even realize how bad all this shit is. No historical knowledge, no knowledge of how much Chad gets, no knowledge of how women actually view men, never view what they do as pathetic, never think of the cost to reward ratio, never think about marrying, etc. they just get laid once in awhile and think it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:54 AM
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Yeah well tbh I don’t really care about those things. I’m not instagramming because some vain woman will think I’m freaking cool and fun to hang out with. It’s just not me. I’m not like that and I don’t feel like playing this stupid ass game. Then if that doesn’t work the goalposts will get moved somewhere else. The problem is that I have to do this stuff. How can you miss that point? Jump through hoops and put on a social charade just for some ran thru mid chick who’s infected by modern culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:50 AM
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Everything is gay now and I’m banned from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:06 PM
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They think dudes just go outside like them and sit pretty somewhere and just have people talk to them 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:03 PM
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Just Going outside doesn’t work when you’re an ugly man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:02 PM
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Everything you have socially was given to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:40 PM
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Had friend groups since hs / early college I bet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:21 PM
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Making friends as a male is much harder than you think. As a woman you get inducted into friend groups much easier. You’ll say this is wrong but it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:09 PM
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Did you ever go out alone and randomly make friends by your initiation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:03 PM
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Woman who’s never done that:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:56 PM
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I do that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:55 PM
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That’s true tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:01 AM
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I lowkey think I have that. Been thinking about it for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:55 AM
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This is so midwit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:52 AM
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Have you ever stopped and actually thought about what that entails? Like truly. Guys here aren’t lying when they say stuff about how bad it can be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:51 AM
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That’s delusional. You ever won a fight or won a sports game? Did you not feel like a beast? That was you feeling masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:50 AM
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Not for women n good looking dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:48 AM
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Seems like every normie does this risky stuff though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:48 AM
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Yeah women’s selection is terrible. This is why every serious society chose for them for thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:47 AM
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Most people meet on dating apps now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:44 AM
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You come off as a person who wouldn’t exist if there were any real natural selection pressures
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:44 AM
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I know but I’m really not gonna go lower than that. Those are already lowered standards. The game is just hard if your face isn’t great
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:41 AM
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I think status can somewhat be described as aesthetic. Women like skaters, outdoorsy guys, military guys, fighters, firefighters, criminals more than a guy who makes 80k at a boring office job. These aren’t high status at all, often they’re actually low status everywhere but dating, but it gives women this hot archetype to think about. Often high status roles are the ones romanticized and lusted over by women I.e. doctors, lawyers, CEOs, pilots, etc but it’s not always the case. This is why it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:38 AM
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Just go make an account on tinder with an actual average guy and try to get a date from a decent looking woman. (You will never actually do this)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:32 AM
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lol do you think it’s just easy to be that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:30 AM
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Cus all women want high achieving men when they are complete losers, and not even non promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:29 AM
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Then why do women orgasm more with a rich man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:28 AM
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Well if you’re young it can work. That is the only exception. Just be first theory is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:21 AM
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The guy she wants will have the instinct to not marry her. The guy that doesn’t have the instinct she won’t want. Yet she’s still prideful lol. It’s like watching a kid who thinks they’re cool for not wearing a helmet falling off their bike
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:20 AM
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Reddit does a good job of convincing you that the average user is a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:16 AM
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They’re all high n count or ugly or fat or single moms or just stupid. First two gfs were super socially anxious virgins, third was a BPD chick with severe weed addiction and high n count. My looks standard is not high. I just want a girl who’s not promiscuous, is mildly in the right direction in life, and is extremely trustworthy. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:12 AM
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Men need an in group agreement about a less degenerate culture. I admire that women are so good at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:11 AM
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Actors should just all be very attractive people. Nothing wrong with it. I just want male fashion models to be average looking so I can actually compare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:10 AM
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Yk one day you’ll have to find a husband right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:08 AM
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Probably somewhat true, but I still deserve to be communicated with, even if I am a certain way. I treated even my most horrible girlfriend with the same level of respect when it came down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:07 AM
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We’re back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:56 AM
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Probably cuz you’re ignoring her downfalls. Lemme guess she has super high n count or is actually ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:55 AM
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I’m 21. I know the perfect woman doesn’t exist, every guy secretly believes in the perfect unicorn even if they don’t admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:54 AM
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Suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:27 AM
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Everyone who votes trump is a freaking scumbag!!!! Shut the fuuuuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:20 AM
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So just like lazy boring consumerism. I’m not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:17 AM
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I’m happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:08 AM
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Avg to below avg looking men, how are you coping? I’ve been blackpilled since I was 16 and I really can’t get over it. Getting to the point where I’m just angry and tired all the time. Even when I have a girlfriend I can’t get over it. The demands of acting a certain way constantly are too much. I’m moody and impulsive and emotional and clearly irk my girlfriends or prospects and can tell the exact moments I do it. I’m driven even more crazy by never receiving feedback from them because they nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:57 AM
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I really don’t care what some biased study measuring something abstract has to say. What about trump is even explicitly right wing anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:14 AM
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The difference between mainstream right and left is actually so little because the right has caved to all the demands of the left. Immigration for example trump wants to give PR to every immigrant who completes a degree, will allow a bunch of immigration anyways. The left just allows all of it. And these normies fight tooth and nail over these differences, it’s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:41 AM
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I like to think if anybody on the planet had a gun to their head and needed to make 10 friends in a month they’d be able to do it. Just need that intensity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:22 AM
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Wow the weekly post telling men to stop complaining and to devote their entire lives to getting women if they REALLY want women 😏😏 I’m not rich I’m likely going to make a higher than average wage after college and I’m average looking but fit. I don’t get shit. The levels to this are crazy, that’s what nobody talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:18 AM
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Should I just go out alone? Anyone done this regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:15 AM
0

