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Another piece of advice that will always stick with me is this: there will be moments of extreme clarity and moments of extreme frustration. Just keep pushing.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:12 PM
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Foundation is for absolute noobs. Blueprint is ok. I never fully got through it. It's more for like a general outlook on life. What I've been using as of late is juliens product PIMP. It's an amazing product. HOWEVER, don't get hung up on all the products. Go out and develop a feel for it most importantly.
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:30 PM
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Rsdjulien and julienfreetour
/r/seduction27/03/14 01:08 PM
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Best advice to my former self would be : Start watching all of RSD's videos now. Attach yourself to the process of taking action (not the girls reactions) Get used to "jumping into the cold water" aka making that first approach as soon as possible because it only gets easier from there. Spend as little time as possible on this subreddit because it is literally cancerous for your development. Looking at how some people critique my game and the general consensus agreeing with them is an indicator …
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:15 AM
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I've been having some realizations lately that I didn't understand when I was younger. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE to watch videos. It's all I watch on youtube in my spare time. HOWEVER, (in regards to mental masturbation) you cannot think your way to mastery, you can only ACT your way to mastery. You can sit in your house and think of every angle that an interaction can go and try to prepare for it all but it will never be enough. There is no amount of theory that will make up for not taking act…
/r/seduction27/03/14 02:59 AM
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Can you copy it to me? In on my phone and can't find it.
/r/seduction26/03/14 10:03 PM
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I haven't read that in years. I usually just say whatever pops in my head at that moment in time.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:31 PM
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I'm average looking.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:29 PM
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No.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:28 PM
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Yeah because remembering her name TOTALLY would have made that set better. Focus on the bigger picture.
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:28 PM
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No. Don't force yourself. Stay in your god damn house and never go out. Can you detect the sarcasm yet? Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:03 PM
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Lol you know how hard it is to remember names when you talk to like 10 girls in short amount of time? Shit becomes blurry.
/r/seduction26/03/14 02:30 AM
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I use a sony tape recorder and a lapel mic. Total cost is like 60-70 dollars.
/r/seduction25/03/14 10:30 PM
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Says the keyboard jockey.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:49 PM
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Ok so wait your whole life for warm approaches instead. Just be a leaf floating in the wind. Fuck that shit. Actively go after hot girls and force yourself into situations that yield you results. Or don't do it and let your pathetic genes get weeded out of existence. Up to you.
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:53 PM
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Stop making excuses.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:35 AM
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I'm 22. How old are you?
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:28 PM
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The opener doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:27 PM
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Menlo, Woodbridge, Freehold, Monmouth, all over haha
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:09 PM
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Good god man that's horrible.
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:17 AM
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Do day game! It's good for the soul ;)
/r/seduction11/03/14 02:10 AM
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The "routine" was really just 1% of what was going on in the interaction. I just thought it was an interesting aspect of the whole thing. A bad interaction is one where the girl doesn't even stop to talk to me. For day game, (for me at least) my interactions either go like this and the girl gives me her number or the girl keeps walking.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:59 AM
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If I go out for an hour or two I usually end up with 3-4 numbers a day during day game. Girls are girls though. It's not like the girls in Jersey are more receptive or anything. DON'T think of it in terms of a success rate either. Night game is a different story. I don't do numbers during night game. Just try to pull.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:56 AM
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Ok, here I am again, first set of the day in a super quiet mall. I'm not going to give a breakdown of the entire conversation because that would take hours to explain the dynamics. HOWEVER, I am going to give you one of my FAVORITE PUSH/PULL "routines" (I hate using that word) as this is something that came up organically throughout all of my conversations and I just enjoy saying it from time to time: Basically, it starts when I tell the girl I am trying to learn a new language. Then I give her …
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:03 AM
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It means being a theory junkie and just thinking about pickup more than actually going out and doing it. Time spent in the field should be more than time spent on this subreddit or watching videos.
/r/seduction04/03/14 11:47 PM
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I'm sorry, is it 2005 again?
