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Twenty five years ago there was a big push for the pickup scene where guys went out and got social - talking to hundreds of people and just learning to vibe. Is that still a thing? Serious question, I have no idea. I know there was a lot of backlash when they started making television shows about it.
/r/MensRights06/10/25 01:36 AM
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If you’re affected by negative thinking it won’t matter where you go, as you’ll take your thinking with you. Truth is if no one loves you, you have to love yourself. Become your best self. If you want to become a positive influence on society you can do exactly that. I try to help people, be the guy I needed as a kid. There’s a lot of negative toxic masculinity out there if you really want to influence and change society you could clearly become the opposite of that and on your own terms. I love…
/r/MensRights02/10/25 02:58 PM
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No it’s very accurate and contagious in its communication is the problem and it’s practically pathological for some . I used to “mansplain” I think it’s inherently pet of pre-google culture; especially GenX vs Boomers where practically every conversation was a fact war and Trivial Pursuit was a way of life. Now, I actively try not to do it… when I talk to another guy of my generation I unconsciously find it just roils down to two assholes mansplaining obvious facts and interrupting each other wh…
/r/MensRights14/09/25 08:23 PM
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I know right! My generation was only allowed to display two emotions: anger and righteous indignation, which really did no one any favors. I fear we are swirling down the toilet in a race down. I believe now (thanks to the wise words of others) the external happenstance matters less and less. To define oneself by that bullshit waves diminishes us so much. It’s a crime again ones self.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 01:15 PM
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Who cares? We nail our thoughts through our foot to the floor with such thinking. Unable to move on, improve, focus on what is important. It’s just meant to piss you off so why would you care what they think and are doing? This subreddit is already a train wreck brought on by half the men here with a chunk of the rest making it a pity party or a cesspool. I get it but I wish even a quarter of the men here could focus on the positive and work on improving themselves. sigh
/r/MensRights12/09/25 12:38 PM
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Just block her and move on
/r/MensRights11/09/25 09:16 PM
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I don’t really post here anymore but I’ll play devils advocate this once - for the record it wasn’t Mr Rogers. It wasn’t Steve Irwin. It wasn’t Bob Ross or anyone we can inarguably argue as someone who was good to the core. Charlie Kirk was a guy who died doing exactly what he loved doing most and got rich doing it = stirring up shit. He might have said a few things that resonated with you and helped you (personally I think you helped yourself) but the downward trend of our culture is people lik…
/r/MensRights11/09/25 12:56 PM
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Honestly who cares? Just let it go bro. There are plenty of women I’d rather not hang out with. Wish her good luck and move on.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 02:36 PM
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Overthinking and quick speak are expressions of nervous energy. Why? Are you afraid to be seen talking to cute women? Are you embarrassed to be seen as someone who talks to the opposite sex or to whomever you are attracted? Embrace it. Go for it. It’s 10k volts jumping into a copper lined bathtub with a toaster. Go give and thrive in the energy. Quit letting the angst be in front of you. Also make up your mind was she cute or not? “Wasn’t really interested in her”? Are you making internal excuse…
/r/seduction06/11/18 05:34 PM
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Ha that’s great she’s a half step away from saying “I am afraid of being raped and don’t like it when certain types of guys do this” and the best you can come up with is get over it bitch I’m a candle in the wind precious snowflake of seduction?
/r/seduction23/09/18 12:19 AM
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Yeah I know right? But look at the comments. It seems for some it’s not enough to say oh your post is completely wrong, your definition of what you are talking about is wrong, this is the wrong place to post, your interpretation of your own feelings are completely irrelevant and wrong because I’ve never cat called anyone, and lastly you’re a bitch for thinking you’re attractive... I can’t think of a better word that fits, can you? All because OP is sharing a personal experience that should be ta…
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:43 PM
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Inappropriate and no need to be bitter, you come across as pathetic. She is sharing important personal insight and you are sharing the least constructive of yours
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:33 PM
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What was the comment?
