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| 2 | Let's talk about degrading sex actsInteresting thought. This sort of seems like the same thought process as the Madonna/Whore complex some men view their wives with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 09:59 AM |
| 8 | Is it wrong for a woman to expect a man to be nice to her if she has sex with him?Depends on what you mean by "nice." I think it's unreasonable to expect that by sleeping with a man, they're obligated to buy you flowers, offer to take you on a date, or anything like that. I think it's reasonable to expect that they extend basic common courtesy and politeness towards you. Even if you take sex out of the equation, I would think it's reasonable to expect anyone who has invited you into their home for any reason (or if they are a guest in yours) to be polite to you unless given r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Women of PPD who are considered at least fairly attractive today: Did you grow up as a "pretty girl"?No. I was a cute kid, but I had some pretty awkward teen years. I wasn't horrible looking, but I didn't really grow into my face until I was ~19. It looks fine now, but looking back at pictures from when I was about 11-17, my nose looks HUGE. I was always really thin, which saved me from that pubescent chubby phase, but I also didn't have any boobs until my late teens. I was just sort of lanky. Additionally, I didn't know how to style my hair, shape my eyebrows, or do makeup well. There were som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/16 12:52 PM |
| 14 | Is desperation feminine?But, now, every time she sees me, even if I'm like 20 feet away and there's no reason for us to interact, she waves and says "Hi." like a crazy person Wow, she sounds like a real nutcase. A casual acquaintance who thinks it's appropriate to say hello in a public space? Be careful out there dude. Some people have no sense of social propriety. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | [Question for women] What can I do to meet women?He asked a question. How do I meet women? Why do I push them away? Which I tried to answer. If the situation does not appeal to him, then he and anyone else can do whatever they want. I don't care at all what "game" this guy or any other guy wants to play. I'm not trying to convince anyone to do anything. Be single for the rest of your life. Sleep with a ton of prostitutes. Doesn't bother me one bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Sandwichesasking him out, asking him to hang out. whatever. excuse my semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | SandwichesI mentioned asking him out as a possibility though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 04:49 PM |
| 2 | [Question for women] What can I do to meet women?I never said he was fat? I don't know anything about this guy physically, but I was actually picturing more of a skinny, scrawny guy tbh. He said he doesn't life weights and is not athletic though, so I was using 'get in shape' as general way of saying "work on improving your body as possible, gain some muscle tone, etc" I have seen very charming men chat up women in their league and be overlooked as soon as a handsome, 6 feet tall dude shown up. Wow, shocking. Girls would prefer to hook up with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 11:09 AM |
| 5 | [Question for women] What can I do to meet women?It seems that all the women at my university are attracted to meat-head jocks, like the football and baseball players. Ok first of all, this is false. This is an excuse you are using to not improve yourself at all. Because if the girls are only going to go for the jocks anyway, then why bother right? Stop using that as a reason to justify why girls don't like you. In college, I knew like two girls who actually ever dated/slept with an athlete. I highly doubt that no one but the jocks are getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 12:09 AM |
| 7 | SandwichesYep, pretty much. I've met plenty of guys who were funny, charming, smart, etc, but if I don't find them physically attractive, then all of that means pretty much nothing to me in terms of pursuing a sexual or romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/15 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Question for BP: Do Women Shit Test? How about Men?Right? Literally every girl knows that "I have a boyfriend" is the standard go-to for shutting a guy down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/15 11:22 AM |
| 2 | BP Women: Are you thinking about the possibilities of hitting the wall in your mid to late 30s? For those who are there, have you found that the concept of the wall exists?dying young, not having the chance to grow old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/15 01:36 PM |
| 7 | BP Women: Are you thinking about the possibilities of hitting the wall in your mid to late 30s? For those who are there, have you found that the concept of the wall exists?Well I'm in a LTR and we talk often and seriously about a shared future together -marriage, buying a home, children, etc, but it's not like 'omg better LOCK IT DOWN right now before I get noticeably older and he leaves me for 20 year old and my chance at a family is over.' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/15 10:52 AM |
| 12 | BP Women: Are you thinking about the possibilities of hitting the wall in your mid to late 30s? For those who are there, have you found that the concept of the wall exists?I mean of course I'm aware that I won't always be as young and attractive as I am now. But I'm not concerned or dreading it or anything. Everyone ages and everyone gets less attractive at some point. I'd much rather take that than the alternative. If I were the type of person that feeds of the attention of strangers, then I guess I would be nervous about that. But I'm assuming that I won't be living some miserable, meaningless life just because I won't have a bunch of rando guys hitting on me in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/15 10:35 PM |