Becoming social is exponential too as soon as u make some friends u make more n more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:16 PM
1

Anyone can choose to act however they want doesn’t mean they aren’t affected by underlying stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:29 PM
1

And that’s the extent of it. How many women do you actually know who are even really deeply into those hobbies? Most treat them casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:22 PM
1

Not directly obviously, but it made me less of a loving person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:20 PM
1

Yeah I’ve only said that 6 times
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:13 PM
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I find that there’s always a little more to the story than he was abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:05 PM
-1

Not really you can catch up socially in like a month
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:56 PM
0

Women are doing better as in they have 4 year degrees and make 55k at a fake job vs men working labor jobs making 45k
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:55 PM
4

Women either do cosmetics, read porn, do yoga, or art. And they all do these 4 or so things. Men have a much wider range of hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:53 PM
4

No woman has to think about self improvement other than not being fat (optional) and learning to do her makeup (optional). Inb4 women come here and tell me about how they were losers (they were ugly and fat and socially anxious) and they self improved (lost weight, stepped outside) to the same degree men have to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:27 PM
6

I almost never meet women with real hobbies that they are really into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:24 PM
1

Word words words words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:59 PM
1

Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:37 PM
1

Maybe that’s a problem maybe that’s why divorce is so high and infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:37 PM
2

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and I should’ve just left when I got the gut feeling earlier on but I didn’t. I’m not gonna act like she was some master manipulator. I knew the cards and didn’t trust myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:36 PM
1

Fake
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:34 PM
1

Is it working yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:33 PM
1

You can’t anymore otherwise you’d have to deal with shame
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:32 PM
1

So long as he didn’t take advantage of it and was smart yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:32 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:31 PM
1

I didn’t say satisfied I said the best. Wife deserves to know she’s the best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:31 PM
1

“If I write it hyperbolically it sounds good”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:31 PM
1

They were clearly jealous and didn’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:30 PM
1

I’m living with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:29 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Very well put
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:07 PM
2

Women cheat more than men in dating in their 20’s and teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:06 PM
-1

I know what it is I just really don’t care. Fallacies are flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:49 PM
1

Because she has to know she wasn’t my first and might not be my best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:48 PM
0

Or we could just do the opposite and expect everyone to be responsible but women don’t like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:46 PM
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Nobody cares when a dude picks the wrong girl and they blame him rightfully so. But with women we’re all supposed to kneel and coddle them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:29 PM
2

Tbh I’m in the exact same position at work. I don’t talk to EVERYBODY so when I go talk to some chick it’s obvious why. Who cares though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:27 PM
3

Tbh the showing emotion debate has a lot of nuance. You can show emotion but only in a really limited way. If you’re a man who really has it together, you won’t have the need to show emotion in a way that would give her the ick anyways. I can imagine if I were a woman and my husband came home crying that he got bullied at work I’d think he’s a pussy. He shed some tears after his parent died? Not really. As long as he didn’t start bawling and ugly crying or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:22 PM
2

A shoulder to cry on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:19 PM
1