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:30 PM
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Sorry to hear about all this OP and thanks for sharing. I am curious to see if it is a specific demographic who treat you like this? I know when I lived in Los Angeles and would walk down the street with my Latina girlfriend Hispanic guys would honk their horns all the time, it always seemed to me to be the (worse) stereotypes of the culture. I haven’t read all the other comments here, a few seemed mansplaining / off base Edit a few of the comments/replies are just down right ugly and some are p…
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:29 PM
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Easy. You are over thinking it you have a billion options. Firstly get out of that head space. You have every right to go out and meet hot people, improve your dating situation and hopefully leave people better off after they have met you. Second how you interact with others is all based on YOU and YOUR personality I can give some examples but it’s about you being your best self whoever that is. here are some examples with segues of what I would do but you can come up with better. Straight forwa…
/r/seduction20/09/18 08:27 PM
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I am not active in the community anymore but I hope I don't come across as negative in my posts although a lot of it is problems inherent in the written word, there's no inflection or tone and no one wants to read pages of advice even good advice, so we are terse, which comes off as harsh i believe. That said I can't stand the "whiny teen angst" and it pops up in 30year olds! It makes me cringe and I have zero tolerance for it as I was like that years ago. I'd rather be brutal and shake someone …
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:48 PM
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You don’t. You’re only going In your circle because you don’t have enough options, are coming from a place of scarcity. Because of that you’ll fail. Go out and create abundance and then maybe you’d succeed in your circle but it would still be a bad idea.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:43 PM
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I found that until I could consistently pull people it wasn’t helping me. My female friends would cockblock me, my guy friends were so thirsty they’d would either try to steal the girl or were so uncalibrated they’d ruin the set. In a group where you’ve ever used sarcasm against your friends they’re going to use it back at you at these times. I got a new social group of guys who were intent on meeting women and that was alright but the skills were hit or miss. I would usually have to bring a few…
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:13 PM
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I never really drank when I went out... I was using it as liquid courage which I realized was interfering and I didn’t need it. If anyone asked which they hardly did I’d say “I’ve already been drinking for awhile” and then turn it into a playful tease suggesting she just wanted to get me drunk and take advantage of me then act like I was pondering it and say okay use me girl but be gentle
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:52 PM
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You don’t need a budget. Go get a coke or water whatever. Just get out and open. If people ask, I’m waiting for friends to show up or my friends are here but he’s over there talking to some chick.
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:47 PM
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The easiest is just to approach and open, you don’t need to come up with anything situational or make fake reasons to talk to them As example what not to do: — lovely bread in this bread aisle don’t you think? — say lass I’m taking a poll what’s your opinion on the developmental assistance policy to Bangalore? Okay what to do — hi you look interesting so I’ve decided to come talk to you — hi I was over there I noticed this -_ interesting thing about you you have a __ cool style (whatever) — hi y…
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:44 PM
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Europe
/r/MensRights02/09/18 01:07 AM
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I spent my life savings and a big chunk of debt $72k defending myself in court against false accusations of domestic violence made by my ex-wife. (She was a foreigner who decided to move here and decided I’d be a good green card solution and found out she could stay if she got charges filed against me.) It wasn’t until I tracked down her ex-boyfriends indicating previous patterns of behavior on her part, that I was able to put an end to it. I don’t think it ruined my life though it made it finan…
/r/MensRights01/09/18 09:00 PM
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I've got this one, this is an easy one , been there done that. First off, Hired Guns — It's easy to talk to hired guns because they are by definition, paid to be nice to you. It's okay to have fun and flirt with them to get warmed up, but ultimately the interactions are going to be worthless for the majority of guys. Use it for what it is but don't use it as a crutch. Second, the answer is easy because you've already got the answer and just don't realize it. Random encounters are difficult, no k…
/r/seduction04/09/16 04:07 AM
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I lost my life savings and went into debt defending myself against trumped up criminal charges and alimony. Fortunately I was able to get in contact with her ex-boyfriend, to whom she pulled similar shit upon. Total $72k but I don't regret getting divorced, not one bit.
/r/MensRights30/05/16 03:56 AM
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The relationship with the young beautiful girl didn't survive my divorce. I don't think it survived because young women are attracted to the resource base she thought you had. Which while going through a divorce shelling out money, she probably thought you were financially hit?
/r/MensRights28/05/16 12:31 AM
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There's a difference between not caring about other people versus not caring what other people think. That and having a positive emotional attitude and mature boundary function helps in my opinion.
