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Exactly
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:32 AM
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Lol right now I just do front desk and cleaning. I was already into fitness and was considering getting certified as a trainer but being in this environment is really making me want to do it fr. Right now I think the best move is going for it next summer when I don’t have classes.
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:41 PM
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Oh we might be confused on terminology. By escalate I don’t mean physically. I mean like flirting and getting numbers
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:35 PM
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Yeah I think that’s a biological thing too. It’s like the more you spread your seed the more likely your genes are to survive so it gives you an evolutionary advantage to wanna fuck anything. I think this is why men are more likely to cheat for purely physical reasons, while women will cheat for emotional reasons (not saying men don’t do this also and vice versa). I think social conditioning affects what we see as desirable in a mate, obviously certain physical traits will always be attractive t…
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:03 PM
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Oh ok yeah I know exactly what you’re referring too. Yeah that shit will never get you anywhere cause it’s like making the girl feel like she’s a hoe is a sure fire way to get her to not wanna do anything with you.
/r/seduction31/08/20 12:14 PM
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But I’d say the most important thing is confidence. If you see skinny as a negative than it becomes a negative. But it’s like improving your physical appearance is only going to take you so far if you’re not confident in yourself.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:37 AM
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Plenty of women love thin dudes. Better to be too skinny than too fat. But I mean adding some muscle mass never hurts. You don’t gotta get jacked but getting some lean mass will help both your confidence and your general appeal towards women.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:35 AM
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Another thing might be your vibe. It’s impossible for me to gauge unless I saw you in person or like in a video or something. But there are very attractive men who still have a hard time with women because their vibe makes women uncomfortable. A lot of times it’s rooted in like social anxiety a poor social skills. How do you feel your social/ conversational skills are? This is something I had to work on. I worked on physical appearance more first and it’ll only get you so far if your social skil…
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:51 AM
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*the
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:34 AM
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They might find you attractive already, most women aren’t direct. Do you know they nonverbal cues a woman is into you?
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:34 AM
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Well it seems like you have a lot of ambition and a lot going for you, so all that stuff is good. You also live in a major city so there are plenty of options around. The one part that I will tell you though. Looks are important, and anyone who tells you differently is full of shit. Looks are what get you noticed and what get your foot in the door. There are some things you can’t control genetically, but regardless for most guys you can still do plenty to make yourself more physically attractive…
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:33 AM
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I mean your age, where you live, what you do for work, what your hobbies are, how you rate yourself physically?
/r/seduction30/08/20 10:50 PM
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/r/seduction30/08/20 10:49 PM
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What’s your current situation? Even if you’re at square one there’s still hope you are capable of a lot more than you probably think.
/r/seduction30/08/20 10:12 PM
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That all depends on you. Before when I had a hard time with women I would have sex with women I really didn’t like just to do so. I mean if you’re just trying to have sex and you never have then go for it, it’ll be fun for a little while. But work on yourself, once you make progress and you start to get options in the dating world then you can really figure out the type of woman you’re really looking for long term.
/r/seduction30/08/20 06:58 PM
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I’m not sure if you thought changing the genders would be groundbreaking or eye opening in some way but it really isn’t
/r/seduction30/08/20 07:42 AM
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Who said anything about thin ?
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:57 AM
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So yeah from a young male perspective, there are a lot of guys who really don’t get laid at all or once in a blue moon. And for the longest time I was one of the guys who would sleep with whoever just for the sake of saying I was getting laid but I’ve more recently come to the realization that that’s not doing anything for me but wasting my time and energy would I could be focusing on bettering myself and finding someone I actually like. There are a lot of males with that I take what I can get m…
/r/seduction29/08/20 09:09 PM
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Hey man if you see this sorry. I was in an angry place yesterday and I really feel bad about how harsh I got with you on this post and the other. If you see this DM me I’d love to get to know you so I can understand your point of view
/r/seduction29/08/20 08:37 PM
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But it’s a funny story because this dude is 24 now and still bragging about his ex from high school who is now an actual model. But the girls he messes with now are all like 18 and super ratchet.
/r/seduction29/08/20 08:28 PM
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Not necessarily
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:39 PM
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This is so true
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:38 PM
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Yeah when we’re getting bled dry from all angles (rising rent, wage stagnation, price of education) we gotta make it work somehow. Oh well it’s just making us a stronger, more resilient, empathetic generation than the ones that came before us.