Go talk to her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:18 PM
-5

I mean, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:15 PM
1

I do that everyday I’m doing it right now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:15 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:09 PM
5

Men love deeper than women do for sure. It’s not too hard to understand how and why if you really know the mental frame of women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:06 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:03 PM
1

Bet there’s this little rock bar near me I’ll swing by around 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:02 PM
1

Hey but wanna grab drinks later?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:59 PM
1

You don’t understand thought experiments and principal analogies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 PM
1

So basically you just have to never think about it otherwise you’d feel disgusted. Is that any way a couple should have to be towards eachother?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 PM
1

Go off queen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:53 PM
1

I’m black btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:53 PM
1

I’m angry because I have reasons for the things I believe 🤯🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:53 PM
1

What I said champ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:52 PM
1

You aren’t smart enough to understand my real response ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:33 PM
1

Good girl :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:32 PM
1

Avg DnD player
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:32 PM
1

That was so witty DARNIT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:31 PM
1

Ok find a husband and have kids okay lady? Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:30 PM
1

I’m literally 6’5 140 how am I a twink
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:29 PM
1

lol lol lol lol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:28 PM
1

Lmaooo probably
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:28 PM
1

Waaaaah waaaah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:27 PM
1

Based*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:27 PM
1

Find a good man and drop out and have kids and play with them. Its your imperative
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:27 PM
1

Watch a sextape of your wife with a prior partner and tell me you wouldn’t feel gross
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:26 PM
1

Wow it’s almost like you can’t see abstract things and internal processes 🤓🤓🤓. I’m not angry, jealous, or upset either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:25 PM
1

Just quit your job and be a woman. Stop with the excel and the spreadsheets
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:24 PM
1

Nah already typed it to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:23 PM
1

Oh darn I can’t be dictator of the world and choose how people feel. Guess I shouldn’t have any morals or opinions on anything anymore 🤕🤕. Wait, why are you even arguing with me if you can’t dictate how I feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:22 PM
1

Would you not feel any kind of disgust at watching a sextape of your wife and her past partners??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:21 PM
1

lol lol lol lol lol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:20 PM
1

So I’m going to go to therapy and… have a woman tell me to think like a woman. I don’t have any emotional or psychological problems and I feel fine every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:19 PM
1

My future girlfriends and me, in a larger but lesser sense, everybody I know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:18 PM
1

Everyone can do whatever they want whenever they want and if you challenge it it’s because of some kind of trauma bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:17 PM
1

Ok I did you didn’t say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:15 PM
1

I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:15 PM
1

Now it’s trauma lol. You’re ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:14 PM
1

Read the comment who asked I answered them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:13 PM
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Ruins pair bonding, it’s gross to any future partner who thinks about it, misuse of natural process, risking abortion, changes the way you see people, ruins the specialness of the sex you will have with future partner, caused sex to often end up being worshipped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:08 PM
1

If instead of having morals and feeling guilty about things you instantly just move past it by never thinking about it again you further move yourself into an immoral position and losing real identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:07 PM
-9

No you have a level 1 understanding of all this stuff and I don’t feel like explaining. Promiscuity is worse than you could ever know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:05 PM
-15

Pick better men. That’s literally the only burden women have and they can’t even make the right decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:05 PM
1

I’m actually not a faggot so I won’t be talking to a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:04 PM
1

I think that women can’t process it so they just avoid it forever. Probably makes them feel better but long term isn’t worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:03 PM
1

What’s so wrong with shaming yourself? Is it so wrong to feel bad about stuff you’ve done? And don’t act like people even feel shame for what they’ve done and moved past it nobly. They just never did
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:02 PM
1

But it’s fine to be anxious about impressing ur boss? Lol. Women should just be at home for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:01 PM
1

You didn’t even say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:00 PM
1

Never see them online. I do understand the other values. I had them for a long time. I can understand them and still reject them you know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:00 PM
1

Fellas is it gay to have morals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:59 PM
1

Because I have a moral compass past not directly harming other people. It’s unfair to my later wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:52 PM
-19

You don’t understand how bad it is to be promiscuous is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:51 PM
2

U shouldn’t have voting rights
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:24 PM
2

U should feel this way about a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:23 PM
1

Lies, able to convince themselves of any morals, having bad morals, not caring about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:23 PM
-4