| 5 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBI was gonna reply talking about the love languages too, but I think this guy has a very clear idea of what makes a woman feminine that I decided not to bother. I'm "acts of service" as well. Before our third date I baked my boyfriend a dessert from his home country, because he was saying the last time we talked that that was something he missed and craved from back home. When he texted me the other day that he was having a hard day at work, I cleaned the whole apartment and had a "buffet" of a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/15 05:23 PM |
| 4 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBWhat exactly was the default 75 years ago? I'm pretty sure there have always been people who were more romantic, more practical minded, more sensitive, more stoic, etc. There were more rigid gender expectations back then, but entire genders didn't actually have monolithic personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/15 05:05 PM |
| 6 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBI'm actually very feminine. I don't think anyone who knows me IRL would describe me as a masculine person. Being more romantic and physically affectionate is not difficult or a hassle for me. I'm not sure why you took it that way? It's not like I'm a robot that doesn't understand human emotion. But it is something that I have to actively think about doing, because on the default it's not how I express love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/15 04:54 PM |
| 8 | A real problem with AFBB even if she loves her BBI mean regardless of alpha/beta, different people want different things anyway. Part of finding a successful relationship is finding someone who compliments you and accepts what you bring to the table. It's not just about trying to mold yourself into whatever your current partner wants out of you. There has to be compromise. I'm not at all a clingy girl. I need to have space and time away from my boyfriend. I'm not into corny romance or constant communication. My boyfriend is much more affection… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/15 03:21 PM |
| 7 | Does Casual Sex Make People Happy?I think it can fun and enjoyable, but it's not going to make an otherwise unhappy person happy in the long term. It may be a pleasurable experience, and make you feel validated or sexy in the moment, which is fine. But then it's over, and if there's nothing else providing value or happiness in your life, then you're going to be just as miserable as you started out. I think just like alcohol or drugs, it's a temporary feeling of happiness that's fine to indulge in, but it's unhealthy if you const… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women lie about partner count?Agree. I've literally never had a partner ask me about my number, so I'm always surprised to hear about it on here like it's apparently a common thing to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Do you, as a woman, not "give a shit about world affairs, history, etc." and are you "not interested in pondering, learning about, debating the big issues"?Global history and international affairs is my field of study. That's like, my thing. IME though, most PEOPLE aren't really interested in that stuff beyond a superficial level. And if I walk into a bar and try to chat up some guys about world politics or whatever, I too could conclude that men just don't care about "big issues." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Why Do Women Ride the Carousel When It Doesn't Work to Get Them Relationships?Yeah, it's certainly not an optimal strategy for everyone. If you know you are the type of person who can't have sex without getting attached, it's probably not a good idea to go into any sort of sexual relationship until everyone's intentions are known. Likewise, if you are already dead set on being in a relationship with this person when they haven't clearly stated they want the same. Bad idea. This is why people end up butthurt and dramatically upset or it goes "down in flames" like with your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Why Do Women Ride the Carousel When It Doesn't Work to Get Them Relationships?Honestly, I'm not quite sure that it doesn't work. I'm in my early 20s, so maybe it's not the case for older age ranges, but I'd say the most common method for starting relationships among people my age is through casual sex. Most couples I know started as casual acquaintances who were attracted to one another --> sex --> relationship. I mean, I don't think it's a good good strategy to go fucking a new random hot dude every night until one sticks if you're just looking to get a boyfriend. But if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Casual Sex...Questions for WomenHave you ever actively wanted casual sex instead of a relationship? Yes Have you ever actively wanted to sleep around as opposed to being with one solid partner? Yes Have you ever had sex with a guy, or been intimate / dated him in some respect, wanted a relationship, but ultimately been rebuffed because he was unwilling to commit? If not, do you think this happens a lot to other women? Not really. There have been a couple guys that had the situation been different(distance), I would have pursue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 03:00 PM |
