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whirleymon/r/seduction29/12/19 04:31 PM
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whirleymon/r/seduction11/12/19 01:42 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationwhirleymon/r/seduction16/01/20 01:18 AM
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Fundamentalswhirleymon/r/seduction19/01/20 06:30 PM
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Abs
/r/seduction24/03/24 12:59 AM
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Kiss his face
/r/seduction18/03/24 01:39 AM
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Sex is a good non-platonic 3rd date activity. Try that.
/r/seduction06/03/24 03:10 AM
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I lost a girl once too. True story.
/r/seduction15/02/24 01:43 AM
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- Walk up. Say "Hi"
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:21 AM
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0 girls in your lecture halls? Are you a dungeons and dragons major?
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:31 AM
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Sneak that link bro. Sneak that link
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:36 AM
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It sounds like you might be depressed, and should speak to a psychologist if you can
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:08 AM
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Grow
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:38 PM
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No
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:57 PM
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Easy. First continue human evolution down a path where women are more assertive than men and happy to select for timidness. Then make sure that this evolved form of humans remains adapted to their environment. That shouldnt take longer than 200K years. Your other option is to better understand the human mating process and grow a pair of balls.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:37 PM
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Lift weights
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:40 AM
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The ones I catch looking at me
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:17 PM
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The point Im trying to make isn't some gotcha, and obviously I have no idea what you do, or the numbers. What I am trying to point out is wording that strikes me as disingenuous, and I think if you are a bit more honest with yourself (you don't make 7 figures) and kinder to yourself (its ok that you dont make millions yet) you would feel better.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:27 PM
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It depends if its a desperation wank or a celebration wank
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:08 PM
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But you said seven figures.. how can 6 figures in 2020 and 0 in 2021 be seven figures some years?
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:06 PM
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But you said seven figures? How can 6 figures in 2020 and 0 in 2021 be seven figures some years?
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:06 PM
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"May have some years" when you launched in 2020 and made 0 in 2021? It sounds like you need to be more honest with yourself.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:59 PM
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Only if you let your hair down and take your glasses off so he can realize that the unpopular nerd has been a hot babe all along
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:43 AM
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You could just date dominatrixes
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:00 AM
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Lift weights bro
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:52 PM
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You're not so bad yourself
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:29 PM
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Kudos for getting real feedback and taking it like a champ. There are tricks you can do, many are listed here, but most importantly is going to be getting to the core of the self esteem issue. Sort out some goals for yourself and start moving towards them. Make some money. Lift some weights. Take an improv class. Superficial bandaids are fine for starters, but truly work out who you are and the vibe will naturally follow.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:21 AM
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No, like an emotionally stable man with a working cock and goals in life.
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:45 AM
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wat du fuq u on about mate? it sounds like you approach like a wanker, approach like a stud and they treat you like a stud
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:37 AM
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BETA!!!
/r/seduction15/12/21 12:08 AM
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Get him drunk
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:04 AM
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Dude there was a pandemic
/r/seduction11/04/21 12:23 AM
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1 Just become a pro athlete 2 Yup all my girlfriends left me for famous guys, until I took my own advice above
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:33 AM
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Stop labeling yourself. For starters labels are false. You aren't non assertive, you have acted that way in the past (this isnt just semantics), but that doesnt mean you have to act that way in the future. Learn to be more assertive (classes, books, therapy, whatever it takes). Take up a physical hobby, and dress better (assuming these are issues from the 'typical nerd' label which is again not a fixed trait, but a changeable pattern) You can have success if you work to become more attractive, a…
/r/seduction04/10/20 02:07 AM
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The most important thing is to stop thinking about others considering you a high value man, and to start living by your own values.
/r/seduction10/08/20 04:57 PM
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It matters, but dont forget everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Keep finding areas to improve socially, and your personality will tower over your height.
/r/seduction11/07/20 08:31 PM
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I appreciate this comment, but you simply doubled down the fatal flaws in your original argument. The roots of your problem here are twofold: First you have attached a moral judgement to a simple empirical observation. Fitter males are more likely to attract females. This is an objective fact. Such facts dont speak to shoulds. Such facts dont speak to your desires. They simply provide frameworks for you to guide your actions. From here it gets worse as you catastrophize the interpretation of thi…
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:18 PM
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That line of thinking is about as reasonable as trying out for an NBA team with no basketball skills, and asking why you cant be accepted for who you are.
