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whisky1111/r/MGTOW03/01/18 11:29 PM
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whisky1111/r/MGTOW02/11/17 07:14 PM
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Although it's nice to see a prominent man stand up for other men, I just can't get comfortable with this guy's "straighten up and fly right" message for males. He wants us to serve a sick society. I know that JP would claim that it's in the male DNA to serve women and society and there is nothing that can be done about it, but I refuse to believe that. I refuse to believe that only women can loose their shackles(through feminism) but men are somehow hard coded to serve and therefore shouldn't ev…
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 08:22 PM
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Well first off I'm a nihilist so that right there immediately puts me at odds with JP. I do think he has moments of brilliance but he is way too pragmatic for me. He's all about "purpose" as something Holy and my big question is "do people really need a purpose or were we just programmed since birth with that idea so as to benefit society"?
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 07:04 PM
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"I do think that anxiety which prompts the right sort of growth and development does lead to a state with less anxiety, though." I used to think that too but I'm not so sure any more. I think it's quite possible to check all the right boxes to be in the top 10% and still be filled with anxiety. Anxiety doesn't always show up in classic ways like panic attacks, it colors your thoughts and interactions in ways that you don't even realize it's happening. Furthermore, females are FILLED with anxiety…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 01:17 AM
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I agree but I have a different take on this. I'm against the idea of self improvement as a pathway to Holiness because it's an idea based on anxiety. In other words it's is putting an anxiety in a man's head that there is some magical thing that he must live up to in order to impress the womyns and other people. Any plan based on anxiety is doomed to fail. And the womyns can sense anxiety a mile away. Not saying a man should not take care of himself or make money and all the shit. But we must as…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 12:39 AM
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Yes, I've come to realize lately just how much mental masturbation I do. There is a lot of NoFap talk going around these days but, to be honest, I think that mental fapping is even worse than actual fapping. At least jacking off is natural but are we really meant to live inside our heads this much?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:48 AM
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Why does everything have to be all or nothing? And, I thought that taking the red pill meant making your own path instead of the path that others decide for you! Why is there all the sudden a "right path" for a red pilled man. All the examples you mention seem legit to me AS LONG AS THE DUDE IS WOKE!
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 01:40 AM
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YES OP, that is exactly where I'm at now. I'm 46 and pretty much done with everything. I'm not necessarily depressed but I find human existence to be very boring. What I have been doing is to try to see life as a series of experiences rather than a collection of goals and missions. If you notice most people with goals usually pick the goals that they think will inspire other people to give them a cookie. It's ironic but I'm finding that the less I give a fuck about other people giving me a cooki…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:51 AM
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You don't even have to work hard. Just take them off the pedestal that society has put them on in your mind and watch how they start interacting with you differently. The secret to women is not giving too much of a fuck about women!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:12 PM
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I know that but as was said, this especially seems true today in the age of vagina worship, don't worship her vagina and the girl automatically thinks "there is something intriguing about this guy"
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:00 AM
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But if criminals are getting laid and the whole point of this sub is to get laid why even worry about SMV? Criminals have never even thought about SMV. Therefore by even having any anxiety about SMV aren't you already starting from a losing position? Not saying we should strive to be criminals but maybe we can learn something important from them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:58 AM
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Isn't this the same guy who said that people who reach 40 and have no spouse or children are some of the most hopeless people? I've watched a lot of his videos and there are some pearls of wisdom there but also lots of bullshit that he is making up.
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 12:55 AM
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"Women have evolved to select the fittest men. So, become better than other men and they will come to you." Depends on how you define "fittest", let us not forget that right at this moment there are women fighting over men sitting in prison and drug dealers getting a blowy in the car! Also, if man is worried about being "accepted" by women hasn't he already lost by giving way too many fucks?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 04:06 AM
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Makes sense actually because women these days are absolutely constantly fawned over by thirsty betas and instagram followers. The only way to get their attention is to not be another "yes man".
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:33 AM
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No man is 100% alpha all the time. Nor should a man strive to be so. There are lots of times in life where compromising and going with someone else's plan is the most beneficial route for you to go. You got to know when to push and you got to know when to pull back. If you just push all the time you are gonna turn into the kind of asshole that nobody wants to be around. If you never push people will walk all over you. I do agree with you, too much binary thinking around this subject.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:54 PM
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All I know is that I took Lexapro for five days and it was some of the worst five days of my life. The side effects were absolutely unbearable. Learning to manage my anxiety without meds, so far, so good.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:18 AM
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Why should we try to be valuable to a society that could not give a shit about us? Why?
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 07:24 PM
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The only reason a man has a concept of what is a "better man/real man(tm)" or a "degenerate man" is because society has put those ideas in his head. Believe you me, society and women want you to be a strong, healthy workhorse, even if you think you are "doing it for yourself." Not that a man should sabotage his own health to get back at society, but these posts where men must prove something, even if just to himself, seem so far removed from what mgtow and TRP should be all about. We are going f…
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 07:18 PM
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It's sad how much female awfulness that dudes will put up with these days because they are so incredibly thirsty. What incentive is left for women to improve themselves when the world is clamoring for their attention?
/r/MGTOW09/04/17 12:13 AM
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No, MGTOW should mean no more "real men should be doing X". Doesn't mean you have to be a cuck but it also doesn't mean taking ice cold showers everyday after lifting yourself into a hernia. MGTOW=freedom, that's real power! Do what you want and stop worrying if people respect you(hint: they never truly do, they only like a "powerful" man because they see him as a resource to tap).
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 11:15 PM
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This is such a great post! Sidebar/Sticky material for sure!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 10:18 PM
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Yeah but, your average woman is addicted to just about every one of those things(except fitness and video games) and they seem to be doing just fine!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:34 PM
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Freedom doesn't exists for anybody. Men or women. We are all slaves to our biology and to our bodies. Don't eat or drink and you will die. That right there is our biggest lack of freedom. For men we have it worse and we also have it better. True, we are expected to be money making machines but we can opt out of this as much as we want. Women are emotionally tied to money in a very unhealthy way and most don't have the necessary mental presence to give themselves freedom with this. Men are better…
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 09:03 PM
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The real problem is that we are dealing with two extremes here. You got mgtow that wants to swear off of sex and then you got TRP that over-emphasizes sex. As with most things the answer lies in between. The most important thing though is to get off the Pussy Validation Treadmill. Once you do that you start to gain a new perspective on life.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:07 PM
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To be totally honest, I think that the "sweet spot" is somewhere between MGTOW and TRP(as described in this sub). Both are extreme. I have no desire to be a SMV obsessed lifter but I also have no desire to never touch or talk to a woman again. Why does everything have to be an extreme, either/or, thing?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:45 PM
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Was watching DVR'ed Price is Right while that crap was on. If someone is going to try to sell me something I would rather it all be out in the open.
/r/MGTOW27/09/16 05:30 PM
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I'm a Nihilist and I approve this message.
/r/MGTOW26/09/16 09:28 PM
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Agree
/r/MGTOW18/09/16 09:41 PM
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I'm not sure I would say that "evil" is making gains but the narcissism levels are off the charts!
/r/MGTOW18/09/16 06:46 PM
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My thing is that I cannot figure out what my mission is. I'm 45 years old and I can't say that I have a burning desire for much of anything. I truly envy people with passion and burning desires and missions but I can't seem to figure out what that is for me. I guess I'm in an existential crisis mode.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 11:05 PM
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They have zero self awareness because life never forced them to have it. 100% fantasy, 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:46 PM
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There is also an element of luck involved. Your "lucky break" was getting the interested buyers later on. Have you not have gotten those you would have either been schlepping the thing to the needy guy's house or it would still be sitting in your garage or you would have been working to find another buyer. I think the absolute hardest thing about abundance mentality is maintaining it even though the chance exists that abundance might not come. If a man can do that then he has truly made it. It's…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 06:42 PM