| 5 | 30 year old guys dating 20 year old girls - realistic?It happens, but I don't think it's very common at all. I'm in my early 20s and so are most of my friends, and I can't think of a single girl friend of mine who has or has tried to date a man that much older than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/15 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Are most women actually as promiscuous as TRP says ?That seems like a really self-depricating mindset to be in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Are most women actually as promiscuous as TRP says ?lol I think this is exactly what I'm talking about when I say you only make note of the women who are doing the same thing you are but ok. You may have seen that happen and assume it to be a universal truth because obviously you haven't seen the women who won't do casual sex having casual sex so there's nothing to make note of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Are most women actually as promiscuous as TRP says ?Sure, I'm not criticizing anyone for wanting no strings attached sex, if that's what it sounded like. I don't think it's a bad thing for you or anyone else to want that. I was just pointing out that it may seem like most women pursue casual sex, if you are a man also pursuing that lifestyle because those are the women you will be involved with. The women who don't want that sort of non committed relationship are going to be kind of off your radar, as they aren't really in sync with your goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Are most women actually as promiscuous as TRP says ?Agree. Most of TRP is admittedly after casual sex, so the women that they're involved with are also going to be after casual sex and probably will have have had quite a few partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Are most women actually as promiscuous as TRP says ?Girls don't really have much of a reason to round down to each other, unless maybe they think their friend is a prude and will judge them. I don't think many girl would feel the need to play the chaste card to a friend who is a sex worker though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Have you all personally known or met Indian men in the US who had a lot of success in the game?How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? A guy of any race that's personable, interesting, fun, good looking, etc, isn't going to be excluded out of many friend circles for the sole reason of being Indian. If you're not already those things, then the problem isn't that you're Indian. If you are those things, then it's not your race that's holding you back. You may have a tougher time, but there are plenty of white guys who aren't getting with the hot girl either. Widen your group of friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Have you all personally known or met Indian men in the US who had a lot of success in the game?There were a couple of Indian guys I went to high school and college with that always had lots of girls(including me at one point) that were into them. I don't know if there was anything out of the ordinary that they did to make themselves so attractive, other than that they were objectively really really handsome. They dressed well, styled their hair well, and were in shape. It probably also helped that they were light-skinned. They seemed like really nice, fun guys the few times I hung out wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do European countries have lower age of consent laws compared to America?I think u/YetAnotherCommenter gave a really good analysis on the first question. In the US, teenagers are treated essentially as children in all spheres of society, not just sexually. That being said, while teenagers having sex in general at a younger age is not looked upon as scandalously, an adult dating a teenager is not going to be looked upon favorably. It may be legal, but it's not normal, at least in Western Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/15 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Ok. Forget about Miranda's man. Women of PPD, rate this other billionaire.For myself, probably like a 2. For his age though, more like a 5. He's not ugly, he's just a pretty average looking old dude. Got that nice, jolly old man look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Women: would you rather meet the perfect guy you fall in love with at the age of 21 or meet him at 26, but spend 21-26 with flings?I'm pretty sure that I already found mine when I was 20 and I don't regret not having more years to date around, so I'll say the first one. However, if he's really your perfect match and you'd end up together either way, I guess it doesn't really matter. There's no "bad" option if you end up together anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 06:03 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on multiple TRPers rating super model Miranda Kerr a 4-7?Tops the 'most beautiful' list every year? So what? Men are not attracted to your pre-selection The point of that being was to say that despite men on TRP going on about how she's not that great looking, obviously a bunch of people do find her very attractive And at some point, some people will have enough status, be it through wealth, beauty, celebrity, or whatever, that even if their options become more limited, they'll still have lots and lots of options. Miranda Kerr will never struggle to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/15 11:04 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on multiple TRPers rating super model Miranda Kerr a 4-7?How? She's a super famous supermodel with millions of dollars who regularly tops "most beautiful" lists every year. I can't think of a single scenario in which she would not do well for herself in the dating department. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/15 06:00 PM |
