wherestheboot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger. The man who was attacking her? Women pretty much never do the whole stranger rape thing so he definitely should have acted like a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/24 10:13 PM
2	Why is there no #TradHusband movement? So you just have missing teeth and removed them yourself like you’re Tom Hanks in Castaway? I don’t think yours is the typical male experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 08:56 AM
–	There is a minimum amount of money an individual should be expected to pay for a traditional engagement ring. Yes, there’s mental effort involved in keeping jewellery in good shape. Part of why I don’t wear it. If you’re expecting a woman to wear her engagement ring regularly/every day it should be something that requires minimal thought to not damage it. Otherwise it’s a white elephant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 03:34 AM
–	There is a minimum amount of money an individual should be expected to pay for a traditional engagement ring. Don’t forget to make that part of your proposal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 03:21 AM
5	Why is there no #TradHusband movement? Because based on the demographics of this sub you’re probably like 21? And dental insurance can be the difference between preserving a tooth for 5-10 years vs an immediate extraction, plus no $$ for an implant. Or the difference between being comfortable and living with constant pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 11:18 PM
7	Why is there no #TradHusband movement? Women and their frivolous concerns like not dying of a dental abscess like an Egyptian Pharoah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 11:05 PM
0	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. Keep in mind these guys think in a partnership between a software developer and a social worker, the social worker should do most of the chores because they earn less for the same hours. Women squeezing them for every cent is just water finding its own level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 02:28 AM
2	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. Apparently it sometimes happens. It seems like a lot of effort for one meal and drinks, they’re trying to work smarter but they’re just working harder. Sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 02:26 AM
4	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. I used to be very pro splitting the bill, but now I know it attracts women who use phrases like “American bitches”, I’m thinking maybe men should pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 02:24 AM
1	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? Shaving your face is nowhere near as much trouble as shaving your legs. Not even to shaving one leg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 08:45 AM
9	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth Their mothers experienced a massive rush of oxytocin upon their birth and therefore think their special little guys just need to be a nicer version of their handsome, charismatic selves to get women. In other words, they’re delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 03:03 AM
3	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… There’s also an article by Warren Farrell about how men raping their daughters might not be so bad, so his opinions can be safely discarded as completely worthless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 02:06 AM
2	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Wait … how does that get my dick wet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:55 AM
–	Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life. Scout troops still have a boys’ group and a girls’ group, they’re not coed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 08:16 AM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? There are also plenty of women who don’t date before the kids are adults or close to it for this exact reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 05:09 AM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Yes, you should also avoid divorce if reasonably possible. One thing people desperately need more education on is that the sparkly fun feelings of love will almost never persist for years and years, so you shouldn’t make long term decisions based on that rather than compatibility in values and goals. There are also ways to make divorce less of a strain on the children, such as the children remaining in one home while the parents rotate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 05:08 AM
7	What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women? It sounds like the thing gave you a soft job interview. How do your hobbies fit into your life mission, really? What kind of questions do women ask to size up your economic level? The job question has an obvious reason - we spend almost half of our waking hours working and many people find fulfilment or at least conversation pieces in their work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 05:00 AM
-1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Of course. I’m not sure if gay men’s partners are equally dangerous, but they might be. This may also be why men make slightly more false abuse accusations in family court - I wouldn’t trust my hypothetical ex’s new guy either. Blending families in general prioritises the parents’ desires while often worsening life for the children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 01:36 AM
1	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? Idk, why do people with toddlers bring home pitbulls? They want what they want and everyone else can just deal with the consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 01:25 AM
-2	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? There’s also the option to only date casually and keep men away from her children. It doesn’t need to be equivalent, because parents have the responsibility to actively protect their children, not just not SA them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 01:24 AM