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:35 PM
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Yeah it’s like you can only be confident if you have something to be confident about. That’s why you gotta build yourself up. I knew this one dude in high school who could get any girl even though he kinda ugly and just got into trouble and skipped school and got arrested all the time. Later I realized it was because he just had extreme self confidence. But he was so confident in himself when he had nothing to be confident about because he was kind of a dumbass. At it’s like when you get into th…
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:28 PM
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Well yeah you have a point. It’s just for a lot of men when you’re not getting laid you’re more inclined to take whatever you can get. It takes a lot of men, myself included, time and progress to get out of that mindset.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:31 PM
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So basically i was telling him that looks matter and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. They aren’t everything, but they’re definitely what gets your foot in the door and should be step one. No matter what you’re working with genetically there are things you can do to be considered attractive. Get in shape, diet and exercise. Work on your fashion sense and develop your wardrobe. And make sure your hygiene is good. Not just a potential partner but you’ll start to notice how everyone you interac…
/r/seduction29/08/20 11:41 AM
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I think you’re in the wrong place lol
/r/seduction29/08/20 11:28 AM
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From what? I’m not sure what you’re referring to
/r/seduction29/08/20 03:43 AM
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Well you really can’t change that. I’d just take it as learning experience and try to move on even if that takes time
/r/seduction29/08/20 03:27 AM
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He didn’t have a career to begin with. The job we worked at together before was minimum wage. It was just a very easy job where you could just be on your phone all day and he didn’t want something where he’d actually have to work
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:56 AM
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If not low quality they’re definitely dumb and desperate. If you’ve never gotten laid before or don’t often it’s great but once you’ve had some sex you realize it’s not everything
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:54 AM
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It’s ok it’s only up from here. DM me also
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:52 AM
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Well shit if you’re interested in a housewife or a domanatrix then go for if not than yo it’s really up to you what your ideal partner is like
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:51 AM
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Dudes gassing up fat ugly girls is why you see so many of them on tinder with impossible standards in their bio lmao
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:48 AM
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Right it’s so sad
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:47 AM
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Lol so many people are like this. I ran into an old coworker of mine at my current job (a grocery store) and he told me he had been out of work for a while. I told him we’re always hiring here and he said “nah I wouldn’t do that to myself” like bro you have no job and you act like you’re too good to work at a grocery store? Like wow
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:45 AM
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See that’s what a relationship should be and that’s the kind of relationship I’m looking for. And it’s good that you don’t seem bitter about it ending and hopefully the two of you are still on good terms :)
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:33 AM
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I’m very nice to people who are nice to me. I’m only mean to people that come at me in an argumentative tone. I really think you’re missing the point of this post. Of course they’re building themselves up, so am I, that’s the point and that’s the meaning of the word “goals”.
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:26 AM
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You like what you like if you really like fat girls then go for it there are plenty of fat women who have great personalities
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:16 AM
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When you’re a quality man you set your own standards. Good luck with your desperation. I wouldn’t have sex with anything, because I have standards.
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:14 AM
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Oh no I was just talking shit because this dude is commenting on my post being a little bitch. And there’s nothing wrong with it I’m just saying my method is better because it shows more value because you’re willing to put the ball in her court and walk away and not care what she does with it. Makes her chase you, and invest in it. And if she’s too shy that’s her loss.
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:11 AM
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Of course it’s not. Everyone has a mix of those qualities. It’s all about what you see in the other person and how well their values match yours.
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:08 AM
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It’s because most guys put super attractive women on a pedestal because they see them as unattainable. It’s not until you have enough attractive women showing interest that you that you start to think about other qualities - most men never reach this level. They just see super hot girls as goddesses that they can never have
/r/seduction29/08/20 02:05 AM
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Right I wish I realized this years ago. Oh well I’ve been working on myself for over a year and recently think I hit a huge breakthrough that there’s no going back from.
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:57 AM
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Yes I realized that now finally. But I’m only 24 so better now than never.
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:56 AM
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I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not lol
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:24 AM
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DM me buddy
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:05 AM
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Of course. That’s why you have so many average women who think they’re the shit. Cause so many low quality men gas them up in a pathetic attempt to get laid because they can’t
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:04 AM
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/r/seduction29/08/20 01:04 AM
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I’ve done something similar so many times lol it’s ok man we all do it we’re still figuring this all out
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:02 AM
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You won’t believe how many times I’ve been called an asshole or had a girl try make me feel bad for curving her. Some girls have an attitude like “how dare you not want to fuck me”
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:56 AM
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Yeah I was more referring to the lazy losers. I’m actually 24 and just moved back to my grandmas house a month ago. Maybe that one part was kinda short sited. But my grandma is cool because I work and am in school, she wouldn’t be cool with me staying here and not doing shit.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:55 AM
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Well then I have my answer
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:53 AM
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Maybe she’s being nice to not hurt your feelings. If you gave her your number, would she text you?
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:52 AM
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Yeah but does she actually want you?
