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Fundamentalswhatisthisaboutagain/r/seduction03/03/22 12:37 AM
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Fundamentalswhatisthisaboutagain/r/seduction15/08/21 04:44 PM
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I'm a man and I have to say that I agree with him. True, him and I can't speak for what it's like dating as a woman, but I think other women who are open to me (and as it seems, him) are credible sources. I have a lot of "hot" or I'd rather say conventionally extremely attractive friends and I immediately knew what he was talking about, to answer your questions on the topic: Yes, I would without a doubt say that many of my female friends are, as you say, "smoking hot" or in other, nicer words, c…
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:41 PM
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This
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:32 PM
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You have an MBA and can't find a different way to make money than to open up sweatshops in SEA and profit from the exploitation of the people who live there? Out of all the ways in today's world that you can make HUGE amounts of money and even help people at the same time, you want to open up sweatshops? My man, your girlfriend shouldn't leave you because she's "kind of a leftist", she should leave you because you obviously have no morals and are a selfish prick.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:16 PM
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Hey man, you're the first one to start calling people idiots, that's first of all, second of all, you're really trying to back yourself up, not a good look in your defense. I respect women too, from the bottom of my heart, I think they're absolutely wonderful, but I respect them by treating them as equal human beings, being sincere and transparent, making sure they have a good time and fucking them like I mean it:)
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:10 PM
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This
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:39 AM
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As someone who is about 5'5"-5'6" and lives in the EU, you don't need this, height is only as much of a problem as you let it be. Plus, I can think of 50 better ways to spend 85k$ than getting my legs broken and risk not ever being able to run again in my life just to gain 3 inches of height.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:31 PM
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I'm 5'6" and I've had girls that were 5'8", girls that were 5'5" and everything in between. What I learned from everything is that more important than height are these things: how they feel around you, how you influence people, how genuine you are and how well you listen to them. Height is only one factor, attraction is a complicated mix of hundreds of them.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:24 PM
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Ok, so this is what I did: First, I waited for at least a month or two, just so she could get "used" to seeing me at the gym, so she knew I wasn't just some creep that randomly hits on women at the gym, so she could see that I'm serious about my training and so she could see me how I interact with the staff (I was really close with all of them, I went to this gym for about 2 or 3 years while I was at college) as social proof (as in, if the staff likes me, I'm probably not that bad of a guy or a …
/r/seduction05/03/22 10:49 AM
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Thanks man! I genuinely appreciate your words:)
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:27 AM
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The reason they hear them over and over again is because they're true. But, here's the deal, all of these things are easier said than done, for example: Finding hobbies isn't hard, being passionate about them is, I even want to think that being passionate about something takes a certain amount of skill and knowledge so you can really start enjoying whatever you're doing, passion is developed from the drive of wanting to know more and wanting to improve. Going to the gym, I hate isolating going t…
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:23 AM
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This, this and this
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:14 PM
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I think you're overthinking all of this a little bit. You can break the touch barrier on any kind of date, no matter where you are, touching should be natural and should naturally progress if you two are in to each other. I usually start with bumping her arm if I remember something I want to tell her, simple little baby steps, if she's in to you, there's a chance she'll sooner or later start mimicking this behavior, put your hand on her forearm when talking to her if you're sitting next to each …
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:25 PM
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There are no "leagues", just people that are attracted to you and people who aren't.
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:41 PM
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My man really out here creating sucking on boobs
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:49 PM
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If you have to ask yourself if she likes you, she doesn't. It's as simple as that.
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:45 PM
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Ask her directly
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:54 PM
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I didn't say that, I'm simply asking to assure that you're actively trying to pursue a physical relationship with her and not just putting her on a pedestal, since that usually leads to the "friend zone"
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:35 PM
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You're standards aren't too high, you have your preferences and that's totally cool. But, let's take a step back, you said you've been on dates with overweight women and none escalated to a kiss, what makes you think that when you find your type and she agrees to a date, it will escalate to a kiss/getting physical? I also read down in the comments that you're talking to a girl now and remembering all these little things about her and think she's beautiful, have you two even been on a date yet? I…
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:18 AM
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Don't answer to anything she sends you, unless it's something interesting and you actually want to reply. But yes, as some people before me have already told you, ask her out, if she's interested in you, she'll want to meet up don't try to be a texting buddy, girls text because they're bored, she's probably sending these pictures to other people as well just because she's bored, it's what some girls do, probably because there's at least 3 guys giving her some sort of attention, be better than th…
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:59 PM
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Go at night, set the tone with some nice music, grab her hand, see where it goes from there.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:36 PM
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Educate yourself as much as you can, then practice practice practice, it will suck, it will feel stupid and unnatural, you'll hate it, but the more time you put in, the better you'll become and the easier it'll be, I promise. Just remember that this won't happen overnight, it took me about 2 years (our current world situation didn't help) to get to where I am now and even now, I'm still learning and trying to become more comfortable in certain situations, no matter how many times you mess it up,…
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:29 PM
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This post was a real roller coaster, made my day hahah, thanks man
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:17 PM
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Number one would be having social skills, there's a ton of material on the internet you can read/watch on how to converse/act around people, what kind of body language you should and shouldn't use in different situations, how to make other people around you laugh, feel confident and of value, how to give compliments without looking like a creep,...of course, the easiest way to get social skills is by actually being social and practicing, try to talk to as many people as you can, whether it be in…
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:19 AM
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My golden rule: "If you have to ask yourself if she likes you, she doesn't"
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:18 PM
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Dude not you again, I am truly baffled by how much you bash and hate yourself because of your height.