/r/seduction04/03/14 11:16 PM
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I started seeing real success in these past two months because I stopped mental masturbating and took massive action. I talk to at least 3 girls a day 6-7 days a week and I can't tell you how beneficial it's been. You can watch all the videos you want and read all the theory out there but there is no substitute for going out and emotionally recognizing what it feels like when something works and repeating the process over and over. That was one of the biggest lessons so far.
/r/seduction04/03/14 09:06 PM
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Right now I'm 100% addicted to improving myself in this area so putting the game on hold is not really an option.
/r/seduction04/03/14 08:43 PM
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You are thinking WAY too much into it. Vibing is just chatting the girl and self amusing. You talk the girl, enjoy the moment with no outcome in mind, and LET TIME DO THE WORK FOR YOU. This is super key. You're not escalating the interaction vertically. Think of it in this way instead-- you are getting her attracted to a certain point, then sustaining it horizontally as time does the work for you. If you keep thinking to yourself "shit what's the next step??" you're going to be attached to the o…
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:28 PM
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Thanks for the kind words man. I never saw transformations. I would recommend foundations if you were completely new to the game. Blueprint is good to revisit every now and then to keep your general outlook on life in check. However, the best product you could invest in is Julien's product PIMP. It's helped massively.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:46 PM
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I wear a tank top under a tshirt and attach the mic to the tank top.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:43 PM
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I use a sony voice recorder with a sony lapel mic. The mic was $20 and the recorder was around 50. It usually comes out with pretty good quality. Not much shuffling sound at all.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:36 PM
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Hightop sperries from Journeys lol
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:34 PM
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I learned pretty much everything from RSD. Indefinitely recommend them.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:31 PM
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I use a sony voice recorder and a mic. The phone doesn't work that well in my experience.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:30 PM
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I've been in the game for about 1.5 years. I was horrible when I started.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:21 PM
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Yeah really. She was very receptive.
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:10 AM
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You're welcome. Enjoy!
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:39 AM
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You are coming from a horrible mindset dude. You want to be coming from a promotion oriented mindset, not a prevention oriented one. This basically means that you should only be thinking of all of the things that could go right when dealing with women. Don't be thinking about all the things that could go wrong. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GIRL WILL SAY YES. Do you want to be good at this? Go for every opportunity you fucking get. Don't cockblock yourself because you "thought" it wouldn't work out. Go fo…
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:27 AM
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I got close to her because I wanted to. When I was guessing her height I got toe to toe with her and placed my hands on her head to measure her haha. But honestly, don't think of it like some escalation maneuver. We were both feeling each other and I wanted to be physically closer with her so I did it. I wasn't thinking that initiating kino would get me to point b? Just did what felt right at that moment in time. There's an expression from RSD called "Boners not kino". Basically, you want to do …
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:23 AM
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No. I don't think that far ahead. I honestly thought I gave her my name. Don't plan ahead with little tactics. It's way better to just be present in the moment with her. She can sense if you are thinking ahead and you will not come off as a sex-worthy guy.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:20 AM
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Everything that I've recorded so far (that's worth listening to) can be found at soundcloud.com/alldaypua
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:11 AM
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Go for the fucking number close next time even if it feels weird. Don't be a weiner. Facebook closes shouldn't be a thing.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:00 AM
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I set up a date for drinks later on in the week.
/r/seduction04/03/14 03:18 AM
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Step 1: Playfully command the girl to stop. Step 2: Vibe Step 3: Playfully make fun of her (80% pull 20% push) Step 4: Qualify her (You know what I like about you?) Step 5: Find out her logistics throughout the conversation. Step 6: Self amuse while vibing (What would you do if... [insert hypothetical situation here] and fake fat girlfriend story) Step 7: Number close if her logistics don't work for instant date (she was with her friend).
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:22 AM
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Yeah on campus, at the mall, anywhere really.
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:49 PM
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Yeah I bought pimp too. Really helped me out.
/r/seduction03/03/14 04:17 PM
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You just have to stop caring eventually. I've stopped girls in front of people who watch. You know what they were probably thinking? "Wow I wish I had the balls to do that". Even if I got rejected, do you think they're going to remember me an hour from now? Probably not. People only care about themselves. I know that every approach is me coming into my prime as a man and no one is going to stop me from doing that. It comes down to one thing, how badly do you want to be great at this? Approach gr…
/r/seduction03/03/14 05:24 AM
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Haha yes I do.