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:49 AM
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/r/seduction29/08/20 12:49 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:48 AM
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If that’s not what you’re friend wants or is willing to accept, tell him to make that clear to her. If she doesn’t wanna change, tell him to move on.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:47 AM
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Sorry. Didn’t realize you weren’t OP. But OP, if you’re reading this I didn’t mean to throw shade on you. If you’re making progress good for you. I was referring to this jackass. And also, why not?
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:46 AM
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Good. You should have standards. When you’re really high quality not everyone can get a taste
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:45 AM
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But I get laid for superficial reasons too, mainly because I’m very handsome. Sorry they’ll never love you like they love me.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:43 AM
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Read your previous comment you were being condescending and throwing shade. If this is how you treat everyone than of course probably no one likes you, and the only time you ever get laid is for superficial reasons like money and social status, no woman will actually ever love you for you because you’re a miserable human being.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:41 AM
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Of course you make the first move, that’s day one shit. “I wanna pretty girl, and an honest one” - Drake
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:38 AM
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A single interaction with a woman was so important you had to write all this? You don’t flirt with attractive women on a daily basis?
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:35 AM
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Stop acting like you know what you’re talking about and stop being so antagonist it just makes people not like you. Good life advice in general, not just for dating.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:33 AM
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Yes, as it turns out being a nice guy actually gets you laid if you’re not ugly (sorry that it doesn’t work for you) it also gets you friends and respect and love and warmth. I’ll tell you what, you sound like a pathetic simp who got his heart broken too many times and is now bitter about it. So you can keep treating people like objects and one day when you’re old and alone you can look back on it and realize what a miserable fuck you are.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:30 AM
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Approaching her, having a conversation, and asking her if you can put your number in her phone is making the first move. Plenty of girls give their number to whoever just to get them to go away, doesn’t guarantee you even got a real number or that she’ll text back. If you make her text you first she will be putting in some kind of effort and will be more invested, and if she doesn’t than maybe she wasn’t all that interested and you saved yourself some dry boring texting
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:26 AM
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Meant to reply to a single comment but I’m on mobile so idk why it keeps messing up. Appreciate the sarcasm though
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:25 AM
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“This approach will not get you the sexy girls you want” - who said all I wanted was a sexy girl? “Confidence is your job as a man, same goes for sense of humor and opinions” - are you attracted to women with no confidence, sense of humor, or opinions?
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:16 AM
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/r/seduction29/08/20 12:13 AM
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First, sexy isn’t everything. There are plenty of sexy girls who are terrible people and I don’t want any part of it. We can both have both have confidence, sense of humor, opinions and goals. In fact I prefer we both do. If we don’t it’s rather one sided. Women aren’t just prizes for you to win, but if you just want a trophy wife with no personality then by all means go for it.
/r/seduction29/08/20 12:11 AM
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High quality - confident, goals, takes care of herself physically (hygiene, clothing, exercise), has her own opinions and sense of humor, intelligence, treats others with respect, not a bum Low quality - puts other girls down to make herself feel better because she’s insecure. Has no direction in life. Doesn’t take care of herself (poor hygiene, out of shape and makes no effort to do anything about it but expects you to have sympathy for her). Just kinda parrots other people’s opinions rather th…
/r/seduction28/08/20 11:57 PM
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Give them your number. Takes the pressure off them giving some random dude their number and if they are actually interested they will contact you .
/r/seduction28/08/20 11:56 PM
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Right like I used to try to keep at least one or two girls around that I wasn’t really interested in just for the sake of having someone to have sex with. But at this point I’ve realized that I would rather just masturbate than waste time and energy leading on someone I’m not actually into. It’s dishonest and disingenuous to them because it ruins their opportunity to find someone who actually likes them like that. Like even if it’s just hooking up I can’t be regularly seeing someone who I don’t …
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:36 PM
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Like if I realized this sooner I would have saved myself so many awkward dates and pointless text exchanges that led nowhere.
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:05 PM
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TRUE ASF. I used to think I was doing something wrong if the vibe was off and it was my responsibility to fix it but then I realized maybe I just don’t like her personality and that’s why we’re not vibing.
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:03 PM
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Lmao my brother is still like this. I used to think he was better with girls than I was and he would brag about all the girls he hooked up with on tinder. And then after a while I realized that all of them were fat and stupid like yo you’re really not doing anything. Getting high quality women to even flirt back or express interest in you is infinitely more fulfilling than hooking up with dozens of low quality women.
/r/seduction28/08/20 10:01 PM
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Have fun, don’t think about it too hard. Be open and speak passionately about things that interest you. Take interest in her, ask her about herself, give genuine compliments.
/r/seduction26/08/20 03:45 PM
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Ok let’s come back to this 10 years from now and see where each other is at
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:42 PM
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“And I call it how I see it, with my glasses on. But most of y’all don’t get the picture less the flash is on. Satisfied with nothing, you don’t know the half of it” - Dwayne Carter
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:23 PM
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Exactly lol like baby that shits not attractive
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:10 PM
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Get a life and get off my shit
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:06 PM
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Exactly. There are so many basic bitches who think their gods gift to earth like sweetie ur not precious, ur not special.
