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Not politely… that’s how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:19 PM
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I was seeing a guy who was 11 years older than me. He actually said to me he wants a wife who will “take care of him when he’s older” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:52 AM
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I should be proud of him for staying off the streets… I’m … speechless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:16 AM
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The father of my child doesn’t know my birthday and when confronted about it said “the day you were born literally doesn’t matter”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:16 AM
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I agree fully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:46 PM
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I had to teach my ex bf to use shampoo not body wash on his hair... never again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:55 AM
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Precisely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:37 PM
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I don’t even remember exactly how I found this sub but I went through a really bad breakup and saw this information and at first I was like “how would I ever get a man this way?!?!” Over time I realized I didn’t need the man and I’d be fine on my own. I acknowledge red flags immediately now, when I see my friends in relationships that I have had in the past I sit there amazed how blind they are to it, and I have less of a tolerance for shit... someone could literally chew too loud and I would ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:18 PM
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Communication ... you shouldn’t have to communicate basic hygiene ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:55 AM
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I get more support with baby sitting from my friends than she gets from the man she married... why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:14 PM
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When I read “as a girl here” I immediately knew it was gonna be a trip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:58 AM
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This is so embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:29 PM
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This was my ex bf we went to the bar first round he paid then approached me to open a tab on my card after I paid for dinner and I never looked at him so quickly and said “what the fuck did you just say??” Never asked again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:28 PM
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Yup! Currently me and wouldn’t have it any other way. Until I have Dr in front of my name there is no desire for a dusty musty clown ass man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:00 PM
9

Damn was this about me situation exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:51 PM
10

Damn was this about me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:51 PM
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I think they’d just complain lol. If they wanted to change they would but most would just complain because changing would require effort that they won’t put in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:43 AM
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“As if marriages are more valuable than the women in them” yes that is it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:34 AM
9

