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That's not what he's saying at all. He's saying all women's behavior is context dependent, and not internal-moral-compass dependent. And that means any woman will do anything as long as the context compels her.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 04:15 PM
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You may think it's the work of a master mind, but the fact is every one of those "rules" was followed to perfection against Trump in 2016 and he still won. The reason he won is because the essence of the book is "how to draw the most power from organized losers." Dispute that if you want. But people can spot loser tactics when they see them. Organized losers are hard to take on publicly and headlong, but the silent resentment which their tactics cause in the witnesses always gets the better of t…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 10:14 PM
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I'm going to start carrying $20 worth of $1s.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 11:40 AM
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"Rules" is how weak people undermine the strong. It's an expression of the slave morality Nietzsche wrote about in BGandE. The simple reason strong people won't apply those ideas themselves is because they aren't losers.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 11:31 AM
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TRP has nothing to do with "I am the prize." It's just about escaping the cultural hypnosis caused by the blue pill. The whole IAtP mindset is just to fill the void after the blue pill gets flushed out and the man is left disoriented.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 10:31 PM
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The only valid measure of having succeeded in life is having had children (who then have children). If any other measure is given precedence, you can be sure it was put in that position by deceitful cultural hypnosis.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 03:02 PM
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After having a son, I can say with the honesty of trial by fire that I much prefer dealing with his mother's Emotional Blackmail (which is a book all men should read) and spending time with him daily, then to be free of her and see him only rarely.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 02:59 PM
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Just watch Trump deal with reporters.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 12:20 AM
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That was the idea for awhile. Now it's got more pseudointellectual connotations. But then again, the first implied pseudointellectualism as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:23 AM
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People can more easily understand ideological strategy than complicated subjects. As groups become more 'inclusive,' you can only expect the internal subject matter to be made more accessible to more people. And if that group is infiltrated by people who are more worried about looking smart than being smart, you can expect ideology to become the ruling dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:20 AM
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I like the idea of being able to say, "I study alt-left ideologies under the heading 'grievance studies'."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:15 AM
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My theory is that TRP got quarantined because of this smear campaign and its inevitable fallout.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 10:45 PM
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Frame is your will-based relationship to others. A shit test is when someone presents a challenge to one of the types of relationships you're posturing yourself as having. It's not a shit test to attack the strength of a wimp. The wimp isn't getting shit tested because the wimp isn't posturing himself as being tougher than others. Women only try to emasculate men who posture themselves as masculine. They try to deflate guys who posture themselves as big. The point is that frame isn't a real thin…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 01:28 AM
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OP says vulnerability is exposing yourself to risk along the course of pursuing what you want. There's a homonym of 'vulnerability' that means 'expressing butthurt.' OP is saying "don't fall for the socially misdirecting homonyms."
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:15 AM
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Great insight. Pushing beyond tbe theoretical to practical reality.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 10:35 AM
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Sacrificing your boundaries and standards to get something that manly guys don't care about.
/r/seduction07/04/18 03:26 PM
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What makes you think you're desireable? Is that just a feeling you have? Or is it like when someone identifies as unicornkin?
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:20 PM
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Women love cognitive dissonance. They love having to rationalize their own retarded behavior. Never tell women "what's smart" or "what makes sense" (pertaining to a major decision) unless you want them to not do it. The most boring and depressing lives of all are the ones that make sense.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:26 AM
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Get a non-union trade job. Anything that requires drills and a sawzall.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 07:31 PM
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This is a very blue pill statement. LMR is the equivalent of approach anxiety for women. They haven't figured out the consequences will be in terms of their social and self image if they bang you, so they're hesitant. You just have to back up to a comfortable level of physical and then try again. If salesmen gave up the first time a person said no, they'd never sale shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 11:24 AM
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Yeah, just look at how reddit doesn't censor anything! Thanks net neutrality!
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:22 PM
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Here's the deeper point: every interaction with a person subcommunicates an invitation into a type of relationship with that person. We are subcommunicating the types of relationships we want with others all the time. And very often people simply accept our invitations and go along with it. When it comes to who we like and dislike, the answer is determined by who accepts and who rejects the invitations we subcommunicate. That's why games like "victim" involve several parts (victim, abuser, white…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:35 AM
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She Senses Your Weakness And Finds It Gross
/r/seduction10/09/17 12:03 PM
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"De-moralize diversity" will be the slogan that whispers its way through corporations across the country.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:47 AM
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Read Nietzsche's Beyond Good and Evil.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:50 AM
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This is all NLP you've never heard of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 11:14 AM
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You're wrong if you think that 99% of girls wouldn't do that. And I assume you think that more than 1% of women are "mother material."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:16 AM
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The best part is when she said she lied so she could continue to cuck her BB.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:01 AM
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Great crop. A good refresher read for someone who's been away from trp for awhile.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 06:50 PM
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You should read The Fountainhead. Social Media is the medium of Ellsworth Toohey's type. You get rewarded for conforming to the fantasies and expectations of the horde at the expense of the expressing your individuality - unless it's the horde's neutered version of individuality.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:40 AM
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"Pakiramdam" does have a western equivalent. It's what the pussy yes-man does all day long. It's when a person lies to help another person maintain a delusion. We just don't have a fancy name for it, because then we'd probably have to identify it as obviously pathetic behavior - even though most employees are forced to perform it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:21 AM
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Trump: "You gotta physically escalate." Cucks: "Never use that kind of language in front of my wife's son!"