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Money is about the most blue pill thing going. Money is an instrument of "the system" designed to control your entire life. Worshiping money is right up there with worshiping pussy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 05:11 AM
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Two thoughts: Mgtow is fairly new and a lot of guys are still trying to figure things out and who they are in this new paradigm. Men have testosterone, mgtow or not, and their bodies are forcing them to focus on women and they are still trying to come to terms with that.
/r/MGTOW19/05/16 05:37 PM
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"If you are doing it because you want women in your bed, don't do it"
/r/MGTOW07/04/16 05:55 PM
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Personally I love the man. At this point in my life his "don't try" epitaph resonates with me much more that his "All The Way" poem though I can certainly appreciate the point he is making with the latter. If you can find it, watch the three hour interview with Bukowski from the mid-80s. Pure gold, the man made so much Red Pill sense. There are bits and pieces of it on Youtube.
/r/MGTOW07/04/16 05:54 PM
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I mean that here we have a poem exhorting the readers to live to the fullest yet his last words were literally "don't try". Thus a paradox of a man.
/r/MGTOW07/04/16 03:12 AM
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From the man who has "don't try" written on his tombstone...
/r/MGTOW04/04/16 12:57 AM
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The simple answer is don't get married. No pressure, work as much or as little as you want without a vagina at home "keeping score".
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:07 PM
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"Don't Try" - Charles Bukowski
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 11:04 PM
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The thing we battle with is not so much women but the fantasies about them that have been sold to us.
/r/MGTOW20/03/16 03:23 AM
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This is why I am at least partially mgtow. American women seem to be living in their own little dreamworld now. Most are truly toxic and the society just encourages it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:32 AM
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I fall somewhere between MGTOW and TRP. On one hand I agree with the MGTOWs that most modern women aren't worth the hassle, on the other hand I agree with TRP that playing "the game" with women can be a lot of fun sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 11:38 PM
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I'm here for self. Sex is nice and all but mostly it's just another dopamine high. At this point I'd like to get my dopamine under control rather than having it control me. That said, I do have a sex drive and I do desire sex from time to time but coming to the understanding of how much of that desire is a craving for dopamine, boredom, stress or other things that are part of sexual desire but have nothing really to do with sex really shines a different light on things.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 05:31 AM
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For such a "strong" and "empowered" group they sure do seem to need constant encouragement in the form of slogans, "likes", corporate/media hand holding, and now their own holiday. Great strides indeed :|
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 01:14 AM
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I don't think you have to give up everything but we do need to be mindful of dopamine. The more you get the more you need.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 06:50 PM
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You've actually given me food for thought here, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:05 PM
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Our war is not against women, it is against nothingness...the real test for any man is how he is able to deal with nothingness...the biggest bogeyman of them all.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:31 AM
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Actually the first step towards reclaiming your masculinity is dissolving the years of gynocentric indoctrination that has been pumped into your brain. Everything after that is extracurricular.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:45 PM
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Sounds like the typical American girl to me. Most girls these days have some dark shit going on in the background. Some more than others.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 04:44 PM
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Very nice, man. Keep these type of articles coming! They are powerful.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:32 AM
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It takes time and patience but through all the dirt and anger a little seed of inner peace begins to grow. And it aint some feel good new age bullshit this time. It's the real thing! The thing you have always wanted.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:31 AM
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"Men are respected for being physically fit, professionally successful, socially apt, skilled, interesting, confident, powerful, and great leaders" You guys always forget that there are lots of criminal thug type guys getting all the pussy they want as well. Social status isn't everything. Masculine polarity does not always equal being some powerful business type dude or politician. Common criminals cause tingles also. Not recommending any man becomes a criminal but I think we should not discoun…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:00 AM
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IDGAF is the answer! I also refer to it as the 3 L's "Living Life Loosely"
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 07:08 PM
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Telling guys to "earn cash" in order to fuck chicks seems like the exact OPPOSITE of what TRP is about...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:08 AM
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You make some good points.
/r/MGTOW05/02/16 07:00 AM
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I fall somewhere between MGTOW and TRP so I just take the best from both.
/r/MGTOW01/02/16 11:08 PM
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it will drive her to test you and break you simply because she isn't worth your commitment or time! Are you saying that this is her way of bringing you down to her level? Good post, BTW...
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:45 PM
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A girl once told me that she hates herself so much that if a guy seems really interested in her that she immediately assumes that there has to be something wrong with him. Take a minute and try to wrap your head around that one...
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:31 PM
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It makes me so sad to see a dude looking to some chick for his life's purpose. Please introduce this man to TRP! I know he will probably ignore it but it's what he needs so bad right now.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 07:15 PM
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Depends on where you live. Doesn't work so well out here in the sticks.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 01:32 AM
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The problem is that you have guys here who insinuate that we should ALL be striving to be that same man. The stoic Alpha or whatever. I think that is very limiting actually and not really the main crux of TRP. I don't see TRP as a lifestyle as much as an awakening. What each man does after that awakening is up to the individual and each choice is equally valid.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 11:02 PM
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Yes, but I think what our mod is saying here is that the concept of "self improvement" on this sub is taking on a certain identity. In other words guys here are saying "here is what an 'improved' male looks like." They are trying to create some singular end point for TRP rather than simply seeing that it is a fluid idea that can be applied in many ways.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:12 PM
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Yes! This needed to be said. Enough of this "become a rock-solid, pussy slaying, upstanding, Alpha" bullshit! (edited to add: this seems to be the agreed upon endpoint of TRP on here) When a man feels as though he must become something, take on some other identity, in order to be considered a valid man then he is already starting from a weakened place. Fight every urge that wants to allow external forces to decide who you are or who you should be.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:45 PM
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My only problem here is that, yet again, we are telling dudes to be "do the right thing" alpha guys. Not that there is anything wrong with that but as IllimitableMan said on down the comments, there is a place for the negative alpha in this environment. I wouldn't encourage any man to end up in prison but I also wouldn't encourage a man to go out of his way to be a "mighty oak tree" for a modern woman either. I have no doubt that true harmony is a steadfast alpha paired with a submissive female …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:45 PM
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Well no thanks. However, I agree with what you said about women. But rather than sticking it in some dude's butt I would rather just not take women seriously and play with them.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:09 AM
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Your mistake is assuming that everyone starts from the same genetic material when they do not. IQs vary widely as do anomalies such as mental illness that holds people back. You are falling for the just world fallacy. You simply cannot believe that everyone is born with the same potential for leverage in this world. It's a nice dream though..
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:48 PM
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Depends on how the individual man defines "successful life" versus what society tells us is a "successful life".
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:28 PM
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Excellent! And something that I have been thinking about a lot lately. It finally hit me after 44 years that I don't need women as much as I thought I did. Sure there is testosterone, but I think that we have been socially conditioned to "need" women in order to fulfill some made up, internal existential crisis. Of course TRP is all about stripping away social conditioning so I guess it's working on me! This is not to say that we should all become monks but, to me, the first step of this sexual …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:04 PM
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A man who can control his own thirst will have the most power over women.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:20 PM
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Hmmmm...yes and no...luck does play a big factor in life. Some people have more to work with than others. This doesn't mean that people who were given little to work with should just roll over and give up, but they may need to approach things differently than a more lucky person. There is no one size fits all solution to life. I'm starting to believe that some people will get more out of life by being goal oriented and some people will get more out of life by living IDGAF. You ALWAYS have to be …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:58 PM
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I agree, it's the same question that I ask over and over again. I guess for most guys who were raised to be "nice" it's easier to "flaunt your plumage" than it is to think like a thug?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 10:19 PM
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"What are the traits of men, women are madly enslaved to? Is it confidence, is it strenght? NOPE. It is unpredictability, unstability, emotional COLDNESS, psychopathy! In this case he is more unstable than her, so SHE is trying to fix the relationship, she is trying to give them some rules, some stability, some “security”. She must do all the work, otherwise there is nothing. She fills the void. He who cares less…." I agree with this which is why I can't understand this sub's obsession with SMV.…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:20 PM
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It's all good! 3/4 of the battle is getting men to wake up to the fact they were sold a fantasy about women. No matter what the name of the movement as long as it's based on that fact, the rest is just window dressing.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:03 PM
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I have but one New Year's resolution: Be the best hustler that I can possibly be. That is a lot harder than it sounds. To be a good hustler you have to leave your ego at the door. That is probably the hardest part.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:41 PM
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American women are like fast food, overpriced for what it it and ultimately bad for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 11:12 PM
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I actually think my overall internet addiction has done me far more damage than any porn has. At least as far as my brain's reward system goes. I can go for days without porn but it's hard to think of even going 24 hours without a screen. If there is one thing I want to get straightened out in 2016 this is IT!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 11:07 PM
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So, as a man, what is in it for me again?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 07:31 PM
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I want to be the best hustler I can be.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 12:17 AM
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Someday society will figure out that social media is more toxic and destructive than it is helpful but things will have to get MUCH worse before that happens. Basically it will happen when girls can't get their feelz from selfies anymore because they burned out their dopamine hits.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:38 PM
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I've always thought that this place is mislabeled because the "act" of taking the Red Pill is a man seeing reality and losing his fantasies about the world, women in particular. After that he may decide to go MGTOW or dip into PUA or do a bit of both. This place claims to be about sexual strategy only which would make it a PUA type of place. Therefore it's only about one part of the Red Pill experience.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 10:33 PM
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slow clap I couldn't agree more. Too much dick waving and pussy validation around this place lately. It really is all about the self respect that NOBODY in our past was willing to teach us. It can be incredibly hard when nobody has taught you how to do it, but a man MUST validate himself or else he will get played by EVERYONE, men and women alike.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 06:03 PM
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"No one wants to take advice from some sexless loser who hasn't even fucked a cute girl" So you are saying that pussy is the main thing that validates a man worth? Isn't that the exact opposite of where we should be headed as men?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 05:49 PM
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The real trick is having the abundance mentality WITHOUT actually having the abundance yet and with knowing that there is a chance you will never have it. I call it "approaching life with a sense of looseness". But whatever you call it, this has got to be the most important mentality for any man to have regardless of where he is in life.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 08:46 PM
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But you are ignoring one fact, a woman's SMV is not as important as a man's SMV when it comes to getting male attention. For example, I see TONS(no pun intended) of whales around here with no lack of male attention. And these large ladies don't even attempt to compensate by being more feminine. They are basically loud and large and proud. And the thirsty dude is always there following behind her.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:14 PM
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It may be buffer thinking but the reality is that most modern women have nothing of quality to offer a man but a well used hole. Men at this point should not be chasing money OR women but rather enlightenment. The enlightened man has broken out of his dopamine enforced conditioning from childhood that keeps him performing for rewards and validations from other people.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:06 PM
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If you notice with modern country songs it's men singing about longing for a woman and women singing about getting even with/leaving some evil man. At least that is a trend I've noticed lately.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:53 PM
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I think there could be some truth to this. It's like a product, if the quality of the product goes down too much people stop buying. It's becoming more and more obvious that the quality of modern women is going down in a big way.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:02 PM
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"an inherent part of TRP is to not put the pussy on a pedestal like most betas do." I still see a lot of that around here though. Except here instead of bargaining with the pussy through cash and prizes they are bargaining with tingles. Either way, the pussy wins...
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:30 PM
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The enlightened man breaks free from his social conditioning whether it makes him sexy to women or not. THAT is what I think TRP should be about rather than trying to be a "better" man for a society that couldn't give two shits about you, only what they can get from you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:58 PM
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We are workhorses for the system. In return the system gives us just enough to keep us "comfortable".
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:51 PM
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The advice for men is usually the philosophical stuff(the only stuff that keeps me coming back here). That stuff gets batted down cause philosophy aint a direct route to the pussy...
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:25 PM
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I'll add another option: go partially MGTOW and demote the value of women in your mind. Without the magical vag most women are quite boring and bitchy.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:12 PM
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44 y/o dude here and I agree completely. "You are only partially in control of your life." This is something that a lot of men can't seem to wrap their heads around but once you do, life makes more sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 05:35 PM
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But is sex really that great of a prize? I've had plenty of sex and it was OK but just like another part of life, not like a big prize.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 11:05 PM
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"winning sex" Actually I think that reconditioning oneself as to not see sex as a "prize" to be won is a very big step towards male freedom. At 44 years of age nature is doing this for me naturally but if I could have grasp that concept years ago my life would have been much better for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:34 PM
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This is spot on! What is the use of working yourself into a billionaire if there is nothing of quality to buy?
/r/MGTOW08/12/15 07:57 PM
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Two points: The truly self-actualized man does not give a fuck what women want or what other people have. Women also secretly want criminals and psychopaths, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 07:52 PM
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My problem with the "better person" argument is that the concept "better person" is being defined by other people. In other words: "here are the things that are good for you, oh yeah, and women like these things as well..."
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 09:23 PM
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I like the KFC bucket/gluttony example! That is exactly how I see most women these days. Gluttons of food, drama, social media, divorce porn, alpha cock, money, celebrity gossip, validation, selfies, "travel", feelz...the list goes on. I'm not really into the whole male SMV thing. What's the point of being a billionaire if there is nothing desirable to buy?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:42 PM
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Women will always do whatever they can get away with. The real problem is society's obsession with women is causing a slow crumble.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 12:41 AM
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This is known as the "alpha widow" phenomenon.
/r/MGTOW01/12/15 07:26 PM
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Wow! This is the kind of writing that keeps me coming back here. And I've been doing much thinking about nothingness lately. I really am starting to believe that a man cannot be truly free until he accepts and is comfortable with nothingness. After all how can one have abundance mentality until he lets go of his fear of nothingness?! The fear of nothingness will always keep you holding on to things too tightly. Holding on to things too tightly creates neediness. A man who appears needy is actual…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:21 PM
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Personally I welcome a world where women do all the work and men take it easy! Now get down into those sewers ladies! They aint gonna maintain themselves! Climb those cell phone towers to keep your precious validation machines going! Fix those potholes so your strong fellow females won't spill their Starbucks all over her suit during her morning commute!
/r/MGTOW30/11/15 06:34 PM
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Excellent! This is a fundamental thing for men to understand. Very very important. Women are like sharks, always in motion. Their minds are always going and their minds always need fed with some new drama. If there isn't drama going on around them already they will be sure to make some.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:22 PM
3