| 10 | What are your thoughts on multiple TRPers rating super model Miranda Kerr a 4-7?The funniest part are the guys implying that this dude is somehow lowering himself by dating Miranda Kerr. Like she's some poor low value girl now that she's a single mom. Please. She could have had 10 kids from 10 marriages and still have her choice of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/15 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it hypocrisy if a woman says she is a feminist, and wants men to pay for dinners/outings on dates?Not necessarily. I think you can be a feminist and also subscribe to traditional gender roles in your personal life. I think it would be hypocritical if she claimed all men should always pay for all women and shamed men who didn't. But if she believes in equal treatment between the sexes in society in general, but chooses to personally be more traditional, then I don't think it would be hypocritical to date men who are also more traditional. I also don't think it's contradictory to be a feminist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/15 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Is a woman insecure if she doesn't want to marry a promiscuous man?In a way. I think if you're otherwise satisfied in your relationship, there's no reason to dig up the past if it's just going to feed into your insecurities. I trust him when he says he's happy in our relationship. I have a past too and I don't reminisce about old partners or wish I were still single so I have no logical reason to think he does either. Bottom line is that I don't want to dwell about my boyfriend with other girls before me. So if I don't want to think about it, obviously I'm not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/15 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Is a woman insecure if she doesn't want to marry a promiscuous man?Yes, I think it likely comes from a place of insecurity. My boyfriend and I have never discussed each other's past sex lives or number counts, and I don't want to. I have no idea what his number is and he doesn't know mine. He's always been a good boyfriend and never given me reason not to trust him, but I'll admit that if I found out he's been with a huge number of girls before me, I could see myself being insecure. I'd start to let it get into my mind that there must have been a girl before me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/15 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Survey: Why do you think so many women feel like they never get hit on/don't get enough male attention?I think some of it has to do with location. I went to college in a city with a huge young population. I spent a lot of time walking to get from place to place. I went out with friends to bars or other places where there's a lot of interaction between strangers. I'm a young, fairly attractive girl and I got a quite a bit of male attention. For the last couple months I've been living in a semi-rural, semi-suburban community outside of a much smaller city. I have to drive everywhere. There's not a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Men Do It Too" is not a valid justification.Third, MDIT does not mean men are hypocrites for calling out women's bad behavior. There is men's bad behavior; and there is women's bad behavior. Two different things, two different standards. No. There is just bad behavior and good behavior. If two groups are doing the same thing, one group does not make it "bad." It's either acceptable or it's not. The person doing it does not change the "rightness" or the behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | (x-post from FeMRADebates) I'm curious, what are the psychological explanations that people on this sub give for women seeking out and proposing marriage to violent convicted criminals?I would guess this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/15 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Do you agree with this blue pillar?I was embarrassed to be a virgin when I got to college so I lied about it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/15 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to guys who don't care about themSince female love is a perception of value and is based on emotions, it can change very quickly and isnt affected by the past in any way. that...is just an entirely bizarre idea and absolutely wrong, sorry. where do you get this stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/15 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Women are attracted to guys who don't care about themSo you're saying that your girlfriend, who you apparently never showed affection towards or showed you cared for, loved you so so much that she was incapable of functioning on a normal level when there were problems between you, immediately ceased to love you when you decided to show her that you cared about her? Is that right? If so, do you think that sounds like a normal situation at all? Or a rational response between two people in a healthy relationship? Do you not think there could have bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/15 12:25 AM |