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 06:43 PM
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I'd say what you really hate is the responsibility to create shit. The best way to handle their impulses is to direct them, rather than trying to destroy them once and for all. Here's my recommendation: start a competitive business where you try to beat your competitors through every possible means. Make it a battle of economic life and death for them and you. Women will join your side and add their wiles while admiring your risk-taking. They get the feels, you get social cred and become interes…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 09:26 PM
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I'm happy to see TRP is turning around on nofap. I think nofap is great, and that porn works on a primitive part of the brain that makes you think that if you're seeing a lot of women naked, you must be doing something right. Porn is a tool that makes BP men not realize they're BP. Imagine if it wasn't around, and all these 'nice guys' had made it to 35 without seeing a girl naked. Do you think that they would allow that to happen, or do you think that they would modify their lifestyles and add …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 07:01 PM
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This morning, I almost fapped. What I did is said to myself that 'this energy' just means I want to get to work. You have to imagine that the energy wants to be expressed in terms of work, rather than by fapping.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 01:28 AM
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I always get benefits from periods of nofap. Personal record was 100 days. Always builds motivation and focus.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 03:08 PM
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I'm glad he rephrased it as "you're forbidden from generalizing." Then you immediately see this person is playing the game "who's the holiest?" And it makes the line of defense more clear.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 10:27 PM
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It's vital to get a grip on the psychological dynamics of virtue signaling.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 10:14 PM
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Where you say 'backlash' I say 'shit tests.' What these guys do is challenge the dominant narrative, and thereby provoke shit tests. People start shit testing them like crazy. And what they have to do is win shit tests. If you want to be like them, you have to be a master of shit tests. If you challenge the dominant narrative, and then drop the ball when shit tested, then you are categorized as a loser who just doesn't get it. But if you keep winning shit tests, then you create more intrigue. It…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:37 PM
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How about you look at New York in the 70's and 80's and look at it now. I get that you've never done anything impressive, so you're really butthurt when people admire a dude who is far superior to you in every way. But that doesn't negate that dude's value. Also - just because you "resist his frame" doesn't make you Super Powerful Alpha. Kids fight against their parents' frames all the time. It's part of growing up. One thing men do when they see other bold dudes doing something worth doing is a…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:05 PM
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He wouldn't be world-renowned and one of the key figures responsible for revitalizing NYC. But hey, w/e you have to tell yourself to maintain your manly and impressive alpha frame!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:12 PM
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Alll those quoted phrases are the cardinal sins of the Regressive Left. And the regressive left is the force that turns men in to betas.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:09 PM
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It's the way of the cuck. They have to try to trivialize everything that intimidates them.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:07 PM
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Do people who "buy random shares" also become world-renowned? You can't measure Trump's success just in terms of how much money he has. He also has a brand that is of immeasurable worth. People all over the world know him, respect him, and like working with him. He has made a mark in many major cities. And everyone knows his name. Cucks refuse to recognize greatness.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:06 PM
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I love talking about frame. And once we accept that truth has no bearing on human social value, and all that matters is frame mgmt, a lot becomes clear. One thing I was thinking about today - lawyers are armor for frame. The person is trying to impose their will in whatever way. The social frame senses an incompatibility. The lawyer's job is to either invalidate the threat (ex throwing out the evidence) or convince the judge the behavior was in society's frame. That's why oftentimes the argument…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 10:48 PM
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The regressive left thinks that anything offensive is false. They also have degenerate sensibilities. I don't think the regressive left can even make sense of the word 'degenerate.' And if you asked them what it meant, they'd just say something stupid like "You!" They lack the orientation towards morality that allows them to understand how morals are something that have to be taken care of, something fragile, that have to be tended with care.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 01:37 AM
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Holy shit. You're right. The essence of feminism is to make a country a) unable to defend itself b) detached from the roots that made it strong in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:34 PM
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If you want it - never. If you don't want it - whenever.
/r/seduction28/03/16 11:02 PM
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Women never report the truth. Women instead tell you what you're supposed to think of them in order to be on their team. It's not about what's true; it's about what is treated as true. For them, pics are not about reporting their looks. Pics are a way of saying "treat me like I look like this if you want to be on my team." That's the essence of how people who care primarily about power talk. It's about setting rules - not describing reality. Describing reality is for betas.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 09:50 PM
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I called her 'vampiric' the other day, and it got a strong reaction. There's a lot of ways to see it as true.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:30 PM
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The good thing about Trump is that within BP logic, it would be impossible for women to like him. Yet women flock to him. Hopefully dudes recognize this and start viewing him as a role model. "I don't have to be a cuck?" I'm voting for Sanders for practical considerations. But I like Trump for existential considerations.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 03:09 PM
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Nah. She thought that would embarrass him and cause him to lose frame. I foresee a life of cuckdom in your future.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:13 PM
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Bernie is obviously the beta-bux candidate.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 04:52 PM
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It's funny that everyone at TRP is excited about Trump because he seems to embody TRP principles. But you don't want to rely on alpha-fux to manage your economy. He'll alpha-fux everyone who isn't in his in-group. It seems like the best politicians would be beta-bux. You'd think TRP would understand this most intuitively. An alpha-fux always wants a beta-bux to manage his boring shit for him. Government is boring shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 03:55 PM
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The idea is you do things that suggest you have a special relationship w/ that person. You know how you interact w/ ppl who you have generic relationships w/ (even generic friends). So you do things w/ the person you don't do w/ most others. The kinds of things you talk about, the tone you use, the way you touch them, etc. You present yourself as vulnerable bc that way of treating them is an invitation, and they can accept or reject your invitation to treat you in a special way as well.
/r/seduction24/02/16 12:07 AM
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Good insight. It's nice to think of women as ALWAYS responding to a man's genuine requests for how to treat them. And sometimes the genuine request is "treat me like I'm not worthy of respect." If women do this to you, then that's the order you're giving them. I like this thought because it keeps as much responsibility on the man as possible. And men should either bare or break under responsibility - never avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:25 PM
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Exactly. The best way to express resentment for their awalt nature is to make money off of that nature.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:42 AM
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There won't be any rape accusation. And yes - a mistake. She read that as you're way of saying you like her. The emoticon. Her name. This is what she thought earlier: he doesn't seem to like me bc He's not fawning all over me. In fact, it looks like I'm not enough for him bc he's actually talking to other women. Maybe I should indirectly let him know I'm willing to fuck him tonight and that will get him? Then you fuck. An hour later you send her a fawning text message. This is what she thinks: o…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:00 PM
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I don't like it because it stays too much within her frame. If she broached the topic out of the blue like that, then you shouldn't stay in it. A better move would be to ask a question that gets her to think about herself. Brief acknowledgement and move on. ex. "Is that right? How are you feeling right now?" No dude ever sounds funny or cute or cool when he says "I'm not that easy."
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:58 PM
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I do wrt to text game. One of my favorite hobbies is getting my friends and acquaintances laid via powerful text game.
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:54 PM
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Great post. Good thinking. Glad you're learning and getting it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:16 PM
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He's saying you can't polish a turd.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:21 PM
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You are oblivious to political reality. And everyone is missing the actual key point. There were no great "Trump quotes" during the last debate. Odds are, there wouldn't be any at this debate. If the actual debates themselves didn't give Trump all the attention, he found the point where to apply leverage so everyone would talk about him. It's not that he cares about the woman shit testing him. Trump wants everyone to know he's the center of attention. Now the debate watchers will notice the cons…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:06 AM
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This is the behavior to encourage. Betas are meant to be dominated. A lot if girls I fuck have plenty of orbitors, and I always strongly encourage that. You should see the messages this one girl sends dudes literally right after we bang.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:25 PM
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The question is this: who is the point of orientation? We humans instinctively know that not every person can be a point of orientation. There would be too much to do, and since most things worth doing take time and focus, if we were pulled in too many direction, then nothing would get done as we collectively work to build our retarded, feminized human terrarium. When you're neglected, don't take it personally. It's strategic.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:56 PM
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Thank you, learned sage of the English language! Where would we be without your superhuman power to detect these casual misuses of extremely common words? Not many people know that man = singular; men = plural. And those of us who do know tend to forget! We honor your enlightening words.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:33 PM
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The Path to Power by Caro The Power Broker by Caro 48 Laws Millionaire Fastlane Nietzsche and Heidegger
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:05 PM
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These downvotes are proof that people in the anger phase can't think strategically.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:11 PM
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Nothing I'm saying suggests Save-a-Ho. If you'd look at my history, I'm one of the most exploitative and manipulative people around here. I'm being downvoted by people who don't understand power and exposure. These are the people who sacrifice position for a fleeting feeling.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:10 PM