Why do women never admit that things they did/do were/are disgusting? Every girl with a ran up n count or that has done sexually degenerate things will never say that she is disgusted with herself and trying to live better because of the shame. They always say something like “I’ve learned to be a better person from these experiences! :3” It’s like they completely reject just feeling guilt, like it’s wrong or forbidden to feel guilt for anything. Like it’s self love to never feel shame or guilt. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:18 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:12 PM
-21

Obviously when you reduce nuance to a level that simple the choice is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:42 PM
-48

Their marriages will be bad because they are modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:43 PM
-4

I’d get some mid level uni degree, while remaining a virgin, preferably meeting a husband while in college. Then I’d work for a bit and probably eventually become a stay at home mom or do part time work while raising kids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:42 PM
1

It’s waaaaaay deeper than just testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:20 AM
1

It’s extremely easy for a woman to do the numbers thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 AM
1

It’s not hard to hide lies. You probably get tugged around by your wife and don’t even realize it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:09 PM
0

Did you even read the comment chain? I don’t want a girl who likes to club, women will lie about not liking clubbing and then Trojan horse you later into the relationship. What’s so hard to follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:07 PM
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What if she says it and he secretly keeps doing it. All your comments have this naive worldview that nobody lies and it’s so easy to discern and just leave. Have you ever dated a woman? She’s going to gaslight you, probably unintentionally about some misbehaviour that you don’t like eventually and you cant just definitively say when it represents something you’re not ok with and something you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:05 PM
0

It’s not immoral to sexually advertise and put urself in cheating scenarios when u have a bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:56 PM
0

Women lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:55 PM
1

Watching sports and dancing in a mini skirt in a crowd of horny guys is different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:54 PM
2

Wow you found me a convoluted way to find a girl who doesn’t club that goes against everything I do? There goes all my complaints!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:52 PM
-2

Nice admission lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:58 AM
5

I’m well involved in my hobby, boxing, I participate regularly and am one of the better members in the gym. There just really aren’t a ton of girls here. This hobby takes up most of my hobby time, and it’s the hobby I’m interested in. If I had a gun to my head I’m sure I could obsessively join a bunch of hobbies and fit them into my schedule and eventually find some with girls in them, but at that point what am I even doing? At that point it’s really not worth it and it’s just humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:57 AM
1

I did that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:52 AM
1

I believe you but just know you could be sour grapes’ing it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:51 AM
1

I am not advocating violence you’ve been stirred to wicked imaginings. You say stripping away rights as a way to muddy the language for it to sound so severe. The right to vote is given by the state and it is a privilege that should be used to properly elect the right leaders. It’s very different from other rights. Should everybody be allowed to vote? Felons aren’t allowed to vote. Why? Because they’ve demonstrated in some way that they have a hindered capacity of understanding and following the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:03 AM
1

Why not dance at home with friends and music and drinks? What’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:52 AM
-4

That’s the entire depth of your thought? There could be no other obstruction than that? Why don’t homeless people just get jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:51 AM
-2

so then why include the night out part? what does the "night out" add to the dancing? Why does the dancing become more pleasurable on the night out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:45 AM
10

Wow if only I have thought of that. Can you not construct in your own mind why that is hard to do? Try to right now please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 AM
-2

I agree with you, so why do women say they just go for a night out to dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:41 AM
1

You know I'm right haha, but it probably won't be in my lifetime and that's fine. I'd rather live a sacrificed life of sticking to my morals then desecrating myself for some fake and fleeting satisfaction. You would looooove if everybody who dislikes what goes on now just accepted it and tried to fit in. Really shows your personal character, and also why you shouldn't vote
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:40 AM
3

I and many others have observed that women only don't go clubbing because they are either unconfident, anxious, or don't have a social group to do it with. They sour grapes it until the opportunities are actually there. When the opportunities arise, they immediately jump on them. There is a subset of people who don't, that is true, but how can you know who is being honest with themselves about what they say about their desires and who isn't? 2/3 of the girls I have dated have said they don't lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:36 AM
-2

Lol, I know what the definition of an emotional affair is to you. The real definition of an emotional affair is the preference of any other male's attention over your man's. That is the truest and most precise definition of an emotional affair. I am willing to believe that you genuinely, strictly go to bars n clubs and do not, in any way, feel drawn to the attention of other men. But to approach that in any capacity even as collateral (i.e. going to the club) is unwise and immoral. To expect a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:27 AM
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Everybody likes clubbing. Its fun, especially when you're a girl. Just like everyone likes having sex with a bunch of attractive people. You just don't do it when you're in a relationship. Why are you acting like going to the club is some deep imbedded personality trait that people have and it makes them so profound? They can literally just stop doing it and would if they had respect for their partners. Is the concept of just stopping yourself from following all your desires all the time alien t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:16 AM
0

