TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

whirl_rapids87 Archive

View 0 posts and 70 comments by whirl_rapids87 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Wait until this person finds out what man-woman friendships are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:43 PM
5

I know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:21 PM
–

Top percentage of men do get treated like such
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:16 PM
1

That’s true but I’d also imagine it’s has its trade offs. Hearing how frequently women get approached, from random guys who only want their own personal pleasure. That’s kinda scary if you think about it. As a guy I try to imagine going out in the city or to a restaurant or the gym or whatever, I never get bothered, by anyone really. Imagining almost every single guy staring at me and almost all of them are thinking of a way to approach me, I’d probably be on edge 24/7 That doesn’t really seem l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:44 AM
1

He’s probably just speaking from anecdotes/his own experiences, but through personal experiences I can kinda see where OP’s coming from. The women I have told about me being BI, they all end up asking if I was top or bottom. And depending ont he answer they would scoff or laugh if it’s bottom. It’s prolly just because it’s not manly to them. The reaction for the most part is always seemingly discomfort. And I mean i don’t expect them to be all “hooray that’s amazing” you know, but even apart fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:32 AM
–

I think the point OP is trying to make is that a lot of the women who outwardly vouch for such a thing, don’t actually feel that way/even disagree personally. More of a virtue signal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:24 AM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:21 AM
1

Ha, can relate, oh too well, to those “follow up questions”… It’s never about acceptance, it’s more like a “oh, uh… yeah, that’s cool I guess if you’re BI (as long as you’re still a manly man) So they ask those follow up questions to see how manly you still are to them. Human psychology is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:18 AM
1

*proceeds Whenever I read a simple speaking error like such you kinda lose alotta credibility imo. Like you can’t even spell a word right, or understand the context to put it in. Why should I take anything you say as valid? If you don’t even put in the effort or want to even be someone who can show that they put in effort towards their thoughts/what they say. Just my opinion. It’s *proceeds, by the way. Learn how to spell and people will take you more seriously, at least those who you want to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:43 AM
1

There’s no need to get frustrate when he’s just trying to mention a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:43 PM
–

Yeah but why do they like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:50 PM
–

Found the single cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:55 PM
1

Maybe humans need the incentive of basic survival to really understand that that’s what life still is. If you’re comfortable as a woman socially and financially then you’re going to have a lot more options, and the freedom to weigh those options, for however long you’d like If you’re struggling, socially and financially, then you’re probably going to be more lenient (some may say desperate) when filtering through partners regarding your options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:54 PM
1

Modern women kinda are tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:49 PM
1

I feel like I understand where you’re coming from. A lot of times I’ve juggled with the idea of whether I was even attracted to the women I was seeing or if it was just horniness. I mean honestly a lot of the times I would get flowers of be chivalrous or anything like that is when a woman would approach me or show that she’s interested, it automatically made me attracted to her, but it’s like why you know. Idk, I think there’s a lot to do with guys biological hardwiring, it’s like you can’t esca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:33 PM
1

The “subhuman and unattractive to women” dudes get divorced way less because they are unattractive to women The woman knows she has him wrapped around her finger. He’s on a leash. I’ve seen it too many times. She will gawk and make comments about her cleebrity crush and post Instagram stories about sports players with heart eyes, and the guy will think “it’s all in good fun”. Too obliosis to see he’s being manipulated from the jump. I’ve seen it too, fucking often. And while I do want to say som…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:37 AM
–

Ya honestly that was a seemingly pretty accurate list. Interesting insight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:23 AM
2

That really clicked for me. In my experience all of the times I was going on dates, putting in 100% effort to chase romance and “the woman I love” those ended up being me being on a leash, where the woman ended up breaking things off. Any time I was in a relationship which started out as nothing serious/hookups, those women usuallt ended up expecting me to develop us into a relationship at some point. It’s counterintuitive and it’s honestly just funny how things work sometimes. It’s like, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:20 AM
1

And your projection is crazy you’ve got some things you should work on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:48 PM
1

Found the chronically online person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:46 PM
–

Nah I’m just not rlly obsessed with being chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:06 AM
–

“Nihilistic doomers” You wanna try giving English a go?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:15 PM
2

Breaking, this just in: women don’t want to be or feel accountable for anything Who would’ve thought! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:58 AM
5

You’re probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:21 AM
1

You realize that’s a place where the focus is a lack of sex… right And you also realize that the point everyone making here is that sex is something most guys value…. …no one is disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:20 PM
2

Ya I agree w that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:25 AM
1

Lol true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:21 AM
–

I think most guys would prefer to have a steady relationship where she actually loves spending time with you (sex included) , rather than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:20 AM
1

Women have the control Men can’t lead if women have the control Women want a man who can lead and also want control So you figure it out 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:46 PM
1

Pretty lousy marketing man A business idea that’s less corny should work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:17 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:29 PM
1

True, but if that person genuinely wanted to get to know you, I’m sure that would go a lot more smooth than if it weren’t a man as or higher status
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:18 PM
1

You’re both right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:57 PM
1

You’re both right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:57 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:29 AM
1

It definitely feels manipulative a lot of times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:28 AM
1

Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:21 AM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:47 PM
–

And conversely, everyone does deserve some sort of power, in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:08 PM
–

Everyone is going to think they deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:08 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:08 PM
1

This is the most rational take. Tons of attractive women out there, it sounds corny but it really is personality that makes the difference for me in how “hot” a woman is as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:06 PM
–

There’s a pretty stark difference between being okay with someone who’s rich and solely seeking out a rich partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:40 AM
2

Username checks out because you absolutely sniped that analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:25 PM
1

You’re actually proving OP’s point. The joke that your 5’5 janitor friend wouldn’t get any play, despite having his own business and his own “passions” or “projects”, is exactly his point. Women are shallow, they won’t go for the 5’5 janitor guy, even if he has the “established” life that OP is saying women want or crave. Because that woman who rejects the 5’5 janitor guy, will still go for that idealized lifestyle, she’ll just find it through someone more appealing to her or “fun” (Chad) (or at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:23 PM
1

This is the best response here, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:54 PM
–

Lol why do you word it as if women are uncapable beings… Is that really how you see the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:47 PM
1

Yup pretty much this. As a guy, you eventually realize that if you actually want an all around, attractive, outgoing, ambitious and genuine woman, who has a great personality and looks, you’ve already lost. Since they’re “the best of the best” then they’ll only filter out for “the best” for their respective partner (A.K.A. “size queens”) Good luck out there guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:33 PM
2

Because most women are brought up with the societal belief that sleeping with multiple people makes them a slut/whore, and they don’t want to face that. Even though it shouldn’t be any different from a guy doing it, but it is, societally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:06 PM
2

Nah trust your natural judgement man. I get what you’re saying. It’s not like you’re just saying shit, it’s quite literally your lived experience After a certain number of dates and talking to people, your brain does what id esos best: pattern recognition. The most simple and common monkey-brain feature, it’s a survival response, so it’s actually an instinct. Your instincts are picking up on people’s behavior. And that’s very valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:55 AM
1

Lol people will do quite literally anything before answering a question, or staying on topic I swear lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:32 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:35 AM
2

OP likely just lacks social skills and is new to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:29 PM
1

Ayyy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:48 PM
1

Best comment here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:30 PM
1

Lol I just read this and was about to comment/ask the same thing verbatim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:02 AM
1

Just pay for a week on hinge, like away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:10 AM
1

You’ve got a point. Often times with the women I’ve actually, really wanted to be with, they ended things with me. It’s always some point after letting her know how I feel about her, it’s akmost as if it’s like confirmation to her that she can treat me like shit now. Because I guess, in a way, she knows she can. So yeah it’s better off to just play it cool, but the payoff is that you don’t really get to show all sides of yourself, your carefree, goofy side, how you are day to day (the lame parts…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:39 AM
1

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:35 AM
–

Whether they just wanted something casual It was in response to the last line when you said that “anecdotally it wasn’t something you’ve encountered in the wild”. It was more of a fleeting thought/comment, because to me it’s like “well of course in real life, fave to face, none of the guys you’ve met have said “I want something casual” yet on dating apps the most of the men you’ve talked to wanted something casual. Idk 🤷‍♂️ it just made me think. Like why would what a guy want be any different o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:19 AM
–

Yeah because they won’t say that to your face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:11 AM
7

Lmao ngl this was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:36 PM
1

Alright if we really are going to be technical, love may not even exist. It’s crazy to me that men and women will make decisions, and sound so sure about what “they know”. For example, ^ your comment: “how do you love someone you’ve never interacted with?” “What you have is a crush from afar. And perhaps your dick is hard. But that is not love” So let me ask you a question: do you think two lions go out on a date to an Italian restaurant? To gauge how compatible they are? Do you think ostriches …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:03 PM
3

Christ just leave her man. Most women are, currently, RIGHT NOW, talking to multiple guys. It’s 2025 bro. At least 75% of american women are on social media, posting pictures of themselves, advertising themselves, on dating apps, Instagram, tiktok, constantly checking their phones/texts for reassurance/validation. This IS the current social norm. Do you genuinely believe that all of these women, who are doing what I stated above <sup>,</sup> for validation/reassurance, narcissism, an ego boost, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:49 PM
1

Lmao fr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:27 PM
1

Brother just accept that he has a point. It’s literal math, 50/50. Hate to break it to you, but that’s how it work. Gonna have to give you a downvote for false sources
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:21 PM
1

“We don’t know which ones they are, if all they have to do is agree, silly” Alright, so anyone who agrees with you is good to go then? That’s your filtering process?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:08 PM
1

eh idk i see what both of yall are saying here. in my personal experience women, especially women on dating apps, are weird. expect weird behavior. ghosting, love bombing, push/pull, you name it. logic gets thrown out of the door. the amount of times i try to rationalize something and end up having to accept that this is just how a lot of women are, has been too many. and this isn’t a rant, i’m really saying society and social norms have guided women’s outlooks to be what they are today. so my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:04 AM
8

yeah if i’m being honest i never really understood being in a relationship without intimacy… that’s a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:40 PM
1

I was on another thread where u said 6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:19 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter