| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | What’s the point of being here on FDS if you’ve decided HVM don’t exist? | DISCUSSION | whatsnotclickingg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | What’s the point of being here on FDS if you’ve decided HVM don’t exist?Thank you!! The point of this sub is essentially to date, ISNT it in the name? Or are we going to pretend that’s not true anymore? Why don’t they just change the name of the sub 😂 Glad to see I’m not alone in seeing this. I feel a lot better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:30 PM |
| 7 | It never gets better does it? Fetish after fetishYeah that kinda screams homosexual to me. I can’t date a guy into pegging I really can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:08 PM |
| -2 | I'm so done with menDon’t be cynical and completely give up dating. If that’s what you’re doing, then why are you even here anymore on Female Dating Strategy? The point is to level up find a HVM, which you don’t seem to be looking for and you’ve already leveled up...just think about that. Like I said, you’re young and impressionable and there are likeminded men who think as you do. Don’t just hate all men because you’re attracting//seeing the negative now. HVM DO exist. And if you don’t believe that then I dunno wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:04 PM |
| 14 | Struggle is realI’ve dated most if not all of these 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | I'm so done with menI was sixteen too once but I’ll take your word for it😂 someone will catch your attention eventually. But it’s good you found this sub so soon, you’ll dodge plenty of bullets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:33 AM |
| 25 | It never gets better does it? Fetish after fetishOh my god.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 43 | It never gets better does it? Fetish after fetishCan someone pls explain what else he could be doing with the butter besides eating it. Or rubbing it over his entire body... Suggestions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:35 AM |
| 8 | I'm so done with menYou’re only 16, too young to be seriously dating. Don’t emotionally invest in any of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:02 AM |
| -7 | Don't be an unpaid therapist for men who never learned healthy coping mechanismsI just don’t think they should want to wear it. Literally what’s the reason. Unless y’all are trying to make it so that they can do it “because this is America!!” Like okay, they can wear skirts too. Doesn’t mean they should. Men are becoming feminine (insulting us, mimicking us) because of shit like this, they’re literally turning into women. What’s next, men in dresses??? Oh wait, isn’t that....crossdressing??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | LVMs be like...Not a problem!♥️ I’m happy there’s older women here too to spread wisdom and warnings, this sub is life saving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 22 | LVMs be like...The rapper Future and I guess the rappers from Migos coined the term “she belongs to the streets” which essentially means that she belongs to no one man. It’s up for interpretation but I’m assuming it can also mean that men from the streets//the hood can have her because she is no ones. She is everyone’s girl and no ones girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 11 | LVMs be like...The rapper called Future, i WISH I didn’t know he existed 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 27 | LVMs be like...Oh yeah, 8-9 that WE KNOW OF 🙂 he probably has even more than that but maybe the mothers aren’t aware of it or able to bring it to media. These rappers and Sports League players are role models to too many | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 21 | Black men have the fucking audacity to say this shit after decades of putting down black women and leaving them single mothers? Anyways...The depravity of men knows no bounds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:02 PM |
| 22 | Black men have the fucking audacity to say this shit after decades of putting down black women and leaving them single mothers? Anyways...Glad to see woke queens here in FDS as well 💁🏽♀️maybe some of our intelligence will run off on them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:59 PM |
| 65 | LVMs be like...He has a whole army of babymothers and has the nerve to be giving advice ?? He needs a tall glass of shut the fuck up The amount of young men that repeat this and “stop simping” is mind boggling. I guess being kind to women is out of style now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:45 PM |
| 9 | It’s hard out here for a neckbeard trying to find the proper m’ladythen he’s gonna go play some vidya for a few hours and his pickme is going to get ready for her crumb of affection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 106 | LVMs be like...I hate that dumb ass phrase and I hate Future. He’s an awful role-model but then again, most rappers are 💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:34 PM |
| 25 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻FDS women don’t, but plenty of other women still do. We as women have a long LONG way to go when it comes to realizing our power over men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.Yepppp or not believing their daughters when they say they were abused... like my mother 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:22 PM |
| 12 | A new low for NVM- suing twitch because he can’t stop masturbating to streamers causing him physical ailments. /facepalmThis shit HAS to be fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:38 AM |
| 55 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.People like this should never reproduce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:20 AM |