I really don't care how you see me. The way I think was the norm for all of history and is on the rise right now. If you think we're in some childish fairy pixy land where dressing is for the expression of personality you need to mature. Nobody thinks your clothing is so profound and such an expression of who you are as a person past teenage years, nobody is really that interested outside of niche communities online filled with losers. In real life, the way you dress is the way you want to be pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:12 AM
5

And what do we call them? Cucks and losers. Not even women see them as not insecure and noble, they think they’re cucks too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:57 AM
1

Only if who you are is in a very masculine direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:42 AM
-2

You’re having an emotional affair with others men’s attention and glances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:37 AM
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Cosplaying is attention seeking. We all know men who cosplay are weird autists and women who cosplay are weird sluts. Not a fair comparison. If she was cosplaying as Steve from Minecraft then it would be fine, but she’s doing Mercy from Overwatch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:36 AM
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And by change you mean try to make you stop being a hoe and have respect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:34 AM
-4

It’s not personality though it’s just morals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:33 AM
10

Bro she’s just on tinder because she wants to feel confident
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:33 AM
7

All this confidence and insecurity talk is so stupid and female coded. Your partner gets exclusive access to your body when you’re in a relationship. If others get even visual access to it then I’m losing a part of what makes our relationship. Would you distribute naked pictures to random people that could never contact your gf/wife of her if she agreed to it and you knew they could never find her? You wouldn’t obviously and you wouldn’t like it. Has nothing to do with confidence or insecurity i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:29 AM
-3

If dancing at a club (not even really dancing at all) is entertaining they should really get a new hobby. Oh wait, that’s not the actual reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:24 AM
3

When women write things like this it just shows why you shouldn’t vote. You can’t be honest with yourself whatsoever. You convince yourself of things using words that sound logical but are not. It’s like a guy explaining that he follows soft core porn accounts while in a relationship because he just likes observing the art of modelling or because all his friends are doing it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:22 AM
5

“Regardless of who she is” clubbing and posting ur ass on insta isn’t a personality trait, and all women want to do it. All men want to post their muscular physiques too. “Conforming to their wants” god forbid men want basic respect in a relationship. You’re purposely muddying the semantics so “wants” sounds like some overbearing ask of a man. It’s really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:17 AM
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That’s not even true, I’ve communicated this and the desire to go to the club never goes away she’ll just try to get away with it over time. If your relationship gets rocky she’ll want that lifestyle back immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:16 AM
1

Why do women accept relationships with men if they aren’t willing to act as actual decent girlfriends? Guys are not attracted to your lifestyle lmao. The same boring contempt you feel for gym bros is the same men feel for your clubbing lifestyle. They find you attractive and are probably drawn to your personality. They expect that if you agree to date them then you’ll behave respectfully and stop engaging in single behaviour. Too much of an ask? And yes I do the same thing when I get a girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:14 AM
1

This is one of the worst misconceptions people, mostly women have. The "majority" you're thinking of is dudes who regularly go outside and have an active social life. So when you go outside that's who you see and that's who you remember. I genuinely think like a third or more of men don't even really go outside. They just go to work and come home. Not many friends, no gf, etc. This makes so much more sense when you think about competitive video game communities. How can i log onto a game that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:35 PM
1

the "same brand" thing is so true. Youll meet someone who has depth but they just use it to think about something so lame and uninteresting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:26 PM
3

My life is so boring and lonely. I’m not a loser and I’m not socially inept, just don’t pursue a lot of friendships. All I do is interact with ideas all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:55 AM
1

yeah just deny reality. Neotenic or feminine features are never selected for over masculine and dominant features. Just look around. Girls are fucking guys with sharp jaws and bony, square faces. In a study they might say they're equivalent because a more feminine man will be a better boyfriend, but no man wants to be seen as boyfriend material before being seen as sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:47 PM
1

High testosterone causes a man to have an attractive face. A masculine face is a face that was highly affected by testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:00 AM
1

Unaffected by the pressure of fitting in, aloof
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:54 AM
1

Women really have no social skills beyond being nice and smiley, and just being women gives them this charm that causes everybody to be pretty nice and open to them socially. Women might appear to have better social skills than the average guy because what looks like good social skills for a woman is extremely easy. There is no action, it’s all reactive, there is no need for confidence, because nobody expects you to speak up or make the first move. You don’t need to know confrontation, argumenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:46 AM
4