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:04 PM
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Busy with things that are productive and helping you build yourself up. It’s ok if that’s your pastime when you have a day off or if you’re trying to do it professionally. One of my friends is trying to get into the nba 2k league and actually got invited to the draft last year (didn’t get picked but there’s always next year) in that case he is actually working towards something so it can actually be considered productive.
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:40 AM
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That’s not the point. And if she has nothing to do all day but be at home with you than you can both be poor and stupid and not contribute shit to society together. A match made in hell.
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:35 AM
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No ones telling anyone to change themself just to become the best version of themself that they possibly can.
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:34 AM
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Right, most of us have had to learn this the hard way. If you put someone else before yourself all it does is make them lose respect for you. Know your worth brother.
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:32 AM
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Like they’re an adult with a life
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:08 AM
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Well don’t hate on something you won’t even attempt to understand.
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:19 AM
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“People think, I’m an asshole. Truthfully, I just say what I really think” - ASAP Rocky
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:02 AM
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DM me. I’d love to get to know you so we can understand where each other is coming from.
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:01 AM
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Lol that’s how the world is if you wanna idealize everything you’re in for a life of heartbreak and getting taken advantage of.
/r/seduction24/08/20 02:55 AM
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If language offends you go back to kindergarten where you get in trouble for saying bad words. We’re adults get over it.
/r/seduction24/08/20 02:52 AM
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Lol it’s funny cause these girls will come at you like a hoe and then get mad when you treat them like a hoe. Like babygirl if you want respect you better come correct.
/r/seduction24/08/20 02:36 AM
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Yeah bruh it seems like some of the dudes on here take this shit too seriously like yo if you have the time to write out deep descriptions of every interaction you have with a girl and long philosophical posts like damn how much of your day is this shit taking up
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:47 AM
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She a regular hoe my man, treat her like one. Put your energy towards a girl that got her own shit going on.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:30 AM
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It’s totally ok to want to lay in bed all day and relax, especially if you’re usually busy and have the day off. But a big thing is your environment and your peers. Like I usually have a lack of motivation too that’s why I need structure around me. Like I want to get into acting, I took a class last semester but haven’t really worked on it since then I’ve been left to my own devices. But I still keep in touch with my professor and am taking another next semester and that kind of structure and ac…
/r/seduction23/08/20 09:29 PM
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That’s a good point on its own but you’re taking my advice the wrong way. Don’t spread yourself too thin with things you don’t actually care about. Like you must enjoy what you do to enjoy life and that attracts women. And I love enjoying nature but I’m more referring to the type of guy who just kinda sits around gaming and getting high and shit like that and then wonders why bitches don’t fuck with him.
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:25 PM
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Yo I agree 😂 It feels like people who post lengthy descriptions of all their interactions with women and stuff like this on here are way too invested in it. But then again, hey, who knows? It might work for them. I’d love to just observe how some of the people on here interact with women in real life.
/r/seduction22/07/20 01:48 AM
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I agree with you. You don’t need those things, but they definitely help.
/r/seduction19/06/20 04:45 PM
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Be broke
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:02 PM
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I’d say a good thing is finding common ground. Listening to others and finding a way you can relate their experiences to your own. But it doesn’t have to be small talk, I’ve learned that most strangers have some interesting stories and insights and small talk is a lot more about the vibe and getting them comfortable enough to share more with you.
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:04 AM
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It’s not about that. Talking to people doesn’t mean giving or getting shit from anyone. It’s just being able to communicate effectively with other people , things like humor, listening skills, empathy. Things like that
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:02 AM
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This! As an introvert I love my alone time. But it’s true, if you can’t have fun by yourself you’re not gonna be fun in a group either. I like being an introvert because it gives you time to reflect, to study into things you’re interested in, mindfulness etc
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:56 PM
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Right lmao. I once saw something on here along the lines of “if you can play any instrument decently, just lie and say you used to be in a local band that broke up.” Like wtf, some people on here are so desperate and detached from reality it’s sad.
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:20 PM
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This is my best friend! I’ve tried to help him so many times but I feel like it’s never gonna happen
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:19 PM
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It’s not something that happens over night, I’ve been working on it for over a year and feel like I just recently made a major breakthrough . It’s gonna be awkward, strange and anxiety inducing at first.
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:18 PM
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It’s hilarious Bc right after writing this I was told by an older woman at my job that I’m fucking hot. That gave me an ego boost but another problem is if I don’t get continuous validation like this my self esteem will be back down to earth within the next few days.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:07 PM
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