Exactlyyyy become the man you want your daughter to marry not ... this mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:33 AM
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I’m thinking of my response in a Russian accent. Since joining Russian tik tok when I see dumbass men I think of all those ladies 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:32 AM
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I literally stared at them like ... so it’s casual I guess LOL I had on nice linen pants with a body suit and knew immediately he wasn’t the one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:12 PM
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I went on a date with a guy who kept trying to talk over me and wore cargo shorts. Normally I’d be like “yes I can fix him” instead i ghosted him because that is not what I want. I’m definitely proud of myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:50 AM
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Ah I see what you mean. Courts rarely intervene until it’s too late. I’m sorry you went through that :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:48 AM
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For holding him financially responsible. In his words I was being mean and abusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:59 PM
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If she wants to be late 20’s-30’s a grandmother go her. She’s better than me lmao. I’d go the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:44 PM
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SAY IT LOUDER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:43 PM
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100%. If I could remove my sons father from my life I would for the benefit of my son. Not out of spite but out of protection for my child for his father’s narcissistic rage and alcoholism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:42 PM
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I was mentally unstable at a point in two relationships. One calls me crazy. The other acknowledges I was struggling and he wasn’t able to be there for me for it. The second is one of my good friends now since I’ve stabilized and has voiced how proud of me he is seeing my growth. The second also paid for my nails last week LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:41 PM
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Unless he’s a millionaire he’s def in financial holes. If she’s not paying for everything he’s def in debt trying for two years to hide two child support payments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:40 PM
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As my lawyer said, “if she’s so crazy and unstable why hasn’t he intervened to protect the children, obviously she isn’t that crazy and if she is then he’s just as much in the wrong.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:38 PM
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My child’s father says I’m crazy and difficult. He avoids paying for his son and threatens to sue me constantly because I demand he financially support his son. Don’t forget the gaslighting and abuse while we were together and I was pregnant. I never trust a man who all he has to say is “well my ex’s are crazy and difficult”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:37 PM
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Wow who found my ex-bf’s dictionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:19 AM
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“Safely guard your last $10” 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:13 AM
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Specifically the office. Looking for his Pam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:12 AM
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Ya know what at least the LVM found his pick me so that he doesn’t bother any of us 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:09 AM
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I actually went on a date and because FDS I caught the red flags I’d normally ignore due to the desire to be loved and have a boyfriend. They were subtle but I could sense the future disappointment because he showed signs of becoming controlling. Nothing he said or did was controlling just his responses to things were enough to sense it. This sub absolutely changed my life. I’m no longer barb the builder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:07 AM
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I was in this position. He left me. I found this sub and now I’m disgusted in myself for allowing it. Do better girl 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:20 PM
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This is the most concerning thing I’ve read today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:41 AM
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I can’t believe there was a point where it was normalized that calling out someone’s inability to be faithful made a girl “crazy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:40 AM
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I really wish we had these. Not even just the harassment or catcalling also my immense gym anxiety only really exists when men are present. I am not afraid of a woman offering me help or looking at me but something about men when I try to work out makes me highly uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:19 AM
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The fact they can’t even see why a bio like that is disgusting is so amazing to me. Imagine having a brain that’s so delusional that joking about assault is perfectly acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:13 PM
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I’m glad we’re all on the same page LOL I was like a bad person to be into but the info seemed useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:34 PM
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Again?!!! What did he do before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:43 PM
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When a man shows who is believe him!!!!! Pick me’s can enjoy him I know I’m good 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:01 PM
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Ok that’s the best way to put it haha there’s weird energy here but the message was good LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:26 PM
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This is my biggest pet peeve without a doubt. Not even just from boys but anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:57 PM
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I’m glad I found another demon! Gotta do them how they do us LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:55 PM
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Mine was guys who wanted a mom/therapist. The last one made me a mom so I stopped babying him and stroking his ego so he got mad at me and left LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:52 PM
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I’ve never thought of it as grooming until I read your comment and now I see it. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:45 PM
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My child’s father left me not even 3 months after I had our son and i don’t know how anyone sees his profiles and can’t process the red flags. I could never. I know too much to want a single dad 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:19 AM
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It’s crazy how simply asking them to keep their penis in their pants for one person can get them to snap so quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:57 AM
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This reminds me of my child’s father arguing with me the other day about how I’m a worthless useless mom because all I do is take care of our son everyday and expect him to contribute financially. Don’t worry I called his ass out “don’t get someone pregnant if you don’t like the financial obligations.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:48 AM
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I’m glad so many people appreciated this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:58 AM
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I’ve learned to take the loneliness as a time to level up in other aspects of my life tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:58 AM
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I love this!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:57 AM
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It’s definitely why I’ve stayed. I was made to feel like the mean one for trying to leave so I used to cave in immediately. I’m happy I’ve gotten past that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:47 PM
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This is definitely a better way to explain it than I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:26 PM
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I can’t comprehend how someone’s brain can connect the two...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:43 PM
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The way I’m seeing it is if everyone around you is an asshole isn’t that it means you’re one. It reflects more on what you’re willing to accept from people. I may be wrong though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:42 PM
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I take it as the detachment being able to be independent if they act up. Not necessarily emotional but more of a financially stable way. Having your own “life” beyond the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:17 PM
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“I’m sorry you feel that way” is my new favorite line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:53 PM
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Hell yes!!!! My relationship with myself is my favorite one now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:25 PM
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My friends definitely got me through my “guilt”. The great thing is once you’re past it you are unstoppable lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:05 PM
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I read “I hate the fact men think” and all I could think was “same” before continuing to read the rest. A lot of what they think is hypocritical nonsense lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:51 AM
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Honestly my mess of an ex boyfriend genuinely proudly told his mom that my dad pays for our dates because I get handed the money anyways... Looking back now I’m cringing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:28 AM
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This hit different haha I’m definitely going to try to remember this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:26 AM
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Her post is the most pick me thing I’ve read all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:22 AM
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My sons father forgot my birthday so yeah the interest always slips in those situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:43 AM
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100% without a doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:01 AM
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I just audibly gasped at this LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:00 AM
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I was so willing to give up my dreams of being a doctor to have a family. I got pregnant before starting college and my sons dad left me. I came to the realization nothing was stopping me now so I’m currently taking my med school pre req’s. I am going to be the doctor we all wanted me to marry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:03 PM
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Hey at least yours would listen to his mom smh. It’s a good thing we both got out of that mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:15 PM
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100% it wouldn’t be circulating. My tinder is DEAD until I open the app myself then I suddenly get likes/matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:25 AM
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yup at 12 i had a guy tell me i gave off kinky “ rihanna vibes “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:48 AM
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drinking and porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:48 PM
4

this post made me remember my ex bf didn’t have toilet paper he handed me a huge roll of paper towels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:52 PM
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i don’t recommend being passive aggressive lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:54 PM
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yes!! This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:01 PM
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that’s your problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:58 PM
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HA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:25 AM
2

Honestly yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:50 PM
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I had a man 14 years older tell me “I prefer younger women I feel less bad wasting their time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:01 PM
2

That makes sense I didn’t think about that at all when I originally read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:30 AM
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That’s so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:29 PM
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Imaging typing something like that out and not seeing how bad it sounds LOL That’s so embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:03 PM
7

How did she not just walk out right in the moment ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:42 PM
2

I vividly remember this and I’m so uncomfortable now haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:47 AM
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One bluffed to me about having a lawyer. You can imagine how much that helped him in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:33 AM
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Wow this happened to me lol mine left me at 2 and a half months pp because of it! Love men clearly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:48 AM
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I’m actually on an anti convulsant that makes hormonal bc basically useless so I’m off of it but I know my insurance would never cover me getting mine tied sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:17 AM
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Your last few sentences are exactly what I have been saying since I had my son. I genuinely want my tubes tied now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 05:08 AM
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Your whole story is absolutely what happened to me and I want to tell you I’m sending you so many positive vibes. Everything you said is absolutely correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:57 AM
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My interest in military men dropped straight to zero after dating a grunt in the marine corps lol There is slim to none with maturity there... a vet okay but active duty never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 12:42 AM
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Definitely a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:59 AM
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The kicker is him leaving me because of Postpartum Depression !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:17 AM
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Defending everything you just listed is my peak dumb bitch move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 01:41 AM
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“Dildo you found on the streets in NYC” opened my eyes better than anything else I’ve read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:32 PM
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