Not actually being truly alone though, you mean just not actively dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:32 AM
1

Men do the same shit though, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:30 PM
0

Dudes are settling all the time too. Do you think a guy wants the 5+ n count woman who isn’t highly attractive etc? We’d prefer something better, but still date these chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:26 PM
2

A combo of all three. Generally being redpilled does a good amount of the work but you have to know when to be normal and genuine (bluepill) when you’re single, choosing the right people to go for comes from the blackpill, and understanding the darkest parts of how people operate comes from the blackpill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:51 PM
1

No alternative man, if you want kids or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:36 AM
1

Reason why loser guys get girlfriends is Cus girls like when you truly don’t gaf at all and come off as non neurotic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:35 AM
5

and people wonder why guys want to date virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:59 AM
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Dated virgins and I never told them that. Just don't, even though you have good reasons to like that trait, they will see it as creepy. Just gotta play the game, I hate withholding info/lying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:57 AM
1

Makeup makes minor changes but minor changes have a massive effect on attractiveness. You’re nitpicking because I said “what a man sees as perfect glowing skin”. To which you responded “what makeup gives you perfect glowing skin” which is mot even what I said or implied. Now in this most recent comment you accurately quoted me, but you still don’t get it somehow. Makeup does not make skin perfect, men see women wearing makeup and perceive their skin as perfect, glowing, and beautiful. Have you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:54 PM
1