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I would have kept the paper. You shouldn't blame her for cheating on your former bp self. She's probably too dumb and simple to be able to make it in a relationship w/ someone very ambitious anyways. She may have known that and felt very insecure and so wanted to let herself know she had options. Like you said - she didn't have many friends. And I don't like the idea of hurting simple and lonely people. That's one negative side to leaving the paper. The other is that making a direct statement li…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:18 PM
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It's definitely not clear what you're referring to.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 10:05 PM
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Yeah. Had to learn to overcome the persistent pull towards quitting.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 04:38 PM
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The best way to learn body language is to do sales. I did door-to-door sales for a couple of years, now it's hard for me to imagine even what it was like to not pay attention to people's body language all the time. Also note: my livelihood was dependent on my ability to pick up mostly non-verbal cues and work with them. That's the best circumstance for learning.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:57 AM
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If you're someone w/ a strong enough existential drive, you eventually have to kill your father.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:41 AM
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Where do you recommend starting? I've read a lot of Baudrillard, Derrida, Deleuze, etc. so I can dive in wherever.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:02 PM
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You never pass a shit test by giving a canned answer. "You mean today?" Did you think that would get her wet or make her respect your power to hold frame? That's just a cliche answer. And one of the reasons women shit test is to see if you're a cliche dude. Your first response made her suspicious. Your second one about the bacchanal confirmed it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:37 PM
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Lol interview dates. We all go through that phase.
/r/seduction15/12/15 10:19 PM
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From the large part of reality that you can't see, but somehow exists anyways.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:34 PM
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"Matriarchal underclass." What a great way of describing the developing division. Don't try to prevent the matriarchy. Instead, let the powerful matriarchs have the children that will work in your factories.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:33 PM
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I sense a disturbance in the force.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:20 AM
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This touches on a vital part of the human psyche: our inability to predict/control our future behavior. A lot of BP thinking revolves around the idea that we - and especially women - are able to do so. Followed by the subsequent butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:17 AM
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This is - perhaps - the paragon of TRP thinking. Masterful, mindful, an a graceful exposition of the 48 laws. Very well told. This is beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 02:01 AM
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I disagree w/ your limiting TRP. TRP is about creating disillusionment about the traditional relationship narrative. TRP doesn't mandate any particular response to that disillusionment - neither individual or collective. But I can say, after being TRP for over a year, that I started out very individualistic, and I'm now eager to band together w/ talented males to create some dark triad business. I have my own "grey area" businesses right now. I believe it's more meaningful to work with a collect…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 08:56 PM
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It's her form of rebellion against the ceo. She wants to prove to herself that she is her own woman bc she's able to perform acts of defiance. The reality is that he probably doesn't care. She's only there to make it look like he has traditional values so he can then go on to fuck over whoever needs a fucking over.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 08:47 PM
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What in the world is happening here? How is this getting so many upvotes? It's clearly coming from a deeply BP position that doesn't understand the actual laws of female attraction. After you have fucked a lot of women by beating shit tests, overcoming LMR, and physically escalating w/o verbally asking permission, your ideas for what women want and what they'll pout about later change.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:31 PM
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Actually, he's saying this commentor is expressing an emotion of fear in response to OP's suggested strategy, and that the more manly response is to suggest an alternative strategy.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:27 PM
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There's a part of your brain that will turn on one day and things will be different for you ever after.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 11:22 PM
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A person can identify with literally anything. "My idea," "my chair," "my country," etc. The self is a mercurial thing. And there is no objective answer to what one is or is not. But there's a lot of ways to respond to you. First, Michaelangelo isn't the Sistine Chapel's cieling, but it's still way cooler to have been the guy who painted it rather than the guy who got turned down for the job. Second, just because someone has tokens of the same type of genes doesn't mean I care about those tokens…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 10:56 PM
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That first sentence is perfect.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:41 PM
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My current view is that laws and social trends will change. But history belongs to those who show up. So whether or not you get to raise your children, and whether or not you go totally broke in the process, I think the best thing to do is to have as many as possible.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:35 PM
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"Don't take excessive pride in your turn" is a great phrase that should prevent a lot of emotional grief for dudes who decide to be ponies on the cock carousel. I'm starting to believe the next stage of letting girls bounce up and down on you is to start cucking betabux. Men are builders, and we like there to be lasting testaments to our efforts. Fleeting fucks don't appeal to the part of us that wants to see physical proof of our wills reflected in the world.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:09 PM
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Congrats. Daygame is going to be what helps men seperate themselves from the online dating hordes. I had mastered online dating. But now the sheer volume of dudes is making it really hard to stand out. I know daygame is the future.