/r/seduction03/03/14 05:22 AM
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Ahh too bad.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:21 AM
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Have any serious ones? I'd love to critique something because I am bored.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:12 AM
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I don't understand what your goal was with that conversation...
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:09 AM
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That was a true story. I guess it just worked out that way haha.
/r/seduction03/03/14 01:21 AM
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How in the fuck does this have so many upvotes. This is a field report about you drinking till you felt sick and chatting up guys. Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction03/03/14 12:41 AM
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This is a clip of me gaming a girl while waiting on line outside of a club. I ended up meeting up with her later in the night and closing. The main lesson to take from this set is POLARIZATION. Once again, notice the tonality in my voice. It almost sounds jokingly mean. This hooks her instantly because I am unapologetic and speaking with breaking rapport tonality. There is also a lot of physicality going on here that can't be seen. The main thing to take away from this clip is how a polarizing t…
/r/seduction03/03/14 12:33 AM
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I'm from jersey but I'll be in Miami March 20-23 for the sole purpose of pickup.
/r/seduction28/02/14 07:12 PM
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Shut up.
/r/seduction28/02/14 04:14 PM
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These pickups that I've been posting have been super short. I had class like 20 minutes later so I was definitely trying to cut it short. However, in the first couple of minutes you really want to be dominating the conversation and "barreling through" the topics and "plowing". This allows me to reach the hook point super fast. I've seen the slow approach and it doesn't hold a girls attention like this does. It's important to remember that GIRLS LIVE IN THE EMOTION OF THE MOMENT. It's actually fu…
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:13 PM
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These pickups that I've been posting have been super short. I had class like 20 minutes later so I was definitely trying to cut it short. However, in the first couple of minutes you really want to be dominating the conversation and "barreling through" the topics. This is just so she can experience a larger sample of my personality in a short amount of time. If this interaction had lasted longer than 5 minutes, you would have seen the pace change from me doing 90% of the talking to me do 50% and …
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:07 PM
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It varies. But I have more successes than "failures" ( hate using that word) when I do day game.
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:04 PM
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I forgot to call her.
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:03 PM
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Yes, approach groups as well as the solo girls. You want to expose yourself to as much emotional trauma as possible. Every time you do something that makes you super nervous, you grow as a person and expand your comfort zone. I went into a ruby Tuesdays after I talked to this girl today and approached the hostess in front of her coworkers. I did it because it made me nervous. Now my comfort zone has expanded even further. There is no way around feeling nervous either. You have to develop will po…
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:15 AM
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You just have to stop caring eventually. I stopped her in front of a couple of people who kind of watched it happen. You know what they were probably thinking? "Wow I wish I had the balls to do that". Even if I got rejected, do you think they're going to remember me an hour from now? Probably not. People only care about themselves. I know that every approach is me coming into my prime as a man and no one is going to stop me from doing that. It comes down to one thing, how badly do you want to be…
/r/seduction28/02/14 04:54 AM
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I use a sony recorder (it's the first one that pops up on amazon when you search for sony recorder) and a sony mic. Altogether everything costs 70 dollars I think.
/r/seduction28/02/14 04:07 AM
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Thanks! Hopefully I'll be able to get some video at some point too.
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:43 AM
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Well that's your problem right there. Real abundance happens when you go out at least 30 minutes each day. Do the longer sessions on the weekends obviously. But seriously, I started going out and talking to at least 3 new girls a day for coupe months now and the results are amazing. My game has improved so much. Check out my last couple of posts. I upload infield audio of my sets and you can see how carefree I sound. You wont experience true abundance by approaching a "Few sets" a week. You have…
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:12 AM
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How often do you go out and how many girls are you talking to per night?