Because you’re acting like his reaction to his bad situation is what’s causing the bad situation when he should be given different and actually effective advice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:49 PM
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Do you have anything to say other than nitpicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:13 PM
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Nice cope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:12 PM
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Most women would not lose their appeal because their appeal has to be in the range of like 3-10/10 for men to want to fuck them. Your average chick loses minimum 10% attractiveness from the removal of makeup and depending on the girl, they could lose more. The women I've dated all looked less attractive with no makeup but it was never a big enough difference for me to stop loving them or find them unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:01 PM
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Yeah because the pursuit of women is always fair and its just an input/output system. More effort != more results at all and that's the crux of why redpillers are angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:56 PM
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>If you want to talk about the majority of women who use makeup on a day to day basis it is really not some extreme 50 step routine to alter the shape of their bone structure. It is usually covering up pimples and blemishes and putting on mascara and eyeliner, sometimes lipgloss or lipstick. That really cannot do that much. This actually has a massive effect. Every woman walking around has what a man's brain sees as perfect glowing skin that indicates good health and fertility. They also usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:54 PM
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“Men” as a group, have always been the dominant group. Male nobility, kings, and religiously involved men were the dominant group. You actually don't know shit about history. Every other chump was just as poor. You’re a whiny little bitch comparing your dating troubles to what women and POCs still deal with. This is why I said principally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:49 PM
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hahaha you don't even know. I had a girlfriend who I'd tell everything about the redpill to when I was younger and how I hated women and the like. I didn't care about her at all and our relationship was super toxic for a year. Had another one after this who I was super nice to and kind to on a date and we dated for a few months. I would literally go home and go on incel/blackpill spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:46 PM
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Not in my imagination at all. I have female friends and family members who show me everything. They show me these really handsome guys and tell me about how they hate that they're so full of themselves and think they're the shit and never want to commit to any woman. See women only as pleasurable holes to fuck and only treat them as to be pursued. Yet they still admit that they had sex with the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:44 PM
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Certainly not for teenage and college aged people. I can't respond to you other than telling you you're just deluded, and you need to maintain your delusion so your childfree opinions have a grounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:41 PM
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Women never look aesthetically better without makeup, some guys don't like when a girl they really like wears makeup because it feels fake and as though we are attracted to a caricature of the girl rather than what she actually looks like. If a guy really loves you he still likes the way you look without makeup, but he likes it for a reason that is different than pure sexual attraction. It feels more romantic to love a woman who is purely herself with all her flaws. That's why he preferred it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:37 PM
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Yes I still was because I still wasn’t getting as much as I thought I deserved. It’s really not hard to hide yourself on dates with women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:23 PM
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yeah but try having no opportunities to even make a romantic relationship or sex. You can't even conceive of the level some men are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:49 AM
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You don't actually mean lonely though. Actually having no friends and no guys talking to you that are interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:47 AM
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Actually directly modifying the appearance of the FACE has a way larger effect on SMV than any clothing or haircut can. Growing a beard is so effective for this reason but most guys can't grow a good beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:30 AM
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Minor changes can increase or decrease attractiveness by a ton. When women aren't wearing makeup, you can better detect her actual beauty/fertility. I can't explain it better but to say when women aren't wearing makeup they look less fertile, healthy, and kinda drained. When you see them like this as a man your sex drive becomes pretty normal. You actually have a decent border of unfuckable. With makeup, nearly every woman is fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:29 AM
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>it act like you aren’t going to see her the next morning after she’s stayed over/taken a shower/washed up, etc. The initial attraction the makeup caused was enough to cause an initiation which is the benefit women enjoy. Also, attention in general. 99% of men that see women other than their LTRs will see them when they are wearing makeup. A lot of women refuse to even go outside without it. ​ >Plenty of dudes looking for casual are perfectly fine if she “glows up” or comes in looking to get lai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:25 AM
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>A lot of those things already exist That's simply not true, in the west anyways. >and even if you turn them up x10 it will never ever change the fact that people want to date people they are attracted to. Yes people will only date people they are attracted to but you can change what people consider attractive. How are dating markets NOT fucked up in other countries and other periods in history? I can't buy that it is only because women are/were oppressed. It's just way deeper than that. The who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:18 AM
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There really is little principal difference. Everybody was oppressed throughout history, not just women. In the western history, men were completely poor and famished and worked all day doing hard physical, slave-like labor in biologically toxic environments to provide for their families, or had to fight in wars involving their countries, and mothers were at home all day raising many sick and hungry kids and doing chores but because the man had the final say in matters and abuse happened in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:00 AM
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You clearly don't understand the mechanics behind forming this worldview at all. You think there are no psychological mechanisms and defenses in place that would make the viewing of this movie useless for someone who is redpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:40 AM
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Widespread encouragement to date and marry, tell people of the ills of sleeping around, financial incentives for marriage and kids, tell people about how bad birth control contraception is for women, encourage respect for families, aestheticize dating for younger people through education and social media. Basically a propaganda machine would have a huge positive effect on the dating market, and its not really propaganda, because its just true and beneficial. When was the last time you actually s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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I know all of this but you seem to be unable to imagine anything else other than the modern market. Things don't have to be the way they are, you don't have to accept and live in a system where you have low value. Looking for the solution and accepting the conditions of the modern market is giving up. If you could redesign the dating market, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:19 PM
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That's not true though. Good looking guys are fully immersed into that ideology and still get laid all the time and have girls obsessed with them. Maybe you have gotten to the point where this kind of guy repulses you for long term dating, other women have clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:14 PM
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Lol. They didn't fall to their knees and bow and beg for the only woman that gave them a chance! therefore they deserve to be lonely. How dare they try to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:12 PM
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Why should a man blame himself if he knows what he is doing is right or at the very least good enough? Do you really think every single bitter RP guy is a fat loser that doesn't realize he has awful social skills? It can't just be an average guy who hasn't had success? That doesn't exist to you? Sounds like an average guy has never actually talked to you about dating, mask off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:09 PM
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lol a movie's gonna fix your whole perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:06 PM
