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Mrbrokenbonez
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 08:16 PM
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Pretty sure they’re on his Instagram.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 06:31 PM
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Same
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:15 PM
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It has. If you listen to the interviews he’s had since, he goes to talk about how he receives a lot of attention now and overall he’s happier.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:14 PM
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What’s there to debate here? This feels like an incel subreddit tier post which I guess this subreddit is now. Anyway, yes he’s being fed BS. What they should tell him is that he needs to really do some hard looksmaxxing. Dude needs to lose weight and try to become lean as possible to see where he stands. If that doesn’t work, then time to see the surgeon and see what can be fixed. Not take better photos.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:13 PM
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I mean, that’s just having a girlfriend then, which I can get
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:47 PM
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I mean, it’s just down to looks. I don’t really care about having a “rotation”, more I just want to have a string of casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:40 PM
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Yeah
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:35 PM
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Are you kidding me? You think pity sex or a pity date is the solution? It’s not going to give you the validation because they still won’t be attracted to you. You might as well just be a Betabuxx then
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:50 AM
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I actually found that once you admit you want casual sex and are looking for strictly that, then they seem to have nothing to say because even they realize it’s the truth,
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I won’t lie I do agree with incels on stuff like what makes a man attractive looking and casual sex. But incels really got it wrong with relationships. Any guy can get into a relationship and not have it be terrible. You can figure out how someone will be on the first date, I swear to god. It’s amazing how many men will get bad vibes from the first date and then “see where it goes”. No, when I was in college I had bad vibes from the first date with a chick and like 3 months in it didn’t ch…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 09:02 PM
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I think more should just be honest. I find so many of “well I want casual sex because blah blah blah pair bonding and blah blah blah more experience”, when really it’s just ego and validation. They want to be hot enough to have that kind of life. Almost every guy on here or the pills world who complains about not being able to have casual sex is only feeling that way for validation and ego reasons including me. I’m just willing to admit that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:38 PM
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Wouldn’t say I’m angry about it, just depressed.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:22 PM
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Because I don’t care about being rich. Being attractive looking however is a priority. That’s what I’m saying, it matters to me.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:08 PM
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Yeah, I know.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:04 PM
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And that’s what I want to be. I want to be attractive looking.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:40 PM
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Thanks, I guess. And not just me, even the ones who have the life I want. Like if they are unsatisfied with their situation, even a situation I want, then they can feel that way.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:38 PM
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I’m being realistic, and that’s what makes me depressed. It’s that I’m not attractive looking enough to have the kind of life. It’s the fact that I’m not one of those men.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:35 PM
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Validation and ego. It’s not just the sex, it’s the validation and what the sex means.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:30 PM
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I’m aware.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:19 PM
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I can get into a relationship fine now. But it’s just not enough and it’s not what I really want.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:15 PM
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There is no world where I would ever say my problems are worse than anyone else’s objectively. Like of course they aren’t, but yeah my problems matter a hell of a lot to me. Anyone would feel that way, I’m not going to “appreciate” my issues because someone out there has cancer.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:14 PM
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Truth be told, I’ve tried to find happiness in other things. I’ve tried either through hobbies, traveling, friends, even through therapy and nothing really makes it better or replaces it. It’s not like I’ve literally done nothing to fix it, I’ve also put tons of effort into my appearance and it doesn’t really do much to move the needle for what I’m looking for. Keep in mind, I don’t think my problems are objectively worse than anyone else’s. But to me they are a pretty big deal. Like say a Chad …
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:10 PM
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I’ve never really understood this mindset, just because I don’t have cancer doesn’t mean that my life is good or is the life I want. If someone feels suicidal because they’re not a multimillionaire, or if a woman is suicidal because she can fuck Chad but can’t get a relationship, then by all means I’m not going to tell them how to feel. I don’t think they should jill themselves, I certainly am not because too many people would be saddened by my death. But I certainly want to and am miserable whi…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:07 PM