Well said! You have indeed nailed it!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 01:03 AM
0

Nope, It's more "just world fallacy" bullshit. Been hearing it all my life. Many times we do not get the things that we feel we deserve. Sometimes we work hard and get nothing. Sometimes we work little and fortune shines on us. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and good things happen too bad people.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 12:36 AM
2

...We don't need no water let the mother fucker burn!!!
/r/MGTOW29/11/15 08:15 PM
-1

"What we feel like we deserve in life is what we get." So people who die in natural disasters were feeling...that they deserved that? People who feel they deserve to win the lottery but never do get....what?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 08:02 PM
4

The sooner that TRP strikes the words "Alpha" and "Beta" from our vocabulary the sooner we can move on. It's not a bad thing if a dude wants to decide for himself what Alpha is and then live by that standard for himself but we have guys on here everyday deciding what Alpha is and then preaching to everyone else to Alpha-up their way or else they are the dreaded "b" word. It gets old quickly...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:14 PM
2

Somebody wake me up when we've decided what is and what isn't Alpha....thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:07 AM
5

That was a very entertaining punchline at the end!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 05:14 PM
91

Beautiful! Just beautiful! THIS is the kind of stuff I've been hoping to read about on here. I've realized that I don't want to be a "better" man(as "better" usually means to be more useful to a society that only cares about how it can use you). Instead, I want to be my own man with my own values.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 11:52 PM
1

In my opinion, a man can be a hobo and still be red pill. For me RP=self ownership for men, not some self improvement program to impress a society that exists mainly just to use you. Or as Rollo put it "a man making himself his own point of reference" THAT, to me, is the main purpose of RP and I would say that Will is displaying just that.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 07:33 PM
-1

Hard work - external good luck = just hard work This is why I say that TRP dudes should work on themselves while also cultivating IDGAF.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:20 AM
0

TRP + gym = you're a God among mortals. Well, there is also a bit of luck involved...
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:03 PM
2

You guys making excuses for this woman are cracking me up! NOT ONCE does this woman say what qualities she brings to the table in her relationship with will. NOT ONCE!!! THIS is the problem!!! Scan through there and notice how many times she uses the word "I"! It's easy to say that Will was not ambitious enough but perhaps this woman was never worth his effort to "perform" and he knew that from the beginning and was plating her all along.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:58 PM
9

The thing I find most alarming in the small town USA I live in is that women of EVERY smv level have a guy(usually skinny) following her around. Also the vast majority of women have "let themselves go" physically and are usually very brash and act somewhat manly. So all I can surmise in my little town is that just having a vagina automatically makes you at least a 7.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 07:09 PM
1

Chad and western women deserve each other. They both think they are the $hit!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:46 AM
5

Would much rather read these pieces that make me think rather than something like "just lift bro, and hold frame." Not that those things aren't important but they don't de-tangle the years of propaganda we have all been fed by media, education and family.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:48 PM
5

This is really really good!
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:31 PM
2

Wow! This really hit home for me today.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:18 PM
57

"The indoctrination continues, yet the market is correcting itself. The man who has Game, Lifts and improves is already shooting fish in a barrel. Be that man." What is my prize? A well used hole attached to a nag machine?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 11:46 PM
0

Well when there is a glut of ten percenters then you will have to be even better than that! All while playing within "her" frame!
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 11:28 PM
3

Ah but, the hypergamous female mind will set 10% as the standard and then try for the 5% and then the 1%. But we are getting ahead of ourselves. Without a doubt the biggest problem with average American females today is that they feel that average men are not good enough for them even though they themselves are average(and many times bring very little to no value to a man's life.) THIS THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM that people are not seeing! So we have guys racing with each other trying to prove how…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 07:27 PM
12

LTRs with women are still possible but what every man needs to be asking himself now is, is it worth it? For myself personally, I do not believe that it is worth it at this point in time. Hypergamy has always existed but what we have now is hypergamy on steroids. Many women are like kids set loose in a candy store, running around sampling everything they can as fast as they can and giving each other high fives. The more they sample the more they want, and the more they desire better and better c…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 07:10 PM
6

Let's not forget that most women are not happy creatures themselves. They can't relate.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 06:25 PM
16

Lots of good ideas in this one.... I will say though that the super model isn't starting from nothing. She has an objective, tangible, high value product to work with(her excellent genes, which is really what she is "selling".) Good genes (usually) bring good luck and success breeds success(usually). Most average folks don't have much to work with in the beginning so have to "pull themselves up by the bootstraps" and this is where the rules change. This is where the average person gets stuck.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 05:59 PM
2

Well of course she needs someone(man) to put her in her place but who is going to do it? We here at TRP are a TINY minority compared to all the BPs walking around and that won't be changing any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 07:43 PM
1

" If a girl doing what she is hardwired to do is villainous....I just don't know how to respond to that. " So men are never considered villainous for doing the things that they are hardwired to do? I think we most certainly are. There is line between hard wired biology and pathology and this girl crossed it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 07:41 PM
40

The guy(Matt) is painful to listen to, no doubt. But the real villain here is the woman. You can just hear the entitlement in her voice. Yes, I understand AF/BB and that and we should, on some level, accept a woman's "amoral" behavior as standard but this is something different. This is downright pathological.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:27 AM
2

The best thing would be if men en masse would stop showing women so much thirst. Women would change very quickly if this happened. They might actually be a little bit, oh I don't know, more pleasant and less shrill. Women know that most men are pussy addicts. She knows that if you won't do what she wants she will just go to the next thirsty simp in line and ruin his life. And believe me, any half way attractive(and even most whales!) have a line of simps just waiting to be cucked and shucked. I …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:49 AM
216

"Find a woman, preferably alone, and walk up to her with a cocky or amused smirk. Look her right in the eyes, and say something absolutely bizarre, off-the-wall, perhaps even disgusting. Try on this little gem: "Can I pee in your butt?" Cut to next scene: you are being led away in hand cuffs and then the cop pushes your head down to get into the back of the car.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:33 PM
1

Yes, sometimes I feel like I've been transported back to some grainy VHS MLM video presentation circa 1990. I can't really understand where this is coming from.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 04:49 AM
1

This is almost universally what you see in the USA, except instead of being in short supply generally speaking, we see the market is artificially off balance because there are so many hambeasts (a higher percentage of women are overweight than men). So while the net effect is that women are less likely to settle down, it's not because of unwilling partners, it's because the women themselves price themselves out of the market when it's skewed like that, or have no intention of settling when the c…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:31 AM
33

This all gives women an awful lot of credit! Somehow I don't think that the average woman is introspective enough to benefit from most of this. In other words, you are assuming that a woman will have a logical reaction to being dumped gently. It also insinuates that women are unhappy(fickle, picky) because they have been hurt by men whereas I think that modern women are unhappy(fickle, picky) because they have been over-indulged since birth.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 11:58 PM
2

There is a lot of talk here about becoming "better men". "Better Man" to me means a certain type of obedience to some higher social/biological order as someone/something has to define the meaning of "better". Therefore playing by the rules. I see guys here still playing into hypergamy by trying to become Chads and then saying that they won. But it's still the female's frame because pussy tingles and all. I'm not necessarily endorsing what the OP wrote here but I agree with the spirit of his post…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 11:02 PM
5

Yes it is but I've seen lots of negative things said here about MGTOW also.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 10:53 PM
7

"This subreddit suggests that once you know the rules, the only thing you can do is to play by them." And this is the main thing that disturbs me about this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 10:00 PM
6

The receptacle of action is opportunity. Not everyone is working with the same amount or same quality of opportunities thus some find it harder to move from their minds and into action in the physical world. The problem with self help is that it over simplifies life and assumes a level playing field. It makes it's authors a lot of money because their readers would also like to believe these fantasies and simple, elegant solutions to complex problems.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:37 PM
1

If men will eventually get sentient AI sex robots with all the qualities that vile, spoiled modern women lack, then perhaps those vile women should eventually get a sort of AI child that will cuddle and call her "mommy" Cinco Boy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bqh_y-iH_Bc
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:11 PM
16

"Basically, checking out of the need for external validation & happiness. That's TRP. " That is EXACTLY what it has been for me and what a difference it has made! For me that is the very essence of TRP. If a man can cut his need to external validation he has made it. He is untouchable! That is a man who can create his own happiness and anything that is happening outside himself is just gravy. Sure, no man is an island but the man who can truly believe in himself RIGHT NOW, no matter where he may…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:50 PM
3

A woman admits to masturbating and people applaud. A man admits to masturbating and people put his name on a neighborhood watch list.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:00 PM
6

I actually have the theory that most women don't mind porn being available because it keeps men thirsty and it's like free advertisement for the main female "product"(pussy). Sexbots on the other hand ARE the product!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:54 PM
2

Notice how all activities that are not tied to money, work, "love", sex, physical strengthening, and social acceptance are spun as being "frivolous time wasters"? Hmmmm.... As Roosh pointed out this week in his latest article, if you are living in a civilized society away from nature, then you are always living under some else's frame. You just don't realize it. Now go make yourselves useful!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:33 PM
0

"If you are attractive, confident, assertive and have a dominant personality...guess what, you will make money. I have never heard of a man with those traits that is a broke loser." There are lots of guys sitting in prison right now without a dime to their name that have all those qualities, so there goes that theory.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:50 AM
-1

Very true. This sub gets too hung up on money. We all know the "bad boys" who cause girls moisture usually are not rich at all. They can barely afford their bikes and tats! But the thing they do right is develop a reputation that girls can identify quickly.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:22 PM
4

I would even go so far as to say that natural alphas are natural alphas because they are good looking. Like that old song said "I've been getting away with it all my life." If your looks have given you preferential treatment since a young age you will have learned that you can easily get away with being an asshole and/or giving out orders and people will naturally follow.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:17 PM
2

Very true. They want the best of both worlds. They want the opportunities that come from joining the tribe and they want the mystique of being the lone wolf.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 06:45 PM
8

