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Yeah but out of 10 random women not all of them are going my to be ready and willing to go home with you unless you’re Brad Pitt 😂😂 why u gas lighting this dude
/r/seduction28/06/26 09:47 AM
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Rejection hurts your self image at least in the moment. No one likes to think of themselves as undesirable even if it’s just one person out of many who thinks that, and especially if it’s someone you particularly wanted to be with.
/r/seduction19/06/26 01:17 PM
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If a girl flakes on you more than once then I would just move on. She clearly doesn’t think that highly of you if she finds other things that much more important.
/r/seduction22/04/26 09:28 PM
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I mean they do, if a woman really wants you she will pursue you. Obviously there are some women who just won't 'chase' guys due to their personality or whatever, but a lot will and have at times. But for the most part an attractive woman just won't need to chase men, they will have men regularly pursuing them that they can choose from. Just how it is.
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:54 PM
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Didn’t know they had Reddit on Epstein island
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:16 AM
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If you have to go through your girls phone that mean you don’t trust her. Then you have bigger issues at hand.
/r/seduction19/03/26 05:04 PM
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Don’t unless she shows some interest first. Most girls in the gym don’t go there to talk to guys. Also never under any circumstances wait outside and try to “catch her in the parking lot”. Like calm down Ted Bundy.
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:58 PM
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I don’t think you should
/r/seduction13/02/26 09:58 PM
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I mean if you’re being funny to a girl you are entertaining her so nothing
/r/seduction12/07/25 05:09 PM
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By accepting it. Nobody doesn’t get rejected. In fact when it comes to approaching unless you are very attractive or have great game or both you’re going to likely get rejected more times than not. Just embrace it and be respectful about it. That’s all I can say really. It seems like such a big deal but it really isn’t. Also learn from it, there’s always something you could have done better, unless things go well obviously.
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:50 PM
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I mean getting a girl back after she walks away is almost impossible. Once she finds a new guy which if she’s attractive won’t take her long it’s pretty much over for you. Not saying all the time but it just isn’t common at all. Also in my experience it’s always worse the second time around, I’ve gone back to a girl and have gotten a girl back a couple times in my life and the connection just wasn’t as good as before. As for recovering I mean yeah you have to recover from it eventually. It may f…
/r/seduction26/06/25 01:57 PM
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You have to make it clear that you want to hook up. Instead of taking a girl on a date ask her if she just wants to hang out at your place or her place. I mean obviously a date can lead to hooking up, but if you’re going on dates and not getting hook ups then just skip the date and go right to hanging out inside. Also asking a girl this will filter out girls who don’t want to hook up because they won’t want to hang out at yours or theirs.
/r/seduction19/06/25 09:12 AM
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Fumbled both.
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:09 PM
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Yeah same I fumbled a genuine girl a few months ago and I can’t get over it idky. Even linked other girls and stuff but they just aren’t giving me the same feeling. Gotta just take it on the chin I guess and wait it out.
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:10 PM
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I mean that would be an extreme case, like I mentioned in general most girls are not like this. Most girls are not completely inexperienced with relationships but if a girl is then they may make things difficult for you because they themselves don’t even know what they want.
/r/seduction07/06/25 09:49 AM
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It’s not always the truth but in general most girls will not make it difficult for a guy who they genuinely want.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:21 PM
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Yeah approaching girls who aren’t alone is really hit or miss. The best is when they’re with a friend who encourages them to talk to you. That happened to me a few weeks back and it was so smooth she actually hooked me up big time. But yeah most of the time it’s awkward and the worst is when they have some defensive friend trying to fend you off. That makes it impossible nearly.
/r/seduction28/05/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah bro something similar happened to me and it sucks tbh. I thought we had a genuine connection too. If you really want to know there’s no harm in reaching out to ask her, but it’s probably better off you just leave it.
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:45 PM
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So why don’t you visit them?
/r/seduction09/05/25 06:04 PM
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Hey man, I’ll do what I see fit.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:46 AM
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Yeah I need to work on that. Any time I make eye contact I look away. I need to smile at them but I just feel like my smile is so weird. But those lines are good I think I’ll use them thanks bro.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:06 AM
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Yeah girls are hard to read sometimes.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:06 AM
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Thanks bro yeah I just need to do it.
/r/seduction07/05/25 08:12 PM
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I mean I am a beginner so I don’t know that much. I’ll take your advice though and next time I’ll just go for it. Because I keep waiting for the perfect moment and it will never come.