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Nah. I’m 5’6 and maybe only slightly above average looking. I’ve been in relationships with women who genuinely found me attractive through their actions, were nice and had a good personality. I’ve been able to do this multiple times in my life. Meanwhile I know I’m not attractive because when I’m with these women they’re the only ones ever showing me interest, I can’t even think of a time more than one woman was interested in me. By all means, it’s really not hard to find someone with a good pe…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:43 PM
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Honestly, considering I’m short and kind of average looking, I feel suicidal that I can’t have this kind of life. All I’ve ever wanted is to be attractive and tons of casual sex. And it sucks to just be disqualified from the getgo. I find relationships with relative ease, so obviously my personality is fine. Idk, reading this is awful
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:36 PM
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Never been on that one, but cool I guess? Though I’m pretty sure they’d tell me I’m wrong and personality is what’s important
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:43 PM
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It’s a method to improve penis size
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:41 PM
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Yeah, this really is the only answer. Most incels are pretty plain or average looking. It’s enough to get a gf, but I don’t think they have the capacity to have one. They say they do, but they just see it as a vehicle for sex. When I was a virgin, I literally thought the same. They just want to be able to hookup like Chad, and the only way to do it is via improving looking.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:41 PM
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He’s “fine” but not attractive looking. Fine is “meh”, fine is “average” I deal with the same issue, because being average looking is t enough for me if I want to live the kind of life I do. Plastic surgery isn’t for ugly people, it’s for average people too.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 12:35 PM
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Are you white?
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 07:38 AM
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What exactly changed in 3 years to where you can’t get laid now?
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 12:50 PM
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Yeah. I’ve moved on from that situation, but i know to never be in something that doesn’t make me happy and actively hurts me mentally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:08 PM
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Yeah. I was 19, and the thought that if I broke up with her and she kills herself, I would not have been able to handle that kind of guilt. I guess you can call that emotional abuse. She also would get mad if I wasn’t in the mood for sex, which then she would accuse me of either cheating, and/or threaten to kill herself. It was a bad time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:36 PM
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Single. I’ve been in a horrible relationship only one time in my entire life. Granted, it was mostly because I thought she was gonna kill herself, but still. And that was enough to know there is absolutey no reason to be in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:56 PM
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I’m able to find relationships fine, just can’t get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:43 AM
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Nah, I just delete and create accounts all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:38 AM
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It depends, who is more attractive looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:19 AM
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Yeah this whole “make your own confidence/validation” doesn’t make sense because to know if you’re good at anything you need outside validation to support it. I can think I’m the most attractive man in the world and tell myself in the mirror, but if no one else thinks so then it’s not true. And saying that to myself doesn’t make other people think so either. There’s nothing actually wrong with wanting outside validation, it’s just a problem when you can’t get that validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:18 AM
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I can only talk about my experience. But, I’ve been in multiple relationships throughout my life and have opened up in all of them emotionally. And even after doing that there was literally no change in any of the relationships. It really depends on the person you’re with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:15 AM
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Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:09 PM
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It seems like they want to be a guy who is attractive enough to have a FWB, but they just aren’t. So they think that they can call this a FWB because they’re not paying her in money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:06 AM
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I’m sorry, exactly what were you looking for me to “prove it independently”? Are you looking for some sort of metric?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:51 AM
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What do you mean? Literally just watch her behavior, her actions will tell you. There’s a distinct difference between a woman who’s only with a guy for “stability” and resources, and a woman who is actually into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:47 AM
