whenwillthehurtstop Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Drinking problem Dude, stop. When she first left, i stayed sober as a judge for 3 months, working on myself, trying to get through it. She had me falsely charged with some bullshit and i went downhill. I was consuming a bottle of whiskey every 2-3 days for almost 2 months. I almost died one night, when i decided that i didnt really care if i woke up. My brother found me passed out in my backyard after my family got worried after i didnt answer my nightly phonecall with my mom. Thank god he showed up when he did.…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 01:32 AM
19	I feel like my life is ruined forever and I just want to stop living. Dude, its not worth it. My 15 year relationship ended abruptly (6 years married) and im also 33. I have 2 small kids who i never wanted to have to go through something like this. I begged. I pleaded. I got drunk every day for months. I was falsely charged with some bullshit. I wanted to punch my ticket as well. But i got past it. You can too. Work out. Eat healthy. Read. Do things that interest you. Get yourself a support network. Reach out to people when youre down. My friends and family (and m…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 08:34 PM
1	Men’s ring I want to yeet mine into the ocean, but its a family heirloom that my grandmother brought with her from the home country. Itll sit in my gun safe until i die i guess.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/23 01:57 AM
1	How and when did you tell your family? A support system is necessary when going through something this traumatic. I had the perfect family. She went through some mental health issues and decided to blow it all up. I wasn't perfect either, but i was always there for her. Having my kids taken away from me 50% of the time was devastating. My family (most) was fucking shook when they found out. I found out real quick who my real friends and family are. They've been monumental in my healing (although nowhere near healed). My therapist is …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/23 11:15 PM
1	How and when did you tell your family? As soon as i figured out this wasn't just her leaving with the kids for a week or 2 at her parents to cool off. I needed my support system to know so they could support me. Without them, i probably would have swallowed that bottle of pills i was staring at for a week.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/23 10:07 PM
4	Financial Abuse? Lmao. My STBX did the same shit. I was financially abusive according to her and her lawyer because i paid the mortgage and all other bills minus her car note and groceries which she paid. I earned 67% of our household income. Im still paying her car insurance 6 months after separation for some stupid reason. But im a controlling, financially abusive asshole because she had no idea what our monthly expenses were when her lawyer asked.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/23 06:13 PM
1	She wants sex? Be careful bro. I haven't had sex with my stbx since date of separation and now have to fight a false sexual assault charge anyways. We weren't fighting about custody or anything and she moved out a while ago. Had the police call me and ask me to turn myself in for sexual assault. Haven't had my first appearance yet, so I don't even know what the claim is/when it's stemming from. Now I have to retain a criminal lawyer on top of my family lawyer. Seems like she's trying to absolutely destroy me f…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/23 02:10 PM
1	Beginning the divorce process and hurting Lol depends on the lawyer. Mine required a $250 consultation fee that would be refunded if I ended up using them.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/23 01:31 AM