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:55 PM
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Yeah I mean I think I know where I messed up. So at least I can not make the same mistake again. It just sucks because I really thought we had a genuine connection but obviously not.
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:29 PM
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Yeah I need to just bite the bullet because I keep waiting and then the girl leaves wherever we are.
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:06 PM
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Yeah I mean it isn’t always the same girl so it’s kind of hard. I just mean in general. I am pretty inexperienced with cold approaching so idk I think I’m going to try smiling and if they smile back then I’ll try.
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah I think this will work.
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:44 PM
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Oh ok thanks probably should’ve have just googled in the first place 😂😂
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:35 PM
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Bro I’m going through the same thing. Except we actually did go out together and went back to her place. It’s tough because you keep trying to replay the situation in your head trying to figure out where you went wrong. She really liked me but then just switched. I think all we can do is just move on and try and find someone who wouldn’t do that to us.
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:34 PM
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What’s rejection therapy?
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:06 PM
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Nice job bro
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:11 PM
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This is terrible 😂😂
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah I’m in the same boat. It’s hard to work up the courage to go up to a girl even if you’re been playing eye tag lol. All the common areas are so full of people. Also I always see cute girls like walking around but don’t want to stop them just to talk to them. But maybe that’s the method idk I am kind of a noob at cold approaching.
/r/seduction30/04/25 08:28 PM
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I honestly think it depends. I’ve always struggled with being self conscious. I’ve never really been that confident of a guy especially in social settings. I have been told before that I’m good looking, and I do have good features like my eyes. And I am pretty tall. But I don’t think that I am really handsome. Maybe I am but I don’t see it, I actually think I’m kind of ugly. I also don’t have that much experience in terms of actual game and like cold approaching. But recently I was able to pull …
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:17 PM
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Yeah I need this too. I have the same problem. I am 6’1 decent physique and I have good features. My problem isn’t pulling girls it’s keeping them.
/r/seduction28/04/25 11:12 PM
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Yeah this happened to me recently and it sucks. For me it was even worse because the girl was so hot and she was into me first. But I was really nervous the whole time and I think she picked up on that and it turned her off. So at least I know what to work on for next time. It could be that you just weren’t good fit for her, or it may have been something you said or did. Either way all you can do is try and work on yourself and be better next time.
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah I think that’s the biggest take away from this. I’m going to try not to fall so hard for a woman again so soon. It’s just I really never thought she would do this.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:17 PM
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I tried to keep contact with her but she kind of cut me off. Then she said she really enjoyed the night we he had but isn’t ready to continue anything further. It’s just I wish we got a chance to talk about it more. So much was left un said.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:11 PM
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Yeah it just sucks man. It’s like everything she did made me fall for her. And then she just switched up but I think it was something that I did. I just wish things went differently.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:05 PM
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Yeah that’s why it hurts. Everything I read and everyone I talk to says the same thing. That you don’t really get over it it just gets better. And the thing is like I only ever been in love once in my life. And the same thing happened my actions caused her to distance herself and then I lost her. And that was years ago and I still sometimes think about her. I guess part of me wants to try again because I know that if I don’t she’ll be gone forever. Because I really fell for her and I know that s…
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:03 PM
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Well I don’t know what to tell you. Because they’re out there. It’s not too bad you haven’t found one yet because trust me when you lose them it hurts the most.
/r/seduction24/04/25 06:50 PM
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I mean the things I listed are the bare minimum for a girl who is interested in you. By nothing serious I assume you mean like just hooking up with her. You have to make her want you for that. If she’s into you give her space she might text you back, if you keep spamming her you’ll come off as needy and she won’t like that most likely.
/r/seduction24/04/25 04:41 PM
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Find a girl who will text you first. Who will ask you questions. If you are always driving the conversation it’s not worth it.
/r/seduction24/04/25 04:38 PM
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Yeah that’s good advice honestly bro. I’m going to give her space definitely. I feel like if there was a genuine connection she would have felt it too, and if she did then she will miss it over time or at least appreciate it. So I think in a few months time I’ll text her if I still feel the same way and see if we can re kindle it. Thanks bro. It’s just honestly been hard to get her off my mind the past week or so haha.
/r/seduction24/04/25 04:04 PM
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Yeah and she said that the time was really fun and nice but she isn’t ready to continue anything more. It’s just part of me wants to reach out again because I know she really liked me at one point, like she was the one chasing me at first. And then I guess that made he kind of fall for her but then she switched up on me and pushed me away. It sucks man I really liked her too.