0	If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18? I don’t see why both shouldn’t be shamed (but yeah, obviously one way more than the other). Honestly, I think we all know that if we had someone in our lives that had power over us and introduced someone who hugely increased our risk of sexual assault so they could be happier, we’d all fucking hate that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 01:22 AM
11	Discovered this show , on Hulu, Why the BLEEP Am I Still Single It really depends on what she’s counting as standards. A lot of people keep most of their standards unspoken because they consider them obvious. eg a standard of “no drugs harder than weed” might be an explicit standard for some and simply assumed for others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 02:18 AM
6	How often do women dote on/serve you? I’d really like to know where your arrogance comes from here. Trad wives seem to think other women are terribly jealous of them. Trust me, we’re not thinking “oh if only I could nab some moron who can’t even follow a recipe”. I guess we’ll just have to settle for animals who are equally useless but cute and fluffy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:03 AM
3	CMV: Just because a wife works the same hours as her husband doesn't make it an equal contribution Is that why people are flocking to the job?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:36 AM
2	CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still single List 2-3 occasions of you protecting a girlfriend or admit that the “protection” thing men think they have going on is literally nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 06:35 AM
8	CMV: I faked it is a terrible insult I mean, does someone lying to you in order to placate you about your massive shortcomings feel good? Because that would be hurtful for most people, especially when the motive is essentially “I knew you’d be whiny as fuck if I told the truth about how bad you suck / I didn’t want to endure any more clumsy pawing”. It’s a simultaneous statement on your competence and your emotional weakness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 11:07 PM
1	What Would Make A Couple Want to Divorce After 20+ Years? Hugh Jackman and his wife adopted, so I hope he wasn’t expecting to be the bio dad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:34 AM
1	What Would Make A Couple Want to Divorce After 20+ Years? I haven’t heard anything about it being acrimonious, Jackman and his wife whose name escapes me may well still be friends. Or my mother is right and they’re both gay and choosing to end the charade now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:33 AM
–	Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble? Calling 911 is enough when it’s dangerous to intervene.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:23 AM
–	Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble? Doubt she just simply said no Read r/whenwomenrefuse. (Also “just simply” is redundant.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:09 AM
0	Men are NOT protectors “I will no longer allow you to use my body as a host” isn’t exactly what I’d call oppression. You can’t oppress something that’s parasitising you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:12 AM
0	Men are NOT protectors Until relatively recently, being able to rape the other nation’s women was one of the incentives for soldiers to be willing to go to war. They didn’t want the enemy to take their women like they didn’t want the enemy to take their farm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:06 AM
1	Men are NOT protectors The police have relatively little to do with child protection; it’s mainly carried out by social workers, who are majority female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:58 AM
1	Men are NOT protectors There aren’t laws against emotional abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:50 AM
7	I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against women Finding a reason to exist other than women would be it’s own reward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:28 AM
1	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision Some husbands and fathers are so useless that a divorce actually increases their parenting time because they have no choice but to actually engage with their kid every other weekend. It also makes the wife/mother less stressed because it’s one less person to mother and care for. This happens even in dual income homes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:46 AM
1	Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better morals “Most men back then were good people, they were just mysteriously okay with women not being able to vote/be educated/own or inherit property/keep their own wages/have the right to not be raped by their husbands” is a much more incoherent position than “yes, I’m sure women back then would have loved to get away from their shitty husbands and garbage society”. Please, go and be with your sexbots, literally nobody wants to be a relationship with someone who thinks they could be replaced by a fuckab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:40 AM
2	I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against women If you’re willing to mistreat your partner or cheat on them, it’s not like it makes you a better partner or person to not be able to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:03 AM
4	I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against women Oh, harden up, you wuss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:01 AM
1	I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against women See, that’s why you don’t settle. You’ll still be fucked over, but the interim time will be spent with someone you actually want to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:55 PM
3	Older childfree women are rarely miserable they don’t do much till they learn to walk Except scream relentlessly for milk, nappy changes, and sometimes for no apparent reason - and that’s before issues like colic (pain so the baby screams and screams inconsolably) or croup (coughing, which, you guessed it, leads to screaming). But the elderly love severe sleep disruptions and strenuous repetitive movements, so I’m sure you’ll be just fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 01:09 AM
2	The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay men How have you seen this often enough to notice a trend?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 03:16 AM
2	The equivalent of women receiving unwanted attention from average men is NOT men receiving unwanted attention from gay men Damn, your coworker threw you right under the bus. Sorry that happened to you. It’s an uncommon enough occurrence for women to be bigger, stronger and more sexually aggressive than the man that most men wouldn’t seriously consider how uncomfortable and violated they could make you feel, so comparing it to being creepily hit on by another man usually explains it better, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 03:14 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread You know how outside the Matrix it’s a wasteland after humans destroyed the planet? You take the red pill to get there because that’s the future that republicans want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 01:35 AM
13	There are no benefits to having kids as a women There are also intangible negatives associated with having children, honestly. Think of how many people you’ve met that you would be ashamed of birthing and raising if you were their mothers, even when they raise them well. For an extreme example, imagine a pre-suffrage woman spending decades of her life raising her sons who then grow up and decide she doesn’t even deserve human rights. It can be a complete waste of time or even worse than a waste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 01:30 AM
14	Is a woman having a job a bad thing? People can also develop addictions after getting married. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 02:17 PM
1	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Pretty sure women aren’t going to be interested in the men who left looking for a submissive waifu because Western women’s rights make their penis sad, so female competition for these guys will remain static (nonexistent).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:42 AM
2	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Because we don’t care about men who whine about feminism. Boo hoo women have jobs and don’t have to settle for a life of marital rape and scrubbing floors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:35 AM
2	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" Who is asking these guys to stay or even arguing against them? People make fun of them, but no one wants them to stick around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:30 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men Men get flak for saying the stuff I’ve already gone over that is simply incorrect - the idea that their children will be wrested away from them despite their tireless efforts (the vast majority of custody agreements occur outside of court) and the idea that they’ll unjustly lose “their” money (this usually happens because the woman’s career has stagnated from childbearing and primary responsibility). 66% of millennial men in one study wanted their wife to be the primary parent. Mothers are signi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 05:03 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men Then why did you explicitly used the word “worse” in regards to divorce statistics vs rape statistics? It is definitely not socially accepted for women to entirely reject men as even friendly acquaintances. The only rape it’s socially acceptable to protect yourself from is the stranger in a dark alley. If you don’t want to get married, don’t. If you expect your partner to sacrifice career progression by bearing your children, sacrifice it further by staying home with the children while they’re b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:21 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men You’re the one who compared them when you said divorce statistics were worse. 90+% of custody arrangements are settled outside of court, so the ex-wife has rarely won an actual custody battle, she’s agreed to a custody schedule with her ex. Financial differentials can be minimised by both of you making different choices. For example, I don’t think a stay at home partner is worth the lack of income unless there are children below school age, so if I had a partner who wanted to stay at home I woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 03:40 AM
6	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? I would have given him the benefit of the doubt if I were her and not gone to HR, but do you really think he wasn’t trying to cheat on his wife with a pretty young intern? Really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:39 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men To paraphrase Winston Churchill, women are the worst sex, except for all the others. Particularly the one who lies and cheats more, abandons their children more and leaves the taxpayer on the hook, is so emotionally unstable that they commit 80+% of violent crime, is more prone to addiction and antisocial behaviour, and contributes significantly less to their partners happiness than vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:34 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men The entire point of this post is men whinging when women do size up men as threats. Try to keep up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:29 AM
3	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men What the fuck does that have to do with anything? Abortions are great and if men don’t like them maybe they should stop impregnating women 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:20 AM
1	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men I find it impressive that you can say that splitting your wealth with the person who helped you accumulate it is worse than being raped with a presumably straight face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:13 AM