/r/seduction26/11/15 05:37 AM
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This man is a dreamer.
/r/seduction26/11/15 01:35 AM
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I don't even consider this statement a shit test. It's an indirect invitation made by a person who knows it's not socially permissible to make the direct invitation.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:01 PM
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It's the principle behind the idea of "netflix and chill." If you want a girl to go back to your place, you never say "let's go have sex right now." You say, "Want to come up and have a drink?"
/r/seduction25/11/15 05:51 PM
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You should be physically escalating on the first date. Just remember to stagger your escalation. Raise the bar. Withdraw. Go back to the new high bar. Raise the bar again. Withdraw. I suggest this bc after I got good at f-closing 1st dates, I started getting cocky, and began physically escalating in very linear ways with new girls. I was getting girls topless and finger banging, but then they quit talking to me after the first date. I think it was bc they didn't like the way I was developing too…
/r/seduction25/11/15 01:47 AM
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Capt. Save-a-Ho gets boners from distress signals.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:18 PM
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We live in a world where single mothers aren't ostracized. Our culture has failed the metaphysical shit test.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:17 AM
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"Time has been good on you so far." is better. You never want to hint at absolute security.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:15 AM
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You should also realize that her time w/ you was a shit test for her bf. She probably told him it was going to happen, knowing it would obv make him upset. And then when he said it was cool, she realized he was a bitch. She has already dumped him emotionally, so now she is waiting on someone else to come along and officially get her out of the relationship so she won't have to say making the exit was her responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:13 AM
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Dunno what you think the causal connection there is. But human-human relationships are always more important evolutionarily than human-predator relationships. Status is a big determining factor in getting laid. Guys who can't hold frame and ask for help and reveal they are dependent instead of being the one others can depend on will never achieve and hold high status.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 01:55 PM
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Just logistics stuff. "Still good for tonight?" etc. This is because I'm of the school of thought that holds that you should use the phone to coordinate physical activity, and never as a tool for getting to know each other.
/r/seduction18/11/15 08:17 PM
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As a rule of thumb: never the same day. It makes you look like you're looking for a date out of desperation or boredom. Neither of which are attractive. Also, I recommend 1st dates on M - Th. Girls treat their Fri and Sat like prime real estate, so they're less likely to gamble with those days. You can usually get a girl to go out with you during the week though. The reason why I like that strategy: if I can't close on the first date, then she'll usually go out with me again that weekend. And be…
/r/seduction18/11/15 08:05 PM
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The form of the beta uprising isn't like Rise of the Planet of the Apes. The betas are going to start leveraging the many exit-channels open to them - video games, VR, porn, etc. Society is dependent on males creating 10x their own worth in value. And men will only reliably do this if they feel like they get something meaningful out of the bargain. Once the possibility of a meaningful marriage with children starts to seem universally bleak, the betas are going to start avoiding those taxing jobs…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:29 PM
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This is something I've been thinking about a lot lately. My friend's brother died about two months ago. He and his father were devastated. His father had a girl friend. She consoled him a lot for a couple of weeks. Then, once he started getting back to work, she stopped returning his calls as quickly and started cancelling their dates last minute. Now he has changed status to beta orbiter. I own a business, and things have been going really well with it lately. Things have been going well in oth…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:07 PM
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Right. It's a question of "exposure." Let's say someone took the clip out of the gun and set it on a table and started pointing it at you, about to pull the trigger in play. (Isn't that how Bruce Lee's son died?) You could get a slight gain in fun by having a realistic prop. But you also have the exposure to death. Minimum upside, maximum downside. I'd say the reason some people don't like the AWALT perspective is because it doesn't offer the minimum upside that treating a women like a NAWALT do…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 05:53 PM
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This is my opening line in all online date. "Hi. My name is whenfoom. Let's go grab a beer at [local bar] tomorrow at 8. What do you say?" I get a lot of dates. And one thing girls always go out of their way to tell me: they like how I got straight to the point. The girls who go out with me ALWAYS make fun of everyone else on those dating sites. Saying "everybody just wants to tell me their whole life story, or asks me to tell mine. It's terrible." So if you're following the strategy of "talk to…
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:45 PM
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You're not thinking through what "wrongness" means. "Wrongness" is understood in relation to optional behaviors that fuck up optional forms of life. Being in a relationship is optional. Cheating fucks up the relationship. Therefore, from the perspective of people who recognize the value of a committed relationship, sex with other people is wrong. When women say "it's just sex," they say it with the same tone the use when they say "the past doesn't matter." And they say the latter because they kn…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:38 AM
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Search for my (foomfoomfoom) post on "surprise victimhood."