| 10 | Women are attracted to guys who don't care about themIt's not. No girl who's ever been crazy about a guy has been turned off by him showing her attention. If she's put off by him valuing her, wanting to talk to her, being nice to her, etc, it's because she wan't that into him in the first place. It's awkward to be on the receiving end of so much attention when it's clearly one sided. That is off-putting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/15 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Women are attracted to guys who don't care about themIf Bob is hot, it doesn't matter how much or how little he texts, women are going to be attracted to him. If a woman is attracted to and likes a guy, I guarantee that she wants him to care about her and pay attention to her. She isn't going to be turned off by someone she's into because it seems like he likes her. If she's not interested, he could text her or ignore her all he wants and it probably won't make a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill, are you attracted to the Red Pill model of being "Beta"?True, but it's not like those are the characteristics that make TRP so controversial. If he occasionally browsed TRP and yet didn't pick up any of the more seedy red pill behaviors, you're right, I would never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/15 05:53 PM |
| 16 | Blue Pill, are you attracted to the Red Pill model of being "Beta"?I'm pretty sure TRP does not have a monopoly on being in shape, having good fashion sense, good posture, charm, and a sense of humor. That's only the most obviously desirable set of traits for anyone looking to hookup ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/15 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider the following situation rape?I think it would be difficult to even get to sex if both parties were in this stage because someone has to be active and aware enough to do the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider the following situation rape?IMO if they can't stand up or walk on their own, their words are heavily slurred or incoherent, they're closing their eyes and trying to drift off, they're not being actively responsive to the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Both pills, what do you think is an inappropriate age gap for a relationship, if one exists? And for a hookup?Rural phrase? I'm not really sure what that means. I answered more in depth above, but I just think that there are often going to be questions regarding the dynamic of a relationship with a large age gap, especially when we're talking late teens/early twenties as the younger party. Differences in maturity levels and lack of life experience makes it easy for some people to be taken advantage of. Not always, but if someone close to me were involved then I might be concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Both pills, what do you think is an inappropriate age gap for a relationship, if one exists? And for a hookup?Depends on the relationship. Sometimes nothing is wrong at all. I think that often when you see a relationship with one person in their late teens or very early 20s, and the other is much older, it raises some questions of what the dynamic of that relationship is. Obviously there will be a maturity gap. Even if the 18yo is "so mature for their age," they just don't have the life experience to be on the same level as a 30yo. Someone could easily take advantage of a young person trying to prove th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Both pills, what do you think is an inappropriate age gap for a relationship, if one exists? And for a hookup?I think large age gaps are often indicative that something is not quite right in the relationship, but I can't make a generalization that it is unhealthy in every situation. I think as long as both parties are adults, they should be able to make whatever choices they want in their relationships. Even if I personally find it distasteful or doubt it's ability to work out in the long term, that's not my decision to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | A question for the females. what do you find attractive in a man?No worries, I've already found the guy who ticks all my boxes just fine :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 01:07 AM |
| 1 | A question for the females. what do you find attractive in a man?And it was almost meant to be ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 3 | A question for the females. what do you find attractive in a man?Physically: taller than me, on the thin side, good head of hair that's stylishly cut(though I really dig long hair if the guy pulls it off well), attractive face, well dressed. I like accents too. Personality: charismatic, kind hearted and empathetic towards others, similar sense of humor (aka gets my jokes), trustworthy and reliable, well spoken, likes to travel, introvert, sexually adventurous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/15 12:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingI don't know, it could be a number of things. Maybe promiscuous behavior is more common in women who are more independent, and thus less likely to feel like they "need" to stay in an unhappy marriage. Maybe it's indicative that they come from families or social circles that are more accepting of divorce. Maybe promiscuous behavior sometimes goes hand in hand with other risky behaviors, like jumping into marriage too quickly. Maybe having had more previous relationships, they're more aware when t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 11:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingThe idea of someone having one sexual experience that is so earth shatteringly amazing that nothing else will ever compare is a myth. Nobody fucks that good. The best sex is generally a mix of attraction, enthusiasm, a willingness to please, and knowing how to do so. Long term partners are most likely to tick all those boxes because they know your body, they know what turns you on in particular, and they have a vested interest in making it a pleasurable experience for the both of you. That's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 06:09 PM |