Well what happens is that you have a lot of broken guys here looking for some kind of hope. So they hear Rollo or whoever talk about these magical Alpha men who get all the pussy and have power over other men. And they want that so bad, so they are off and running. But they don't have any clear blueprint for that so they hit the gym and start talking tough. The fake arrogance used to get to me as well but now I understand that they are just looking for answers to these obscure problems like the …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 06:43 PM
4

Nobody wants to end up as the "lone wolf" so they do whatever they can to stay within the confines of their "tribe" and many times are rewarded with opportunities for staying within the tribe. Modern humans have learned that intelligence doesn't matter as much as being a person that can be easily understood(generic).
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 05:02 PM
0

"To become a Real Man and visible to women you need to achieve something. Work on your body. Work on your career. Work on yourself, your circle of friends and your hobbies." Not enough, you have to also know how to treat them like dirt to "keep them on their toes" and give them the "challenge" that their feelz crave so badly.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 04:52 PM
2

Yes! SO VERY MUCH would change if guys would stop giving women so much attention! It's really THE thing that is needed now to change the sexual marketplace back to something that resembles sanity. Will it happen? Doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 04:26 PM
1

Alpha is alpha. We have been told many times that a woman's hypergamy is amoral, so why wouldn't a man's alpha-ness be amoral? Aren't both sexual strategies based upon amoral biology?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:36 PM
3

"so naturally we promote becoming the pro-social alpha." But the mods don't seem to eschew this when they say that TRP is a strictly sexual strategy complete with taking "short cuts". So is TRP a reactionary strategy to hypergamy? Or is it something all encompassing for a man and how he interacts with women AND men? THIS seems to be the point that this sub can't seem to decide upon.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:33 PM
1

Actually it was Rollo in his last audio interview that said that there were lots of alphas in prison.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 10:36 PM
9

"Then take on the responsibility of your role and treat the other roles with respect. That's what an alpha male does." But what about all the criminal alphas out there walking around in the world? I really don't think they give two shits about respect or their "role" yet they are still alphas. I'm not encouraging guys to be like that, but we make a lot of assumptions here about what is alpha and what is not when women don't seem to care about whether you are a constructive alpha or a destructive…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:14 PM
8

Well this pretty much totally goes against the "strategy" post which states: "The strategist is the man who takes the shortest, easiest path which leads to his goal. He does not waste his energy and time on unnecessary flourishes. He does not despise short cuts as a "cop-out"."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:18 PM
4

If you want some RP country music do a Youtube search for Townes Van Zandt. Lots of RP lyrics in his songs.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:28 PM
2

Brilliant! The idea of "luck" gets ignored too much around here and in this society in general. Only bad luck is acknowledged. Good luck is usually brushed off as a product of "hard work" which is usually not the case. Connections are the most powerful thing in the world. So if you don't come from a connected family and you are not a people person then you have a steep hill to climb.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 07:34 PM
18

I can see a future where the majority of women become so obese, entitled, crazy and narcissistic that even alphas won't want to touch them.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 11:26 PM
2

You make a good point. I would also add that I consider any man who's eyes are now open to the true nature of women to be RP. The man may not know what to do with the information yet but just obtaining the knowledge, to me, signals RP. Some men may need to be angry or depressed for years until it all sinks in, some men may need to go out right away and lift aggressively, some men may turn PUA, some may go MGTOW, some may do a combination of them all but in the end the most important thing is tha…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:35 PM
1

"You know what real manliness is? shut up, work on yourself, stop complaining, and start fucking succeeding by any means necessary. " Yet here you are complaining about other men complaining when you could have been lifting!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:12 PM
2

I can understand why they are calling him a beta bitch but I can't understand where they think there is some great reward for holding frame with a woman. We've already established that women cannot love you or even be a friend, so other than biological needs, how is all this work worth it? What exactly does a modern woman bring to the table other than her vagina and womb? I guess some dudes need a challenge to feel alive.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 07:43 PM
9

I once had a woman tell me that she hates herself so badly deep down that if a man shows her affection she will find him disgusting because there must be something wrong with him for liking her. Now try wrapping your head around that one!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 07:35 PM
2

"I've come to the point where comments from red pillers seem... alien to me. "MAINTAIN THAT FRAME, DUDE!" "DREAD THE FUCK OUTTA HER!". "NEVER DO X!". "NEVER DO Y!" I agree. I think many here still see women as the "prize" to be obtained and kept but rather than using blue pill tactics(provider-ship) they attempt to expend energy with using tingles instead. In either scenario it's the woman who wins, and the "prize" ain't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 04:36 PM
2

The man's only mistake was getting married! Listen folks, marriage or LTR with a modern woman is like a bucket of turds with the handles on the inside. If a woman wants me to be her "rock" then she better damn well be soft, feminine, and (gasp) submissive. If a woman can't be the ying to my yang then exactly what am I getting out of the relationship? A buddy who I get to fuck once a month(maybe) and listen to them bitch the rest of the time? Bad deal!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:55 PM
6

Nobody should be surprised by this outcome. Women have been told for decades "you don't need a man." At some point it was bound to sink into the collective consciousness of women. Then men assisted in making themselves obsolete. Well here we are, we are for the most part obsolete and we aren't happy about it. We have given them total solipsism complete with their own little digital networks. Why should we be shocked that they don't reciprocate physical touches from the men they are with? Their f…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 12:54 AM
1

I'm don't consider myself a MGTOW but I don't think we should be shaming MGTOWS for any reason. Let's not forget that not so long ago men had no organized way of comparing notes. Now we got TRP with different variations under that umbrella and I think that they are all good even though I may not agree with every facet of them. The female environment is so toxic that ANYTHING that can get a man thinking differently can save him from an incredible amount of pain! Let's not forget that most men don…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:41 PM
1

Didn't Rollo even just say in an interview that there are plenty of alphas in prison?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:32 AM
1

well it was my first time and having someone talk me through it helped.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:40 PM
1

Tried meditation for the first time the other night by using a guided meditation video on youtube. I always thought it was a big joke but afterward I noticed that my memory, which hasn't been too good lately, was much better. Now I'm starting to think there is something to all of this meditation stuff!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 05:37 PM
3

You are 100% correct with this post, but I'll tell you one thing gentlemen, if we didn't have testosterone why would we even bother dealing with such a fickle and mixed up group of people?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 09:43 PM
2

"where have all the leaders gone?" 40+ years of tearing down masculinity and the fact that very few men had/have good role models.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:49 PM
1