/r/seduction31/05/20 02:41 PM
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Its not your height, its your insecurity about the height. Ive went out plenty as a a quiet, shy, insecure, introvert and gotten 0 attraction. Ive also went out after doing a lot to improve myself, working out, social skills, new clothes etc, and gotten plenty of attraction. I was 5' 4' in both situations.
/r/seduction19/05/20 11:50 PM
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Yup, the tactics are just a bunch of ways to act like this is true when its not. The more effective strategy is to make this true.
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:12 PM
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Yup summed up perfectly. We've all heard 'just be yourself' aka 'radically express yourself in an open and honest way.' Thats pretty much it.
/r/seduction09/04/20 03:09 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction29/02/20 03:04 AM
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This is awesome, keep it up!
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:25 PM
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Im pretty sure this is 100% wrong. My opinion is based on the book 'the master and his emissary' a book by a neuroscientist on the subject, not on me being one, so Im open to learning about the other sources you may be getting this idea from.
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:21 PM
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You're cute but you're too (X) for me. (crazy, short, tall, loud etc)
/r/seduction20/02/20 12:11 AM
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Im a straight man, and I wish I could meet a non-needy man (to be friends with) but Ive yet to find one.
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:02 AM
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Ive been reading this, and I agree. At around 20 pages in it felt like the author already called me out on 100% of my sh*t thought patterns that were holding me back with women (and with life in general).
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:24 PM
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You can go on dates when you feel anxious. <------- FACT
/r/seduction07/02/20 03:03 AM
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'You're not so bad yourself'
/r/seduction06/02/20 11:25 PM
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Lift weights, and eat more protein.
/r/seduction06/02/20 11:24 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/seduction04/02/20 02:13 PM
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Google it. Then next time you're around women socially, look if they are doing the things the Google said they would do.
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:13 AM
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Its not that high value women are after your money per say, its what that money says about you. Its the skills, discipline, and ambition that earned the money that is attractive. Sure pure gold diggers exist, but a more typical attractive woman should be rejecting broke men, if they are broke because of a lack of any of the positive qualities I mentioned before
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:06 AM
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You have low self esteem (this is different than confidence, and honestly this can be the response to dam near 100% of threads started here) start googling, reading books, journaling, and get professional help if necessary. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:02 AM
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Don't try to neg. Do try to be more playful, funny, unafraid to express yourself, and have fun teasing women you like a bit. For the former that line sucks, for the latter it's great.
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:00 AM
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Yes, he will appreciate it.
/r/seduction29/01/20 12:29 PM
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Ive never seen such a sloppy, incoherent, hodgepodge of clearly misunderstood scientific and philosophical ideas tried to be passed off as a rational argument in my life. And this is the internet.
/r/seduction29/01/20 12:28 PM
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5 of them invited you home? did you go? what happened?
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:46 PM
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No, every healthy person can get to the point where they both dont feel weird or deluded, and feel worthy. Keep working on yourself and youll get there.
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:43 PM
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TRY ALL CAPS
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:07 PM
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Alotta guys in here posting like this might be gay, but i disagree... its definitly gay
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:05 PM
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As a man I actually like him. Even though he sells himself as a woman's dating coach, most everything he says is applicable to men.
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:54 PM
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Wear a hat
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:53 PM
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Change your self talk. Raise your self esteem. See a therapist.
/r/seduction25/01/20 04:38 PM
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Say what you really believe you f****** p**** Thats the only way to be successful.
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:57 PM
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Post >>>>> video
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:16 PM
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Stop telling yourself these shitty false stories. my inability to keep up convo outside of activities done together with people WRONG!! Im sure there have been times when you weren't able to do this. But there is nothing inherently in you that prevents you from solving this, or the 20 other excuses you made above. Think of one particular example of your inability to hold a convo. Now think of a way you could have kept that convo going. Next time do that thing you just thought of. Then when you g…
/r/seduction24/01/20 03:05 AM
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Keep going to the gym. Clothes wise fit is most important. From there start small. Actually try to make friends. Ask their major (no thats not seductive, its a start) ask what clubs they are in or want to join. Join the club that has the most cute girls in it. Go to parties with your new friends. Drink, be social, and flirt. Then come back here and ask how to have sex when youre in bed with one of the girls you chatted up in the dining hall.
/r/seduction24/01/20 02:59 AM
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You pretty much cant notice it in the moment. Think about your interactions afterward. How you were feeling. How you expressed yourself. What you could have done better to be more authentic. Keep working on yourself and you will get past the pain period.