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I don’t get this, because you’re implying that a girl won’t ever reciprocate those gifts or gestures. I’ve been in relationships that sure I’ll buy them gifts, but they always buy me something of equal, and sometimes higher value. Hell, I’ve bought them cheap things and they loved it because of the thought. I think you’re just going for gold diggers or just really shallow and selfish women. If it works for you, cool, but don’t complain when you go for a woman like that and find that this is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:45 AM
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The difference is that the woman finds the man attractive and genuinely has feelings for him that aren’t tied to resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:41 AM
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Is it though? At least when you’re dating the other person desires you and cares for you. If you with someone who doesn’t like you, doesn’t have attraction for you, doesn’t treat you the way you want to be treated, and requires you give her things to be together, then congrats you brought it on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:40 PM
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We don’t know how she feels about him. I think it’s pretty obvious that it’s transactional based. Otherwise part of the deal wouldn’t be she fucks him only after he let her stay there for free and hook up with him regardless if she didn’t live there. Or she would be a girlfriend, and the OP wouldn’t have said “can’t get a girlfriend”. That’s not a FWB, it’s someone trading sex so she has a place to stay for free. If he didn’t have to literally trade a living space to get some girl to consider hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:05 PM
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Nah, it’s still prostitution. He’s just trading something else. A gf living with a guy is not the same, because it’s implied she at least likes him. If she’s using him, that just makes her a bad person. In this example, OP knows there isn’t attraction whatsoever, and the only reason she is staying with him is for shelter and/or other resources. Prostitution doesn’t require money, plenty of prostitutes that do it for drugs rather than straight money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:53 PM
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So she’s still a prostitute. The sex is entirely transactional, basically “I let you stay here, as long as I get sex”. It doesn’t really matter what resource you use, be it money or shelter. That’s not a FWB, that’s not even a fuck buddy, that would require that she has genuine physical attraction to him and wants the sex without the strings of a relationship. He’s still fucking a prostitute, he just chose a different currency to pay her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:52 PM
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Because even she knows being short is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:10 PM
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Yeah. I used to have this mindset, until I saw that men did receive much more obvious attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:29 PM
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And this is why I always say that looks are the qualifier, but just because you met or exceeded the qualifications doesn’t mean you’ll actually win the game. Depending how much you exceed, the harder it might be to fuck it up and the the closer you are to the minimum the harder it’ll be to turn it to a yes. But either situation is possible, and I’ve seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:52 AM
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I think something people don’t bring up is that religion plays a very minor role in today’s world. Marriage is a big deal if you’re one of the Judeo Christian beliefs. Like to the point of “if you get divorced you go to hell” and the community would ostracize you because they all go to church and the church doesn’t look too kindly to divorced people. I do think the other usual response of having jobs and more equal status, but it’s a thought I kind of had
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:43 AM
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Hang around for a bit, or just go on r/inceltear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:40 AM
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Seriously. I knew a couple of frat dudes and they’d say shit that could make Incels blush. But they were tall and handsome, so they got laid every weekend basically. Guess those misogyny detectors were broken or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:38 AM
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I see where you’re coming from, but I’d also have to “look at the past”. Of course I’m not going to ask “when is the soonest you fucked?”, but say I find out she did sleep with men very quickly, but waited with me for a longer period. I’ll be fair, longer than date 3. Not only are we in different mindsets for this relationship from the getgo, but I would feel a bit cheated. Yeah, yeah “oh you’re expecting the same because she had one ONS”, no, but I can still feel bad she made me wait longer tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:32 AM
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Depends on the person I guess at the end of the day. For me, if there’s no sex by the end of the 3rd date then I’m out. A lot of men I know are the same, and that’s totally fine because you can choose to cut it off for any reason with a person. Some men are fine waiting for sex, but most of the men here aren’t fine with waiting passed that, and are looking for that kind of physical desire over an emotional one. They still want the emotional desire and intimacy, but the physical is much more impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:30 PM
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I don’t know if FWB is the deciding factor, as there are plenty of relationships that just sort of become relationships very quickly. What really determines that however is if you find you haven’t had sex by the end of date 3. It becomes pretty clear that she considers you a BB, or a “well, maybe i can learn to be with him because he’s stable, well off, etc”. Either way she doesn’t feel any physical desire. Not to say other factors can’t make up for it, as relationships are built on a lot of fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:43 AM
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