/r/seduction07/05/16 01:08 PM
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It shouldn't be a big deal or awkward. Instead of being worried about doing kino you should focus on the vibe of the date = keeping it playful and interesting. It's not an interrogation or job interview. Also plan your dates out better logistically and if your city is a good one use it to your advantage and plan the date out. I always kept a picnic basket in my car. I'd start at a coffee shop down near my marina district and then bounce to a walk around the marina with a walk towards the park or…
/r/seduction07/05/16 01:03 PM
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Don't make any apologies for it. Just come out honest and straight forward and direct / say I was attracted to you before but screwed up and let you slip by and got into a bad relationship and have now moved on and want to see if you're still single.
/r/seduction07/05/16 12:47 PM
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This happened exactly to me, the judge threw the pre-nup right out saying "we won't leave one of the parties destitute" as if she wasn't a gold digging cunt enough at that point.
/r/MensRights01/02/16 12:06 PM
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Check out Peter Boghossian's work about theists. It is the same thing, dealing with irrational rationality and epistemologies.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 02:40 AM
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Thank you for posting.
/r/MensRights06/05/15 07:06 PM
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I gave up going out with my friends for a long time. My game improved and my best prowling was done by myself. After a long time I just got tired of the BS working with my friends: them fucking up sets, missing opportunities, dragging feet. I'd open girls at the grocery store, bookstores, mall, groups of girls, girls everywhere by myself, so when I realized I needed them for the "emotional support" in a club; it was just another crutch that needed removing. Half the time when I was with true pic…
/r/seduction01/02/15 05:51 AM
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(What this constant nagging and harping does is send a message to our husbands that says "we don't respect you. We don't think you're smart enough to do things right. We expect you to mess up. And when you do, you'll be called out on it swiftly and without reservation." Given this kind of negative reinforcement over time, he feels like nothing he can do is right (in your eyes). If he's confident with himself and who he is, he'll come to resent you. If he's at all unsure about himself, he'll star…
/r/MensRights20/01/15 02:40 AM
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That is a shitty book, and does not belong in seduction period.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:34 AM
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I am going to go counter to the groupthink here and say NO = he shouldn't need your help. I have met thousands of people facilitated hundreds of interactions and most of the time the guys always let them fizzle out and more importantly — Because of winging my girlfriend at the time who later became my wife initially said she was cool with it got jealous and was always jealous eventually ruining the relationship. You can be a good friend. You can say things like you should give him your number. Y…
/r/seduction31/08/14 04:36 AM
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Teen angst is not appropriate for a 30 year old.
/r/seduction31/08/14 03:41 AM
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<<<<<< The army does consider it's men to be property of the US government>>>>> Umm I don't think you realize what this means... In the Marine Corps, to which I am a veteran of, getting a sunburn means you can get filed up on court martial charges. Seriously. During the gulf war we were made to take experimental medicines which we had no idea how it would affect us; like progestimine bromide (spelling?) to counter WMD chemical exposure. Forced birth control? scoffs easy peezy
/r/MensRights26/07/14 07:18 PM
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Don't use cheesy openers. Don't invent excuses to talk to her. Don't make excuses for being a man and being attracted to her. Just go up and say you are super cute I just wanted to meet you. There is no need to pretend you want to talk to her, because you want to talk to her.
/r/seduction19/07/14 12:44 PM
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Don't you dare say a word to her, in most states it is illegal to record someone without their knowledge so it won't be admissible in court. On Monday you contact the police, in the city where it happened, not a patrol officer but the sergeant of the watch or the duty officer. She filed a false police report and will go to jail. Then you contact a lawyer and sue the shit out of her. The cops may have you come to the station and call her in their presence and record her to make a case against her…
/r/MensRights08/06/14 04:31 AM
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On the one hand, a relationship is only about RELATING to other people. Improving another's life by being around them. It is a two way street. On the other hand, sometimes people of both sexes just want to get laid on occasion. This is also a two way street. I find it is usually somewhere in between the two.