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I'm absolutely sure you would not blame POC for disliking whites for their situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:06 PM
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however what am I supposed to do about it ? If you really realized what this problem can and will cause in the future, you'd quickly find a way to try and help the cause. And I don't mean by fucking guys, but by publicly rallying about the issue. If you really, really needed to help this issue, you'd find a way. I'm not shaming you, its not a problem for you and you have your own problems, but don't act like you have no idea how you could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah but this just isn't true at all. I've had girlfriends and sexual success when I was peak bitterness about dating. It really has no effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:01 PM
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Like if you want a friend that you can talk to and have conversations with or play pool then sure women are willing to do that. like 70% of the conversations men would want to have with people really can't be held with women. I'm sure you'd assume from this that I'm antisocial or something but this is exactly why same sex friendships are just more common. When I hang out with men, especially men who are a lot like me, I can say anything I want. And I don't mean particularly crass stuff, just any…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:59 PM
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A different society, which starts with people at the very least accepting that the problem exists. Men should have to claw their way up a competitive dating market just to get a girlfriend/sex? Why is it that people accept that the fate of men is constant competition? And if a guy gives up on this competition, reasonably so, it is fully his fault for not throwing himself against a brick wall? People like you literally think of men as drone slaves who should just be naive animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:52 PM
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The self improvement stuff is so easily thrown aside. I've self "improved" past a majority of people. People in relationships are not self-developed whatsoever. Especially women in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:46 PM
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If a male animal in nature fights another male animal for coming into his territory or getting close to his females is it insecure for that? You can laugh at this comparison but deep down it’s the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:35 PM
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this problem is just unsolvable. the fear of being a cuck is real and would drive a lot of guys to a really dark place. The solution? an entirely different society where the worry of that is extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:33 PM
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This one is so funny because I don't actually care but the woman does so I have to care and now that I care I get called SDE or insecure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:31 PM
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only upside i can think of is if you are better than everyone shes been with until then and she knows for a fact you are actually good cuz of her experience. If you were a girl's first she'd think this of you too though so...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:27 PM
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yeah thats me ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:25 PM
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You pretend engaging in sex is the exact same in the minds of men and women when you know its not. The dynamic is different and as a result body count for women is way worse than it is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:20 PM
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It's a joke but it really does mean something. "That's a body" basically means someone demonstrated willingness to have sex but didn't perform the act. It's important because body count for women isn't bad because a cock has been in there, otherwise nobody would ever date a girl whose been in a LTR where they probably had sex daily. Its bad because she allowed x amount of people in which says something about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah it does because little white lies like that are so annoying. Being emotionally coddled with some lie is so annoying. If you want to just say no then say it you don't need to pretend its for some other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:13 PM
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I express them but in a controlled way. Not gonna start getting giddy and saying "I LOVE THIS DATE AND ITS SO CUTE WHERE WE ARE AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!" I'll just smile and look at her and say "wow this is really nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:11 PM
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Neither but if i had to pick redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:04 PM
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men only care about sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:02 PM
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aren't you guys the same ones who cry about not being able to go out alone at night, constantly feeling like youre gonna get roofied or raped when you go out, or that if you reject a man hes going to execute you on the spot? Someone you can always call and theyll help you fix a problem? You can't notice the passive protection effect of being with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:59 PM
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This is inarguably true. Women don't know how to show love for men at all, because the traditional way they did that they can't do anymore because they're told they shouldn't. I've dated some girls who I'd spend money on experiences together with them, put a lot of effort into them which they appreciated emotionally. They'd cling to me hard and act really cute and girly and stuff but they would never really do anything back for me unless I asked, and when I did ask or suggest they would make me …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:52 PM
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Yeah every single college guy I've talked to when I edge them into the topic of redpill they always agree. They won't agree on other right wing-esque issues like race or abortion or religion. It's the only point of unity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:45 PM
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I think a lot of it is luck. I'm a college guy average appearance and every girlfriend I've gotten is just some girl I randomly decided to try and talk to and then started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:42 PM
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Yeah but thats in the context of divorce. What about every other relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:36 PM
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Don't you enjoy sex particularly with your partner because you love them?...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:35 PM
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If you fake it you fuck yourself over later because the love you receive from the other person will never feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:33 PM
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Yeah but girls can randomly fall in love with a guy who doesn't have all that stuff anyways, and I think that's a majority of relationships. having ur shit together, in shape, and making money all help a lot and help sustain and keep the relationship happy but it's not fully necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:32 PM
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This whole post seems to intentionally not define "what they provide" to make it seem equal. You can accept that women generally have to put less/no work into becoming able to provide something than men, and by providing something I mean emotional leadership, money, stability, protection, entertainment, etc. Every girl I've dated has been somewhat emotionally unstable which is fine, not hyper driven towards their education and goals, and not really charismatic. None of these things are even on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:28 PM
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creating an ideal partner in your head is so stupid. A real person will never live up to it or you'll never find them. If you try you whole life to find them you're going to ruin your emotions towards relationships after hundreds of dates/hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:18 PM
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it is obviously jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:12 PM
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Yes we do stop coping. You’re thinking of the high value chads who want to just fuck sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:20 PM
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its really not true. the husband just needs to go prove to his wife hes low trust somehow. The bedroom wouldnt be dead if the husband and wife went out and he beat the shit out of a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:34 PM
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nice cope. women masturbate to werewolves and vampires, and it is all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:32 PM
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It’s not that society isn’t ready to hold women accountable, it’s that when women do something harmful to the relationship they do it in such a passive way that they can always bend the truth to show that they were doing it for some innocent reason of their own, and they fully believe it was because of their own innocent reason when it clearly was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:42 AM
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