/r/seduction24/04/25 03:54 PM
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This happened to me and it is really fucking me up. I had like the hottest girl I’ve ever even talked to all over me at the bar like last weekend or the weekend before. She wanted me bad I could tell from her eyes. She even texted me first and we set up a meet at her place. But when we were actually hooking up I was nervous as fuck and froze up and then she changed her mind. I don’t know what to do about it I guess I just have to try again with someone else, but damn I messed up.
/r/seduction24/04/25 03:46 PM
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No I 100% understand that. That’s why once she said she changed her mind I didn’t really try to do anything to initiate it again. I’ve never gotten like that far before and been rejected, but whenever I’m with a girl and she hints at not wanting to hook up I just give up trying because like you said it’s not worth it even if you don’t think you’re pushing the limit sometimes they won’t make it clear. That’s kind of what made it awkward for me was I didn’t know what to do but I knew better than t…
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:57 PM
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Yea that was my thinking as well. Once she did that I was kind of put off of even trying again. A few people have suggested that in doing that she wanted me to try and take the lead more and turn her on more but I just think that could’ve been a bad idea. It was just weird how it played out to be honest I didn’t know how to read it.
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:04 PM
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Yeah bro I probably should
/r/seduction15/04/25 08:06 PM
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Well I mean like I was literally about to put it in and she stops me and says she doesn’t think we should. And yeah I tried to be as respectful as possible and said it’s not a problem at all that she doesn’t want to. I do think she appreciated that and maybe that’s why she asked me to stay. But that’s the part that makes me confused. Like she gave me signs that she liked me but also that she didn’t. And idk I wasn’t just looking to get laid from her tbh. Especially after we hung out I realized I…
/r/seduction15/04/25 07:22 PM
1

Bro the gym thing isn’t bad but spam chat is definitely a red flag. The fact she deletes it around you she’s probably hiding something.
/r/seduction15/04/25 07:05 PM
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Yeah that’s good advice. I mean tbh I didn’t even try to re initiate the hook up. I just felt like since she already changed her mind and said no it was off the table.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:57 PM
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Yeah we were texting yesterday but I think you are right. I just wish I could know what I did that was so bad.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:54 PM
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I mean we did talk about that stuff at first and we watched a movie for a bit. For a while I didn’t think she wanted to do anything and then things like escalated pretty quickly and she changed her mind right before we did it.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:37 PM
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Damn when you put it that way I think that I really screwed up. Because in general I was really nervous because I had never been with a girl as hot as her. I was kind of scared to make the first move and even tho I did it took me a while. And I think that I kind of let it get the better of me in the sense that it was kind of awkward. So I think you’re right I think she wanted me to turn her on more and I took it the wrong way and didn’t realize. It just really put me off her pulling out last sec…
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:15 PM
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I mean I didn’t know what to expect meeting up with her, but she is a really nice girl. I was down to just hook up with her but her switching up last second really caught me off guard. She was definitely down to hook up I think when I got there but something changed her mind. And I don’t know whether it was something bad like she doesn’t want me at all. But I stayed the night and she didn’t do much besides like laying with me and cuddling but I didn’t want to try anything more because she had al…
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:11 PM
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Yeah that’s what I think too I mean it was nice of her to offer that. But also that’s what I’m thinking for why she changed her mind. Because that has never happened to me before like that, like she literally changed her mind at the last second before I put it in. I can’t think of why she would do that and it might be what you said but it also could be that she doesn’t like me.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:07 PM
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Yeah I mean that makes sense and is kind of what I was thinking. But like she kind of insisted on my staying the night when I said it I could just go home so I just stayed. Yeah that is true but I don’t know if she wants to hang out again.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:06 PM
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Bro I struggle with this too. Literally just this weekend I met up with a girl and I got super nervous right before we were about to do it and then she ended up changing her mind last second. I felt really bad about it and I don’t know if she realized I was nervous and that’s why or if it was something else. But it has left me feeling even worse about my self tbh. It sucks and I don’t know what to do to stop it.
/r/seduction15/04/25 05:53 PM
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So how do you recommend to start a conversation with a girl like that?
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:04 PM
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Wdym?
/r/seduction30/10/22 09:35 PM
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I mean if you guys just hooked up then you don’t really need to text her, unless you want a to hook up with her again.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:07 AM
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