whiskey-monk Archive

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1	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] Aw shucks. Thanks. Seriously though. I'm hoping it works out. I don't want him going crazy over this.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 02:24 PM
2	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] I was thinking of that. But he just got back to the states. He's not even going to be officially home yet (in our state) for another 9-10 months. So when he does come home I want him to try therapy first. I'm hoping that'll do something. I want to help him out of this and his other problems. I can't just abandon my friends like that. Besides, while he was deployed I moved an hour away. We'll barely see each other.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 02:09 PM
1	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] We met in middle school. Been friends for almost ten years. It's become one of those things where he's just naturally one of the few people I keep in my life, regardless of our differences. Like that family member you keep in contact with because, well, they're family. I'm like that with a few other friends. Can't imagine not having them around. I think it got worse over the last few years because he was in Afghanistan and it gave him something to look forward to after coming home. Yeah, I misse…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 02:07 PM
2	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] I can understand where he's coming from because I've liked this other person for YEARS. But he needs to stop trying to force it to happen. It's one thing to keep liking someone and another to continue this persistence. I'm going to talk to him later today about it.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 01:56 PM
6	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] I'm not that kind of person. I don't take advantage of others like that. No matter what they do, I can't bring myself to do that.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 01:54 PM
6	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] That's a good word. I like it. I need to develop my lexicon more. Yeah. I don't know what I'm going to do with him. We've been friends for ten years. He just came home from being stationed overseas. He's developed aggressive habits. It scares me sometimes. Said to him we can't hang out like we used to until he gets professional help. He finally agreed, but I'm sure in his mind it's a step to something more. Once I start dating again he'll back off. He always gives me room when I'm with someone. …	/r/seduction	28/12/13 05:41 AM
7	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] But it also doesn't mean I'll change my mind, either. You can't force yourself on someone by using your money and trying to manage them by talking to their family behind their back. Like I said, it's starting to bother me. I'm becoming concerned with how relentless he's being. It's been years. I made it clear I'll never be with him as more than friends. He needs to move on. My other friends are becoming more uncomfortable with the situation than I am.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 05:25 AM
3	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] This happened to me a few months ago with a coworker. We swapped numbers. I thought he was cute. We went out for drinks. Didn't know if it was a date or not but we were flirting. Obviously, since we started the dinner as hanging out we were going to split the bill. But he paid for my beer then my movie ticket after. For me, personally, I felt guilty. Because I know how much we make at work and whatnot. Most of the time before we'd go out I'd tell him we'd go dutch. I even paid for him a couple t…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 05:18 AM
11	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] Except I flat out tell him every year--for the past five years--that I will NEVER date him. Earlier this year he said he accepted it, then a week later bought me a very expensive necklace and basically said if I accepted it (which I definitely wasn't going to. A $2500 necklace isn't a friend gift) then we'd have to date. That was the worst fight we had. He left and got trashed drunk and decided he wouldn't return the necklace. We talked about it again and I reminded him that we'll never be toget…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 05:09 AM
10	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] This tip reminded me of my friend. He has a crush on me (he says he's in love but I don't see how since we're total opposite after all these years). He's constantly buying me things and trying to buy my affection. I'm talking video games, dinners, expensive clothes, whatever. If I say no (which I freak out every time and refuse whatever it is) he gets very pissed off and we end up arguing over it until I begrudgingly accept whatever it is. It makes me uncomfortable. If he were just some guy tryi…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 03:53 AM