/r/seduction28/02/14 01:48 AM
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Step out of scarcity and into abundance.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:50 AM
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First off, wrong subreddit for this kind of post. Second, you are doing something wrong if you're posting your fiance's picture online to get the validation of fucking strangers. But if you're that desperate for the approval of a bunch of keyboard jockeys might I suggest /r/amiugly ?
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:18 AM
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Stop looking externally for something to cure your AA. It ultimately comes down to you to stop being afraid and man up. You need to develop a perverted pleasure in the pain of rejection and ultimately laugh at yourself when it happens. You're not going to think your way out of AA. You can only take action.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:52 PM
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Once again this is me out of state (first open of the day) so you can see how I kind of fumble on my words in the beginning. HOWEVER, I trust that with time, and saying whatever comes to mind while embracing the choppiness, my conversation will become more on point and flowing. Other key points: -An important concept is the idea of pressure on/pressure off. VOICE MODULATION is key here, guys. What I mean by this--> notice how I say "Wait!" and quickly change my tone of voice when I say "I saw yo…
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:14 PM
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I don't game the girl over text. I just use it as a bridge to meet up either that night or the next day. The sooner the better.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:30 AM
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Audio on the number close: Me: "You should hang out with me sometime because you're cute". Her: " I should"? Me: "Or not, i don't know. Maybe you're adventurous...or maybe you're a loser. But give me your number either way and I'll find out. Deal?". Her: "Deal. YOU can text ME though because I hate texting". Me: "I'm a horrible texter". Her: "Me too". ME: (whispering) "I'm never gonna text you". The rest is audible.
/r/seduction20/02/14 11:22 PM
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Not when you're saying it while you're staring at her dead in the fucking eyes like you're going to fuck her.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:51 PM
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Dude I can tell exactly where you're at in the game just by your "critique". I can say this with confidence because I've been where you're at. I don't even hear what I'm saying when in talking to the girl. It's literally all sub communications. If I had audio you would understand more. The fact that you're concerned about my Starbucks comment hinting at financial instability tells me that you need to go out more. I'm gonna guess that you've been in this for about 6 months and you go out twice a …
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:12 AM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction19/02/14 03:58 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:00 PM
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How often do you go out?
/r/seduction18/02/14 09:33 PM
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The only way I got so quick in my responses was by going out and doing it at least 3 times a day.
/r/seduction18/02/14 09:26 PM
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How often do you go out?
/r/seduction18/02/14 12:55 PM
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You're looking WAY too much into it. It's all about the subcommunications and the vibe. She's not listening to the words as closely as you think.
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:04 AM
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I get results. Good luck in your search for someone with a better comment history.
/r/seduction18/02/14 01:07 AM
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I get very annoyed reading the hyperboles on reddit. I can't help it when I hear a contrived comment. Drives me nuts. Either way, you shouldn't be concerned about my comment history.
/r/seduction18/02/14 01:01 AM
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Just click on the link instead of using the plugin on reddit.
/r/seduction18/02/14 01:00 AM
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About a year and a half.
/r/seduction17/02/14 07:50 PM
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Another longer set can be found here. This was my first open of the day and I'm a little out of it at first. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1y5osd/more_infield_audio_me_out_of_state_gaming_a_kiosk/
/r/seduction17/02/14 05:05 PM
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This is called setting the rhythm. Getting her to react to me.
/r/seduction17/02/14 05:01 PM
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I have a longer set on a kiosk girl if you guys are interested.
/r/seduction17/02/14 04:21 PM
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The less nervous the better because my feelings transfer onto the girl and make her feel comfortable. If I feel nervous she'll feel nervous.
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:32 PM
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Well common sense should definitely be used but the game runs deeper than that. It's a skill that you can get VERY good at if you are constantly challenging yourself.
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:46 PM
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I'm in the midst of writing a review for it. I'm mostly doing it to keep the ideas fresh in my head. Day 1 I had Julien. This would be the night where the instructors get an idea for where you're at. I'd considered myself a solid intermediate at that point. I was pretty stifled at the beginning of the night. He kept telling me I needed to have more fun. He put me in "detention" meaning that I couldn't get any numbers or fuck any girls that night. I needed to FOCUS ON MYSELF and forget about the …
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:30 PM
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He's got crazy game. He really knows how to pump a girls emotions quickly.
