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| 1 | Fucking bitchI don't think anyone was implying that people who consume sexual content are unable to leave the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchWho else do you expect to report it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchWatching porn with your husband doesn’t make you some enlightened or better kind of woman, it just means you’ve normalized it in your own relationship. That’s your choice, but dismissing women who are hurt by it as if they’re just exaggerating is embarrasing. A healthy marriage isn’t about proving how ‘cool’ you are with porn. It’s about valuing your partner’s emotional needs. Pretending otherwise doesn’t make you progressive, it just makes you dismissive | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchSure, there are always cases where people exaggerate or rationalize. But brushing off porn use in marriage as just another ‘nagging wife’ complaint sounds a little convenient. When someone’s intimacy is being redirected to a screen instead of their spouse, that isn’t exaggeration, that is a healthy complaint. Healthy marriages don’t thrive on minimizing each other’s concerns, and it’s telling that the default reaction here is to mock the wife rather than address the behavior. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchI get that some people want to downplay it, but comparing porn use in marriage to a ‘harmless nightcap’ really brushes aside the deeper issue. If a husband is consistently turning to porn multiple times a week, that’s not just stress relief. It’s actively choosing a private outlet over intimacy with his spouse. In marriage, that’s not a minor mistep, it’s a breach of connection and a lost oppurtunity for binding. Pretending it’s no big deal is easy if you’re not the one feeling replaced or negle… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchSo you don't belive that porn addiction is real and causes very real harm to healthy marriages? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchyikes, lets normalize breaking up with people we think are gross | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Fucking bitchWhile I am very impressed with your trade, let's research things before we speak on them | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Fucking bitchLMFAO | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Fucking bitchDo you have a source that backs up your nine times out of ten statement | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchI am curious if the use of porn did indeed lead to the hypothetical (unconfirmed) dead bedroom or if this is a contributing factor to it | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchAgreed! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchIs the act of searching up porn and jacking off to it just a thought? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Fucking bitchIf you are a woman, what business do you have to be in the Divorce_Men subreddit? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Fucking bitchWatching porn together is very differant then someones husband spending time that could be spent with their family on looking at naked woman. I am very happy for you and your "self worth". It sounds like you have discussed these boundaries. Some women do not like it when their husband watches porn on a regular and consistent basis instead of spending time with them. Your set up is great, for you, but it does't work in all marriages. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Fucking bitchMost woman do not tend to throw themselves enthusiastically on men who are spending their time pleasuring themselves to women online, before you bring sex back into a marriage you need to identify why it left in the first place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchI'm interested myself to hear if the porn usage was going on at the beginning of the marriage or if it was attributed to a lack of sex from the spouse. I completly understand a dead bedroom scenario and needing an outlet however I think it is much more commen for woman to no longer be sexually attracted to a man who chooses to spend his time looking at woman on the internet instead of at her. Both scenarios are extremely common and as far as I know we do not know. He mentions that she left him o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Fucking bitchI think that is an ignorant take and you might want to do some research on the effects on porn not just on the spouse but the person consuming it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Fucking bitchI believe that the use of porn/sexual material should be discussed before marriage. In this scenario it seems as though the wife was not comfortable or okay with it. I doubt that she was curled up with steamy erotic thrillers herself but hey I don't know everything. If it's a marriage where both people have discussed their boundries then there are scenarios where it is appropriate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Fucking bitchI understand that some people feel this need but it does not diminish the cracks and hurt it can cause in a marriage. If this is something you cannot live without, that should be a conversation had before marriage and some sort of agreement reached. It is not on the same level of cheating in my opinion unless it reaches a level where it is the same woman everytime or they are paying for it. All I'm saying is there is a reason women leave over this and a very good one. No shaming here but it is r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Fucking bitchI guess I don't understand this viewpoint, he does have feelings and needs which is why he married a woman. He chose that woman over every other women available to him. And he now chooses to look at other woman naked which is in my opinion not only a breach of vows but also a deeply hurtful thing to do when it occurs consistantly over time. Prioritizing other woman over the one you swore to love and cherish and then not understanding why she is happy to leave and not stuck wondering why her husb… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Fucking bitchI don’t think a lot of people realize the devastating affect porn consumption has on ones partner over time. Over analyzing their bodies, wondering what is not good enough about them. Self doubt and insecurities start creeping in. You chose other women over her dignity and sometimes you can’t come back from that. Sorry you are hurting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/25 04:22 PM |
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