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:00 PM
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I'm 5'5" and honestly, I wouldn't really want to date a girl shorter than me, I love taller girls. All the women I've slept with (except one) were all taller than me, my ex girlfriend was about 5'7", last girl I kind of "dated" was 5'8" (she even said she'd never want a shorter guy, but here we are). Yes, I've been outright rejected because of my height numerous times, it's just something you'll have to live with, but I don't really put that much thought in to it because I too have rejected many…
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:24 PM
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So could you
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:06 AM
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Prince was a sex symbol at 5'3". I've heard a ton of women say how Mark Wahlberg is their wet dream and he's like 5'7" (and even that's hard to believe since Hollywood usually inflates these numbers a bit). Corey Taylor from Slipknot is often regarded as "one of the hottest metal singers", the man is 5'6". Tom Cruise is 5'7" (again, probably even shorter). Two of my close friends who are both under 6' pull more women than another friend of mine who is 6'2", hell, I even have a friend who's like …
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:00 AM
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4 and 5 +get in shape...height doesn't matter, or I'll rather say, success always outweighs height
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:57 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:40 PM
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Maybe if you didn't feel so sorry about yourself and pity yourself because of your height, you would get some. I'm 5'6" and every girl I've slept with has been taller than me, the last girl I dated told me that she'd never want anyone shorter than her (she was about 5'8") and after one week, she was in my bed, yes, I've been flat out rejected because of my height too, but do you think I care? Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't even accept me and finds me unattractive.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:54 PM
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24, had sex with 9 women, probably about 3 were cold approach and one of those 9 was my girlfriend (I've only dated one woman up to now in my life), only 1 was from a club (I don't go out much, maybe once a year). Dated my gf for 5 years, been having sex since 16, so that's 8 women in 3 years? About 2-3 a year, sounds about right 5'6", 145-150lbs at about 12% body fat, I usually drop it to about 10% during the summer but I feel like shit, pretty athletic build (I've been going to the gym for abo…
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:22 AM
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True, and yeah, I misinterpreted what you wrote, my bad.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:17 PM
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So being short automatically means you can't have a nice body?
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:25 PM
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Bruh
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:48 PM
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Exactly, don't think "now what do I have to do and say to get in to her pants", just be comfortable around her and genuinely have a good time, if she knows you two are not just friends and she feels like she's comfortable, safe and can be herself around you, she'll want to have sex with you and you'll feel it in the air.
/r/seduction23/08/21 02:15 PM
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Don't do it, it's not cool, 9/10 you'll appear like a creep, here's what I did once: There was a girl that went to the same gym as I did, I really wanted to meet her but of course I didn't know how since approaching girls in the gym really isn't cool, I perfectly timed it once and I waited for her outside of the gym (of course, she recognized me from inside so that took some of the creepiness away), I apologized for the situation and explained that there was really no other way of doing this, si…
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:49 AM
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Because "just being yourself" is easier said than done and I think a lot of people misunderstand what it means, plus, it's not enough, you still need to have good social skills and an interesting personality to really make it work. What I mean by easier said than done is that even when you think you're being yourself, you're still trying to fit in to some social standards, you're still subconsciously thinking about some things that you say and ways that you act, being your true self is a lot har…
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:40 PM
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Find something better to do than to be sad about this
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:59 PM
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Well, I don't really have any difficulties with talking to women, or anyone else for that matter, I'm a pretty confident guy, maybe a bit restrained and more of a quiet type but I'll talk if I have to, no problem, and I've always enjoyed speaking to an audience. I just sometimes have a hard time communicating in a way that would prove successful to starting a physical relationship, I either have 0 escalation involved, or too much, I'm also not really in to dating huge amounts of girls, going on …
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:31 PM
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Thanks for that comment, I really appreciate it!
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:23 PM
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It really seems so
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:20 PM
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"If you have to ask if she likes you, she doesn't"
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:05 PM
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