/r/seduction24/01/20 02:26 AM
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Good for you!
/r/seduction24/01/20 01:52 AM
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SHUT THE F*CK UP AND GO ON THE DATE
/r/seduction24/01/20 01:04 AM
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Work on your self esteem. Read some books (I recommend one actually called 'Self Esteem'), or see a therapist. Also eat healthy and work out regularly. Its a competition man, go out there and win it.
/r/seduction24/01/20 12:56 AM
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Butts, boobs, and butts.
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:40 AM
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Did you tell her that was offensive when she said that? If no start saying what you actually feel for a change instead of being a people pleasing nice guy, and you wont be called boring.
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:35 AM
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This seems right
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:39 AM
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Seems like consent is only based on whether they like you or not. ummmm yea
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:27 AM
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She lives close so it should be easy to go through her trash, look into her windows, sneak into her bedroom when shes on vacation... the usual stuff. Get creative. Leave a teddy bear with a camera in it on her front door and see if she brings it into her house. The options are endless. Good luck!
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:51 AM
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Say 'I want dat ass too mami'
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:49 AM
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127? You gotta lift bro.
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:37 AM
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This +100. Learn to walk the walk instead of just talking the talk. Id recommend a couple books, 'No more mr nice guy' and 'self esteem' that might help. You got this.
/r/seduction21/01/20 11:40 PM
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Its closer to this with me. Alcohol gets rid of any anxiousness, and makes me present, allowing me to connect with others in a much smoother why then when Im sober. I get worse 'performing' with it, more in a slowing down in conversation and showing my best self type of way, as opposed to saying whatever pops into my head. The latter (saying whats on my mind) is much better than being too uptight, but I think the former could be the best.. Im just not sure how hard it is to get there without the…
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:08 PM
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This is GOLD
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:02 AM
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Ok. No I haven't tried buying women drinks. Its a bad strategy in general because you're basically saying Im not good enough myself, so can I buy your attention? Of course some women can be bought, but I wouldn't advise going down that road.
/r/seduction19/01/20 10:10 PM
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How do you know its your looks? Do you dress well? Are you in decent shape?
/r/seduction19/01/20 09:58 PM
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It sounds like she wasn't trying to reject you, she was just tired.
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:09 PM
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Haircut. Clothes. Gym. Shower.
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:56 PM
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You mention all the things you have no issues with for starters, how have you gotten into all of those situations to be comfortable with the other steps before? Maybe just go with that?
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:55 PM
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So I can talk to all the women he brings around
/r/seduction17/01/20 02:06 PM
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Can I have your friends number?
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:19 AM
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Accept reality, or suffer. Your choice.
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:16 PM
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Hand covering mouth, hight pitched 'hi-hi-hi', red faced, and bend the knees a bit.
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:13 PM
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Yup, daily meditation is the exercise that you need
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:10 PM
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The height is an advantage. Unfortunately the insecurity is a much bigger disadvantage. Work on the latter, and you'll crush with the former.
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:09 PM
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Think of the way a friend might grab your attention right before asking a question, like a quick forearm tap/pat then... ask a question. Think friendly. 'Hey what was the show you were talking about again?' as you reach out. It can be almost platonic at first, and as you two get closer move towards knee/leg/lower back.
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:32 PM
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Why would you give a fuck about what people think about you? You think they can hurt you, and/or you dont think you're good enough. Both are poor mindsets, and wrong.
/r/seduction11/01/20 08:51 PM
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Where do you go for first dates? Second dates? If there are drinks, and you are sitting next to each other touching is easy (just tap their forearm before you start a convo thread, and go from there), across from each other say at a coffee shop gets you friend zoned or worse though in my experience.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:16 AM
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I liked it
/r/seduction05/01/20 08:33 PM
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Haha this is true. I have a pretty bare bookshelf at my place right now, so I think the game will look more interesting than an empty shelf, but yea now that I think about it I dont see a game of connect 4 actually leading to a game of hide the bologna
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:23 AM
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Great ideas guys, keep em coming!! I already ordered 'the big book of if' and some candles from amazon as suggested, and want to learn to make a couple of cocktails.
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:19 AM
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Accept reality as it is or suffer. Your choice.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:54 PM
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Because men have much lower standards, so it's much easier for women to get laid. No tactics needed, just ask.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:52 PM
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Im living in Boston, and looking to get back into pickup. Im also pretty new to the city, and interested to hear how its going for you guys here?
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:44 PM
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