| 16 | pick me spotted.LMFAOO I’m mad you noticed that 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Today is the first time I'll be going to the beach completely unshavenFacts!! I don’t smell either 😆😆 it’s a myth I swear, just wash yourself properly and wear deodorant 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | I don’t know why but I just don’t love or care for my HV BF. Advice?Slightly unpopular opinion here that no one else seemed to express. Disclaimer: You’re not obligated to stay, and in fact you should probably leave, HOWever: I noticed that you said he seems too nice, too into you, too feminine. And you’re used to aggressive and abusive men. That really just strikes me as a problem and perhaps a need to revisit therapy? Being soft-spoken or kind shouldn’t be considered feminine qualities; moodiness(kinda), arguing/insulting females, and judging women for how the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | SeXuALLy ReJeCtiNg mEn iS A HaTe cRiMeI definitely feel that!! I hope it changes one day and soon, but until then stay safe sis ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:53 PM |
| 18 | SeXuALLy ReJeCtiNg mEn iS A HaTe cRiMeMen will harass you in anything, even in a damn garbage bag they’d find a way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Men and 'friends' of opposite sexIn my experience, platonic opposite sex friendships ALWAYS led somewhere else. Every guy that wanted to be my friend eventually asked me out, and let’s apply this to a guy: he either likes her or she likes him, and what does that mean for you? Pain in the ass. So female acquaintances are fine if they aren’t hanging out alone OR frequently or texting often, BUT not preferred. Would he want you to have male friends? In my experience guys don’t 😂 so neither of has many if ANY opposite sex friends. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl’s 30 year old BF manipulates her into anal and gaslights/verbally abuses her when she expresses she feels manipulatedExactly. Why are we showing sympathy for willfully ignorant women? Are we supposed to gently hold their hand like a child and wait for them to wake up from their rose-tinted dream? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Why Pick-Me friends are a detriment to HVW & HVW in progress...Personally I just don’t listen to them if they’re around, and I avoid socializing. Thus I have few friends. If you’re going to be a HVW that means you think for yourself. If you’re strong with your stance then no pickme can brainwash you back into your old ways 😁😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Pickmeishas attack in the commentsI think people need to stop being so sensitive. If you’re living with a killer and someone’s like “DUMB HOE GET OUT OF THE HOUSE RIGHT NOW!!” Then why does your harshness matter. You’re trying to help, why be kind if you desperately want them to change ? Imagine if everyone were “harsh” to her, she’d see the gravity of the situation. Don’t tiptoe around her feelings, she’s old enough to be on reddit and she’s bound to get them hurt anyway... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Pickmeishas attack in the commentsIts extremely hard for me to be kind to willfully ignorant people. Like TRULY, people that reply to the comments reinforcing their bad ideas? They don’t even want change. “Please give me advice!!! But don’t suggest me doing the right/hard thing, anything but that!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeishas attack in the commentsDude she’s been seeing him since fucking DECEMBER !!!!! How long does it take🙃🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Update: confronting cheating fianceOkay, sorry if I’m coming off as tough but it just seemed immature to me. Plus if he’s only HVM 90% of the time, why not marry someone consistent? My point is, it was just annoying that you went against the handbook and TOLD us to not call you out for it 😂 In the future don’t let a man have that much power over your emotions. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Update: confronting cheating fianceI’m glad you left but why even let him know he bothered you. Ghosting hurts more, it’s not easy to do though. It’s way easier to give into your emotions like you did, but you really just let him know that you cared that much. Anyway, glad you’ll be onto bigger and better things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:44 AM |
| 11 | Best thing I never hadJesus are we talking about the same person ? 🙃🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | To you, it was just casualThis is why I don’t dress-up and put on more than lower-lash mascara and lipgloss. I also don’t really bother to shave the little black stubbles that might be poppping up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Nailed itVery true, since times of slavery black bodies have been sexualized, and that continues on to today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | I interfered today when I saw a man strangling a woman on the street while the male SECURITY GUARD did nothing.I’m so proud of you OP and this is proof that this sub SAVES women. It saved you, and it helped you save her. It’s amazing that this sub has literally made you into not only a HVW but an amazing human being. 🌸🌺👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 53 | When you send a LVM manchild to the grocery store...LMFAO the mommy really got me 😂so many women think they need to play mommy and raise a man. My dad is like this when he goes grocery shopping and often gets the completely wrong thing, so often it could be on purpose. Thank God I found this sub bc I thought it was normal 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Just like porn these porn like romances are dangerous for young women and need to be call outThis sounds like the authors, assuming most are women, are trying to cope with some kind of sexual trauma from their youth. Why would this be a fantasy they want to share? Why else would they write about Stockholm syndrome, unless they’re trying to please men? Or is this just low self esteem and they think they deserve this? What’s the motive ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | My HVM opened my eyes to the horrors of the porn industry.I kind of feel like he should at least be willing to talk to you about something that STILL bothers you. AND maybe there’s a reason this still bothers you, if you can’t get over this maybe it’s a sign you should leave. It’s gonna be painful to even consider but if you’re constantly bothered over this and feel like you can’t talk to him, Is it even worth it? Avoiding the subject for his comfort? Think about whether this is really the only thing he does, any other behavior you’re overlooking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:11 PM |
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