5	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men 6.5% still seems like a pretty damn big proportion for committing horrible violent crimes. If you told me a certain breed of dog had a 6.5% chance of mauling me in the face, I wouldn’t be around any of them. You also mention that these are self-identified rapists, but many rapists are in denial of their own crimes. There are a considerable chunk of men in this very sub who consider “last minute resistance” something to be pushed through. At least two studies - this one and the referenced Koss 19…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 02:09 AM
2	Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attention Men only want relationships with women for consistent access to sex = men who want relationships with women aren’t motivated by affection or respect or any of that good shit, but by wanting to stick their dicks in them. This isn’t a very sympathetic motive, so when a woman find out a man has just pretending to be interested in her as a person to get access to her body, she will obviously hate him because it’s a pretty loathsome thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 09:06 AM
2	The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success. Tell that to the priests. heyoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 08:40 AM
1	The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success. Why would you think he was suggesting you go and leverage your financial power to achieve an unequal relationship? If he thought like that, he’d probably still be in the relatively less scummy business of tricking people into thinking dating apps work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 08:30 AM
1	Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages To clarify, you think that women contribute less money to the relationship than a man making the same amount does? Women comprising 80% of consumer spending doesn’t mean 80% of consumer spending is on women’s possessions, it just means women did the actual shopping. Groceries for the family count under that, and so does shopping for kids toys/clothes/back to school stuff, gifts for family members, taking the car to the shop, a bunch of everyday crap that benefits the family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 10:56 AM
1	Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages This data calls one partner the primary earner if they earn at least 60%. That’s not “completely provided for” - try removing up to 40% of your own household income. And if it’s literally 60/40 it’s just barely even being the primary earner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 01:40 AM
3	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship Any man who seriously does this shit at work is going to catch a hell of a backhand from “karma”, anyway, in that people aren’t going to be willing to work with them. The pattern isn’t exactly hard to see, and the geniuses who shit where they eat then make it obvious that’s all they valued their coworkers for aren’t going to be smart enough to do it once then stop. If I’m a higher up, whether I’m a man or woman, I’m having nothing to do with this hypothetical guy unless he’s a desperately needed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 01:33 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread There are people on Fetlife who want to be put in a garbage bag along with actual garbage, so I’m sure they’ve got a suite of nonverbal humiliation options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:38 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fetlife has a lot of weirdly specific tags.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:20 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread That’s exactly the kind of graph that gets posted to that sub all the time though	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 12:48 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Interesting post. If you’re going to get into ball stretching, doing it when you’re old is very efficient. Gravity already did half the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:04 AM
8	Saying women should not invest in their careers and aspirations is toxic because most janitors and retail workers are not going to marry doctors and CEOs. Female doctors are more thorough and diligent than male doctors, provide better care, and deliver better outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 01:49 AM
5	Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ? If left to its own devices inside the uterus, the foetus will develop into a baby; interrupting this process by evicting the foetus feels to some people like killing a baby. Even women who consider themselves pro-choice might not be able to go through with it. Plus those hormones must be insane. Remember they have to be strong enough to stop a woman from abandoning or killing shrieking deadweight who throws the food she’s carefully gathered for them right back in her face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 09:53 AM
–	AITA? I dumped my new gf after she told me she's pregnant by her ex. NTA I guess but it’s weird that you allegedly care about this woman, she’s in desperate poverty, you’re a person with a good wage, earned in money with massive buying power in her home country, and you left her with nothing but bus fare. You don’t need to fund her whole life but I’d give even a platonic friend a couple hundred USD in local currency in that scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 09:28 AM
42	Doing household chores do not make men sexually attractive, but they're still important for a relationship As I recall, studies and anecdotal evidence indicate that it’s not that doing chores is attractive, it’s that not doing chores is unattractive. She won’t be overcome with lust seeing him do the dishes, but she will be repelled if he expects to be taken care of like a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:32 PM