| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 280 | Are current dating dynamics just fucked? | General | wheregoesriverflow | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 10:09 AM |
| 234 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves. | Social Issues | wheregoesriverflow | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 11:46 AM |
| 155 | Metrics in dating are biased against men | General | wheregoesriverflow | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 08:31 AM |
| 107 | Nothing wrong with being insecure and wanting someone to fully love us. | General | wheregoesriverflow | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 04:23 AM |
| 67 | Never feeling I am "enough" in today's dating environment. | General | wheregoesriverflow | /r/MensRights | 27/12/24 11:50 AM |
| 4 | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationship | Debate | wheregoesriverflow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamy | Debate | wheregoesriverflow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:59 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Why do women always choose the wrong guy.I am dating her. We dont have to date for marriage or long term | /r/MensRights | 17/08/25 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Why do women always choose the wrong guy.My girlfriend likes tall/handsome, especially in late teens/early twenties. She calls her exes fuckbois and that she always wanted a serious relationship. you can see why women choose the wrong guy. Because they are more charming/handsome/tall/exciting/etc. I am not marrying her | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Nothing wrong with being insecure and wanting someone to fully love us.I don't. However, relationships end after a while since I don't want to get married | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 11:19 AM |
| – | Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamythe optional aspect includes what I presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:24 AM |
| – | Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamyI am positioning this as a partial explanation of why marriage rates, birth rates, and longterm commitments rates are going down. That is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:19 AM |
| – | Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamyI am Person B and broke up with Person A. Not imaginary. Though we are currently looks-match. She said she was more attractive in her early 20s. She is older than me by 2 ( I am almost 30, she is 31) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:13 AM |
| – | Dating according to utmost preferences leads to decline in long-term monogamyOn a societal scale, most people can not be paired up with their ideal due to scarcity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:10 AM |
| 5 | Never feeling I am "enough" in today's dating environment.We dated for 8 months, but she is 7 years older and wanted to marry while I am/was very hesistant on marriage. The sex wasn't great at the end, but we enjoyed each other's company | /r/MensRights | 27/12/24 12:09 PM |
| 40 | China's first batch of "Leftover" women, are now in nursing homesI am in Beijing currently (ethnically Chinese). Average women do not like the average men. When 16-25, girls look for tall and handsome. After 25, they look for good house/good car/good job. Unfortunately, good house, good car, and good job is hard to come by. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/24 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Kind remindernah, its fine. BPD girls are amazing. Just don't fall in love with crazy or crazy fall in love with you | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceSave money. Go to a third world country and spend it there. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/24 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.I am really afraid to be honest. She is better looking than me and I am good looking myself. I am considered a good option because I have a great education and job (I make 6x more than her). She knows she is really good looking and doesn't hide it. In my past experience, they prefer the model level dudes and thus she didn't want to be exclusive at first. She talked about her ex and how he doesn't like her clinginess. I said she can be clingy with me, but instead, its always me reaching out. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 02:13 PM |
| 16 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.the ones that are on apps for a long time have a tendency to be least reliable.. that I have noticed. Meeting through mutual friends seem much better. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 11:57 AM |
| -1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIs it actually really rare to be able to pull hookups weekly from tinder? I am able to do it but I don't consider myself an 8+. Mostly because I am average height (1.8m) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?im considered a great catch in China. I make 140k USD at age 28 in China. Its like making $600k in US. you trying to insult/downvote me just proves the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 06:59 AM |
| -1 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?Men and women look for different things. Most of my standards are hypocritical: For Context, I am Chinese-American and living in China. I want someone with lower BMI than me. I am 24 BMI. Hypocritical. I want someone younger than me. Hypocritical. I want someone who earns less than me. Hypocritical. I make 6 figures USD, have yet to see someone younger and make more in China unless they inherited/started a business. I want someone atleast 2 inches shorter than me. Hypocritical but vast girls wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADunpopular opinion: I don't find strong features in females attractive. Its good to look at in pictures, but not good upclose. Models etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting womanin order for your math to work, a 0.5/10 with an average height would be better than OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 03:20 PM |
| 19 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?big fear of mine. Being completely wrecked by a person you trust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 08:16 AM |
| 14 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting woman"If you're 5'7'' and average facially you're in the bottom 1/4 or 1/5th of men in height and 1/2 men in face so that puts you in the bottom 1/8 to 1/10 of men....and yea, that's who is typically a gym guy in my experience. <5'8'' and average or worse facially." As an Asian, no words for your math skills..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 07:51 AM |
| 7 | Women who hate Redpillers do not hate RedpillersEulen, I like your comments. You might preach what you say, but most people don't. Getting fit, going to a famous grad school, making good money, and never being desperate/clingy landed me a lot of sex in the dating world. I used to want a soulmate, and thought I can be loved for who I am, with faults and turbulences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Which movies/books would you recommend to help women understand men better ?Its one of my favorites. I don't read it for the plot. I felt understood. It depends on your life experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 03:36 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI personally like high quality tretonin and hydroquinone for skin improvement. Works wonders. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:49 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADyou can try it at home. You need a lot of sessions for it to be effective afaik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Women harp endlessly about entitlement and men feeling “owed” but in reality most people expect to be able get someone similar to them in all areas and framing this as “entitlement” is a deflection from the real issueNot for girls, a 5 can easily get a 8 for short-term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 02:29 AM |
| 6 | A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date?why wouldnt we lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 01:33 AM |
| 3 | POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR APPRECIATION DAILY MEGATHREADif the facial scores are based on standard deviations, 4,3,2,1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSome short men have big dicks. Some short girls have big vaginas. Just saying there is definitely a correlation between vagina size and ethnicity/height. I am considered well above average for Asian, but average in South America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI have seen big vaginas and small vaginas. Loose and tight vaginas. An asian 1.57m girl 's vagina was noticeably smaller/tighter even when she was very wet. There has been a noticeable correlation between feet size and vagina for me. Yet this topic is taboo and considered fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingwe get heavily judged for playing the field when we have choices. My personal life isn't something I can speak to others openly about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 08:10 AM |
| – | CMW: Most women have little to offer a high value man in a long-term relationshipDeleting post soon since I didn't frame my position correctly. It wasn't meant for all relationships, only those who see relationships as partly transactional ( common in my culture where house/car/vacations are expected). I understand love/intimacy/etc can be part of the equation. It is more directed towards relationships that entail or expect materialistic demands (most?) I grew up in poverty and was in poor the early days of my adulthood (drove a 02 camry for the most part). My dating life tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:42 PM |
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