| 8 | How many sexual partners makes a female unattractive for marriage?Am I wrong though?Sex is a very powerful thing. Is it though? I think that's debatable. I think you could say that sex is a very powerful thing for you, but for many people it's just something that they can enjoy and then move on with their lives. Not everyone's perception of sex is that it's a magical bonding experience in every situation. Its childish but thats how I feel. You've admitted yourself that it's a childish notion to feel like you need to be your wife's first and only, presumably be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: AFBB is a Thingthat would make more sense if having the best sex was synonymous with having sex with the hottest guy. I may have had one night stands with male models before, but a one night stand is rarely going to put the same effort towards pleasing their partner that someone in a committed relationship will. He could have been the hottest guy in the world, but if he jackhammered for 5 minutes and then bounced, I'm hardly going to be daydreaming about those 5 minutes of glory later in life. A pretty face do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:37 PM |
| 0 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingI suppose I'm still a little confused about what makes someone an "alpha" or a "beta" Is any man that gets married and provides for his family a beta? Are you an alpha just for having women who want to have sex with you? My thoughts are that most woman(and men) will have casual sex based mostly on physical attraction but have other qualifications that need to be met in order to have a LTR or marry that person. This doesn't mean that they aren't also attracted to that person, just that they can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 08:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingI'd say it's attraction, but not physical attraction. I'd say some women think it's worth it to have sex with a rich man because he can provide her with a cushy lifestyle, but that lifestyle isn't making her horny. College students have resources. It's about who his parents are and/or how much earning potential the girl believes he has in the future. True, but I think this is the minority. I don't think many girls are particularly concerned with locking down a rich husband when mom and dad are p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 07:52 AM |
| 0 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingA beta is someone who can only attract women by providing and/or showing potential to provide. But that's not really attraction, is it? That's putting up with someone in exchange for something else. If the only qualification for an alpha is that women are willing to have sex with them just for the sake of having sex then is the bar really that high? Practically any guy involved in the college dating scene must be an alpha, because it's not like college students are known for rolling in cash and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 07:10 AM |
| 0 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingIs an alpha any man that a woman is attracted to and wants to have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Both Pills: Is requiring that a girl have a low partner count too much to ask for in today's hook up culture?I mean, I'm mostly basing this on men I've had sex with and men that have had sex with my friends, so I wouldn't say that they're desperately sex starved. I've personally never been asked about partner count by someone I was dating and I've never dated anyone that I perceived as "low value." Again, this is just my experience, but I don't see much importance placed on chastity in modern dating life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers: Why do you think you are better than Redpillers?Most likely because they think you're unlikely to reach your goals when your methods are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Both Pills: Is requiring that a girl have a low partner count too much to ask for in today's hook up culture?This is my experience as well. For all the talk from TRP about high value men not willing to be in relationships with sluts, I find that most guys just don't care. If anything, being a virgin is a detriment to your romantic life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:26 AM |
| -4 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingIs it "a thing"? Yes, certainly. Some women will put up with a relationship with a man that they're not attracted to in order to secure resources(no one denies gold diggers exist) or to maintain acceptance within their culture. But is it the widespread sexual strategy phenomenon that TRP makes it out to be? No, I don't think so. Most women want to both have sex with and have relationships/marry men that they're attracted to and excited by. Most women aren't going to want to resign themselves to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:07 AM |
| 0 | She isn't your equal until she washes the crap off her face.Exactly. If every woman in the world stopped wearing makeup, we would totally redefine what a beautiful woman actually looks like. Because the right now, the "standard" of a hot girl is a girl wearing makeup. If the standard for men suddenly became to wear makeup, what we consider to be an attractive male face would change because the expectations of what they should look like would change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 08:16 PM |