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:01 PM
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My advice to you was originally going to be this: You turn around, stick your arm out between the two, say excuse me and step between the two. Ignore and plow, move your girl. If you are on a date it is totally appropriate to ask your date if she knows the guy. And if you are at a bar or a club and someone interrupts your set, do the same thing. Don't make assumptions she knows the dude and don't eject, but be cool. Just calmly walk in between or gently turn the girl around. However, this remind…
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:37 AM
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thanks
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:43 AM
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thank you
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:43 AM
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You know I re-read what I wrote today and there are some who might say I am a bit of a nihilist as it comes off a little negative — So I wanted to add, for both men and women reading this, I think it is all about the connection. I love the playful energy and the almost static electricity of good chemistry when you meet someone who is awesome, or even better; connect and bring out the awesomeness out of them. I love that moment, those thoughts and those times. - - - And even the proverbial times …
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:43 AM
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The problem with this whole thing, you know, this "thing" of the community and socializing and the pressure you put on yourself if, once you start down it, you perceive this huge gap from where you are to where you want to be, and that fuck, sometimes it is overwhelming and you look at it all and you try to do it and when it crumples into a big fucking heap at the end of the night of sarging you feel like shit. Well I am here to tell you, it's a road of pain. The way I see it you have two maybe …
/r/seduction25/01/14 03:06 AM
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Respectfully, I suspect using this a a rapport building prop/tool those interactions have just been built out of politeness, not attraction. Stuff like this is just a crutch, to which your phone numbers gained are more likely to be worth nothing, shit or fake or always screened to voicemail. Where’s the connection? My second problem with this is I see the comments here and I think people reading this are going to be “awesome a better way to number close! I’d totally score with this!” — As if thi…
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:35 AM
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I don't think to many girls are going to be geeking out over this to swoon and make her ovaries sing. Maybe I am wrong, maybe that is all it takes these days to get a hot chick to jump into bed with you these days. To me, phone numbers don't mean shit. And respectfully I don't see what the big deal is? If she doesn't know that you are funny by the time you ask for the number a checkbox isn't going to help. If you writing a program to facilitate getting a number... I mean play to your strengths r…
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:11 AM
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Funny thing is though, the court at least in California, has no problem null voiding a prenup - Yup throw it out the window. As the judge told me "we shall not leave the other side destitute" even though she has plenty of her own money.
/r/MensRights18/01/14 11:47 PM
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Subpoena cell phone records. They usually have gps data. Compare whereabouts.
/r/MensRights12/01/14 03:42 AM
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Ummm just to clarify; justifying the use of discrimination as a profit motive would be saying "and you know what those clubs should let women in for free and take all those guys monies" or "he should hike up his shorts and hope the guy was in the navy and profit profit profit" which I don't think I advocated and would like to think I did not advocate. And while I must plead guilty to possible label of misogynistic, my long winded post was already getting long winded and I did not have enough tim…
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I know what you meant I will try to clarify I understand what you meant with "Tenn. Code Ann. § 39-14-112. Extortion. (a) A person commits extortion who uses coercion ... with the intent to: (1) Obtain services, any advantage" And I counter with by Tennessee law OP's bro in line would have been guilty of assault 39-13-101. Assault. (a) A person commits assault who: (3) Intentionally or knowingly causes physical contact with another and a reasonable person would regard the contact as extrem…
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:06 AM
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Naw Anyone can bypass a line with intent to talk to the proprietor or representative (bouncer) and request privileges. It is like going to the grocery store, grabbing a can of peas and asking the manager can I have for free? You wouldn't then have to go through the cashiers line. In all probablity, however, any police officers called to the scene would arrest the OP gentleman for "Resisting, Delaying, or Obstructing movement" with special circumstances "under Force or Fear" for being physical or…
/r/MensRights22/07/13 02:17 AM
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One paragraph and people say you missed the point.
/r/MensRights21/07/13 11:00 PM
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I suspect this is going to rain in downvotes but, fuck it here goes; For a club or bar, these women are just a commodity, the equivalent of arm candy — because right or wrong, her only value is in being seen and being used by the club as a commodity to get more people drawn to the scene. She will never be asked to justify a complicated belief system. She will never be evaluated on her intellectual savvy or prowess. She will not be judged by, or be dependent upon on her personality, her attitude,…
/r/MensRights21/07/13 10:20 PM
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Really? Feminism = Communism? Socialism? Really? Yeah! if you type "ism" in the online dictionary they both come up! They must be related!
/r/MensRights13/12/12 07:17 PM
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