It's very simple, from the moment they exit the womb they get non-stop validation from their parents, the education system, the media, the internet, and of course all the thirsty dudes who start lining up when they reach a certain age. What possible motive could they possibly have to be a better person? That is like asking a rock star knee deep in pussy, drugs and money to change and be a better person. He would laugh right in your face!
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:43 PM
1

So "value" is about turning yourself into a yuppie circa 1986 with a 1st edition copy of "Think and Grow Rich" in your designer briefcase?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:13 AM
1

BigBrother14, can you please front me $500,000 seed money to set all this in motion, thanks. Your's Truly, Whiskey (just a yoke)
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:32 AM
1

"what she is really doing is making a cry for you to love her and be more present to the moment with her. " I don't agree with that. I think that constant female bitching is a psychological tactic they use to wear people down. After all, it's every woman's dream to find a big strong alpha and then wear him down just enough that she can control his power and use it to her own advantage.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:06 AM
13

A slave is a slave even if his master feeds him the better slop for harder work. I thought TRP was about breaking free from the slavery. Let's also not forget all the self destructive, criminal, bad boys who do NOTHING to improve themselves and still bang plenty of bitches!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:04 PM
29

"Now, go lift and get in that top 1% of males so these women will start sucking your dick." I sure hope that is sarcasm! A man should never improve himself for the purpose of gaining a woman's approval or acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:16 PM
16

Sounds like an awful lot of work for a wet hole and the "respect" of other men. But hey, if it gives some dudes a purpose to go on then I guess it's worth it. Myself, the further I get into TRP the less a wet hole or the "respect" of other men mean to me. I don't feel the same need for either. Instead I just get more IDGAF which seems to convey power all by itself.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 07:26 PM
1

Wow, that is just awful! How do these guys live like this?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:41 AM
1

My uncle brought one to America after he was stationed in Japan with the Marines back in the 60s. She came to America, married my uncle, had kids, gained weight, and never worked a day(as far I know), my uncle worked hard at a factory and she controlled ALL the money, he had to ask permission to buy something with the money HE made! She gave him an allowance! She was an excellent cook though and she was always super nice to us kids in the family, I do have to give her that. So I guess I have alw…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:17 AM
3

My view of an alpha male is a man who totally accepts himself wherever he may be in life with zero need for external validation and approval from anybody. This is a man who does not base his sense of value as a person on external factors. He has no need to seek the approval of others, he has nothing to prove to others.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:53 AM
2

I've been thinking a lot about how a man needs to embrace "resistance" in all it's forms, however he should not do so in order to become a "better" man but rather in order to create an immunity to resistance.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:04 PM
1

"I see a lot of people boasting of "alpha" behavior that sounds to me more like the "hasty or shrill" description mentioned above. " Yes, I have a very big problem accepting the alpha "character" that the whole manisphere seems to have adopted because it does seem to be based on a certain type of anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:58 PM
1

Thanks for this list. I have saved it!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:51 PM
2

"What have you done to build a life where a good woman will love you for just being you?" Well, here is where we differ because you are seeing woman's love as a "prize" where TRP makes me see a woman's love as something ordinary and transient. I'm not angry about that fact but I do believe that when these guys say AWALT they are telling the truth. I've experienced it myself. After TRP, a woman's love seems very cheap to me and certainly nothing that should motivate a guy to build a life in hopes…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:15 AM
10

"What can be hard to find is a positive definition of what a good RP life can look like" Yes, this is what I've been struggling with. There is a lot of anger. A lot of guys trying to learn game. A lot of guys hitting the gym. None of those are bad, in fact I've done all three in the last two years, but they aren't exactly what I'm looking for myself at this moment. I'm not interested in using TRP to pull pussy or gain status. I'm looking for a certain enlightenment, an inner peace. I want a simp…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:11 AM
1

Classy. Yep, guess you are better than me...oh well...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 03:53 AM
1

"If you are an exemplary male you will have your choice from great women who are also exemplary people." Good luck with that, bro!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 09:09 PM
2

I can understand your point but you must admit that the vast majority of modern American females are not "amazing people". I think you are being too idealistic here.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:21 PM
2

I am NOT angry just being realistic. Are you guys surrounded by unicorns? I guess you aren't dealing with American women.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:53 PM
3

Excellent! It's sad, but I now assume that every woman I talk to is severely broken in some way.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:08 AM
1

No! We have fought long enough! Society has given us a fake battle! We NEVER win this battle. And if you notice, all of the qualities that make a man "alpha" are all female-centric qualities! Meaning they all directly benefit females! I'm actually starting to see "alpha" and "beta" as two sides to the same coin. Both sides are defined by female frame. We should not be using female desires for a blue print of what makes the perfect man! Instead we should be all about self-ownership. Or to paraphr…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:38 PM
6

I like this! It's true that most of the men I know simply do not have time to even think. They are run ragged... TRP really does need to advocate men dropping out of "the Game" in my honest opinion. If we could focus less on SMV(which is pretty much determined by where you stand in "the Game") and instead focus more on reclaiming our time we could really change things quickly!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:07 PM
3

TRP is about being your OWN man, PERIOD! It's not about plates, sex, achievement, improvement, threesomes, or money. It is about PROVIDING YOUR OWN IDENTITY FOR YOURSELF apart from how you relate to women. Sounds easy right? WRONG! Men generally derive their sense of self through doing things to attract and keep a woman. The woman is always their point of reference. You can see this all around you. It is pretty much the definition of Blue Pill. When you take TRP what you are doing is deriving yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 07:04 PM
3

You know, I once had a LTR propose to me. We had spoken of marriage before and she said that she would not take the man's last name because of all the hassle to change everything in her paperwork(driver's license, passport, ect.) I told her that I simply could not marry a woman who would not take a man's last name because here she was asking me to basically give up the rest of my life's freedom while she got to pick n' choose the parts that were "inconvenient" for her and if she was gonna do tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 09:22 PM
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Maybe I'll watch it tonight. I've had about 4 people now say that I MUST see that movie. That and Blue Valentine, which I haven't seen either.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:37 PM
2

Yes, I'm the same. I'm somewhere in between MGTOW and TRP. I agree that the MGTOW guys seem too angry but when I was in my anger phase they seemed right on the money. But now I'm not really all that angry at women, I just see them for what they are. The fantasy has been beat out of me. Right now I'm just trying to figure out exactly what I am passionate about.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 05:30 PM
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I hear ya brother! I'm about to sell off my collection of audio equipment. I would rather see that $$$ in my bank account than see this stuff sitting in closets collecting dust! And can you believe that I have yet to see Fight Club?!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:31 PM
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I have no desire to pass on my genes but I too have gone through TRP stages and am at a "now what?" stage. It's different from the nihilism and depression stages (both of which hit me hard) because now I feel like a whole person whereas before TRP I never felt like a whole person. The question now is what to do with the new found freedom. Right now I feel like having more fun and downsizing my life to as small and simple as possible. One strange side effect of TRP for me has been the fact that I…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 05:39 PM
3