| 10 | Is it manipulation if a wife will only have sex with her husband after he does all the house chores?Not OP, but personally: after sex I like to cuddle and lay in bed together for a while, then I usually go take a shower, then I'm all clean and relaxed and the last thing I'm gonna want to do is go back and start mopping floors/doing the dishes/whatever. It's like sitting down to watch tv in the middle of doing housework. Of course you can always get back up and do it later, but getting motivated to finish once you've stopped to relax is an even bigger pain in the ass than just getting it all do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 04:50 AM |
| 6 | As a woman, have you ever been turned on by a man boasting about the number of women he's had sex with?Yes, there's a difference, but I'm still not convinced that women are attracted by a guy's high partner count. I don't particularly care about a guy's number, but boasting about the number of women you've had sex with is tacky and just screams high schoolers in the boy's locker room. It's super cringeworthy to hear it from grown men. If I see an attractive guy that's charming and can flirt well then I'll assume he does well with women. But it's the attractive and charming part that's a turn on, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/15 05:57 AM |
| 10 | What's your take on this MGTOW post about Female Strategy?I was arguing about this the other day. There's a huge gap between the Brad Pitts and Johnny Depps of the world and even the more successful men. For one, they're both exceptionally attractive for older men. Jack Nicholson's got money and fame too, but I doubt he gets quite the same adoration from the younger crowd. I'm sure he could still find a pretty young woman to pretend to be attracted to him, but let's not act like he's even in the same league. So the semi successful regular guy with aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/15 05:25 AM |
| 6 | What's your take on this MGTOW post about Female Strategy?If your main goal in life is to be wealthy, or famous, or a successful playboy model, then fucking or even dating Hugh Hefner to get that probably seems like an ok deal. People have done worse achieve their goals. I wouldn't confuse that with women actually being actually attracted to him, be it physically or otherwise. If I bought in to RP theory, I'd actually be more inclined to place Hefner on the beta bux end of the spectrum in that women who aren't attracted to him will put up with him in e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/15 05:09 AM |
| 8 | What do you think of making it normal, expected and completely above the table, that the husband visits young prostitutes once the wife’s aging starts to show?I think that's certainly something that could be discussed on a couple by couple basis, though I suspect that the couples that would be OK with this sort of thing IRL would not be in the majority. But if it's all cool with both parties, why not? The husband starts sleeping with prostitutes and the wife starts fucking the pool boy. They're both outsourcing their sexual needs to a more physically appealing third party, but they have an otherwise satisfying marriage with one another. Everyone knows… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 05:33 PM |
| 6 | If TRP is right then why is it the best strategy for women to marry young ?I don't disagree that men in general have a longer expiration date, but I think you're underestimating just how much a man has to be impressive in other areas to be more appealing to a significantly younger woman than the men in her own age demographic are. Just because they're not "some loser" or even if they have a pretty impressive career doesn't mean they're going to win the admiration of a bunch of young hot girls. A middle aged engineer/lawyer/businessman who owns a house? They're a dime i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/15 05:42 AM |
| 3 | If TRP is right then why is it the best strategy for women to marry young ?Women desire older men (even as girls) and men's value goes up as they age unlike women. I think you may be overestimating the desirability of older men just a bit. Unless they're making a ton of money, are especially good looking for their age, or have some sort of celebrity, their "status" is not going to any higher in the eyes of young women. Do you really think that the average 40 year old, with average looks, an average job, and an average or even above-average income is going to have a poo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/15 04:19 AM |
| 9 | Do BluePill men truly believe they are the ‘best their girlfriend/wife ever had”?That makes it sound like everyone just goes down a totem pole of attraction, stopping at the first person who will have them. Sometimes things don't work out between two people for whatever reason. Maybe it's a mutual decision or maybe someone got rejected. You move on and meet someone new. This pattern repeats until, at one point, two people who want to be together end up together. Why would you assume that just because you happen to be the last one in the line, the other person is still pining… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do BluePill men truly believe they are the ‘best their girlfriend/wife ever had”?This is pretty much what I think too. At least in terms of short-term sex partners. I'm just thinking back on my own casual encounters and I remember thinking at the time like "oh that was really good" or "that was kind of boring." But I don't, like, pine for any of that sex again. Even the guy I thought was "the best I've had," I can't even remember what was special enough to make me think so. These were all good looking dudes that I was really attracted to. They were all mostly good, some just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 09:32 PM |
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