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:09 PM
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Whenever a girl gives me a shit test I'll either say something commanding or completely ignore it and change the subject. The instructors taught me how to deal with myself instead of how to deal with the girl. It's all about having massive amounts of fun. I thought I knew what a fun night was before boot camp. You have to be having the most fun and be the most free out of everyone in the venue. That is what attracts the girl. In order to do this you need to learn how to have just as much fun by …
/r/seduction26/11/13 08:59 PM
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I'll have one or two drinks throughout the night. I definitely don't get drunk though. I like to be on point.
/r/seduction26/11/13 08:54 PM
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Absolutely. Another thing that helped was forcing me to OPEN ALL. And that means gaming ugly girls the same way you would game hot girls. By the end of the weekend I was on autopilot and was able to focus on more advanced stuff.
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:41 PM
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They had actual cameras with them. They just hid them underneath sweatshirts. Super obvious if you looked for it lol.
/r/seduction26/11/13 03:39 PM
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Yes. 2gs. Totally worth it.
/r/seduction26/11/13 02:20 PM
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It looked no different than a group of guys out at the club. No girl suspected a thing. It was crazy because we were filming our sets and they still didn't notice anything. The power of the RAS is crazy.
/r/seduction26/11/13 12:03 PM
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I had been with over 10 women before the boot camp. I considered myself an intermediate who was close to being advanced. Todd was a very chill guy. Super analytical. You wouldn't even notice him if you were out. Tyler was a normal guy. He brought his gf on the boot camp and was super preoccupied with her (constantly making out) which kinda sucked. I wish he would've came out solo. Julien was the most fun by far. HE has such a presence when he is out. HE is always the center of attention and says…
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:45 AM
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Anything that pushed me out of my comfort zone (Read the last comment I made). Other ones included sending me back into sets that were WAY over just to do it. Putting me in "detention". This meant that I could not get phone numbers or fuck any girls for the night. It forced me to focus on the process and focus on myself. It's a great exercise. Julien made me do RIDICULOUS shit. If I was dancing with a girl he would make me lick her face or dry hump her in front of everyone. Anything that made me…
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:16 AM
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On day 2 Tyler made me dance with one of the other students for 5 minutes on the dance floor like we were gay. Day 3 was the real comfort zone destroyer. It started with Todd telling me to run a set without talking at all. SUPER hard to do. Surprisingly the girl was really into it. It was ALL physical and no talking whatsoever. After doing a couple silent sets Julien comes up to me and tells me to unbutton my shirt (I was wearing a button down with nothing underneath it). I resisted at first but…
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:12 AM
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It wasn't so much what I "learned" as it was what I internalized. All the concepts that I had heard through all the videos they put out were ingrained into my reality. They pushed me wayyy beyond my comfort zone and literally changed who I was as a person. It was a VERY powerful experience. The entire weekend was an emotional roller coaster.
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:40 AM
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No. It's approaching within 3 seconds of you seeing the girl. Don't wait for eye contact. You see the girl that you're interested in and you approach.
/r/seduction11/05/13 04:47 PM
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There's no magic method to get over this approach anxiety. It basically comes down to approaching IMMEDIATELY after you see the girl (3 second rule). In the end, you have to stop being a bitch and do it. No one is going to help you there. Rely on yourself and approach.
/r/seduction11/05/13 03:52 PM
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Don't touch the girl because you feel that you have to touch her. Touch the girl because you want to touch her.
/r/seduction05/05/13 07:16 PM
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Who upvotes this shit? This is garbage.
/r/seduction02/02/13 05:12 PM
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You know there's an upvote button right?
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:11 PM
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No kino is OK during day game. Energy levels are much lower than they are in the club. At the MOST you could have t=touched her shoulder while talking or something of that nature. I'm assuming there was a table between the both of you so don't kick yourself. Sounds like ya did good kiddo.
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:46 PM
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I agree, experience over everything. Thanks for the quick response. Care to share any indirect openers you've been using lately? I'm growing tired of mine.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:12 AM
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