Thanks man for this breakdown!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 07:37 PM
3

"because honestly Tinder’s the ‘final boss stage’ of the dating site world" What does this mean? I was thinking about playing around with Tinder. Not worth the effort? Oh and this was an excellent piece of writing about a topic I've been thinking about a lot lately. I know for a fact that I am a dopamine addict and I know for a fact that it is affecting my happiness. But I've been trying to ween myself off all these modern addictions. Sometimes I just force myself to turn everything off and sit …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 06:26 PM
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YES!!!!! Finally a dude telling me to have fun instead of telling me how lifting is the answer! This is precisely the time when men should be goofing off. We live in a society(ironically built by men) that is telling us to "get lost" and that we are dumb dirty animals. Why in the hell should we be improving ourselves to be of more/show more value to such a place? For 30 minutes in a well used wet hole? I think this guy has it right. I bet the average guy could get laid just as much by focusing o…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 06:12 PM
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Oh yes, I agree, I'm just so EXTREMELY happy to see guys coming together finally even if the ideas are wildly scattered.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 01:14 AM
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No, I do not want to spend my very finite and relatively short years of my life on this planet thinking of myself as a product. This is like yuppie thinking from some bygone era. Also, let's not forget that there are plenty of scroungy criminal types getting many repeat sales! I can guarantee you that these guys are not sitting around and thinking of themselves as a product. They are thinking about what kind of shit they can get into next and the pussy just comes like moths to a flame. I don't k…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 01:10 AM
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"If you want to not care what women think at all your mindset is perhaps more suited to MGTOW." I think what I need is something in between MGTOW and TRP. That seems to be where I fall but there doesn't seem to be any official title for this segment yet. Maybe the "takeitorleaveits"? LOL I have no plans on cutting women out of my life completely and I also have no plans on spending any large amount of energy attracting or keeping them either. If they come, they will have to come easy, if they do…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 12:25 AM
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I think something that TRP needs to address is how men handle loneliness. I never see that addressed here. In fact, I see the opposite, men trying to avoid loneliness with a passion. I think that the fear of loneliness hits men harder than anything else because we know that when we are alone that we are TRULY alone! Women don't fear because they are seldom alone for long. There is always some thirsty dude coming along ready to give her a hit of validation no matter how obese or crazy she is. Plu…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:28 PM
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Now wait a minute, the Red Pill basically states that I'm not supposed to supplicate to a woman but here you are telling me that I need to spend a ton of money to dress a certain way in order to display my "value" to some pussy?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:53 PM
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The basis(being able to walk away) of this writing is very true BUT here again we are playing the social validation game. "good-looking, successful, interesting, fun, skilled, and socially apt" all equal usefulness to other people. These qualities don't exist in a vacuum, the very reason they are considered qualities (with societal/feminine rewards) is because they are useful to society/women. (Meanwhile dudes are sitting in prison getting fan mail from womenz! Makes ya think!) If you are improv…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:35 PM
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American females are toxic and simply NOT worth marrying at any age!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:45 PM
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Men don't need all that to be RP!!!! Here is TRP in two easy points: Don't need so much validation from other people Do whatever the fuck you want(within the law..) We do NOT have to turn ourselves into some over-achieving stereotype like out of some movie! The best part of TRP is that we are free!!! We don't need to slave and change ourselves to "earn" other people's respect. People who are so self involved with their own lives they couldn't give two shits about all your "success" UNLESS there …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:32 AM
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Yep, it only took me 43 years to learn that it's ok for social interactions to be woefully imperfect. In fact, many people will like you better if you don't make total sense to them cause at least you ain't boring.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 07:45 PM
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"If you truly want something, earn it and ONLY when you earn it will others notice and tell you (that is how you know that you have earned it)" I actually think that TRP will eventually get past this mode of thinking. I understand why guys keep talking about "earning" and being "better" but these things go back to the same old patterns of social validation. In other words, this idea that a man must always prove himself. But then we talk about alpha behavior and these seem to be men who validate …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:47 PM
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It ain't worth it anymore gentlemen. Always remember AWALT!!! It's unreasonable to expect ANY modern woman to be a good wife/mother.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 06:34 PM
1

I understand your point. But the main chant from society(WOMEN) to men is that you always need to be a "better" man. "MAN UP!" They always want more, more, more from men. So by telling men to "alpha up" even in a RP way seems, to me, to be telling them the same message that society is telling them and that is that they always have to be "better" so they can please their masters more fully BUT, by framing it in a way that makes it look likes it's for the man's own benefit. Do you see the cycle he…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 07:02 PM
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I guess the main thing I'm questioning here in my middle age is if I really need all the stuff from other people that I've always thought I've needed. All I really need is to survive somewhat comfortably and have some fun now and then. Simple. The longer I swallow TRP the more I see how the "rat race" is fueled by female interests.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:40 PM
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"Three steps to becoming someone better - a man who people will respect and reward." This seems like the exact opposite of what a RP guy should be striving for. We should be learning to not give a fuck about other people's respect and rewards cause that is living life on their terms. And we all know that their terms are about ALOT of work for very little(or no) payout. I thought the goal here was to not need all this external validation anymore. And what is it with all this lifting talk around h…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:19 PM
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"If you haven't pushed yourself far enough in interactions with women to build that confidence, then I urge you to take that hour challenge." Haven't we pushed ourselves enough for women over the last million-billion years? To me TRP signals a time for men to be more leisurely. If the pussy comes(and it probably will) then great, if it doesn't, well, you aint gonna die(even though women and society will make you think that you will to keep you in supplication mode)! We actually need to STOP chas…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:02 PM
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I actually think that RP men should take their new found freedom and learn to just "be" instead of participating in this rat race/dick contest that society has created for us.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:24 PM
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Funny thing, before I swallowed the red pill I was going to the gym and practically killing myself trying to look as good to women as possible. After I swallowed the red pill I still go to the gym but now I go at a more leisurely pace in order to maintain health and well being and just for something to do. In other words, now I do it for ME! I do think that we need to be careful when we start talking about "being a better man" or else we could fall into the "good little boy" trap that was mentio…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 10:52 PM
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