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:19 AM
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This post oozes neediness and desperation. You need to spend some time meditating on why women hate neediness and desperation, then think about what are the behaviors that convey those terribly unsexy qualities.
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:27 PM
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Don't listen to him. Girls don't want you to talk about your feelings. Your friend is probably looking at how girls talk to each other and thinks "Oh, that's how you get to spend time with women," and then makes the false inference that the more time your spend with a girl the more likely you are to have sex with her.
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:25 PM
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Man - I just started reading this sub. Who is teaching you idiots that you should talk to girls like they're your friends? And no girl believes that you're on tinder to make friends. She thinks you're just too much of a pussy to express your intentions.
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:21 PM
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Your framework is broken. Girls have enough "in depth conversations" with other women. If you want them to see you as an asexual talking head, then talk talk talk. If you want to seduce them, then focus more on physically escalating.
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:20 PM
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Yeah. I've never understood the idea "if she shit tests you, walk." Shit tests are an opportunity to prove you can hold your shit together. "Walking" is another way of saying "I can't hold shit together." I always think of shit tests as a gift. They give us the opportunity to learn what it means to hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 09:58 PM
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"I'm aware of this, but I don't identify with it."
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 12:07 AM
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You should read about how LBJ - the greatest politician who ever lived - treated his underlings.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:52 PM
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I agree that you can say the word 'no,' but I don't see any basis for disagreeing. The rulers always get their pick of the women. LBJ, Clinton, Kennedy, a million others. If a guy commits to one woman, it's a sign he probably feels lucky to have one. And that is a sign of low-staus. So - yes, it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 03:50 PM
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Now that I think about it - a woman could come to see a dude whose behavior reveals he's content with just one bitch as a sign of being a beta. "I wouldn't want to be with a guy forever who is fine just being with me forever." If you want to keep her respect, fuck other women.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:44 PM
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It's good to learn how to not get caught up in the description of an action, and instead set your focus on the Will that animates that action.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 01:54 AM
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Thx for helping raise my self-awareness, Mr. WhiteKnight.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 01:32 AM
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Actually, the principal was 'obviously' trying to get him to behave the way the principal and staff wanted.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:34 PM
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Just so you realize - the principal was giving you "a golden name to live up to." It's not like he actually thought some grade-school kid was intelligient.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:17 PM
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Yeah. All of this in-fighting manifests what Freud called 'the narcissism of small differences.'
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 07:24 PM
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I'm excited about the idea of TRP becoming something more secretive and working behind the scenes once we recognize the weakness our culture fosters, stop trying to fix it/rage at it, and start to exploit it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 10:38 PM
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I've always given guys the "this isn't the first time you've done this, and it won't be the last" advice. But I've never added that "it's just one more thing you gotta do before you can go home and... whatever" layer. And goddamn, I love it. It adds another level of 'putting shit in larger context' - which is the cure for oneitis and its antendant symptoms of neediness and desperation.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 09:46 PM
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Selling is the process of making a customer comfortable and excited enough to make a bet. Customers either bet on the product or the salesman. If they're betting on the product, then there has to be a compelling vision of a) a positive future coming to be b) a negative future avoided c) both. But when betting on a person, the customer must come to see the salesperson as a person worth listening to. This is why salesmen who thrive during objections by dismissing them as shit tests do best. Most c…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 11:05 AM
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That's what it already says. One of the features of the CC is that the riders have to act like they've never heard of it. Women have kept it secret forever. It's only because of the lurking suspicion of dudes and the power of the internet that the CC is finally out in the open. Women's way of talking and thinking is trying to figure out how to keep riding the CC now that the secret is out, but their new tactics only work on the BP'est of cucks.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 11:40 PM
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Marx looked at what was happebing to the people around him and tried to predict a trend. He made no "luddite doomsday prophecies." He looked at economies in a Hegelian way, arguing that every mode of production would eventually precipitate the conditions of it's own undoing. Marx's, backed in Kant, thought we humans wanted lives of dignity and self-expression, and he saw how the mechanism of capitalism deprived workers of dignity subtley and directly. Look at his 5 forms of alienation. What Marx…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 11:49 AM
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Yup. It's because roles require people to be interdefined. But Marx points out how any source of meaning aside from consumption will eventually be eroded away by capitalist forces. The community, the church, the family, the couple - everything must go!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 04:01 AM
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How could anyone see 'a career' as something desirable? "I want to be a top quality cog in someone else's machine!" I can understand the male desire to want to start your own business so you can assume the natural position of leadership and provider. And I strongly advocate that role because I feel grossed out and claustrophobic imagining myself occupying a "position" that someone else defined. But how could someone see a career as something that they would want to have? 'I got a job as a data a…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:23 AM
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You've rigged your description to where you can't possibly be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:42 PM
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Hey, you never know. Maybe his intention is some kind of reverse-psychology shit where he shows women that their raging feminism only creates the worst world for them. Maybe showing women that their demands undermine their priorities will precipitate the much needed "surrendered wife" reversal. [I've never read the book, but I'm going to look into it now.]
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:25 PM
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There's nothing bullshit about men's rights.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:14 PM
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More like 'a computer.' And the more you act like a computer, the more boring and replacable you are. Being 'rational' just means submitting to the same set of rules and acting consistently with stated goals and needs. But to outwit someone, you never play by established rules. It's really the betas who want clear rules in life. Betas are the ones who freak out about violations in etiquette or not wearing a seatbelt. It's because betas want systems to lead them around, when alphas want to lead t…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:53 AM
1

I agree with the first part, but not the second. TRP is also an answer to history's most perplexing question: what do women want. And one thing women want is social proof because it aides their inept decision making faculty. The more women fuck the guy, the better she feels about the decision.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:17 AM
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Right. These conversations can be had casually in a public place where a person works. It shows that women feel there are no boundaries because men are too cowardly to impose boundaries. But one of the keys to power is determining boundaries. It's what allows people to develop identities. And people with strong identities can become committed to things and feel like they have a lot to lose. That's why cultures with boundaries will unleash a lot of psychological power that cultures too cowardly t…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:58 PM
1

It's also necessarily true that anyone who works in someone else's business is a beta. This sub has too much emphasis on lifting and not enough emphasis on the truly masculine quality: defining others lives for them. That's mostly because spending time at a stupid gym is easy and you can't be rejected for doing squats.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 11:04 PM
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Why are you trying to shit test a group of guys who aren't afraid to 'next' mercilessly?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:49 AM
1

Jeff Bezos is the closest thing we have to a robber baron in America right now, and I love him for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:53 PM
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I noticed something kinda comparable when I turned 30 and realized that almost all ads and pop 'culture' stopped caring about me. It was like all the ice cream trucks decided to move to another neighborhood at once, and I could hear the stupid glee music going elsewhere. In one sense it's a relief, in another it feels like you just discovered that the world that seemed to revolve around you actually only cared about your impulsiveness because you were an easy sell.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:25 AM
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I just helped a friend get his ex to bamg him again. I'd like to talk to you sometime.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:51 AM
2

"No" isn't a power, because the word only has power in a social context in which the person is granted the permission to use the term authoritatively. James Bond isn't going to get in trouble because some guy with an accent is yelling "noooo" before he gets kicked out of a blimp. Power is deeper than the signs of it. The question is what gives power, as that is obviously more powerful than power.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:16 AM
1

I think there's a well-developed phase of TRP that leads to entrepreneurship. And just this morning I started working on another approach to women that I think is one they will find fulfilling, and one that puts a high amount of pressure on the man to continue to create value: seeing her as a secretary. I've been thinking about this in the back of my mind ever since I read the Power Broker, and heard about the loyalty and admiration Robert Moses's secretaries had for him. Or how Nelson Rockefell…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:47 PM
1

I don't know what you mean - aside from straining to force the idea that the economy isn't a 'thing,' because you apparently think 'thing' is some kind of extra special category. And being tangible isn't coextensive with being a thing. First, concepts are things and you can't touch them. But so are 'things' like life, death, erosion, earthquakes, popularity, rainbows, victory, marriage, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:27 PM
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Islam is taking over Europe because it has defined gender roles and isn't afraid to punish strictly and brutally. People don't understand the productive energies that are only released when you are in a society that demands you respect it. We Americans have a culture where parents look to their children for guidance. "Do you want pancakes or waffles, sweety?" Of course we have no respect for our society when those responsible for maintaining the culture through time have no backbones. It's not n…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:07 PM
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Men need to be willing to tell others - most others - "you aren't in a position to make an intelligent decision about this."
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:58 PM
2

The economy wants your life prestructured because then your tastes are more controllable and your behavior is more predicatable - because you'll purchase whatever coping strategy the economy makes available.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 09:56 PM
4

The best way to mentally lift is to right out persuasive essays about topics you feel strongly about, while imagining your audience disagreeing with or being confused by every point you try to make.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:15 PM
2

An economy isn't imaginary. You can say "The economy is strong," or "The economy is weakening," and those statements aren't meaningless. Furthermore, there are different economies (hunter/gatherer, feudal, capitalist, communist). And those economies are systems that produce different things. Just like how your body is a system and it produces shit and air-heady reductionistic philosophies. If the system was different, the products would be different. Organizational properties have causal influen…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 06:59 PM
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Men should become aware of the many ways that the economy encourages us to NOT be leaders. When you encounter a problem, the economy doesn't want you to look inwardly to your creativity and resourcefulness. Instead, the economy wants you to look outwardly and ask, "What do I buy? Who do I pay?" Little do men know that the more we allow the economy to provide solutions in times of confusion and pain, the more dependent we become on the economy. And the more dependent we are, the less attractive w…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:55 PM
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I love getting in arguments with Tesla lovers. They think they can get away unchallenged just because they have 2 or 3 slogans that they've heard other betafags toss around. I always argue that Edison was a better role model, a better man, and a better human.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:25 PM
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It would be the beginning of utopia if men collectively agreed and had the strength of will to commit that: we will fuck hoes, but only marry virgins.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:32 PM
1

Gonna be a rough set of months ahead. Things will never be the same between you. You may consider the idea of patching things up - but her sin will not be forgotten or forgiven, and be forever present in your future with her, and called to mind everytime people ask about 'how you two are doing.' It's not worth getting in that life, because if you stay with a women who treats you like you're disposible, you'll come to see yourself that way. And you'll only pive once, so don't put yourself in that…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:23 PM
1

This raises another interesting issue. One of the ways to think about TRP is to define it from the perspective of the blue pill. When you do that, TRP looks something like: "Women don't think about you the way you thought they did, and that old way of thinking that you had is actually created to benefit women. Furthermore, the reason you got into that painful situation in the first place is because you had that gynocentric mindset pounded into your head from a very young age." etc. etc. In other…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:22 AM
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Genius creates its own rationality.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:08 AM
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This is because women have no idea what it takes to hold a society together. And they don't understand the concept of working together in a team setting ordered by trust. For them, the best individualist is probably the best person. For dudes who understand concepts of synergy, we like ideas like "social contracts" and local agreements that allow us to do more together than we could individually. Women will never understand this. I also think men are sell-outs who try to become dark triad becaus…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:05 AM
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"Is Juan married, or is it his GF" That statement implies you are confused. And it wasn't incoherent. You couldn't make it cohere. That's a listening/reading problem.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:11 PM
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Please think for your goddamn self. He mistyped when he said "Juan and his gf." EVERYTHING ELSE says Juan is married. So he meant "Juan and his wife." Holy fuck. How can you not piece that together?? Is that proof that our education system is making people so dependent on getting tube-fed interpretations that they can't do any of the thought-work on their own? Dear Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:33 PM
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It's a form of bullying. It's an attempt to establish an order of dependency. If she's says "Me go now" and you say "No stop!" you're showing you're dependent on her. If you say "fuck off" she sees you're not dependent on her. This doesn't mean you should act like women are worthless. They want to be valued. But they want to feel like what you have going on is BETTER because they are there. They don't want to feel like what you have going on would break down if they left. In other words, they do…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:29 AM
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Yeah. Show that you're passing judgment on them according to a standard they already recognizes as valid. It establishes which one of you is on the pedestal .
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:16 PM
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You under-priced the tickets. And you DRASTICALLY under-priced the dinner. You should add a breakfast and charge at least $135.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:06 PM
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The basis of the dating apocalypse: men are becoming more childlike. This is because dependency on the economy for problem solving is keeping men from maturing. Men don't figure out shit for themselves, they just google solutions then make purchases. Salaries are allowances. Women have always been children, so it's not their fault. Men are allowing themselves to be seduced by an economy that wants their dependency. Thus, men are remaining little boys. Women can't fuck the leaders because there a…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:29 PM
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"If your man won't give you what you're worth, find one who will." The title reinforces my thesis that the psychologies of the employee and the woman are very similar.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:16 PM
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Three women were eating lunch near me today. All they did is talk about what they bought, how much they paid for it, and their experience with it. They talked about cars, coffee machines, medical procedures, and vacations. Each of their sub-conversations hit the bases from the second sentence, then they moved on to something else. The extent to which women are passive consumers cannot be stressed enough.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:14 PM
2

Cheating is impossible because relationships are impossible.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:24 PM
9

Man, that last sentence is really good.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:58 PM
3

TRP doesn't encourage men to take advantage of women. Men do that in the anger phase. TRP shows men how women take advantage of them, and how most conventional advice about love and relationships actually sabotages men's chances of women actually caring about them.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:34 PM
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You have made TRP too generic. TRP is more specific than you're treating it. It's about coming to terms with the fact that men and women have different ways of thinking about relationships. It's what helps men understand how their divorce was possible when they thought it was impossible because they were doing "all the right things." You're leaving out a substantial feature of TRP: the fact that it requires breaking out of one way of understanding relationships and freeing oneself to see them in…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:23 PM
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